Accidentally Bro-Zoning Guys with pH-1 | GET REAL Ep. #29

Yes, we know you all love pH-1's "Harry Situations" that he throws at our hosts to see how they'd confront or deal with potential odd life scenarios. Well, we put them all to the test with a special episode where he and our hosts discuss your situations that you've shared with us on our Discord. Letsgetit.
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Timestamps
0:00 - Introduction: A Very Harry Special
1:15 - Situation #1: Comparing Yourself to Others
5:31 - Situation #2: An Introvert With Nothing To Do
8:59 - Situation #3: Too Busy For Friends
17:37 - Situation #4: First Job Woes And Anxiety
21:48 - FYI: How To Send Us Messages!
22:08 - Situation #5: Un-Bro-Zoning A Bro
35:51 - Wrap Up + Outro
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[@hluna02]

Thanks so much ♡

[@neikabrown9198]

Add Harry to the co-host🙈. Make episodes with BM, Peniel, Ashley, and PH-1

[@aaliyahxexo2704]

make harry a co host please!!

[@meghnagoswami4540]

Add Harry as a co host guys pls😭

[@PinkRose0910]

I hope Ashley is back for the next episode.

[@ashleybchoi]

Omggggg i wish i could’ve been there 😩😩 so many things i wanna tell these boysssssss

[@rizamercury2546]

Hahahha yass ..😆😆

[@daltonw5281]

we missed u ashley 😭😭

[@arelidelgado]

lol they really be thinking everything is a sign😆

[@Eliza_1]

We miss you!!!

[@mariaramirez-sn6ig]

I MISS U WHERR ARE U??

[@Dowoon_is_a_drum]

Petition to have pH-1 as a permanent host and to add "Harry's scenario" as a part of the podcast.

[@sanjanasiswas]

Start a petition!!!!

[@inaayasiddiqui6380]

YES PLEASE IM BEGGING-

[@meriamf]

where do i sign

[@abeedahfarjan]

YES

[@kardnews981]

where should i sign

[@shakoradeshaye]

Ashley was definitely missed in this episode. Y’all definitely needed a female perspective in the room😭.

[@armymydaycaratnctzenatinyaroha]

Frrrr, i was literally answering everything as they talked

[@oriono2470]

Amen to that I debunking a lot of ways they call flirting lol

[@ItsBrittanyLajoyce]

No let the men talk we hear female perspectives all the time

[@triz8399]

actually I know they should help the girl with her concern but I kind find it interesting to watch the guys create their own reasoning about the topic XD it may be wrong in the female point view but at least we know what they actually think in the same situation

[@oriono2470]

@@triz8399 for sure, I thought it was pretty funny cuz I never realized guys thought that way

[@edenthoughts]

not harry saying he would distance himself to come back later looking better, like, i swear his fanfic writer’s ass is too much for me 😩

[@fatiguemei2965]

YEAHH REALLY I LOST IT WHEN HE SAID THAT, HE BE COMIN W SOME STRATEGY LOL

[@rossl995]

He would definitely pursue her until he can't chase her no more.

[@BRiGHT-CHilD]

Lol I haven't finished the whole video yet but what is this about Harry writing fanfic?? 😂😂

[@edenthoughts]

@@BRiGHT-CHilD watch from 26:00 on to understand

[@catchthesedreams92]

not just 26:42 but also 29:40 be fanfic/romance webtoon material too😂 nah, but i would say he's a hopeless romantic....like me😂i be thinking up scenarios and then calling myself out for thinking too unrealistically

[@abbygonzalez8386]

This episode gave me big Penelope, Matilda, and Harriet vibes they were so giggly

[@blessed_cursed_stan877]

omg that got me😂😂

[@justSunny7]

Op really called dude Harriet 😂😂😂

[@catchthesedreams92]

NOT HARRIET IM-

[@sierre1974]

pH-1: to some people, their only true friend is their dog. Peniel: damn.. that's deep and sad. pH-1: I was talking about me.

[@koffelemon]

" I can't remember the last time I was bro zone" - harry, 2021 I need that quote on a T-shirt.

[@Cleeeeee26]

Honestly Harry needs to become a permanent host😂😂they need to get Jay Park on this podcast and also get Got7 on here now that they have freedom 😂

[@eliaah315]

I totally agree. GOT7 Mark lezgo

[@SittieSaheda]

Yes! Pls guest Mark, BB and/or Jackson

[@GymnasticChickz]

omg yes!! Amerithaikong would be incredible on here

[@agentapple2674]

Has Mark gone back to LA? If not, he could be a quick guest on Dive before going back XD

[@Okayme8080]

Yeah!! Got7

[@astha9098]

Okay i need dive studio to do 3 thing for betterment of society.. 1- Making harry permanent. 2- Calling Mark tuan from GOT7 to get real cause he is American too. 3- Calling Jay Park to get real cause i want to see BM reaction.

[@walnut5203]

And bang Chan please 🥺

[@miamarino2593]

mark isn't korean he's taiwanese but i agree he should be on!!

[@walnut5203]

@@miamarino2593 and maybe mark from nct 👀

[@astha9098]

@@miamarino2593 ah really I'm sorry i knew he was of Taiwanese descent but i thought one of his parent was Korean....

[@astha9098]

@@walnut5203 agree felix too but i didn't take thier name because their group is on peak currently and mostly their decision are taken by their company so chances are less but Mark is free now and might appear if got invited..

[@tpnv8698]

I love how everyone in the comment section is Harry's fangirl/fanboy

[@angelove0019]

How can you not be! He's so real ❤️💯

[@anniemakharoblidze8344]

he deserve more support giiirl

[@armymydaycaratnctzenatinyaroha]

As we all should, pH-1 deserves so much love

[@amt0310]

I just lost it when Harry went "I'll change my name to bro" xDDD It would have been cool to have Ashley give the girls' perspective even tho every person is different

[@dorothys.6951]

"What if the girl's cute though........ and goal oriented?" LOOOOL

[@deobinnie]

"she goal-oriented" hmmm "she's sexy" "super passionate" HMmm "loves hip-hop" HMMm "loves YOUR music: HMMMM hmm hmm hmm hmm IM DYING HAHAHAHAHAHAHA

[@ghizlb7378]

😂😂😂😂

[@ukulelenoob65]

i know that 😂

[@sexyeria]

I just want to throw something out there from a female perspective: I know you all are speaking in generals, but a lot of times what guys think of as flirting may not be the same to the female-like for me, I tend to giggle a lot and I'm pretty touchy with my friends that I'm close with, but I'm not flirting that's just how I am; also another thought for ME personally, it's easier for me to flirt w/someone I am NOT interested in vs guys I am interested in and I've heard that same sentiment from some other female friends- just sayin'

[@camilla9422]

its way easier to flirt with someone i have no interest in,, also guys tend to get confused with girls who have "flirtatious" ways although its not flirtatious but its common signs of flirtatiousness and so they would think "oh this girl like me" but in reality its not like that, its just who you are as a person. My friend is like that and she would constantly drape herself over my, now, ex and i wouldn't like that even though i know that's how she is as a person. im not saying you're like that i just felt like to share that piece of info

[@camilla9422]

also im not good with words so don't think im being mean or anything i just don't know how to express myself 💀 also im not into touching people a lot so when i want to give signs to someone that i like them or into them, i try to change my smile or the way i look at them

[@oriono2470]

Yah, I am the same way. I don't really mean it in a very flirty way. I just really care about my friends and love being around ppl

[@camilla9422]

@@oriono2470 i feel like men need to understand that different women have different ways to flirt if that makes sense

[@camilla9422]

Just so they don't misunderstand

[@omgnoway7467]

“ What if they just have insomnia “ 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@bea4899]

Still waiting for the day that Ashley, BM, Peniel and Harry are in one episode. C’mon Dive give pH-1 his own permanent chair on Get Real’s table.

[@CoreChick]

I think for now they can't cuz I heard in korea you're only allowed to be in groups of 4 or smaller and they need Diane in the room too--shes the girl off screen who does everything for basically every dive podcast. Maybe when quarantine lightens up, whenever that is.

[@ilhuriwjsn4951]

As of now Ph1 is really busy, he is filming a lot (Pepsi collab with other idols and High School Rapper 4 as a judge, his own music carrer) so it might not be possible! Doing a couple episodes like this is already fun

[@Aligirrl26]

bro plssss

[@blackchae_]

I'mma wait till this podcast have 5 permanent peeps discussing on topics like this😂🙌

[@Thefemininewithinsharika]

They didddd!!!!

[@justfloatingthrough2457]

"I need the details!" - Peniel Made me laugh every time haha.

[@JASMIN-oq2px]

make harry a permanant host we’re literally begging

[@janzelchoi5096]

They’re really feeding us Ph-1 content and im living for it ☺️ they really want us full

[@yook_sasha]

"I need the details" - PENIEL 2021 xD ahahahaah

[@bikiefanny1224]

he needs the "D" "etails" lmao

[@yook_sasha]

@@bikiefanny1224 omgoshh😂😂😂🙊

[@bikiefanny1224]

@Li Sacha peniel really doing the most

[@fotiniz]

Anyone else felt Harry's scenarios are based on personal experience? They are always so specific also I can't flirt for my life 😂and this was my favorite episode

[@Lady_JUNSU]

True 😂😂 its weird how he tried to tell it without saying "its my experience" but we kinda feel "it must be his personal experience"

[@annat-s3431]

"Imma change my name to bro" LMFAO, I love this man so much 💀❤ Also, damn the chemistry these guys have is amazing. I love it and its fun to watch/listen.

[@alee8739]

16:09 Peniel just wanted a high five too 😭 oh pls he's so precious

[@lesliecardenas8950]

Sometimes girls call guys they like “bro” because we want to show that we’re cool too and that they should hang out with us more, does that make sense?

[@minie350]

Agree. I call my guys friends bro because I feel closer that way to them as "their homie" lmaoo

[@adamo2993]

Agree. I call my close older guys friends 'hyung' and they call me 'dongseng' even tho im girl

[@Army13_06]

We should do this episode one more time with Ashley sitting next to them talking about relationship.

[@mollyc8800]

their conversations are so hilarious especially when they trail off with the “ok but what if” questions 😭

[@AngieYoo]

can harry be permanent cohost 😭😭😭

[@Narywho]

Agree!!!!! ❤️

[@Monica.hsxmnca]

Agree

[@DevSingh-lb3zv]

Nah the og three are good enough

[@medioreblatherskite]

@@DevSingh-lb3zv fr i kinda want it to stay as the og 3 since theyre dynamic is really show that theyre old friends. i dont mind harry being a guest tho.

[@sherinflaurensia818]

This is an official petition! Ahaha

[@gfriendsbuddyguard1564]

26:27 "I will change my name to Bro!" That killed me 🤣 That, and BM saying maybe she's the one getting friendzoned, like OUCH, but possible.

[@TabithaAphra]

The bro zone section should have been a full episode with all 4 hosts! Ash would have given girls perspective too then!

[@kunkunnnnn]

Exactly

[@mm.p1325]

yessss please do this!

[@sherinflaurensia818]

I think we need "Bro-Zoning, Friend-Zoning, and Flirtation" between these 3 boys + Ashley. You need to listen to girl's perspectives too. That would be seriously fun, I swear!

[@minal7701]

I can't believe ph-1 is this romantic 😂😂😂 Thank you Dive team for bringing him on the show, it's so much fun

[@christinemilloroso8439]

Seriously, pH-1 on the Dive Studios please please don't ghost us :c

[@alystoryteller]

Drink water everytime Peniel say "for sure." Stay hydrated guys!

[@elvianisaragih9416]

We need ashley to clarify what girls do when flirting guy

[@pnlsprkls]

Their mini high five 😭 ♡

[@hluna02]

Peniel 'I wish I clicked I want it too' Here they're 😂 🤛✊🤜

[@ristamaimai6336]

When BM said "host by with Us" I think omg Harry finally join in this program as host 😂

[@hangwithme6196]

Harry situations are the best. i'm deprived and need more lol

[@marktuanbestboy1332]

i've already listened to this episode on spotify yesterday but i'm here again to see their faces & their reactions 🤪

[@joonie5107]

Don’t be shy make Harry a permanent co-host of get real! Like seriously speaking I want him on the show. It’s just so fun to have him on here and his voice is so soothing. He always tries to make everyone laugh and when someone goes off topic he finds a way to bring the topic back up. Seriously please I’m begging at this point make him a co-host!!!!

[@siouxzieq17]

OMG! I LOVE Peniel's simplicity and straightforwardness!! Do you know how many women would LOVE to NOT have to read minds!? 🙋🏼‍♀️🙏🏼🤗😻

[@skytime9444]

WHY IS HARRY SO FUNNY IM CRYING AT ALL OF HIS RESPONSES FOR THE BRO QUESTION

[@MaeIng]

These boys are mad funny. We need PH1 to be a permanent cast

[@hereforsik]

Life would be so beautiful if only we had more people like Peniel. He’s just so simple and minding his own life.

[@marktuanbestboy1332]

"hosted by us, Peniel" lol BM 😂

[@mariewee2671]

This is such perfect timing since I have finished listening to all the other episodes and was itching for a new one. I absolutely love the chemistry between BM, Peniel, and pH-1 (Harry). Can we please make pH-1 (Harry) a permanent co-host?

[@daisylovebtob8583]

Many comments about PH-1, I love his voice, everything about him. But Peniel so precious

[@MrPandajacks]

Peniel to pH-1 : I need the details Harry! Peniel to BM : I need the details BM! 😆😆😆

[@yoyis137]

I literally couldn't drink any water while watching this!!!!!! 😂😂 Thanks guys, I really needed to laugh today! ♥️ P.S.: Harry's "hmm hmm hmm hmm hmm" it's my new favorite sound in this entire world

[@inaayasiddiqui6380]

bruhhh i literally tried drinking water and i just cHOKED PLEASEESHDHSJ

[@3AsianBoi]

I see Ph-1 & I click

[@kaasmere4522]

The bro zone part of the episode really has me in tears 💀 Bc it just made me realize that I say “bro” wayyy too much. I don’t think girls mean to bro zone people though like I literally call everyone “bro” my mom, cousins, girl/guy friends, dog etc. 💀 It’s just a habit that I can’t help lol. I guess people view it a different way though. But these three are funny as always, might as well have Harry join the cast or give him his own podcast called “ A Harry Situation” or something like that 💀😭

[@shakoradeshaye]

Yes 😭😭😭. Bro/Bruh is apart of my dialect.

[@kaasmere4522]

@@shakoradeshaye Right 😭 like idk when or how it happened it just did 💀. I say it in like every two sentences it’s bad 💀

[@gerla1473]

I'm just gonna say it.. Harry is the only person I've ever seen that actually rocks a bucket hat

[@Kimnjoshuamonet]

I love this episode. Its so amazing. Peniel's "what if she has insomnia?" was so innocent, practical and funny.

[@Seema-gy9dy]

The vibes that this podcast has are immaculate🥂. Also Ph-1 deffo needs to become a regular cast member with Ash, Penial & BM

[@jenwithluv4066]

damn when harry said he doesn’t remember the last time he was brozoned 💀💀💀

[@colleencaezar7015]

Honestly feel like Harry should be apart of the panel at DIVE Studios

[@anatrindade7753]

"But it's a friend that's cute though... and goal-oriented" 😂😂😂😂

[@katkat6297]

Omggg pH-1 needs to be a permanent host 😫😭

[@nessk7825]

BM’s looking extra cute on this podcast I like the green outfit 🥰

[@OhNomi93]

"What if they just have insomnia?" was the most relatable line 😂😂😂

[@aneisap7517]

Dive Studios, please make Harry a permanent co-host...

[@daniellesdigidiary]

nah girls really be timing our responses to guys. literally he messages and then we'll time It to be like 10 minutes to not seem clingy lol

[@alexisford-campbell3140]

On god😂🤣

[@melissaelizabethvalenzuela5641]

Yall, ik dive pods got so many podcasts right now, but fr we need a bro podcast with these three

[@dickidsrip5262]

i love how they seem like good friends now

[@daniellepreece5881]

They're all romantic's at heart. I love these convo's so much. Seeing BM get giddy is the cutest thing ever. Also can we talk about PH-1's sexy throat noises for a second?? Dying over here.

[@its_zombirella]

To whoever left their dislike please come and pick it up we don't do that here😑✋🏾

[@priyankashrivastav772]

Friend zone and bro zone is completely different. In bro zone, it's like treating someone like your own brother and family member. And it's a big nono after bro zoning someone.

[@GBY005]

Peniel is so real i love it. He doesnt play games, just straight up

[@valrey5535]

i feel like they really needed Ashley this episode for that girl perspective XD

[@karenconcerts]

We got spoiled with so much pH-1 these past 3 weeks - thank you Dive Studios!! ❤️❤️❤️

[@carlitav97]

Peniel: I NEED DETAILS Jakskakskajshs pls give the man the details he wants to hear, spill the tea you people 😂😂😂😂 loved this episode so much, fav boys ❤️

[@ivychristiane4461]

Can Harry be a regular???

[@kevinle1379]

Is it just me or Harry’s voice so soothing

[@bootleg_skywalker3673]

peniel's"what if they have insomnia" is such a mood istg xD you cant bro zone me cause I already bro zoned myself lol

[@its_frito]

8:14 it does help us. Especially knowing that the advice/talk is coming from these great artist whom we love makes everything 100x better. For that, I would like to say thank you to BM, pH-1, and Peniel for taking time out of your hands to have these conversations and answer our questions. You all are a great help and thanks for the positivity :D ♥♥♥

[@byAbbyO]

"I need the "D"etails!" ...LOL

[@canelliabarrett2867]

After listening to the podcast yesterday Me: kinda contemplating whether to like ph1's photo from 2 years🤣🤣 (Research Purpose Only).

[@neikabrown9198]

I love Harry on Get Real. He needs to be added to the co-host. Along with BM, Peniel and Ashley

[@killjadeskye]

This is definitely one of my fave podcast with Harry. I'm like Peniel, if I like someone I'm very straight forward. But if I'm not interested, THEN I try to give clues until they straight up ask me if I'm interested

[@mushroommalo]

OMG HARRY'S SCENARIOS/ SITUATIONS YESSSIRRRR🙌🏽🔥

[@alexialecter6935]

These people knowing what they're doing having Harry agaaaaaaain!

[@alexandrabichir3240]

To everyone saying 'petition to have pH-1 as a permanent host' YOU KNOW THAT I AM SIGNING THE PETITION WITH NO HESITATION

[@elvianisaragih9416]

I wanna see ashley and ph-1 again

[@queenkaimikasa227]

SHOUTOUT to the Girl who had "Bro-Zoning" Question as we know we had fantastic Awesome Uwu Uwu notorious moments from the Hosts 🤣🤪🤣🤣

[@majmariano5576]

My new weekend habit. Missing ashley though... Hoping Harry will be a co-host too, Dive Studios bekenemen 😁

[@SittieSaheda]

These dorks 😭🥺 i love their chemistry so much!! Ph-1 needs to be a permanent co-host or pls have him more often. Pretty please, Dive Studios?

[@mirialysperez2047]

😍I agree😍

[@jackiehuizar616]

31:30 PENIEL LOL 😂😭

[@evelinaairapetova5827]

What a fun episode! istg this combination is pure gold. The 3 have different insights that really cover perfectly different aspects of each topic.

[@deedeedami4712]

Awe nice to see you again Harry hope you stay on the show 🙏🏻🥺! And dang yall are hilarious 😆. More Harry situations! 😂😂😂

[@jasminkaye3118]

Eyyy I’m early❤️ Dive Studios please make Harry a permanent cohost🙏🏼

[@graxiaarevalo5570]

I'm here for Harry situations...

[@christinemilloroso8439]

Funniest episode for me, the vibe of these 3 dorks is on another funny level. So much love for Big Matthew's big reactions. Lol ^^

[@adryelleg]

peniel's honesty

[@sweetheart6859]

Paniel you my type boyy💁‍♀️💕💕

[@DeeRafatSweileh]

"Be ready to fail" Harry, that scares the crap out of me.. Idk why it's so hard to be okay with it, but it is.. Even though I know it will happen, it still stresses me to think of failing..

[@chrisvinside7364]

I appreciate pniel for doing this podcast with his mask on. Dude, u got my respect.

[@Narywho]

I was too excited for this!!

[@britneylynne18]

I loved this episode! Seriously, you guys could've kept talking for hours and I would've appreciated it! Such good vibes on a day I needed something to lift my mood. Thank you!

[@britt0822]

Seriously, watching Get Real episodes (and other Dive Studios Podcasts) has been my saving grace last semester and this semester. I listen to and halfway watch episodes while I'm working on art projects alone in my dorm. It feels like listening to a group of friends talk about and discuss the most random stuff. It's great and helps me keep focused when I'm working for sometimes 3-4 hours at a time.

[@kookiiee7938]

sometimes girl's can be uncomfortable or scared to make a move on the guy they like because they maybe be scared of the reaction they can get so sometimes you automatically bro zone them... and what Ph-1 is saying is true the rolls can be reversed as well that the guy does the bro zone