BM Returns to Talk About Relationships, Modeling, and Turning 30 | GET REAL S3 Ep. #16

[@Hungcongtubot]

It's so emotional seeing three legends reunion: BM, Ashley and Peniel. I really miss these old days with Ashley, Penelope and Big Matilda. Welcome back my president of Big Tiddies Gang

[@somewhereoverit711]

TIDDDDDIEEEEESS

[@niarose4671]

Tiddie** And I know, I feel youuuu😭😂😂

[@dianaosazenaye1313]

Aww

[@Setthacio]

Big Matilda, LMAO ahahahhahahaa

[@jerlyberry]

BIG MATILDA IM SCREAMING😭

[@reneilwemasha2672]

Finally Penelope, Big Matilda and Ashley's are hanging out together (with Ashley's younger brother, Junny)... I missed them.

[@sickkswiftiee2409]

🤣🤣🤣💘

[@katekyojp6338]

Bichna

[@shyytiny]

BRO STOP I REMEMBER THAT LMAOO

[@reneilwemasha2672]

@s We're missing Harriet!!

[@KiritoHamiltonKPop]

@@katekyojp6338 that name is forever funny name to have but it best (sorry Ashley) 🤣

[@nickysanthi6772]

BM as a host: no makeup BM as a guest: gotta put my all to look extraordinary today. No matter what, they’re great!

[@chelseaanne007]

I love how deep BM gets one second but then switches it up to something hilarious the next second 🤣

[@chelseaanne007]

Side note: for a second I thought that I wrote in that entry, I didn't, but it sounds so similar to what I would write 😅 and it felt like everyone was talking to me (thanks btw, I needed to hear this too ☺️)

[@jimbojimbo6873]

That’s what being goodlooking does

[@CassandraL666]

BM is next level respecting women and all the effort they put in in all things women do. 10/10, an absolute and perfect gentleman whose always willing to respect our struggles. Its not just laughing material here but SETTING THE DAMN BAR FOR HETERO MEN. C’MON.

[@mundanethings208]

When i thought he couldnt set the bar higher, HE MANAGED TO DO IT 😭 theres only one Matthew and it sucks

[@joodi8888]

so true god i love him so much

[@parallelwooju]

He is simply what a normal respectful man is ! The bar shouldn't be high it should just be the standard

[@joodi8888]

@@parallelwooju sorry but the current patriotic misogynistic world we live in u can’t step outside your house and see even 1 man acting like this amongst 50 other men as sad as it is the bar is very low

[@dzrmgkva]

After all he is big tittie comitee president, ofc he’s great

[@elll7795]

15:02 Ashley politely educating BM and him respectfully listening 🤌

[@taylorfarfan5028]

I felt so warm in my heart when she stopped him and explained him why it was a trigger word. She is a queen.

[@littleofa]

IM SO GLAD BM IS BACK 🥹

[@zefersanity6537]

BIG MATILDA IN THE HOUSE

[@jaylam892]

we need harry too

[@jaslyngarcia092]

this episode was needed! 👏👏

[@smallieT]

Was at the last KARD show on their world tour, Houston. BM, Jseph, Jiwoo, and Somin were amazing. And we totally felt BM was in the moment. The show was lit. BM once said on one of the Dive podcasts episode that if he wasn't in the Kpop industry he'd want to be a counselor for teens struggling with substance abuse issues. As a therapist with almost 20 years experience and a GetReal listener, I just wanted to say that BM, I think you'd for real make a good counselor. You're a considerate, kind, and humble soul. Wear one of your Healers shirts because in your own way, you truly are one.

[@gminssi1603]

Big Matilda is BACKKKK

[@yEoNjUnSoHaNdSoMe_]

NO YOU DID NOT 😭😭😭💀

[@amlas7763]

Sorry but what does that mean?

[@MApong411]

@@amlas7763that’s what they called BM when he hosted years ago

[@operativealyssa]

I love how BM just naturally fit in with everyone as if he's never been gone.

[@mariamichaelis3259]

Welcome back BM!! Now we need ph-1 and then we'll get all the hosts reunited

[@lauraaguilar4728]

14:59 love that Ashley sought that out and how BM took it serious like props 🫡❤️

[@yokshiichicago7712]

That "its time to glow up baby girl" was so funny🤣🤣

[@mmar174]

the fact that his voice is still in the intro

[@ammmm_4803]

I love Peniel honestly ㅋㅋㅋㅋ He's so chill and effortlessly funny

[@clairruckman7674]

Because, of a recent deep dive in PH-1 discography (just found him don't judge) this was recommended. They are funny, and I don't normally watch stuff like this.

[@jaslyngarcia092]

he is so unique in his own way and i wonder what goes on in his mind sometimes haha 🤣🤣

[@lisacole7347]

OH MYYYYYY GODDDD HE'S BACKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK I missed BM😭😭

[@gen2841]

BM saying “it’s time to glow up” is my thought process every time 😭 that whole question it was like he crawled up into my head🤭🌙🤍

[@isaijmartinez1671]

Seeing BM be excited to be in KARD and regain the love for music he once had is just so gratifying. As a fan who got into KPop because of KARD, Ride on the Wind and the album is FOREVER going to be one of the greatest of all time albums because you can see BM and the members really enjoy those songs because they really HAD FUN WITH THAT ALBUM! BM’s love for music faded a bit with JSPEH left and the struggle of DSP during Covid! It’s so INCREDIBLE to see him happy again

[@lauraaguilar4728]

Ashley is the middle ground we need, she said “doesn’t change yourself” 🥰

[@LedgieBear22]

Absolutely hilarious episode 😂 . BM: "Ladies, I respect how much you -" Peniel: "HOW DO YOU KNOW??!!" They're so funny!!

[@vyann1697]

26:23 😂😂

[@ELmayberry]

😂😂😂

[@jaslyngarcia092]

I missed them together! And of course sensitive Junny 🤣❣

[@Cauliflowerskies]

Ngl I teared within the first few minutes of hearing BM talking with Ashley and Peniel. I didn’t realise how much I missed hearing the three of them together again 🥺 Thank you for sharing the warmth of your friendship with us! 💛

[@beeteees6535]

Listening to BM is refreshing. I find it very rare that a man can be this self-aware and can reflect and learn about himself. Most guys are unable or unaware of who they truly are or can admit to certain things. He's right about humility. It's important to step back and remember to be humble. Really enjoy watchung Get Real. They all are great hosts and like the topics they talk about.

[@almariaghern1876]

And to think I started watching this podcast because of Big Matilda but I ended loving the rest of the hosts so much that I still here after he left 💚

[@mylifeisajokeofficial]

Same!!

[@caryllyca]

Same!

[@ELmayberry]

me too 😁

[@nadunipeiris6426]

pls we need BM back as a host again. I miss him sm

[@peko9896]

I love that he’s so reflective but at the same time so effortlessly funny. BM really deserves the success he gets. I’m sure he’ll find a way to stay humble.

[@TheCIownPrince]

BM talking about KARD cooking up some music in the studio got me hyped 🙌🏾

[@seashore961]

His saturn return did him well, he’s definitely evolved into a better version of himself and it’s beautiful to see ✨ Happy to see him back again on the podcast 🥲

[@esthervang86]

Peniel & bm are so cute together! They get each other!

[@gayatrir5728]

Im so happy bm is back i could listen to him talk for hours

[@joshhale9355]

BM is legit one of my favorite idols because he just doesn’t give a fuck. He gives off that “I grew up in LA” vibes so hard. As an American dude myself around his age, I’ve know so many people he reminds of just based off of how he acts. He just comes off as that dude you were friends with in high school who randomly checks up on you to see what you’re doing.

[@andyblue13]

I'm a baby KARD and I saw them during Halloween at a concert and I genuinely hope they succeed and remain as a group cos they have dope music & dope vocals. BM's voice is really good and his rap style slays.

[@baisha]

i love to see matthew growing and doing his own thing

[@glorianamultistan]

Talks with BM are always so humbling and practical in life advice sense. Such a great episode 🥲💜

[@Calida]

Ashley the advocate for healthy habits! 😍🥰 I'm sooo happy to see BM back on the show! Thank you for the long episode 🥹💕💕💕

[@jocelynwhitephotos]

I genuinely appreciate how respectful and mindful Matthew is of us as women, our experiences, and our struggles. BM you are such a gentleman and I love how you are helping to set the standard high and being a model to all those around you. We see you!💖

[@vVRukiadVv]

Omg it's soooo good to have BM back in the studio!! I love your guys' chaotic energy together lol. BM giving shoutouts to women in general was just so cringe but also cute at the same time lmao 😂specifically Junny's face when BM was shouting out women for maintaining their looks (41:34) was hilarious and adorable 😂Ashley looked like she had just given up on the situation at that point

[@mi_lenna]

Omg 😱 finally BM i miss him on Dive studio so much.

[@tatatiandi]

WHAT A GOOD DAY, BM IS BACK i hope he can be a host again

[@emmathenuela]

I saw the title and I screamed for joy. I'm so happy we finally get an episode with BM ahhhhhhhhhhhhh

[@ichon23]

❣️❣️❣️❣️

[@Oumayma_essarhi]

OMG IM CRYING , yesterday i was watching one of the episodes of the first season and i said i hope BM come back to get real one day and HE IS HERE 🥺🥺🥺😭😭 WELCOME BAAAAAAAAAAAAAACK URI BM YOU BEEN MISSEEEEEEED

[@fleurravenclaw3576]

Manifestation works..😂😂😂

[@Oumayma_essarhi]

@@fleurravenclaw3576 exactly 😂😂

[@Dowoon_is_a_drum]

Finally Matthew is back! I've missed him so much, you can see how his presence brightens up the studio. This felt more like a family reunion than a podcast.

[@AmazedbyGrace95]

I haven't watched the full episode, and I'm so enjoying it!, But i wanted to commend Ashley for cutting off BM when he said the "S" word. A lot of people who are not built to look as thin as the idol industry portrays can hear words like that and yes, be triggered into not eating properly (as someone who struggles with disordered eating and who isn't built small). So, thank you Ashley, from this fan of the show. 🥰🥰🥰

[@januaryhymn]

0:31 not to be a bare minimum melody but 🥺🥺 the way peuni said “and it’s peniel! from btob!” Extremely Cute, Very Good. Liked it A LOT 👍

[@just7llin]

I'm aware that the show is called GET REAL but it always amazes me how real the talk really is. It feels like listening to a bunch of good friends, giving you advice, talking about their lives. Thank you so much for that!

[@miihar.ayhtaf]

36:53 'time to glow up baby girl' please put it on shorts to remind myself to put skincare every night

[@noorwice4360]

Oh my god this feels like friends gathering again💓

[@moodz_melody]

While ashley went no s word we dont want any eating disorder i was eating a large sized ramen with pancakes on side waiting 😂 still thanks ashley to think of everyone ❤️ also missed bm so much its so nice to see him again ❤️ ps: peniel i love you 😂

[@moodz_melody]

Jun so sorry i love you too 😂 cutie ❤️

[@imlucifirst3561]

Btob and Kard are invited to attend the same event in paris, so excited!

[@Sthemingway]

For Ashley: It is odd that a person you've known for so many years feels discomfort and unwillingness to be more authentic with you (aka talk about more areas of their life such that you don't feel like they're hiding anything), but if they believe you'd be disappointed with things they've done recently (things they wouldn't have done long time ago), they'd rather not risk losing your attention even if it means witholding information or being on their best behavior with you. A meaningful friendship is more than exchange of attention and time, it's a combination of active and passive participation in another person's life.

[@nancyrose5213]

I like how the audience's question are read and answered and a conversation is had. I think that maybe having a therapist as a guest would be cool as well in the future

[@GT-ix1cx]

I live in a country where K-Pop is not popular, so when I went through the mall last month and saw BM on this huge ad at one clothing brand store, it was quite a nice sight ^^

[@purplequokka]

I really love these four's dynamic. The way Ashley gives the best older sister advice, Junny gives the most innocent, sensitive-person perspective, Peniel throws the much needed humor & logical, almost-robotic POVs, while Matthew starts the most random, sometimes naughtiest topic mid-explanation. 😆 I also noticed how Matthew's seems more eloquent now, despite the few confusions he had in this ep lol probably from spending more time in the US. I really really just missed him. I'm so glad they let us have this full hour of OG Get Real happiness but also sad because there will be no more of BM next week. 🥲🏻

[@lauraaguilar4728]

The “romantic thoughts” HAS ME ROLLING💀*slaps couch* ROMANTIC NOT SE***AL 😭😭 get real FR

[@ivanmagnusmartinez78]

THIS IS GET REAL!!! I really missed it, idk, love when the vibe is like you're just hanging out/listening to friends share something. It's not that I didn't enjoy the other episodes this season but a lot of them felt more like an interview.

[@tiredxv]

missed Matthew so much he offers so much to this dynamic and it makes it truly enjoyable !!

[@sarahelvetral3710]

Ashley unnie gives real Noona vibes when she's with the boys ❤️

[@sharon1046]

I'm super pumped when I saw the thumbnail!!! Miss BM so bad 😭😭

[@kellykim3684]

Junny is so cute and likable and his laugh is so adorable

[@gw33n9]

bm is actually so respectful towards everyone! i love himmm ❤❤ sucha icon

[@soccerjl8]

I had so much fun at KARD's Brooklyn concert!! It was my first KARD concert and I totally did feel like BM and the members were having fun in the moment and feeding off of the audience's energy!!! (For real tho the venue was seated but it looked like a GA pit by the end - everyone was HYPED 😅) I'm so glad BM felt like he grew so much this year, both performance/tour approach-wise and personally

[@roo5897]

Yk what i love about this trio ashley,peniel, and Bm is that they're literally are real like real real which is sth u don't really see or witness in kpop especially... Im glad seeing these 3 together again in get real

[@giseleyvet]

Si Si 👍 no 👎

[@Jjmiamjj]

I admire Kard so much for being so genuine, down to heart, wanting to be humble and stuff… that’s just a part of it, but his personality as a whole just seems so incredible to me

[@jelaie.5389]

OMG!!!! MATTHEW IS BACK!!! I JUST FINISHED THE SAAY & HOLLAND EP. FEW MINUTES AGO THEN HERE BM IS THE NEXT "GUEST". I miss seeing him in this podcast 🥺🧡

[@Kevinsmoonlight]

As someone who has dealt with near death eating disorders, thank you SO much to ashley for mentioning the ED thing when the S word came up. Truly, it's so nice to see someone speak up against ED behaviours in the kpop industry. Thank you from the bottom of my heart ♡

[@westan2654]

I like the smile (kind of a giddy smile) on Ashley’s face whenever BM is around. I like the lil chemistry

[@Dramapopp]

36:53 was having a shit day but now hearing him say babygirl did it alll goooood

[@ll91547]

I hope he comes back regularly!!! His input was always unique and relatable!

[@kimberlyvuong6396]

BM welcome back I miss you 😭💙

[@netrosales9584]

I think by showing your parents that you can be responsible, they will eventually trust you. Growing up, my parents was so protective, strict. The reason why I got a phone in a young age was to report everytime to my mom. After my dad dropped me at school, I will text my mother: Mom, I'm already at school. I text her at lunch, and when my father picked me up at school. I never hangout with my friends during weekends and summer coz I'm not allowed. And then I got used to it. It became NORMAL, but my friends tell me its not. After I graduated from college, I moved in the city on my own because I have to prepare for my licensure exam. I was thinking that time, are they going to allow me? My mom will probably live with me. So I really prayed a lot to get their approval. They really got no choice but to allow me. So I live alone for several months, but I always call and text them, and have to visit every weekend. Yes, every weekend. And then after passing the exam, I discussed them where I wanted to work. I really wanted to work in the city at that time. So I applied in a firm. The funny thing is, my parents accompany me in my first interview, and every time I have to go to the company in connection with my application, my mother was with me. Who else had the experience of tagging their parents to an interview? She really wanted to know the place where I will stay, talked to my landlord, introduced herself to my workmates. Then I got accepted, and I'm living away from home for years now. I go home at least twice a month. Call my parents when I have time. You cannot build trust over night, you really have to work on that.

[@inner.aloha.matters]

Hearing BM share how he had to reflect/examine himself so he could start working towards getting his group where they need to be reminded me of Jackson explaining why he works so hard because he doesn’t expect anyone to value his dreams and goals as much as himself because it’s his dream and not theirs. Loved the interview! I can tell BM has grown and matured while being away from get real and now he’s dropping some jewels to us listeners🙌🏻

[@17khbin]

I'm glad that it is 1:02:21 for BM's GET REAL episode!!!

[@KiwiSiyeon]

God I relate to ashley so much with the instagram thing, I'll open it and see someone I know posted 5-10 seconds ago and go thru an entire dilemma of "If I like this right away will they think ___ about me"

[@maelisols]

I WAS WAITING FOR THISSSSS!!!! DIVE doin’ it!, BM, Ashley, Peniel, Junny, loved. Paraguay Hereee!

[@sophiagtan]

i could legit listen/watch them talk and just conversate with each other about random topics for houuuursssss! thank you for always being the best hosts and for putting out the best episodes!! we missed you BM!! :'))

[@AmbiCahira]

I actually screamed when I saw the title. BM I am so proud of you but I really missed listening to your voice like this. ❤️

[@jgak071048]

WE'RE GETTING THE BAND BACK TOGETHER

[@samg7056]

Having BM back is so nice! I love how his mom raised him to respect women so much. I hope one day we can have an episode with all of the hosts. Idk if that might be too chaotic tho 😂 Also why has junny been looking so good recently, it’s distracting 😂

[@jamie-leelothering5386]

This episode was kinda like made for me especially with the last entry , the situation is so similar , i'm 20 and the oldest aswell and my parents do everything for me, i'm never out on my own or experience things other people my age do, its kinda suffocating and now i don't really know what i want and what my purpose is anymore. Also i keep dissappointing them because i don't want what they want for me. Thank you for the advice especially this episode.

[@NANAs_LIFE]

This brings me joy, they’re back together 🥳❤

[@sof5611]

i was literally smiling so hard in the intro

[@poojitakondur2805]

The OG get real group!! What a great episode. Also is it just me or did they never mention BM's name in the intro while bringing him in?

[@toujoursunnerd]

Hey BM, I don't know if this is one of your ad libs, but the speech you made on tour really touched me and I'll always remember it. "The fun part of the KARD tour is that we're all here together: people of all shapes, sizes, colors, genders, etc. just to have a good time. And the music is what brings us together." Thank you for always being so real and sharing how you're growing as a person. We're all growing together!

[@astrovrse]

it's so nice having BM back, I loved this episode!

[@lialia-qf4qh]

I can listen to BM for hours... missing his stories, his thought, his deep words.. and the 3 OGs chemistry is at another level... its like Junny hang out with his sisters friend. Do 2 ep please BM

[@MithunOnTheNet]

So cool to have the OG crew back! So much fun the chemistry is.

[@vyc106]

IM HERE FOR BM!!! Lo habia dejado de ver porque BM se fue, pero ahora que esta invitado que hermoso es!

[@Rinaluvzyou]

BM and I have the same birthday. He’s 30 and I’m in my last teen year . Im glad he’s doing all the thing she wants to do at this young age . Big inspiration. I’m so glad BM is in this new get real ep !! He was missed so much 😭🤍

[@astrovrse]

I really relate to Chelsea and Ashley about their parents and being independent

[@yoqchill._]

19:08 BM talks about skz's producer Versachoi, it makes me happy to hear that his talking to other producers for help and making new ideas and concepts. ❤

[@Eya428]

#jasho

[@hluna02]

I love how they're all talk together again on this podcast 😭 I miss you BM miss you Ashley miss you Peniel miss you Junny❤

[@Jessica-l8s]

When you try too hard to impress someone, the relationship almost will never last. Don't change yourself, everything will come naturally. You will have a better value towards your relationship. Great show!! Love watching you guys.

[@little_miss_bad]

Ashley is a Queen for correcting the use of the “s” word.

[@KRAYisONLINE]

I really missed seeing them all together again. This episode was so healing. Thank you! ❤

[@janicebolosan119]

I told my parents I need to do things on my own!! They got mad when I told them I was moving out and to another state!! I met up with my boyfriend who is now my husband! Sometimes parents need to let go and let you make your choices and live your life.

[@SittieSaheda]

Also, so so hyped for KARD’s next comeback!!

[@user-bs4oq9xv7p]

BM gives me the biggest LA vibe and i love to see it. there aren’t many idols that are from here

[@lily52v32]

How cool it would be to have all the hosts in one episode -BM, pH-1, Junny, Peniel and Ashley. Please consider it!

[@LouLouBlueMoon]

WELCOME BACK BM WE MISSED YOUUUUUUUUUUUU 💕❤️✨💕💖✨

[@raquels1098]

WE NEED ALL THE HOST TOGETHER T-T I love BM's Honesty :3 I love his peep talk

[@35Ryma]

Peniel random comments never fails, I swear. Lmao!

[@vVRukiadVv]

Just like the podcast title, you guys really got real this episode!! Y'all are always so fun to have together in the studio, and BM just brings out your guys' wild side, I swear lol

[@Quirkaliciou-s]

The first question hit home. I'm going through it at the moment. I started to suffocate because they are always here, even when I want to be alone, they don't leave. When we are together we laugh and everything but some days I just need to not be controlled with questions like "where are you?", "when will you come?" "Why don't you answer the phone?"