Divorce Court: Ramata vs. Dequan - Against the Odds

[@JazzyJeffRealTalk]

These two are the textbook definition of immaturity!! Man I got a headache 🥴🥴

[@ebonyc3751]

People just be having sex thinking doesn’t result in children. They had that second child because he wanted to keep ejaculating in her and know there’s a high risk chance she’ll get pregnant. And since they have one already whats another one. That’s really why they had a second. I blame their parents because none of the adults in their life decided to educated on the real world they just encumbered themselves in. It’s going to be a hard life most certainly if they, both of them dont grow up.

[@kingdjack6]

Her more so he would at least listen to the judge she got a superiority complex.

[@neshamarie3093]

They have the nerve to have created 4 children and still crying over passcodes on phones 🤦🏾‍♀️ I can't rn

[@MarinaRhymin]

And how dare they deliberately have a second child when their families were the ones supporting the first one?! The selfishness and ingratitude just floor me!

[@rps310]

This woman gave me a headache. How can anyone deal with her. God Bless Judge Toler for listening to those two

[@gracie4200]

He is cracking up at the end. He finally wanted someone to tell her the truth😅 she reminds me of those little kids that's always in their parents' business and the parents never put them in check.

[@JackJobs-uy5xt]

So sad they have 4 children God help these children,

[@rebeccadincher9049]

They are children raising children. Doesn’t matter that legally they are adults!

[@SheSells_StLouis]

I agree!

[@MarinaRhymin]

Seriously! If I were her mother, I’d have taken her to a clinic/doctor’s office to get on birth control as soon as I discovered that she was having sex. They stopped maturing when they got pregnant.

[@thebarbieinvestor5428]

4 children . 21 years old. 2 damn fools! Nobody want to be bothered with a 21 year old baby mama with 4 kids!

[@kamwilliams5541]

And only a truly desperate woman would be with a 21 year old man with 4 kids. 😂

[@quaniayamorton]

exacccccttttlyyy

[@MarinaRhymin]

4 damn fools-counting their mothers. They should have put their foot down and required birth control the minute they found out the kids were having sex, especially after Baby #1!

[@mardjo595]

First time she was speechless at the end 🤐 God bless those children.

[@BlackDiamond-qb9pc]

Girl listen; you already have 4 kids with this man. You better stay right where you are because trust me, the grass ain’t gonna be any greener on that other side, not with 4 dependents.

[@ENAZU]

Ramata & Dequan. I don't even know what to tell you. LMAO! That had me weak. The judge was over them. These 2 need to remain together for the sake of humanity.

[@vanessakenney3144]

I was telling this girl to shut up and I wasn't even there. I know she worked Judge Lynn's nerves.

[@anquentinwilliams2764]

Smh. Having kids that someone else has to support. What kind of parents did they have?

[@superblessed2956]

...but you can't blame the parents for everything

[@SheSells_StLouis]

​@@superblessed2956for 8th graders making decisions to have children, oh I definitely blame their parents. And I blame her mom for making so easy on her with the first that she decided to acquiesce to him for the second child.

[@ayannaarcher903]

@@superblessed2956 it’s definitely the parents responsibility to ensure their kids are making rational decisions for their futures. Somebody in their lives condoned this bs.

[@johnadams4938]

@@superblessed2956so true, I did a lot of things in my life, my parents didn’t raise me to do, some ppl get to an age where they THINK, they’re grown, so they do adult things, without the adult mentality

[@LeshaFBaby]

​@@SheSells_StLouis I understand completely I had friends that were teen patents in high-school their parents made it real easy and wondered why they had 2 or pregnant with 1 when graduating

[@veeee3247]

Her skin is FLAWLESS

[@gracie4200]

True, and her mouth is Lawless 😂😅

[@keylacmckemp1309]

​@gracie4200 you win

[@johnadams4938]

@@gracie4200when I 1st started watching, I thought the same thing, she has a beautiful complexion, but, that mouth, SHEESHHHHH SMH

[@LeshaFBaby]

Very beautiful

[@kingdjack6]

​@@LeshaFBabybut got a superiority complex that will make a man that isn't a simp or cuck run.

[@latresabaker6850]

She is bitter bcz she is stuck with kids. Regret is the worse friend when your 21years old and have 4 kids to raise. Nothing but tears😢

[@shunice0151]

Lol. Judge Toler, at the very end, is what got me. But it is sad to see young people make the mistakes those two made for themselves. I am not coming from a place of judgment, but out of curiosity, where were the parents, uncles, aunts, or any adult. I hope they were able to get their life on track. It would be hard, but with the right support, is possible.

[@queennc7]

exactly !!!!!

[@antoinelewis4219]

Her mother should've took her daughter to the doctor get that shot, or birth control 🎛️🛂 prevent her having a 2nd baby 🍼 and many children....

[@foxyroxy1010]

This child is so ignorant she will not listen to the great advice that Judge Toler is giving her, she is spoiled and stupid. Between the two of them they don't have a pot to piss in or a window to throw it out. Its both of their responsibility to use protection but she thinks it's his, and no one has ever thought her to speak when spoken to, she keeps interrupting the judge running her mouth. At 21 and has four kids with no proper education to her name, all she thinks about is sex, him, and having babies. She still has more child bearing years to go, Lord help them, this generation baffles me.

[@patriciaross7269]

I don’t ever see her growing up as she doesn’t think she’s in the wrong!!!

[@ishamcintosh5779]

WHERE WERE THEIR PARENTS before all this???

[@MarinaRhymin]

Exactly: they each lived with their parents until after the 3rd baby! Why did no one intervene? At LEAST her mom could’ve made her continued residence with her dependent upon getting on birth control the first time! If I’d been either of their mothers, they’d’ve been taught that protection is THEIR responsibility EVERY TIME since sex ed age. They’d have learned the longterm socioeconomic consequences of teen pregnancy at the same age. I would’ve taken her to get on birth control once she started sleeping with anybody. I’m VERY fortunate that someone did that for me.

[@monie2514]

I don't understand why neither one of their family stepped in to say no this is not the right decision. 🤐. Get your education first even if it's a trade.. before you have children so you have the hardest part out the way and you've made yourself financially stable.

[@MarinaRhymin]

Right?!?! I can’t believe they let this happen! If nothing else, birth control should’ve been a requirement after Baby #1!!! Before, even, if they knew they were sexually active!

[@waddellcarissa]

I honestly don’t think the guy is as immature as people think. He’s trying to imitate what he think a man is. Both of them did not grow up with fathers and it shows. They both need REAL guidance. Hun from a mature, well balanced man and she needs help from a mature, self controlled woman. I wish them the best and the children ❤

[@keylacmckemp1309]

Here, I am watching this on my phone in the bathroom while in the tub. Hubby couldn't care less, and neither could I when he is in here with his. We do have each other passwords but we never bother to check phones. Who has the time or energy?

[@jar7840]

If shes like this in court, i cant imagine her at home. Hes immature too but she worked my nerves and is on a way to be a combative baby mama.

[@JayMonaeee]

This is so pitiful. Literally everything is tit for tat with these two.

[@sharonrobinson6382]

Whose momma supported them starting at 15 having babies 😮😮. They did not give themselves a chance to grow up , they've not learned how to make wise choices. She has not learned that every action does not deserve a reaction. Babygirl you gotta grow emotionally, so does he but she's had the biggest load to carry.

[@ameliavee4009]

Gosh, if she doesn't shut up and let him respond, girl please, take control of your life! 4 kids at 21yrs is absolute nonsense. Kids having kids.

[@johnadams4938]

The 1st one wasn’t planned, but, the baby was here, at that age, having a 2nd one, they have there whole life in front of them, and then the support falls on others

[@miltonmoore1690]

Never seen Judge Lynn , roll that neck.🤣🤣🤣 Or speechless.

[@highlander666]

Thought her name was "Ramada" like the terrible hotel at 1st😂

[@terrymayes7894]

Seeing her not hearing the judge I’m pretty sure her mom told her not to have all them kids but she didn’t hear that either

[@mavisfrancis1425]

They should stay together and raise their children. They are a beautiful couple. They just need to grow up and be mature.

[@Monica_since91]

This little girl is too much. She needs to mature, she has 4 kids! Unbelievable

[@ayefo7800]

You can tell no one ever told her "no". I hope they've both matured for the sake of those children.

[@Msellasempiricalexperiences51]

Ms Ramada acts so Annoying…she has a lot of growing up to do as well.

[@mayasilliman1465]

Those four kids will have a hard life if the parents remain childish, which they are now!

[@AddisonHaileLegobuilds]

I can't believe they have all these children and sound like teenagers.

[@tashanapink7688]

Wheeewwww ol girl got on my nerves

[@johnadams4938]

She not listening to the judge, shows she don’t listen to anybody

[@bryanbeeman5256]

Their 21. They are prone to making bad decisions and choices.

[@lovemealways7]

Both are immature ...she doesn't wanna listen to the judges advice

[@antoinelewis4219]

1st baby 🍼 freshman year in high school 🏫🎒 that's crazy

[@t.sangrini]

First of all he is in desperate need of some Clear Eyes and second, this relationship is so over it's not even funny. Clearly SHE is actually ready to roll and her attitude and facial expressions speaks volumes, she is not in love anymore and probably just want to experience other guys now like her friends and is seeing the excitement of being young and single and she wants a taste of that lifestyle just like a young girl her age would typically want to do but she sat there and had all them damn kids and NOW she wants to be young wild and free...girl bye we know what time it is. She living life backwards asf 🤦🏾‍♀

[@Edward_Strong1982]

Children having children Smdh I’m very curious to know what their families thought off all this, and how she got the impression from her family that it was okay to have another child. She definitely interpreted something incorrectly 😂

[@salenachannel769]

They have 4 children because their stuck on stupid. It's sad because neither one wants to get off the hampster wheel. Her conduct is petty for no reason.

[@terrymayes7894]

She will be left with the kids and her parents to raise

[@peach-e2470]

They played house until the house became real.

[@user-iv1yi6cz7o]

FEEL SORRY FOR THE 4 CHILDREN..AMERICA IS FALLING APART

[@Dr.Unknown23]

When Judge Toler is speechless and doesn’t know what to say , then I’m dead

[@renegrace3158]

She’s gorgeous! Her skin is flawless. I bet that they have beautiful children. The good news is……. If they don’t have anymore children….. when most people are still stressed and raising young ones, when they’re free they’ll still have plenty of youthful years to have fun!!! Pay now or pay later. 🎉🎉🎉

[@neveradullmoment6882]

I was thinking the same thing. She is very beautiful! This whole story is sad though.

[@worldhealthrn]

Exactly! They'll have to make big sacrifices now, but middle age will be great

[@Aquaria2291]

Lol you assume that they went back to school and got good careers. Or that they didn't keep popping kids out like pez. Or that their kids don't turn around and start having kids in high school too, saddling them with grandbabies to support. To have a fun middle aged life, you need money and time. Having babies as a freshman and sophomore usually doesn't end with the parents having money or time lol.

[@ambers2783]

🤣🤣I swear this is people favorite line!! Its really sounds so crazy..

[@bridgettegermain5292]

She keeps butting in everytime judge talk to the guy and it’s annoying as well as u can see she’s spoiled.

[@truthbetold1074]

"I feel like if you are in a relationship you shouldn't be wearing revealing clothes" but what about working and providing and loyalty...?? that's🤣 not part of a relationship??.....lol

[@doloresturner6094]

That girl's mouth is toooo much she wants to go toe to toe word for word you did it I'm going to do it too bad she should have been doing what her classmates were doing and not had 4 children by age 18 just saying 🤪

[@ddirtdid]

Great content. That's how my relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, Really love her so much, i can’t stop thinking about her. I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life but to no avail, I’m frustrated because i literally can't envision my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.

[@Margart526]

Your feelings are understandable, It's always difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation when my wife of 12 years left me, i couldn't just let her go. I did all I could to get her back, I had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back.

[@ddirtdid]

Wow, how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach him/her?

[@Margart526]

Her name is MONICA ERLENE MORA, and she is a great spiritual adviser as well as a caster and healer.

[@ddirtdid]

Thank you for this valuable information, I just looked her up online. impressive.

[@annetoupe3369]

Enough

[@Blou-]

What a cute couple I hope they make it 🙏 adorable 🩵

[@kingdjack6]

They probably didn't she probably is the reason.

[@sweetsweet81]

Good Lord, these two drove me crazy! They were so immature...I just couldn't stand it!

[@deborahblackshear3325]

Wow just wow. They gave me a headache.

[@jackiebennett6304]

BEAUTIFUL BLACK BARBIE

[@just_bee9482]

She feels that he has destroyed her life . She is angry. And she will carry over that anger into all the relationships she will ever enter into 😢. What she doesn't know is that she is actually living with the only man on earth who has the responsibility biblically speaking to keep her for life. He is the man that she lost her virginity to. All the dudes that she has all of a sudden opened her eyes to are not obliged to keep her if she gets out of character. Even though I don't condone getting kids at such a young age, I commend the fact that he is sticking around for her and the kids that she chose to have. I don't think there is anything wrong in marrying young as long as everybody understand the ins and outs. I have seen very successful Christian marriages like that.

[@crystalvazquez4076]

Ramada 😅needs to keep her legs closed. Both are very childish. I feel bad for their kids.

[@asjames32]

I'm surprised this young man isn't the one trying to leave, this young lady was a handful. she has no idea how to make a change for the better. she couldn't even keep her mouth shut when the judge was speaking imagine what happens at home.

[@55tanishabrooks]

Just two air heads

[@RacieRain]

She started having children at 14 or 15. Where were their parents? Her ass should have been grounded. They clearly have no clue.

[@qbee3413]

I cannot stand people who always try to say “you do the same thing!” When the spotlight is on them. Try some accountability

[@LeshaFBaby]

Small babies in the house and they acting like big toddlers and focused on who puts phones where...she annoyed me interrupting..I got a slight head and earrache..let me take a break

[@vanessahoward3298]

This was a hard episode to watch!

[@latishadavis6985]

I couldn’t get medicare or Medicaid...she just didn't want to

[@SandraCDavis]

She was a minor, she could get Medicaid!

[@Elizabeth-ef2mm]

What in the actual fck!!!!! I’m 43, got 2 kids ages 12 and 7. Some days are very trying and stressful. And I’m a grown ass woman. I cannot imagine having all those kids when you yourself are a child. Unbelievable.

[@thetrueone30]

21? Shit he at least 30!

[@twilderlm2559]

They'd been 2gether 2 long. Prob had outgrown each other...

[@ShesFromVenus]

This whole thing is just sad. Every time she speaks, she reveals her immaturity. They both have childish & ignorant mindsets, I feel for all FOUR of those babies. There’s a LOT of growing up to be done, especially by her to be real. 🤧

[@rubertobeddoe8147]

Watch at her face, she not listening to a darn thing.

[@ShortNSweetTay]

Babies having babies and growing up with adult responsibilities but a child’s mentality. They want to play because when they were suppose to be kids they were doing grown folk things and had huge responsibilities. That’s why they arguing like siblings and growing apart.

[@TonyaJones0788]

Oh my God! Young & Dumb! They should of NEVER had kids! Pray for the kids! 🙏🏽🙏🏽😲

[@user-iv1yi6cz7o]

MENACE TO SOCIETY..WHY THIS YOUNG GENERATION HAS NO PARENTS WHO PARENT THEM OR TEACH THEM MORALS..😢

[@bettywhite7795]

😂, I feel her, he gonna do it, so am i 🤷😂

[@Erica-kg4gy]

Omg

[@jaylarkin4331]

It gotta be tough to to be with your childhood love. Just seeing how ppl turn out after HS, I know they are both miserable, but think they are doing the right thing by staying together. You learn so much about dealing with through HS, after HS, working, college....ect. How do you know who you are and what you want before you have the freedom to do whatever you want and the responsibility is solely on you?

[@rubertobeddoe8147]

He was setting boundaries

[@demetricerobertson2147]

They look older than 21 👀

[@Aquaria2291]

4 kids will do that to you. 💀

[@alexwatches]

they are genuinely so annoying and the picture perfect example of why you should not have children or serious relationships so young like my god

[@emahniChannel]

The most immature people I’ve seen lmao

[@shprice88]

The girl annoyed me as soon as she opened her mouth and all the way through the end.

[@PLEASURE_MeMe]

Her mindset is ridiculous. 😢

[@antoinelewis4219]

Both of them not mature at all

[@aprilbouknightmarquez6340]

Dumb or Dumber... Im so glad my kids don't act like either of these 2..

[@patriciaross7269]

Wow!!! And these 2 have kids??!!!!! Sad for them!

[@antoinelewis4219]

4 kids only 21 too young

[@AllweneedisMONEYnba]

They both really need to grow up

[@rubertobeddoe8147]

He can't lead if she won't follow

[@salenachannel769]

Three children

[@denisealston7009]

She’s walking in the spirit of offense, rebellion and stubbornness. So disrespectful talking about some “huh”. If y’all don’t say yes ma’am to auntie. And shut yo mouf girl, when others are speaking. 😡😡😡. Lord have mercy, they worked auntie last nerve.

[@garyyarbough6597]

He started it and finish it two kids raising kids

[@brittanyhawkins960]

I’m confused…..

[@movingforward789]

😞

[@rubertobeddoe8147]

She don't love him

[@cedricliggins7528]

Ramata is a pretty name

[@antoinelewis4219]

He not mature enough have 4 children, dude 😎 are u ready for child support 🚸

[@gigimarie1987]

The young woman was terribly annoying.

[@lexislove639]

She got on my nerves real bad

[@danniblackuniverse4753]

So y'all still think women are smarter than men?? 😂😂😂😂😅