Divorce: He divorce his wife for you,his side chick. What in the hell ,you think was gon’ happen?

[@aprilm4423]

If he'll cheat *with* you, he'll cheat *on* you... 🙄💔

[@aprilm4423]

Thanks for the ❤️!

[@sourpeach1977]

Facts..

[@RoyBetties]

How ever this man is spreading lie's on me an don't know me ... He on here talking about the big book an spreading lie's on me if u had a church I wouldn't go... If u need attention that bad want to know all he had to do is post an ask me ... He needs to keep my name out his mouth.. Yes I'm the one they talking about with that guy he's a narcissist I never had nothing to do with him .... Y'all will know the story on internet or a book

[@My3Sunzs]

Reason is b/c this coward is wounded. Living a miserable life seeking to make others miserable.

[@queendivareynolds9560]

Facts how you get em is how it's gone end

[@elainecongo3827]

WHAT KATT WILLIAMS SAY ABOUT A WOMAN WHO IS A SIDE CHICK AND THEN BECOMES THE WIFE...HE SAID YOU KNOW YOUR OLD POSITION IS NOW OPEN ....BASICALLY ALL HE GONNA DO IS GET ANOTHER SIDE CHICK...LOL

[@THEGREATME329]

Exactly. I missed making that point, when I asked “ what you think gon happen?” But that is the simple answer I was speaking of. Yes. He liked having something on the side. Thks , for listening.

[@My3Sunzs]

@@THEGREATME329B/c he is wounded & a coward. A coward is a man that awakens the love of a woman with no intentions on loving her.- Bob Marley

[@THEGREATME329]

@@My3Sunzs He said that in a song or interview? As much as I listen yo Bob, I missed tat part.

[@lovealwayz222]

REAL TALK…STRAIGHT 109!!

[@paulabarnett889]

The same way you got them is the same way you lose them

[@THEGREATME329]

That should be a law. Because it is so true.

[@lordshaliko]

Always know if he cheats with you. he will cheat on you...........................FACTS

[@My3Sunzs]

Pure Facts.🙏

[@DavidWilliams-pb6he]

Crazy this is that old school wisdom we used to get from the elders and the big mammas!

[@THEGREATME329]

@@DavidWilliams-pb6he Who do you think, I learned it from. I was their pet pea. Thks for listening,David Williams.

[@user-gc3xx1ul5g]

Being a wife is a huge responsibility, these girls are crazy to put themselves in that situation. The wife makesbit look easy, but it's not. Looking after a man is not a joke. As a wife, you've got to be more than just a lover. You've got to be a homemaker, a friend, a companion, a partner. It's a lot of work, a marriage.

[@THEGREATME329]

I totally agree. And there’s no written formula to deal with the mistakes and the pain that people can cause you. But like you say … it’s something that you have to put alot of work into. And know how to forgive, as well as give and take a little. Thks for listening.

[@My3Sunzs]

Communication, respect, consideration, compromise, loyalty, devotion, maturity, intelligence, discernment.🙏✨

[@322Mermaid]

I'm a wife and mother....lots of work. And lovemaking is not very important......with the children and our schedules sxx isn't top priority but we have it weekly. Being a homemaker and helping my husband and loving our children is the majority of what I do.

[@user-nu3zr2dc6r]

MARRIAGE IS A ALOT OF WORK AND YOU WILL DEFINITELY NEED THE HELP OF JESUS CHRIST 🌟 OUR SAVIOR. AMEN 💫 AMEN💫 THAT NO GOOD DEVIL👹 IS BREAKING UP MARRIAGES☝️ SO MARRY COUPLE👈.. LEAVE THOSE SIDE PIECES 😵‍💫 AT THE CURB.✅ A CHEATER AINT CHIT AND GET 👎 BYE 🤨

[@Prettylady2211]

It’s happened 2 me & I was blindsided bc he choose another woman over me & the kids. She worked a job with no benefits & didn’t have a house or credit. She was on drugs & alcohol 2. I had no choice but 2 wake up & let this man go bc I needed 2 heel & take care of me & my kids.

[@THEGREATME329]

Pretty lady, it just seems like the wicked are getting away with their mischief…. But scripture teaches us that ,” Every day a bucket a-go a well….one day the bottom a-go drop out.

[@marieprince3994]

Girl the same shit happened to me and I love it he did me a favor thank God we didn't get married I dodge a bullet it didn't last a month and doing bad now 😅

[@aprilchow-chee5281]

Mine didn't get away with anything he realized he dropped a diamond to pick up poop and home girl is suffering hard ​@THEGREATME329

[@mypeace101]

I hope that you and your children are happy and healthy!❤❤❤❤

[@leanwallerify]

Going thru it right now, sis. I can’t make sense of it at all. But God…

[@lcdesigns6145]

Too sad. If people would use that same time and energy to work on their marriages, what a wonderful place to be 😊

[@THEGREATME329]

Yeah, I totally agree 💯

[@SoBlessed2911]

Facts

[@respectfulwhatsup8117]

You got that right they always think the new one is better guess the new one just a different face or body after a few years may be 1 year things gonna start changing because we all have flaws and then they gonna break up I like 1 Corinthians 7:10,11 God permitted that both spouses can separate or divorce but they have to stay single or reconcile to each other because God knows get somebody else it just a repeat circle

[@marjawhite1842]

Thank you Sir. I totally concur. Thank God the universe is fair and justice will be served.

[@THEGREATME329]

@@marjawhite1842 You’re welcome. Thks, for listening.

[@alesiayoung2160]

What’s in the bottom of the well is going to come up in the bucket! That!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@THEGREATME329]

What you know about dat dirty South slang?!

[@tierajones8241]

I felt that 😂

[@THEGREATME329]

@@tierajones8241 Hello, tiera. Thks, for listening.

[@mypeace101]

I'm so glad I'm free from the drama! I only wish him the life he deserves. I have peace now, and it's priceless!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@THEGREATME329]

I wouldn’t give up the peace I have for no thang! No thang!🫵🏽

[@yolandajohnson8685]

stop bragging ❤ (just joking) I wish you the absolute best. enjoy your freedom and not having to answer to anyone.

[@THEGREATME329]

@@yolandajohnson8685 My wife name is Yolanda. We call her ‘ Landa’.So it’s yes, Mame to you😂

[@aquarius7540]

Same 🎉

[@gusmonster59]

Cheaters cheat and rarely stop cheating. If you are the side woman or man, you can have zero expectations of that person being monogamous with you. It's pretty simple - if you are not the priority, you need to leave.

[@THEGREATME329]

You said it all in a nutshell. I agree 100%. Thks for listening.

[@My3Sunzs]

Threes a crowd anyway. Period

[@My3Sunzs]

Same as what you do in the dark. Will come to the light.

[@SequoiaMoonSpeaks]

9 times out of 10 the wife leaves and they lie and tell the side chick that they left 🤣 but karma loses no address so know that what goes around truly does come back around 🤷🏾‍♀️ call Tyrone bcuz you’re blocked and deleted 😂

[@THEGREATME329]

Yeah, well the math in it really is that he didn’t leave his wife. She put his ass out. And now he’s yours.🫵🏽

[@sinceresong9907]

This 😂

[@sourpeach1977]

That part!!

[@evewoods21]

​@@THEGREATME329 I did with the police to WITNESS. Yet still there is pain, depression and so many tears.

[@THEGREATME329]

Oh, hell yeah it hurts when you love someone and you have to let go. But time heals all wounds. And it’s plenty mo people in the world for you to love if you don’t give up on love. Take yo time wit it. You’ll be just fine. The rain will come… but the dirt get tough.🙏🏿 Thks for listening.

[@noel6519]

He didn’t think I would divorce him. He ended up living with the side chick but refused to marry her and both are toxic. He just got out of jail for DV. SMH

[@THEGREATME329]

WOW! Yeah, they think it’s a game til they mess catch up with um.

[@scorpiocara6798]

Did he put hands on u too

[@aryaphoenix954]

They NEVER think we will leave…until we leave.

[@noel6519]

@@scorpiocara6798 no he didn’t because I have PTSD from watching DV and I wish a 🥷 would. But he thought of it and would say to me “I aint scared of you!” True narcissist

[@noel6519]

@@THEGREATME329 now he is 57 and starting over again, staying with his momma, with a DV case🤦🏽‍♀️🤡

[@shesuniqueinherownwaybenja7647]

As a women who dated a man for a long time and honestly thinking our relationship was going somewhere I learned that he was married. Honestly I didn’t care how much love I had for him learning he was married tore me up for months he tried to find ways to communicate with me and even tried to convince me he wants a divorce boy bye you don’t have to leave her for me because as I told him I could never trust you again just look how you did your WIFE what in the hell is waiting on me. So he’s right some women think their getting something special because he choose you yeah ok like he said watch how the universe will work it out for you

[@THEGREATME329]

She’s unique, I am so glad you posted this experience you had. Because, I know of a story exactly like yours. I was so amazed at my co- worker who was married and living with a woman… and he was engaged to another. I swear. It was the craziest thing I had ever come across. He had met her parents and all. Going to dinner with them… and would you believe he was married. I gotta do this story on my channel, but up until now I had forgotten about it. So Thks , you know in a way, but not to condone the treachery that was done to you. It was and is just dead wrong. But it is written , “that they are of their father and the lust of their father they will do” . Umma do a small clip on this. And I know that had to be painful, someone playing with your heart like that. Just remember this is an adulterous society… you can’t trust it .And your walk will be much easier to discern the bad apples from the good ones. Thks ,for listening .

[@shesuniqueinherownwaybenja7647]

@@THEGREATME329 absolutely 💯 and thanks for posting this. We live and we learn but one thing for sure 2 things for certain God is not sending NO WOMAN ANOTHER WOMANS HUSBAND. Some women think their winning because he choose them NEGATIVE it just gets worse🥴

[@THEGREATME329]

I just posted a video dedicated to your story.

[@shesuniqueinherownwaybenja7647]

@@THEGREATME329 ok thanks

[@My3Sunzs]

Amen 🙏

[@HaroonAmad]

If you mess with someone that's married you will be cursed. And if that someone messes with you knowing that they are married will be cursed. It's frowned upon by the most high. You are not supposed to disrespect your spouse. God does not like that.

[@THEGREATME329]

It’s a lot of people don’t know this universal law. It’s sacred ground.

[@lavender123u]

Unless they repent

[@THEGREATME329]

@@lavender123u No. You adding that to the pot. That’s not how that law is written. What he said is the law. Repent my ass. You can ask for forgiveness, but if you step on that sacred ground, lik he said. Read exactly what he said… you will be cursed. You will face a wrath. Now you can ask forgiveness after your act…. But you will first, get that ass whipped by the Universe.

[@tammycovington3288]

Smart man you are in my business… lol. My ex husband committed adultery and I told him you NEED to repent to God before it’s too late. He didn’t listen and the other chick I don’t know if they are even still together but when people see him after leaving me they say he looks so bad and when I see him he sure does. He broke up his family and children for some tail…smh. That grass ain’t green on the other side… it’s manure 😂😂leave them married folks alone. What goes around comes around…pow💥💯

[@glitznal]

This happened to me - but God!

[@THEGREATME329]

You don’t get away with the bullshit. You don’t!

[@tammycovington3288]

@@THEGREATME329 Facts💯👊

[@leanwallerify]

Girl! This will preach! It makes me feel better because I was angry and disappointed that God allowed this to happen, but I realize now that rejection really is Gods protection. I thought marriage was sacred but he didn’t honor it and his mistress didn’t either. She makes me sick. And so does he.

[@tammycovington3288]

@@leanwallerify Lol.. I know right🫡🫶👏👏💯❤️🙌

[@lucilledavis8161]

What You Put Out In The Universe, Is What You Get Back!!!😢 😂!!!

[@THEGREATME329]

Damn, I couldn’t have said it no better. In a nutshell.🫵🏽

[@chrishinson7081]

It's called reaping what you sow! That's the Word of God!

[@THEGREATME329]

@@chrishinson7081 Exaxctly. You reap what you see.

[@Redismycolor82]

You will reap what you sow, my kid's dad is down badly. and his family going through it too because they didn't like me and played favoritism with our kids and they were okay with him cheating

[@cindyoliver7065]

Hes going to do the same thing to her

[@THEGREATME329]

Exactly. GOD ask Jeremiah…” How you teach an old dog new tricks?” So what did she expect of him.

[@cindyoliver7065]

@@THEGREATME329 in her mind shes telling herself that hes not going to do that to her yes the hell he will just wait for it

[@THEGREATME329]

@@cindyoliver7065 😂😂😂 That’s his M.O. He likes side chicks.Thks, for listening.

[@Mllascelles1]

No one will or should be trusted. I've seen this happen once, and both of them happily cheat on each other. It's getting weirder outside... some people enjoy adultery.

[@THEGREATME329]

This World enjoys ‘ Forbidden fruits’. Those sexual things that GOD forbids Us to do…. this World loves.

[@jenniferhaynes8625]

At the end of the day we have to depend on ourselves and I'm a Christian,so also depend on God.Many people don't know what commitments is.

[@gia4822]

@@THEGREATME329🎯🎯🎯

[@THEGREATME329]

@@jenniferhaynes8625 You can say that again. They don’t. First, bump in the road and they ready to hit the door. Thanks, for listening.

[@THEGREATME329]

@@gia4822 Hello, gia4822. Thks, for listening.

[@leanwallerify]

I’m so glad as a man you are addressing this and shooting straight! And I would assume you’re from “the D”? My husband is out there having himself a jolly good time with his slide, and I’m devastated. I feel like it has all been a lie. She posting pictures of them and wearing his clothes on her social media. But he must have made her feel like she could. Where are the sneaky links that know their place? No humility at all. No respect. But he’s not giving me any so why should she, I guess that’s how she feels. And to be honest, I wanted to work thru it because he said that’s what he wanted but I realized it was just words because he is now living with her. And guess what? They’re both catching hell! I wish them well because all they do is f* and fight! She can have it! God has better for me. Way better.

[@THEGREATME329]

Mame, we get by with a lil wickedness for awhile. But we don’t get away with it. The Universe must be balanced and in order. That’s why we reap what we sew. Concentrate on your relationship with GOD…. You’ll have your reward. Trust me on this one.❤️

[@scorpiocara6798]

Shes doing it bcz she knows tour watching I'm sorry. ..but it's gonna b ok u don't want that

[@AyesheIsAlwaysLovely]

The man wants to be with her. He made his decision. Leave those people alone,move on with your life. Why are u lurking on that lady’s page?

[@THEGREATME329]

@@AyesheIsAlwaysLovely For one that’s her husband, which means that’s her business. The bigger question is” What business of it is yours?And why you got panties all caught in a jam about it?” Like they say” Say anything out yo’ mouth.. you’ll stick anything in it!

[@AyesheIsAlwaysLovely]

@@THEGREATME329 A) I don’t have my panties in a bunch. That would be u SIR. B)She’s the one telling her business on the internet. C) She’s cyber stalking them on the internet. They’re doing them, NOT thinking about her. They deserve to be with each other. IT IS TIME SHE FORGETS THEY EXIST, SO SHE CAN MOVE ON WITH HER LIFE. Her focus needs to be HEALING AND DOING HERSELF.

[@jessicatsao92]

Sir, you definitely made a solid point on how karma destroys the adulterer. Not only is this mentioned in the Bible, it was literally considered a curse to have multiple women despite polygyny being generally encouraged. The men who have this always suffer in the end, just like Solomon. Good luck becomes liability when a person cheats, because they literally do not know what it truly means to care for a single partner. Nor do those women who he fell in love with will ever truly love him back. Most likely, they pretend to love him, to get money.

[@jenniferhaynes8625]

You have to be very careful out here.You have to make sure that your telling yourself the truth of who your dealing with.

[@THEGREATME329]

I totally agree 💯. Thks for listening.

[@jenniferhaynes8625]

@@THEGREATME329 Your welcomed,I forwarded this commentary to my friends.

[@THEGREATME329]

@@jenniferhaynes8625 Thk, you.

[@direne6558]

23 years later he’s stilling catching hell. Me: I leveled up. Went back to college, great career, hair weight skin beautiful (stress gone) loss 200 dead weight pounds (him) 9:22 😂and happy life.

[@THEGREATME329]

You said it all in a nut shell.

[@SoBlessed2911]

🙌🏼

[@My3Sunzs]

🙏✨👏.☮️💐

[@bettsyoungest]

I was married for 24 years and discovered that my ex-husband had multiple mistresses and 2 or 3 children by them while we were still married! Only good thing about our divorce was when it happened our children were grown and out of the house. I was told during the divorce proceedings that he had been financially helping these mistresses for years and I never knew it! It took me a while, but I got over it and him. I also heard that one of his women that had his child is still waiting for him to marry her. We have been divorced for 4 years!!!!!!! Mercy

[@THEGREATME329]

Well, Bettsyoungest, I’ll tell you the truth. In my town ,this type of double life,hidden family secrets is our cup of tea. And it goes on from generation to generation. I know of a man that retired from my job some years back. Now, he was married 40 some thing years. When he retired he confess to his wife that he had a woman on the side for twenty something years. You know what gave him a heart attack. His wife told him she not worried bout that… she had a man on the side for 40ty something years. Sent him straight to the graveyard. So hey, that’s how we skin our fish in my hometown. Thks for listening.

[@nikkil8472]

I'm sure he's missing the wife cause now he 👀 that he messed up! These women who know the man is married discus me!

[@artishackett3248]

AND THESE MEN'S KNOW THEY'RE MARRIGED. 😢😢

[@lillybethford1915]

@@artishackett3248, you’re deflecting.😳

[@My3Sunzs]

Both parties are wounded & in darkness by the devil 👿 tricks.

[@krissit1874]

@@artishackett3248side chickens always say this ofc he knew but so did you but loneliness kept you on your back

[@LucindaSpeaksTV]

If he/she is attached in anyway SEND THEM ON !!!! DONT STOP 🛑!!! Don’t entertain that foolishness.

[@THEGREATME329]

Amen to that!

[@user-yr9lt7fv2x]

This situation happened to me (33years ago, my husband divorced me to be with the side woman he met at his job; my ex-husband is a 1984 Mechanical engineering graduate of; Southern University, I his wife was there through all the ups and downs of him trying to make it;; just like so many people say Karma has no deadline to knock at your door. I became a ADN/ Graduate through his adulterous affair. I'm getting ready to take him to court because he fraudulently obtained the divorce from me and I can obtain a percentage of his pension, that's Karma

[@THEGREATME329]

Shitttt! Give me… Me. I got to have that! I know older men on my job. And would you believe they will not retire because they don’t want their first wife to have nothing. I think they some rotten asses. Just rotten. Thks for listening.

[@scorpiocara6798]

Nice

[@scorpiocara6798]

​@@THEGREATME329how would they get anything if they r divorced?

[@THEGREATME329]

@@scorpiocara6798 The wife is still vested if she had put in 10 years with him, and has not remarried. Thks, for listening.

[@My3Sunzs]

@@THEGREATME329These home wreckers prefer married men or women to invest in material items. SMH

[@harriettubman6641]

Let them go so that you can do better at that point everything is broken anyway.

[@THEGREATME329]

You got me there. “Everything is broken anyway.” I like that. It’s true.Thks for listening.

[@harriettubman6641]

Thank you.

[@Asmith1010]

God is the sun, the waters, the air, the fire, the earth, the universe. You might get by but you cant escape 😂😂

[@serenedione]

She thought she was something until he did her exactly the way he did me, now she smiles and waves at me.🤦🏽‍♀️

[@THEGREATME329]

Yeah, we’ll it ain no fun, when the rabbit got the gun. Hope she learned her damn lesson., Leave married people alone.Thks for listening, serenedione.

[@TamaraGarrettAlpha]

Oh hell naw. Smh

[@275MsParis]

What did the side chicks think 🤔 he wasn’t gonna cheat on them when you were with him he was cheating on his wife, now he’s cheating on you. They getting just what they deserve. You gained a new subbie here. What’s done in the dark will always come to the light, trust and believe that

[@THEGREATME329]

That’s right. You can’t hide fire under a bushel of hey. Thks for listening.

[@275MsParis]

@@THEGREATME329 I know that’s right

[@THEGREATME329]

@@275MsParis Hello, 275MsParis. Thks, for listening.

[@darlenewilson3188]

Who ever is cheat ing Dump the person because it will not work keep moving do what's right and do things God way

[@THEGREATME329]

That’s right. “ GODS way works out in the end. Thks for listening.

[@makebacunningham602]

Happened to me and he made my life hell trying to justify his actions.

[@THEGREATME329]

What you talkin bout! Been there done that. Crazy!

[@susiejones336]

Yes my husband put me through hell. I wish I had left him years ago, me trying to be a good Christian wife with values . He didn’t care all his friends knew what kind a man was. His side piece died a few months before he did. They both went into bad health that lasted several years. My husband reaped what he sowed, he lived with pain up until his death. Me, I am good.🌻

[@scorpiocara6798]

​@@susiejones336wow what were they sick with

[@susiejones336]

@@scorpiocara6798 the side chick has some kinda cancer and my husband had bone marrow, bad kidneys and low oxygen levels. He was in pain constantly

[@scorpiocara6798]

@@susiejones336 dannggg. I hope yall didn't have kids together Had he stayed with u u could've have taken care of him through his pain...she can't do nothin for him lol, she sick herself

[@Beencouraged777]

So glad I’m single 😊

[@THEGREATME329]

But are you really. Think about it!🫵🏽

[@user-uv1vx9xi4d]

If More people put Jesus Christ first in their lives married life would work marriage is a covenant not a contract sign Cynthia Smith

[@THEGREATME329]

Yeah, it’s a spiritual covenant , true. But you are given a marriage license , also. Thks for listening.

[@Cjax504]

One thing I’ve learned is no matter the situation the woman will always get the blame 😵‍💫

[@THEGREATME329]

I never really heard that. But If she’s the one in relations with a married man than she is committing adultery. She’s in the wrong.Thks for listening.

[@Cjax504]

@@THEGREATME329 You’ve heard it it because most men don’t think that women are held accountable they/y’all don’t want to hear it. If a woman is rpd then they ask what did she have or advise what she could’ve done, if she gets pregnant they say she should ab or get been on birth control although we all know how babies are made, even though men know most guys aren’t crap she will get blamed for not choosing right ( knowing that most men can’t name 5 really good men). I can go on and on

[@sherwood9917]

Yes. Notice that he directs the message towards the woman, not to the man who is violating the vows he took with another woman.

[@keithingram8690]

@@THEGREATME329😊 thank you for opening the doors to this person that only believes BS. We know and see now the reason she is the way that she is because she’s blaming men ..for all of her problems…. What so crazy is she wants other women in the comment section to read this shit and make it seem as if it’s OK to do …well it is not.

[@keithingram8690]

@@Cjax504 hey, I don’t know where you went wrong with all men, but you may need to correct yourself you made the decision to mess with any one man that you were with. The same way he played games you played those same silly ass games the same way he was…. Do you notice you were just as happy when you were with him and then all of a sudden it all went bad. It went bad on both parties end.… if you’re not going to hold yourself accountable for some of it, then please move out of the way you are totally in the weight of what other people are doing no matter what it is but it’s not the means fault that you didn’t choose correctly blame yourself. Please give me a room look in the mirror very clearly and blame yourself.

[@sharonjohnson3929]

Side chick is living THAT life

[@THEGREATME329]

You think. My daughter’ s neighbor mess with a married man. He’s a big time hustler in our time. Flys her back and forth to Vegas all the time. Thing is he was using the casinos to wash his dirty money. They bust him for selling drugs. One of the Million dollar boys. You know what that niggah did to that girl. He told the folks all that shit was hers. She in prison right now. For living THAT life. Left two daughters with her brother. And he done stroked out from all the drama. Yeah… that life!🫵🏽

[@My3Sunzs]

@@THEGREATME329Karma showed NO mercy. Thank you 🙏 for sharing.🙏

[@TamaraGarrettAlpha]

​@@THEGREATME329thank you. They will definitely put it on you. It can be years down the road. 💯

[@nicolemunford5422]

You can't expect the man/ woman to love you faithfully when adultery is happening because if it happening with you, wait until it's your turn to marry him. His actions will never stop. The same way we'll go with the woman. Never get involved yourself with a married man/ woman.

[@THEGREATME329]

The Bible says, that you are not even to touch a married person. Not only can you not sleep with them…. You are not to so much as touch them.

[@jenniferhaynes8625]

Amen

[@lovealwayz222]

Thanks for keeping it short, sweet, raw and a bonafide 100…PERCENT…accurate!!!

[@THEGREATME329]

Your welcome. Thks, for listening.

[@victorious.1]

Never miss a married man. I know a man that brought a condo a never told his wife. But she found out. She could smell his lies.😢😮

[@pamking5711]

Whew! You're hard to look at becuase you look so much like my ex but I like what you're saying so keep talking. Yep! he cheated and I divorced him. I refused to be reduced to his non-sense. It's sad when a person is unable to recognize a reall catch. His loss may be another man's gain.

[@THEGREATME329]

You made me blush. I love a woman’s compliments.But Pam, we are in the age of Aquarius. It’s the age of woman. Do you! I promise you . I promise you that you now have the upper hand.🫵🏽

[@franciswashington6118]

Just what happened with me and my husband I caught him cheating with his coworker we are now separated waiting on the divorce and he is currently living with the girlfriend

[@THEGREATME329]

Damn. Um sorry to hear that, but don’t think that he gets to go be happy with her and run off into the sunset.Oh, hell no! It don’t work like that.Remember I said, he may get by for awhile, but he damn sure won’t get away with that. He broke y’all vows. Eccl 5:5 Just be watchful as well as pray. He got a visit comin … he just don’t know it.From the Universe. Tossin and turnin and gnashing of teeth. Just make sure you get on your knees and ask GOD for forgiveness for breaking his vow, because you couldn’t keep it. He’ll take care the rest. Peace.

[@Goldenlife0527]

I just read your post and this is my life at this very moment ( I can’t wait to give my soon to be ex husband his last name back, because I don’t ever want to be associated with toxic again) Thank You JESUS I am free🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@kingmaafa120]

Sadly There will be consequences and when he least expects it 👍

[@scorpiocara6798]

Damn she done moved him in

[@THEGREATME329]

@@Goldenlife0527 A little late getting back to you, but it sounds to me that you have actually already healed and moved on. What great strength. Thks, for listening.

[@KierraJayy]

Omg!! You have got me cracking up🤣🤣 I don’t wish bad on no one, but he/her will reap what they have sewn. Not my problem anymore. I just hope he don’t whoop her ass like he did me. The dude has potential & just throwing it away.

[@THEGREATME329]

Um going to do a video on putting your hands on females. Check it out. Umma throw down on that one🫵🏽

[@leanwallerify]

He beating her down best believe. It’s not just you he lost his mind with.

[@scorpiocara6798]

Damn

[@scorpiocara6798]

Ur a sweet girl....find someone that can appreciate that and matches you

[@tj82kj]

This has happened to me... I want to say thank you to the better woman. I don't have to worry about my health or wealth anymore. When he tried to reach out, I granted her justice by blocking him. Thank you for restoring my happiness & and peace. In knowing he was never the husband God had for me .I lost myself for a while❤

[@THEGREATME329]

Yeah, it works out like that a lot of times. People do you a big favor, little do they know. Cause lord knows, ain’t nothing like a piece of mind. Thks, for listening.

[@marieprince3994]

You will be ok maybe it's for the best!!

[@THEGREATME329]

I agree.

[@lisaaustin4181]

That's why I do not mess with married men

[@THEGREATME329]

That’s wise of you, because marriages are sacred ground. We all suppose to honor marriages. Go dipping yo lil spoon in dat pot if you wanna. It’s gon be hell to pay. Thks for listening.

[@rosiesakyi2877]

I just found your channel. You are so true.

[@THEGREATME329]

Hello, Rosie. Thks for listening.

[@HaroonAmad]

The Almighty God left 10 very simple instructions for us to follow. Number #7 and #10 go hand and hand. Living in sin will bring you curses. Adulterers and people that Covet bring curses into their life. When they do it they open up the gates of Hell in the eyes of the Most High. Don't break God's commandments.

[@THEGREATME329]

You simply can’t break his laws. You can’t!🫵🏽

[@My3Sunzs]

We must repent. B/c we sinned against GOD. I got it. 🙏✨

[@zandreaturner6007]

I just ran across your channel and I love it speak brother speak.

[@THEGREATME329]

Thk you, very much Zander’s. And I will do as you as you say🫵🏽

[@My3Sunzs]

Year of exposure GOD is speaking through him.🙏✨

[@JFL1991]

Imagine not even knowing he was married

[@THEGREATME329]

Imagine when you first find out….. that he is!!! Imagine your heart rate and pressure that very moment.That shit like entering… the twilight zone. You wouldn’t for a second think that anything is real. You would be in shock.Thks for listening!🌹

[@yolanda5756]

🎯FACTS!! 💯my sister was a side chic & married that clown. She didn't know he was married at 1st. That man was with his wife 20 years and got kids! Small town we found out his wife divorced him after finding out about my sister who was not his 1st side chic! That man still wants his wife! He married my sister because he was broke. He already cheated on my sis numerous times & she is too embarrassed to divorce him because we all told her not to marry him. And you're right, he is putting her through HELL!! Karma is one thing but vengeance is the Lord's. I hope she gets out of that marriage before it's too late.

[@THEGREATME329]

Hello, Yolanda. I would like to say that I’m very protective of my sisters. He better be glad I wasn’t your brother. I have actually went to my baby sister house , knocked on the door and made her boyfriend pack his shit and took him to his grandparents house. When I found out bout his foolishness. Um not going to allow mine to be a victim of no one’s. You can’t. Anything could happen to them when ensnared in foolishness. Thks, for listening.

[@wecome2slay224]

I asked my husband a question I said why do men cheat if the end goal is all the same to bust a ***** he told me because men don’t cheat with emotion he said a man can have several women but only truly love one which as women we don’t understand because we connect loyalty to love

[@nikkil6908]

@wecome2slay224 Did your husband say what men connect love to? Since it’s not loyalty?

[@andreareid6901]

But lots of women cheat to without emotion not just men

[@THEGREATME329]

It’s a good question, of course. But the bigger question for me is, “ Why don’t people realize the consequences of their cheating?!

[@keithingram8690]

@@THEGREATME329 I’ll answer that question like this…., Depending on who you are and what you like sometimes or better yet a whole lot of times the other person inside of you wants some excitement and not with the one that you’re with... all of us like a little something extra it’s just sometimes we all we all go too far we getting extra... we don’t think about the other persons feelings because the only thing we’re thinking about is the feeling that we are going to get THATS men and women… cheating can be fun, fuuuin hot, nasty, and more fun.. intriguing secretive and just flat out nastyass hot adulterated fun…… but then, when the feelings get involved, and the truth comes out, people start to remember where they fucked up, and they hate to admit it.. men and women

[@JK-wp4nl]

That's funny that men say that, because those same men would lose it if their women cheated on them. They don't connect loyalty to love, but they're unaliving women left and right for trying to leave the relationship...

[@debratownsend5495]

This happened to me as well, and he thought the grass was greener on the other side, but to his avail, it wasn't, he tried to come back, and i was Never having that 😔 bc i kept my pride and dignity. Good Riddance 😅 What goes around comes around bc he sure found out the hard way after leaving me for his drug attic girlfriend, and yes he was really catching He@#$ . 😅😅😅😅😅

[@THEGREATME329]

Their conscience always makes them try to come back. But I learned ” if a dog bite you once… he’ll bite yo ass again.”

[@scorpiocara6798]

He's a crackhead too

[@HeiressEurheinessHighley]

God is a man that he should not lie, His word will not return until him void... Guess that only applies to christians.... Meanwhile people think they really getting away with hurting whom he loved first, and destroying generations...

[@THEGREATME329]

You don’t get away. You know what a lot of people think. The doctors label their sickness as Cancer, but it’s not Cancer a lot of times. It’s their conscience eating at their ass for the rotten shit they have done in life. I really do believe this.

[@HeiressEurheinessHighley]

​@@THEGREATME329At what point did it become OK and even funny to some, to forget moral/ spiritual law, and think that NOT treating people the way you wanted to be treated was cool... It's truly beyond sad... These evil folks running around tricking and hurting everyone they come into contact with... Incapable of Love.

[@BridgetMouton]

I had to tell my old boyfriend's mother this, when she was dating a married man. SMH!

[@THEGREATME329]

Ain’t that something. When the young have to counsel the old. Damn shame. But that’s the World we living in now. It’s more confused and mixed up than a bag of skittles.Thks, for listening.

[@michaeljones3604]

You must of read my mind or we know some of the same ppl lmao.. This happens more than we know! The worst part about it is if you say something, then they turn on you, call you a hater! But that's none of my business.. Carry On. ✌🏼🙏🏼💯

[@My3Sunzs]

Three is a crowd. Period

[@THEGREATME329]

Short ,sweet , and to the point.👍

[@TheresaHossain-rt4xl]

We said what the fuck did you think would happen he destroyed ar marriage of 18 years kids and the dog 😢😢😢😢 sending you peace and happiness

[@THEGREATME329]

WOW! That had to hurt. I was divorced after 14 years. It was devastating. Thks for listening.

[@EvelynJenkins-uo4zi]

Marriage relationships are not like they use to be some will loose every thing just to get out there and then when what they left for do tnem dirty they want to come back bye

[@THEGREATME329]

What you saying is true. Their conscience, the Universe,comes and eats at their soul. And they come back begging for another chance.But Evelyn, how do you teach an old dog new tricks? A saying that’s much older than you and I.

[@EvelynJenkins-uo4zi]

Just give it to God karma hurts more and no stress on you and worries

[@THEGREATME329]

@@EvelynJenkins-uo4zi I totally agree.

[@DavidWilliams-pb6he]

As the good word says, you shall reap what you sow! Best believe no one gets away with nothing!

[@THEGREATME329]

You wrapped everything I’ve been saying on my channel in a couple of sentences. Thks, for listening, David Williams.

[@Whodatt746]

Haunted house 😂😂😂

[@THEGREATME329]

Thks for listening, Whodatt.

[@DrStephanieMillerWilliams]

Women give away too much damn power! Know you’re worth!

[@THEGREATME329]

Yes, integrity and honor hold their on ground. Thks, for listening ,Doctor.And Thks for chiming in. It’s an honor to be on the same page with a doctor. So Thks.

[@kimpossible5939]

Preach brotha!

[@THEGREATME329]

Fasho! Shittt, my tongue ain scared of nothing but GOD, hot grits, and my momma! Thks, for listening.

[@arenetheeducator]

He is telling the truth! I can't even get rid of the dude. He pretending it's the house he makes 3 times more money than I make and wants me to give him equity I bowl but watch what karma does because I know the secret. Jokes on them!

[@user-gc3xx1ul5g]

Being a wife isn't easy. It's crazy that these left what they were familiar with for something their not completely sure of. I always believed that it's pointless to get a married man to leave his wife. I always believed that the routine comfort that a wife can give a man is unmatched by any other women . People puzzle me, when they do things that don't make any sense.

[@belfanm5081]

So pretty much, stay single!

[@THEGREATME329]

Stop it. Because,I did not say that.we are commanded to be fruitful and multiply🫵🏽

[@YachicaKochinsky0330]

Ain’t no fun when the rabbit got the Gun🤷🏾‍♀️ it was all fun and games when u was doing it to me😂

[@THEGREATME329]

Hey, you stole that from me. One of my favorite sayings.😂

[@YachicaKochinsky0330]

@@THEGREATME329 😂😂😂

[@meshelldean3405]

Facts!!!

[@Godscreationlove]

❤❤❤❤ thank you 🙏

[@THEGREATME329]

You’re welcome. Thks, for watching.

[@MZANN365]

Point is -- some of these wives didn’t get the man the right way anyways Don’t let these wives fool you with these sob stories Some of these wives started off as the side chick & got up graded to the wife - then get mad 😡 when the man turn right around on them & cheats on them Remember 😮 ladies if you willing to cheat with them they will cheat back on you So, get with a man that has no attachments that is single - single & has values & morales most importantly is a MAN OF GOD

[@THEGREATME329]

You tell um, MZANN365. Thks for listening

[@user-wr5om3pk4r]

Facts just went thru it.

[@Pamela-uk2yh]

It can hurt and it does hurt for a while; it is the lying,the breaking of trust ,the deception and it seems never ending.I would never wish this on anyone; a never ending " bad dream"..and when children are involved it is even worse.I can only say that the old adage " time will heal" is or can be true...I pray for anyone going through this..and as a wise person said to me once ... "Your husband is giving away a lot for a cheap piece of poosay!

[@THEGREATME329]

Yeah, Pamela. It is a pain that only GOD and time can cure. A spiritual death that hurts the soul, and there’s nobody you can run to …to heal. Thks, for listening.

[@Sandra-jo1lj]

Man, to be totally honest, did me a huge favor. Thanks, Luvs, but that was a do not return to sender package. It was never the what, but how 🤔 he will forever be that little boy he claimed to be to me now 🤷‍♀️

[@THEGREATME329]

Hello, Sandra. I hear you loud and clear. A lot of relationships to me, are put in our lives for us to learn a lesson. And to prepare us for that person we are to have a serious and lasting relationship with. Sounds like ,to me you learned how it ain’t suppose to go. I think we all have at least one of those kinds in our life.Thks for listening.

[@Sandra-jo1lj]

@@THEGREATME329 🤝

[@queenettajones5510]

Sometimes its better to stay single. There is no love in relationships at all. I am trying to get over a 6 year relationship myself. My ex-fiancee dumped me because i suffered with depression.😢

[@THEGREATME329]

Yeah, I think that’s true but that is not the natural state of two opposite sexes. Yet, some people can’t live with themselves , less more someone else.The songwriter says you can’t hurry love. After my divorce, I felt like that. I was single living in a 400,000 house. I was at peace. Didn’t care about dating, but wife I have now she kept trying and trying til I came out of my shell. We have been together now for 17 years and doing fine. I wish you well, and Thk you for listening. One last thing. If someone leaves me when I’m going thru something or down, they can cancel Christmas bout ever coming back into my life when I get back up. Have a good one.,

[@kirstenjavery9647]

Say that shx 💥💥💥

[@The1ubeenmissing]

I don’t like cheaters just go your separate ways ✌️

[@THEGREATME329]

Hello, The1ubernmissing. Yeah, I think that’s what’s best most of the time. Definitely, in this case. A baby and all.Thks, for listening.

[@evelynwhite2238]

If folks let GOD bring them together in the first place instead of money, businesses, children, superficial expectations etc…maybe the marriage would stand a chance. Let’s not act like people are getting married because of Love. GOD is Love. Start at the root of the problem. GOD ordained marriages, have GOD right in the center of them.

[@THEGREATME329]

Well, we are instructed when marrying someone….. to know them from your youth. And if you think about that, it makes sense. A lot of the challenges of mating would never be there. Thanks, for listening.

[@ArtByLynn7070]

Good stuff❤❤

[@THEGREATME329]

Thanks 💯. Appreciate you listening.

[@cherylosbourne2203]

You thought he left her because your stuff is better than hers, naw baby, it all runs north to south, p is p !

[@THEGREATME329]

Now, that’s good. You made me laugh on that one. Thks for listening.

[@renettaperkins1923]

Amen Amen 🙏🏽

[@THEGREATME329]

Yes, 🙏🏿

[@My3Sunzs]

Greetings ladies & gentlemen. Mental illness is real in our culture. If we don’t seek professional & spiritual help. We will continue this cycle of hurt people will hurt people. What is a man to gain the world & then loose our soul. King David stated to GOD I sinned against you. When he killed Basheba husband & had a child with a married woman. When we break Gods law we must suffer the consequences. I been there. I seek peace & freedom to move around freely. I said what I said.🙏✨

[@THEGREATME329]

Such great wisdom. Need I say more.

[@franciswashington6118]

Thank you and I will ask God for forgiveness because I have yet to do that.

[@THEGREATME329]

It’s very important that you do. I speak of laws that few know itch about. Forgive yourself. Then ask the Universe for forgiveness. They’ll send you such a gift…that you want even remember the past or the hurt. Trust me on that. God bless you. Peace!

[@VictoriumDea]

Caption : well, idk about this caption.... people have dynamics that are different from others. They both knew what they were doing.. its why there was a fight over my soul. 😢 its also why i never do side chick vibes. I like the sound of your voice, it's calming.

[@THEGREATME329]

I think I understand what you are saying, but um not sure. But Thks, for listening. And Thks for the compliment. No one ever told me that. It’s a pleasant thought. I wish you well.

[@user-sz6xt2ok2r]

This is the first time I watch your video and you were just confirming what my intuition was telling, you are my hero, the rest of human kind are idiots for not confirming it to me 😂❤😘✌️

[@THEGREATME329]

WOW! I have had some great compliments in life. Won many MVP’s and top student awards, but on this channel you have gave me my greatest compliment to this point. And I most humbly… thank you. GOD bless you, and thanks for listening.❤️❤️❤️

[@bluejade1212]

His bread was buttered with his first wife 😂

[@THEGREATME329]

Yeah, and what I didn’t say is…. He is going back to that bread.

[@lcottrell3]

That was a good place to leave it.

[@THEGREATME329]

Hello, lcottrell3. Yeah, I thank so , too.Thks for listening.

[@kaypeaess6266]

Preach!

[@THEGREATME329]

Hello, Kaypeaess6266. Thks, for listening.

[@lashawnfoster8846]

'HALLELUJAH, 'ALLELUIA, 'GLORY, 'GLORY, 'HALLELUJAH, 'THANK 'YOU 'SO 'MUCH 'OUR 'HEAVENLY 'DIVINITY 'KINGDOM 'FATHER '"GOD 😭😭😭😭😭🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹 'SIR, 'IN 'JESUS 'ALMIGHTY 'NAME, 'AMEN, 'AMEN, 'AMEN ‼️ 🙌🏽 🙏🏽 💖

[@THEGREATME329]

Glory Hallelujah, is one of my favorite praises.🫵🏽

[@billie-ocean8286]

Well his as wouldn’t be the only one getting some chicken

[@THEGREATME329]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 you is crazy. Made me spit my damn beer out! But I got a video coming on dat. He cheating and think you just sitting at home watchin tv. Shit don’t work like dat🫵🏽

[@bessiebanks9408]

Very true

[@THEGREATME329]

Hello, bessiebanks9408.Thks, for listening.

[@user-je4sg3kp9o]

So true

[@THEGREATME329]

Thks for listening.

[@peacefulself7848]

True!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Say this again and again and again but say it louder so the side chick can understand!

[@THEGREATME329]

You made me laugh.😂😂😂Thks, for listening.

[@ButterflySoul7]

💯💯💯

[@THEGREATME329]

Hello, ButterflySoul7. Thks, for listening.

[@sscott504]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@THEGREATME329]

👏👏👏👏👏🏌️‍♂️Thks for listening.

[@feleciamiddlebrooks4577]

It’s crazy people think like that I thought like that as a teenager. what you doing to her you do worse to me. Amen my brother let him know wisdom and knowledge.

[@THEGREATME329]

It’s sad we sometimes have to learn the hard way, Felicia.Time is money. You can lose a whole decade of your life, learning bout the bullshit. If you not careful. Thks, for listening .

[@dividedwefall652]

That's what my exhusband did during our marriage he had many side chicks/&boyfriends! : / no respect for our vows whatsoever!

[@THEGREATME329]

Hello, dividedwefall652. Some people come in our lives to teach us lessons and make us better people. You sound like that better person. Thks, for listening.

[@marionhenning3540]

The Haunted House😂😂😂😂😂

[@THEGREATME329]

That shit just came out. I don’t know.😂Thks for listening.

[@THEGREATME329]

That shit just came out me like that.😂Thks for listening.

[@VIB369]

Facts must divorce right way so agree….

[@THEGREATME329]

Wait a minute. I didn’t mean it like that. Thks, for listening.

[@victorious611]

Once the side chick becomes the wife the fun is over. Now he’s going to find someone to cheat on her with. The side chick becomes the miserable wife.

[@THEGREATME329]

Bingo! That’s exactly what um saying. That’s his M.O….Having some on the side. Thks for listening.

[@Beautifullysaid]

😂😂😂

[@THEGREATME329]

😂😂😂 Thks for listening.

[@user-tj8gc4ii7b]

Yes, Martel Holt, from love and marriage, Huntsville reality show, on ownTV; he blew his whole successful marriage over a thot!!! It's straight tragic because Melody was and still his a true definition of black excellence!

[@THEGREATME329]

Well, he made his bed … he gotta sleep in it. Or toss n turn in it! Thks, for listening.