Divorce? Regret moving to the US? (honest Q&A)

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Hello KZbin fam! We hope you all are doing well. We sat down and filmed an honest question and answer for you since it's been almost 2 years since our last one and so many things have happened. We hope you could learn more about us and see that there is a lot of things happening behind the camera. Our lives aren't perfect but we are learning and growing together. Thank you for being here with us, it means so much! Love y'all. Also, there are extra questions over on our Patreon channel: patreon.com/stepsof2foreigners

[@RBS_]

***HONESTLY, YOU GUYS!!*** (7:04) .....this must have been a tough piece for you Two, to do! ...being honest about your union, and what it looks like behind the scenes, is a BRAVE thing for you to reveal....SO.....can I 'reveal' some things that I see!??? (cont.) ....I feel...at times....Sir Adam relies TOO much on therapy, instead of navigating through his past issues himself, and being fine with the 'end result'; he mentions therapy at least 15 times in this post, and I hope that he'll realize that LIFE is dealing with the past, and being FINE with it, as *IS* ....Bernardo, has the RIGHT idea about Therapy....MY opinion... ....BUT, it IS your lives to lead, and I respect what you give us, to "see"....and it looks lovely, EITHER way! ....keep growing, LOVING, & makin' those memories....we'll be WATCHIN'.... : )

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

You make a valid point and thank you for sharing your perspective. It's important to remember that everyone's journey with therapy and personal growth is unique. While I do talk about therapy often, it's because it has been a crucial part of my journey in dealing with complex issues, some of which I haven't even shared on our channel. Therapy is not about relying on it excessively, but about finding tools to navigate life more effectively and healthily. Bernardo and I might have different approaches, but that's the beauty of individual paths to healing. I appreciate your opinion and hope our content continues to offer diverse perspectives on dealing with life's challenges.@@RBS_ It's hard talking about therapy on here because the viewer does not have the full picture of what exactly I discovered after our wedding - there were 2 quite big discoveries where 'conversion therapy' wasn't one. It sucks because I want to share it with you because it also explains the need of wanting to be in control, intimacy, etc. I’m sure some people can connect the dots but I know that it’s not the right time to share with KZbin but be aware that you don't have all the pieces of the puzzle yet but eventually I will share my story because it will be a big piece of my healing.

[@RBS_]

@@Stepsof2Foreigners.... 🥰...😘....

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

@@RBS_I edited the message so you might be able to connect some dots. I talked with this with this with Dr. Solomon that it feels like I’m withholding a big secret and I hate that feeling but I truly have to process it all, heal and then share my story. I have no idea as a viewer how it all comes off.

[@RBS_]

@@Stepsof2Foreigners ....and, I DID....😉 ....

[@TheJrbla]

So glad you guys are still together - Not Divorced - and still making videos. Wishing you all the best.

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Thanks for the good wishes! We're happy to have you with us on this journey. Best wishes to you too!

[@giannishen]

So happy to watch my idols again! Thanks a lot for sharing! Happy every day! 👍🥰🙏

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Thank you so much, @giannishen! Your kind words and support mean the world to us. We're happy to share our journey with you and are grateful for your enthusiasm and positive vibes you send out way. Here's to many more adventures and happy days ahead!

[@giannishen]

@@Stepsof2Foreigners It is my honor, thanks a lot for your kind words, you are very nice! Take good care of each other! 👍🥰🙌

[@valleylaker]

I have been married to my partner for 10 years and together as a couple for 32. It is wonderful for me to see couples like yourselves doing what I was told was impossible when I was young in Ohio and coming to terms with my sexual orientation. Seeing you guys always brings a smile to my face because you are real and living your lives with integrity. You inspire me. Thanks!

[@peggyesquibel8353]

Love this! Marriage/partnership is a lifelong evolution. I have been married for a long time and am still finding myself and finding my voice. Marriage/partnership comes with a lot of “baggage” on both sides and it’s how you find your way through all the shit that makes or breaks the relationship. You two seem to have found a way that works for you in dealing with the “shit” and it has been wonderful to watch you evolve as a couple and as individuals. Your honesty, genuineness and love is palpable! Take care! Much love and big hugs to you and of course Henry!🥰

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Peggy, your comment truly resonates with us. The journey of marriage and partnership is indeed an ongoing evolution, filled with discoveries and challenges. Like you, we are continually finding our voices and navigating the complexities together and it can be a little complicated with social media. It's comforting to hear from someone who has experienced the long road of marriage and still finds new aspects of themselves. Your acknowledgment of our journey and the growth we've shared as a couple and as individuals means a lot to us. We appreciate your kind words about our honesty and genuineness. Big hugs back to you, and much love from us and Henry! 🥰

[@deltonabf]

Thank you for taking us with you on your journeys. It’s easy to like you both. I wish you much success in your future and look forward to hearing about it! ❤️❤️

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

We're so happy to have you along for the ride! Your support and well-wishes are greatly appreciated. Here's to many more adventures together!

[@pvr1970]

I was born in Guatemala. I go back there yearly. I’m so happy you got to experience it. I love you guys. Your content is wonderful and heartfelt. Hugs to both of you and Henry. 🇬🇹

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Wow, @pvr1970, that's amazing! Guatemala holds a special place in our hearts (as you saw), and it's wonderful to hear you have such a deep connection with it too. Thank you for your love and support, and hugs right back to you and your family! 🇬🇹

[@catiagoncalves2590]

In my opinion you both are the few couples that i follow on social media that speaks about topics genuinely like about terapy, marriage. There is not such thing called perfection. That's boring and quickly put us on high standards impossible to achieve and happiness. Btw you should visit Portugal, i'm portuguese i live also there. But also madeira and Azores (islands). I think the nature view it will blow your mind. It's so peaceful and such a beautiful places on the islands. All the best to you ❤

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Cátia, thank you for your thoughtful words. We always want authenticity in our discussions. And Portugal, including Madeira and Azores, sounds absolutely magical. Definitely on our must-visit list! It's been on Bernardo's list for such a long time.

[@galev3955]

Hearing your stories always warms my heart. I wish you both happiness and fulfillment.

[@jasonramirez2304]

I love you guys, I started watching your channel during pandemic 2020, at that time I had been in a 14 year relationship and after seeing the love you both share, I came to the realization that my current situation was just a friendship more than a love and I longed for more and a connection like you both have. I ended my relationship on my 41st birthday that year and 2 weeks later, started talking to a friend I had met when I was 19 and had recently been released from prison after 13 years. After 1 year of courtship and 1 year of engagement we had the honor of marrying the love of my life this past October '23. I appreciate you both for being so open and honest and will always hold a special place in my heart for you both, cheers to loving and living life guys!

[@newmanestandre838]

You guys are wholesome! It's been a while, life has been crazy, but you guys are both still showing that which kept me coming back to your videos and is the fact that you keep proving to growing humans, a growing couple and making memories is still one of your best parts in this channel

[@scottpella7021]

I don't post very often but, this Q & A video was spot on for me in helping me understand about the growth in relationships are not always easy. I'm in an age gap relationship and our challenges are so similar to you two. I have loved your videos since day one. Keep up the good work you two beautiful people. Always be true to yourself and that will reflect deeply on your partner as well.

[@frostiesarah2315]

Thank you for answering these honestly, keep on learning and growing together but most importantly keep talking to each other! Much love sent as always Adam & Bernardo ❤❤❤

[@jimjefftube]

Good to see you guys putting in the work necessary to maintain a good relationship. Relationships are not easy, but when you’re with the right person well worth it. Always enjoy your channel!

[@kcali_058]

Great seeing you both again, along with your fur-baby, Henry. Wanted to thank you for continuing to share your story, your lives with us. Wishing you all the best and hoping you stay true two each other. Take Care. Much love from Cali!!

[@HossMan48]

You two are made for each other. Two very different loving men moving through life together. Blessings and Joyfilled, Happy Holidays to y'all.

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Thanks a ton, @HossMan48! Your words are so encouraging. We feel incredibly lucky to have each other and supporters like you. Wishing you joy and happiness during the Holidays and always!

[@pasinpuzzles]

I've watched your videos since the early days. It was a long journey. So happy to see you're still together and wish you the best.

[@leonardbrooks6719]

Hi - Enjoyed the session. Each one of these provide some more pieces to build the mural of just who you both are. Look forward to the next one! Have a great holiday season and new year as well. Regards, Skip

[@Loner_Traveller]

You guys really gave a good relationship vibe to me. Stay strong and stay together. Also the way Harry sleep on your lap tells so much you guys will be a good parents ❤❤❤🎉

[@jacksonjohnson]

yeahh, Fellow Travellers is such a great series. Love it.

[@timothykandel169]

This was a "Wow" video! Your honesty touched me deeply and increased my love for you!❤❤❤

[@TommyIvors]

Like so many other supporters here, this video renews the confidence we have that your marriage will survive the next round of challenges that evolves because you have sought out the help and counseling that was so necessary for the personal growth required to work through the most difficult of situations that threaten so many marriages. You mentioned taking a time out now then returning to logically discuss what brought about the misunderstanding or argument works perfectly the way you spoke about it. Your candid honesty about your imperfections couldn't be any more perfect, actual calm solutions seem to be a big part of your lives now. Things couldn't be any more amazing than we see them now. Thank you. And Bernardo, I heartily agree about your hoping to visit Portugal, working for the airlines I visited that lovely country many times, some friends have even moved there. ✈ 🎄

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Thank you, @user-yj7pe3pm7x, for such a thoughtful comment and it was nice seeing you in the Zoom chat. We're glad to hear that our experiences and the way we handle challenges resonate with you. Sharing our journey, including the ups and downs, is important to us, and we appreciate your recognition of our efforts to grow and learn together. Also, we're definitely looking forward to visiting Portugal - it sounds like an amazing place! That has been at the top of Bernardo's list for quite some time now.

[@gro2709]

I really look forward to viewing your videos. My husband and I were together for 30 years but, alas, he passed on last year. Watching your videos reminds me of our decades together. But I think you two are more grounded and honest with yourselves. I also realized that our struggles were not unique and our solutions are just like yours. BTW: I'm so glad that Adam cut his hair. You're a very handsome man but your long hair detracted from your natural looks. And Bernardo, don't change your hair. You're a very handsome man, too, and the way you look in the vids adds to your masculine good looks. And Henry - keep experimenting with your boots - you'll appreciate them in the future. Thanks for the wonderful videos you've produced together and apart. Keep up the great work!

[@glennforest5996]

Thank you for being so honest. Really sets y’all apart from others on KZbin. We can identify with you.

[@steverdms]

I don't get to check in with you guys often but I can see such a difference in how you guys relate to each other. I am so incredibly inspired by how you share your story, worts and all, and how hard you work to stay together. That is how lasting relationship endure. Thank you for putting that out there. It is inspiring, sets a great example, and gives a more real world view of how relationships really are outside the pretensive social media world.

[@Dem232]

You guys are so human, so authentic. It's such a beautiful thing to see. I continue to wish you nothing but the best, as you continue exploring the journey of life and love together. 💙

[@michaelosborne6931]

I recently travelled from UK to Portland for Rose City Comic Con. I kept wondering why Portland seemed so familiar until I saw your video’s. I would have loved to have met you. You have both been very inspirational in ways you cannot comprehend. Thank you for sharing your journey.

[@Js2Jo]

Adam and Bernardo, I love your Q&A video about moving back here to America, I don't want you, guys to get a divorced, I know you're both love each other so much!!

[@bowenvicek3504]

Thanks for answering my quiz..you deserve the best keep on making memories..

[@ryangoyette3570]

Happy Holidays guys! I’ve been a long time follower. I see parts of myself and parts of your marriage resonate with mine to my husband. We love traveling, long weekends at Airbnbs, coffee, and the tough things too. Love you guys.

[@webeto5902]

Thank you for sharing these moments with us and giving us a tool to improve our lives as well. Lots of love from Croatia.

[@dunnmatt1]

What a nice Q&A. I love how open you are to sharing your lives with us. You guys are an example of true love. It works because of communication, communication, communication and wanting the best for each other and your life together. Thanks for giving us a glimpse into your lives and for inspiring your viewers.

[@sergelefevre6412]

un grand bonjour de France ......

[@JeremyMYG]

Sincerely appreciate the deep and honest conversation. Wherever life takes you next, I hope it is fruitful and enjoyable!

[@harrietcarr307]

* Hey, guys! It’s 4 days after you posted this and this is the second time I have watched this great video! The first time, I focused my attention on the questions and your answers. This time, I found myself marveling over the many old clips that illustrated your answers as you were explaining them. The time it must have taken you to find all those shots and clips! Just mind blowing! I’m sure it was fun, but frustrating at the same time. For instance, remembering an occasion or occurrence, but not being able to recall what video it was in! I’m sure that lots of looking back to find examples to use brought up many great memories. I really enjoyed this time you spent with us answering some tough questions. Love and big hugs to you both, and to Henry , of course!!🤗🤗❤️❤️ Harriet

[@kevincollins53]

Great video A & B. I love the way it started with the speed round, and then you went into questions with longer answers and went from lighter stuff to more personal. Thank you for your honesty. Love you guys very much. 💙💙

[@manbtm1]

Good video guys, I think one of your better ones, you seem to be pretty frank and honest with each other, which shows enormous progress in any relationship, that’s not easy to do let alone do it on camera. Sounds like you even found out about a few things you didn’t even have a clue about with each other, so overall, this was a good experience, keep up the good work and best wishes.

[@michaeljunak]

I really appreciate the honesty you are both giving us. It is very hard to share the inner most feelings and thoughts to many people. I too have done therapy and I can tell you if I did not, I may not have been here now. My hope is that you continue to love each other and support each other, and keep working toward the ultimate nirvana in your relationship, unconditional love. I love you two. Peace and light

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Hey @kcali_058! Thanks so much for your lovely comment. It's always nice to share our lives with friends like you, and we're glad Henry gets to be a part of it too! We truly appreciate your good wishes and support. Staying true to each other is our promise, and we're grateful to have people like you watching our videos - it means a lot to us. Sending lots of love back to Cali!

[@ebboy5]

Thanks for sharing your journey with us. Much continued love and happiness for you both in 2024!

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Happy New Year! We appreciate your kind words and support. Wishing you a fantastic 2024 as well! 🎉

[@NathanDrake81]

Been folllowing you guys on YT for years and you are kinda my relationship goals. Even through all the difficulties and everything you both have been going through, you keep staying strong, you look happy together, you look like you are true friends, true lovers. There is commitment to each other and to a life plan together. I love that. Still dealing with a more or less recent break-up and you guys give me hope. And, as a fan from Portugal, happy to hear Bernardo wants to come to Portugal. Hope you both come one day! Beijos e abraços para os 2.

[@nedraenglish6362]

A heck of a journey so far with a lot of self learning and of each other. Continued blessings to you both and blessings for your future. ❤

[@peterdolman6281]

Adam and Bernardo you are inspirational, thank you so much for being so open and honest about your life together and the challenges. Any relationship is difficult as 2 individuals come together and mould their lives. My partner and I had been together for 10 years and were engaged for 6 of those years we were planning to be married towards the end of 2024, sadly my partner passed away in June 2023 totally unexpectedly. He would constantly talk about making memories so now I have so many memories to keep me going. I see so much of ourselves in you two, I stumbled on your channel only a couple of days ago, and I am hooked. I wish you all the love in the world . Take care and continue to make memories ❤️

[@bradcolby3624]

Love this video. Henry slept through part of it. He is so relaxed and comfortable with you both. My husband and I traveled all over the globe but have always lived in S Florida. Your journey is amazing to me. Keep those memories coming ❤

[@tstieber]

Personally, I love Q+A videos on KZbin bc it's a fun way to quickly learn a lot of things about complete strangers that would normally take a lot of time. You guys seem more and more comfortable being yourselves around each other and your viewers, and that authenticity is nice to see. Also love seeing more of your humor poking through on this video -- my husband and I find humor very disarming and keep each other in stitches at least part of every day. It relaxes us, it bonds us, and it reminds us that we would probably be banned on KZbin for most of the things we say so we will never put up a channel haha 😂

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Welcome back! Thanks so much for your kind words, @tstieber! We're really glad to hear you enjoy our Q+A videos. It's been a journey for us to open up and share more of our true selves with the audience, and hearing that it resonates with you means a lot. Humor is definitely a big part of our relationship too - it keeps things light and makes the tough times a bit easier (when we understand each other haha). We totally get the power of humor in bonding with your partner! It sounds like you and your husband have a wonderful dynamic. Keep laughing and enjoying each other's company. Maybe one day you'll surprise us with your own channel - we're sure it would be a hit! 😄

[@tstieber]

@@Stepsof2Foreigners well I would potentially be open to doing a channel bc I love the creativity and video editing, but my husband doesn't really love the idea of being public like that, so I'm fine just enjoying each other behind the scenes. (Even though he's the coolest, sweetest, funniest guy, and the world is missing out on knowing him) :-) Looking forward to your next video!

[@MaxDolphin84]

Someone once said that for every problem there is a solution, the only problem is to find or discover the correct solution... ❤

[@mikekelly1151]

** Great questions and wonderful answers. This was a trip down memory lane for us as well as both of you. You both have come so far in the last 6 years and it really shows. The addition of Henry to the family seems to have changed the dynamic between the two of you for the better. Henry just loves to cuddle with both of you. Thanks for being so vulnerable in answering these thought-provoking questions. Keep up the good work on yourselves. Love all three of you so much you will never know how much. **

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Mike, thank you so much for your thoughtful words and it was great seeing you in the Zoom chat yesterday. It's amazing to reflect on how far we've come in the past six years, and it's heartwarming to know that you've been part of this journey with us. Henry's addition to our family has indeed brought a new and wonderful dynamic to our lives. His love and cuddles are something we cherish every day. We're grateful for your appreciation of our vulnerability and for recognizing the work we put into growing as individuals and as a couple. Your love and support mean the world to us. Sending lots of love back to you from all three of us! 🐾❤️

[@FranklinMable]

vocês definitivamente são uma inspiração de relacionamento e digo isso abarcando todos os processos inclusivos de uma relação. Acompanho desde o começo e sou muito grato por tudo, vocês mudaram minha percepção sobre relacionamentos, parceira, amor, realidade afetiva. Vocês são demais!

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Muito obrigado! Seu apoio e suas palavras significam muito para nós. Abraços!

[@markdeguara988]

Love watching ur videos im from Brisbane Queensland Australia 🇦🇺 I get so excited when ur videos come through

[@miguelseals3258]

This was a very touching and moving video, learned so much from both of us. Stay positive and all the best for the up coming holidays love as always.

[@hhernandez1984]

thank u for being real and showing us happiness is not with out a sacrifice, and a sacrifice is not with out a reward❤

[@steevjaems1807]

Thank you for sharing more insights into the two of you. Always inspirational hearing your stories. Warm hugs to you both 🤗

[@mariacristinacruz9730]

Yo realmente los amo, y para mi son una pareja digna de admirar, el matrimonio no es perfecto, tiene sus altibajos pero mientras haya amor, comprensión y tolerancia todo se puede solucionar, creo en el verdadero amor por ustedes, los amo

[@sammychin5235]

Nice to see you two again. I was going thru your Q&A and how the "abandonment" came into play in my own personal life. How I wish now, thinking back, my father would say sorry for the hurtful things he said when I was just 12 years old. I am 60 now and still replayed that part of that day. I have since grown to control my destiny now. - XOX

[@CDNBeerman]

Love you guys, your honesty, and sharing of your lives together. This is how a relationship should be.

[@bobrown2901]

Thanks for sharing your lives with us. Love you both so much. ❤️

[@ricktomlinson5481]

This is an amazing testament to commitment to marriage, each other, out greater culture and shows that love between two people can and should be supported by all of our community regardless of any other values as we all live in the same pot. . . the melting pot! and the U.S. is one of the best places to let our light shine. Sadly our country needs therapy for no one wants to meet in the middle ground anymore. Your testimony is an important one as you reach out in this sharing of your truth on the internet! Peace! 🥰❤

[@deegeef]

Some very good insights from Bernardo in this one. Well done.

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Bernardo says thanks! We're glad you found value in his insights. It's all about growing and learning together but he is always wonderful with words.

[@thomasmead6898]

Thanks so much for sharing, relationships can be rewarding and challenging and always will be. I was like Adam and afraid of being abandoned, but even if you fear it, it can still happen. My husband walked out after 21 years and we are in the process of getting a divorce. The couple can choose t keep working at it or not.

[@naylas3908]

I feel for you. Big hug from Belgium.

[@PabloIboy002]

I am a big fan of you guys and I was born and raised in Guatemala, hearing you guys talk about my country it’s just makes me happy and proud 😊.

[@nicktorrez146]

Y’all are so amazing. I appreciate the honesty. It is therapeutic connecting to your videos and understanding that these emotions people feel during a relationship are normal. Sending love to you both. ❤

[@tazmanbkr]

Adam and Bernardo, thanks for sharing your honest responses to all the questions! You have graciously let us into your world and shown us both the good and bad of a relationship. And I personally think what you have shown us works for not only gay relationships, but straight ones as well. I love watching your vlogs and wish only the very best for both of you. Happy Holidays and I look forward to your next post. 🌈👍❤🧡💛💚💙💜🏳‍🌈

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Thank you so much, @tazmanbkr! Your message is truly appreciated. We're glad to hear that our experiences resonate with you. It's our hope that sharing our story can help others, regardless of the type of relationship. Happy Holidays to you too, and we can't wait to share more!

[@michaelmorrissey5880]

You guys are such an inspiration to so many people around the world

[@EdwardGarrenMFT]

Great questions !! Powerful and excellent answers. Yes, the evolution is very obvious, and you're both mauring in harmony which is the central element in happy and healthy living. !!! And having a dog is another layer underestanding. Non-verbal understanding specifically, dogs are so great.. Love you guys, you're the best.

[@richgaspariz9050]

wishing you both the BEST

[@alcloud4265]

The word divorce in the title of today’s video disturbed me. After watching, I’m glad that you’re solid! Love you guys!

[@JoeyCalico-ne2ei]

You guys are connected forever for all eternity....one day we'll all meet soon

[@kennethrich6875]

Much love and support ❤❤

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Kenneth, your support means the world to us. Much love right back at you! ❤️

[@dsallenger0314]

Hey guys, thanks for the Q&A. May you both be safe, secure and happy in all you do in life. As always, love you a bunch... Henry too. ❤❤❤ tc&ttyl, David

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

David, your kind wishes are truly appreciated. We aim to stay safe, secure, and happy, and we wish the same for you. Henry sends his love too! ❤️

[@country_zone6b]

WE LOVE YOU 3!!!!

[@robertcrundwell2782]

You both are so together! This is Bob are used to live in Leesburg. Running about 30° here in Mansfield enjoy watching your videos. Take care and have a good holiday, guys.

[@Gor800]

Outstanding post, guys. Thank you for being so honest about your life. 😊

[@abidsalim6183]

Thank you Aaron and Bernardo !!

[@vickieakins4806]

I'm so happy you are hanging in there with each other. ❤

[@reginaceliabraga2295]

Ohh que lindos! Obrigada vcs por fazer parte da minha vida, amo vcs também ❤

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Obrigado, Regina! Seu apoio significa muito para nós. Continuaremos compartilhando nossa jornada com todo amor. Abraços! ❤️

[@ReasonQuest]

You guys are so inspiring! Thank you for sharing everything you've shared with us. Your commitment to each other, and your willingness to work things through, in your own lives, and with each other-it's so good to see. It's so encouraging. I wish you both some amazing happy holidays, and a fantastic 2024!

[@pfh777]

You both seem like incredibly nice people - very kind, thoughtful, and considerate. I appreciate the adult conversation you have most. I’m not sure I directly relate though to the issues you discuss - we have kids and our focus is so much on them. To focus so much on us feels like an unattainable priority until the kids are older.

[@hankymore60]

That touched me so much. My ex and I went through that twice with 2 golden retrievers, the second one being only 2 years old, and the first one 7 like Henry. Notice that is my name in French, I am French Canadian from Ottawa, Canada. I am now 73 and never had your type of relationships but I am always cheering for you. Much love from Canada!

[@joaoximenes937]

One point that really touched me in this video is the fact that troughout our relationships that we establish in our lifes, we may totally admit our strenght and our weaknesses. I do know how hard it is for us to admit to ourselves that we really need help to keep going. I have been doing therapy for more than 1 year, and one thing I have recently realized is that all of us need therapy. Not only the gay community to help each other to face sexist societies and admit who we really are and also the other people that do not accept the way we exist in this world. Your arguments motivate people in the world do the same, which is something extremely important to empower our identites and lifestyles. And, as you had mentioned before, the importante of therapy to find ourselves whenever we need.

[@balazsszabolcs4]

Adam&Barnardo, you are real role models for me! You are smart, emotional and so supportive to each other. I wish to find somebody like you some time. ❤

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Thank you so much for your kind words, @balazsszabolcs4! Your support means the world to us. We're humbled to be considered role models. Remember, the right person comes along when you least expect it. Keep believing in love! ❤

[@balazsszabolcs4]

@@Stepsof2ForeignersThanks for answering so quickly, however, you shouldn't be humble. If everyone lived such a great life together as you do, the world would be better. Of course, I look at the bright side of life, I'm pretty satisfied with my life and I've had a 11- years long monogamous relationship, so I know what is it like, nevertheless it is, what I really miss, but I'm so happy for you both! love, Szabolcs

[@balazsszabolcs4]

@@Stepsof2Foreigners dear Adam& Bernardo, what kind of fireplace do you have at home on the chest of drawers? It looks so cozy. Does it have artificial flames?

[@texanrob]

Very Glad to see you back, but take care of yourselves! You do far more good than you know! Bless you both!😇

[@TräningMats]

You are looking so good together and in a good chemestry.. in good ore bad moments. So nice to able to follow your journey. .. my insperation❣️

[@denisecraps5650]

Wow this was some deep question & answers & you both were very truthful & honest about everything & having the drain get clogged on Thanksgiving was terrible.

[@christianfrias3473]

Creo que todos necesitamos un Bernardo en nuestras vidas, un ser de luz tan inteligente y con una paz increíble para llevar adelante una relación compleja ojalá volvieran a Brasil por ahí ese lado alegre es lo que tanto necesitan para sus vidas

[@andrewwakldnz]

Thanks guys 🙏. Been following you almost from the beginning. Love being kept up to date with your journey, and in such authentic style. Stay well. And stay warm! xo from New Zealand

[@tonysoto8040]

Keep living , Loving and sharing

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Absolutely, Tony! Living, loving, and sharing - that's our mantra. Thanks for being a part of our journey.

[@dugald56]

Dogs rock - even when they’re annoying! I’m glad to see your furniture, like the couch, that accommodates Henry so well! Learning to live together, and accommodating and accepting your differences, is a lifetime’s work. I’ve been married for 44 years and we’re still working on it. I expect it to last until one of us dies. But it’s so worth it, as long as there are no irreconcilable differences, obviously.

[@tomobrien9483]

Love the questions and answers. Thanks for sharing. Love ya guy ❤

[@ByTheLake-w7v]

i was here when u guys was 100k subs and i´m still here in a half million.... love u guys so. and i hp to find a love like yours

[@amyk3020]

I adore your personalities and you two compliment each other soooo well. Thank you for entertaining me this afternoon....Not sure how I found you both but you are amazing and love baby boy. You are all such a great family. Thanks

[@joanacristinaferdinandocav4882]

Oi meus lindosss, todo casal tem momentos difíceis mas com o amor e carinho que vcs tem um pelo outro tudo vai dando certo, entregando tudo pra Deus tbm Amo vcs ❤❤

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Oi Joana! Verdade, todo relacionamento tem seus desafios, mas o amor sempre nos guia. Agradecemos muito seu carinho e apoio. ❤️❤️

[@dougmartyn2732]

So glad I found your blog. You're both adorable!

[@mohammadtahazubair5332]

Close to divorce already broke my heart 💔 please don’t 😢

[@dennisscott-k4x]

Great video. Thanks for sharing ❤

[@reezalaqofficial8843]

Hey MohammadTaha, you wanna be Adam and I'll be Bernado and we do better than them ? 😅

[@blissfulsoul2933]

​@@reezalaqofficial8843I'm reaďy😅

[@nickmiller5744]

Watch the whole video

[@InternationalBrit]

I agree entirely. They are so happy and devoted to each other’s.❤❤❤

[@NorCalCubsFan]

Been a subscriber since the Brazil days. Please work hard to stay together. True love is so rare. 🥰❤️🙏🏼🫶🏼👍🏽🙏🏾

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Hey @NorCalCubsFan, thanks for being with us since our Brazil days! Your message truly means a lot. We're committed to growing together and sharing our journey with you. True love is indeed rare, and we're grateful for it every day. 🥰❤

[@NorCalCubsFan]

It’s been awesome watching your adventures over these years! You are beautiful people inside and out. 🎉❤😍😻

[@michaelthompson3157]

I remember living alone in my home and having the family coming to my home on Thanksgiving day and the drain clogged that morning and flooded out my kitchen and I was in a panic and was lucky enough that my next door neighbor had a friend who was a professional plumber for years who came to my rescue immediately and I was able to have Thanksgiving even though it was delayed a couple hours. It turned out to be a wonderful and unforgettable Thanksgiving , and sadly my dad became ill the following year and died. Thank you for an enjoyable video and sharing your life experiences with us. God bless you both and your new doggie! 🙏

[@wmoses29]

Wow Michael. I am so glad to hear that your plumbing issue was resolved and that you were able to have Thanksgiving at your place after all. What a blessings and kudos for great neighbors. Also sad to hear that your Dad passed away. But the good news is that he forever lives in your heart. Blessings....

[@chrisfinlay3274]

That was such an honest video and very interesting ,having watched you both from the first couple of videos.

[@lizzyemmay6407]

You guys should be happy together as always make us happy to see you guys together❤❤❤❤❤

[@InternationalBrit]

You are two guys from two different countries and cultures. You are bound to have a different point of view. Of course you will argue, but you both are mature enough to understand the other guy’s perspective. Chill, A&B❤❤❤❤❤!

[@wtrskr59]

HOLIDAY GREETINGS from Mountain View CA, I hope your family w/ (Henry) is a holiday season with Calmness, Warmth, and Peacefulness.

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Season's greetings to you in Mountain View, CA! Wishing you a serene and joyous holiday season. Thank you for the warm wishes!

[@10GOLDENWOOD20]

"Lately it's occurred to me, what a long strange trip it's been." You both rock!

[@BradHoover-m1i]

I'm reminded that relationships are work. I'm 20 years out of a 10 year relationship, and there are things about myself and partner I'm just now understanding. I also had a problem losing myself in the relationship. At 65 I know that, even by myself, I am enough. I've developed a very comfortable relationship with myself.

[@sangeethpalakkaparambil]

Dearest A+B... Lots of love from INDIA...❤🎉🇮🇳