Divorce? Regret moving to the US? (honest Q&A)

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Hello KZbin fam! We hope you all are doing well. We sat down and filmed an honest question and answer for you since it's been almost 2 years since our last one and so many things have happened. We hope you could learn more about us and see that there is a lot of things happening behind the camera. Our lives aren't perfect but we are learning and growing together. Thank you for being here with us, it means so much! Love y'all. Also, there are extra questions over on our Patreon channel: patreon.com/stepsof2foreigners

[@RBS_]

***HONESTLY, YOU GUYS!!*** (7:04) .....this must have been a tough piece for you Two, to do! ...being honest about your union, and what it looks like behind the scenes, is a BRAVE thing for you to reveal....SO.....can I 'reveal' some things that I see!??? (cont.) ....I feel...at times....Sir Adam relies TOO much on therapy, instead of navigating through his past issues himself, and being fine with the 'end result'; he mentions therapy at least 15 times in this post, and I hope that he'll realize that LIFE is dealing with the past, and being FINE with it, as *IS* ....Bernardo, has the RIGHT idea about Therapy....MY opinion... ....BUT, it IS your lives to lead, and I respect what you give us, to "see"....and it looks lovely, EITHER way! ....keep growing, LOVING, & makin' those memories....we'll be WATCHIN'.... : )

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

You make a valid point and thank you for sharing your perspective. It's important to remember that everyone's journey with therapy and personal growth is unique. While I do talk about therapy often, it's because it has been a crucial part of my journey in dealing with complex issues, some of which I haven't even shared on our channel. Therapy is not about relying on it excessively, but about finding tools to navigate life more effectively and healthily. Bernardo and I might have different approaches, but that's the beauty of individual paths to healing. I appreciate your opinion and hope our content continues to offer diverse perspectives on dealing with life's challenges.@@RBS_ It's hard talking about therapy on here because the viewer does not have the full picture of what exactly I discovered after our wedding - there were 2 quite big discoveries where 'conversion therapy' wasn't one. It sucks because I want to share it with you because it also explains the need of wanting to be in control, intimacy, etc. I’m sure some people can connect the dots but I know that it’s not the right time to share with KZbin but be aware that you don't have all the pieces of the puzzle yet but eventually I will share my story because it will be a big piece of my healing.

[@RBS_]

@@Stepsof2Foreigners.... 🥰...😘....

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

@@RBS_I edited the message so you might be able to connect some dots. I talked with this with this with Dr. Solomon that it feels like I’m withholding a big secret and I hate that feeling but I truly have to process it all, heal and then share my story. I have no idea as a viewer how it all comes off.

[@RBS_]

@@Stepsof2Foreigners ....and, I DID....😉 ....

[@giannishen]

So happy to watch my idols again! Thanks a lot for sharing! Happy every day! 👍🥰🙏

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Thank you so much, @giannishen! Your kind words and support mean the world to us. We're happy to share our journey with you and are grateful for your enthusiasm and positive vibes you send out way. Here's to many more adventures and happy days ahead!

[@giannishen]

@@Stepsof2Foreigners It is my honor, thanks a lot for your kind words, you are very nice! Take good care of each other! 👍🥰🙌

[@catiagoncalves2590]

In my opinion you both are the few couples that i follow on social media that speaks about topics genuinely like about terapy, marriage. There is not such thing called perfection. That's boring and quickly put us on high standards impossible to achieve and happiness. Btw you should visit Portugal, i'm portuguese i live also there. But also madeira and Azores (islands). I think the nature view it will blow your mind. It's so peaceful and such a beautiful places on the islands. All the best to you ❤

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Cátia, thank you for your thoughtful words. We always want authenticity in our discussions. And Portugal, including Madeira and Azores, sounds absolutely magical. Definitely on our must-visit list! It's been on Bernardo's list for such a long time.

[@peggyesquibel8353]

Love this! Marriage/partnership is a lifelong evolution. I have been married for a long time and am still finding myself and finding my voice. Marriage/partnership comes with a lot of “baggage” on both sides and it’s how you find your way through all the shit that makes or breaks the relationship. You two seem to have found a way that works for you in dealing with the “shit” and it has been wonderful to watch you evolve as a couple and as individuals. Your honesty, genuineness and love is palpable! Take care! Much love and big hugs to you and of course Henry!🥰

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Peggy, your comment truly resonates with us. The journey of marriage and partnership is indeed an ongoing evolution, filled with discoveries and challenges. Like you, we are continually finding our voices and navigating the complexities together and it can be a little complicated with social media. It's comforting to hear from someone who has experienced the long road of marriage and still finds new aspects of themselves. Your acknowledgment of our journey and the growth we've shared as a couple and as individuals means a lot to us. We appreciate your kind words about our honesty and genuineness. Big hugs back to you, and much love from us and Henry! 🥰

[@TheJrbla]

So glad you guys are still together - Not Divorced - and still making videos. Wishing you all the best.

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Thanks for the good wishes! We're happy to have you with us on this journey. Best wishes to you too!

[@deltonabf]

Thank you for taking us with you on your journeys. It’s easy to like you both. I wish you much success in your future and look forward to hearing about it! ❤️❤️

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

We're so happy to have you along for the ride! Your support and well-wishes are greatly appreciated. Here's to many more adventures together!

[@InternationalBrit]

You are two guys from two different countries and cultures. You are bound to have a different point of view. Of course you will argue, but you both are mature enough to understand the other guy’s perspective. Chill, A&B❤❤❤❤❤!

[@valleylaker]

I have been married to my partner for 10 years and together as a couple for 32. It is wonderful for me to see couples like yourselves doing what I was told was impossible when I was young in Ohio and coming to terms with my sexual orientation. Seeing you guys always brings a smile to my face because you are real and living your lives with integrity. You inspire me. Thanks!

[@markdeguara988]

Love watching ur videos im from Brisbane Queensland Australia 🇦🇺 I get so excited when ur videos come through

[@bramvlogs5237]

i have been your subscriber for a very long time now. i wish i could hear anything from you. My name is Bryan

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Hello Bryan, it's great to hear from you! We're thrilled to have such a long-time subscriber like you. Thank you.

[@frostiesarah2315]

Thank you for answering these honestly, keep on learning and growing together but most importantly keep talking to each other! Much love sent as always Adam & Bernardo ❤❤❤

[@webeto5902]

Thank you for sharing these moments with us and giving us a tool to improve our lives as well. Lots of love from Croatia.

[@galev3955]

Hearing your stories always warms my heart. I wish you both happiness and fulfillment.

[@mariacristinacruz9730]

Yo realmente los amo, y para mi son una pareja digna de admirar, el matrimonio no es perfecto, tiene sus altibajos pero mientras haya amor, comprensión y tolerancia todo se puede solucionar, creo en el verdadero amor por ustedes, los amo

[@harrietcarr307]

* Hey, guys! It’s 4 days after you posted this and this is the second time I have watched this great video! The first time, I focused my attention on the questions and your answers. This time, I found myself marveling over the many old clips that illustrated your answers as you were explaining them. The time it must have taken you to find all those shots and clips! Just mind blowing! I’m sure it was fun, but frustrating at the same time. For instance, remembering an occasion or occurrence, but not being able to recall what video it was in! I’m sure that lots of looking back to find examples to use brought up many great memories. I really enjoyed this time you spent with us answering some tough questions. Love and big hugs to you both, and to Henry , of course!!🤗🤗❤️❤️ Harriet

[@gro2709]

I really look forward to viewing your videos. My husband and I were together for 30 years but, alas, he passed on last year. Watching your videos reminds me of our decades together. But I think you two are more grounded and honest with yourselves. I also realized that our struggles were not unique and our solutions are just like yours. BTW: I'm so glad that Adam cut his hair. You're a very handsome man but your long hair detracted from your natural looks. And Bernardo, don't change your hair. You're a very handsome man, too, and the way you look in the vids adds to your masculine good looks. And Henry - keep experimenting with your boots - you'll appreciate them in the future. Thanks for the wonderful videos you've produced together and apart. Keep up the great work!

[@duanjisomar]

Thats the thing with gays in the US vs. Gays here in asia. In the US everything is instant. Including divorce. So when you feel bored with your partner(like when youre bored with your pet dog) you file divorce. Here in asia, we easily fall in love, and then slowly even falling deeper for the person because we see ourselves growing old with that person. Asians arent "gala"/ "ligalig" as we filipinos call it. (adventurous/thrill-seeker) thats why we dont get bored with our partners. Its opposite here in asia. Only few Asian people kind of like that sight seeings and travel. In the end of the day, they were the ones who usually commit suicide and have mental breakdowns coz they exhaust themselves and their bank accounts in all the thrills and luxury in life. A couple here in the Philippines became obsessed in travels, and luxury, they scammed lots of filipinos, a total of 5 million pesos or $100,000+ now they went to japan and thought about the scandal they made.

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Thank you for sharing your perspective, @duanjisomar. It's fascinating to see how cultural contexts can shape our approaches to relationships and life choices. While it's true that in some parts of the world, including the US, there can be a tendency towards 'instant' solutions, it's important to remember that every relationship and individual is unique, regardless of their cultural background. In our journey, we've learned that patience, understanding, and deep commitment are essential in nurturing a lasting bond, similar to what you describe in Asian cultures. Your insights on the pitfalls of excess, whether in travel, luxury, or any other aspect of life, are thought-provoking and a reminder of the importance of balance and mindfulness in all that we do. Thank you again for your thoughtful comment and for being here with us..

[@duanjisomar]

@@Stepsof2Foreigners my dad is greek-turke (with strange russian roots). And my mom is filipino portuguese. When my dad passed away, were sad to moved here in the Philippines, tried to seek mom's relatives. At first it was strange for me, coz i grew up to foreign customs and culture.(we often move from place to place because of his work). From greece to turkey to russia and ukraine and back. Its warm and welcoming here in the Philippines, and a little weird(in a good way) coz they always smile and treat you kind. Until i saw that hunk, buboy. At first i thought he was going to mug me. Then i learn hes nice. And hes a top. So yeah...we broke up coz he was gonna get married to a woman he doesnt love. It was an arranged marriage. But he was my first dick, and my first love. Nways, i hope you guys hold on to your promises and never let go. Theres a reason you guys met eachother, the first time you meet eachother, the first time you guys realize that you love eachother. Your first sex, and how it felt good. And your first fight. Hugs and kisses to both of you🤗💕🏳️‍🌈

[@timothykandel169]

This was a "Wow" video! Your honesty touched me deeply and increased my love for you!❤❤❤

[@mikekelly1151]

** Great questions and wonderful answers. This was a trip down memory lane for us as well as both of you. You both have come so far in the last 6 years and it really shows. The addition of Henry to the family seems to have changed the dynamic between the two of you for the better. Henry just loves to cuddle with both of you. Thanks for being so vulnerable in answering these thought-provoking questions. Keep up the good work on yourselves. Love all three of you so much you will never know how much. **

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Mike, thank you so much for your thoughtful words and it was great seeing you in the Zoom chat yesterday. It's amazing to reflect on how far we've come in the past six years, and it's heartwarming to know that you've been part of this journey with us. Henry's addition to our family has indeed brought a new and wonderful dynamic to our lives. His love and cuddles are something we cherish every day. We're grateful for your appreciation of our vulnerability and for recognizing the work we put into growing as individuals and as a couple. Your love and support mean the world to us. Sending lots of love back to you from all three of us! 🐾❤️

[@tazmanbkr]

Adam and Bernardo, thanks for sharing your honest responses to all the questions! You have graciously let us into your world and shown us both the good and bad of a relationship. And I personally think what you have shown us works for not only gay relationships, but straight ones as well. I love watching your vlogs and wish only the very best for both of you. Happy Holidays and I look forward to your next post. 🌈👍❤🧡💛💚💙💜🏳‍🌈

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Thank you so much, @tazmanbkr! Your message is truly appreciated. We're glad to hear that our experiences resonate with you. It's our hope that sharing our story can help others, regardless of the type of relationship. Happy Holidays to you too, and we can't wait to share more!

[@jasonramirez2304]

I love you guys, I started watching your channel during pandemic 2020, at that time I had been in a 14 year relationship and after seeing the love you both share, I came to the realization that my current situation was just a friendship more than a love and I longed for more and a connection like you both have. I ended my relationship on my 41st birthday that year and 2 weeks later, started talking to a friend I had met when I was 19 and had recently been released from prison after 13 years. After 1 year of courtship and 1 year of engagement we had the honor of marrying the love of my life this past October '23. I appreciate you both for being so open and honest and will always hold a special place in my heart for you both, cheers to loving and living life guys!

[@scottpella7021]

I don't post very often but, this Q & A video was spot on for me in helping me understand about the growth in relationships are not always easy. I'm in an age gap relationship and our challenges are so similar to you two. I have loved your videos since day one. Keep up the good work you two beautiful people. Always be true to yourself and that will reflect deeply on your partner as well.

[@Loner_Traveller]

You guys really gave a good relationship vibe to me. Stay strong and stay together. Also the way Harry sleep on your lap tells so much you guys will be a good parents ❤❤❤🎉

[@leroy2784]

I think I can relate to Bernardo jokes. I like them dark, dirty and sarcastic. 😂

[@reginaceliabraga2295]

Ohh que lindos! Obrigada vcs por fazer parte da minha vida, amo vcs também ❤

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Obrigado, Regina! Seu apoio significa muito para nós. Continuaremos compartilhando nossa jornada com todo amor. Abraços! ❤️

[@TommyIvors]

Like so many other supporters here, this video renews the confidence we have that your marriage will survive the next round of challenges that evolves because you have sought out the help and counseling that was so necessary for the personal growth required to work through the most difficult of situations that threaten so many marriages. You mentioned taking a time out now then returning to logically discuss what brought about the misunderstanding or argument works perfectly the way you spoke about it. Your candid honesty about your imperfections couldn't be any more perfect, actual calm solutions seem to be a big part of your lives now. Things couldn't be any more amazing than we see them now. Thank you. And Bernardo, I heartily agree about your hoping to visit Portugal, working for the airlines I visited that lovely country many times, some friends have even moved there. ✈ 🎄

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Thank you, @user-yj7pe3pm7x, for such a thoughtful comment and it was nice seeing you in the Zoom chat. We're glad to hear that our experiences and the way we handle challenges resonate with you. Sharing our journey, including the ups and downs, is important to us, and we appreciate your recognition of our efforts to grow and learn together. Also, we're definitely looking forward to visiting Portugal - it sounds like an amazing place! That has been at the top of Bernardo's list for quite some time now.

[@tigergreg8]

It seems as though all of your videos suggest unhappiness lately. You both just seem to be unhappy with life in general.

[@bowed305]

Interesting. That's not the vibe I've been getting lately. There were some videos a while back that made me concerned about their happiness, but since they've lived in their current place, they seem much more settled and content to me.

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

We appreciate your observation and concern. It's true that some videos in 2021-2023 have touched on some challenging aspects of our lives. There were indeed a few years where we faced uncertainties in our relationship and personal lives. However, it's important to us to be authentic and share these real experiences with our community. We're glad to say that with the help of therapy, we've been making positive changes and gaining deeper insights into ourselves and our relationship. We believe in the power of growth through adversity and hope that by sharing our journey. Thank you for being part of our journey and for your support as we navigate these complex but ultimately rewarding chapters of our lives. We are on the rise :)

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

You hit in right on the head Bowed. @@bowed305

[@bowed305]

@@Stepsof2Foreigners ♥

[@peggyesquibel8353]

I don’t see or feel this at all! I see great growth, maturity, comfort, peace and genuine happiness!

[@user-nikal]

I like you!

[@HossMan48]

You two are made for each other. Two very different loving men moving through life together. Blessings and Joyfilled, Happy Holidays to y'all.

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Thanks a ton, @HossMan48! Your words are so encouraging. We feel incredibly lucky to have each other and supporters like you. Wishing you joy and happiness during the Holidays and always!

[@jjcepeda9398]

I’m sorry guys, you guys are not allowed to divorced or have an open relationship. You just can’t.

[@sangeethpalakkaparambil]

Dearest A+B... Lots of love from INDIA...❤🎉🇮🇳

[@thomasmead6898]

Thanks so much for sharing, relationships can be rewarding and challenging and always will be. I was like Adam and afraid of being abandoned, but even if you fear it, it can still happen. My husband walked out after 21 years and we are in the process of getting a divorce. The couple can choose t keep working at it or not.

[@naylas3908]

I feel for you. Big hug from Belgium.

[@leonardbrooks6719]

Hi - Enjoyed the session. Each one of these provide some more pieces to build the mural of just who you both are. Look forward to the next one! Have a great holiday season and new year as well. Regards, Skip

[@pvr1970]

I was born in Guatemala. I go back there yearly. I’m so happy you got to experience it. I love you guys. Your content is wonderful and heartfelt. Hugs to both of you and Henry. 🇬🇹

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Wow, @pvr1970, that's amazing! Guatemala holds a special place in our hearts (as you saw), and it's wonderful to hear you have such a deep connection with it too. Thank you for your love and support, and hugs right back to you and your family! 🇬🇹

[@jimjefftube]

Good to see you guys putting in the work necessary to maintain a good relationship. Relationships are not easy, but when you’re with the right person well worth it. Always enjoy your channel!

[@bobrown2901]

Thanks for sharing your lives with us. Love you both so much. ❤️

[@Js2Jo]

Adam and Bernardo, I love your Q&A video about moving back here to America, I don't want you, guys to get a divorced, I know you're both love each other so much!!

[@MaxDolphin84]

Someone once said that for every problem there is a solution, the only problem is to find or discover the correct solution... ❤

[@alemarcondess]

Guys, I am LOL, because I'm sure you're gonna move in the future!!!! That's it! You're experimenting life and you should certainly keep trying new places, countries, houses! You're still very young. Enjoy life, live your dreams and be happy. Big hugs from Brazil!

[@Laurent-VLR]

Oh là là vous en avez des choses à dire, c'est toujours un plaisir de vous retrouver dans vos vidéos que je suis depuis le début. Merci encore pour tout ce partage, même si vous vous trouver des plus et des moins, je tenais à vous dire que vous allez très bien ensemble car la vie fait rencontrer toujours des gens qui sont faits pour s'aimer. Ça c'est ce qu'on appelle Une belle histoire d'amour. Vous êtes au top. Merci. Très belle continuation. Des bisous de France...🌈👍👍👍

[@tranty65]

Tôi cũng nghĩ như vậy bạn thân mến

[@ebboy5]

Thanks for sharing your journey with us. Much continued love and happiness for you both in 2024!

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Happy New Year! We appreciate your kind words and support. Wishing you a fantastic 2024 as well! 🎉

[@mohammadtahazubair5332]

Close to divorce already broke my heart 💔 please don’t 😢

[@dennisscott-k4x]

Great video. Thanks for sharing ❤

[@reezalaqofficial8843]

Hey MohammadTaha, you wanna be Adam and I'll be Bernado and we do better than them ? 😅

[@blissfulsoul2933]

​@@reezalaqofficial8843I'm reaďy😅

[@nickmiller5744]

Watch the whole video

[@InternationalBrit]

I agree entirely. They are so happy and devoted to each other’s.❤❤❤

[@keithpayne2316]

Thank you so much for sharing. There’s so beauty in the honesty shown here. I loved the stroll down memory lane. You’ve had an amazing journey, happy we have been able to tag along. Enjoy every moment you have with each other, celebrate the good times., cherish the little moments and continue making memories. Congratulations on your newest family member. Henry is a handsome Pup. Continue criando memorias para durar a vida toda. >>>-GO NOLES-->>>

[@tstieber]

Personally, I love Q+A videos on KZbin bc it's a fun way to quickly learn a lot of things about complete strangers that would normally take a lot of time. You guys seem more and more comfortable being yourselves around each other and your viewers, and that authenticity is nice to see. Also love seeing more of your humor poking through on this video -- my husband and I find humor very disarming and keep each other in stitches at least part of every day. It relaxes us, it bonds us, and it reminds us that we would probably be banned on KZbin for most of the things we say so we will never put up a channel haha 😂

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Welcome back! Thanks so much for your kind words, @tstieber! We're really glad to hear you enjoy our Q+A videos. It's been a journey for us to open up and share more of our true selves with the audience, and hearing that it resonates with you means a lot. Humor is definitely a big part of our relationship too - it keeps things light and makes the tough times a bit easier (when we understand each other haha). We totally get the power of humor in bonding with your partner! It sounds like you and your husband have a wonderful dynamic. Keep laughing and enjoying each other's company. Maybe one day you'll surprise us with your own channel - we're sure it would be a hit! 😄

[@tstieber]

@@Stepsof2Foreigners well I would potentially be open to doing a channel bc I love the creativity and video editing, but my husband doesn't really love the idea of being public like that, so I'm fine just enjoying each other behind the scenes. (Even though he's the coolest, sweetest, funniest guy, and the world is missing out on knowing him) :-) Looking forward to your next video!

[@manbtm1]

Good video guys, I think one of your better ones, you seem to be pretty frank and honest with each other, which shows enormous progress in any relationship, that’s not easy to do let alone do it on camera. Sounds like you even found out about a few things you didn’t even have a clue about with each other, so overall, this was a good experience, keep up the good work and best wishes.

[@ゆみこ-z3y]

こんにちは二人の映像は毎日毎日6年前から何回も見ています。見れなくなっだ映像もあるのが寂しいです。新しい映像楽しみにしています❤🎉🎉

[@joanacristinaferdinandocav4882]

Oi meus lindosss, todo casal tem momentos difíceis mas com o amor e carinho que vcs tem um pelo outro tudo vai dando certo, entregando tudo pra Deus tbm Amo vcs ❤❤

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Oi Joana! Verdade, todo relacionamento tem seus desafios, mas o amor sempre nos guia. Agradecemos muito seu carinho e apoio. ❤️❤️

[@lailaagrado]

Do you miss meetings with Husband and Husband? :P

[@jacksonjohnson]

yeahh, Fellow Travellers is such a great series. Love it.

[@kcali_058]

Great seeing you both again, along with your fur-baby, Henry. Wanted to thank you for continuing to share your story, your lives with us. Wishing you all the best and hoping you stay true two each other. Take Care. Much love from Cali!!

[@JoeyCalico-ne2ei]

You guys are connected forever for all eternity....one day we'll all meet soon

[@ricktomlinson5481]

This is an amazing testament to commitment to marriage, each other, out greater culture and shows that love between two people can and should be supported by all of our community regardless of any other values as we all live in the same pot. . . the melting pot! and the U.S. is one of the best places to let our light shine. Sadly our country needs therapy for no one wants to meet in the middle ground anymore. Your testimony is an important one as you reach out in this sharing of your truth on the internet! Peace! 🥰❤

[@michaelosborne6931]

I recently travelled from UK to Portland for Rose City Comic Con. I kept wondering why Portland seemed so familiar until I saw your video’s. I would have loved to have met you. You have both been very inspirational in ways you cannot comprehend. Thank you for sharing your journey.

[@peterdolman6281]

Adam and Bernardo you are inspirational, thank you so much for being so open and honest about your life together and the challenges. Any relationship is difficult as 2 individuals come together and mould their lives. My partner and I had been together for 10 years and were engaged for 6 of those years we were planning to be married towards the end of 2024, sadly my partner passed away in June 2023 totally unexpectedly. He would constantly talk about making memories so now I have so many memories to keep me going. I see so much of ourselves in you two, I stumbled on your channel only a couple of days ago, and I am hooked. I wish you all the love in the world . Take care and continue to make memories ❤️

[@mavelasquez777]

Love you guys, I'm from Guatemala, ❤

[@sandraromeira5278]

Acompanhar vocês ao longo destes anos todos , me faz ter certeza que foram feitos um para o outro. A jornada cheia de alegrias e momentos bem difíceis pra ambos fez e ainda faz esse amor se tornar mais forte e verdadeiro. Conversem sempre , a individualidade deve existir . Dêem espaço para o outro também crescer . E caminhem sempre juntos , com amor e respeito. Curtam todos os momentos juntos e guardando todas essas lindas memórias. Beijos. Adoro vocês !

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Muito obrigado, @sandraromeira5278! Suas palavras tocam nossos corações. A jornada nem sempre é fácil, mas o amor e o respeito mútuo nos mantêm fortes. Agradecemos imensamente o seu apoio e carinho ao longo dos anos. Beijos e muito amor!

[@ryangoyette3570]

Happy Holidays guys! I’ve been a long time follower. I see parts of myself and parts of your marriage resonate with mine to my husband. We love traveling, long weekends at Airbnbs, coffee, and the tough things too. Love you guys.

[@EdwardGarrenMFT]

Great questions !! Powerful and excellent answers. Yes, the evolution is very obvious, and you're both mauring in harmony which is the central element in happy and healthy living. !!! And having a dog is another layer underestanding. Non-verbal understanding specifically, dogs are so great.. Love you guys, you're the best.

[@aif3301]

A nice place for you guys to settle down is Canela-RS. Calm and next to the city.

[@deegeef]

Some very good insights from Bernardo in this one. Well done.

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Bernardo says thanks! We're glad you found value in his insights. It's all about growing and learning together but he is always wonderful with words.

[@dunnmatt1]

What a nice Q&A. I love how open you are to sharing your lives with us. You guys are an example of true love. It works because of communication, communication, communication and wanting the best for each other and your life together. Thanks for giving us a glimpse into your lives and for inspiring your viewers.

[@sergelefevre6412]

un grand bonjour de France ......

[@NathanDrake81]

Been folllowing you guys on YT for years and you are kinda my relationship goals. Even through all the difficulties and everything you both have been going through, you keep staying strong, you look happy together, you look like you are true friends, true lovers. There is commitment to each other and to a life plan together. I love that. Still dealing with a more or less recent break-up and you guys give me hope. And, as a fan from Portugal, happy to hear Bernardo wants to come to Portugal. Hope you both come one day! Beijos e abraços para os 2.

[@michaeljunak]

I really appreciate the honesty you are both giving us. It is very hard to share the inner most feelings and thoughts to many people. I too have done therapy and I can tell you if I did not, I may not have been here now. My hope is that you continue to love each other and support each other, and keep working toward the ultimate nirvana in your relationship, unconditional love. I love you two. Peace and light

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Hey @kcali_058! Thanks so much for your lovely comment. It's always nice to share our lives with friends like you, and we're glad Henry gets to be a part of it too! We truly appreciate your good wishes and support. Staying true to each other is our promise, and we're grateful to have people like you watching our videos - it means a lot to us. Sending lots of love back to Cali!

[@transient.nomad_]

I really appreciate your honesty and openness but the level of adverts is getting annoying now. Thank you for all your stories in the past and good luck for the future

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Sorry to hear about the advertisements - KZbin randomly puts them in our videos but I went back and added them myself. I'm really glad to hear you appreciate our videos, means a lot - thank you.

[@reginaceliabraga2295]

Oi meus amores, já estou aqui assistindo, beijos amo vcs 💋😙

[@TeresaMendesFlores]

simmm venham a portugal !!!

[@terezinhasepulveda5623]

Casamento ou vida a dois sempre terá altos e baixos. São personalidades diferentes . Criação diferente. Tudo terá ajustes. Aí que entra o amor . Você não tem coragem de ir embora. Tanto aprendizado que vocês passaram é Aí que o sentimento fala mais alto Ficar um sem o outro é difícil Não são vocês só acontecerem isso. Não adianta fugir todos passam por isso aprendendo com a vida. Todos nós já passamos por momentos difíceis. É Aí que valorizamos a ligação que vocês tem. É a força do amor que vence. Deus os protejam e sejam felizes. Bjs

[@newmanestandre838]

You guys are wholesome! It's been a while, life has been crazy, but you guys are both still showing that which kept me coming back to your videos and is the fact that you keep proving to growing humans, a growing couple and making memories is still one of your best parts in this channel

[@FranklinMable]

vocês definitivamente são uma inspiração de relacionamento e digo isso abarcando todos os processos inclusivos de uma relação. Acompanho desde o começo e sou muito grato por tudo, vocês mudaram minha percepção sobre relacionamentos, parceira, amor, realidade afetiva. Vocês são demais!

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Muito obrigado! Seu apoio e suas palavras significam muito para nós. Abraços!

[@dsallenger0314]

Hey guys, thanks for the Q&A. May you both be safe, secure and happy in all you do in life. As always, love you a bunch... Henry too. ❤❤❤ tc&ttyl, David

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

David, your kind wishes are truly appreciated. We aim to stay safe, secure, and happy, and we wish the same for you. Henry sends his love too! ❤️

[@steevjaems1807]

Thank you for sharing more insights into the two of you. Always inspirational hearing your stories. Warm hugs to you both 🤗

[@andresaragon2199]

Nice video guys but I don't know how to divorce them, they look cute so together 🙂💕😢😢They have had good adventures, greetings from Mexico 🇲🇽😘💕

[@glennforest5996]

Thank you for being so honest. Really sets y’all apart from others on KZbin. We can identify with you.

[@joaoximenes937]

One point that really touched me in this video is the fact that troughout our relationships that we establish in our lifes, we may totally admit our strenght and our weaknesses. I do know how hard it is for us to admit to ourselves that we really need help to keep going. I have been doing therapy for more than 1 year, and one thing I have recently realized is that all of us need therapy. Not only the gay community to help each other to face sexist societies and admit who we really are and also the other people that do not accept the way we exist in this world. Your arguments motivate people in the world do the same, which is something extremely important to empower our identites and lifestyles. And, as you had mentioned before, the importante of therapy to find ourselves whenever we need.

[@hhernandez1984]

thank u for being real and showing us happiness is not with out a sacrifice, and a sacrifice is not with out a reward❤

[@isitmyproblem]

I've watched your videos since the early days. It was a long journey. So happy to see you're still together and wish you the best.

[@davidridgeway83]

I think you are both amazing strong people😘💪x

[@CathyHeathcliff-lov]

i was here when u guys was 100k subs and i´m still here in a half million.... love u guys so. and i hp to find a love like yours

[@miguelseals3258]

This was a very touching and moving video, learned so much from both of us. Stay positive and all the best for the up coming holidays love as always.

[@nedraenglish6362]

A heck of a journey so far with a lot of self learning and of each other. Continued blessings to you both and blessings for your future. ❤

[@ゆみこ-z3y]

私はあなた達二人👬に本当会いたいです。

[@steverdms]

I don't get to check in with you guys often but I can see such a difference in how you guys relate to each other. I am so incredibly inspired by how you share your story, worts and all, and how hard you work to stay together. That is how lasting relationship endure. Thank you for putting that out there. It is inspiring, sets a great example, and gives a more real world view of how relationships really are outside the pretensive social media world.

[@vladav6549]

Great video❤

[@bowenvicek3504]

Thanks for answering my quiz..you deserve the best keep on making memories..

[@caperusa1925]

😵‍💫 I tead divorce & went NNOOO 😵 It was beautiful to see your growth & development

[@tomobrien9483]

Love the questions and answers. Thanks for sharing. Love ya guy ❤

[@martinvalladolid8287]

Que Dios los bendiga siempre, el amor de ustedes es hermoso y nada lo terminará.❤

[@Muswell]

Loved this.

[@user-nikal]

I love you!

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Thank you so much! Your support means the world to us!

[@user-nikal]

I am Nik from Russia with big love!

[@bradcolby3624]

Love this video. Henry slept through part of it. He is so relaxed and comfortable with you both. My husband and I traveled all over the globe but have always lived in S Florida. Your journey is amazing to me. Keep those memories coming ❤

[@JeremyMYG]

Sincerely appreciate the deep and honest conversation. Wherever life takes you next, I hope it is fruitful and enjoyable!

[@М.И-ф8м]

Парни,привет!) А можно сделать перевод на русский язык ваших видеороликов,как ранее вы уже делали,а потом перестали...? Заранее благодарю вас! Обнимаю

[@kdexter2690]

Leave from RuZZia without thoughts RuZZia is very dangerous for LGBTQ people

[@romalisan1]

Life is always difficult, unless you think it's easy...(joke). I wish happiness and luck to both of you.

[@kennethrich6875]

Much love and support ❤❤

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Kenneth, your support means the world to us. Much love right back at you! ❤️

[@philipeugenio2233]

Fellow Travelers, I couldn’t agree more.

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

It's pretty incredible, right?

[@philipeugenio2233]

@@Stepsof2Foreigners Emotionally wreck here every episode. I do not want to watch the ending but I have to.

[@dugald56]

Dogs rock - even when they’re annoying! I’m glad to see your furniture, like the couch, that accommodates Henry so well! Learning to live together, and accommodating and accepting your differences, is a lifetime’s work. I’ve been married for 44 years and we’re still working on it. I expect it to last until one of us dies. But it’s so worth it, as long as there are no irreconcilable differences, obviously.

[@Dee-kg9lk]

Love you guys!! Thanks for sharing!! Merry Christmas 🎄✨️

[@richgaspariz9050]

wishing you both the BEST

[@josepstreamriver8345]

Tenéis más vida vivida en un año que 50 años de la mía, no se arrepienta de nada 😍

[@tonysoto8040]

Keep living , Loving and sharing

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Absolutely, Tony! Living, loving, and sharing - that's our mantra. Thanks for being a part of our journey.