Divorce! Who is Responsible ? || The MA Podcast || S2 || Ep 40

Divorce! Who is Responsible? || The MA Podcast || S2 || Ep 40
0:00 - Highlights.
1:10 - Introduction.
2:55 - Reasons for the high rate of divorces.
7:28 - Why do logical people become illogical in marriage?
12:45 - What do men and women want from each other?
16:45 - Balancing cultural expectations and responsibilities.
21:09 - Are women too rigid?
28:20 - Installing corporate mindset in the home.
35:15 - Man's role in managing a household.
44:45 - Do love marriages prove to be a failure?
52:16 - When couples are not religiously aligned.
59:00 - How to inspire the man to pray?
1:4:00 - Behavioral adaptations in marriage.
1:9:45 - How to revive relationships?
1:13:00 - Long distance relationships.
1:19:08 - Provide a home for a woman.
1:22:40 - Outro.

[@simrafatima8595]

Please invite aunty asiya frequently in your podcasts because she really understands and represents female psychology in unbiased way ❤❤❤

[@saniyasaher8213]

Correct

[@User1991dub]

Really amazing podcast. Its a treat to hear Asiya Anti, it feels like she is talking on behalf of every muslim women

[@syedrehanjio5202]

And also her voice is much audible

[@bintekhalid9125]

Allahu Akbar! I cannot express the amount of happiness and contentment I feel whenever asiya aunty comes for the MA podcast. Yaa Allah please answer my prayers regarding asiya aunty that she starts her own channel and we all can benefit from this knowledgeable personality. Ali sir please please please convey my msg to her that I personally want her start her channel and let us drink from her cup... With lots of love and duas Binte Khalid Mumbai, India

[@reshmashaikh6501]

Feeling same. Want the same

[@shaziyashaikh3126]

Agree with u sister… really need it From Mumbai, India

[@missmateen]

Agree with you or please regularly call her in your podcast brother

[@ammaraahmed4291]

So far the Best MA Podcast. We want part 2 . Relevent questions & practical scenario solutions given by both the guests. Some kind suggestions for MA Podcast : •invest in a mobile holder for the host •include the guest social media handle in the description Jazaka Allah khair.

[@IqraZafar1994]

Very informative topic. May Almighty put barakah in our lives.

[@aroojfatima7653]

Salam! الحمدللہ ۔ Asyia Appa Buhat Axhi Explination Deti Hain. True representation of A Muslim Girl. ماشاءاللہ 😊

[@Ayesha______]

say Allahumma barik for someone else.

[@Model-101]

Every woman wants a partner who is 1 level up than hers. A woman will only submit and "adjust" if she knows that the guy is physically, mentally and financially more stronger than her and can take care of the next gen better than her. So rather than telling women "to adjust" to what suits a guy, why don't you ask men to step up their game and be in the actual leadership roles rather than being Mama's little boys trapped in a 40 year old body?

[@razamughal9095]

It wont work. Women have become worthless. Full stop. By preventing four wives they have made themselves worthless. Even a mature man will not value his wife. You cant assign value to something that is worthless.

[@Model-101]

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[@MyRaahim]

Where did Deen go ?? Problem starts ,when you leave Deen ..

[@Model-101]

@@MyRaahim Even in deen men are the Qawam. The guardians but unfortunately not many men follow the true spirit of the deen rather only remember deen when it comes to "4 shaadia" lol

[@mentalhealthadvocate8467]

makes sense !

[@sharmeenkhan8983]

One of the best podcasts ever. May Allah bless you all!

[@philosopherlove8243]

Ali bhai really you are great man always bring a informatic podcast Allah hume deen mai istqamt dai Ameen

[@UmmRuqaiya]

Really great episode! Both the speakers brought up great points! Br. Muhammad Ali, I liked how you directed the talk. JazakumALLAHu khair. Salams from Illinois, U.S.

[@abdul-haadi2014]

Sir qaiser said very well Take it very serious Aurat jb ghar tornea chahe phir wo nahi bachta

[@user-xh8xi7xk1e]

Aesa nhi koi ladki be waja Ghar nhi todna chahti

[@sheezakhan4788]

Sooo happy to see Qaiser Ahmed Raja here,,,,,,❤

[@abdullahkhan-og5kp]

I want mufti tariq masood in devorce MA PODCAST

[@saraha3068]

My husband is a classic example of a narcissist. He has never even spoke to his children about life in general. We have been married for ten years. He buys them everything but never sits down with them to have a father-son, father-daughter conversation. I agree his parents never spoke to him, that is why he never knew about this kind of bond with kids. But hes 40 years old, its high time he learns to be a father. He can watch youtube videos to learn about healthy relationship with his kids. I am not even talking about my relationship with him here. Because at this point in my life i have given up on fixing him. Its not my job. He hasn’t touched me in a year, he has gfs, he blackmails, he manipulates, he is a criminal too. only reason i allow him in our lives is financial dependency on him. I dont make enough money to raise 3 kids on my own. All your talk about respect and blah blah is for those men who deserve respect. Those were men of prophet Muhammads time. Todays man specially south asian man, is nothing but an evil narcissist 80% of them.

[@saraha3068]

Even in Quran Allah says, give them hidayat and dont be sad or try to fix them if they dont listen. Here you want women to adjust to such evil men, who dont even pray once in their lifetime, who dont even know anything about Islam and women’s rights. Much of your talk is cultural.

[@pa2359]

As you mentioned he is a narcissist, it is a personality disorder and never change. How u feel now?

[@ameer-zb7ft]

Badi dukh ki baat hai app jis thali me kha rahi hai wosi me ched kar rahi hai. App k under ak ℅ bhi saram hai. App paiso k liye reh rahi hai. App ko toh app k ghar wale na rakhe apne ghar me. 10 saal baad maloom pada tujhe ki wo criminal hai aur kiya kiya baqwas kar rahi hai. Kitni negative aurat hai chollo bhar pani me doop mar.

[@razamughal4582]

Come off it, you can get on the benefit system and feed your kids. He sounds like an asshole, but what you have to understand it that ALL the problems in the world Come from WOMEN. Thats why more women will be in hell. Had women not prevented four marriages you would have been able to divorce him easily and another married man would be ready, waiting to marry you. If there were four wives you would only need to worry about how you look, what to cook, keeping the house clean, keeping the kids clean, every FOURTH evening. The rest of the days you would live how you want to. Women are so stupid, that the new generation of young women are getting old and ugly waiting for a proposal. If i were you i would have left this man a long time ago, despite money issues. A woman i know did that, she didnt care if she would have money or not. It turns out that her life got much better, she had more money and she raised her kids how she wanted without his interference. Although no doubt she moved hell and high water to make sure that he stayed in their lives otherwise no amount of money can make up for an absent father, kids lose their mind. And she ended up re marrying and she says to people that Allah wanted me to have a better, richer life, thats why he had written divorce for me.

[@A.S0123]

Please monitor your kids amd make sure they don't learn toxic behaviour. Set a good example for them. And try to stand on your feet. May Allah help you come out of abuse. Ameen

[@Superstar_Mum818]

Best podcast ever. So much wisdom

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What a beautiful podcast ❤️

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Best guests and best host ….such a beautiful discussion 💯

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JazakAllah khair

[@rabeeamubarak1134]

One of the best podcasts ever. Each and every individual had beautiful views. May Allah bless you all!

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JazakAllah u khair

[@asmaroshan1023]

Very Nice Jazak Allah khair kaseera

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[@habibrehman-ix4lb]

Very healthy debate I agreed with this and I am talking about this that we should educate our child’s either daughter or son about there married life under rules of Islam

[@waheedakarim4559]

Very genuinely presented by both speakers. Jazakallah khairan brother Ali. We needed such talks. I was in need of such talk. Though it covered less of my confusion but generally covered a lot. Very impressive.

[@inshafaiz3864]

Masha allah..bht behtareen ..ye bht zaroori tha. Specially young couples k liye..bht ache points diye h ap sab ne .jazak allaho khairan kasera. Love from india .

[@muhammadalitalks2]

Masha Allah

[@sanasheikh6826]

Please invite asiya aunty frequently unko sunkar sukun milta h.... love from India

[@DeepDive2023]

Excellent...💯

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ماشاءاللہ بہت خوب بہت خوب

[@Aizakhan-gp4tm]

My 2 favorites in your podcast ❤

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[@sadiajadoon656]

both speakers were amazing

[@tabinda460]

She is great speaker

[@mirzaahmed7313]

I really like podcast 😊mean MA podcast. It is always different and impressive.full of lesson. Stay happy Ali bhae.Jazak Allah

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Helpful podcast ❤

[@saharkhan3800]

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Jazak Allah ❤

[@Sana_Afreen]

Thanks for this topic

[@tasneem3807]

The best lecture ever

[@ranakhalid50]

Buht acha topic apny ali Bhai choose kiye..... Jazaak Allah ❤❤

[@aleezakhan5816]

Jazakallah.....Amazing podcast, need of the day.

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Amazing podcast 👍

[@darkheart8119]

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[@The_muslimah_]

Qaiser bhai is Pearl of IMAAN UNION

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JazakALLAH

[@MuhammadMehtab-jl5ku]

جزاك الله خيرًا كثيرآ

[@alikazmi104]

Mashaa Allah..getting alot of from Ali bhai

[@YasmeenQ]

Perfect panel masha Allah everybody has such valuable advice to offer

[@sajjadmehmood2943]

Dua to Fix all your family issues: رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ اَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيّٰتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وََّاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا اے ہمارے رب !تو ہمیں ہماری بیویوں اور اولادوں سے آنکھوں کی ٹھنڈک عطا فرما اور ہمیں پرہیزگا روں کا امام بنا۔ Our Lord! Grant us from among our wives and offspring, comfort to our eyes and make us an example for the righteousness. (Al-Furqan:74)

[@baconatorbeam7331]

Please also do podcast on single parenthood

[@kamilairshad5830]

Mashallah...it's really helpful for our generation...they need really like this teacher who teached them how to handle every situation.....keep it up...

[@Nasreenmoolji]

‎ماشاءاللہ very good discussion. Wish there was an English version to this, for those who cannot understand Urdu well. For couples who have arguments / fights should feel happy that they are still together, as they are just making the bottle bigger so the drops Don’t overflow. Just a thought 😊

[@Superstar_Mum818]

Learn urdu then

[@YasmeenQ]

A MUST SEE FOR SINGLES AND COUPLES

[@shafakhan4368]

Amazing episode

[@ameenah.m]

Yaa Allah protect me and my muslim brethren from the curse of zinna in all forms ameen

[@mazharalam1011]

very nice podcast,its very informative

[@uzmasalman8615]

Very knowledgeable discussion as always . May Allah SWT give brother M.Ali more power to conduct these kind of podcast .

[@shaguftashaheen5050]

Jazakallah khair. Allah humein samjhne ki, aur apni life mein practically apply karne ki tofeek de.

[@baconatorbeam7331]

Pleaseseee also discuss single parenthood

[@muhammadraheel1182]

Assalam alikum Ali bhai it is important topic and i learned a lot from this topic thanks for all

[@Anukhn.]

MashAllah❤Amzng podcast❤

[@rijashahid7547]

37:12 how beautifully she explained it MashAllah ❤

[@rehmanbhutta9756]

Good job as usual

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Ma sha Allah great talk

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Triple gems are my too much favourite also Sahil Adeem very logical questions & answers ❤❤❤❤

[@wardaosman9482]

What about who treats wife like a maid (they just st want things to be done) not there in wife happiness, in your sickness or or when she is emotionally hurt or down due to anything

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Zaberdast show

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Very informative video please keep on making such content This video clear many confusion May Allah give you rewards Ameen❤️

[@Basirat81]

The last point by Baji is amazing

[@amanifatima1402]

When you feel like giving up upon your Dua's Remember ALLAH's promise when He say: "I'll provide for you from place you would have never imagined" (Quran:65:3)

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Masah Allah.. Bhut acha topic tha aaj ka

[@HaiderAli-mt2et]

very informative although i am not married but ,this session gave me insight to such a tough matter

[@saraehsan8553]

Yess plz do podcast with Sahil sir

[@aminashaikh4427]

Reall . Alhamdulillah to have great scholars n that is a woman. Really touched to " provide her own corner".

[@abdullhalimtomal9760]

I love aunty ki conversation.Also love this episode ❤❤

[@khansaud3034]

Mashallah.aunti ne last m genuine sahi suggestion diya h

[@arts_kay_]

What a beautiful way to contribute to the understanding of Islam. May Allah bless him with success in all his endeavors. This is a true example of how patience and positivity can make a significant impact. May Allah grant him strength and resilience.

[@mehreengul3618]

Yes we need this type of dramas

[@saniyasaher8213]

Aunty Asiya bahut acche se non-baised khayalat paish krti hai. Ye podcast se logo ki madad hogi InShaAllah.

[@uzmaguliqbal7057]

Sir Ali please invite sir Sahil Adeem n discuss his portal theories...

[@yasminkhan6554]

‏اللهم بارك Aunty is very very good and unbiased, I wish for her to come uk or even go to our Mirpur city for dars & we will compensate her well….my outlaws sorry I meant in-laws need a nasiha…… بارك الله فيكم

[@iramshehzad9549]

Please youth ko aisy podcast ki zarooret hai...plz carry on

[@aleehasyed7679]

Such podcasts are really needed these days spcly when the kids are on the edge of disasters. What am practicing in my family for namaz habbit, with the same circumstances.. tht i said to my kids one namaz one day atleast.m and add another every 2 weeks.. i have 2 kids and this idea is working Alhamdulillah, still am on their back to push them, as kids become a lil lazy etc but i always scold them if needed, i mean if they ignore my order to offer their prayer. And Inshallah i believe one day Allah will succeed me in this way. Its my suggestion to all sch mothers who are struggling with this issue to try thia idea.

[@ArshiaFatima-oe6wz]

Allah sh k naseeb ache kra ameen❤ Thnk you sir for this Podcast.❤

[@deebayasmeen362]

Masha allah very nice video

[@sarasiddiqui4607]

Assalamualaikum Ali Bhai Allah apko bht kamyab kare main India se hu or main regular apka bayaan sunti hu or Amal me lane ki koshish kr rahi hu

[@amnar8843]

how can we get in touch with the lady speaker in the video for counselling?

[@ameenah.m]

Yaa Allah bless my beloved father and have mercy on him and make his grave for him a beautiful garden of jannat ul firdaus ameen

[@afnan_a]

MashaAllah❤

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I am waiting

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Waiting sir