Classic Divorce Court- Acosta Vs. Oliver: Plenty Of Fish

[@KatBlaque]

I mean... .do you even want his ring though?????? lol

[@cherylchorvas9675]

Right

[@kanishar2494]

I don’t know how the hell the judge managed to get through this.

[@freewithnature]

Strong will and having children I’m gonna guess lol.

[@SiNCERELYTAYY1]

Right

[@cristinabonilla6254]

This was the worst episode I have ever watched! I still don't know wtf they were there. Dumb and dumber! 😒

[@wjsjallday]

If she’s 28!! He’s stressing the hell out of her. DROP HIM AND GET A PIECE OF MIND

[@omgimover4075]

She looks like she’s in her 40s. SMDH

[@Truckeractivityy]

I think she looks good

[@wjsjallday]

She’s fabulous✊🏿😍😘🥰. Just worn out

[@shereekern6801]

She’s beautiful but yeah you can see things are Wearin her out it’s time to purge the toxicity

[@nappyqueen86]

late 30s at least

[@gracemorganspeaks]

Lovely message. Whoever is reading this i pray that God bless you beyond what you asked or expected so that you can be a blessing to others.

[@debbiethomas3080]

Thank you!!! You're awesome! Blessings to you

[@sadibarry]

Thank you🙏🏽, blessings to you & your family 💞

[@masretcrazy426]

Thank you, wish the same to you and your family 💚

[@edlaurelorjuste4266]

@MSSUCCESSDRIVEN llllllll

[@ajmakclossay]

Awww that is so sweet of you :) May God bless you as well and keep you safe :)

[@Monika-bc3dq]

I will never understand why would any woman want to marry a guy that already is a cheater and is on dating sites. She damn well know that he's not gonna stop just because of a ring.

[@deedee7520]

They want a ring to legitimize the relationship. Also it's make it easier too get child support, alimony, Life insurance etc, etc, when she ready to leave.

[@nannynewsviews542]

He barely has any remorse and dosen't recognize his faults...that is the really dangerous part. You can't move forward with ppl like that.

[@roslynhawkins1475]

@@deedee7520 Oh please. They want the ring as a way to magically claim him, magically believing that it's going to automatically turn him into a faithful Prince Charming. They also want the ring to be able say this is my husband. If a man wants to marry a woman, he will.

[@ronnimartin7033]

We play ourselves all day long! Gets the baby and gets mad because he doesn't want to marry her. 🙄

[@colleenthecatlady2344]

He wants the milk without buying the cow!!! Step Sister Step!!!

[@feliciahepburn2854]

He already has the milk! She gave it to him and now it’s harder to step!

[@mobutter2879]

Colleen the CatLady Step! And stop having children!

[@andradavis7201]

AGREED

[@d820m]

He got plenty of milk 🥛

[@roslynhawkins1475]

@@feliciahepburn2854 She gave him the whole dairy farm. Lol. What she's getting is exactly what she bargained for.

[@shereekern6801]

Women actually want this dude 🤢it really is ruff in these streets

[@feliciahepburn2854]

I thought that same thing!

[@misslauren6798]

@MandaG L Not just "many", TOO many!! 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@Rosh-C]

Sheree Kern- trust! I’d rather be alone than be with him

[@patiencebright]

For real🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Richesfam]

What do you mean? Is he not a human. He's handsome. All men have issues. No one is perfect. Please keep your perfection to yourself and stop underming the work of God.

[@jasonito23]

He doesn't want to get married because he thinks that there are 20 women out there that will start showing up as soon as he gets married.

[@kissmefourtimes]

lmao

[@cherylchorvas9675]

Seems like they do. Once a brother gets married women start coming out..sad but true

[@d820m]

There probably are, you never know

[@tanyathompson012474]

Exactly he doesn’t want to marry her.

[@Mrscarricom]

That's why loyalty exists. It's not available to what comes its choosing what you want, and sis is not what he wants , she's what's available, too available.

[@JazzyJeffRealTalk]

I’m sorry but this man is slow. The judge is asking him clear direct elementary questions, and he can’t comprehend the simplest commands to answer the question.

[@HoneyBee4163]

He's not slow. He purposefully talks in circles. He takes one word from a statement or question to change the subject. Not marrying her is a gift. She should put him out and let him be free to be single. She looks sad.

[@JazzyJeffRealTalk]

Angela Toussaint She talked to him like a child and he still didn’t get it. I don’t know what you’re definition of slow is.

[@misslauren6798]

YES! He's slow!!

[@coffeladee3805]

He can't communicate his thoughts very well. He wants understanding but he can't communicate his issues with her. The judge doesn't understand his communication and neither do I. Why marry him? I will keep watching.

[@lornaemery3598]

He don't answer his question he go around in circle he definitely don't want to be bothered

[@landinashley]

He is most definitely cheating and God bless her cause I would not want a man who is so cryptic at explaining anything

[@Jasmine-gf8yk]

Judge Lynn Toler handles divorce cases like a PRO!!!

[@renrecommends8072]

Judge: You say once you got pregnant, he started cheating? Her: Well he had cheated before I got pregnant. Me:Blink Blink why you get pregnant?!

[@nicolejroby]

😂 exactly! Why the heck go and get pregnant 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@Brownn32]

Being sneaky will get you a soggy sandwich. Being consistently loyal will get you a water jug, snacks and a fresh sandwich

[@adielwilson8749]

😂 😂

[@paulastrose7615]

Them 2 need to separate and go on their own way ...he ain't about family ..the man cannot even explain something to save his life . He is a cheater that's why he kept finding fault on her ...a bag of chips are you 5 smh

[@deejoy4106]

😂them damn snacks had me rolling😂

[@spimentel562]

yep yep

[@worldhealthrn]

I honestly don't think he understood judge Lynn's first question 🤨 and just said no

[@feliciahepburn2854]

Okay... I’m glad I didn’t give a preconceived statement. He doesn’t know what he wants. He doesn’t want to be married because he’s not sure if he wants that. She, on the other hand, is the one talking in circles. She wants him to do certain things, that she never really named simply because she thought she was holding out on some major “wifely duties” until she got the ring. Sweetie. 🤦🏾‍♀️ The ring is a piece of jewelry. You’ve already been giving wifey duties. You cook, you clean, you give sex, you bore his child... all things a wife does. A sandwich does not constitute a ring, especially if it’s soggy. They need to separate, they don’t know how to do simple kindergarten communication.

[@AriusBLK]

Thank you … so very much.

[@LLLadySSS]

Lmao fr

[@mlm1916]

I really don't get the sandwich vs baby thing. She's not a wife, but she made a baby with him ... more substantial than making sandwich. Priorities warped‼️

[@d820m]

Sandwiches are pretty good though....especially peanut butter and jelly

[@feliciahepburn2854]

@@d820m absolutely they are, but not when it’s a foul substitute

[@bajanzelly]

This is one frustrating pair...

[@lovelylady8423]

Am I the only one that has no idea what the real problems are between those two

[@turquoiseheart6320]

He doesnt love her.never did. She probably doesnt necessarily love him either but thinks she does because that's how she was brought up to be in a relationship. Her goal is to marry. So much so that she keeps hitting the wall that is this guy's lack of emotional attachment ( personally i kept hitting the wall that is this guy- and probably also you) perhaps this too is part of her behavior pattern: picking someone who doesnt love you. We've seen it on this show many times. Also: they are both limited in communucation skills him more than her. He's not odd, he just doesnt want to say on tv what most men think already: i just want sex, food, silence( which includes no kids) and more sex- of the oral variety ( cant figure out the fascination with oral sex but to each their own) I already go to work for my money( hopefully most men) why should i work for you?- now of course im talking about most men who arent in love but i dont generalize and i also realize that there are women out there who feel and do the same.

[@EnubeeStyle]

🤷

[@joshandabradford3144]

Nope. You,me and our Judge Lynn😒

[@mlm1916]

THEY don't even understand‼️

[@Apricityville]

Hell, I thought it was an issue of a soggy sandwich, the way they kept on that story for so long LOL

[@andreabrooklyn6872]

Hey Judge! I hope that you're doing good and that you're being safe. I really like the advice you give on your show. It helps me in a way. To support you and to get more advice I bought your book Letters to my daughters. I can't wait to read it! I saw one of your videos and i was so surprised that you said you was 60 years old! I couldn't believe it, you look so good and young! Xoxo 💕

[@jasonito23]

This is an old episode. This is not the new Divorce Court.

[@achild4363]

Andrea Brooklyn I love Judge Lynn Tolbert too.did you say she is 60. She looks amazing. She is so beautiful 😍

[@EnubeeStyle]

If I was judge Lynn I would have dismissed everyone and gone home. These two don't know what their issues are 🚶

[@tasbar7743]

They are nit picking and getting on the Judge's last nerve

[@jermainethomas1570]

Mine too

[@alaya3410]

It sounds like he's giving her the run around in their relationship being difficult while at the same time cheating or having conversations with other women or woman.

[@keyeviondavis9647]

Why not come clean about the dating website that woman ain't krazy & those type things never stay in the dark????

[@misslauren6798]

I actually believe him on that one. I was on dating sites 8 or more years ago, never got around to deactivating them. So emails still come. She didn't prove he was active, just prove he was a DUMMY for not deactivating.

[@daynahitlal9824]

Why she want a ring from a cheater and a dunce?

[@ck.5218]

He can’t stfu! .. poor victim.. he brings it all on himself.

[@treyparker3775]

They both look much older than 28 and 34

[@misskay275]

I was Thinking The Same Thing 😂 But They Dont Comprehend, I Would Of Been Done Gave Hm✌

[@yolandajohnson6894]

she don’t need nothing but to get away from him literally

[@Jasmine-gf8yk]

He's hard to understand.

[@faithsexhubby7422]

I'm waiting anxiously..

[@Sidney051]

In my definition if you are telling another women she is sexy and you are exchanging pictures and stuff how much more full on does the cheating have to be before you call it cheating. Cheating is lying. Period.

[@smart8840]

Husbands and Wives needs to communicate with each other..

[@Mamaaudri]

Yes. 19 years for me. We've fought and it hasn't always been sunshine and moonbeams. One rule we always have is talk through our issues and never go to bed angry. Our relationship remains strong because of this logic. Best comment I've seen on here for awhile.

[@modestferala1488]

That’s the issue. They’re not even married.

[@mobutter2879]

88 hahahahaha! If only they were married!

[@aliciamai1994]

She wants that big heart felt family type of relationship and he seems to not want the same . They both deserve what they truly want which makes me feel they don’t need to be together. Even a break may do them down justice in seeing what they truly want . Maybe they’ll get on the same page but as of right now, I can tell what kind of family she’s wanting and she’s not going to find it in him right now with his mind set he has as of right now & she doesn’t NEED to wait for him to step up . They’re relationship isn’t horrible, they just aren’t on the same page .

[@bethcharles1218]

They both talk in circles. Watching this episode made my head hurt.

[@akeyshamcgrath4418]

This is definitely one of the top 5 most ridiculous episodes I've watched lol I'm stressed out for Judge Lynn in this one 😂😂

[@darrellsadler2848]

About the Sandwich: Dude was actually right in his feelings and thoughts here... proper sandwich making requires good followup (sides).

[@anonymousanonymous5613]

He want a house wife and I think he is just not ready period! And he confused

[@josephBC3652]

Maybe he have another family in Africa!!!

[@siedahmorg1748]

Jeez they both made me dizzy 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

[@ronnimartin7033]

She has a baby and now she's mad because he won't marry her. She played herself.

[@Mzpretty17]

Whew 😅 it was hard following this case neither of them can properly communicate

[@ashleighcakes74]

The sandwich issue would've made me walk.

[@gailsmith836]

Oh yeah. He would get nothing.

[@PG-jn3fp]

I mean it’s not really that deep. He doesn’t like a soggy sandwich and if you agreed to make his lunch, he can have input about it 😂😂

[@d820m]

Who the hell makes a soggy sandwich 🥪? If my sandwich is soggy, you better believe its going into the garbage 🗑, or to the dog if he can stomach it

[@theresamuro1897]

I can’t stand him either. Toasting the bread and make the sandwich the night before. It doesn’t get soggy. I do that all the time for my sons and my husband for lunch.

[@lyle_marie_ceniza]

Girl, find someone better to waste your time with. Who deserves your time also. He is not worth it.

[@shannonmcdaniel3507]

He's a clown

[@adaevelyn7837]

He cheated and instead of leaving she has 3 kids with him

[@annmagati8681]

Am soooo tired . These people can make you labour just trying to understand their petty issues

[@lakendrasashe6512]

Wheeeww they say a whole bunch of nothing when asked specific questions. 😩🤦🏽‍♀️ All that talking about nothing.

[@caramelthickchick5857]

You want to keep a woman, you must be a sugar daddy.

[@valerieunderwood6588]

I'm with the Judge please spit it out . If you can't work it out go life's to short. Don't have no more kids.

[@Baby-gt2bm]

If I found out he cheated on me that would have been the last time.don't marry him

[@envygoodridge274]

She was looking so nervous speaking

[@dianewilliams3740]

He don’t know what the hell he want.she needs to move around and leave him alone

[@meeksluvspink9047]

Why does he continue to speak over the Judge? I strongly dislike people who can not listen first, then speak. Smh.

[@conniewoods7824]

YAZZZZZZZZ...BE SPECIFIC...I TOTALLY AGREE!!!

[@jaynecampbell4396]

Mr Oliver is inarticulate & stupid. He does not think things through. She needs to bail as after marriage, it will only get worse!

[@matty7757]

How he want her to do wifely duties but has no intentions on marrying her???

[@chrishall2495]

Man couldn't have made himself look any worse if he tried

[@ladymaefire]

No one is perfect. As Judge says all the time, " YOu get the guy you choose , not the one you hope he becomes". I think he wants to do the right things he probably just doesn't have the tools..but i think he loves her..

[@viviancoleman8109]

Stop getting pregnant by these jokers. Ridiculous. When the babies start they 🏃.

[@lajunecrockett2381]

He's slow

[@Brownn32]

5:54 to 6:10 I was in tearsss 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😂😂😂😂😂

[@dhaizayed2584]

Love you judge, God Bless You

[@kenyak2959]

I was distracted while listening but his lunch theory grabbed my full attention!!! Excuse me???

[@jessicadaley2073]

Am I the only one that watch Divorce court with judge Lynn Toler I love watching her, I'm not really into the new judge still giving her my support cause I believe she is able to make good / similar decision like Judge Lynn Toler.

[@shellmac1383]

I agree

[@bruh3401]

deadass i completely understand his side of the sandwich story 🤣

[@LLLadySSS]

These women need to understand that if you want someone to marry you... don’t give him wifey privileges before you do that. Why does he have to marry when he got it without the final commitment? Smh. Ya need to be smarter ladies

[@JustaMonklesUncle]

Being an adult really should come with a pamphlet or instruction booklet, cause this is the norm for people like this couple. Grown folk behaving childish and no comprehension

[@nayobegomez2619]

Its true what they say, dont do wifely duties at girlfriend prices.

[@YourShadowKeeper]

He doesn't let her get a word in edgewise, he's constantly talking over the top of her and drowning her out, and when she is trying to explain how she feels about something he completely disregards it and starts ranting and fixating on something small and meaningless because it's so much easier than admitting to looking outside of the relationship at other women, and/or cheating. She has her answer, he doesn't want to marry her. If she's desperate for marriage (perhaps for its potential for stability) then she needs to move on and marry someone else, because he's not willing to marry her. I agree with her when she said she shouldn't have to do wife duties without the safety of being his legal wife. He can wash his own clothes, pick up his own laundry, pay half the bills, do half the chores around the house, do half the parenting, and make his own damn lunch before work. It's not her responsibility in any way shape or form. She isn't his mother, she isn't his wife, she is the mother of their children and his girlfriend, that is it. If he wants the extra kindnesses that wives sometimes do for their husbands, then he needs to stop leading her on and marry her. If he's not willing to marry her, he can't expect her to be his wife in action but not in name. If she's not happy she needs to walk away and she didn't look happy.

[@andradavis7201]

run girl run and get him for child support only one child at this time .... he shouldnt have been on a dating sight to begin with end of story

[@bribrimimosas250]

This was way before her ‘don’t do wifely duties at girlfriend prices’ was born

[@feliciahepburn2854]

Okay I’ll ask, what the heck is she doin to the sandwich that it’s soggy in the am?! Eww!!

[@mogetit5999]

Mayo

[@physicFitness]

I think they are nervous of the cameras in their face , can’t tell their stories straight lol 😂

[@aylahjaelisrael1331]

What is so hard for her to say..” when you come home, take out the trash, wash the car, pick up your clothes etc..” and for him to say..” fold my washed clothes, set my lunch out and work uniform, etc..”🤷🏽‍♀️

[@anquentinwilliams2764]

Why do women want to marry a guy after they catch them cheating.

[@russellclement2058]

Geeeez,, cant you get your own lunch ?? sounds and behaves like a 15 year old,,

[@cosarfarah8804]

Is it just me or does he look like the old Gucci Mane

[@TheAuthenticQueen]

Such a great episode!

[@Deairejeffries81]

Men just need to stay out of relationships. Keep your seed and resources to yourself

[@HoneyBee4163]

He is cheating. You could see the air leave his body from relief that he was not called out on it. Bless her heart...he thinks the grass is greener.

[@rachela2299]

This couple needs to grow upppp.

[@terrancelewis8136]

He’s petty smh

[@debbiethomas3080]

Make him a sandwich??? Really?? Let his side chicks make him sandwiches. You leave and quickly without looking back

[@tonyamcmillan4257]

I needed a cigarette and I don't even smoke 😂😂😂

[@biggwillnyc3775]

Judge Toler for President!!!

[@SteadyMajor7]

I'd put him on child support and step. Both of them are a little silly.

[@BHR_TV]

She made him a “counterpuncher”🤣🤣

[@a.d.morton4624]

He’s a BS’er. He can’t tell them what he needs, cause he doesn’t know what he needs; because he doesn’t even know himself and he’s chosen the perfect host to parasite off of. 😩 Poor baby and she had a baby.

[@debrasteele1588]

She has three kids. She doesn’t know how to close the deal nor let it go. He’s just biding time with her.

[@sydoz1956]

oh sh'es a big part of the problem too!

[@hangtyme765]

Question: If men are weird and women are odd, then who (or what) is normal?

[@SpecialKRNB]

I know your question is possibly rhetoric, don't want to assume here, but once men and women understand their biologic makeup it will be a whole lot easier for each of us to communicate verbally and nonverbally our needs, wants, and desires which will then place us back into normalcy. Animals for the time being is normal. I'm sorry to say because it's natural for them on a biological level.... no miscommunication nor complications. Animals do what they do with ease and no interference. The animal that is the most free is a bird. Hopefully that helps Hangtyme. Lol.

[@mwhitehall889]

Neither one of them have any type of communication skills. They talk in circles and ain't saying NOTHING!!

[@Lee-up2cy]

They both seem lost honestly 😐confusing judge lynn

[@kjohnsonallen5428]

Make a sandwich ? Are you serious ?

[@openheartsavagemind6443]

He is slow. There is no other way to put it.

[@valerieunderwood6588]

Slow finally said something or agreed with the Judge

[@dwayneh10]

His communication skills are horrible so he’ll never be able to explain himself for the cheating accusations. But why his lady look confused after the verdict.

[@Edward_Strong1982]

He has no clue about nothing 😂

[@lynzb8893]

Wasting Judge Lynn's time like this 🙄🙄🙄

[@anabelacosta2071]

Rest Easy my love ❤️‍🩹 😢

[@tatiyanna]

This episode was so very frustrating I feel just as frustrated as she did the judge

[@Blue77Blue]

ECHO THAT SHE DONOT UNDERSTAND YOU BECAUSE I DONOT UNDERSTAND YOU HOLLER THAT LOL!! JUDGE LYNN