Classic Divorce Court: Empty Promises

[@iamnicole303]

He doing everything he can not to go back to a 9-5😩 He got her ass funding his dreams 😭😭😭#finesse

[@beatriceroberts4859]

iamnicole303 good for him! That’s what they do to American women! Suck suck suck til they suck you dry then they’re off to the next dummy!

[@angelaroberts1324]

If you lie about small things you'll lie about big things

[@alyssag.5758]

If his businesses keep failing he needs to get a 9-5 so he can take care of his family.

[@2theOmega]

Absolutely. Chasing dreams is for a man with no financial obligations. When you have a family, you have a constant job, sometimes two

[@asabifatosin1150]

He said he’s working.

[@alyssag.5758]

@@asabifatosin1150 at a failing business.

[@serious7179]

@@asabifatosin1150 is he taking care of his family? Stop making excuses

[@ronnimartin7033]

Dang.... Did the judge have to go to the bathroom?! I have never seen her to be that impatient!! My goodness! Lol!!

[@ashsmith1364]

😂 she’s on a time restrain when it comes to tv. i noticed that while watching her

[@amberbassoN12]

@@ashsmith1364 but sometimes she aint trippin and it all flows. I think after she reads their individual complaints ect. She already knows how to sum it up, and zhe is still human. Humans have bad days even if they're on tv. I think its a mixture of already knowing what these people are about and not feeling up to having to deal with divorces that day.

[@georgemason4921]

Like myself she has no patience for stupidity

[@shirleybutts9490]

You are so right

[@shirleybutts9490]

I had a son start school @ 3 yrs old and graduated very early 4.0 straight A student.

[@aamnahere6250]

He's just a smooth talker. Even knows deep down that he's extremely irresponsible and unreliable. No wonder she is done.

[@IrenaDeacon]

True

[@marysodia9042]

Seen those before

[@Singlehood2Marriage]

The BEST PART of this episode was Judge Toler’s ending !!! 😩😩😩

[@msanja70]

The judge, judged her a little too much! He seemed not capable to do his part! She was funding too much!

[@Suzyfromtheblock]

Yes any man who sits back like him is lazy

[@vgkpodium8291]

He is more likely than not, a pathological liar. He is seemingly a compulsive liar as well.

[@MyPoetryHouseOnEtsy]

The Judge is not being fair to this woman at all. I'm not a fan when she treats people who have clear, legitimate issues like this.

[@georgemason4921]

True. But once a person is over 25. They can get help and make better choices vs being dumb.

[@FelicityLuLu]

Omg i dont like when she has a bad attitude 😂😂😂but id have one tooo if i had to hear the tom foulery 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@synetriajackson9576]

Stop marrying potential end of story

[@beverlyhall4578]

Amen.

[@MP-nj1qy]

This guy’s last name should be “IRRESPONSIBLE”.

[@CrazyNaturalPrincess]

🤣🤣🤣🤣that's a good one

[@Rekki_Rekki]

I dont get it... women, if the guy you're dating is lying (and you KNOW he's lying) why marry him? why have kids with him? why expect more than what he's already showing you? is it really that hard to differentiate when a guy says something you wanna hear and does the complete opposite? he's a big liar, but she's just as guilty for falling for it...

[@janayawilliams5286]

But stop divorcing

[@sexypeach1891]

Rekki Rekki The dream wedding distracts us from the reality of actually being married to them

[@zipporahannan4844]

Rekki Rekki, sometimes you don't notice the lies till Its too late

[@Rekki_Rekki]

@@zipporahannan4844 If you tell me constantly that ur in love with me bur your actions show otherwise then that's hard to ignore. Im not saying that it's impossible to fall for it or that women are guilty, I'm just saying it happens too often to not realise

[@jazzmynecobbs9853]

And its the truth thatll set you free

[@janettedesilier1018]

Judge Lynn was not feeling these people and did not want to help them smh

[@PrincessZaire100]

Janette Desilier I think sometimes she feel likes people come in there to waste her time and a lot of the time she’s right.

[@debrastevenson709]

@@PrincessZaire100 That may be true but she signed up for this gig and getting paid big bucks for it!!!

[@pandaonsteroids5154]

@@debrastevenson709 I agree with you. I think also though that this woman created most of her problems. She decided to marry him when she knew he was like that, so maybe the judge was going off of that. But I agree either way that she really did not try to help them. She could have got onto the guy to make him possibly man-up, but she didn't...

[@amberbassoN12]

Yes... that much is clear

[@CapedCrusader007]

This dude may be lazy and a liar. But he has been this way from the beginning. A tiger can't change its stripes. And a person can't change another person.

[@beemonique8466]

Yep, one or two things, she just wanted to be married OR she married because she got pregnant. Neither is reason enough to get married to someone who has already shown you that y'all are not on the same page. Smh... I'd rather be alone.

[@TT-th1gb]

Never believe a person can't change lol everyone has the ability but no one has to put up with slum either 🤣

[@serious7179]

Oh, he could definitely change and work on himself if he wanted to and wasn't self. Her problem is that she thought she could change him...when she saw how he was, she should have kept it moving.

[@susanpatterson9728]

They don't seem compatible at all!

[@alvedaallen1581]

The thing is... if someone is a LIAR, it shows up if you observe them long eno

[@ashsmith1364]

sis we overlook the fact that she worked 60 hours while pregnant!!!!!

[@Bubbles-fw2ps]

This man is a baggage,and a smooth talker! ! He has been dependent on you doing everything ,so he takes you for granted, and will never change! but suck the life out of you ! You “can do bad all by yourself”.

[@tmlife5338]

The judge advice is VERY BAD! A liar is a liar. Stop trying to minimize bad behavior and character flaws

[@michellepalladino5079]

I’d have had a terrific trip without my husband and filed for divorce once I returned home. As simple as that. If he’s so lazy about a passport it’s easy to see how his businesses keep failing. Hopefully she got out

[@TheNaphisa03]

Judge was wayyyyyyy toooo tough on her and cut that crappy husband a lot of slack 90% of this show. I don't like what she did at all.

[@beemonique8466]

I agree. It's because, she's probably fed up with these women complaining about things they have control over and don't exercise their control... hell, it's ridiculous!!! You had to know some of these issues before you married him...but, so many women just want to be married, want to say they have a husband as if they won!!! The Bible clearly states that when a Man finds a wife, he has found a good thing!!! Ladies, just because he wants to hook you, doesn't mean you should let him...he may not be the one intended for you.

[@yemedemure414]

Naphisa Modmonss This has been judge thing in 2020! Been easy on the men and hard on the women. 🤦🏽‍♀️😢

[@IceWhiteice22]

Cre Brown Somebody need to be hard on them. They make the irrational decision to be with these men and have kids by them and then want to complain

[@yemedemure414]

@@IceWhiteice22 Its always the man fault when anything fail. They are the head. They supposed to cover the wife and children. #bible If the men out of order so will the women and children.

[@trinihotep98]

@@yemedemure414 yes women take no accountability for anything that happens cause men are suppose to handle everything while women sit down ent

[@michellepalladino5079]

I agree with others commenting about the judge letting this guy off so easily. Men on this show have done lesser and she handed their asses on a silver platter.

[@aw8119]

The Judge was ready to get those people out of her courtroom and I can’t blame her either.

[@HTAnderson76]

This wife just regrets marrying this man and she's looking for ANY reason to get a divorce, "I wanted a Bra but he bought me a Belt" 😂😂😂

[@charlesanderson1422]

Hiba Anderson 😅😅 Yeah, the fact that he’s a deadbeat, and useless is not reason enough. You must be one of those, I don’t care how useless you are, don’t leave me sisters. This woman has standards, you don’t.

[@HTAnderson76]

@@charlesanderson1422 Wow, you went a bit over the top there. Not sure why you felt the need to make it personal. I actually AGREE that she should leave him.

[@vikatikoisolomone9722]

@@HTAnderson76 I think Charles hit it on the nail with his response to your comment

[@serious7179]

She's tired of him being a man-child

[@ladyshaybuttadreamyqueen5235]

That Was Funny , How The Judge Banged The Gavel. "Oh NO You Can't Because I Am Leaving " CLASSSIC!!!! Love That Judge!

[@BajanBrit]

Judge had had enough by the end of it, lol. She couldn't wait to slam that gavel down!

[@baderinwa1]

No despair and no strife when you chose the single life.

[@flygirlmetaphysics5049]

Does it get lonely being single?

[@sussybaka551]

And it's better than ever! Loving being single AF! NO drama for this momma

[@sussybaka551]

@@flygirlmetaphysics5049 no way

[@classicasi88]

But society will have you believing its the other way around. They can keep their relationships and marriages that they complain about and I'll stay to myself without complaints. 💯

[@erinnicole1798]

You gotta put that on a t-shirt.

[@TT-th1gb]

This guy is a manipulator & played the judge because she obviously missed this womans basic concerns all together

[@daniellecl3310]

Really couldn't get into this episode at all...found this couple #boring

[@soniarena5250]

Right, all the way down to the wig, just boring!

[@zemmollilee6715]

OMG EXACTLY ME TOO,I didn't even watch it to the end.

[@pandaonsteroids5154]

Yeah. Annoying too.

[@beatriceroberts4859]

Danielle CL me too

[@NewOrleans_KeyKey]

Definitely was boring

[@veraaddoyobo8482]

Middle name excuses, this guy makes me tired

[@cymbolichuman433]

Hey girls! This is a live picture of the "Millstone Around The Neck". Guys benefit too.... Judge Tolar sure is being over accommodating for that useless man.

[@beatriceroberts4859]

Cymbolic Human I felt that too! She was way to generous to that looser

[@sashac5359]

I’m sorry, but in this episode, the Judge was too impatient. I felt uncomfortable the way she spoke to them. I was disappointed ☹️

[@tipdog36]

A trip to France while saving for a house?? Why not date a man with a career instead of a dream??

[@egcarswell]

Nah, both of y'all are handling the marriage the wrong way. Should've never got together with all those red flags waving at y'all lol 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

[@bluemicks1]

His expressions are hilarious 😂

[@dalaiahcoaston5994]

judge irritated me this episode Bc like this dude is literally not it at all & she’s cutting him too much slack 😐💀

[@sirajsoul]

I just love judge Lynn. . Love her voice her looks her wisdom her ladihood and her brains and smile .. I listen to her to lull myself to serenity and calm... 😍

[@msfredijr]

Your honor, I think he lies about lying...

[@prettydarkie8011]

GOD IS GREAT JUST WANT TO SAY HI TO SOMEONE HAVE A GREAT LIFE HI. JUDGE IS SO BEAUTIFUL AND INTELLIGENT MAKEUP ON POINT AS USUAL BLESSINGS

[@debrastevenson709]

Really!!!!

[@idalarsen2540]

Hail Satan 🤘

[@kimiveymakeup0]

Judge: Tell me one of the more significant things he’s lied about. Lady: Well Judge, one of the little things he’s lied about is..... Me: 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

[@robbrown3401]

Soo I’ve been watching divorce court for years. I love judge Toler... BUT every few episodes she brings up how her father was just a worker, he didn’t do this he didn’t do that but I never saw a college bill... No offense to her but that actually doesn’t sound like a good situation. Maybe it’s just me

[@ronnimartin7033]

Read the comments. A lot of them. This is going to end up being like the movie Acrimony. Don't want it to have that ending though.

[@tiffanyjohnson7466]

I was literally thinking that same thing 😭

[@CherylJ7501]

She's so unhappy. He will never be able to do anything right

[@rare1walking]

Anyone who tells you what you want to hear, is a disrespectful pathological liar. There is no foundation for a lasting relationship. Trust is the basis of a relationship.

[@Ais-eb9bk]

Judge definitely was in a bad mood. Trying to rush out of there.

[@ms.cms.c3256]

This was unfair. He probably sent that money back to Africa to his family. Did he even start the business?

[@beatriceroberts4859]

She’s buying that man!!!!!

[@JayDee-ut5yg]

I see pathological liar!!! Any time you lie on things small and big that is what that is!! Why would you lie on feeding your own children!! Pathological liars also have good excuses to back up their lies and they convince themselves that the lie is the truth! If judge was with a man like him she would not put up with it and she would see he is a huge liar!!

[@jogarry1315]

The judge was correct giving those answers

[@zipporahannan4844]

Judge you can't compare your parents life to someone's

[@MrsOrganics]

This is the FRST time I’m not feeling JT. She was horrible to that lady. Damn.

[@yann7643]

Idky Judge is so irritated with the girl and so easy on this guy. Maybe she’s just having a bad day.

[@cadillacdeville5828]

Hey family 👋😊

[@kimiveymakeup0]

I knew this was gonna be a hot mess when I saw the judge’s expression in the opening statements 🤣

[@SauciestNurse]

Dang..... I love me some Judge lynnn BUT, she was wayyyyyyyyy offffffff on this one. She came at that woman with rocks and the man with a feather. He got this woman funding his dreams but can’t pay attention to little things she asks for. Her list was not even bad.

[@thelifeofzbear204]

I was saying the same thing I was like why is she being so we are with her like the wife is found in this man’s dreams bonding mean pulling out money from her pocket and she’s reading off her list Tom awesome spend time with the kids what is that like he’s clearly not doing it she made a list and that was responsible if you want to come back into my life there are a few conditions that you need to meet and I think it was so weird she got on her for having this list and was like only one thing on near me since that whole thing makes sense

[@kg7032]

Lord!! She stressed me out, just listening to her. I think I am going to have PTSD at the end of this episode. Their issues are nothing in comparison to other couples.

[@zoeelauren4649]

He is a lazy dreamer... run lady run

[@lovemii3kids]

So wait he needs a visa to go to France? He is a Greencard holder?

[@leslierobertson3355]

He is supposed to keep striving. She wants him to give up.

[@jakiee]

“Striving” can’t put food into their mouths or the mouths of their children. I understand her concerns.

[@leslierobertson3355]

A slew of successful people failed continuously. You keep getting up.

[@Sabrewood13]

He lost the ability to be flighty with their money when they started having children kids can’t live off of hopes and dreams and it’s not right to push all that financial responsibility on his pregnant wife he is selfish

[@ashadesuza4237]

He can strive when he has the money to do so! U cant be striving on somebody's back forever! Sorry

[@robbrown3401]

I’m an entrepreneur as well. BUT I understand that there is a balanace, I can’t neglect my wife for years in hopes that one day it’ll all pay off.

[@shay_lah]

she spent all her inheritance on a TRIP ??

[@maryannemoll]

I think the dude’s head is just way too up in the clouds.

[@senorasolitaria7908]

It was a good trade off that they never got to see their dad? Hmm.

[@keishasmith379]

It makes no sense to say someone is a liar and a smooth talker. Just because u fall for something they say doesnt mean they are a smooth talker. And why stay with them and come on a show and complain if u really think that. Too many ppl have multiple kids and continue to struggle with a man they really shouldnt be with. Why!

[@suhailaali1478]

The judge didn't do any good to this woman

[@Sesshomarusfox]

Hes a talented 1 yr old

[@DH-rt6fl]

girl w the shaved head behind the man is GORGEOUS😍😍

[@monikathomas4985]

Apply for citizenship to go on a trip? What’s he talking about?

[@Jamarcy]

Monika Thomas he had a green card which was expiring so he needed to Apply US citizenships to get a US passport .

[@jaxpax2566]

@@Jamarcy so that trip would have never happened on time. It takes years to get citizenship most of the time. She dealing with him all those yrs why would she buy nonrefundable tix or take the children & go without him? True waste of $$$. So that supports shes not making good decisions & in denial of what he Doesnt take care of. She knee he is irresponsible but keep wishing puff...he become responsible!!@

[@malekabayoumdi2918]

His green card expired. So instead of reapplying for it, he would rather apply for a citizenship.

[@coriesmith2633]

Is that Keisha?

[@soniarena5250]

From Belly?! LOL

[@prettybrown3829]

Looks just like her, don't it

[@Promiseland2024]

Im exhausted just listening to her. Sweetheart, take your loss and roll out. He is squeezing you dry mentally and spiritually. 🤕

[@beverlyhall4578]

Financially squeezing her dry as well. Run.

[@scottcastillo5043]

This guy wants to be an owner of a business and not have do any work after he starts the business. I agree with another woman who says he has her financing his dreams.

[@Solmom03]

A compulsive liar at the least and a bit delusional in what it takes to run a business, to get your visa or passport, to raise a family etc

[@rozyland7907]

When i was one, i was hiding under the tv stand.....they found me three hours later.....

[@rescueistheway4470]

He was even too slow to let her out at the end she ending up going first and hold the gate thing open for him...no ma'am..judge didn't agree with you on this one...

[@daniellelove5922]

Judge lynn Toyler is making excuses for this sorry joker she did right put him out and leave him out....Don't let him back in she put to much into his sorry butt and not putting it in for herself...Judge stop making excuses for that joker....

[@mochabby93]

That poor girl better run

[@sanyundekou9332]

Judge got on the wife because she is aiding and enabling the behavior she doesn't want.

[@lauryjerry1566]

we are ambitious but this lady is at another level,,,it makes the husband is pushing him on things

[@TheReddman68]

I must be BLIND I just don't understand these WOMEN they let a guy run over them and then HAVE THERE KIDS ?????

[@alexandremichaelmartin6955]

One lie makes one question all your truths.Seems just like a lazy smooth talking con man, pimping was actually the profession you should've concentrated on.

[@barbaragould500]

😴hey yall wake me up when this is over 😹👍

[@lajunecrockett2381]

Did he just wanted citizenship......he got over on the judge ....I would leave him.....let him lose that green card

[@empressashayaabebaregent3138]

People love to throw around the word pathological

[@4everThoughtful]

Yes, they do and I get sick of it!! They do the same thing with "narcissist/narcissistic". These are both medical conditions (mental/biological) and qualified medical know how to use them correctly.

[@Sabrewood13]

But he is pathological if she can’t trust what you’re saying is true because you lie so much how is he not a pathological liar

[@asabifatosin1150]

Of course, the question is, WHY did u have a2nd baby?

[@nannynewsviews542]

So Just Lynn was just as bored by them as we were...

[@jakiic23]

I disagree with Judge Lynn here, a father's presence is more important than his money.

[@Missyblam]

Heffa said beyonce and JayZ🤦‍♀️Hunny first off dont compare your relationship with others

[@CrissyLove777]

Watching all this judges episodes, sad she’s not on the show anymore 😭

[@jessicarattle4164]

Wow, Judge did this women wrong on this episode. I think she may of been in a bad mood for sure. He is a terrible person who wants to love his kids from an arms reach, he wants to go behind her back and make plans without her consent and got given the green light to by the judge. He is going to twist and use this episode to his advantage. She is going to be terribly unhappy. No update? Poor love needs to get out and make her dream happen cause he is going to kick every leg of stability out from under her before she gets a chance to balance

[@TheKCTURNER]

Be specific

[@jo-annbastings]

My God I’m happy to be live by myself! Men are cute and funny but way too much of maintenance!

[@ronnimartin7033]

Last comment. Many people don't understand the Entrepreneurs mindset. He's going to make it. Will she be with him when he does is the question.

[@charlesanderson1422]

Ronni Martin 🤣🤣 No he’s not. BTW a mindset doesn’t bring you customers.

[@tdiva3045]

She talks too much... I would have left too.

[@Cierabyul]

Shouldn't use lack of direction as an excuse to find loopholes in the relationship, some things you shouldn't have to tell people.

[@PoliticalWonderland]

The marriage don’t need work these individuals need to work on their crazy and their lazy

[@alexwatches]

he definitely seems like a pathological liar, it seems like he lies about literally everything even if the lies are small. he's annoying as hell and she needs to get away from him asap

[@freespirit1244]

Nothing about this case was different from previous ones. Different faces with same issues. No wonder judge Toler was eyeing up the exit door midway. These people must watch the show at some point...I don't understand...maybe they just wanted a free trip?😶

[@yung1717]

Yeah doctors see the same diseases, lawyers see the same charges, jobs are repetitive. So you can skip out on your job if you’ve seen this before?

[@evabernardo5847]

The judge is also forgetting that maybe those little things her own mother wanted though let go of it. Just because our parents never expressed doesn’t mean it wasn’t there.

[@danfuller5259]

Empty promises: counseling, damn! Dude can just gimme the $ and I’ll get my own belt 😏

[@winniebassette9591]

So he’s a liar. I know my Haitian people. The Haitian embassy does not require financial stability to get your passport. He’s doing the most and she got fed up with giving her money to him. Her family was probably laughing at her