No Shame In His Game: Jillian Allen v David Madwin S24 E45

Ashley says Dex has completely given up on himself and refuses to work. She's tired of paying the bills. Dex wishes Ashley was patient with him and give him time to find a job.
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[@lydimae3810]

Women his own age wouldn’t put up with his foolishness. That’s why he’s going after someone so young.

[@Shellygrrl2573]

That's where you are wrong.. I have seen women come on the show WAY older than her and putting up with so much crap (having babies outside of the relationship with other women, constant cheating, no job),it's not even funny. Her age doesn't make her exempt from being dumb. Her lack of self respect is what makes her dumb.

[@d820m]

i've seen older females put up with much worse from dudes worse than him...there's young foolish women and old foolish women that are putting up with this foolishnes right at this moment, so that blows your "Women his own age wouldn't put up with his foolishness" out of the water🤣

[@d820m]

@@Shellygrrl2573 in some cases it IS kinda funny, there have been moments where i know I shouldn't laugh but i just end up cracking up🤣

[@erinjohnson4273]

@@d820m Your wrong for that 😂 but I'm guilty of that as well

[@Shellygrrl2573]

@@d820m yeah not going to lie.. I've laughed bc im like" geez woman! You just let this man do anything. If you're not going to leave him after all that Let him mow u down like a speed bump in peace" 😬

[@ChibiChick25]

This episode is a prime example of gaslighting. He is literally convincing her that she is crazy and insecure for thinking its inappropriate that he flirt, sleep in the same bed with an ex, and spoon her best friend. Like come on girl!! Open your eyes!

[@warmlantern0000]

He's doing everything to test her to make HER break up. She's hoping by threatening to break up that he'll change. But he don't want her. That's why he's doing it. GIRL RUN BEFORE THERES A CHILD INVOLVED

[@Sarahlee358]

I don’t think so. He did get nervous there for a moment when judge was pointing out how someone should behave when they love and care about the person. He absolutely doesn’t want her to break up with him. He just wants her to accept his inappropriate actions and continue being in relationship.

[@robbbietheim2096]

She is one of the most naive women to ever appear on Divorce Court, and he like me saw her coming a mile away, She has to love herself first , " Nobody can make you a doormat unless you lay down on the floor" JUDGE STAR 101 ❤

[@Arbitorriku2]

She’s young.

[@opulence_prime]

It’s not even that she’s naive. Some ppl (women like her) believe the more they put up with the more they can hold that over the persons head and then some

[@JazzyJeffRealTalk]

Judge starr crushed this case, and he is clearly trying to manipulate a naive girl into a relationship where he has free reign to do whatever. He doesn’t love her at all.

[@chantelparise]

She’s 22, he’s 34. He’s with a woman that age because he doesn’t want to get serious…. And she doesn’t have the life experience or confidence to stand up to him

[@StephMG]

I was looking for this comment 💯

[@sammhammiam]

In their situation 💯! Wasn't the case for mine. Been with my SO for almost 13 year's. I was 22 and he was 33.

[@Sandrinarhonda]

@@sammhammiam but are you married though ?

[@kattiethomas4687]

Male narcissist

[@kattiethomas4687]

Unbelievable 😢😢

[@minae9935]

Judge Star is doing an AMAZING job! He’s a narcissist. Girl RUN!!

[@bee12355]

She should have been gone a long time ago

[@DH-rt6fl]

THAT PART!!

[@madwinarts]

Preach!

[@ayefo7800]

Gurrrrll....he love bombed you and sensed from the jump that you had self-esteem issues. And he knows that he can manipulate the situation any way he wants. I really hope this was an eye opener for her cos she deserves better.

[@phoenixastral9046]

" my basics interactions are flirtatious " In other word " I am not meant for relationships "

[@bluebutterfly244]

Does he need to get emotional support and cuddle with his male friends too? Yeah, didn't think so. Get out of here, sir.

[@esmereldaweatherwax7230]

He went on holiday with his ex, sharing a bed with her and expects his girlfriend to believe that nothing happened because he told her so? Per-lease! He's gaslighting her.

[@kattiethomas4687]

OR BE PLEASED WITH IT.

[@kattiethomas4687]

He's PITIFUL

[@thisismyinferno]

Hes just stumping on her boundaries and trying to justify them. That's not healthy. Hes speaking in circles trying to gaslight her into thinking it's okay. It's manipulative.

[@rutendochinamira1312]

Auntie Star gave some advice and then some! He’s so manipulative with the way he tried to cajole her every time the judge called him out.

[@d820m]

really? I don't see it....she ain't leaving him

[@wezzman1]

This is just abuses. These kind of ppl make me sick, manipulative, lie and use others for their own self interest. Where are her family and friends to knock sense into her?

[@junereader7230]

She's needs someone to donate a brain . Can't finish this bs.

[@erinjohnson4273]

I'll do it and I'm heavy handed 😂

[@shaquiera2341]

“La-di-da-di and everybody” 😂

[@jasmindrace]

Shamelessness is not honesty. He puts more responsibility on the third parties than himself. 🙄 She needs to not waste another second of her youth with him!

[@sexymama1966]

The balliff says "spooning"--that's hilarious. That would have been a quick case..case dismissed! The next case will begin after these messages!

[@sophiaandre139]

Man! Was I happy when Judge Star put him in his place. 😂

[@madwinarts]

I enjoyed it to

[@moussabby]

Aunty Star spoke the TRUTH! Ms Allen, you deserve so much better! Hopefully you've found your person.

[@warmlantern0000]

She don't love him. She loves the idea of being in love. That's not love what he's showing HER.

[@whatsthetruth_review]

Dam girl move tf on he doesn't want to be in a relationship. And he's mad disrespectful anyway.

[@jasmindrace]

Did he just say that Morocco is in WEST Africa???

[@moussabby]

He was trying to spin his tale.

[@Sandrinarhonda]

😂😂 it’s in north west Africa so he didn’t lie

[@keyeviondavis9647]

LUST IS SUCH A POWERFUL DRUG, IT HAS YOU THINKING IT'S LOVE WHEN, ITS ONLY LUST SERIOUSLY, IT IS RESPONSIBLE FOR MANY DOWNFALLS, SMH 😠💯

[@d820m]

there's always cocaine...i hear it's a hell of a drug!!!🤣🤣🤣

[@sweetsweet81]

People don't realize that they are deep in lust and not love. They get the two confused.

[@keyeviondavis9647]

@@d820m 😀😀

[@Purplegirl-pi1jo]

So true

[@sunshinebutterfly4654]

Definitely no way but to look at it as he is being selfish...just because you are honest doesn't mean you can do anything! Run run run! 🏃‍♀️

[@JAYBOXPOWER1987]

Like I always say, "Be with a man who wants a future, not with a man with options."

[@cara5392]

What kind of relationship is this?!

[@sctravelrn8991]

This young woman tolerates his disrespect because she has zero self esteem. Hopefully she'll decide she's worth more, before an innocent child is brought into this mess.

[@NoFoxGvn]

She has self esteem issues. She can do so much better than this but doesn’t believe it.

[@alsherrod1]

I was skeptical about Star Jones but she's doing a great job

[@warmlantern0000]

He thinks by doing it in front of her it's ok. But he wasn't in front of her when he took THAT trip with a ex in bed. DONT BE A DOORMAT Now he's going knock her up to MAKE her stay 😑

[@truthbetold1074]

how df you love someone that stay disrespecting you...??? where they do this at??

[@joe-dante9036]

What does a 34 year old want with a 22 year old? That's not ok at all

[@2tactbrilliant51]

I think she will continue to be a doormat.

[@muziquebox]

It’s so pathetic how people constantly defend unacceptable behavior in a relationship when they can just NOT BE IN ONE and do whatever the hell they want!!! 🗣🗣🗣 If you don’t have the capacity or desire to respect and honor a significant other, DONT HAVE ONE!! It’s NOT rocket science, people! DAMN!

[@sweetsweet81]

ALL of that!!!

[@erinjohnson4273]

That part

[@sweetsweet81]

Ma'am....I need you to wake the hell up and smell the coffee!!! He ain't ready to be married! He's still living and behaving like a bachelor. He doesn't care about how disrespectful he is in any relationship. His words and actions don't match....and he's borderline narcissistic. He crosses boundaries all the time. Pack your stuff and run!!!!

[@Singlehood2Marriage]

The AGE difference should definitely be addressed. He's manipulating her and she needs to LEAVE him alone and LIVE her young life!!!!!

[@Sixdawg06]

He’s not manipulating anything. He’s a jerk. He shows her who he is and doesn’t hide it. he is flirty with other women and close physically and she needs to stop trying to change him. Either accept what he’s doing or leave. Stop trying to infantilize a grown woman. She’s 22 that’s an adult. She put herself in this situation.

[@MaskedMadmann]

@@Sixdawg06 Everything you said was 100% correct.

[@d820m]

@@Sixdawg06 and she lays on the floor, legs open, like the doormat that she has been and will continue to be 🤣🤣

[@ndirich]

Morocco is NOT West Africa

[@Purplegirl-pi1jo]

😂😂

[@NaomyP]

This is just sad, she's 22 so young where her mom at? putting up with a manchild because she's desperate or is she scare to start over? He's pathetic, at his BIG AGE, UGH!!!! But like Judge Toler would say " Don't let a man tell you twice, he doesn't want you". RUN GIRL, RUN! He's definitely not interested in her.

[@ashantisimone1297]

Is he really trying to compare her friendship with other women to his with his ex’s? He’s a damn weirdo man she needs to leave his ass. He’s cheating he’s trying to manipulate her. Who goes out of town with an ex and not do anything

[@SharpieDarlingLLC]

He wants his cake and wants to sample everyone else’s too.

[@lakeshadavis8332]

A lot of ppl don't know the true meaning of the word "Love". They could be totally disrespected in a relationship and called it love. Totally disregarded in a relationship and called it love. Totally abused in a relationship and called it love. Just throwing the word Love around like it means nothing. Smh

[@tonyamscateyezmcmillan1417]

you can say that again

[@loranbolding8670]

I love how he blames her "jealousy" for their issues, like his actions didn't cause that reaction 🤬🤬🤬

[@libras.groove.]

Let her cuddle with his male friends and it’s over

[@elrickfulton]

Dude.. just be single. Courts adjourned!

[@lovesyah4618]

Dude is outta his freaking mind. I wouldn't trust him as far as I could throw him. Who does the things he do? She's too young to be so serious. She needs to give herself time to enjoy life and date around. He can't keep his hands off other women. That's crazy! No woman that I know would put up with his crap. He's too touchy feely.

[@wandasantillo1220]

I agree she was running right there with him.

[@derrickstingley6895]

Some people are not meant to be together

[@lydimae3810]

This poor woman deserves better. She should find a man who wants the same things she wants and treats her with respect. He thinks he’s god’s gift to women 😑

[@KWin-ik5cl]

Gurl, you need to leave. Nothing about him says he’s your dude and want to be committed….to you. Please learn from this

[@lotusgsxr750]

This can't be real...

[@drapertraci7]

This dude is manipulative…. Too old for her. She’s naive! She knows he’s a mess! She’d better get to steppin!’ ❤ Auntie Star tried to tell her. 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@yasmeenzaid1671]

Oh my goodness. She’s not leaving ugh

[@cookiegilcrest1000]

NINE Out of ten, She's supporting him. He don't want too let go. HE'S HAVING HIS WAY!

[@bee12355]

Why is she still in this relationship. Just leave

[@Luthelioness83]

Girl, he is NOT your boyfriend. RUN!🏃‍♀

[@michellemguni8298]

unfortunately i don't think it clicked for her yet

[@ThatGirlGiGiNYC]

I'm trying to figure out why she is still with him? clearly he is playing her...I can't

[@sinavaitululeupolu1455]

Girl love yourself n u deserves better. Let him go n he not ready for a relationship

[@aniixbaby]

⭐Not gonna, but I think my favorite judge is Judge Star. I mean, Auntie Star ❤⭐

[@reginaharrigan7454]

Sis you can't stop a man from cheating

[@RainWalking]

He is nearly old enough to be her father.

[@Remember_Eden]

Lol, and how old would that be? They differ in 12 years. Yeah, he could have been a teen dad 😂😂.

[@RainWalking]

@@Remember_Eden Yea and that means she was like 19 and he was 30 when they started dating.

[@Remember_Eden]

@@RainWalking i don’t see the problem with that. At 19 your legally an adult.

[@RainWalking]

@@Remember_Eden That would be you past 60 dating a 18 year old. You would say she is an adult now. But you know what, wait until it is your daughter.

[@Remember_Eden]

@@RainWalking lol, 60 is too much. If i had a daughter dating a man 12 years older than her, i would be more concerned about his intentions and socioeconomic status, than his age.

[@Burlykim13]

This is a perfect example of him testing the limits more and more and because she won’t actually follow through with leaving him he just keeps pushing more and more. Girl you don’t NEED HIM! You’ll be just fine and he can go and flirt and be as close with his exes (who are exes for a reason) as he wants.

[@queenmama9229]

Ms. STAR🤣 🧡 Young Gurl RUN!!

[@creamekay]

Adjust to flirting huh girl leave him please he look sweaty 😂

[@riquelbrown1357]

"Yea, Thank you Robert " took me out🤣🤣🤣

[@agadonk]

He's a gaslighter and she was just a younger good time who thinks the relationship is more than what it really is.

[@shay-rae138]

She looks really old for 22 years old and the most naive person I have seen smh 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@RainWalking]

He is so bad but she stays. What does that say about her

[@kca3346]

The fact he is willing to do that stuff openly isn't a sign of honesty, it's a lack of shame, which means he doesn't feel any guilt about it.

[@spieldose]

Spooning your friends is NOT OK. I didn't think someone would need to be told that. This guy.

[@louisram4044]

She is naive o my God,

[@essence4life23]

He don't respect her point blank period. He not even cute girl.

[@d820m]

neither is she

[@kind2423]

That’s what I don’t understand. It’s always the most unattractive men who have biggest ego. She’s beautiful and she needs to know her worth

[@madwinarts]

@@kind2423 Lucky for us unattractive men, huh?

[@misstiff29]

Wow that poem Part hurt my heart. Such an metaphor for their relationship 😔

[@candicedutch5090]

I just love Judge Star more and more! That seed analogy was well said❤

[@talethiadavison1998]

He isn't in to her. Some of everything happened on that trip. He seems polyamorous. She should've dropped him long time ago.

[@57jauar]

He's a snake, let him and your so called FRIEND.....slither down the path to nowhere. Don't look back!

[@jeremyjones8917]

This case is weird I'm confused and they are too 🤣😂🤣😂

[@JewelAdele]

Reminds me of when first started dating. I was marriage minded, so I was hoping I would meet the one. All the men i met were 👹. Had My heart broken a few times bc I believed the representative. She'll learn. Peace is Better than a Sorry Azz Man.

[@FinDom1]

He is a weirdo.

[@madwinarts]

True

[@Gisellej80]

👀 oh dating agent first 18mths first time thinking 🤔 of it that way. He slap a woman behind at a comedy show but claim it was her first. He shared a bed wit a friend in moraco 😵

[@sanyundekou9332]

He's a lame, and she needs self-esteem.

[@sagthenaturalsiren5997]

I didn’t know anybody else nor was I this slow as a 22 year old

[@moniquelashawn8723]

Ain't no way he would put up with tht from her...he knows tht crap ain't ri.. ain't enough love in this world... I'm a Scorpio 🤣 so u already Kno...not I said the 🐈and the unbelievable part is she gonna stay with him... he's a manipulator...po baby... please learn self worth

[@erinjohnson4273]

I've dated a Scorpio and I already know lamo!

[@moniquelashawn8723]

@@erinjohnson4273 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@brendasuelong-bryant7613]

She needs to run, run, run! If he's doing that to your face, imagine what he's doing behind your back!! RUN!!!

[@xXLilSmurthXx]

Love how Judge Star broke down what a foundation is and how to build/grow it.

[@Mstwosets]

Gosh, i just love the transparency Judge Star is giving. She is not one sided at all. She tells it like it is.

[@Jikaria21]

Judge Star is that woman!! I really enjoyed this episode! These are the things that need to be heard and understood!

[@God-Love-Freedom]

He's pushing those boundaries with her to eventually open the door to an open relationship/marriage.

[@JkMontecalvo]

I love this woman she's very calming

[@vainbeautyconcepts]

Whew! I was exhausted watching this episode!

[@57jauar]

Young Lady, RUN DONT WALK. He will always justify his bad🤬💥

[@zulu3274]

🙂Men are waking up and beginning to be more honest with women... I applaud it... It's not their fault if the women are in denial of what's going on or what he ACTUALLY said... Even when men are being honest its still never good enough.....smh....

[@erinjohnson4273]

I can appreciate an honest man than to be with a liar!

[@zulu3274]

@@erinjohnson4273 absolutely... when people are honest with you, you never have to get your feelings hurt because of deception... Just tell the truth from the start and see where it goes from there...

[@stopit41]

He look 45 and she look 34. They both acting tap. SMDH I don't care what they do 🤣😂😂🤣😂

[@latoyas191]

I hug my friends but I do not "get physical" with them. Strange words there.

[@brendagiller1920]

Wow she needs to drop that zero and get her a hero. People only do what you let them get away with

[@serenity7394]

Toughen up fluffy. I mean who cares if he's flirting so as long as he ain't cheating

[@priscillaboyd7058]

Don't give her your things let her get her own door mat

[@redeemfaith]

One of the best reads from Star! He is a gaslighted and a love bomber. When he done with one he starts then other and goes back and forth... He is the kind of dude that she will end up wasting her 20 and 30s on and wonder what happened. There is a whole lotta nothing between them. They have physical relations and it was just pure lust And she is young and fell for it.

[@FPrice-jb8sl]

Is this scripted because ain’t no f-ing way!

[@RainWalking]

That brunette girl she is like the "Reaction Girl". Reacts to every single thing 🤣