Who's Kids Are These: Kamari Young v Allen Young

[@The.Wellerman]

I'm glad Star called this age gap out that he was trying to gloss over. It's extremely predatory.

[@leeleegrace9015]

Foreal!

[@thefreequency]

He said "we met when I was 14" ‼️‼️‼️ How is a 14 y.o. meeting a 5 y.o. Under what circumstances???!!

[@SweetestNya]

Right! He says they met when he was 17… soooo she was 9! At church of all places. 😢 Hide yo kids!

[@Cloudsndaskyy]

They got together when she was 17 not when he was 17. So he was 25

[@thegills21able]

I seen one show when the woman was 14 years older then the man judge star didn’t have that energy for the woman Smdh

[@flygirlvenus1990]

Judge Toler would have ripped all into him! Lol! And gave her the most uplifting and empowering talk this girl ever heard.

[@smithsacademyoflearning4086]

Judge Starr did ❤thank God

[@Sansann84]

Yupppp that is why I miss Judge Lynn sooo much

[@specialk8927]

Exactly

[@ShanteriaLawrence]

Judge Toler would have gotten on him as he needed more than what Judge Starr just gave. Judge Starr never go the full mile that some of these people really need. When Judge Starr talks, she talks to the couple ONLY, when judge Toler talks, she is talking to everyone listening including the couple. Lol She almost makes you feel like it's you, and you learn a lot from her. I miss her too @alexandra Rene

[@biancablonc4609]

He is disgusting 🤮 These dust balls all around the same at this point

[@okaygworl]

The part that scared me the most was, "HE WONT LET ME LEAVE". This is deeper than her "just walking" away--keyword: LET.

[@tedra6455]

No kids either.

[@sunshinebutterfly4654]

Unfortunately may need a restraining order....creepy

[@MrsMeeker0328]

​@@sunshinebutterfly4654 and sadly that doesn't even work most times 😢

[@youngodyssey16]

So how do women find a way to get out

[@MrsMeeker0328]

@@youngodyssey16 its incredibly difficult. Most cases it takes utilizing area resources like domestic violence shelters and such. Even if its temporary, the relocation will sometimes help the abuser lose track of where the person lives. Its sick that it takes that much. I say a good ol sturdy 9mm works best to ensure they adhere to the restraining order 😅

[@rasun316]

...he killed her social media accounts to keep other women from telling on him

[@yah7130]

@Randall But also to have control and isolate her from the world. coercive control and borderline domestic abuse springs to mind.

[@Dee-xi4un]

Exactly AND straight control. He knew she has low self esteem and groomed her because she's so young

[@taarons227]

This is so true. My ex did the same thing to me.

[@wordplay6665]

Exactly people were telling on him talking about fake messages nah Nigga they were about yo ass!

[@mariahillenbrand8396]

He says that "I felt that we were still getting to know each other." AKA you stop seeing other guys, but I'm a go out and play with whomever I want to! And please stop trying to dance around it - YOU WERE ENGAGED!! THE OTHER GIRL IS SENDING OUT WEDDING INVITATIONS AND YOU'RE SAYING YOU'RE NOT ENGAGED!!! SERIOUSLY?? Well, it seems someone out there thinks you're committed to each other - WHILE YOU'RE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH THIS YOUNG THING!! And she was dumb to take him back. HE'S ENGAGED TO ANOTHER WOMAN GIRL!! RUN!! HE KEEPS LYING TO YOU AND TO THE JUDGE. You need to LEAVE THIS FOOL!!! Pack up his stuff, put it outside, and call the locksmith!! And if he keeps coming around, call the police!!! What are you doing with him???

[@jasmineelise424]

this man thinks if he says “at the time” enough, it will begin to make sense 😂

[@queencaraMEL40]

IKR...He was getting on my nerves 😂😂

[@Josie3387]

He thinks that makes the lie sound better.

[@OSMRDucksLIB]

I was ready to throw my phone if he said it one more time. 🤬

[@jacquelinewilliams6572]

At the time means he’s lying

[@mlm1916]

For heaven's sake ! I was wondering what time he was talking about. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@robbbietheim2096]

He started out stalking, and being super creepy, from the absolute beginning of the relationship, the age difference alone speaks predator, he certainly has issues 😡💯

[@coconwa]

Pls lady , take ur judgmental predator seat & sit in one corner. Most women that dated & groomed young male are hailed with “go girl” , “ catch them young” but male are labeled child molester / predator.

[@tedra6455]

So he was 14 as he said, then she was 6 years old.

[@LaTasha2224]

@@tedra6455 I had to go to bed on this one! This dude said he was 14. She was in kindergarten!

[@gwenturner8123]

I did the math on that one too and I said aw hell no, what was you doing with a six year old Sir?

[@brittanybrown484]

💔💔💔💔

[@valjohns5823]

Poor thing. I just wanted to hug her. “You are far to young to have this level of sadness…”

[@konige-tochteru.9295]

How she stayed after finding about his little village is beyond me. Girl run!!

[@justbusiness01]

Not little village 😂😂 I can’t 😂

[@brittanybrown484]

Do not pass go. Do not collect $200. Run.

[@looknbakatu]

i'm thinking she has self esteem issues, SOMETHING! is going on!?🤨🤨🤨

[@toyaward9818]

Ikr😮

[@alexisjones65]

One thing judge Starr gone do is call out the predators 😂😂😂 love her

[@leeleegrace9015]

As she should! Hell we all should cuz they out here! Lol #protectourchildren

[@chaliseb]

She don’t play that ish as she SHOULDN’T

[@dotsan8543]

She need intervention Where is her mother and father sister and brother Pastor ! Mystery where does these people come from. Is the marriage Valid age children engaged !?

[@charmainewalker8627]

Ladies please don’t be afraid to be alone. Yes you are enough. When someone shows you who they are the first time believe them. Don’t be afraid to walk away from toxic relationships and stop listening to society that you have to be with someone. If someone cannot put you first please leave

[@leeleegrace9015]

Well said! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@tedra6455]

I totally agree. Amen!

[@toyaward9818]

I enjoyed being single. You have to love yourself first. Stop telling everything to everyone and tell God what you desire. Sometimes you have to close your mouth.

[@blank-stare6373]

she ain't leaving. she ain't had enough yet. so incredibly sad for her. she don't know no better.

[@traceysbodytreats257]

Her self-esteem is too low...🥺

[@Pinkypromise8891]

I hope that Star Jones keeps in touch with her, and keep talking to her untill she has the strength to leave...she needs that

[@iamdenabruton]

That lady is scared. She's broken. Men need to hold men accountable and let women do the same. The words she's saying says it all. Sounds like she's been threatened by him.

[@d820m]

if she don't leave then she shouldn't be bitching and moaning about what he does, Like Richard Sherman once said to Pierre Garcon..."YOU WANTED THIS NOISE!!!"....Sorry, I can't dig up any sympathy for this lady....seems to be a glutton for punishment🤣

[@ThetaAlphaGamma]

That's the kind of " if I can't have her....no one will " abusive relationship she needs to wake up from the nightmare situation. 😢

[@zehrifasc4164]

“ He won’t let me leave” that’s a statement from someone screaming out for help

[@leeleegrace9015]

Yes!!!! When she said that my ear perked all the way up!

[@MARCELORLANDOKING-wm5ri]

​@@leeleegrace9015I like your hair 🔥🔥🔥🔥💯💯💯🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@janetvansky3621]

He doesn't love her, he loves the CONTROL he has over her.

[@peacefaith560]

he sound gay 🤫

[@peacheslove3499]

Her parents failed her. That's all I can say. He's ughhhhh. Sickening She is really beautiful, deserves waaaayyyyy better and she needs to realize that.

[@annettescroggins3905]

Agree

[@yvettewilliams5967]

Girl, please walk and be out of this mess. Divorce his behind!

[@gospel4303]

….RUNNNN! 🏃‍♀️

[@sheilae.9670]

You mean run, cuz he is something else

[@neverdavenever]

"When I was down, he was there." Judge: "No, he wasn't." 😂😂😂😂

[@2400md]

Her self esteem is so low she truly believes he’s the one for her. Like the Judge said she needs to find herself and live her life… extremely sad scenario for a 22 yr old - she is in way over her head

[@mariahillenbrand8396]

That's exactly why he chose her. Because she was (and still is) very naive and he took advantage of that!! He likes them young because he can lie to them, manipulate them, and run their lives!! She needs to WALK AWAY!!

[@sinailemor467]

He was 26 and she was 17 when they were friends with benefits??? And nobody called the cops???!!!

[@mariajon6423]

Sadly not everyone has people who care about them enough to call the cops

[@MARCELORLANDOKING-wm5ri]

I don't know about the state of Kentucky in the state of North Carolina where I'm from born and raised the dating age limit is over eighteen he better be lucky he was not born Here he would have by law have to registered as a sex offender and served prison time

[@MARCELORLANDOKING-wm5ri]

​​@@mariajon6423 spot on sistah he should have been locked up in prison and register as a sex offender praying on and screwing an underage teenager 🤮🤮🤢🤢🤢

[@dapimp84]

In the state of NY 17 is legal sadly

[@TheCreoleSon89]

It is legal in most states honestly. You need to talk to your state representative about changing it but age of consent is rarely 18

[@ashleym.2981]

He says “We met when I was 14”, like it was memorable. She was 6! He was definitely watching and waiting smh.

[@jessicascreenwritingservices]

This is a hot mess. She can’t trust this man past the front door. Once trust is gone on that level, it’s over. Plus the controlling behavior is extremely toxic.

[@tedra6455]

She need to walk. She to young to be dealing with his bull with 5 kids too.

[@lor258]

Pause…..he said he’s liked her since he was 14???? He’s currently 31 and she’s 22. That’s a 9 year difference…if he started liking her when he was 14, that means she was 5……….wtf? 🤮

[@lomaxlomax6152]

Exactly, like did he think that would sound better. 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@lor258]

I think he did 🤣. He was trying so hard to prove she wasn’t that much younger than him.

[@emeraldeleven8197]

I thought the same thing.

[@stopit41]

Disgusting

[@bee12355]

He’s a predator

[@JazzyJeffRealTalk]

His lying tell is when repeatedly says the phrase, “At that time” before he about to explain his lie.

[@leah8112]

Judge wasn’t letting him sweep ‘when we was young’ under the carpet 😂

[@ciamon1]

This needed to be a 2 part episode. I think there was so much more to be said.

[@mybusiness186]

Finally, a judge that is calling out these men about starting to date a woman when she was underage.

[@MARCELORLANDOKING-wm5ri]

It's disgusting 🤮🤢no matter how you put it but sadly it depends on the state that allow this pedophile nonsense in the state of North Carolina where I'm from the legal age is 18

[@cheyannemariah.8578]

This man has groomed and was preying on her the very second he got. It’s disgusting he’s a nasty human being

[@dalemurray9169]

The loss of that child is a blessing in disguise.

[@detroitlegacy]

i agree!!

[@gailsmith836]

What a terrible thing to say

[@PoliticalWonderland]

@@gailsmith836 10000% many don’t understand the grief of miscarriage and loss so deep

[@PoliticalWonderland]

People have told me the same thing about my miscarriage. It’s disgusting, u need to be ashamed of urself. Ur not helpinf

[@rashanagriffith4805]

Is very sad but I would say things happen for a reason and it would allow her to get out easier but this situation is definitely not a "blessing" May her heart heal and she leave this loser

[@babiiluv7931]

I cried for her 🥺 dude KNEW from the beginning how he was doing to get her! He knew it! He preyed on her with intent of lying the whole relationship for his sick benefit. He is the devil for sure and he just sitting there like he NEVER DID ISH WRONG. EVER.

[@drapertraci7]

This poor baby... she needs an Iyanla hug... He is a HOT MESS!

[@mringram]

She needs to get away from him and start loving herself

[@beilyforchue5920]

This relationship is weird. He is a liar and a controller, unfortunately she is inexperienced and has a low self esteem. Hiding kids, engagements and age gaps are all red flags of a manipulative liar. Please don’t settle for this toxic relationship. Queen you deserve better!!! ❤

[@d820m]

a real queen would have left long ago....this lady is no queen

[@wilapblkhistory8310]

OMG, annnd she’s only around the Age of 22!😢 ❤ my heart goes out to her and I will pray for her because she’s at a point in her life where she needs help! Especially with her losing a child! Then to have this older guy who has manipulated her for years, where are her parents? Or it may be that he manipulated her into pulling her away from her family. She’s so youngAnd to have this level of manipulation and tragedy is really devastating for her peace of mind, her broken heart, and her insecurities! May God bless and keep her!

[@Nelley_Nell_507]

God told her in so many ways that this man is not it! 😢

[@keziaguy6056]

This made me so sad for her. I was in her position for 9 years... he was physically abusive and cheated and, many other things... Didn't value myself and I have been free for some years now. I pray she frees herself and finds who she is ❤❤ and love who she is ❤❤❤ I hope she could see this and wake up .. sigh

[@cadillacdeville5828]

I can relate to her and you soo much

[@keziaguy6056]

@@cadillacdeville5828 too many times we don't value ourselves, and end up with trash men . Always good to grow and learn 🙌🙌

[@keziaguy6056]

@@cadillacdeville5828 sending love to you also ❤❤❤

[@stellarvgurl]

❤❤❤

[@PoliticalWonderland]

Great lessons here. I hope this episode opened a kids eyes to their gr00 Ming “relationship.” 😢

[@X.Sheislia]

When you were 14??? She was like 5/6 wth 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@valpooh7532]

That’s what I said. Predator

[@lblayde]

Yes and he probably was touching on her than, they both trying to say 5 yrs but it's probably more like 7 or 8 yrs, when she was 14-15 yrs old

[@jeanettematthews7677]

He's a user and he seems like he is a down low type as well.. I pray for her strength!

[@specialk8927]

Yep clearly suspicious

[@82laina]

​@@specialk8927 Very suspicious 👀

[@ThetaAlphaGamma]

Down low for certain....I'm glad someone else sees that. 😢

[@Kara-kx1lb]

A friend of mine, when she got married, her soon to be hubby. He ended up having 10 kids, most of them were around our ages at the time.... she still married him. It was crazy!!!

[@yvettewilliams5967]

Wow. He’ll continue to lie to her and she will stay in it, because, ‘ I have a HUSBAND’. Poor self esteem issues. Sad, very sad!

[@yvettewilliams5967]

Please ladies; a SNAKE will always be a SNAKE; a leopard Nver changes it’s spots!!!

[@Fan-qu8qy]

What? OMG

[@ebonysweetnesssweetness5153]

I had to take a massive sigh when this young woman said she was not sure if she wanted to leave this manipulative man - I hope she finds the confidence to start the next chapter of her life so she can smile and feel whole again.

[@quichequiche4274]

It sounds really messed up, but GOD KNEW!!!! You did NOT need a baby by him...RUN BABYGIRL!!! IT ONLY GETS WORSE!!!!❤

[@Mindurbusiness1234]

I completely agree. It's sad, but I felt like that tie was cut because he would've tried to use the baby to manipulate her even more...smh...

[@valeskaolsen35]

Please do not ever say that to a grieving mom. I know your mean well but it feels awful to hear

[@quichequiche4274]

@@valeskaolsen35 I understand where you're coming from, but sometimes, the truth is awful to hear. Whether she listens or not will determine how sad this story really is.

[@bupedoes2447]

I agree with you I had a misscarraige in my last relationship and i look back and i Thank God because it was actually one of the biggest blessings i ever had. But it somtimes takes time to realise

[@asiablackgrl6482]

The best blessing is no ties to that fool! She needs to run.

[@jo-annbastings]

That guy was an insult to judge’s Jones intelligence and MsYoung’s. MsYoung lowers herself to his level and it’s unfair and demeaning for her.

[@tonyautonga]

When the judge asked him, did he have another woman out there that he wasn't Engage too I Thought of Robert saying boomba.!😂

[@San-ui9cr]

I just want to hug her. I really hope she gains the strength to leave him. He is not going to change as he has no reason to. She accepts him where he is. Life can and will go on without him, let him go.

[@sheilap9854]

This is Narcissism At It's Worse 😮 She's Beat down yet She Stills Wants him, She's giving him all the Narcissistic Supply he Wants!!

[@brendawesley6004]

She don't want him she want Help 2 leave him he's abusing her she can't leave like that I pick up on what she was asking the judge 2 help her he's Beating her and she can't say nothing

[@Soulfullnsight]

Even the bailiff was fuming! ... baby died in the car accident; bailiff gives mommy a tissue, but walked right past Mr. "At the time!"

[@queen4u281]

I feel sorry for her. I was in a similar situation but as a teen. It was emotionally and psychologically unhealthy as he was also older than me. He manipulated and controlled me. It took me several years to get away from him. I’m glad I did, thank you Jesus!

[@creativeminds1343]

He's the type of guy that does not tell anything but feeds on all your information. Creepy as fudge!

[@annettescroggins3905]

He has a lot of predatory behavior

[@JayDee-ut5yg]

I love Judge Star!!!! She is a straight shooter and call out all these lying nothing men on their mess. She doesn't let them get away with nothing!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@sunshinebutterfly4654]

She is still young and have plenty of time to find herself and then find someone who is deserving of her love ❤️ I pray that she has courage enough to leave him and find happiness. 🙏😊

[@mlm1916]

The longer she takes, the harder it will be, and the more there will be to disentangle. Maybe even more offspring(s).

[@randomlycc]

So sad to hear about her baby

[@ybshadyii4375]

Lawrd Jesus - This Generation Is DOOM!!! 😮 A Older Guy Grooming A Young Girl to Control and Belittle...

[@Inr_Peace]

Where is her mother?? 😢 it would be over my d..d body for my daughter to get involved in a mess like this.

[@ct3731]

Judge Toler would have given him ALL the business and told her to leave and get counseling .

[@neicetaylor3363]

I am absolutely heart broken for this beautiful young lady. He is a sick predator that preys on women and obviously young girls. I hope she can get away from him soon.

[@Djdreamstudios]

The fact that she accepted this is more disturbing 😳💯

[@ArtisticDreams2U]

She’s so beautiful and sweet. My heart goes out to her. I really want to hug her. Love send❤

[@ruthlynaaron6725]

This man reminds me of a politician. He answers every question with "at the time". He's manipulative and mentally abusive. I hope she finds a way to get out of this marriage.

[@briteinwilson8148]

Found someone he could hide behind from the church so he didnt have to represent who he really is. Bottoms up!

[@carlpotter007]

Just savage…🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@RacieRain]

🤣🤣

[@anna-maria7367]

It must be so hard for her to leave when he is the only link she has to her baby that died… The pain of grief can surpass all reasoning and logic.

[@cynthiaward4512]

Hopefully She Can Find Some Healing In Her Heart..

[@nikkyk2016]

I feel like I am watching a movie .This can not be real. Gets an invite to a wedding from her current boyfriend fiancé and then the kids are screaming daddy 🤦‍♀🤦‍♀🤦‍♀🤦‍♀🤦‍♀🤦‍♀🤦‍♀🤦‍♀🤦‍♀🤦

[@phornianewton996]

I pray no one gets hurt or murdered.. God bless them both

[@monicagilliam2645]

Wow!!! Too many children and ex-fiance. I can't do this one.

[@winniewera2510]

Girl 🏃‍♀️ the other way!…

[@Kara-kx1lb]

She'll go back to him!!!

[@sheilae.9670]

Yep, she will

[@peacefaith560]

she aint leaving lol

[@taarons227]

I did the same thing. It took me years to finally leave. Now I look back and wish I had left sooner. I am at peace, and I am enjoying my life as a single woman.

[@Emulahbaybay]

I wish Judge Star would’ve offered her therapy. I think her decision would’ve been different if she felt like she had something to stand on

[@ciamon1]

Beloved..God created an angel just for you. In your child’s honor, Please use that strength to RUN!

[@annettescroggins3905]

Agree pray for her

[@leeleegrace9015]

This woman's self esteem has been completely stripped from her and it shows! And until she gets the strength to take it back she will continue in this raggedy ass marriage. My heart goes out to her for the loss of her child. Nobody can do anything for her except pray that she picks up some self-esteem and healing at this point smh #sosad

[@Josie3387]

You can tell she's numb.

[@tishmonikemassey3781]

She's still in the grieving process and he's definitely taking advantage of her grief...Pray she finds the strength to leave.

[@miloperrault2614]

He's a lying, no good creep and she needs to RUN, like she's a track star.

[@Vloggingwithrosalyn]

He preyed on her !

[@empresspalpatine8792]

Take a shot each time he says, "At the time"

[@babycakescapriata2138]

I so started crying😭plz God keep her strong

[@brianah5246]

I hope this young lady understands that happiness and peace doesn’t have anything to do with time spent and love. The behavior this man has displayed is toxic and scary. Get out of there and build your life. ❤

[@daisyflower2447]

Been together 5 years so she was 17 and he is 26 and where is her parent

[@creamekay]

He’s such a liar ugh she 22 an he got her looking 39

[@annettescroggins3905]

Agree...predatory behavior

[@specialk8927]

😂

[@candacebutler7011]

I’m so sorry her baby died. My heart breaks for her.

[@specialk8927]

Could of been a blessing in disguise I don’t think God wants her tied in the at relationship

[@Kayjames44]

@@specialk8927YES!!! I said the same🙏🏾

[@keyeviondavis9647]

Gorgeous as always Judge Star 😍😍

[@qbanbarbiie]

Where is her parents? Grandparents? An aunt? Church elder? This is very sad. She's really stuck with someone who isn't good for her. She's absolutely going to waste so much of her life on him. I'm scared for her

[@randomlycc]

She ain't ready to leaveee, so sad...

[@clevestercrittenden2089]

Where is her family?

[@randomlycc]

Thus caes can't be reallllll.... I'm dying with laughter....how she found out his age and number of kids is crazyyyyy

[@yah7130]

If predator was a person 🤔

[@BudgetMadam]

She’s 22 & he’s 30- they’ve been together 5 years 🤔

[@sug8415]

Damn that car accident part messed me up

[@fianospencer592]

Every time he says " at the time" it's a lie!!!

[@delilahspivey1093]

While watching her story being told, I wanted to ask who had the car keys at the Christmas dinner when you found out about the extra children?

[@meghanwilliams4295]

Come on Spring attire! Judge Star's look, is giving, GIVING!💐💐💐🌺🌺🌺🌷🌷🌷

[@annettescroggins3905]

This man has too many secrets

[@theresaford2963]

Girl run and do not look back 🏃😢😮

[@froonamission1013]

LEAVE...and get a no contact order if you can

[@annettescroggins3905]

Where are her family, friends, and support system ?

[@jasmenbright7656]

14:35 I’m glad she had this conversation with her .. Mrs. Young needed this

[@This_is_Turpui]

Such a beautiful young lady ❤ I wish her well

[@kimaleycreese28]

Girl your elders failed you. She needs to walk away. He will take all her best Yeats and then he will leave her. Somebody needs to go pack her bags and get her away from that man.

[@aprylb.3718]

It's far easier said than done especially when cameras and lights are on her.. What about when they get back home, That's when she will really need the help,

[@annettescroggins3905]

Pray that God give her courage amd strength to leave and seek help

[@kellabillingsley5141]

Judge Star would not let him skate pass that age difference!

[@karmengreene9611]

So you have 5 children and you STILL getting involved with people on a sexual basis?! AND two timing at the same time?!

[@lovesyah4618]

He'll keep cheating and lying and she's definitely been groomed when she was younger. He knows he can manipulate her young mind. He'll finish her off down the line and she'll be weary enough to let go.