divorces that turned PETTY - REACTION

[@darrenthorne6247]

When my ex and I split, he knew I couldn't afford a lawyer to file for divorce and told me I was a "stupid redneck with no brains" and he was going to drag out the divorce as long as possible. Well, I sought out resources from the state and given my situation (going to college in my 40's and working only part-time), I was able to apply for a waiver and got the court fees waived and filed without a lawyer. The best part is, he had no idea that I was filing since we hadn't lived together for many months, and the State Marshall showed up at his place to serve him papers.. on HIS BIRTHDAY. I had no control over when this would happen, but I will take the pettiness even if it was due to someone else's doing.

[@danabryant6138]

Good for you, Darren!

[@yellowsuncat16]

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@smalltiddygothgoose4302]

Darren please never let someone call you a dumb red neck, as a child who was born in the sticks, and raised by red necks, I can confidently say that people who think we are dumb are the ones who are stupid. Much love bubs, I hope you're in a better place now

[@waywardsisters918]

Good for you dude x

[@GamerNerdess]

Should be dating women and seeking professional help.

[@AddictedToTheThrift]

My ex-husband wanted to punish me for finally getting the courage to leave his emotional and verbal abuse. He would continually ghost any discussion when I brought up signing paperwork for over 2 years, but then continuously suggest coming back "home". Yeah no. He told me numerous times while we were together his father had raised him and his siblings to listen and do what he says, even if they don't want to do it. Throughout those years of being together, I saw first-hand that each sibling still as adults listened to their father and did what he wanted, even if they didn't want to. Luckily, he was a really good person and didn't take advantage of them with anything he asked. I had been trying to keep his family out of the divorce out of respect for them, but finally one day I just snapped and messaged his father. I explained what had been going on for over two years and provided screenshots. Within 2 days my ex had signed the paperwork I had drawn up for us and sent it back to me. I was able to get everything signed, notarized and filed within a week. It may have been petty to involve his father, but my only regret is not doing it sooner.

[@meganroberts8721]

Brownie points for the pops for assistance, some refuse getting involved

[@georgina-a]

His father clearly agreed with you, or he wouldn't have told his son to comply. So don't feel bad, feel vindicated. You were totally right to say "enough of this BS!" 💕👍

[@barnstar2077]

You are a saint for waiting so long!

[@Amber-yq9ee]

How is your relationship w\his family now? Do you still talk to them? & You ABSOLUTELY did the right thing! You needed to end that chapter in your life & start fresh & he was purposefully holding you back & refusing to let you bc that's another form of manipulation & control. & It def shows how he probably treated you during your relationship. I'm happy you're free & hope you get all the best things! Sending you lots of LOVE 💞💖💕💜 On your new trip & chapter!

[@rainbowsandkittens1537]

That was NOT petty! Well done and kudos to your former father in law. Hey what's right is right. Go, you!!

[@drakena74]

I took my friend to Disneyland & you can get these pins that day “I’m Celebrating…” & I wrote in Divorce. She got so many high fives from ppl that day congratulating her lol

[@Jess-vk6mp]

Omg I love that. That’s hilarious 😂

[@0Onyx13]

I love it, because stating that is really empowering, since for the longest time people were so ashamed of being divorced, so just celebrating it, I'd also high five her, and heck, offer her a drink (do they have drinks at Disney? Never been as I'm in Europe, and yes I know there's one in France, but never been there either). Well, if not in the park itself, I would have given her my number so she could choose whether to delete it or take me up on my offer, I'd have gladly had drinks with her (and you of course!) to her freedom!

[@KittyKat365dayz]

@@0Onyx13 yes, disney parks do in fact offer alcohol! ofc you have to be 21+ in the US with a valid id tho

[@amypaxton7137]

I’m gonna do that if that ever happens to me or my friends! You sound like an amazing friend and person! ❤

[@drakena74]

@@amypaxton7137 thank you. It was a lot of fun & she really needed a kid free adult only trip to Disney. We had a lot of fun.

[@gmaxion2001]

I served my ex with papers that I had gotten myself and filled out. I have a lawyer in the family who looked at them and said they were good. All I had to do was file and pay the fee if she signed. She didn't want to sign the papers. She wanted to use my daughter to extort me. Okay, I filed for financial aid for my divorce and when I got it, she was stuck with the $365 court costs. When she confronted me about it, I simply laughed and said "Shoulda got it when it was free."

[@WhyThoAce]

My parents got divorced when I was 12. They "hated" each other. Like, literally wouldn't speak to each other unless it was in court. They married other ppl. When I turned 21, they remarried each other 😂. Imagine the confusion my siblings and I had when we went out to dinner and they were coupled up talking about their upcoming wedding.

[@bearnuggs]

i always say sometimes it’s the right person, just the wrong time 🤷‍♂️ some growing up can fix a lot of things. hopefully it’s a happy ending this time 😊

[@annea5781]

😮😮😮

[@annea5781]

After you people had had to deal with their pettiness growing up?! I would feel so betrayed 😬, but not just that plus I would definitely have trust issues and keep off them just to protect myself from future repeats of their “bad-blood” but that’s just my nature,…

[@michelleobrien6996]

WOW!

[@nessarolla]

My parents divorce is a big truama for me, I was also 12, and while they're not together by any means, my parents get along so well now.😅😂

[@Cantetinza17]

As a military member who then became a military spouse what that lady went through is legit. They lie like that because you're a civilian and it's hard for you to check up on them. Also be weary if all of a sudden they get called into work or they are doing a friend a solid and taking over their duty. Deployments is a whole different beast to slay. You have no idea how many times I've been on pier seeing someone slobbing down their partner, but remember seeing them with someone else at last port or hell even in an unlock fan room onboard as we are sailing back home. That's why I wasn't even shocked when my husband did it to me. He forgot that he married a service member and knew what was up, so it was easy for me to track him when he was cheating. He married the girl he cheated on me with and he IS MISERABLE! He can barely pay the bills. I kept the house cause I've lived in it longer and I can afford it and due to Military law I was married to him for over 10 years so that's half his retirement I get. The kicker is that she has a side piece, so she is always with the side piece then him and he doesn't have the money to divorce her. I won 😁😎

[@suzi_mai]

I thought if you cheated and were caught, you could lose rank?

[@LeOhio817]

Thank you for your service.

[@Ericasentertainments]

@@suzi_maino, infidelity is very hard to prove you literally have to have pictures of them or a video of your spouse caught in the act.

[@csnide6702]

nobody wins in those situations ... want to "win"..? - play a sport.

[@casc7937]

Something similar happened to me, we were way too young to be married . My high school “sweetheart”joined the military and we got married, then he got deployed. He hooked up with this other Army chick in Kuwait,. “Broke up” with me over FaceTime and when she dumped him (literally a day later) he tried to come back to me lol but I was already looking for divorce. His mother had to sign for him (power of attorney) and she never liked me to begin with. It was awkward He also got arrested while overseas for stealing from the store on base. And landed himself in jail a couple months after the divorce was finalized (for a different offense). According to him I was the reason everything bad happened to him… Lol I wish I had that kind of power

[@PassTheMarmalade1957]

The dad with the photo album cut her out of the photos with such *precision.* Like, he wanted everyone to know who had been cut out by the shape of her outline 😂

[@shawnycoffman]

I noticed that, too. That man took some time and serious effort to be that precise. I can hear him mumbling and grumbling while he does it. He wanted to send a message. 🤣

[@ashleyboudreau8341]

He took some serious time on that one, even 12 year old me cutting an ex bff out of pictures got annoyed and gave up after the first 2 and then scribbled over her face w a sharpie instead lmao that man was dedicated!

[@krisdiane]

@@rabbitguts2518 exactly. Some of these people need to grow up and realize that their feelings aren't the only ones that matter. I would be devastated if my parents had done this when they divorced.

[@loveli420]

This was the only one I really took issue with. Like yeah it's funny at first but unless the mom like completely did something horrifically unforgivable to the CHILD, then the child deserves to have baby photos of herself that show her mom too. Like those are memories that the kid of that marriage deserves to have. I have photos of my son and his dad that i haven't deleted because I know when he's older, my son will want them. It's not my right to take that from him no matter my personal feelings to his dad.

[@Fairydivas974]

All my baby pics look like this. Except the one that was cut out was my grandma. My mum cut out her MIL, they didn’t talk for 10 years and now see each other on a regular basis without conflict. Not sure if she knows 😂

[@r0bfleming]

I did hear of one very good natured divorce. The guy was an IT contractor that I worked with for a few weeks. He and his ex did the old Las Vegas Elvis wedding thing for a laugh not realising it was real (as we've all seen in sit coms & rom coms). A few years later, one got engaged for real and found they were already married. They were still on good terms, so they got all their friends together for a huge reunion/divorce party. They had lawyers amongst their friends, so all the legals were covered as a gift, and they had 2 top tables, did speeches like an actual wedding, and had a cake that was already cut in half.

[@FatBabyToodles]

That's pretty awesome! 😂😂👏🏻🥳

[@loveywilliams4276]

That’s must’ve been really fun to be at

[@dontmindme633]

But you still have to go to municipal building and get a marriage license in Vegas…..

[@grungekitty77]

That is literally an episode of Big Bang Theory. Imagine being that desperate for internet validation.

[@r0bfleming]

@@grungekitty77 I don't comment for any form of validation (though I do sometimes comment to help creators with "the algorithm"). I worked with the guy about 15 years ago and he told us the story one lunchtime. We had no reason to think he was making it up. The Big Bang Theory is not the only show to use this plot tool, and who knows, maybe they got the idea for the party from another film or show (given that it happened back in the 80's or 90's, it wouldn't be TBBT).

[@nahtally.b9139]

2 things: #1:My parents were so miserable together for 25yrs that my sisters and I asked them to just divorce, and they actually did. #2: My dad was abusive, but we survived, and my mom always told him that she would make sure to have a long life and enjoy the time she had left. Well, my father passed away 23 yrs ago this coming April, and my mother is still enjoying her life even after dialysis, 2 kidney transplants.

[@Jimmydabestcarter]

The best petty revenge I did was with my ex I was with 4yrs. He had cheated on me. Was mentally and verbally abusive. I in turn left him. 3 yrs later I ran into his bestfriend cousin. Been together 5yrs now and married. Ain't life grand...

[@meganchambers8108]

When I worked at a restaurant my manager was the best about letting us give customers "magic moments", as long as we didn't take advantage. So like one time I had two young women who told me they are teachers and had just quit their jobs that day, so of course I gave them a discount because why not, magic moment. The margarita person is definitely one who believes in magic moments!

[@sarahfuller5482]

I love that

[@Upper_echelon_exotics]

Are you from the west coast? 😁

[@gr33ngirlsea]

Ooh, it sounds kinda like Disneyland!

[@kylaarmstrong-benjamin8066]

I love these types of people! Magic moments on a bad day....make it a better day!😄

[@meganchambers8108]

@@kylaarmstrong-benjamin8066 Yes! I remember one time stopping into a restaurant to get an appetizer while we waited for a tow for our broken down car. The waiter overheard the conversations we were having on the phone with the tow guy and gave us 10% off because we were having a rough day. It saved us less than $2 but the gesture was priceless

[@Harvest32]

One day, my Dad was helping my brother with something at my Mom's house. (They'd been divorced for 15yrs at that point and my mother was remarried) My mom and step-dad got into a loud argument upstairs (she was yelling at him). My dad, standing in the living room with us, panicked and took a few steps to the door before stopping and looking at us with this grin on his face. We asked if he was ok. He just said.. "For a second there, I forgot. But none of that is aimed at me anymore." Broke my heart a little. But they're definitely better off divorced. My step father is a wonderful person, just he and my mother don't see eye to eye on everything.

[@franziskaschlott3081]

It’s so often overlooked that men do suffer from relationships and get away traumatized too. Not to say your mom is abusive or anything, men are so invisible sometimes in some regards.

[@pbnjay]

I have the best picture at my 5th grade ceremony. Parents came in freshly divorced, standing on either side of me looking miserable. I had cake all over my face with a big wide smile on my face. I have it framed when they visit

[@TaniaAndSnowy23]

12:13 This is absolutely 💯 adorable ! Look at how he looks at his wife when he says "She is not my Ex! She's my wife " Their both still in love with each other and I really do genuinely think they will be for many more years to come ! ❤❤❤

[@sharikurzh732]

@TaniaAndSnowy23: Sorry to tell you that you heard Wrong and that made you totally miss the joke!!! 😂 😮 He didn't say "she's my wife" he said "she's not my X," "she's my Y"!!! The kids said "Y" what does that mean? He said because Y did I ever marry her? The kids started laughing and that's when she told him because you wanted all up in this (as she ran her hands over her body while emphasizing her Boobies)!!! I never realized how much it Bucks explaining the JOKE!!! You need to go back and watch it again, because Charlotte explains it all as she's talking!!! 😮😅

[@Talhn]

Me and my daughters father are divorced but we get along. He is remarried and I love his wife. Honestly I talked to her earlier today lol. I wish more couples with kids would put their differences aside for the kids. It isn't easy, it's a process, but you have to want it. Kids shouldn't suffer for the decisions of adults.

[@monkeysliveinspace]

I like hearing stuff like this, divorce is always portrayed as messy, dramatic and expensive. My parents were married for 12 years, divorced now for 25 years and they have always gotten along for our sake. Went to parent teacher conferences together, family dinners. They still chat even though they live in different states and my mom is remarried, my dad still goes to visit her father in a different state. Just have always remained friends and wanted the best for each other and they can joke about being divorced. I know they have reasons to be divorced and there have been hurt feelings but honestly I never once thought it was a bad thing.

[@deannarounds3295]

And any second spouses need to understand that if there are kids involved the parents should be in contact and should never say anything bad about the other one. My first husband's daughter was only 2 when we got married. She did visits with us and we both made sure not to say one word about her mother. I have never had an issue being a second wife - my second husband had a grown up child when I married him and his son and I get along fine. I have never tried to either of the kids' mother. They both have mothers who did ok. Divorce happens and grown ups should act like it. When my stepdaughter was 6 she asked if she could spend the weekend with just her Dad. Sure thing! It was the only time she asked and I was not threatened at all. She did ask one time if her Mom and stepdad and her Dad and me could all just live together so she would not have to travel on the weekends - it would make her life so much easier. Sorry sweetheart I love you but I am not living with your Mother! Her Dad died a few years ago and I am still in her life and her Mom is someone I consider a good friend.

[@valiantsfelinesmccarty6678]

Would have given anything to have had your positive & good for the children situation. Thank you for doing that for the kids. Everybody always thinks the 2nd wife is the one who is petty. Like one of the responders here. Usually we are not sometimes it is the ex-husband who's angry But more often than not It's usually the first wife the one with the kids who is pretty much set against anyone else having anything to say about her kids She totally has chosen the divorce she's the one who doesn't want to live a lifestyle that takes away from her autonomy etc. I won't go into the horrible details of what my children of the heart went through I also won't go into details of what they're all suffering through now as adults with children of their own and how they're still hiding their mother and covering for her as she breaks the law and continues to do her own thing. The divorce wasn't my husband's choice He didn't want to leave his children He's punished himself everyday trying to figure out what he could have done to have saved his children. I said it's pretty hard to save your children when the person you're living with does not want to stop drinking or doing drugs. Doesn't want a monogamous marriage, wants an apartment instead that so you can have your own private time in. Who moves a relationship into your home but since it's female thinks you'll put up with it but once you're gone goes ahead and moves two adult males into the home with your under age children living there. Especially one who's just a kinder - as that tike grows up they abuse him She neglects him there's no food in the house when he's in high school etc but the children are mad at you because you're the one who left. You don't grt a choice when the woman says get out. You know that crap was happening to your kids when they all leave home early but she still continues to collect the child support even though the kids weren't living there. You know that something's horribly wrong when your kid still in seventh grade moves into the garage changes the doorknobs and locks it from the inside so that he can have safety peace and quiet. But he feels he should have been there. We know for a fact she said I'm not going to have some tea total or Christian lady raising my kids cuz I don't want her making my kids question what I do when she found out we got married. The kids had already found out at the time I don't spank I don't scream yell or put down rules that are so arbitrary that the kids can't deal with them or know how to handle them. So those who think that 2nd wives are just mean and don't think about these things they do. I see them all the time at church being kind loving and trying to work with the kids. To be there for them but I also watch them being kicked in physically, treated badly disrespectfully even by their own spouses because oh the kids come first and their mother has definitely made it clear well this is one thing you aren't going to win lady I don't want my kids caring about you respecting you loving you and finding out you're a really nice person and that's pretty much what society has always said That's the Cinderella story. That's what they say about stepdads but I come from a family that takes in other people's children and my grandfather and my own birth father They did that with their wives and my dad who adopted me as my birth father and mother were in an accident he was such a very kind man but yeah the lady was nuttier than a fruitcake the minute she had her own kid yeah forget it. If she could have gave us back she would have.

[@klkclk22]

When I filed for divorce I went back to my home town to celebrate with my best friend. As we were driving down the freeway to go home, my ex pulled up beside us and started yelling out his window about every place we had been that night. We realized he had been stalking us the entire night so we called the police and had him arrested for stalking. 😂

[@georgina-a]

If this was recently, get a restraining order/order of protection, change your number, check your car and phone for trackers (physical on the car, app on the phone) and move - because he is showing some psycho traits right there... Stay safe 💕💖

[@klkclk22]

@@georgina-a thanks for the info. This was over 20 years ago and he's been dead for almost 3 years. But I wholeheartedly agree with everything you stated about personal safety measures. For me, all the stalking (nearly 7 years) ended when I moved and he didn't know where to find me.

[@georgina-a]

@@klkclk22 7 years? 😳 Oh wow, that's nightmare-level awful! I'm so sorry you went through that, but I'm relieved to read that you're safe now and that he can no longer cause you harm. I try not to speak ill of the dead, but good riddance! Nobody has the right to terrorise another like that. Thank you for replying. I won't lie, I was really worried when I read your comment, in case this was recent. We lose too many good people to these psychos who won't take no for an answer... I hope you've been able to rebuild your life and that you're now in a good place 💕 x

[@klkclk22]

@@georgina-a yes, I'm in a much better place, and so is my daughter and his two daughters from his first marriage. It was a nightmare, but the worst of it ended when I filed for divorce in 2000 and the stalking finally ended in 2007. Luckily, I only had 2 face-to-face encounters with him during that whole 7 years. Thank you so much for the well wishes. As you said, so many women don't make it out of these situations, which is why I volunteered to help women who are victims of domestic violence for over a year. I always tell anyone who asks, if you didn't think he would hit you the first time don't stick around for him to hit you the next time.

[@georgina-a]

@@klkclk22 You are amazing!! 😎 Thank you for using your experience to help others going through the same thing. Sometimes people can say things until they're blue in the face, but real personal experience hits different and breaks through. I can't imagine it was easy to relive those memories in order to help others, but I've no doubt you saved lives because of it. Good on you! I'm really glad to read that you, your daughters, and his other daughters are all safe and well, too 💖 I wish you all good health and happiness x

[@IchiPopp]

I don't get some people don't realize that if your partner cheated WITH you on someone else, they are going to be willing to cheat on YOU.

[@darcy5761]

So obvious,but they convince themselves he wouldn't cheat on me.

[@karisworldgaming4832]

@@darcy5761 Or she wouldn’t cheat on me.

[@lorag4664]

My mom always said that. He left his wife for you. You have a man that cheats. And as Charlotte says, that's not a flex!

[@giggle_snort]

"No, but I'm his true love, he would never!" Babe, he said that about his first wife too...

[@mmadi]

@jun is probably sleeping I hope you get to see your little brother more, that truly hurts

[@Poolpuppies3]

My ultimate pettiness was when my ex called "please don't hang up I'm sorry and i miss you" i said "ew" and hung up as he said wtf, Didn't even have to block him cause he never called back 😭😭🤣🤣🤣

[@KikiYK]

Divorce isn't always sad. Divorcing my ex who was emotionally, mentally, and physically abusive to me was one of the best decisions I've ever made. I'm so much happier and safer without him 😊🥳

[@SaraSparks19922]

It's the marriage that was sad, the divorce was needed and good decision.

[@lizzjay19]

I was in a 7-year ( abusive and experienced domestic violence regularly) marriage. When the divorce FINALLY went through, I say this because it took two and a half years, I was super EXCITED, SO I decided to have a divorce party! When I went to the bakery and asked for the cake to SAY: I do. I did. I'm done. And I explained that it was for my divorce party, he excitedly ran back to write it on the cake that I chose. He came back.with a giggle And asked me when I was going to give it to him?! This man thought I was going to give this to my husband to tell him I wanted to get divorced. I thought was hilarious because that was not my intention at all! Furthermore we Had a super fun night with the gals, went to saw a drag show, and had amazing food! Got a lil'lit! I love your daily uploads! Keep up the amazing work Charlotte can't wait to see the amazing things you do!

[@TwiggyHetfield27]

My parents separated in 2003, divorced in 2005. In 2012 my dad could no longer stay where he was living & had to resort to living back with my mom... they still "love" each other but the level of pettiness in their house is fantastic. Ex: My mom will move my dads things (papers, mail, items, etc.) & she won't tell him she moved them. So when dad goes to look & it's not there he yells "Don't touch my shit!!" After a while of this being one-sided my dad took it upon himself to move my moms stuff one day & didn't tell her. When she yelled "don't touch my shit!" I friggin LOST it. I couldn't breathe I was laughing so hard & my dad was trying not to laugh but couldn't help it & snapped back at her "Well, how do you like it?" It's a love hate relationship in that house.

[@RiverWoods111]

The day my divorce was final was one of the happiest moments in my life. Years later, my ex said to me, "It really hurt me to see you so happy to be free of me!" You're welcome asshole!

[@Kayenne54]

I was in family court for the final decision on my divorce. Judge announces it. Everyone in the court smiled at me, even the court stenographer turned and smiled. I was like"What the actual heck?" Was my face so relieved?? Even the judge smiled at me. It was perplexing because everything had been so solemn and serious five minutes before. And here was me, initially trying to continue to look solemn ha ha.

[@giggle_snort]

YAAAASSS!!! We love this for you!! 👏👏👏

[@michaelccozens]

LOL, still all about him, and apparently zero reflection on why it would make someone so happy to be free of him. "Asshole" sounds like an understatement. Congrats on getting free!

[@MissSmudge78]

OMG Charlotte. The Lady at 4mins just described EXACTLY, down to the timelines, of how my marriage ended. He is in the Navy and cheated on me with a female on board, whilst out at sea. This all happened back in 2007, Australia. I moved out. They got engaged 4 months BEFORE out=r divorce was finalised. They then got married one year later. Talk about reliving trauma !!!

[@alicewilloughby4318]

12:45 - "That's not my Ex it's my Y! (why?)" That's a good one.

[@anndorothyfirmann4957]

My petty revenge: I was in a relationship with my ex for seven years who was emotionally and verbally abusive, most of them without couple intimacy because he had "lost his drive". After finding out he basically banged every women willing under the gise of being a photographer while in amateur photo shoots. I met a guy who was also out of a bad relationship (his ex cheated too) we got together as a rebound. Six years in we are still together, happier than ever and proud parents of twins! I often tell my man he is my reward for seven years of sh*t. Love you Adrien.

[@Amber-yq9ee]

Awww! Glad you guys got a Happily Ever After, after both of your periods of 💔!! I don't think ppl truly understand & get just how AWFUL, how HURTFUL, & how damaging cheating can truly be! Like in your case, refusing intimacy w\you & telling you he'd "lost his drive" when in reality he was driving ALL over! Altho in hindsight, perhaps it's a good thing. That way you didn't catch anything from his wondering di*k! But the 💖💞 after the 💔 is the BEST! Plus, it makes you appreciate it more! Honestly, I worry about my hubby. We've been married almost 18y & never had a "dry spell" that wasn't bc of deployment distance, surgical needs, or recovering from giving birth in ALL these yrs. Now it seems like we are & bc I watch all these, cheating is the FIRST place my mind goes! & I'm ready to hack his phone & place a listening device on him for when he's at work! But going into all that thinking & worrying puts me in a very dark place. A place I worked HARD to get out of & leave behind a LONG time ago bc of the way I was raised & what I saw, I grew up believing NO man was EVER faithful & they all cheat. Which caused probs in my marriage in the beginning. Anyways, I got off topic! Enjoy your HEA & those twins! 😍🥰💖💕💖💕 How sweet!

[@anndorothyfirmann4957]

@@Amber-yq9ee Thanks a lot. I wish you all the best. I know what it is to be torn between instincts and fear brought by past trauma. If I may, just some food for thaughts: sometimes just sharing your fears can give you answers, someone who is not cheating and love you will understand your concern and be open to reassure you, a cheater will go on the deffensive or make you feel bad about your fear. It happened to me several times with my man to doubt him or be a little paranoïde and he never had a problem being completely supportive and transparent knowing I needed it to reinsure me. In any case do what feels right to you. Lots of love and support. 😘

[@robertgronewold3326]

I still have to laugh at the divorce that my friends' parents got. No joke, the reason her mom divorced her dad was because he was not mean and petty to his first wife. My friend had an older half brother, and so her dad and his ex-wife were basically happily coparenting him with no drama, and that made his second wife so angry that she divorced him. It was so ridiculous.

[@yesthatmousyiris4887]

So the 2nd married for the drama?

[@robertgronewold3326]

@@yesthatmousyiris4887 I guess she really wanted drama. Woman had issues though. She loved to be the center of attention. She loved it when she got sick, for example.

[@carpediem6431]

She wanted her husband to show her how much he loved her by hating, fighting and disrespecting his ex wife (the mother of his child). Classic definition of a beotch.

[@Amber-yq9ee]

​@@carpediem6431 💯% nailed it! It wasn't that she married FOR the drama. She's just an incredibly insecure & immature girl! She wanted (NEEDED) him to hate, bitch about, & insult & fight w\ex-wife to show that he didn't still WANT his ex. & To prove she was the ONLY girl in his life now. BUT that's not possible once kids are involved. & That man & his ex-wife were 100% doing what was best & right for their son. They were remaining on friendly terms to co-parent successfully. & That's the BEST way. & What kids need. I'm glad to hear that the man did not give in to her demands & start being a prick to the ex just to appease the insecure wife & that the ex didnt fall into that trap either! Not ALL exes hate each other, they just didn't work out well as a couple! Seems healthy actually.

[@carpediem6431]

@@Amber-yq9ee exactly

[@shelley2he844]

Why any woman would marry a man, that she MET and had an affair with when he was married to someone else - is totally beyond me. Like how could you trust him (or her if the roles are reversed) to do right by you. There's a saying in the UK - 'when you marry your mistress, you create a vacancy' 😂😭

[@caseyc2497]

They delude themselves that they're different they're the exception they were so irresistible the other person couldn't resist. It's pathetic

[@janetcallanan7020]

There's also that saying how you got your partner is how you'll lose your partner cheaters take note

[@Disgruntled_Fork]

Former service member here. She could have easily gotten them disciplined for having an affair. I've seen it happen plenty when I was in the Navy. 🙃😊

[@moonyfruit]

As someone who got engaged two days ago... I still found these downright hilarious. 🤣

[@MsMcCoolio1221]

As far as the pics go, I couldn’t look at my wedding album anymore after my ex left me for someone else, HOWEVER I just kept it in a closet and gave it to my son when He became an adult. So glad I did because His Dad passed away when He was 22, so I’m glad He has those pics now to look back on. 💜💔💜

[@rhondasisco-cleveland2665]

So you’re a NORMAL adult with empathy for your child. Nice job. These “petty” people are screwed up.

[@demondogmom7221]

I did the same... kept the pictures for our daughter. It seemed right

[@rhileynnna]

God bless you. You could’ve went the other route and made him out to be a horrible person. So much respect for you. The world needs more women like this.

[@angelawright3122]

My divorce is on the California Bar Exam. In the end, he sold everything and blew the money. So, I never saw a penny of the several hundred thousand dollars he owed me, had to file Bankruptcy, and ended up with Panic disorder and PTSD from his abuse. Still working on me after 25 years away from him. Love the Petty of these divorces.

[@ashleynagy3617]

I REALLY hope that lady with the husband in the military fully understands that, if a man in the military committed adultery, not only will he lose his rank, but also may be kicked out of the military all together. Someone should let her know that ☺️ I also love the vibe of a divorce video 2 days after valentines day 😂

[@madziaro]

depends of the country, not all miltitary laws are the same, ie. in Canada they don't really do anything to a cheater

[@gr33ngirlsea]

That's true in the US?? Cause, wow, I hear of tons of cheating in the military!

[@ashleynagy3617]

Well yes being in the military in the u.s. means holding to the constitution is a big part of it so committing adultery is a big no no and yes your rank in the military will go bye bye

[@Whewwha]

@@ashleynagy3617 no they dont

[@kt9527]

The guy cheated while he was married, who cares what happens to him?

[@lwilso9152]

I’m just impressed with the craftsmanship on those pictures cut out, he really got the sharpest exacto knife he could find

[@ariakemp1204]

that “she’s not my ex she’s my why” bit took me😂😂

[@dinasilva9263]

The face of Charlotte in the first one. 😂 that's why no one can do this like she does. Her sense of humour, she is an inspiration. The petty queen😂🌺♥️

[@michaelhoward142]

Photos of children with their parent(s) are part of the child's memories. You may not want photos of your ex but your child probably wants photos of their parent(s).

[@turnoffthetv]

This. My mother destroyed/stole all photos of my dad and me and kept them from him (and later me when I went no contact) for decades. Because of her, I have next to no photos of me with my extended family or my dad from childhood. My dad is dying and I have almost nothing I'll be able to look at when he's gone. I will never ever forgive her. There's petty and there's absolute cruelty. (She was the abuser in the relationship so she was completely unjustified in her anger)

[@Amber-yq9ee]

​@@turnoffthetv Ohh, babe, I'm so sorry! That's 💔! You're right, what she's done is absolutely unforgivable! Do you think she destroyed them or is just holding them hostage? Sending you tons of LOVE 💖💕💖💕💕💕

[@Birdbike719]

When my mom left my dad she cooked dinner for him. Pork chops. They were amicable, but it still gutted my dad. He never quit loving her. After she had some significant health issues he visited her often. When he died she went to his funeral. I miss them both terribly.

[@tommoore2012]

How come she left?

[@Amber-yq9ee]

I'm sorry for your loss! But I'm glad that they stayed on good terms! 💖💕

[@goethefaust3504]

The couple in the end was kinda cute and I can see them loving each other ❤

[@KatarinaP81]

The queen of petty divorce stories to me will always be the "smelly house" story main character. ❤

[@kayeb7809]

That one was the very best!

[@bevalexander5897]

When I found out my ex was cheating on me, I left. He was arrested a couple of months later for DUI, with an accident. When he went to court he pled guilty but told the judge, in open court, that I was sleeping with my lawyer AND the lawyer’s brother, who was the cop who arrested him!😂 Judge said did either one of those gentlemen pour liquor down your throat? No, then let’s move on to sentencing.

[@sassysarina9718]

🤣🤣🤣❤❤❤❤

[@autumn1734]

Yes👏

[@annea5781]

😂😂😂

[@bevalexander5897]

@@annea5781 Gawd! I forgot I posted this!

[@kristinekirwin229]

My mom repeatedly told my Dad she would haunt him for the rest of his life and in death for ruining their marriage. Fast forward 30 something yes my mom is dying and made me promise to tell my Dad she wasn’t going to haunt him😅! I waited 10 months before I did. Man was visibly relieved 😂😂!!

[@annea5781]

lol with the end

[@rebelwithacause666]

My parents got divorced when I was 4 they weren't able to be in the same room for ages. My mom would always invite my dad to my big moments or out to dinner after I graduated he'd always say no. When I turned 26 they both said they'd be willing to come to dinner. I was super nervous about it and I remember calling my bestie after she asked how it went. My response "It went better than expected it was just awkward because my dad kept hitting on my mom the whole dinner."

[@autumn1734]

Awwweehh

[@lightningangel45]

Maybe thats why they didnt want to be in the same room. They were so in love (at least dad was) and they didnt want to admit

[@LauraSchendel-ko1qk]

Statistics prove that it is the person doing wrong in the marriage who gets remarried first. The wrongdoer wants to forget that they were guilty while the victim needs time to heal. Makes perfect sense!

[@tofumar]

One thing I love is when a person tries to be petty and in so doing demonstrates that their spouse was absolutely right to drop their ass in the first place

[@krisdiane]

You are not wrong lol

[@bellekelly582]

@@Idontwantone950 Thats what the OP meant, excessive pettiness ruining the relationship

[@mysterylovescompany2657]

@@Idontwantone950 My toxic trait is, when he's been a drongo to me recently, deliberately using the hot water in the middle of my husband's shower. A sink full of dishes justifies the crime. 😅

[@elincarlsson6388]

Yeah because women 1. love asking their husband to do something 20 times & it not getting done. 2 Get cheated on. 3 Him stop giving love & affection as soon as marriage is final which makes her feel incredibly sad. 4. Get abused, gaslighted etc. There are many reasons to be petty to an ex, hopefully you get away from them unhurt & alive with the kids.

[@SuperVolsung]

Can we all take a minute to appreciate the exactitude that that man exercised in the picture cutouts?

[@SaidiLouise]

My boyfriend (now husband) had found a box of his wedding day photos with his ex. He proceeded to cut her out and I stopped him. They have three children together and I thought that maybe one of them would appreciate having those photos.

[@monstermcboo7282]

You are a smart and compassionate person. ❤️

[@SaidiLouise]

@@monstermcboo7282 I just knew if it were me, if those were my parent's photos, I'd want them. He's not as sentimental about those types of things as I am.

[@RiderLover2426]

Shoulda let him continue lol

[@SaidiLouise]

@@RiderLover2426 nah...we gave them to our (my stepdaughter) daughter. She values and cherishes them.

[@SaidiLouise]

@@Amber-yq9ee that is terribly heartbreaking! My father passed away almost 10 years ago when cancer stole him. His wife at the time ended up keeping all the photo albums he had taken with him into that marriage. Pictures of my dad as a baby...adolescent...teen...young adulthood which included photos of my mom and also me as a baby. I haven't seen them in 10 years. When he died, she gave me an open package of tubesocks. Not any of his artwork, not any of his guitars. Those items went to her grandkids and the friends that my dad and her had. Turns out, she'd been jealous of the relationship I had with my dad. He was my bestfriend. She hadn't had a father...well, not one that was around. I can't imagine who she has given the photo albums to. I try desperately not to get upset or mad about it but it is difficult.

[@kellygirlaj]

My parents had been divorced for a few years by the time I graduated from college, they'd been apart since I was six. My only request was for them to sit together during the graduation ceremony and they did, albeit my dad was looking kinda miserable. Mom was smiling and proud of me.

[@Queina1]

My ex-hb cheated on me with a co-worker and married her after the divorce was final. She physically, mentally, and emotionally abused my children to the point we had to report her to children's services. Eventually they divorced. He ended up dating a woman the kids and I both absolutely adored. I firmly believe in putting the kids first. My ex and I did our best to keep our relationship as civil as we could for the kid's sake. And now we're back to being friends again. When my oldest wanted to have her 21st birthday at a bar, we all got together and had a roaring good time.

[@paolatio4233]

imma be honest, new follower here ive been binging your old videos. so hearing that daily uploads are back, makes me extremely happy. love your personality and the animal puppets!

[@sngray11]

I didn’t realize how much I missed your daily content until you restarted it this week! 💗 Thank you Charlotte for serving us a daily dose of petty, humor, and sunshine. 💋

[@taodhampyr]

My wife left around a year and a half ago. I started watching your videos to try and learn how to be petty.. but since then her live in boyfriend has been sent to jail and I had to take here to the hospital when she lost their baby. Never really got the petty thing, and kinda feel like nature has been hard enough on her

[@monstermcboo7282]

Damn. That’s rough. Thank you for being her support person even though…

[@kelleywyskiel3478]

That’s sweet of you. My ex reached out after years of leaving us broken and devastated. Apologized, was getting what he gave us. I told him I appreciate his attempt to be human and wished him the best with his karma. When he realized I wasn’t going to drop everything and run to him just to be used and abused he likely reached out to a different ex. He isn’t my problem and his problems aren’t my problems. I wish you the best. Not everyone is a monster like he was.

[@ttthecat]

You did the right thing. Pettiness is not a virtue, it's okay to joke about, but it's not a healthy long-term strategy for happiness. Being a good moral person will eventually bring you the same type of person who will treat you with the loyalty, kindness, and love you deserve.

[@StrangeFacinations]

You're a good man.

[@krisdiane]

Sounds like you're a much better person than most of the people in these clips. People do horrible things in the name of "petty."

[@michellebrickner9307]

After my dad passed away, my bonus mom gave my sister and I a bunch of his things including photo albums. As we looked at them, we found about twenty pages were empty, followed by pictures of me as a newborn. We quickly realized he had thrown them all away. We understood but were also devastated. A week later I did find ONE picture of them lighting the unity candle at the bottom of the box. But we still wish we had the rest of the pictures.

[@lifesabeach4813]

"bonus mom" is hilarious to me!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@franziskaschlott3081]

@@lifesabeach4813 I’m a stepmom to kids who met me when they were 4+ 5, I had to make it very clear that I’m not their „new“ mom and that I’m never equal to mom or a rival to her. (Btw I don’t like this woman for her narcissistic behavior towards her kids and her ex husband) and saying I’m kind of a „bonus“ mom worked to explain that. :) I don’t want them to call me mom but when they talk about me they can call me their „bonus mom“ so it’s not that weird dance around what I am to them. When they’re here I fill that role.

[@skylarjaxx2399]

Bonus mom is what we call it step this in law that doesn't work for my family.

[@RiderLover2426]

@@lifesabeach4813 how

[@Amber-yq9ee]

Aww. That's sad. But I guess we all understand a little if we've ever experienced those INTENSE emotions like divorce or break up. I'm sorry for your loss! Sending you lots of 💕!

[@davidguidry657]

I’m thankful for the return to daily content! I’m glad you feel secure enough with your loyal Tater Tots to prioritize your self-care and take time when you need it.

[@jenn_x.]

When I divorced my cheating ex, his words were, "You'll never do better than me." (Heck, I did better just getting rid of him.) Fast forward to the first guy who asked me out after the divorce was final...MBA, good-looking, generous, intelligent, and 10 years younger! The ex was not amused - but I sure was. 😄

[@Elizabeth912-v6o]

@13:10 😂❤!!!!! Much love to them !!! I actually want them to work it out because they procreated some freaking geniuses!!!!!!!!!!!😂

[@themysteriousone]

My parents were divorced when I was quite young, my mom left him. He hated her till the day she passed away but respected his children enough to attend her funeral. They had 30 yrs of petty, so I can't post just 1 story, might make a great book though🤣

[@kelleywyskiel3478]

When my ex passed away the children were torn about whether to go to his funeral or not. All I could do was offer to go if they needed me there and let them know that it’s a choice they need to make for themselves and not out of any perceived duty to me or to him. One refused never even remembering him-one went days after when there wasn’t a pony show of family hoping to connect over a funeral moment. He said, they’ve had decades with all the information available to stay connected to me and chose now to say hey? Fck no, I didn’t know him, he’s a memory of my life before I turned 6 and my world suddenly didn’t make any sense anymore. What’s awful was how much I lied to protect that relationship when th him and his dad and how much that kid absolutely adored his daddy who just chose to never see him again after he had another baby with another girl. He pretended 11 years and two babies never happened.

[@pearlofthedarkage]

Write it. Make some coin.

[@CaseyAvalon]

Wow! Write that book! My parents divorced but my dad was friends with the judge so mom and I lost our house and she didn't get any alimony (even though my dad has a great job). It was tough floating around with no home but eventually I found my now husband and we moved to Oregon (originally from So.Cal) and I don't talk to my mom or dad.

[@Ericasentertainments]

@@kelleywyskiel3478 oh no I think that you should’ve encouraged them to go! 🤦🏻‍♀️what was the reason for them not to want to attend their dad’s funeral? I hope they went otherwise that is guilt that will eat them up for the rest of their lives especially as they get older and realize that you’re not perfect either. Sounds like they may have taken your side without knowing the entire truth. 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@Ericasentertainments]

@@CaseyAvalon why didn’t you go live with your dad?

[@RoxxyKaosGG]

I think people underestimate how commonplace cheating is in the military, for both the enlisted and partners. My husband deployed with this girl. We are in an open relationship, but we consider dating or romance to be cheating. She tried SO hard to break us up. It was his first deployment and I was confused why we'd be communicating great and then he would get super pissed at me (ta da, it was because of her manipulating him). When she finally realized he wouldn't cheat on me or leave me, she moved on. Dated another deployed soldier for 4 months and he left his wife and 3 young children for her. She cheated on him and left him almost immediately. Not even a unique military story 🤷‍♀️

[@lillightning06heh20]

This. Omg. It’s pretty common.

[@grannym2880]

After my parents divorced (I was 12) my grandmother cut my mother out of most of my photos too. I'm now 60 and it still hurts. Thankfully I have a granddaughter of my own now and we have lots of beautiful pictures of her WITH my Mum.

[@annea5781]

😢

[@annea5781]

I feel like that happened a lot back then 😢. It’s sad that they didn’t think of the children enough

[@taradaycatalortaraifyourno8482]

When I got divorced my friend got me cookies that said things like “congrats on losing a loser” Others were way more funny but I can’t remember it’s been almost 10 years. And a friend of the family made me a cheese cake lol. I kinda wanted to burn my dress but I loved it so much it was like my baby so I donated it to a company that helps brides who don’t have a lot of money. I hope he gives that pride more lack

[@gentlemen_prefer_criscuit]

I accidentally fast forwarded the video and screamed "NO SPOILERS!!!". We have company.

[@florecitayami]

Loved This Video. When I finally left my ex and shortly after I spotted him with one of the 🐕 he was cheating on me with. I decided to give this TA a try, we ended up having such a connection that I ended up pregnant. When I was around 8 months pregnant I purposely went to buy avocados at his sister's market so he can know that I looked beautiful while pregnant and most importantly happy. I've been with my husband for 12 yrs now, we love and trust each other. We came to an agreement that we both deserve respect and if one day the love ends we will be honest with each other, instead of cheating.

[@ziggystarlust]

I'm so glad my parents had an amicable divorce! Unfortunately this means they call each other to talk about me. 🤦😂 Honestly wish they would have gotten divorced sooner. My reaction when they told my little brother and I (the day after Christmas, thanks guys) was "oh thank god"

[@CaseyAvalon]

I wish my parents divorce was amicable lol. Long story short I don't talk to my mom or dad.

[@ziggystarlust]

@@CaseyAvalon Dang, I'm sorry. Although the divorce was amicable, their discourse and intense arguing/yelling really messed me up.

[@CaseyAvalon]

@@ziggystarlust I understand and can relate, like your in your room and you hear them screaming and it scares you and freaks you out. I'm sorry that happened to you. You are not alone! ❤️❤️❤️

[@moonyfruit]

That is the best case scenario. Gotta make it a lot easier on you and your brother though. 🙂 Sometimes marrying your best friend is the best decision; sometimes your best friend should just stay your best friend.

[@heatherzwicker8031]

My sister like them kinda getting along lately. Girl, they separated in '92! Leave me alone! Oh my goodness the arguing!

[@bonfire8448]

HUUUUUUHHHHYEAAAAAHH! Happy to hear you're back daily, Charlotte ! Hope you feel better, don't hesitate to go back to every two days if you feel it becoming too much again, we'll just binge-watch some of your earlier videos :)

[@ladylynx9327]

I tune in everyday whilst at work just for a daily dose of petty from your petty buffert , lots of love all the way from Zimbabwe

[@vuyelwancube9538]

Hello fellow Zimbabwean. Same.

[@Shivs628]

I’ve never read a comment section so thoroughly… all these stories. 😮

[@kyracroft751]

Oof, I had a friend who’s husband was leaving earlier in the morning, missing breakfast and coffee, not wanting the homemade lunches. She found out he was getting breakfast and coffee with a girl co-worker and getting lunch with her too. Then she caught them flirting. I remember what my friend did, but jeez these people have got the AUDACITY to pull that move.

[@Amber-yq9ee]

Did she catch it BEFORE they had progressed to sleeping together? I know there are some ppl who convince themselves when they are spending time w\a co-worker that they like & enjoy that they AREN'T cheating. They are just friends & get coffee or lunch. But if you're NOT telling your spouse & you're counting min until it's time & rushing off to enjoy flirting w\them, then you're deluding yourself & it's only a matter of time b4 you make a "mistake" & have sex w\them & thus starting a full blown affair! But others know from the JUMP that's where they are leading to. Just curious for your friend's case. It's so HURTFUL when that's done to you!

[@curlywagg7800]

My divorce becomes final on Monday and as it has been such a long time coming I can not wait. There was a bit of petty 😊

[@CaseyAvalon]

I wish you well and the best of this new chapter! 👍🤠

[@Amber-yq9ee]

Congrats, Sis!! Enjoy & make the most out of this new chapter in your life! 💖💕💖💕

[@m.r5039]

Yeah absolutely hate the setting up of the divorced parents. I’m going through the same right now and my mom is hurting my dad so bad that something like this if just f*cking cruel.

[@demondogmom7221]

When my two friends and I got divorced we each bought ourselves a "divorce" ring. The logic being you get rings for all sorts of memorable events.. why not? It made the jewelers laugh each and every time.

[@krussell-2000]

Used to work in family law, can confirm. We bill for everything 😂

[@tats763]

HUUUUUUYAAAAH!!! Only if you are rested up and ready for the daily grind again, my 🥔 Queen. ❤️

[@amosand7476]

First thing I did comment huuuuuuyeahhh Second thing look for other who commented the same Third thing glad to see ya comment was there I’m not the only one who does what Charlotte says

[@brandiclassetti3138]

I got one of my coworkers a congrats on your divorce cake. She loved it!

[@StrangeFacinations]

Cake is always appropriate.

[@obsidianrosestudio2663]

😂 my dad immediately sending me and my sister our photo albums his mother (grandma) made for each of us because they are full of pics of our mom so stepmom can’t get rid of them. Side note my grandparents loved our mom until the days they died!

[@graceboyer-101]

Hells yeah!!! My fiancé and I love watching your videos and we’re so glad they’re back for everyday. We love you Charlotte!!!

[@rebeccaspalding6132]

When my parents split, lawyers said they had to go 50/50 on the contents of the house, my dad shipped my mums half to her new place. Things like half a bedspread, half of a sheet, half the silverware, etc, but the pettiest thing, he sent her sewing machine without the foot control and cords and he sent the kitchen aid without the bowl and attachments… and to get back at him she signed over full custody of us kids…😮

[@SaraSparks19922]

Um..I'm glad your dad got custody..the fact that your mom used abandoning you kids as a pawn to eff over your dad..she sounds like an awful parent. I'm really sorry and hope I'm wrong.

[@SOGGYtalks]

Thank you for the return of daily videos! My withdrawals were getting unbearable........ 🤪😘 But mostly, I'm glad you found a way to grab some self-care, and still give us every-other day joy!!!

[@AJTho]

I'm with Sarah Schauer on divorces, you should celebrate them and they should create a divorce registery since you've probably lost most of your house supplies/appliances if not all.

[@Winters.C]

When I was young I co-signed for my Bf to get a car and since the payment was also on my credit card I called and had it repossessed from his work building when he was out with a coworker. I’d loved to have seen his face when he got back.

[@crisl.6817]

The restaurant divorce celebration - they ordered the "Big Juan" Margarita! 😋

[@kencampbell-rf6ot]

✂The cut out king !! 6:30 the mans got scissor skills like no other

[@sharonparker4427]

So glad you're back everyday! I was running out of old ones to watch and rewatch!

[@pyritethefool4637]

My husband and I both graduated on the same day form college, so our parents came into town, naturally. Graduation day was a bit hectic so we decided to have a lunch with both his parents and mine. His dad tried to ask us to do a separate meet up just for him. His dad's reason being he didn't want to have lunch with his ex wife. But the plan was to have a lunch for all the parents as none of them could be in town for long, and it was the only way to make sure everyone got time. So his dad demanding alone time with us when my parents and his mom would not get it pissed me off. So I told him to tell his dad that he can come to the lunch with everyone, or he can stay home. His dad ended up staying home because his wife had heath issues. I can understand how uncomfortable this would be. My mom and dad are also divorced, but if my dad had demanded alone time, I would have told him the same thing. This is their petty issue, not mine.

[@Amber-yq9ee]

💯 right! Plus, that was just selfish of his Dad to do. That would've denied ALL the other parents time & denied you & your hubby time to celebrate together as a family w\your family! Glad your parents & his Mom were able to understand & enjoy that time! 💖💕💖💕

[@yellowsuncat16]

Cutting the mom out of the photos was actually sad. She’s going to want those one day. 😢

[@misscrackwood]

I thought that too.. unless the mother was horrible and toxic af... Hopefully an intact copy of the photos exists somewhere.

[@monstermcboo7282]

My mom destroyed all photos of my dad when they split up. I have never forgiven her.

[@kelleywyskiel3478]

He cut them so precisely he likely kept them. But then again, I don’t know thief story, it’s his pain and this may be the best thing for him to protect himself and his daughter from her

[@krisdiane]

Exactly. That was the worst one.

[@biancavictoria8746]

Agreed. He should have just put the photos in storage, ignored them, and given them to his daughter when she was an adult.

[@horrorchick793]

Currently going through a split from a lengthy marriage and yeah, it can make anyone petty. I love these stories, and I am so glad these people got the satisfaction they were seeking. I have to say, if it was just the two of us, things might have deteriorated into petty-land. But with a child, special needs to boot, we have managed to make this as easy on him as humanely possible. I don't know what's coming, but I'm going to do whatever I have to do to limit the damage on my son's mental and physical wellbeing. I don't want him to grow up thinking marriage always goes down in flames with resentment and hatred playing into it. I hope my son finds the person, his person, and lives a long, happy life with them. That''s all I want and it's enough for me to hold back when I want to explode.

[@buggiesmile]

Charlotte I just want you to know in my seniors year of high school there was an assembly in which one of my classmates who was presenting asked each of the years for like “can I get a woohoo” or something similar and when he got to the seniors he said “can I get a huuueyeah” just like that and I’ve never seen the teachers as uncomfortable as they were when the entire senior class let out a very loud “huuuueyeahhhh” and it was the best thing ever and anyway thank you for bringing back that memory.

[@kristafrederickson4719]

Charlotte I'm a long time lover of your channel and today February 16th is my 39th Birthday and would love a shot out from you. I'm not doing anything for today, just snuggled up watching your post and then a few movies. You always put a smile on my face and helped me get through some really hard times. Thanks so much girl and I'm so happy for you and Mike, I love how genuinely happy you two seem to make each other. 🥳

[@CharlotteDobre]

Can’t do a shoutout because I’m filmed about 3 weeks ahead but happy birthday!! I hope it’s a great one!

[@maryschira9213]

Happy Birthday!

[@kristafrederickson4719]

@@CharlotteDobre thanks for acknowledging me on my Birthday, I know it seems silly but I truly appreciate you dropping a few words for me. Love ya girl

[@Lmlm8168]

Uhm can we talk about how smooth that guys cutting skills are ? He got the entire silhouettes like on point ✂️ 😂

[@tiffanymims8691]

I never cut my ex-husband out of any of the photos of us or our kids because that is their father, and they deserve to be able to look back on those photos and remember the good times. My ex is a horrible man, in my opinion. He lied and cheated, but that is who I poorly chose to be with, and that is my problem, not our kids' problem. We are not on the best of terms still, it has been 10 years, but are polite when we are in the same place. Our kids are grown now and so we don't really ever talk. I also don't wish anything bad on him because that would make my kids hurt if they lost their dad.

[@HeyImXaddy]

6:53 PLOT TWIST.. HE MADE A COLLAGE IN HIS CLOSET OF ALL HER PICS...

[@adquilantang]

I don't know how many times I've come back to the video to watch specifically the first 15 seconds, over and over I don't know what it is, but I can't help but come back

[@brookerogger5422]

me and my boyfriend were so sad that you slowed down posting (with respect to your personal time and life of course!!!) and he’s so glad to see me so happy that you’re back to daily content! we will always understand a break but i can’t complain about daily content 🤣

[@StarrDiiva16]

Lmaoooo my co workers came in a collectively screamed HOOOOO YEEEEAAAAHHHH 😭😭😭😭

[@darcydoll437]

A love a good petty story for someone else, but I have to admit I was upset at my mom for having destroyed pictures in their original wedding album. After 18 years of marriage there was no way for me to get any copies from the studio. She went through most of our family photo albums as well. 😓 Parents out there please consider what some of your actions might do to your children.

[@cynthiaguzman7130]

My daughter's father and I were no longer together by the time that she was born, but I saved everything for her. All the pictures, etc. And we co-parent very well and are still good friends. Sometimes, it works out ok. I am sorry that your mom did that to you. It was her anger and resentment towards him, but unfortunately, it didn't hurt him, it hurt you. I wanted our daughter to know that we were very good together at one time, which is why I saved everything for her.

[@LadyMorgaine1976]

Why would YOU want their wedding photos??? I threw mine in the fucking garbage can! My kids don't need that. And I don't need to keep a worthless keepsake. They have their father still, they have other pictures of him with them... No kid is entitled to their divorced parents' wedding pictures!

[@ursulaking4411]

I love how much fun the dad is having

[@LadyLenaki]

None of this petty stuff would have worked with my parents. Not only did we hang out with ex wife #3 and all her relatives, but after my mom (ex wife #4) divorced him, she let him stay at the apartment after heart surgery cuz he didn't have any friends or family (aside from kids that were under18) in town to stay with.

[@Luv_my_cats]

My grandma would cut the heads off of the photos when she got mad at someone 😂 I loved that woman. She Knew how to be petty, and she was fantastic at it. 💕

[@crysstalhubbard8323]

"We were just the bestest of friends, then we realized it was love the morning after the papers were filed." Seriously these people are not fooling anyone, ever.

[@Travelling_with_my_dog]

IMO, it's really mean of those grownup kids to prank the divorced parents by bringing them together with no warning. I've never been divorced, but it seems like it would be SO painful.

[@queenreg7]

I agree.

[@Rockabelle]

That was my reaction, too, but I think this might be the kids' way of getting revenge for what their parents put them through, which...alright, makes sense

[@jocelyncrahan2113]

At 7:50 her voice is very calming!

[@kpeugh2011]

14:44 it’s not always sad when a marriage ends. I left my abusive ex and boy howdy I was DELIGHTED when my divorce was finalized. And I celebrate the anniversary every year with a bottle of champagne.