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[@nxvisss]

Jubilee np bby🥰

[@zella7756]

You did an amazing job with the video and the people in it were great💗

[@laurenanderson999]

on videos as sensitive as this. there should be no comments allowed. you are endangering people who are willing to speak out, and it would provide safety for those to afraid to speak out. please hear my crys and think twice before enabling comments on such sensitive topics. this channel has a history of toxic comments so please be careful and protect those people who are suffering and in dispare.

[@proverbs2927]

Jubilee should do one for pro abstinence and pro safe-sex.

[@hanaharuka247]

I'm here 😄

[@purettyzz]

Undetectable or not, I need to know. Period.

[@pinkiebeee2045]

I recommend you get a screening from a doctor for stds / sexually transmitted diseases on ur partner before doing any intercourse, it's better to be safe than sorry.

[@Ikari1212]

@@pinkiebeee2045 That's actually what my partner and I did just because we were also planning to not always be safe. And it's so much more fun to fool around with knowing for certain that you are not gonna catch ANY STD at all. :) Not orally nor any other way.

[@dominoislegend]

Exactly

[@Ikari1212]

@Oscar Asso'o You can never be certain of that but my partner won't ever cheat on my using unsafe sex. If they cheated that is. I can be very certain of that since they also didnt want to get too intimate before we both got tested. :d

[@nodeue]

No you don't. If someone is undetectable, you can't get HIV from them. Most new cases of HIV are transmitted from people who don't know they're positive yet, so you should assume EVERYONE you sleep with is positive and act accordingly.

[@breezeblocks9389]

I can’t even imagine what it must be like being a child/teen who was born hiv+

[@KarinKarin]

ironicaly, the majority of adults with HIV who was born hiv+ (and who got it) are not afraid to have kids. such an ignorance.

[@laserface3021]

@Linus did either of you watch the video?

[@AH-ih7cs]

Linus you clearly don’t know much about HIV, with the right treatment people can have kids without passing on the virus

[@roguekitty9671]

@Linus From my understanding the large majority of people who gave birth to hiv positive children did not know that it would pass on because it was early into the aids crisis and there wasn't scientific understanding about it or they likely did not know their status when they got pregnant. Now there is more understanding about how to prevent transmission and rates lower than 1% have been reported by the cdc (although their are discrepancies related to race likely due to class and healthcare disparities).

[@beautythroughmyeyes]

@@KarinKarin Why would it be an ignorance if in 14 years, not one child has contracted through birth? It's proof. It's science. Its impossible to pass to a child or partner when Undetectable.

[@dontmindme.imjustafraidofe9327]

I really hate admitting this, but contracting HIV is one of my biggest fears.

[@shellybee9322]

Don’t mind me. I’m just afraid of everything. Mine too. And my dear, due to “undercover men” and the low use of contraceptives, we are the highest risk group 😔

[@dontmindme.imjustafraidofe9327]

Shelly Bee Aw, man. Now I’m never going to be exclusively sexually active.

[@davtran8023]

Take care also of blood (transfusion, hospital, dentist, tattoo, etc...). 10% of the contaminations are by blood. Everybody forget that and think just about sex transmission

[@vh024]

Thankfully they do have preventive medicine for HIV now, doesn’t seem like many know about it, though :(

[@Angell_Lee]

You guys can take PREP (Truvada) is a pill you take 1 to 3 days (ideally) before you sexual relations, it will prevent you having HIV if you sleep with someone who has HIV. When I was wild sexually I was taking it.

[@Nate-vk7gu]

Lying about you’re status to a partner should be a felony

[@Vrjm81]

It is a felony if you pass it to them

[@Nate-vk7gu]

Vanessa Rodriguez only in some states

[@ntb1132]

Lol we have the same name

[@souppastes5519]

It is.

[@Mulletmommy_]

It’s actually illegal

[@Furiouspenguin27]

Even if you’re undetectable you should always tell your partner, I’d feel so violated if I found out someone withheld that from me

[@RaifDerrazi]

If someone is Undetectable and CAN NOT transmit the virus. It's not necessary to disclose their status. It has nothing to DO with the other person at that point. And not everyone who has sex, has sex with someone they're going to see again, can trust etc. So imagine being in a small town and HAVING to tell someone u have HIV...and turns out, that person doesn't like you anymore and goes out and decides to, with malicious intent, tell EVERYONE your private medical business. You can't force a person to give that much power over your private medical issues to anybody. I highly disagree ON a moral stance, I always disclose for myself. Cause i just prefer 100% openness and honesty. But you have to think about the real-world implications and a lot of people here are only thinking from a place of fear for yourself. When, if you're undetectable, you can't get it anyway. So that's ungrounded fear....aka stigma...hence, purpose of the video

[@Furiouspenguin27]

Raif Derrazi there’s always a chance you can transmit it because you’ll never have a 100% confidence of no transmission. If you don’t tell someone, you’re not only a douche, but it should be a criminal offense for possibly ruining someone else’s life. Also, if it can affect the other person it is no longer your “private medical business.”

[@RaifDerrazi]

@@Furiouspenguin27 The CDC as well as many world groups/organizations have agreed the SCIENCE shows there is no transmission. everything else is just opinion and fear at this point. There are, however, 19 states where you MUST disclose...but it's limited to those states. Your opinion of whether someone discloses or not is fine with me...i'm just concerned with the role of the law

[@tannermichels5451]

@@RaifDerrazi You don't just become "Undetectable"! It's not an end all be all. You maintain being "Undetectable" by taking your meds regularly and not skipping dosages. Just because you are Undetectable during one blood test does not mean you are for the rest of your life. I agree U=U, when and ONLY when the individual is taking their meds consistently. You don't just become undetectable and it's done. Maintaining and undetectable status is a journey that must be continued with medication, consistent and consecutive taking of one's Medication.

[@Hknasw]

@@tannermichels5451 Exactly. This is why people with HIV should disclose. Being undetectable is not fullproof

[@kay049]

even if it’s undetectable and you can’t pass it, you’re partner has the right to know and make the choice

[@jadejaguar69]

Your partner does, but not a random hookup

[@MariahRose1]

Julius Caesar a random hookup has the right to know. It’s absolutely ILLEGAL to not tell someone you have an STD. You can go to jail for giving someone an STD if you knew you had it and had sex with them without telling them about your STD

[@kay049]

Julius Caesar every type of hook up or partner you have should know the risk. it’s illegal to not tell someone and knowingly pass it on.

[@jadejaguar69]

@@MariahRose1 @bi quirk I think people are having a hard time understanding what undetectable means. U = U is a term coined meaning undetectable = untransimisable. You can not give HIV to someone as long as you're under medication. There is no risk involved

[@jadejaguar69]

@@kay049 I think people are having a hard time understanding what undetectable means. U = U is a term coined meaning undetectable = untransimisable. You can not give HIV to someone as long as you're under medication. There is no risk involved

[@elizabethsharp225]

If you know you have an STD , and you don't tell someone, that is illegal.

[@estevao8354]

STI***

[@rain-cy6ve]

@Kelli Maiolo only that they cannot trassmit it if they are undetecatable, hold your horses guys

[@thiswowzer3217]

@@rain-cy6ve if they take their medicines properly, if the virus doesn't get stronger and fights the medicine, if they don't get another disease that makes them able to transmit their disease to you even if they take their medicines. Don't sweeten it, you can perfectly infect your partner, there's not a magic medicine to make you unable to transmit the disease. If you love even a little bit your partner you won't risk them to get an incurable disease

[@rain-cy6ve]

@@thiswowzer3217 and why would a positive person not take their meds considering that can endanger their own lives? Plus a person can become transsmitable after a few weeks of not taking the medicine, it s not something that happens so easy. The 2nd thing, the HIV virus is not like the flu virus, it doesn t have an outer capsula to exchange genes so easily and there are not as many steains plus it is not airborn so no way it can mutate that easily (this is a scientific fact, look it up). What is the connection with getting sick with something else? There is no connection, if they get a damn cold there is no risck for them to trasmit the deasese. And i m not talking about a partner, but if you re untrasmitable, should you be oblidged to disclose your status to a one night stand? This is just sick honestly.

[@rain-cy6ve]

@@thiswowzer3217 and wtf, "magic medicine". Look up scientifical facts, if you take your medicine, you just cannot trasmit it. I think i know enough about it since i m a medical student, anything besides the scientifcal facts are just 2 things: fear and prejudice.

[@chriss.2978]

"The heat of the moment" is a lame excuse. There is no excuse to conveniently leave out information like that. When you have sex with someone they are trusting you on a pretty deep level and the least you can do is be open with them.

[@angelanguyen3372]

I agree that your should disclose it to the person, but I don't completely blame them for doing it. Although I would blame them if they do it more than once/often. The guy in the video had a valid reason (although wrong), but he learned from it (hopefully) and never did it again.

[@Jeremy-wp4yh]

@@angelanguyen3372 there is no valid reason unless you don't know yourself. If you do know it's criminal

[@dirtydan5399]

And sex is a two way street so seems like both parties should take accountability for disclosing/asking instead of assuming everyone’s Hiv negative

[@anndyx9423]

@@dirtydan5399 Very true the other person is also responsible for themselves.

[@gabriellesimoneau9958]

In canada it’s actually a crime

[@mbalibengu9765]

shout out to Jubilee for having really great content this year

[@PHlophe]

flower

[@IenChi]

aw thanks!

[@Gsthompson84]

Mbali Bengu I totally agree

[@sak5601]

Facts💯🔥

[@mogabriel5238]

@@IenChi why do gays have hiv

[@Amethyst8x]

“I was so desperate to connect with another human being”.

[@RaifDerrazi]

I really was. I feel like a LOT of people can relate to that too, ya know? I'm super honored they asked me to talk about living with HIV w/ some amazing people

[@powerpufflesbo]

Raif Derrazi i’m proud of you

[@Chris-fe1kx]

Raif Derrazi thank you for sharing your personal story and for sharing your intake about hiv/aids. You have honestly educated a lot of us!! ❤️❤️

[@Amethyst8x]

Raif Derrazi that was one of the most touching moment I’ve seen lately. Thank you for sharing your story.

[@TheFunnystuffwebshow]

Raif Derrazi we all are so desperate for human interaction. I feel you 💙💙💙

[@pogchamp3846]

Zebra guy is on a whole other level of cool- fr, i think that outfit literally only works on him

[@crumbsoda9088]

he has a yt channel its lbtwink

[@503zzach]

His outfit remind me from the 80's era.

[@alexoliveras2947]

At the start of the video my eyes kept going to him thinking 'he looks so cool' lol

[@miicah1k592]

cali cieffi it doesn’t tho 🤮

[@pogchamp3846]

Miicah1k ok...well i think it does. you don’t have to.

[@richardswinton5436]

Damn that's scary, they don't feel like they have to say they have HIV/AIDS before sex.

[@PrinceRageta3]

Richard Swinton you don’t have to tell them if you’re viral load is undetectable

[@ZanayaNishale]

crazy world...I feel like thats a moral responsibility...

[@KayKashi]

That’s all you got out of this

[@aanyaprabhu9612]

she explained the whole 'u = u' thing

[@mistym0rning]

@@aanyaprabhu9612 -- I would still want to know before having sex. Because if we start a relationship and someone tells me after weeks or months, it would make me feel that perhaps they're keeping other things from me as well. It would just break all trust.

[@cammie8927]

Jubilee coming out with some interesting videos, I’m living for this

[@RaifDerrazi]

Yayyy, glad you appreciate us all talking about our lives

[@triton6083]

Otosaka Yuu yeah very empty ;(

[@morningcoffee9429]

cammie ok

[@sweetsalvation7143]

Live for Christ. Please

[@caseh4235]

"Do all college graduates think the same" Could ask questions about if they feel their degree was relevant to their job and if they think it was worth going to college

[@hpm06]

That’d be interesting

[@mabi3om959]

college drop outs could be interesting too!

[@crystalchandelier22]

It's worth going to collage if you don't do women's studies or gender studies.

[@angelamartinez5495]

Yesssssss

[@trenicejohnson15]

Bored im Really Bored or film or art... basically anything out of STEM lol (I’m bias because I’m studying biology)

[@T1mesAreHard]

In Canada, its a crime to not disclose your HIV status before engaging in a sexual activity. Yes, it requires a "realistic possibility of transmission" but the HIV virus mutates with every replication. Just because your viral load is low now, it may not be in a month from now regardless of what you may be doing to treat it. Unless you get tested every day how likely is it that someone always knows their viral load status at the time of sexual activity? Just disclose and let what happens, happen, rather than potentially ruining someone else's life.

[@trevor_corey8037]

This is actually somewhat true in regards to the replication and mutation. The antivirals actually stop the replication cycle . It doesn’t get far enough to mutate. So there is no transmission risk is someone is atop their medicine. Purely speaking from a molecular biology POV. No word on the Canada law

[@T1mesAreHard]

​@@trevor_corey8037 Sure, I'm not doubting the effectivness of HIV treatments in general, but can you definitively say that they work perfectly 100% of the time? As with most things in medicine/microbiology, other factors, environmental or otherwise, could negatively impact the treatment's efficacy. If only one person got infected with HIV due to the treatment not fully working as intended, then the law still serves a very important function in this regard.

[@trevor_corey8037]

@@T1mesAreHard well to that I say well said. I’m actually surprised there is such a law in Canada and not the US. I agree it is immoral to not let someone know

[@reginaldmerriweather4713]

Yes it does work all the time as long as you stay on top of your medicine

[@d_a_n_a.]

“Do all single parents think the same?”

[@alyssalove113]

No, no one cares.

[@somonyratana]

@@alyssalove113 isn't it ironic that you actually take your time to reply on something that you 'don't care' about. I mean if i were in your place, i would just ignore it lol

[@s.j.t6006]

@@alyssalove113 the likes strongly disagrees with you

[@Ghyybu]

Ratana OnceMoo stfu

[@somonyratana]

@@Ghyybu Sweetie. You don't speak that kind of language with some random strangers on the internet. If you can't be nice, be quite 🤫🤫

[@CmamaL]

"i found out because my doctor let it slip" that's so unfortunate that you have to learn something like that about yourself because of someone else being careless with their words especially a child. that's not just something you blurt out.

[@femininechaos4931]

Um that’s his doctor? His doctor had a responsibility to discuss his illness, his parents shouldn’t have been so over protective

[@SnazzyArcade]

@@femininechaos4931 he was only ELEVEN and dealing with a highly stigmatized, and, at the time, possibly fatal illness. Would you want your kid to worry about the possibility of them dying? Clearly his mom would have talked to him about it at some point.

[@beatriceolivier8438]

the mom should’ve told him

[@femininechaos4931]

SnazzyArcade I’m sorry but the sooner you tell a child the better. If he grew up knowing he had HIV since he was little it wouldn’t have been traumatizing because that’s all he would have known. Compared to lying to him his whole life and then drop a bombshell that he has HIV. It’s more hurtful to a child to create a false reality for them and tell them their whole life has been a lie.

[@joelcampos8795]

Honestly, that was the perfect time for him to find out. He was about to hit puberty and possibly become sexually active.

[@Novah13]

The woman with her whole “why do I even have to say it? It’s undetectable :D” is a little concerning I’ll admit

[@WhatEver-mv6qi]

She is like a loud vegan. Cant stand her. Like okay it shouldnt be stigmatised, but it isnt a cool thing either.

[@Kriistiee]

If nobody asks her why say it.

[@rain-cy6ve]

She said she never lied but i guess she s literally frustrated cause of the stigma. Honestly, i m HIV negative and i wouldn t mind to not be told if the person is undetectable/untrasmitable. If they are not at risk to give it to me, why tell? Seriously, it is a legit fear from them, especially if they live in a small community, think about how shitty it woupd be for everyone to know they got HIV (not AIDS, they are different)

[@jaque1511]

She said she never lied about it. So why are you concerned? Of course she’s gonna be frustrated about her situation

[@09kenedy]

Extremely Concerning!!!

[@Gemini_Woman]

The guy in the zebra print looks like he's time travelled from 1985 and I love it 😀

[@probablynot1368]

It looks like he put a lot of thought and effort into the overall ‘look’. I appreciate that he dressed for the occasion.

[@gentlerob0t]

his instagram is @lbtwink he's also a youtuber :)

[@JoeCnNd]

Lol, I was thinking he looks like a member of steel panther.

[@UnionAdvocate]

And yet they didn’t have anyone who was over 18 in ‘85 on this panel. It appears to be all millennials. Like Gen-X and boomers were literally on the AIDS battlefield.

[@kylledeguzman1587]

"you aren't your diagnosis, it's not who you are" a lil louder for the ppl at the back!!

[@RaifDerrazi]

Right?! Glad you agree. Super honored they asked me to talk about living with HIV w/ some amazing people

[@ashton370]

flase

[@justshady]

Say for the mentally ill

[@noodles1291]

Kylle De Guzman I think this applies to everyone with a serious diagnosis, very wise words

[@joshneumann2513]

Well I mean you are if you dont want to die

[@tipusensei]

This was a dark topic. But it was something that had to be discussed.

[@RaifDerrazi]

And that's why it's so important too! It shouldn't be a dark topic. I'm super honored they asked me to talk about living with HIV w/ some amazing people

[@Ghyybu]

I’m going

[@meena9134]

I think this discussion proved that it isn’t a dark topic at all✨

[@hinde64]

Not dark. I’m glad we got to learn more about it through these amazing people

[@tamtamr9081]

@@RaifDerrazi are you straight or gay?

[@irenepetroni]

"do all asexuals think the same?" Would be pretty interesting to see cause we know so little of asexuality in general.

[@keiltree2710]

Being one, I would love to.

[@erinllwyd2827]

Wait this is such a good idea , i would love to see this!

[@theopulentone1650]

It would be interesting because it's a pretty layered subject. I am an asexual non-libidoists meaning my sex drive is near zero, but many asexuals do enjoy sex despite the lack of sexual attraction. Also, some asexuals are sex-repulsed, I'm not, and despite having no sex drive I enjoy read erotica sometimes. I just find sex to be fascinating, even if it's not my cup of tea lol.

[@obamaslastname7867]

THEY JUST UPLOADED ONE

[@snoopy4554]

@@theopulentone1650 same here!

[@ney9400]

Two videos I’d love to see: - Do all sexual assault victims think the same? - Do all feminists think the same?

[@summerrayne9213]

kasimir second one if a no because there r like stages of feminism there are the crazy blue hair girls who think girl should rule the world and there r the reasonable ones who think we r equal

[@char5285]

I know not all feminists think the same. There are good ones, like the ones that preach equality and stuff and the ones that are reverse sexist and invalidate problems of non minorities and stuff :/

[@hh-hq8ns]

@@summerrayne9213 lmfao how many SJW cringe comps have u watched to form that opinion?

[@ashleyford7932]

tracy Star wdym “actual victims”

[@gem6105]

h h none, just life experience

[@user-tx6lu6nz5r]

love these “taboo” topics being discussed making the world a better place✊

[@RaifDerrazi]

Hell yes

[@aspiknf]

They haven't been taboo topics for years, these things were taboo decades ago...but since the noughties these topics haven't been taboo imo

[@gerra0112]

Taboo? Nope its not taboo

[@sweetsalvation7143]

Yeah . And stop screwing around

[@TicklishCrown]

To not disclose is completely unacceptable. Enough said.

[@martialartsnerd7673]

👏 👏 👏 I think it’s a felony in some states.

[@RaifDerrazi]

@Leachking PLA Mmmm...i'm gonna say the person who killed a woman is the one who is selfish and evil lol...

[@RaifDerrazi]

you're arrested for first-degree clownery luv That’s right 🙏🏽

[@baileyvdm04]

@@RaifDerrazi Of course killing someone is evil, but it is also evil and cruel to not disclose your HIV status to someone before intercourse.

[@martialartsnerd7673]

Bailey Khan It’s actually a felony in my state

[@phoebecarios5179]

The girl disagreeing that she was ashamed of having HIV yet says that she doesn't have to inform her partner about her status was really interesting tho.

[@essnjora9904]

She didn't say that at all. She said she lets the partners decide whether or not to use condoms

[@joannajourneys]

@@essnjora9904 comprehension skills in the comments are scary lol

[@brookeh21]

@@joannajourneys VERY scary. That's what 4 years of Donald Trump does to the youth. Lol

[@stoopwoop]

@@joannajourneys These comments have so many likes too.. yikes

[@mjvybz]

@@essnjora9904 okay.. so she's letting them decide? Did she tell them before & then let them decide afterwards?

[@hannahspencer5430]

the dude w the stick is so attractive idek why his face is just perfect

[@paracozms]

yesss

[@nl7887]

exactly what I was thinking, and the way he spoke and portrayed himself doubled it

[@motivationing1012]

yesssss, i like himmmm

[@stephanieramas4859]

Is still wrong to not tell your partner about it.

[@meldonuk4101]

StephanieRamas yes

[@lwolf101]

StephanieRamas it’s illegal

[@kendallpoorman6926]

Yes, it’s actually extremely illegal, so much so that every new HIV infection is reported to the CDC (I believe).

[@TheFishWhat]

i think its fine if they know theyre undetectable. who cares

[@serenahopes7130]

TheFishWhat. relationships should be truthful 100%.

[@humansatan9968]

“Do all depressed people think the same?” I’d really like to see that being done🖤

[@alexacosta3655]

I read dressed lol 🙈

[@TheAustynCr8on]

alex acosta I read desperate lol I’m tired

[@natalie9641]

they did suicide survivors

[@ismaenciso301]

They did so suicide survivors think the same so its similar

[@TheBoeboe]

@@natalie9641 you dont have to be dpressed to be suicidal

[@MrMettajin]

This is how many people who understands HIV and totally accepts HIV patients as normal people but do not have an immediate friend who has HIV 👇🏼

[@juanaabad7315]

Not a lot... a lot of the comments are ignorant

[@abbykober866]

horngry that’s ignorant it’s not so easy to transmit that you shouldn’t go near them.

[@giwtaki2000]

I'm so frustrated by the comments. I though I was the misseducated one on this subject , but after reading the comments, I realized that there is still so much ignorance and stigma. So sad..

[@akarb7]

I can’t even get past how hard Thomas is slaying in that outfit

[@rilyn8934]

"Do all virgins think the same?" This would be interesting. Like if u agree

[@marlonmoncrieffe0728]

Yeah. And it is too bad they are not in New York City; I would volunteer for such an episode.

[@cutiepatutie9742]

This would be so good,good idea

[@ciaras3170]

Short answer no end of video

[@h3llboyyy407]

Adult virgins* no one wants to hear teens talk about virginity lol.

[@rilyn8934]

@@h3llboyyy407 ya

[@mrIpodmagic]

They have a lot of balls just to be there.

[@SL-ul3yr]

And even more balls to be the guy admitting that he sexually assaulted someone by lying about his status in order to get consent... and to be every single other participant who didn't call out how wrong that is.

[@lovethetruth953]

@@SL-ul3yr you don’t know what sexual assault means then ... clearly you’re very ignorant . It’s been a year now so i hope you educated yourself since then.

[@teaunnagray2135]

Wow, that person who answered the first question differently than everyone else made SUCH great points. HIV/AIDS can absolutely be a death sentence for some- stigma, lack of access to resources, privilege, education, and so much more can be the difference between life and death for millions who have HIV/AIDS. Great perspective.

[@Leslie-qo7hy]

wtf they should ALWAYS tell their partners they have HIV.

[@NINAKRAWCZYK]

I think the people that said that are the ones with undetectable hiv (which means you can't pass it to other people)

[@Leslie-qo7hy]

@@NINAKRAWCZYK they should still let their partners know that they have HIV even though it’s undetectable.

[@NINAKRAWCZYK]

@@Leslie-qo7hy I agree with you

[@HanakinSkywalker25]

@Shay Reade there's nothing wrong in letting people know... HIV isn't a joke. It's putting someone's life in danger. When you lie about your status, your partner wouldn't bother to do a HIV test, what if it proceeds to the AIDS level? I mean, they wouldn't take any medication if they assume they don't have HIV, would they? You never know what can happen 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@HanakinSkywalker25]

@Shay Reade there may be no requirement, but its unfair for the partner, isn't it? You can't lie about STDs 🤷‍♀️

[@mr.t.1237]

"Do all diagnosed psychopaths think the same?"

[@commondirtbagz7130]

Mr.T 123 no

[@imnotaweebyounormie547]

Yes. Mental illness is so put under the rug.

[@alyssalove113]

Yes!

[@user-og1jz6xl3y]

Or sociopaths, it might be hard to find only psychopaths

[@saikisgreenglasses2291]

Orange Juice it might be hard to even get real ones

[@fr0stmourn3]

I don't care if it ruins the "heat of the moment" you technically have not received full consent because that partner might not want to have sex even if they know its not transmittable.

[@unluckyomen13]

I can understand that it is difficult suffering from HIV and their is a stigma attached to it. BUT it isn't ok to LIE about your status. Like you said, it feels like full consent wasn't given.

[@jameson6789]

Worldwide JIN-tleman! Yeah, I didn’t get hiv but my ex did not tell me what diseases she had from being a recovering addict. & ultimately it was transmitted to me. I take medicine and it doesn’t affect my daily life but I wish I was told. I would have still dated her but I would’ve been safer. But 🤷‍♂️ live and learn.

[@adelmoricardo7745]

I was waiting for someone to correct him! It’s selfish and all about consent

[@MrCorky911]

I agree it's wrong. But I also understand why they don't want to tell if they're undetectable. Even when you're undetectable the vast majority of people won't have sex with you so basically because you're doing the right thing, you will never ever have sex again. I think it must be incredibly frustrating being shot down time after time because other people are paranoid and are ignorant of what "undetectable" means.

[@joetroutt7425]

@@MrCorky911 what about not only informing your partner about your status but also the possibility of your partner who you have confided in going around telling all their friends who may some of your friends who don't know about your status and then getting weird looks, whispers, sideways comments and even teasing bc you told one person.

[@bobloblawslawblog5104]

The guy who said he only lied once about having HIV should be in STRONGLY AGREE. It doesn't even matter if it's only once. You lied. You could have transmitted it.

[@denied7616]

well, he couldn't. that's the whole point

[@maheraxo]

You never know crazier thibgs have happened

[@Sapphireia]

You're less likely to contract HIV from an HIV positive person on meds (undetectable) than from someone who hasn't been tested in a while (which is most people).

[@Yihooni]

I bet he lied more than once🙄

[@wishii_3387]

people change hun

[@EnvoyArcher218]

11:01 Love how he just speaks from his heart/lets down his walls to share something so personal. It couldn't have been easy to do that in a room full of strangers but it was humbling to listen to his story in such a raw fashion.

[@millyk6184]

I disagree. They should totally tell their partners. Disgraceful

[@krazy8653]

MONEY/SUCCESS 10Million it reeks of clownery and homophobia

[@cowmcmoose94]

@@krazy8653 It's true, unfortunately. Not clownery at all.

[@ozurking4748]

@@everettfanor1989 ok boomer

[@duality9930]

Coming out to tell your parents you have hiv can be extremely hard for some people. A lot of people are gonna treat you like you spreadable virus they have to be away from. People just can’t come out and say it because the embarrassment and how some people will think of them.

[@millyk6184]

@@duality9930 weird they treat you like you have a spreadable virus because YOU DO

[@sydney1657]

“Do All Millionaires Think The Same?”

[@klemensvonmetternich4442]

They’re not gonna waste their time on this lmao

[@JojoBusta]

@@klemensvonmetternich4442 there are more millionaires than you think

[@mayfia]

@@klemensvonmetternich4442 they're doing a spectrum episode with 6 middle class people and 1 millionaire.

[@OfficialNinjaSkillz]

sxpernova A lot of KZbinrs are millionaires nowadays. Having money doesn’t mean you have better things to do 💀

[@dylanccarr]

this is a great idea

[@kenyannprincess]

That girl pissed me off. If you have it idc if it’s not detectable you should disclose that information.

[@matheuslanerre2895]

Why?

[@kristinakane7968]

@@matheuslanerre2895 Because there are people who don't want to sleep with someone who has HIV: even if the viral load is undetectable, you owe your partner that information.

[@brookeh21]

She said she does. You are a terrible listener.

[@legendaryunclecabral2522]

@@matheuslanerre2895 because you have it... surely if its undetectable its should not be a problem to say it right?

[@matheuslanerre2895]

@@kristinakane7968 Not wanting to sleep with someone just because they got an undetectable virus, is messed up!

[@blackice3022]

Undetectable or not, if someone has an STD they should tell the person that they are in a relationship with.

[@sevag9314]

when raif got emotional i- SOMEBODY HUG HIM PLEASE

[@RaifDerrazi]

Haha, i'll take ALL the hugs!! But thank YOU for the support and the love

[@diaverna]

@@RaifDerrazi I am curious, what is your ethnicity? You seem like many at once haha.

[@tamtamr9081]

yes!!

[@triton6083]

No

[@sevag9314]

Raif Derrazi omg you’re welcome❤️❤️

[@mig636]

"I have lied about my status." *disagree* "Well there was that one time..."

[@CruellaDeVil.]

@Leachking PLA Its not that deep if it cant be passed at the time

[@lunenoire7238]

@@CruellaDeVil. Doesn't matter. It's very serious. At least if the person suggests unprotected sex, be upfront about it, otherwise okay

[@CruellaDeVil.]

@@lunenoire7238 true

[@catherinerainville4232]

Someone I know got genital warts because her short time BF didn’t tell her.... she is now scarred for life!! So fn’ wrong!

[@jadejaguar69]

@@catherinerainville4232 that's a completely different issue. If you're undetectable there is no possibility to pass it on

[@soulovelee_2433]

"Why would we have to say it, we’re undetectable" ehm, because it’s still the choice of your Partner to even wanna risk it?! And who know if someone not slips up with their medication every now and then..

[@6thgraderfriends]

Yeah they could forget their medications and end up with detection in their blood and give it to someone unknowingly. Hopefully that doesn't happen but it could.

[@vickysmile23]

If the virus is undetectable there is no risk whatsoever

[@vickysmile23]

@@6thgraderfriends You would have to stop taking your medication for a long time in order to become detectable. It wouldn't happen if you just "forget it" once

[@kearrahabrielle7366]

Sis🤦🏾‍♀️ UNDETECTABLE OR NOT.. it’s still HIV/AIDS...🙄

[@liahamilton8931]

@@ramy8338 If you find out that the person you’ve been having sex with has HIV and didn’t tell you, whether undetectable or not, you’d probably be upset. At least I would be. It’s incurable virus. If you point a gun at my head, I’m gonna be freaked out whether it’s got bullets in it or not.

[@ayoubdado7927]

literally none of these people have aids

[@obitouchiha4739]

@@ayoubdado7927 rewatch the video, you missed someone.

[@m-gd6v]

@@obitouchiha4739 who?

[@ayoubdado7927]

@@obitouchiha4739 which one?

[@rimasaba]

I feel so bad for Joseph & Lexi because it was all out of their control .

[@nimbzclowd]

Yeah ikr the girl too

[@BlueberrySummertime]

Rima Saba , what about the girl?

[@RaifDerrazi]

Don't feel bad for him! He doesn't feel bad for himself. He's happy and living his BEST LIFE.

[@chrisroseman2684]

@Oscar Asso'o that is not what she implied at all oml. They feel bad because they never got to know what it was like NOT to be anything but it. They immediately started out HIV positive

[@rimasaba]

Haha oops ! I didn’t watch far enough in the video to know that she was born with it .... just watched the rest & made the edit . Absolutely am not implying that the rest is at fault , I just said that the two had NO CONTROL .

[@artificialgummies7416]

Curse anyone who knows they have this illness yet they continue to intercourse without telling their partner and with the intention of passing it. Edit: Due to popular demand, I decided to change “Screw anyone” to “curse anyone”. It seemed a bit contradictory anyways 😅

[@elijahtrent21]

Facts

[@cielphantomhive2197]

That is so scary

[@lalalae_]

*say it louder for the people in the bacc*

[@smollsquishytaeil]

Yes

[@hayes2132]

you probably shouldn’t screw those people

[@joaocarlosrms]

I didn't know that someone with HIV could be undetectable in a blood test and for that reason cannot transmit HIV. Being honest... I didn't. It's unbelievable how much I learned with this video! Thanks for that! I wish a healthy and happy life (and safe sex, for sure) for everyone! Cheers

[@Isaacdempster1]

How he lied about having HIV but still went to the disagree side..

[@tenten3577]

If it was years and years ago and he is a different person now he can stay there, people change

[@wishii_3387]

..... okay but if you have never been in his shoes you have no right to judge him- you may or may not have done the same thing if you were in his place, so dont judge others for what you may have or haven't done aswell

[@Sophia-fg2dq]

@@wishii_3387 the whole point of the video is to judge and learn from this and yes people will judge if you lie about not having hiv

[@wishii_3387]

@@Sophia-fg2dq ofc people will judge, thats obvious...but should they, especially when its not their place? and the point of the video was supposed to be informational, not to judge others-

[@ceaser8999]

2058: “Do all aliens think the same”

[@TJ-jk4ut]

😂😂

[@arbsan8366]

BunchoStuff I SWEAR IF THEY HAVE THIS IN THE FUTURE😂😂😂

[@alexanderchong1916]

BunchoStuff if we had really raided area 51 we would’ve already gotten that video😂

[@rainboebaggins]

BunchoStuff lmfaooooooooo

[@myms9681]

hhahahah yes

[@kneegah6136]

Karen: I'm HIV positive Co-worker: I thought you were American

[@ge5493]

HAHAHAHAHAHAH

[@wd5739]

I feel like it should be *Co-worker:* I'm HIV positive *Karen:* I thought you were American .....fckin Karen🤦‍♀️.. lol

[@rollindown95]

DEAD

[@faithfaith5154]

Who is Karen?🤔

[@jessican6451]

@@faithfaith5154 karen

[@alexismehr5165]

Could you do one with the Herpes Virus? I feel like people need to be educated on that topic aswell. Because it is something that can also go undetected if you don’t know about it.

[@Andi_andI]

But literally everyone has HPV in some form or another.

[@coolguy9709]

But pretty much everyone has a strain of herpes like oral herpes almost everyone has it 99 percent of the world does

[@Isaacdempster1]

Cool Man actually about 85% of America has oral herpes with about 15-40% having the other one. It’s hard for them to find out when most people who have it have 0 symptoms

[@NSGLiv]

80% of the world has herpes lol if you’ve ever had a cold sore or chicken pox in your lifetime than you have herpes you more than likely have it and don’t know

[@kayisokay2253]

Yes!!! Because people also don’t know that HSV-1 can be contracted through oral sex onto the genitalia!

[@xXPurpleLoliTranceXx]

"Do all racist think the same?" 🤔

[@amalia1_]

sℋε ✩ Aℳℯ✘hƴst 😂 usually racist people don’t identify themselves as a racist

[@phoebesnotreal]

mali 1 lmao exactly

[@hittingyouoverthehead]

@@amalia1_ White supremacists are somewhat equivalent to racist and I'm sure there are many who openly admit to being it.

[@sniperwolfakafestiveconfus7203]

You trying to get someone shot

[@xXPurpleLoliTranceXx]

@@sniperwolfakafestiveconfus7203 Wha-Oh! We got a sensitive pusscake over here!

[@ansleymoore9716]

A video idea: “Do all people with Borderline Personality Disorder think the same” It is a highly stigmatized disorder and I think a video would be so moving and necessary.

[@theyoutubeanalyst3731]

Do all bipolar people think the same would be cool too

[@Stelasl99]

Yes!!

[@njux1871]

Fantastic idea. :)

[@imid3440]

yes please! i volunteer as tribute

[@alexandrucristian8797]

Do a video about OCD

[@SimplyFreshdew]

Jubilee’s videos just keep getting better and better 😭 props to your crew for all the hard work!!!

[@RaifDerrazi]

Glad you appreciate this one. Seriously, awesome...and i'm super honored they asked me to talk about my life with HIV

[@IenChi]

Much thanks! Kudos to our director Bonnie who did an amazing job directing!

[@MsHnBK]

And the brave people

[@triton6083]

Nope

[@UrbanDecayLova247]

They been puttin in work! Definitely has gotten better and more interesting over time.

[@lgeiger]

I have been attacked for demanding an STD test. These people act pretty recklessly in my opinion. For me health is the most important thing in life. I would probably not risk having a relationship with someone who's HIV positive. Just be fair and don't lie.

[@kelsa.m.1993]

This is probably one of my favorite Spectrum episodes. Everyone was so optimistic and positive about their diagnosis, and they were so honest and raw with how they approached it. Good on them. Beautiful people

[@mr.t.1237]

"Do all self-made millionaires think the same?" It would be interesting to see them answer questions about money and life Edit: by self-made I mean they were never rich just average income or below (poverty), then they made their way up

[@ericleonardjr]

And a middle ground with self made millionaires and family wealth.

[@sperdie8428]

I agree

[@jasminebrown4201]

no millionaire is self made

[@sperdie8428]

@@jasminebrown4201 That's not true. You're honestly saying that to make yourself feel better.

[@ramzy4458]

Get Stephan Graham on here!

[@alanwilliams1837]

“Do all therapists think the same?”

[@waitingfortheprinter8030]

This was actually pretty informative. I'm glad that videos like this exist

[@daniela9171]

lol.. the whole lying about status thing... I think these people don't understand what, "strongly disagree" means.

[@abigailt8231]

Never 👏🏼 ever 👏🏼 lie👏🏼 about👏🏼 your 👏🏼 status👏🏼

[@alexwasike979]

I like that emoji

[@joelmiller2601]

Its not a crime in California.. absolutely ridiculous.

[@kingutoyama9599]

Joel Miller Lol thats sad.

[@riripari2042]

All I need to say is: protection, protection, protection. If you do random hookups and get in some hot and heavy relationship then no matter what use protection and also start taking those HIV prevention pills to be better safe than sorry because they have those now too.

[@geupelboi]

If somebody is inclined to lie about their status, then I don't think you saying what you said is going to compel them to do otherwise.

[@mckennareeves2764]

The guy said his school taught him “normal” intercourse. Hah my school taught me all about that abstinence.

[@catflores311]

McKenna Reeves !!! My school went through most things! Same sex, regular intercourse, STDs, anatomy, using protection during oral sex (which I didn’t know was even a thing!). They didn’t preach abstinence, they REALLY made sure we knew our resources for testing and birth control. And most importantly, which is to utilize them!

[@fmjjjjn7510]

I was never taught I'm 15

[@abbygriffin9105]

My school taught us about some, but I am not sure if they taught us much about protection. In the 5th grade, they separated the girls and boys and taught us each, separately, about our bodies and how we were expected to develop. They taught us about sex and about man parts and lady parts in the 4th grade and a girl passed out.

[@karligrace3838]

@@catflores311 yep, you gotta be careful with those mouth herpes 😅

[@karligrace3838]

I was taught about heterosexual sex cause I didn't even know being gay was a thing back in grade 5 😂 They did preach abstinence though lol

[@zorob5]

Surprised they didn't have anyone transmitted from drugs.

[@tonnyengert]

No that isnt possible. That was in the early years, but in this time a hiv positive person who has a undetectanle viral load can not transmit the virus. Most just take 1 pill a day. And there are very good treatments and succesfull cures in study

[@zorob5]

@@tonnyengert transmission through drugs is still possible and I wasn't contesting its treatment or survivability.

[@ulayla1605]

*Do all doctors think the same?* Some questions you could ask are: 1) was it worth it to become a doctor? 2) do I make the amount of the money I want to make?”

[@cindymaymcguire9258]

Lxxrt i wanna join thiss

[@essayellohemee]

Do I deserve to make the amount of money I do?

[@astgfrallah771]

Maybe

[@jasminewatson7190]

It’s sad that there’s still a stigma. My boyfriend is hiv positive(blood transfusion) it’s sad how scared he is to reveal his status. This video help shed light on hiv.

[@JMastura]

There is still a stigma with hiv/aids, which is a reasonable fear people have. I think its important that more people learn about how it is much better these days it is to treating hiv/aids. I would feel the same as him too. Hope he is going okay.

[@ayofro3377]

Jasmine Watson it’s a reasonable fear

[@kenhollis6197]

@@ayofro3377 I don't see why, really. The vast majority of positive people respond well to treatment and become undetectable, which makes it nearly impossible to transmit the virus. Between that, responsible safer sex, and the fact that there is now preexposure prophylaxis, those of us who know our stuff are pretty damn unlikely to contract it.

[@MsDudette21]

@@kenhollis6197 Yeah, *NEARLY*, but not completely. I wouldnt take the risk and I think that's beyond reasonable.

[@sneekz07]

@@kenhollis6197 Let's not pretend that it is as simple as having a cold. Downplaying HIV is doing a disservice. Yes, it's not a death sentence and it can be managed but more education needs to be done to avoid contracting the virus.

[@isabellashelburne3525]

Video idea: “Do all people with autism think the same?” I have a large number of family members high-functioning autism, specifically Aspergers, and I know someone with severe autism. I think it would be a really interesting video to see, and also give a voice to those with autism. :)

[@leticialeclair7464]

Isabella Shelburne I was JUST thinking this. My 4 year old son has autism. I would love to hear views from adults with autism.

[@lnbni]

Isabella Shelburne Jesus Isabella, that’s a very nice idea but no need to shout..

[@bsvv252]

no, they dont think at all

[@thtboyjosh_]

vloas bruh

[@Lexightonportia]

And they need to do the whole autism spectrum, this would be interesting.

[@shanemacortega2307]

"Do all people with pornography addiction think the same?"

[@saraandstuartshannon2160]

Do all pedos think a same?

[@ashleyford7932]

SaraandStuart Shannon nah nobody would show up because who tf is openly a pedophile and if they did I know everyone would hunt them down it’s not even a possibility lol pedos don’t deserve a platform

[@fiffysmillles4384]

@@saraandstuartshannon2160 😂will they even come here

[@heehaaheehaa9254]

@@saraandstuartshannon2160 are you secretly someone from the FBI

[@YoursTrulyNeesh]

ive been binging these videos for two days and just came across this video & seen my beautiful bestfriend lexi in this thumbnail. shes always been so vocal and open about her life and journey since we met 15 years ago, she has sych an amazing heart & soul. im so happy i found this!!

[@mayasurbeck1772]

jubilee out here giving us content we didn’t know we needed

[@RaifDerrazi]

Heard that! And super honored they asked me to talk about living with HIV w/ these amazing people

[@momoIand]

@@RaifDerrazi wait did you pass hiv to another person

[@sylvie4916]

Joseph seems like a very understanding person. I admire that.

[@RaifDerrazi]

Yes, he's got such a good head on his shoulders. It was so great to work with him on this

[@JosephandCarey]

Thank you so so much for the kind words. 😊

[@coolguy9709]

@@RaifDerrazi Hi raif love your videos

[@thesimplelifeorlando6500]

I love how they put the definitions so people can learn more about what they're are talking about

[@mollybrown8361]

I’m sorry but I have OCD and if I found out after that someone I slept with had HVI and didn’t disclose this to me, even if undetectable, I cannot explain how much mental anguish that would cause me. It would genuinely really fuck me up. Please disclose your status so people can make an I formed decision

[@thatveganchef112]

I have OCD too and HIV is so scary to me 😭 I have literally cried once because even though I am a virgin I thought I had it

[@mollybrown8361]

@@thatveganchef112 legit just thinking of it makes me panic

[@whatcanidooo]

Same. OCD and medical anxiety. Hearing them say that kinda freaked me tbh, I wasn't expecting it.

[@mollybrown8361]

Exactly, mine is contamination based and it just really took me off guard

[@nanabird6980]

@@thatveganchef112 same its terrifying,

[@angelantoinette2381]

Aw I loved this. It opened my eyes up a lot more about HIV. I’m happy they don’t let this discourage them from living their life!

[@RaifDerrazi]

So glad you appreciated it Angel! Super honored they asked me to talk about living with HIV w/ some amazing people

[@gldnkltz101]

I don’t understand how Raphael could disagree with “I have lied about my status” when he’s lied about his status...

[@percabethlumity]

Well it was one time when he was still new to his diagnosis and might not have been very educated on it. From what he said, it sounds like he never did it again

[@roxg5018]

They all are strong human beings, I can’t imagine how much pain they went through 😢, people aren’t educated about it right and are really mean when they hear this type of stuff . I just want to say they are amazing to make the choice to keep continuing.

[@johnnytentoes4485]

Joseph is so handsome

[@bealeigh7147]

@xavi xavi I think they are all taking meds, which is responsible. I'm not sure how else the others could be irresponsible just because they consider it a trivial part of their life? I mean, it kind of is a trivial part of their life.

[@DustyHoney]

I thought the same. He was my favorite out of the bunch.

[@cookie22100]

I thought so too!!

[@oops541]

The guy with the cane seem like a nice guy, genuine and real. The other five seem confused, very desperate for 5 minutes of fame and craving for D-!-C-K-S attentions! Lol

[@guiilty5924]

It says his name

[@germanmarine6582]

I wish they asked, “should giving someone hiv unknowingly be a crime?” Edit: what I actually meant was that the person with hiv knew, but didn’t tell their partner. Edit 2: I know it’s a crime in the US, but the question is: should it be?

[@morgan7463]

3:36 no I think the question is you know you’re giving HIV but the person receiving it is unaware, thus allowing the virus to be transmitted without the persons knowledge.

[@breonawarren1507]

It wouldn’t be considered a crime if You didn’t know that you had HIV, and passed it on. They still chose to have sex with you or share needles with you. Like if this was a trial discussion they will literally tell you that both of you chose to do something potentially dangerous (sharing needles or unprotected sex). Not a victim blame but you aren’t technically a victim. *I’m answering this as if the person who has HIV doesn’t know it & passes it

[@joshuaenzo1282]

in canada it's illegal to lie or not tell about your diagnosis so you can actually sue the person who gave it to you

[@sarahvand3628]

@@joshuaenzo1282 same as in Australia (a big case happened where a guy was lying and gave it to about 15 ppl) he is serving alot of time

[@sarahvand3628]

@@breonawarren1507 it is a crime to not tell a sexual partner if you know you have HIV in many parts of the world now (including some states I believe.. but im not american so I'll leave the Americans to speak on that) there are documentarys on youtube about it "bug spreading"

[@t.s.1156]

Absolutely one of the best casts you guys have ever done. Everyone was sweet and patient and really listened and created great conversation. Loved all of them.

[@RaifDerrazi]

Yay glad you think so! We all had such a blast working together

[@triton6083]

No

[@RaifDerrazi]

@@triton6083 Trollsies 👋

[@user-gu7jn1gf6o]

everyone is so educated and well spoken. i am so glad that jubilee is giving everyone a platform to share and educate. also thomas' fit is so amazing!!!!

[@ronycamacho7132]

Your partner does have the right know, it’s essential. People that unfamiliar of what it means to be HIV+ and undetectable develop a stigma and that’s what destroys our society. We must educate ourselves and respect others.

[@Anal_Flute]

I don't get how you could ever forgive yourself for lying to your partner and saying that you're HIV negative even if the disease is undetectable. That's very scummy.

[@essnjora9904]

I mean..... I kind of understand him

[@esmeraldafranco1442]

imagine you being in that situation. wanting to be loved etc. and you being scared of ppl not wanting to interact with you. the pressure that relays on that person in that moment is huge. i think he knows that he did a mistake, that doesn’t cancel out his lie tho.

[@nash6472]

@@esmeraldafranco1442 no matter what to give someone HIV no matter how lived you wanna be is scummy

[@Musiclove243]

@@essnjora9904 I understood too but a condom is like .000001 inches thick and he probably would’ve felt even more bad if he by some chance gave his partner HIV as well. Also if your partner is more experienced they probably are more experience with contraception as well

[@robbb416]

I doubt that all l ppl who are infected enjoy lying or enjoy living with a secret. Im sure these ppl live in fear of w.e. not saying the partner doesn't deserve to know cause they sure do but I don't think we should judge them so harshly.

[@s.stasiaa]

"Why do we even have to say it, we're undetectable." "It was just the heat of the moment, I didn't wanna ruin it." This is absolutely disgusting. It is extremely wrong to have sex with someone KNOWING you have an STD without getting their consent first. The fact that people even think like this truly terrifies me.

[@nombre1248]

Stephanie Feagin it’s UNTRANSMITTABLE

[@s.stasiaa]

@@nombre1248 So what? The person still has it, regardless. You can't make that decision for someone else on whether or not they would be comfortable being intimate with you knowing you have a disease. Consent matters.

[@sfprettyboi]

I think you're bashfully taking this out of context. Yes, it's wrong. But when the guy said that he admitted that this is when he was fairly new to the diagnosis and was learning to deal with it. There's no excuse, but the reality of the fact is that we often forget that emotion can trump logic when we're in the moment. These are truths, so instead of being bashful we need to be solution oriented.

[@s.stasiaa]

@@sfprettyboi I'm not taking anything out of context. Part of the solution is for people to learn to be more mindful about these kinds of things. If you're aware that you're HIV positive, emotion cannot and should never trump logic when it comes to your sex life, especially if you engage in casual sex. Knowingly putting someone at risk for an STD just because of "the heat of the moment" is horrific. But yeah. It happens. That's why everyone should practice safe sex or don't have sex without the other person agreeing to get tested. You just don't know how other people think.

[@Tootiredforthis14]

So you are basically saying that a person should disclose ANY type of disease before intercourse...diabetes, asthma, heart disease? Those are non-transmitable just like she was saying her diagnosis is.

[@joydamabel596]

It bothers me that the lady thought it was okay to not tell someone who their having sex with that they have HIV. This was eye opening for me but not in a good way... Edit: I know that the lady said she always tells her partners but the fact that didn’t believe that other people with HIV don’t feel the need to tell their partners is wrong

[@danaliu3295]

She said some times she thinks. But she has always told her partners hence why she stood on the disagree side.

[@melsyoutube]

why? because you don't believe it's actually untransmittable?

[@ahmadshamroukh4008]

she said she understood where he was coming from however she stood on the strongly disagree line, also the guy who did stand on the disagree said that it was only one time when he first got diagnosed.

[@jameson6789]

-- I agree

[@llamaliammm]

Ikr i would feel so cheated. Exp if i made it pretty clear to ask if theyre negative or positive

[@soffulahdophula]

The man with glasses’ story made me want to cry. Sending so much love, God bless you ❤️

[@nakitaj.4681]

This is really deep and emotional for me and informative. It's very sad that persons get bullied for their status. I'm still concerned about the whole undetectable aspect by my eyes are now open. I'm glad that they came forward. It took a lot of heart to do so.

[@rg-rz3kv]

“Do all cancer survivors think the same?”

[@faithfaith5154]

I feel so bad for the guy and the lady who were born with it. Bless them.💞

[@Delano715]

And the woman too... But it gives them a valuable perspective on the issue

[@joyg95]

@@Delano715 the girl never said she was born with it

[@carter-wu7hk]

Joy Gummalla yeah she did

[@davidv.3856]

Joy Gummalla yeah she did that why her and the guy both strongly disagreed

[@faithfaith5154]

Oh yes when I commented i had only heard the guy’s story. I felt bad for him because it’s probably the virus that led to his deformity . Having to live with the virus and deformed... wow it’s a lot

[@foxesgomoo]

I would like to see jubilee make one of these episodes on people living with HSV. There is a lot of stigma with that STI and it would also be interesting to see the point of view from different people who lives with HSV and also shine some light to data about it.

[@centrifugalmuse]

Idea: “Do all people sexually assaulted think the same?”

[@andreacastro5437]

This was a fantastic episode. Props to jubilee! I just wish there was somebody older, that maybe lived through the 90s crisis

[@RaifDerrazi]

It's true. We don't give enough voice to the older generation that went through some of the WORST of it. I wanna go into depth with that more on my channel. Super honored they asked me to talk about living with HIV w/ some amazing people

[@gematoledo9226]

Yes!!! You have great ideas!! They should do a video with all those people who have lived during that crisis!!! I think it will shed light on what it was like to live during that time.

[@gematoledo9226]

@@RaifDerrazi yes!!! You were amazing!!! Thank you for speaking out!!

[@sophian9105]

I think it’s sadly because very few lived through it.

[@rachelapostolico3781]

this has to be my favorite episode so far. such real people talking about something everyone is always hush hush about. good job jubilee

[@RaifDerrazi]

Yayyy, glad you liked it Rachel! super honored they asked me to talk about living with HIV w/ these amazing people

[@agni_oh]

@@RaifDerrazi okay but you're so hot omfgggg

[@RaifDerrazi]

@@agni_oh haha daww 🙈

[@JosephandCarey]

So glad you enjoyed it!

[@bodyofhope]

When some said they had unprotected sex, my jaw hit the floor. None of us should be having unprotected sex, unless you're in a long-term relationship and both getting regular tests. I was married and my husband was cheating, so even in a long term committed loving trusting relationship, you don't always know 100% what "mistakes" your partner is making. Wear a condom. Periodt.

[@niamtxiv]

Exactly

[@hannahburke4862]

I really liked this video. I also think it would have been cool to have someone who got HIV from intravenous drug use, because a lot of people get HIV that way and having another perspective would have been interesting. But I really appreciate that there were two people who were born with it to give their own unique perspectives

[@agwarddd]

Interesting point, bc in the modern era, this has become the most likely way to become infected with HIV, and all the previous stats (like how it predominantly affected the LGBTQ community) are being reversed due to this.

[@jamyamitchell2766]

When Raif got emotional I was like “SOMEONE GONNA ASK HIM FOR A HUG!”

[@RaifDerrazi]

HAHA awww, i'm a cry baby

[@user-wj1hc4bm1r]

Raif Derrazi bless you

[@selenacasper5691]

Yeah but he was talking about not practicing safe sex which is VERY selfish when you are hiv positive, i have no empathy.

[@raisetheroof1492]

@@selenacasper5691 You could tell he regretted though... I mean, the man cried. Everyone makes mistakes when they're young, and I'm sure he moved on from that experience and changed.

[@RaifDerrazi]

@@user-wj1hc4bm1r Bless you too!

[@lfcoolg]

"The biggest thing that I can do in my life is give [my father] that forgiveness"

[@virgosrus5733]

Tears

[@gsd8754]

Wow mindblowing episode. I'm so ignorant about HIV, lots of stigma and stereotypes I guess. Good to see these guys perspectives