Do Filipino Men Resent Foreigners Dating Their Women? Let's Ask!

#philippines #filipino #datingafilipina #relationshipadvice #thefilipinapea ‪@TheFilipinaPea‬
Do Filipino men resent foreigners dating their women? It's an obvious question on the minds of many western men, as they travel to paradise to choose a Filipina beauty - wouldn't the local guys take a dim view of the added competition? Don't foreigners make it even harder to find a mate? Well, let's ask them: do Filipino men resent foreigners dating their Filipina women?
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[@jamestopeka2236]

Pea are you at it again stearing up controversy lmao 🤣 =Hehe

[@vec306]

I get almost nothing but smiles.

[@Noke-wt2tm]

Majority of these Men are too nice and very polite guys. And a bit too feminine I guess it is just how majority of guys are overthere. I feel about BAD because hyperghamy is a Real thing girls are just going for a better deal foreigner WHO is Richer more income ,different more masculine etc . Its the same in the West GIRLs are going for the better deal always they choose the better guy, seems in the Philippines the foreigner is the better deal ,but these guys are just Well behaved and nice gentlments they dont take IT in a Bad Way, I could see in general they are good people; I would be Mad if someone comes from other culture and start dating our girls in EUROPE,but I guess its just different culture

[@TheFilipinaPea]

@@Noke-wt2tm Yup, a different culture, different attitude 👍

[@paulk8444]

This is Great as some of foreigners hang out mostly with Filipinos.

[@TurboTRock]

My coworker is from the Philippines and he told me to move to the Philippines 🇵🇭 and live a good life. I was surprised to hear him.say that, but he was actually thinking about the fact a good guy like me would provide a good life for ladies in his home country. So I'll be visiting soon.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

See? That’s exactly how we feel 👍😊

[@eduardomaldonado1647]

We like Short Negrita with button nose. They are very cute.

[@uriahthehittite2309]

Interesting. That Filipino co-worker of yours are saying that Filipino men are incapable of providing a good life for their ladies? If this is true then that Filipino just degraded his manhood and validated that Filipino women are not there for romance.

[@Remianen]

Yeah my old Chief said the same thing. He's been there (and married to his filipina) for almost 30 years. He's almost 80 and she's 54 and they alternate between their condos in Makati and Cebu. He retired from the Navy and immediately moved there.

[@bigjohnconnect]

Wait, I was told the exact same thing from my filipina friend/coworker.

[@jamesteele5726]

That first young man was very well informed I think. I pretty much agree with him 100%

[@jamestopeka2236]

He's pretty accurate but not on the under age girls , western Foreigners are here for a traditional Philippino and cheaper living , it's very rare a western gos for a very young girl , it's mostly middle eastern men getting in trouble over that here where I live . The Philippines is more strict on that than many countries . My 10 years here I've never heard on a western man getting in trouble over a young girl but I've heard of a couple middle east men getting in trouble and deported .

[@stolemycoconut5448]

Much respect for him

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Yes, well spoken, and so are some others 👍

[@mattslupek7988]

@@jamestopeka2236 Yeah, the more traditional feminine aspect is a big part of it. Women in the West have become more masculine and promote the “boss babe”/“I’m a strong independent woman and I don’t need no man” mentality and therefore don’t appreciate the men, so the men would rather go somewhere else where they actually ARE appreciated by them and not demonized.

[@martyg1717]

I love your Channel first off but I will say the Philippines is known to older American men as a place you can go with just your Social Security because you are not smart enough to plan for retirement and you can easily find a woman 30 to 50 years younger than you for a partner we call it sleeping their way out of poverty no I'm sure I'm going to get bashed but that is the truth

[@harth1026]

As a Filipino man I have no issues with this. I'm actually married to a Swedish girl.

[@trekkingtomahawk921]

My man!

[@rogerk6180]

A swedish girl? The holy grail of western women! You did well brother!

[@rustneversleeps85]

I'm sorry about that. 😅

[@davida.4933]

You did a great job with this topic and the guys were so well spoken. Another topic not often discussed by bloggers is the issue of National Security with China infringing upon Philippines territories in the Philippines seas. Deepening cooperation between the Philippines and the USA is very important for both countries. I hope you might look into this topic for a future blog by interviewing Filipinos on their concerns of Chinese infringements (claiming Philippines atolls, their military buildup on and around these atolls plus illegal fishing) as well as the concerns some Filipinos have regarding the three new military bases being built in the Philippines resulting in US troops, ships, and planes about to stationed in PI.

[@rhyanjill]

Funny you'd point that out cos I'm also curious about the immigration aspects of the issue. And I wonder if I'm the only one who took notice of the sudden appearance of those "no spitting" signs during the influx of Chinese immigration under Duterte.😂

[@ethosterros9430]

Bro that young guy seems so educated and eloquent, very impressive.

[@christopherturco197]

You found a lot of very thoughtful young men to interview, Pea. It was quite interesting to note that only one seemed to resent foreigners dating Filipinas, and, even, then he wasn't really that resentful. I was laughing when you asked "why?" when one of the guys said that he noticed there are a lot of foreigners coming to Dumaguete recently. I could see in your mind that you were thinking "It's because of my vlogs."🤣🤣🤣 Does it hurt when those fish bite your earlobes and hang on them like that?😱

[@TheFilipinaPea]

It hurts like heck! I’ve been trying to make them let go since Wednesday 😳🤣🤣

[@kbtred51]

@@TheFilipinaPea Next you will be responsible for the traffic too

[@garymorris7472]

I've been to the Philippines two times and I have to say that Filipinos are the most beautiful people in the world. Not just the physical looks but their attitudes and mind set is wonderful.

[@dirtycompass3957]

I enjoyed listening to these young men....very intelligent !!

[@terryboehler5752]

Pea, the young men were so well-spoken. They presented themselves well. Nice job, men. Pea is part of that because Phillipinos are reluctant to say "no", so it carries over into conversation?

[@SergioMnl]

Filipino guy here - i'd say yes, but for the most part I never felt nor even had a single conversation about anyone resenting foreigners here. We love afams and foreigners!

[@jasonjust-jason9489]

Best outro yet! Loved the Bond Girl effect!

[@aralsea1]

These guys are well spoken and seem very respectful.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

👍👍👍👍

[@cobra935o]

I think all those young men seemed to be very polite and respectful, but they did all bring up all the stereotypical answers about what foreigners were seeking in a Filipina, which are not necessarily true. I have never really been attracted to only to a darker complexion, I guess I am just the odd one that likes lighter complexions.

[@tk70707]

Respect to the Philipino men. Great level headed takes without toxicity.

[@charlesyoung9980]

Pea rocking the Nirvana shirt no doubt smelling like Teen Spirit!! 😂😂😘😘😘

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Out in the heat, I’m sure I was smelling like something! 🤣👍

[@Steven-t9s]

Wuh hoo!

[@christopherturco197]

@@TheFilipinaPea Adobo, perhaps?🤣 joke lang! More like sampaguitas!😉😘

[@DarkR0ze]

@@christopherturco197 or lechon

[@noelquitorio1428]

I'm searching for a foreign woman. I'm single and have a stable job, so I can support her.

[@ckwi2245]

The best explanation for the "Foreigners Date Ugly" question that I've heard about and thought through myself has more to do with familiarity with any given set physiological traits than anything else. Effectively the Preferences or Beauty Standards a person develops growing up and living in a given environment/culture and produce a generally agreeable scale in that area, but when someone moves to a drastically different area that development experiences something akin to "Culture Shock" or "Jet Lag" and certain physiological traits get sorted into the novel or exotic categories and get a passive boost to their ratings in the early years. The same will be true of anyone moving from one demographic anywhere in the world to another demographic elsewhere in the world. This will be exceptionally pronounced when going to or from a very homogenous culture, which happens to more often be the norm in Asia, Africa, and South America. Eventually the sample size in the new area will either merge with the old, overtake the old, or become a new segment for rating. At which point the foreigner or immigrant's rating sale will gradually approach closer to a locals with blatant preference adjustments, but the segment wide novelty/exotic modifier will diminish over time. Now to make it easier to visualize with the 1-10 scale oft used. I think most people can pick out a 1-3 basically anywhere, the 9-10s are apparent pretty quickly, and the 7-8s tend to be objectively decent looking people that happen to strike a few preferences for the person rating and even between people from the same area and demographic will probably vary widely. Now for the 4-6 range, or the average, can be quite off from the local perception simply due to sample size. So now a person's 1-10 scale is essentially a 1-3 + 7-13 and no one uses 11-13, so almost everyone is a 1-3, 7-8, or a 10, since everyone who is at least average is getting an extra 2-3 points for exotic/novelty, and then maybe a few more when they hit preference overlaps. So now the foreigners are picking up local average people before they have developed a scale for their new area, and the locals see the ones picked up as "nothing special" since they were the neighbor kid not the model/actor/musician they've been drooling over since their teens. While normally for western cultures Asians get the "Exotic" tag, but for many of those cultures things like "Blonde Hair/Blue Eyes" get that treatment, but when kept in their home demographic both are nothing special or don't affect the rating system. There is a secondary problem that ties in for major media export countries, think the USA, Korea, and Japan. The foreign perception of these cultures features are heavily skewed towards the top of the spectrum and since people will be only rating against them and the ratings either get dragged up or blown away from average. Think things like, white man = Bradd Pitt or Henry Cavill, black woman = Beyonce or Halle Berry, Korean man/woman = BTS/Blackpink member. You end up with either an objectively okay looking dude is next to Henry Cavill on the scale because in the person's head there is only like 5 or 6 similar guys. So then these people will meet in say the Philippines and this 4-6 American guy meets a 4-6 Filipina, the American got 2 or 3 points from her for being 1 of 10 American Men on her scale that is exclusively 8-10s unbeknownst to her, and she got 2 or 3 points from him for going from being 1 of 5 or so Filipina's he known to being 1 of few thousand he saw this month and his brain hasn't quite processed that "Weighs less than me, smiles during greetings, and doesn't complain/ignore me all the time" aren't special or rare qualities anymore. So by the time either of them get past this or develop their mental databases, their partner probably became special or resented for something that doesn't translate onto a photo anymore. In conclusion the locals notice someone not having developed a local standard before dating as "Foreigners Date Ugly".

[@SB-qm5wg]

These guys are incredibly level-headed. I'm amazed.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

👍👍👍

[@xiongher3080]

Filipino guys like light skinned Filipinas, so the darker ones are pushed to the side. A lot of foreigners like the darker skinned ones and usually go after them. Like everyone says, beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

[@Biboxism]

Always a good day when pea uploads a video.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Then today’s a good day! Thanks 👍😊

[@johnstreckfuss3068]

It sure is!

[@kevinlinder4906]

Really great video, Pea. These guys are so much more well-spoken and thoughtful than us American guys! Impressive.

[@orvillelb]

Very nice guys enjoyed watching?

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks Orville! 👍👍

[@123Tarl]

I noticed you keep looking at your skin when they say Exotic, Darker skin Pea. I said it before and I'll say it again... You're Beautiful inside and out. I love Pea's!!! 😘😘😘😘

[@MrFxwizard14]

I am a foreigner who met my filipina wife in the USA. I came here because my wife wanted to come home to Philippines. I moved my business to the Philippines and together with my Filipina wife built a business in the Philippines employing 2,000 employees to date and growing. I am a legal resident in the Philippines now and the best part about living in Philippines are its people. Most respectful kind people on earth. They are just amazing. I now have four grandchildren here in the Philippines now. I could not be happier. Filipinos and the country are the best. Oh my Filipino friends always tell me I am more Filipino than they are. I was honored by that, it felt so nice.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

❤️❤️❤️👍

[@Azari_D]

The first man is very level headed, refreshing to see a mind like that be expressed. So many people are volatile and hateful people in the world these days

[@Nebuhalanezar]

I‘m 37 years old, from central Europe. And honestly, just the thought of having a wife that is caring, encouraging and supportive is such a big thing for me. I don’t need a submissive woman even. Just one that takes the role as a home maker. I can’t find someone like that here. And that’s sad.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

You definitely CAN find that here 👍❤️

[@CebuProvince]

Hi Beauty, not only many Foreigner coming to your country, also al lot to Pinoys coming to my country..., the filipiona loves winners not losers.....

[@todd7756]

I thought all the guys represented themselves well, and expressed their thoughts with good insight.

[@Nebuhalanezar]

The guy from 15:00 on seems fun to party with! lol

[@cheesusclark2926]

GREAT CONTENT!!

[@chrismacqueen4891]

Women in general date men for economic purposes and that's the vast majority of women. This doesn't make them a gold digger which just using him for money and fancy things, not just basic needs. Women want financial security and to be provided for so they seek a man who they feel will provide well for them and is going to be more serious and not just playing around.

[@gameworld3231]

Filipinos people are very good people respect

[@63stratoman]

I am with a Filipina woman not because I like Filipina women but because the one I am with is the love of my life! I am not a big fan of American men coming to the Philippines just to find a Filipina woman! My wife’s family is my family and I am as protective of them as they ought to be of each other! Other ladies call me “Maninoy” and are always asking me to find an “American Boyfriend” for them and in such a case, I become protective of my American friends! And yes, ‘Canos who go to the Philippines had better be ready to relearn how to drive! I pretty much leave the driving to others when I am there.

[@Rottenxcaramel]

Local men get the best quality , we foreigners usually get the ones who aren’t wanted by Filipino men. But at least they’re way better quality than western woman

[@rogerk6180]

Such a shame that some guys can't behave themselves and start to feel entitled. Just be happy that you have the priveledge to travel the world and can choose where to live your life, very few people in this world are that lucky.. It is always the few that ruin good things for the many.

[@gmm5550]

I lived 10 years in Thailand mainly Bangkok and speak pretty good thai..and i can say that many thai men laughs at some expats when they look of the quality of ladys some choose and marry.. think it's the same in Philippines'

[@SwisstedChef2018]

Pea, I am married to a terrific lady from Cebu and I tell you there are many reasons I love a Fliipina woman and most is for here and some is not child proof ( he he he) , I was burned by my first Pinay, she was BAD, but my wife is fantastic. And let me tell you, no matter how long and large we talk about the subject, after TWO US-wives (and divorces) Western women are NO match for Filipina ladies. Full stop. You actually have fun in bed and you are natural , genuine, sexy, dedicated, hard working, loyal and and and, we live in Florida right now but we have a house in Cebu, THANK GOD.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I love Florida 👍❤️👍

[@jairusmedley8246]

These guys really get why foreigners go to the Philippines. We go for the cheaper cost of living but stay for how Filipinas treat us. They understand that both parties benefit from the exchange. Plus, Filipino guys have different beauty standards than us Western guys. Last, I may be bias, but once you get involved with a caring beautiful Filipina, you can't go back to a Western women. Much love Jairus

[@Janger82]

Filipino men don't really care if some foreigners are dating a filipina woman same with us filipino men who married a white chicks or latina. Interracial couple is fine but the most annoying thing about foreigners dating a filipinas mostly they come to the philippines for spreading pedophilia, pornography, sexual abuse, womanizing, and always putting down to Filipino men and western women about their problem. Lastly most filipina women prefer their own men than foreign guys (except if you are southeast asian guy and east asian guy) especially an upper class filipina and middle class filipina and they think all foreign guys are a threat, untraditional men, and misogynist. Remember 117 population in the philippines, so there are more filipino-filipina couples than filipino-foreign couples and we have beauty standard. That's why we ain't really care if foreigners married Filipinas.

[@SwitchGamer21]

Now this was pretty interesting first the woman interview now the men especially in this topic video that second guy pretty interesting on what type of ideal filipina he;s loves and i bet his girl aint watching at all probably not but i feel him though it is what it is though great another video on this day Pea really something from all the men you interviewed lol

[@mader348]

Hello Pea, interesting topic, I've often wondered that myself. Good to know. Thanks friend ✌️❤️🙏🇵🇭

[@antiderrida2117]

That first dude is extremely thoughtful and considerate in his analysis. Must be his Pilipino education.

[@DestinationJapan95]

Filipinos are educated?

[@badr4836]

Yes for sure they are educated ​@@DestinationJapan95

[@aquarianfirehorse667]

​@@DestinationJapan95 dont you think so? Why not see the statistic

[@jislearningguitar]

@@DestinationJapan95hardly

[@johng4093]

US education has little to brag about. College education may rank better but K-12 lags behind other countries especially in math, science.

[@gmp203]

Really impressed with these men. Very honest, intelligent and very intuitive. They are trying not to be judgmental and give foreigners the benefit of the doubt. Great job Pea!!

[@ragequitter]

Judging by the interviews, I’m amazed at how articulate and smart the guests are compared to Americans. Compare these interviews to interviews of Americans and your brain would rot. They appear knowledgeable, informed, and socially adept.

[@laggordo]

@@ragequitter Filipino people are resourceful and have ways of fighting their way through each challenge... inspite of all the failed attempts at success they continue to get up and fight another day. My mind was truly opened up to look at IQ ... a lot of filipino people in the provences and small town have devised way of reusing what others throw away ... repurpose and recycle. I know there is a lot of rubbish around the place and it would appear filipino people have no respect for the environment however give them a incentive to recycle ... the government could encourage foreign investment in recyling plastic and metal along with paper and cardboard. I realise this slready happens but imagine it on a truly large scale ... good for the environment and a money making venture for those prepared to collect recyclable trash.

[@jamesmoore3365]

Here, here 🍻! You are 💯 correct.

[@laggordo]

@@jamesmoore3365 tama po

[@garymorris7472]

You are talking to the wrong Americans then.

[@vikingrogaland2844]

I am impressed with the answers from these Filipino men. They are smart and know how things work. The first man speaks so well and has a very bright mind, amazing guy!

[@markmongan]

Quite a stoic young man to begin with. Good on him! He is switched on, knows his own mind.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

👍👍👍👍

[@garykirkham6751]

Seems a very clued up young man for sure !!

[@travisprice1325]

The first guy was super honest and respectful. I have a huge amount of respect in what he was saying.

[@mrszee951]

plus one

[@amadd5641]

That's what I thought too.

[@David.M.Robbins]

The first guy was honest and refreshing.My intentions for a woman used to be considered wholesome, normal, and the best of. Men like me have been repeatedly demonized for DECADES and we're just plain sick of it. If I had 3 million dollars I would move to the Philippines, live on 100k per year (8333 per month), find a wife, get married, have children, and call it a life. 3 million dollars at 100k per year would last me until I'm 77.

[@jfoley76]

I agree, I'd have a beer with that guy

[@TripeDodger]

Yes. What a smart and polite young man, a credit to his family and his country. 100%

[@lancemairs4956]

The first young man was especially well reasoned and articulate. All gave impressive answers.

[@papadougpapadougsadventures]

That first young man had it right. Reduced cost of living is why I will be moving in Jan 2025 to the Philippines. Companionship is definitely a bonus for sure.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

And what a bonus indeed 👍😊

[@Strutinan]

​@TheFilipinaPea I'll be swimming at Port Royale tomorrow afternoon, since it is my last weekend before heading back to America. Hopefully I can meet a few more people 😊

[@DrMerciless]

The Philippians culture needs to be protected at all costs because they are so wholesome, based, generous and kind. They are the diamond of the Earth. We really need to export that in the West. I view it as a Holy place. They are generous and gracious to us, we should be the same for them. They humble you.

[@mpennn_2144]

I have seen some attractive Filipino Women, some of them appear to have a inner beauty and warmth that I appreciate. I respect Filipinos, the ones i have meet are respectful to me and I in return am respectful to them.

[@andrewbernard8140]

Good points. Filipinas are genuine women. American women OMG.

[@MrWackydoodles]

Dude Philippians are from the biblical times lol

[@Neo-Solophios]

​@@MrWackydoodlesyeah yeah and is there something wrong with that? cause if you do then your the problem 🤢

[@MrWackydoodles]

@@Neo-Solophios It's Filipinos, not Philippians LMAO. Your comprehension is the problem

[@ROE675]

The first guy you talked to had a remarkable understanding of the economics of retirees on a society. Everyone was well spoken and gave intelligent and well thought out answers. Thank you for bringing this content to us Pea, you are a true treasure.

[@ptardy1]

as a foreigner who has been to the Philippines many times , my rule is be humble especially if your not in your own land. I've encountered many Filipinos over the years and have become close friends with many of them. That's why I've always enjoyed coming to your country and wanting to always come back and explore more of the land 😀

[@woodspirit98]

Its not that i agree with everything the first gentleman is saying but he is a very thoughtful intelligent guy. He's someone who is going places in life.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Agreed 👍

[@miken.2847]

He's quite sharp. You can tell he's given it some thought.

[@StrifeDaWize]

the first guy makes some points that i imagined myself, in the end it all comes down to intentions, well said my friend

[@Ama94947]

The first Filipino guy is hot tho, Filipinos need to stop thinking that foreigners are better then them!

[@se_amable001]

Exactly! A Filipina here, I'd like to assure you that the women here knows it. That is why you must NOT believe those perpetrators of the Passport Bro movement who tell you that MOST Filipinas look for foreigners coz that aint true. Majority still wants Filipino men. and if someone is telling you the opposite, he's lying. .

[@polishmeow8298]

​@@se_amable001 True, I think generally Filipina women would still prefer Filipino men than foreigners. Filipino men are generally more romantic, gentleman, kind, and understanding. It even shows in this interview. It just so happens Filipino people generally are very open and welcoming hence mostly everyone is open to date a foreigner. Despite Filipinos being fluent in English, of course the native language/Filipino language hits more personal and closer to one's heart. Also, cultural differences is avoided when you date a fellow Filipino.

[@se_amable001]

@@polishmeow8298 so true. not saying interracial marriages cant work. but lets be honest, cultural compatibilty matters a lot in a relationship

[@garykirkham6751]

All of them young men are very respectful and educated and also all Filipinos seem genuinely nice people in comparison to us westoners

[@wilkbor]

I only watched 2/3 of this video, but consider all of these men seem polite and well spoken. I think the Philippines has a good future in their hands.

[@maplesyrupphilosopher6886]

"She used to be" 🤣🤣🤣🤣 The whole video was worth that one moment - I died with him a little bit 💀

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I feel sorry for him, now that he’s single 🤣🤣🤣

[@PhilCherry3]

Pea needs to pay at least some of his medical bills & doghouse rent. Because he’s gonna go through some things. Then he’s gonna be in the doghouse for a long, long, long time!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@davidschonhardt4958]

Pea, you're fantastic! I really like your topics, interviews with locals and open minded. You always have the best interviews!

[@theweatherman81]

LOL I was literally like Pea why did you leave that in the video?!?!?! you did that boy dirty with that one haha

[@Nomad-XA]

Dead man for sure 😂

[@Captain_Sarcastic]

0:35 Shocked at what a nice guy this person is (and all the men Pea interviews in this video), very good looking, and considerate. They show none of the anger that some might expect, unlike that which some Western women have shown in videos with their feelings on so called "Passport bros". Just shows how mature and kind Filipinos are.

[@nanealdiamond28]

To be fair there are women that look 16 years old then I find out later they are in their early 20's. Even older Philippino women look like they are in their early 20's. So for me I can't ever tell a woman's age here I'm the Philippines because to me they all look young!!!!!

[@DonaldGMyers]

My Filipina wife of 40 years still looks like she’s in her late thirties

[@scottmadoff7444]

TO everyone, beauty is in the eye of the beholder but we can all agree Pea is beautiful to in every way.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Alas, not all (and I can’t blame them). You just like me because I’m ‘spunky’ 🤣

[@scottmadoff7444]

@@TheFilipinaPea Yes you are right, one thing i like about you & your videos is you are spunky

[@HunkyMan777]

​@@scottmadoff7444lets not feed her ego

[@justingoodnow851]

​@TheFilipinaPea not just that. You have an amazing sense of humor, you are gorgeous and very smart as well

[@tjfamily9263]

All the Philippine men are SO NICE. What great character.

[@davidmaltais2912]

They aren't in general though Philippines has the highest single mother rate in all of Asia because the men pump and dump

[@PurpleDoritos666]

@@davidmaltais2912America has the highest rate of single motherhood in the world. Because American men pump and dump

[@andresdeks]

First man interviewed was 100% spot on. Well said young man.

[@theescapetrix]

Shout out to all my Filipino homies much love and thank you for letting us come over and have just a little bit of happiness with a lovely Filipina. Much respect 💪💪💪💪

[@TokyoTraveller]

The first guy was so damn wise, especially given that he is so young! And yes, it is about intentions, and being a good person, wherever you might be

[@paulk8444]

Good Video; As one of those Foreigners retiring in Negros Oriental my best friends are almost all Filipinos and the Most Important thing is to be Friendly and Have Good Intentions and realize You are the representation of your country so even being in a bad mood will be Noticed. So just keep a Smile on your face and treat everyone the way you want to be treated. And when encountering long ques or frustration just Adapt, Adjust, and Accept with Allot of Patience then go with the flow as nobody should sweat the small stuff and 98% of things are the small stuff. So just enjoy Retirement as there's no hurries as then you'll have No worries. P.S. I'm thrilled my :Lady lives in Dumaguete and Love grows as you work on it.. Thanks Pea much ❤😍🏍

[@CABell-6thsept]

I can't help but compare this video with the video where Pea interviewed Filipino women. These men actually knew what to say and could express themselves very well, whereas the women were not convincing with their answers. These men also were not judgmental. Kudos to them. Wonderful video, Pea!!!

[@davmil2002]

Very valid observation. Pea picks weak (ly qualified) female candidates to discuss issues.

[@CABell-6thsept]

@davmil2002 I wonder how she chooses who to interview. Perhaps the location she chose just didn't have women who could express themselves well or who had the maturity to answer her questions? I think this is the second video that I've seen where the ladies didn't have much substance with their answers. I tried to compare myself and my friends back when we were the same age and, boy, we definitely knew a lot and could express ourselves well - both male and female. I was out of the country for 20 years and was quite shocked when I came back. But then again, I've lived in the Capital region NCR of the country, and I wonder if that's a factor as well. Still, good content, Pea!!!

[@moreto62]

Filipina girls are mostly not very intelligent and can not hold conversation . This young mans are smart and educated

[@rainyvideos3684]

@@CABell-6thsept I think it's just what we know from social experiments with women. Women tend to conform to group behavior and talking points and what to say, expectations etc. We know this even from salary experiments where if they all know what they are going to ask for salary they all cluster around the same number. But if they don't know what each other is getting, then they all try to get as much as they can for themselves. They have evolutionary reasons for this, but it boils down to not trying to raise their status and so they don't show they are a threat to other women around them. That's also why their friends are the same level as beauty as them, not a threat.

[@CABell-6thsept]

@@rainyvideos3684 Are you telling me that these women answered the questions because that's the general answer? That that's what's expected of them? Or, they're intentionally not trying to sound smart so they would not be perceived as threats? I'm a little confused. Would you clarify? I would like to understand more about this experiment, which I think I could use in my discussions with my daughters.

[@kevinwelsh7825]

Gosh that first guy had really well thought out,honest,and fair opinions…this seems somewhat typical for Filipino people yal may not be the wealthiest or most technologically advanced people but for character and personality yal are on top of the food chain imo much respect to your people and i pray for financial breakthrough for you there

[@stephenwoodward9032]

Hi Pea, one of your best. The guys being interviewed were extremely cultured. It's good to hear the opinion of local people. When I walk around the Philippines it's more the older people that tend to look. All the guys interviewed are aware of what we as foreigners bring to the country. A round of applause to the people you interviewed. I really appreciate the first gentlemen in the blue t-shirt. Anyway keep up the good work. We love you very much. And thank you for your wonderful work and insight to the beautiful country of the Philippines.

[@vanhalen45]

I seems like she went to university and interviewed a subset of upper middle to upper class English fluent (or near fluent) students. Even given this possibility, they were remarkably open minded about the suggested reasons why foreigners come to the Phils.

[@Leo4321Francis]

As a filipino grewing up in Dumaguete and I do not feel that the foriegners are stealing our women, not true at all, and I think most filipino men agree with me. If you rate a woman 1 to 10 in beauty most of the filipinas that the foreigners marries or date are rated 4-5-6 , to the foreigners they are rated maybe 8-9-10 lol sorry to say that, good for the filipinas then, they get to marry a foreigner to better their life status. Filipini men tend to like light skinned mestiza women. So nothing to be mad about if they marry flipinas or make thrm their gf. My true opinion as a filipino and now living in the US.I am a US Navy veteran from Dumaguete and I am happy to see many Americans marry filipinas, no recentment at all. My ship go over thr world and I am happy tosee filipinas in many parts of the world married to foreign men. That is a myth that filipinos resent or think foreigners are stealing our women, their are lots of filipinas out there! And foreigners are getting the women we rate as 4-5-6 😂 for reals!

[@Leo4321Francis]

​@@vanhalen45yes she should have interviewed the local speakers and just translate, but I would generally think they would agree what the guys said, as I a filipino I agree to most of what ghey said.

[@darkpharaoh542]

Pea, I am so glad you address these topics. I've always wonder this, but never asked. One thing this video highlights is how awesome the people are in the Philippines. Thanks for the content, Pea. Keep up the great work.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Glad you found it useful, DP! ❤️

[@elderdwaynehull5377]

First guy was a great interview Pea. All was good.

[@christopherhill7131]

A lot of those foreigners who treat the locals bad more than likely did the same in their home country. Personally I am humble and say high to everyone. I’m a guest there so I carry myself as such.

[@yella_c2]

As a Filipina, this has got to be my fave video of yours. Our men spitting out facts. Proud of them!!! 🇵🇭👍

[@francisbraden6239]

@cje_5134, I was totally amazed when I went to visit my Fiance and Her Family a Year ago that the Philippines I experienced was like going back in time 300 years ! I absolutely Love the Philippine Culture and Philippine PEOPLE! I was So Impressed by how openly the GOSPEL of JESUS is so Widely accepted and Loved! I will definitely coming back to be an asset to the Philippines Retirement YES!

[@yella_c2]

@@francisbraden6239 Thanks a lot, Francis for for your kind words and appreciation for the Filipino values, culture and tradition! Regards and all the best to you and your Filipina fiance. Take care of her, will you..

[@francisbraden6239]

@@yella_c2 , Dear Lady, The Best Foreigner that a Filapina can find is a GOD Fearing Man of Noble Character. Not All foreigner men , but most have a relationship with JESUS that is why they make GREAT Husbands! You find a Man who You can openly Read Your Bible with and knows the Character Traits of a Noble Man, You will definitely find that Sacred HOLY LOVE that All Women Deserve. The Problem here in America is most all Women are completely lost Mentally and Spiritually! Hollywood Entertainment has destroyed the Culture here. Women are the Support of the Culture....Who raised the children? Now our Society is Completely out of Control. It's not too Safe in America anymore 😭

[@yella_c2]

@@francisbraden6239 Well said! Oh gosh, wish we can filter all the foreigners coming into the PH so we can only accomodate guys with the values as great as yours. You're a gem

[@francisbraden6239]

@@yella_c2 , Share this with Your Friends....Ask a Man "So What are the Characteristics of a Noble Man" ... If they can answer correctly then You have a Great Keeper, if Not let them be !

[@samueldavis2327]

Very impressed with the maturity and how well spoken these young men were.

[@Murph_.]

As always, excellent interviews. All these men have expressed basically what I've experienced while in the Philippines. It's a shame that people visiting another country can't be considerate and understanding of the country's ways of doing things... Before going to the Philippines, or any foreign country, KNOW what you are getting into. That's why Pea's channel is so amazing.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

THANKS Murph! You guys are always asking me about this one 👍😊

[@RecklessG1]

That first person you interviewed had a very thoughtful and pragmatic view of foreigners. The good ones that have good intentions are welcome, the others are not.

[@matejexc]

Everyone from the West talks about how Filipino women are great for life, with traditional values, but when I look at Filipino men, they are also intelligent, wise, and have good values. On top of that, it's an affordable country with beautiful nature. You have to love Philippines !

[@brianscovern68]

Hi Pea! Rocking the Nervana T-Shirt! Such well spoken young men who are so polite. So glad there is not a lot of bad vibes between cultures.

[@KuroiNaito05]

Hi Filipina Pea! I'm a Filipino local guy from Manila, and I find your videos interesting, I appreciate you promote our culture to the world and I support you all the time. Regarding to this topic, I'm one of the guys who don't resent foreigners coming into our country to find their ideal woman. It's totally fine unless they're gonna DISRESPECT our CULTURE and WOMEN like they resorting to VIOLENCE etc. It's all about meeting each other needs , demands , who cares about the money? It's important to our lives and we can't deny that fact. As long as there is a mutual understanding, it can go for so many LONG WAYS. To all foreigner friends here, we happily welcome you to our country. Feel free to talk with us and make friends and the most important thing here is RESPECT. We can be your best friend if you RESPECT our culture, laws but we can be your worst enemy otherwise.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks so much for giving your opinion, Kuya!!! 👍👍❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@vikingrogaland2844]

My best friends in the world are Filipino men, thank you guys for being super friendly and lovable towards me the Viking.

[@michaelgriffin740]

I visited Manila last June and it was a wonderful experience. I made several friends while on my visit. One was a security guard outside the hotel, one was a concierge of the hotel, and a third who worked at the front desk. They were so kind and welcoming to me. My only complaint is you have to watch out for the taxi drivers trying to take advantage of you! To my fellow foreigners, remember that we are GUESTS in their country and always show respect and understanding. Rude and disrespectful behaviors may get you what you want in America, but not in the Philippines. Ms. Pea, thank you for doing these types of videos because it actually helps some of us better understand the Pilipino culture. 🎉

[@Kevin-G-7]

Ronmarty, agree fully about respect and good intentions. The bad foreigners embarrass the rest of us.

[@jonathanjohnson7384]

​@@uriahthehittite2309who doesn't want to put themselves and their family in a better situation? In fact I would think less of you if you didn't. Women from all around the world since the dawn of time always wanted a man that can provide and protect. I see no problem with this so long as they're genuine and the guy isn't some abusive jerk. Tho I do find it rude that you're putting everyone into a one size fits all box.

[@Jaysthudandblunder]

Wonderful how polite, considered, and thoughtful these young men are. As a foreigner, I have to say I have been welcomed with open arms. Of course, I have to behave, adapt, and understand that I'm a guest. Walking to meet my gf yesterday for dinner and karaoke. At the end of school day, I was greeted by every student. I understand I'm "exotic," a former redhead with very pale skin. But people are curious/interested, and I take no offence when they compare skintones, as it comes from a good place. I am being accepted into the rural community still getting used to chismis! Sure, I have been subject to some of it. But I don't mind. I wake up every day 100m from a white sand beach, its wonderfully warm, love the chickens, my gf is amazing, and I can buy half a bottle of run once a week for 75php !!! Oh, and last night, including buying my gf and a friend a meal, drinking rum, and singing karaoke until 10 pm less than 600php !!! Can't even buy a pack of cigarettes for that in Europe. Thank you for being paradise!!!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Sounds like you’ve found your heaven ❤️

[@Jaysthudandblunder]

@TheFilipinaPea and there is so much to explore, people, culture, language, and landscape. Salamat.

[@mariesal3558]

The first guy is very handsome and articulate

[@petertherock7340]

In my experience it is best to distinguish between the kinds of foreigners coming to the Philippines 🇵🇭. One group are older divorced men looking for a second chance to find love with a younger traditional wife. These men usually have a personal liking for the Philippines and it’s culture. Another group are the men who are seeking a gf who may or may not later become a wife. These men are taking things easy and want to experience more of the Philippines. Another group are those foreigners who are related in some way to people in the Philippines and come to vacation with family. The last group (and worst) are the foreign “sex tourists” composed of pedophiles. One should be very careful “who” you meet from a foreign country and what their intentions are. 😊😊😊

[@roguetiger3163]

The interviews are always entertaining and informative....actually surprised that the gentleman interviewed had no bias towards foreigners ...you really do get a feel for how nice the Filipinos are....I would love to see older Filipinos interviewed and their comments.... personally, I think there would have been a different perspective

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I’m always looking, but the problem with the older generation is their poor English skills. I’d either have to translate, or use subtitles - and you folks don’t seem to like those 😢

[@Koya_Sipanlog_Express]

Please interview my former boss and professor, Dr. Ike Oracion in Silliman. @@TheFilipinaPea

[@wallysworld1635]

Thankfully all of my interactions over the years have been positive when my wife and I have been out in public in PH when around Filipino men. I have developed great friendships with my male in-laws as well. In the States I usually take a good ribbing from friends stating I am punching way above my weight class when they meet my wife. 😂

[@TheFilipinaPea]

And she feels the same way, I’m sure 🤣👍❤️

[@SwisstedChef2018]

My compliments to these Filipino men. They have a good perspective and are respectful and not hateful, thank you Pinoy's good for you.

[@MrVivi0001]

I think that comes from the fact that women there are maybe a little more shy and guarded to talk about topics like this or even in general.

[@andrewbernard8140]

Yes. Not hateful or victims.

[@jislearningguitar]

Only the few she talked to.

[@fingersp07]

Most of the foreign older guys go for the single moms...the one's the filipino guys there dont really want...so its a win win...the old guy gets companionship and the girl has someone that supports her....

[@Crazykid949]

Pea: It's funny that the key thing to take a very strong mental note on in this video is your comment at the end. Intentions are everything. When a person travels to another country, whether it be to migrate or just visit, intentions are the thing that separates how their experience will be, and how the locals will feel about them. When travelling with good intentions, and an open mind and heart, the possibilities are limitless on how positive the experience for both you and the place that you travel to. It's all up to the traveler on what the intentions will be. As some of the men you interviewed said about rude behavior, Those are the travelers that didn't make the intention check for themselves before they left home. You just shouldn't go to another country and expect things to be exactly the same as they are in your home country. If that were the case, WHY GO ANYWHERE? Keep up the great work my friend.

[@davet766]

Whenever I travel, I always remember I am a guest and behave accordingly. Treat people with kindness and respect and they usually respond in kind.

[@Crazykid949]

@@davet766 it's the only real way to fly!

[@Crazykid949]

@@davet766 It's really the only way to fly!

[@GMANN83]

I also think it's very cool and mature How the local filipino men look at the situation.

[@gibsonbrillantes316]

the funny things is that mostly foreigners don't go with the most or beautiful girls that what Filipino men's go for so, its all good nothing really bugs us.

[@George-ux6zz]

I believe the one Filipino guy is mostly correct. I know I prefer the morena filipina over pale skin tone. Plus I'm what you might call Moreno somewhat. Especially since I lived in Tampa Florida for 34 years.

[@KangTheDigitalNomadGlobeTreker]

Glad you got out of there TPA FLORIDA

[@PureYang0]

As a black dude the way I see it is even the darkest Filipina is lighter than me so I can see how easy it would be for me to fall for the sort of Filipina the locals might not deem attractive.

[@StanHasselback]

Good honest interviews Pea. The nonjudgmental nature of Filipino’s comes through. I think at least for now we are fishing in different places but this could change in the future.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Totally different ponds, yes 🤣👍

[@t-rexs232]

Nah it will not. 😅 because the local men love white or chinita.

[@EDINTHEWIND]

I enjoyed the first man’s thoughts on intentions. I think there are more good intentions than bad ones. Thx again little bit. See ya next week!

[@johnclark7973]

14:45 to 19:04 Super cool guy. I'd like to have him as a friend if I was there.

[@paulbytheriver4976]

positively stunning in the blue dress 😍

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks Paul 👍👍😊

[@christianhansen3292]

Beautiful always no matter what. and on inside too esoecially.

[@LiveDogsMMA]

First dude was smart and well spoken.

[@glenproctor1999]

Really good interviews Pea! Such good english and interesting views. A few undertones there that people are fed up of foreigners who misbehave? Maybe a topic for another time? If you're a guest in someones home, you should behave as such! Anyway, great to hear the guys views too! Thank you Pea! 🙏🏻🌹😊

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Yes, I sensed a little resentment at bad behavior too 🤣

[@JoeannAndDave]

Stealing women? It's resented when the woman is considered beautiful in the eyes of the locals.

[@johnlobley]

Here comes that Friday feeling ...and always let the ads play

[@charlesyoung9980]

You lost.. That Friday feeling.... Whoa that Friday feeling!!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

And here comes a bronze feeling, too! 🥉🤣❤️👍

[@johnlobley]

@@charlesyoung9980 Thankfully, "Unchained Tuesdays" are never far away.

[@advancedanr]

Sorry, I don't see any ads. Oh, that's because I pay for premium KZbin

[@Jimmy911ism]

I try and let the ads play, but sometimes they are too long.

[@wobbles27]

Thanks Pea. I like your interviewing style and good subject.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks Wobbles! I appreciate that 👍👍

[@michaelellis4935]

Hi Pea! Today’s segment was awesome to me because it reflects the reality of the Phillipines. The people both men and women are kind, welcoming and humble. Such a refreshing attitude is what drew me to visit. As far as the women are concerned, yes beauty is subjective but remember what a foreigner is really looking for is what is on the inside. Looks fade but the heart remains strong. Much love and appreciation for you bringing the country to us. Oh quit fishing for compliments, you’re one of the sexiest women out there ❤️

[@TheFilipinaPea]

As long as foreigners think I’m pretty enough, I’m a happy camper 👍🤣

[@subn0rma1]

The 2nd guy says a lot of the stuff I always think about. My girl thinks she's ugly because she's thin, short, and has dark skin. She has no idea how wrong she is. I try to tell her, but she doesn't believe me.