WHAT DO OLDER FILIPINA WOMEN WANT? / Is Dating An Older Filipina A Better Deal?

[@TheFilipinaPea]

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[@javieritomac]

Pea I think you started a short video mini series with princess pea 😁 that would be pretty fun video 😂 lol 🤣😆.

[@TyroneNorwood]

Darn, maybe I should wait until part two; first, none of these women should ever feel invisible; that is so sad; I find them to be smart, beautiful and very engaging. Walking down the streets of Dumaguete any of the three of them would turn my head as would you Pea, however, based on your other blogs that I have watched several times my fear would be more about their husbands and being accepted by their children; I'm like Ruth, I'm a widower with one son who is twenty three; I concentrated on raising him and not remarrying or getting into a long-term relationship while he was growing; now he's a college graduate, running our family business and an actor so now I would pursue someone who is fun and kind, Shelia would drive me crazy because an annulment is not realistic and I see the adventurer in her eyes whereas I would want to take her everywhere I go based on the age of our children; Grace would also be fun as I see the adventurer in her as well but she likes cold weather and I left the states because I hate cold weather, Ruth and I would be happy because we would both enjoy traveling as long as we can come home to the Philippines. Grace, it's not the sun that makes them grumpy; I need to see part two.. I need to hear Sheila's and Graces answers to the last teaser question lol. Great ending Pea!! Love this one.

[@guyandre4946]

People shop for a swimsuit with more care than they do for a husband or a wife: what they should do is looking for something they’ll feel comfortable wearing … and allow room to grow ! 😊 You made it again Pea, pertinent questions loaded with humour … and … when you reach the most awaited topic, sex, then: “don’t answer till part two ! 😳 Please don’t take too long … When I was a boy the Dead Sea was only sick … I haven’t that much time left 😂 PS: Princess Leia outro is hilarious and certainly just too real : Sexiness raises blood pressure ⚠️ aaaahhh 🤪

[@stevefreedom2469]

You're comical genius. That ending was hilarious!

[@davidwood3852]

A follow-up comment there sweet pea I have viewed a lot of very attractive 40-year-old Filipina women amazingly attractive

[@bobbygindenver7208]

FINLEY! someone understands not everyone prefers a woman in her 20s, not to say a younger woman would not be a good match but if I had my choice I definitely would be more comfortable with someone closer to my age, thank you Pea for showing showing a broad perspective on a age old subject much luv ✌️

[@Anthony__420]

Give me a loving Lola any day

[@JNTimperley]

I keep telling my friends, I want a hen not a chick

[@GooglePlusPages]

Finely?

[@TheFilipinaPea]

You’re very welcome, Bobby! I wanted to show the attitudes of all the different ages and backgrounds. Next I have the Filipino men, who will tell us what’s wrong with Filipinas 👍😂

[@homebasebelgium359]

@@TheFilipinaPea Do it! Please do it! Lol

[@burrellboatwright2047]

I'm 64 and would rather have a older more mature woman! I believe all three of these ladies are beautiful!

[@OneJuanWon]

I like that you're introducing a variety of age groups Pea. Not every Westerner/Expat is looking for a 30+ year age gap relationship. Very well done 👍

[@camerongarcia3128]

The problems with these infovideos are that it is all geared towards the younger males, or that American who is looking for a wife; but what about the older American or even that older Filipino male whose wife has died, and decides to return back to the Philippines, but is not in great shape?

[@NoName-tz5ji]

Exactly! I prefer a 40-50! Age gap that is. Lol

[@billyhughes2806]

Thank you Pea for interviewing older than 30 ladies. You ask great questions...but I was sure like you to answer them too :)😂

[@DonFarmer-hq5sw]

These lovely ladies are the epitome of class ❤

[@robertaloisi197]

Sweet princess “Pea” may the force be with you! I am currently dating a Filipina in her forties. Great interviews with mature women. They are all lovely as are you. Thanks for presenting them. Keep up the great work Pea!

[@nalynaries9429]

Great choice

[@geraldmatthews5054]

In the caribbean we have a saying "Boys chase after girls, man cherish a mature woman"... This was a awesome interview.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks Gerald 👍❤️

[@shoreangler3383]

That sounds like advice a mother would give a son.

[@GUITARTIME2024]

Whatever, bro.

[@nonenone7731]

Lol...the reality behind that is men selling themselves to women who traded family for career. And by men I mean homeless men who live off the beach looking for women who want to cheat on their husbands.

[@3cmwill]

As a healthcare worker, I've met many young nurses(20-40) who possess uncommon beauty. I've learned much about your culture. How can a country do poor, create the most loving and kind people?!!! The mature Filipina looks like works of art. They are some of the hidden gems. 🙏🏿

[@ericrollings]

Almost makes you wonder if Americans have so much “stuff” we forget to love and be kind to others?

[@BV9429]

These Ladies should never doubt themselves ...THEY ARE SO FREAKIN STUNNING AND BEAUTIFUL ❤️,...

[@leswood2993]

All these lady’s are stunning well balanced mature females who need to be appreciated and loved

[@TheFilipinaPea]

They’ll be happy to hear that 👍❤️😊

[@jamesrieckmann5960]

These beautiful women are 'Babes in the Woods'.I would love for one of them to be my dinner date.

[@FilipinaPetite1990]

@@TheFilipinaPea you look stunning as always Pea... Love Petite

[@cammontreuil7509]

You only know someone if you live with them.

[@cammontreuil7509]

@@FilipinaPetite1990 If you think Pea good looking, then my wife must be stunning

[@mlrussell1]

Thanks, Pea, for interviewing women in an age that I prefer. I truly think you may be the ONLY vlogger to have EVER showcase mature Filipina women in matters of relationships. Not all men my age (early 50's) want to have a relationship with women in their 20s. As always, excellent job.

[@danielwarnes7231]

Grace was very eloquent in her explaining how they are now. Mature, loving, but also capable in her own right. Good conversation, walks, play games or just sit together and enjoy company while reading. But nice kisses and caress too!

[@brianholloway3339]

I would snatch up Sheila in a heartbeat!!! 💗 She very beautiful, I love the way she carries herself!!

[@tutankraider3502]

of course an older Filipina is better. My Filipina wife were 50 when we met and we have now been married for 16+years and lives here in Europe. her children were allready grown up and could support themselves , so we could consentrate on making a life together here. it goes fantastic , its totally perfect, as were very much the same age . and she looks like a million $ 🙂

[@hanglee5586]

Age is not a number, but experience counts. ♥️😘♥️

[@gibblespascack1418]

Indiana Jones: "It's not the age, it's the mileage."

[@bicpapermate]

It's easy to find a gorgeous 20 year-old woman, but to find gorgeous women over 40 is something to be treasured. When I come to the Philippines, I am coming for warm weather and chicken inasal. I am not looking for a wife, but any of these women would be very tempting. Especially Ruth.

[@lizard48]

i like Ruth too.

[@trevorhofmann1562]

Now you made me hungry! Missing all my favourite pinoy restobars! Enjoy your next trip!

[@jameshutchins8965]

Pea, these ladies have a good attitude in life, at 71 I find these ladies more attractive than women half their age. It would be appealing to have someone who have life experiences to share. The idea of having children is not a deal breaker to me. My Thai wife has two sons whom came with big loans for the sons education. I told her I would take care of the household bills and to use her salary to pay off the educational loans. To my heart, her sons are my sons of my heart.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

They’ll be glad to hear it 👍❤️

[@chrisnamaste3572]

A resource SIMP you sound like. Men should never confuse that with genuine caring for you. Just hope that when you are older and failing they treat you like an honored father. I wouldn't hold my breath.

[@chuckosley5359]

Pea I was on a dating site there for 2 months I could not find a woman like those three you interviewed I thought they were very interesting to me they are still beautiful how can I meet a woman their age

[@KC-in9px]

@@chrisnamaste3572 You should consider changing your name. Your attitude is both poor and negative. Chris Cynical may be a better fit for you.

[@stevebell4906]

@@chrisnamaste3572 Sorry that you are such a bitter cynical person...

[@charlesgarber5911]

Hi Pea! I wanted to say thank you for not only highlighting one aspect of life in the Philippines, as so many other vloggers/travel documentaries will often do. The fact is, as someone that's slightly older, it's cool to see every aspect of the culture represented and given a voice. As someone that's undertaking a campaign of acquiring various languages, I'm always looking for sources of information/culture, so I'm happy I ran into your channel. Keep putting out great content, as it's both entertaining & helps to lessen the cultural gap between us here in the west and those in your home country.

[@emannajee2096]

Loved this interview, especially Grace. It has been many years since `I have been there..I love Filipina women, Thank you!

[@hermitbob7304]

Wow, still beautiful ladies. All closer to my age than the first group. The big thing is most older Filipinas are already coming off of a relationship and have children of their own. It is a difference between if you want a mature woman who will take good care of you, or getting a young girl who is more interested in TikTok and social media. I'll take the older, mature Filipina for my preference.

[@gary4451]

Pea's videos set the standard for others to try to match. These videos are very helpful in promoting mutual understanding between Western men and Filipinas. I find them very helpful in sorting out what I am looking for when considering a future Filipina wife or girlfriend. Keep these types of interviews coming!

[@trevorhofmann1562]

Thanks for this interview with of eligible 40-plus ladies. It's great to get their insights, and of course, for we mature men (both physically and hopefully mentally), someone closer to our age is usually a much better long-term fit. Keep it up! I'm sure you'll never run out of 40+ women willing to put themselves out there, in hopes of finding their ideal match. Who knows? Maybe you'll need to set up a separate channel and website for matchmaking. There's certainly a need, and you do a great job putting these lovely ladies in a great light. All the best to you and yours, Pea

[@rajeeevrs]

@Grace, Like you said if any man who is not like you and not looking at you is either he is not a man, or he don't know about woman or he is blind. You are a perfect woman.

[@timetraveler82]

well done its so nice to see time given to ladies over 30 there are so many very attractive , educated hard working women in their 30s 40s and even 50s who have so much to give in a relationship. I for one my wife was 37 when we met and is 42 now , i have NEVER regretted having her in my life !

[@aleks1203]

Thanks, Pea. Four lovely ladies speaking their minds. Who could ask for more? Looking forward to part two.

[@barondelahoyde230]

Hey Pea! I'm pleased to see all your content on your videos. I find them very informative. I once served in the US Navy, and was stationed there for awhile. I fell in love with a girl but it failed because I was clueless about your culture and I was only 19 years old. I was to immature and to weak to have pursued a happy life with a young lady from your country because I was bound by the confines of the Navy and I would have had to hurdle great obstacles for a marriage. Her name was Jackie, I'll never forget about the day I had to say goodbye to her knowing that I probably wouldn't see her again. She walked me to the main gate of the base in Subic Bay. We kissed and hugged a long while. We broke down and cried together in harmony. I remembered going over the river onto the base and turning to get one more long gaze at her as she watched me wave goodbye forever. Later in life , I married a girl from home and I named one of my daughters after her. My wife didn't know, but she liked the name as well so now I still have a Jackie. Anyway, that girl still lives in my heart today. I want to mention that now I am in my fifties and with the aid of the internet, it could be in my stars to finally find the philippina girl of my dreams. Western men look to the east for a woman because of their older traditions. Western women will no longer take care of a man in a way that we desperately need and do not even understand how to . These three 40's girls are all prime candidates in my book, as I would have a life of experiences to offer someone like them. This video really makes me want to fly over someday to your country, and maybe I will someday when the time is right. Im truly grateful for the technology these days and I think how you are using it is beautiful. Keep up the good work!

[@gkschick6804]

What often ends up being a deal breaker with older men and young, single women, is the idea of children. The vast majority of Filipina women want to have children and typically if the guy is much older, he doesn't or has already been snipped. The difference with these women is they've already had children and don't want any more, or simply don't wish to start having a family at their current age. Also, these women are way more worldly, have jobs and can contribute to the household financially. Very impressed, Pea!

[@davekosch9678]

So true... I got clipped over 28 yrs ago because I already was the father of 4 just before my 28tn birthday.

[@1865Cowboy]

GK, Being snipped can be reversed. Adopting is also another viable option. Having that honest conversation is what’s important.

[@detroitteacherinthephilipp4348]

This is yet another example of the high quality content that you provide. I love the kindness that you show your guests, and the abundantly obvious respect that you have for your subscribers.I appreciate you. Thank you.

[@mjp.7765]

Thanks for this video Pea 🙏🏼 it’s feel good to see that I‘m not the only one in this situation. Just one thing, foreigners are more open with single mom because divorce is most common here or in western. Many couples have a rebuild family (don’t know if it’s right term). This video is already 1yo. It would be great to know how they are now 😊 if they are okay, if they moved abroad or they find a filipino. For myself I don’t care if the “future one” is filipino, black, green or white. As long as we can enjoy life together and travel. Don’t need someone to take care of me and my daughter… I’m too independent for that. I just need to share life with someone who has the same vision of life as I have and accept my teenager’s child.

[@patrickmchargue7122]

Well done, Pea. The maturity of these ladies is refreshing.

[@barrywebber100]

Thanks for the older women discussion Pea. Your interviewees are all lovely attractive ladies. The point made about having no divorce in the Philippines, and ex-husbands and partners being around to cause problems, is likely to be a major barrier for westerners looking to date older filipinas. While that can happen in the West too the situation in the Philippines is more likely to encourage that sort of difficulty. The Philippines needs to come out of the dark ages when infidelity and physical abuse are not legal reasons to end a marriage. Very funny seeing "Blabba" at the end there! :-)

[@laserstrike969]

That may be true, but many of the older Filipinas looking for a mate are widowed, so ex-husbands would not be an issue.

[@waynewood4791]

My Filipina is 43, we are just waiting for the paperwork to process and we can begin our lives together, she is a total blessing in my life, such a sweetheart!

[@kenmercer2948]

The Bible says be submissive to the husband that does not mean do whatever the man says . The man is supposed to lead the family in Christ and submit to that. Being 56 you ladies are a good age, and you all are beautiful 😍

[@2tmacisback]

Being older I find these women to be very attractive in many ways.

[@1Chuck4U2C]

I’m a 64 year old widow , and I chose to seek a relationship with a Filipina/woman in her fifties rather than raising another adult child. These women are good example and making sound decisions in life now. “Sorry Ladies, I’ve found my Filipina Dream Girl”. Thank you Pea, great video

[@chuckbillings661]

How did you go about finding your mate? Curious how an older man gets started looking

[@gregd.88]

Don't be sorry Chuck, be thankful. Having a second chance at love is a gift!

[@WilD-qs3iq]

@@chuckbillings661 ditto

[@Tmidiman]

Another grand slam Pea! I hope you do a 50 and 60 year old version. The thing that helps an older woman be great is having a young attitude with mature experience. If they act old it’s a big turn-off. Please keep the interviews coming!

[@jeremywheeler8417]

When I started talking to Filipinas, I went out of my way to avoid anyone younger than 25. The one I accidentally let steal my heart is 29, educated, and seems to understand sarcasm pretty well. As an American, I couldn't see myself with someone who had kids simply because I would feel responsible for them even though I couldn't afford to support them. But at this point in my life, I wouldn't date an American woman with kids either unless they were on their own. These fine ladies would be a good catch for any man. Independent, educated, and just likable with their personalities. I'm looking forward to part 2. And your video editing skills just keep getting better. Thanks for another video Pea.

[@craigziuraitis6087]

Personally, I'd rather have a mature woman myself, all of you ladies are absolutely gorgeous

[@oberurselts]

Obviously the maturity of these ladies shines through. They are humble, honest and speak frankly and open. The personality of all three is awesome. Finally, they all are extremely attractive! Package all that together and they all have the "Wow" factor.

[@coddiwomplecolster7329]

This has been a brilliant series of interviews. Dichotomy of views between the youngsters and the ladies of my age, is very profound. Yet the interviews themselves, are still balanced, informative, and importantly fun! I'll also add, if I were looking for a relationship, I would definitely seek an older lady. There is no substitute for life experience, a strong mind, and good humour. What next Pea, I can wait to see. x

[@troymoses8405]

Excellent video Pea, I recall quit sometime ago you interviewed a man that lost a lot in a relationship. He mentioned at that time that there were no older mature women available in the Philippines. I commented that there’s plenty of mature women, but you’ll have to seek them out, you probably won’t find them on the dating website. With this video, you’ve proven my point. These are all beautiful mature women and would make lovely girlfriends and or wives. Thanks Pea, keep up the creative work.🥰

[@billytheallstar471]

I have to say this : “yummy “ it’s good to see more MATURE BEAUTIFUL WOMEN! There are so many looking for meaningful relationships these days !

[@davekosch9678]

Totally agree, meet my wife over 3 yrs ago. I was 53 and she was 43... Personally I never could see being married to someone more than 10 yrs younger than me. We've been married 3 wonderful yrs, we both couldn't be happier. Older women are better grounded emotionally and have a better sense of who they are and what they want. Honestly 60+yr old man with a 20 something Filipina is just creepy to me.

[@lourdes86179]

Agree

[@patrickprendergast9589]

why u dont respect a ho

[@indianabukidboyszutowicz3191]

Exactly. My Filipina is 10 years younger than me. She is 45 and super hot!!!! My goodness, she is amazing and knows stuff😘 Love her to death!!!!!

[@claudiotitzian375]

Dear ladies, I assure you that you are not invisible. You are self-confident and experienced in life. you know what you want I think there are enough European or American men between the ages of 45 and 55 who appreciate you. Best wishes from Claudio from Germany

[@johnclark7973]

All three were great guests. The two nurses were funny, and the self-employed lady (Sheila) I found attractive. I thought it was a little odd though that the none of the ladies picked the US as one of their possible places, as their are more Filipinos living in the US than any other country outside the Phillipines itself. It was interesting to hear the cold country of Canada mentioned as well. 👍😆

[@bannertraveller5879]

Canada is like the US except without all the bullshit

[@kevinburke9255]

aaah part 2 haha...The stand out for me with all these interviews Pea is the light-hearted & Open responses to Life, very refreshing from all the women...their does seem to me, to be a common theme in regard to Western Men compared to Filipino Men...that being the Foreigner is more understanding & mature...this for the women seems to be what is so attractive about us to them...for me I have been in an Online relationship with my Filipina for over 4yrs. now & Nerlyn is 42 single & no kids, living outside of Tagum City...20min North...so semi province girl, lucky me...I sold my home in Nov. 2019 with the plan of arriving there in June 2020...sadly because of the Pandemic we all know how that went...hoping now for 2022 to final connect. Thanks for work Pea, it has helped me understand the Mystery of the Filipina LOL Cheers

[@TheFilipinaPea]

That maturity is exactly what makes you attractive to us, Kevin, and you’re one of the very few guys that gets it. I hear sooooooo many men say “Filipinas are just after an older man’s money - there’s no way they’d be with them otherwise”. But they’re totally wrong (much of the time). I find older, mature, cultured men MUCH more attractive than young ‘players’. I really wish I could get more viewers to see the truth, but many of them have become so suspicious of all women (and I can’t blame them), that they can’t see a quality woman when she’s right in front of him …..

[@WildMidwest1]

@@TheFilipinaPea Yeah, and the fact most of us come pre-whipped due to western feminism. Whipping men takes so much effort. Yeah, we’re suspicious, but enough are still gullible to make us worthwhile as a group.

[@thomasoverturf8295]

I really injoyed this interview, thanks Pea for bringing in some little older more mature Filipina's. After being married to a younger Filipina, which was a big mistake and we will leave at that. Now retired and I am planning to move to the Philippines to live. All 3 that you interviewed are beautiful, sexy and smart and it gives me hope that I can find my forever partner there.... No offense to Shiela, but Grace and Ruth, you are both what I am looking for, I am open and free...

[@fedgie7277]

Grace or Ruth are good choice

[@nchiivithokajiri3089]

It's really good what Grace said it it's excellent 👍

[@jeffchylik7486]

Hello Pea...I think Grace is amazing. I would love to see a 1 on 1 convo with her.

[@Mr-Clark]

The downsides of being with an older Filipina is that many of them are already married. There is no divorce in the Philippines. You can go to prison for being with a married woman. 20s usually aren't married yet.

[@michaelvittori8525]

Also, annulments can take a very long time. I know a filipina that has been waiting over 7 years for hers to be completed.

[@mikewood4242]

@@michaelvittori8525 If you have enough pesos it can be quick

[@outdoorescape2619]

You said it. Baggage... including an absent husband is a huge impedimemt to choosing an older Filipina. For the newbie/wannabe expats..... a years long seperated husband still can mean blackmail or jail time and expulsion from the PI. No joke!

[@robertshaw2602]

Really interesting conversation with these lovely ladies. I'm 54 and would definitely consider a partner closer to my age as we would have more in common and if she had children they would be almost adults. The attraction is to find the opposite of western women who ‘dont need a man’ and I've stopped looking in Australia. Life is to short to live it alone and the Phillipines is worth exploring again. Thanks for another great video Pea and best wishes to you from Melbourne tonight

[@richardleach1706]

Give me a 40 plus over a twenty plus any day, I've dated a younger lady and I could see and hear the child in her voice and action. PEACE and Success

[@glengamble526]

I find women in their 20’s great to look at. Women in their 30’s great to sleep with (if that’s what they want) and women 40+ great to BE with. And to be fair, this is a HUGE generalization I’m making. And honestly, I find ALL of the women in this video are attractive in many ways. Plus, I’ve met some brilliant women in their 20’s who had it together just as I’ve met ‘older’ women who were amazing lovers, looked fantastic etc. I’m just painting with broad strokes here-great content FP!

[@thomashauguel6811]

I am really glad you did this interview, Miss Pea. It's nice to see all the different perspectives based on age or upbringing. Ruth DEFINITELY has it going on! Beautiful, well spoken, smart, and funny! She would definitely not be invisible to me! And she has kids...the perfect combination!🤩 (I'm sure after this interview she got LOTS of interest, which is great for her! I know if I was there I would DEFINITLY show some interest!) I think having kids is not a turn off, but the separated thing is. I really do not want those kind of potential problems, especially because of the legalities of it. Really looking forward to part 2 of the interview. Awesome job, Miss Pea! (and thanks for the hilarious ending skit 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂)

[@kjam4236]

Once again F.Pea great video and interview any single man would be Blessed to have any one of these women in their lives they're smart,good looking,funny and serious I'm 61 years old and for me a more mature women is best for me...can't wait to see part 2.

[@RotaryTeamVincent]

I am happy to see you sharing information on dating older women, who are well educated and employed. I believe these ladies are being overlooked and provide a good opportunity for love, for single foreign men. Of course, having young children could be a concern for some. I met a 50 year old Dentist and we are very happy together now, 12 years.

[@ajalbetjr]

I am LOVING this video!! These ladies are a great example of mature, pretty, all-around great attitudes.... Pea, let these ladies know that they are fantastic and a LOT of Western men see them as the treasures they are!!

[@andresdeks]

Met my Filipina in Dubai where we both worked. She was 41 and I 55, she never married and no children. We have been happily married for 5 years and live in Bacolod. An older lady suites me as the “younger generation” be difficult for old school like me to understand, no disrespect meant.

[@kardeef33317]

Young women have youth, fertility and less tramua and baggage. The older a woman gets the more compliant, peaceful she must be.

[@donaldgors1289]

A very open group to sharing their ideas.. Great Interview !

[@EMTwombly]

Everyone of those women are beautiful, intelligent, responsible, mature, and if I was there, any of the four women presented here would be prime candidates for dating for me! They all what I would be looking for! Any good wine needs to be aged to be appreciated and consumed 😍

[@rayintoledocebuphilippines5517]

ha ha you say that until you visit the vineyard

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Well-said, Eric 👍❤️

[@amanuesis]

I like how you included Pea in there. 🤣

[@Jonesin_For_164]

- 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾😍❤️ I Loved this video Pea. When I was 34 I got into a age gap relationship with someone who was 19. I swore never again. In a few days I will turn 53 and if I was able to be in the Philippines now, I would consider someone in there 30s, but I'd mostly be interested in women between 40 & 55. You asked them if they felt invisible and they seem to think sometimes they are, but I want them to know, I see them 😍. Thanks for the video Pea👍🏾

[@African1939]

Pea, I seldom write on these channels, but yours is a unique journey into the life and heart of a very unusual young lady. Hats off to you for your generosity, loving kindness and empathy for others. Kudos to you. Now, regarding an older Filipina, that would be my choice if I ever had the opportunity to come there. These women have been around the block and have the maturity a man like me would prefer. I would be looking for someone who is well educated, well spoken, mature, loving, devoted, true and a one-man woman because I am a one woman man. Again, please continue to expose us to the truth of the Philippines and that culture. Even more importantly, continue to share your kindness and goodness toward those less fortunate. Shalom, my sister.

[@ivankamau2846]

Enjoyed this content, very good interview. Grace is very appealing to me…would love to meet her:) ❤

[@jessemoore3074]

Mature women or the way to go, they know what they want, fewer headaches and are easier to get along with. Mature women rocks

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks Jesse! (I’ll be there in another dozen years myself) 😂

[@fitzphillips5370]

@@TheFilipinaPea lol!!!

[@lcmichaels7215]

one thing I really noticed was when Grace was listing Western countries, the big one NOT mentioned (unless it was edited out) was the United States. I think that says A LOT about what is happening to OUR culture, the problems we are having (especially with trying to build a healthy relationship) and why so many American men have had enough and want to find an Eastern (especially Filipina) women to hopefully be their soulmate. Listening to these three lovely ladies affirms my belief that I am doing the right thing by moving permanently to the Philippines (as soon as the ^%$#$@^ borders open). Even if I hadn't already found my love (who's in her mid-30s), there would be women there who would accept me and my disabilities, rather than American women who (sometimes literally) run away the moment they see my physical handicaps, without even trying to learn about the person I truly am.

[@graceseventyseven7557]

😁

[@fedgie7277]

@SWAGU shes ok with Americans she mentioned English speaking foreigners

[@JFroggg]

@@graceseventyseven7557 Are you the Grace on Pea’s “Dating in your 40’s”??? If so, you’re gorgeous! If not, happy to say “Hi!”. I’m Jim in NC, USA.

[@bogotario]

@lcmichaels7215 Can i contact you? I am disabled, too, and want to ask you some questions

[@timhusk2913]

Pina women are very accepting, mine embraced my bum leg and arm ❤❤ and took very good care while was there

[@bluhaliday1750]

Beautiful women and mature. Respect to all of you.

[@davidvivenzio9953]

Hilarious ending….Pea your interviewing style is so professional…. You treat each subject with your attention and respect…great work!

[@hughjass1044]

Pea, this is the best... and for me, the most important... video you've done yet! I'm 60 and although I could probably have a 20 yr old, with a bit of work, I haven't the least interest in doing so. I had my fill of 20 yr olds when I was 20 myself and I have no desire to go down that road again. Someone that age does not stimulate me in any way. They do nothing for me at all. I cannot relate to them on an intellectual level nor keep up with them on a physical one. I'm looking for someone who, like me, has maturity and life experience and has gotten all (or most) of the foolishness out of their systems; someone who knows what the important things in life are. I would be honored to meet and get to know any of your three beautiful guests or anyone like them. Thanks for doing this, Pea!

[@kshadejr]

Pea, OMG, Grace had absolutely no problem speaking to what she wants, likes and is willing to accept. Were it not for my age, I would love to have her in my life. She seems to be so down to earth and comfortable with herself. Please understand that all three (3) ladies should be a fine catch for any serious man. There's just something about Grace that jumped out at me and said listen to this woman. I honestly hope they all find the right man to spend the rest of their lives with. BTW, you make the fourth in that group LOL.

[@kshadejr]

Thanks Pea. I'm honored.

[@davelarsen9847]

Ya! Grace is a hottie!

[@graceseventyseven7557]

@@davelarsen9847 😁😁😁

[@peterking3202]

Can I get in contact with Sheila? Thanks Peter from Australia

[@peterthomas9436]

Shiela you are quite right in what you say when you say that the new man should accept your kids as his own. At 43 you look incredible but it's not about the way you look so much as your attitude and zest for life. The fact that you'r seperated is not really a negative thing, it gives you a chance to know a person much better. the fact that you're open to getting married again is awesome.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

And I bet she’ll read your comment, too, so thanks 👍😊

[@peterthomas9436]

@@TheFilipinaPea well she's right, it's just another way to see if a man is also sincere in his intentions and maturity level. Because believe it or not not all older men are or even want to act with maturity.

[@Mandalorian_of_Christ]

Sadly here in the west, women expect the man to accept her children from another man...but if there's a single dad...majority of western women refuse to accept the man with kids....unless he has money

[@RealGaryGibson]

@@peterthomas9436 Being separated will become a big negative thing is she or her lover gets hauled off to jail for adultery. And it does happen there.

[@jacobsanders9167]

Why.

[@brownchapman2562]

Pea...I love the mindset of the ladies in their 40's... They deal in what is real and their maturity shines bright as the noon day sun... But it's sad that the divorce factor can be over a lady and it could block her from moving on from a bad situation which could be of no fault of her own....I wish all of them well...My heart was touched.. because at one time I was a single parent and not everyone wanted me and my daughter as a package deal...I never found a lady that cared for us. Even the ladies that had children want a guy with no children...( It may seems strange but very true ). That happened many years ago but I still think about it to this very day....I love your channel..

[@Road_Rash]

Yes! Very lovely ladies... well established in life & hard working...these are the type ladies I would be interested in...18-30 is fun... full of youthful enthusiasm... but I'd be more comfortable with women closer to my age...very lovely...

[@wesleyhendersonrealtor3561]

Thanks for your informative videos. I prefer Filipino women in their 40's, but some of the challenges I observe in the 40-50 age range are; Women are not legally divorced, so getting married is not an option. Relocation to a new Country such as Canada, confidence and positive mindset are a few of the challenges as well. I am blessed to have met a lovely Filipino lady in her 40's and now flying over to meet her.

[@bernardlock2728]

I love Grace and her honestly of what she likes. I love hearing what these ladies have to say about the age they prefer. Here in the West, especially in the US, men who are in their 50's and above are considered "thrown away" (for the most part, not in all cases). In the US, a man in his late 40's and above is considered to be as not, in Grace's words, "Yummy". Of course, there are other factors like a 50's man professional status will "negate" that previous fact of being "Yummy". Many "Western women" equate professional status as being "Yummy". So, the draw of a older Filipina is so much more that wanting a younger one. She is secure and confident. All of the growing pains of being younger are gone from the both of us with the "added" bonus from them as being "desired" man in his 50's and above seems like a dream to any older Western man. Thank you for so a great interview Ms. Pea. Oh... you let that age slip Ms. Pea.

[@graceseventyseven7557]

😁

[@kannokanno4313]

@@graceseventyseven7557 cheers grace . Looking for a woman like you.

[@chrisnamaste3572]

"My children are my world." That is all you need to know.

[@WildMidwest1]

Well said

[@GreenManalichi]

Thank you, and welcome to Lady Pea's dating game... even tho my original plan was to NOT get married here, and NOT carry around a woman with kids, this video could possibly change my mind. I'm looking forward to part 2. PS....Ruth has definitely peaked my interest bc she's easy to look at, already single, and prefers to stay in the Philippines

[@fgr3339]

Great interview and I’m surprised this older video just now popped up for me, as I’ve been following you for along time.

[@thatguy5367]

As an American man(46) considering moving to the Philippines this is an interesting conversation. Thanks.

[@FrankCrijns]

I regret that Pinay are coloring their hair. I love the beautiful black filipna hair. Pea please tell them

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I know! I’ll just keep my hair jet black (easier that way too)

[@FrankCrijns]

@@TheFilipinaPea still apart from the hair collor I find those ladies attractive

[@clydekimsey7503]

@@TheFilipinaPea yes, dont color it😉

[@davidlefurge2946]

In my view these women are so much more appealing that the younger versions of this series. I loved their poise and confidence and would pursue all three, not at the same time that is creepy.

[@brokenspokes6731]

Another great interview. Dating one of these women for older men would be more natural than dating a 20 year old. The only down side is each of these women have a few more bags to carry but nothing worst that the bags a 20 year old would have in the future. Each of these ladies are more mature, already have education and would be interested in a serious relationship. Having the children would be nothing more than what anyone else in that age group wouldn't bring from any country. When I see the older ex-pats dating 20 year olds it doesn't look right where dating dating an lady closer to their age group would be more accepting. Of the three you interviewed I would say Ruth would be a best catch. Looking forward to part II of the interview.

[@ronaldwilliams8450]

all three of your Guest are very beautiful women. I was married to a younger woman and ended in divorce after i caught her cheating on me. I would much rather at this time have a great relationship with an older fhilipina. Ruth I really love your enthusiasm and awesome smile.

[@jslim49]

These women are beautiful and smart . And they know what they want . I wished I could have a woman like that .

[@lynnkain]

All of these ladies are head turners! Each one is accomplished and beautiful.

[@NicholasDee]

I love going to the Philippines.. i miss it.. greetings from Sydney Australia ❤

[@markirons2669]

Really interesting video Pea, the 3 ladies are very intelligent and have a lot of useful knowledge to share with everyone. Love the ending 😃

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks Mark - glad you liked the ending 👍😂

[@brucemilward3228]

Grace, you have a fan.

[@belkassem06]

One of the best segment ever made by Pea. I was sick and tired with those young girl dreaming with the western, rich guy with blue eyes. This one feel like we are back on earth talking to REAL GENUINE PEOPLE. I would rather deal with Ruth or any them than any 20 years girl. Thanks for the job done and we want more.....

[@fatwizard1234]

Excellent job as always pea!!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks Brice! Something new for you today 😊👍

[@28celsius42]

Not invisible. Still viable, mature and not spoiled!!

[@bobbiecrider6964]

Dang Ms. Pea you're looking very gorgeous today .. Its no wonder men here are slobbering on themselves...

[@ericrollings]

The Filipina I’m dating is 37. I am 50. I don’t think I would date any younger than that. All of you ladies look really young. Most American men would feel blessed to have any of you in their lives. I’m telling all of my single friends about my experience with my Filipina. There are millions of men looking for you. Go find them!

[@kevinmacdonald9849]

WOW Pea. The maturity difference between these beautiful ladies and the young province girls in the previous video is striking. You might want to rethink your age gap opinion. I wish I was there to meet Ruth.

[@jamesmoran5662]

Grace broke my heart ❤️ when she didn’t mention the USA on places where she would like to live

[@graceseventyseven7557]

😁😁

[@jimmcginnis9668]

SweetPea love that your using age group's,these young women would be a great catch for any older man.They're beautiful, mature and at my age the bar scene is just a memory.Their accomplished , educated and level headed.Just right and I must say you look exceptional today🤟I'll be looking for the 2ed part...you just got to the good question...lol...Happy Trails you beauties.xoJ🌹

[@entropyspin5567]

Great to see the "mature" side of women there. Really looking forward to part 2. Grace is a character, sure she will find someone. To life after the "silly years", even though they were good. I think I skipped over those years.

[@graceseventyseven7557]

😊☺️

[@tomt6040]

What sweet ladies! I enjoy their outlook on getting older. I am in my early 70's and looking to come back to the Philippines - I hope that I can meet someone like them!

[@pablosworld2173]

Yes 50/50 I can’t wait to get there this year