Do I Have Anxiety?

[@carmen26385]

What happened to the moms view? I feel like this is something Kayli any Collette could talk through with you too. So maybe please can relate!

[@LLJerseyGirl]

As someone who struggles with anxiety, my heart goes out to you. It can be so overwhelming and draining...talking about it with a therapist can be so helpful. I really hope you find someone that you can connect with to help you with this. I think everyone could benefit from talking with a therapist...being vulnerable is a courageous thing! I’m actually reading Brené Brown’s “The Gifts of Imperfection” right now and it’s really hitting home how I need to take care of myself using courage, compassion and connection. Keeping you in my prayers for all of this and for Elliot and his dental appointment. Carlie, you’re a great mom, wife, daughter, sister, friend, etc...we would never talk to those we love the way we talk to ourselves...I’m getting better at this. And if the dryer was giving you anxiety, don’t minimize it “it’s just a dryer, big deal; why am I getting upset” (I do this)...give yourself credit for recognizing that it’s causing you anxiety. All any of us can do, is take it one day at a time. Sending love your way. 💗

[@CarlieStylez]

LL Francis i love so many points that you made. I love that you pointed out that I can honor where I am at no matter if it’s small or big! Thank you!!!

[@thebubblelush]

I don’t need more “experts” in my life. I want relatable content. Sitting on a teddy bear in the middle of mom chaos Is My Jam. 🙌

[@CarlieStylez]

theBubblelush hahaha come over let’s hang on Kobo and talk about real life!

[@christinaw4832]

theBubblelush yesssss!!! I need a place to relate and not feel like I need to go buy something new or strive to be good at everything!

[@karrisajervis2302]

You’re realness and honesty is what I come back for. You’re relatable. You bring light to things I didn’t think anyone else dealt with.

[@CarlieStylez]

Karrisa Jervis wow thank you!!!!! So much!!!

[@emptybusseat]

I hear you! Find a sweet therapist and talk about your vulnerabilities without fear of judgment. I understand the tidy house/anxiety problem bc I’m the exact same way - you are not alone!

[@CarlieStylez]

After reading these comments it sounds like we are all in this together!!!

[@rayanaspeight]

Videos where I feel like I’m just sitting and chatting with a friend are my favorites. This channel gives me that. I feel like I’m apart of your life through all the ups and downs. That’ll never get old. Stay encouraged Carlie and give yourself grace ♥️

[@CarlieStylez]

Rayana Speight I love that word. Grace!!!!! Thank you friend!!!! Xoxo

[@rhondaqueen1731]

Carlie, you have no idea how much these vlogs help others. So many people are going through the same issues and for some weird reason it really helps to know that we aren't going crazy and that other moms are feeling the same way. Maybe you aren't a professional about makeup or crafts or home decorating etc, but I love your little tips and tricks. Keep your chin up girl!

[@brittanynesbitt3421]

YOU BRING SO MUCH TO THE TABLE. PLEASE FEEL THAT. Feel my arms around you. Feel me embracing you and sending you my love and genuine need to have you feel like I appreciate you. Even if I’m just one person. I’m a young “newlywed” who’s terrified of having a family and who knows about a career but I look to you like I can breathe. I don’t know, does that make sense?

[@CarlieStylez]

Brittany Nesbitt you are such a sweetheart! Thank you! Thank you so much! I love the community in these comments and how all of us feel like we can open up and relate!

[@djbrec]

I’m the same, I have to feel on top of the house chores. Once the kids are older it’s not so anxiety inducing because you will have them to tell to do certain things and everything will click in smoother, but when you are the main one doing the chores and the littles ones are so messy and young- it can be super frustrating. Sending big hugs and please know in a few years it will be so much easier 💗💗💗💗💗💗

[@ehostrawser7210]

I love your real vlogs! That's what I love to watch. I'm a mom of two, and what really gets me down is cleaning and then turning around to clutter the next second. It's really hard to be motivated to do it in the first place. On the other hand, my kids are making memories and my house can get cleaned at the end of the day. The more time I spend cleaning, the less time I'm spending with my kids, during the day.

[@lesliebrown4386]

Carlie this was amazing. This is real life, this is the content I want to see because it makes me feel like wow okay I can get through this and I’m really not the only one going through this. I love you and you are AMAZING!! Hang in there beautiful momma 💙💖

[@katiemiller5927]

Thank you for being so open and vulnerable! I really enjoy following along with you and your family because you are REAL. I don't want to see perfectly curated videos, or clickbait, or any of that stuff. I want to see real people, living their real lives and I think you bring that to the table - realness, positivity, etc. Thank you for all you do!

[@tiapolley4817]

Carlie, you are my favorite KZbinr. I love how real you are. And watching how you interact with your children really inspires me to do the same.

[@CarlieStylez]

Tia Polley thank you Tia! It encourages me to keep on going and being me reading comments like this! Love you!

[@Piecesoftheshadow]

I really relate to this. I have anxiety but I have social anxiety. And also, I've been trying to get into the whole instagram and KZbin world but feel like I have nothing to bring to the table. I have passions and know some stuff, but not like other people. I feel like I just get drowned out by everyone else. Really brings me down.

[@SashaBlondie6292]

Your realness is the reason that you are my favourite KZbinr. I love waking up each morning and scrolling through my instastorey feed to find yours first and check out what you guys have been up to. I love sitting back with a coffee while I have my daughter playing next to me and we watch your videos together, she jumps up and down when you’re up on the screen. You are such an inspiration, through fitness, fashion, lifestyle and most importantly being a mum. Keep doing you ❤️❤️

[@kaitjonesmusic]

I’m the same way about the house, but I wasn’t before I had a family. I finally figured out that when the house was clean & tidy I felt in control regardless of how crazy an wild the kids were being. Lol some days are better than others but I totally understand! 😩

[@stephalise9015]

Carlie, I so relate to you. My dryer broke like 5 times in a month and it made me into mommy monster, I get frazzled if my clothes are not together in their right places. I never thought I would have anxiety but I totally do. It’s allllll good though because I’m dealing with it 🤘🏻 You bring so much to the table, by just being you, you don’t have to be an “expert” on anything except being yourself! I often feel it’s less authentic when I hear “motivational speakers” just babble on about what sounds good to an audience. Sometimes it’s the trivial hardships that feel so heavy and it’s okay because it’s soooo relatable! Just be you and enjoy it! Don’t worry about anything else! You are amazing! Mama to mama hug threw the interwebs ❤️

[@kristinakelly5720]

im 25 not a mother or in a relationship or workout everyday, but i look forward to your videos because of who you are and not what you do. you are honest and real, idk about other people but thats what i want to see on youtube. i to have anxiety as well as depression and yes talking does help! love you and want nothing but the best for you and your family!

[@claudiamcmurtrie9187]

I always enjoyed your fitness content it was very motivating! You should incorporate that into your videos more!💕 taking the first step to see a therapist is hard but totally worth it!

[@jaycezuniga]

I've literally been here since your first video came out. The reason I still watch every video you put out is because you're relatable. We are the same age, Cooper and my son are the same age. You give real life tips. Some of the crap out there isn't doable for people. But I've always adored you and just the way you are!!

[@ashleyhume7402]

Carlie I am the exact same way!!!!!!!!! It’s crippling!!!!! Especially when you have littles! I do too and all they do is make messes and it’s awful to feel that way! I know what you are going through! 💗

[@kristenfudge9064]

I seriously couldn’t relate to this more. For the past few months I’ve been the exact same way about cleaning, laundry etc and feeling guilty for sitting down when there was stuff that I could’ve been doing instead. We need to be easier on ourselves! Thanks for sharing, loved your videos since the beginning. ✨❤️

[@shandiortiz9609]

Omg...I'm the same. I cannot handle messes. It gives me anxiety as well. I cannot go to sleep at night if the house isn't clean.

[@alexisbeach5452]

Hello! Been here from the beginning and we watch you because your Carlie!! Your funny and fun and you keep it real with us! Also postpartum anxiety is so real. Especially having babies close together! I know from experience. I fought getting on medication for a looong time (I have also seen a therapist for years) and I know that’s not the route for everyone and it can have some really bad side effects-it has been life changing for me (with zero side effects!!!) and I am so much of a better mom with it. You do what you gotta do to take care of you! We love you Carlie! ❤️❤️❤️

[@oliviasmallwood2629]

I prefer watching channels like yours over channels with girls who are “professionals”. I’m a mom and I like real content that I can relate to. Just keep being you. That’s what we love to see!

[@kellycrook4021]

You leave your fans with so much more than you realize. real family oriented values that show love and inspiration, beauty and home decor that inspire us all. Even the most boring videos mean a lot to your viewers.

[@GoodandDelicious]

Getting help can only help. I say go for it.

[@Madi_Lane]

I just want to say I’ve been here with you since the Beginning and I’ve always found you to be so inspiring no matter what! I’ve always looked up to you as a person, you’re so strong! I love watching your videos because you are real! Every time you make it feel as if I’m catching up with a friend and that’s the best. I don’t have many friends and for me your videos have brought much needed comfort on the days I needed it the most. I hope you continue to do what makes you happy and I hope you know that you’re amazing!💕

[@nichellefugmann6735]

Everything in this video is value. I feel you mama. This content is perfect for us moms.

[@CarlieStylez]

Nichelle Harbeson i love building a community for moms who can relate!

[@suziaubrey-barkley2553]

I totally have house anxiety and I hate it and my kids hate it. I just need order to feel ok. I have anxiety in general too. You have alot to bring to the table, just being real and everything you do. Hang in there!

[@Amber-gc6gm]

I love seeing the real life vlogs. I also have anxiety..it is hard but you are doing great! It is hard to keep the house cleaned but I try to get what I can and my husband helps me sometimes too. The beginning of the vlog with your baby girl and boy was so sweet!! My daughter just turned 6 months. They grow so fast! 😭

[@ndntinkerbell1]

I appreciate your realness. So many vloggers try to look perfect and even end up seeming condescending to their viewers. Thank you for giving me a fellow mom to relate to today.

[@janejones1797]

I think you are absolutely amazing, and I love watching you share your life!

[@jenjim1999]

Hi Carlie. I can see the exhaustion and tension in your face. I have anxiety and depression and yes it is tough! I wish you well and get the help you need. Hugs

[@sadie4me2]

Hire a cleaning person to come to your home every other week. Take some of the pressure off.

[@CarlieStylez]

Janet Gagnon the sad part is I have. They come once a week . It’s my favorite day of the week!

[@ValentinaMitchell1]

If I hired a cleaning person they would be here every hourlol

[@nataliealmousa]

Carlie! You are a beautiful woman inside and out! I have watched you since you started on KZbin. You have done so much in such a little time and you have inspired me! You are amazing. It’s okay to feel the way you feel. Don’t be to hard on yourself! I love how real you are! Keep being you 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕

[@courtneyjacobo3573]

I never, ever comment on videos but I feel like I have to!! I can totally relate to what you’re saying about the house being “dirty” or laundry not being done! The anxiety is real!! And I get super emotional and irritable as well! It is indeed crippling! My husband tries so hard to understand me but I feel so bad that I allow this to take over me! I love watching your videos because you are very relatable! Please don’t stop doing what you’re doing! Just know you have support!!!

[@irenet5653]

Hi Carlie, This is definitely a topic most people deal with. You are not alone! Talk to friends and family. It does help sweetie. I never had anxiety before I got married and had kids but when I got married and had both my kids, I definitely have a lot of anxiety. It's a huge change. I still have anxiety and both my kids are in their early twenties.

[@ea-mt2gj]

I love u for who u are. You inspire me everyday I watch your vlogs. YOU ARE ENOUGH! I love how real you are. That's what keeps me going everyday. I struggle with anxiety I'm not sure if I should get help. Good to see someone on same journey. ILYSM

[@Ella-Ivy]

I can sooo relate to what you’re saying about the house giving you anxiety.. I feel exactly the same.. to the point if someone dropped in uninvited and I felt it wasn’t clean enough I may even pretend I’m not home 😱

[@My3cozies]

You show us how life is navigated. I feel so bad for your anxiety. It’s very real! Please know your real value by taking care of you. Whatever avenue it takes to help your anxiety...meds,therapy,oils, whatever works for you!

[@brittanynesbitt3421]

Yes more of this. You’re real and I need that because I spend so much time day dreaming for what I “want” and this is what I need is an example of what life could be/is going to be like when I have kids. I appreciate you so much. Ps. Bring back maybe some live instas of you working out

[@CoreyAnneTeacher]

I have been seeing a therapist or counselor since I was 6 years old. 30 years later and I still talk to a therapist or counselor regularly. I believe that therapy is beneficial to everyone whether they have specific “issues” or if they just need someone to talk with who is completely unbiased. My mother recognized that I was a people pleaser and a bit of a perfectionist when I was young. She also realized that because of this I hesitated to speak openly with her or any family members and I was showing signs of anxiety and slight depression even though I was just 6. My mother didn’t think twice and found me a therapist that was appropriate for my age. We also had family therapy sessions which were great not only for me but for my entire family. I started so early that it just became a normal thing in my life and I always talked about seeing a therapist openly and honestly to everyone in my life. I love going to therapy sessions and I wish I had more time in my schedule. Currently I just have sessions when my schedule and my therapist’s schedule work out but she would make space if I need an emergency session. My sessions are very laid back and tend to involve more small talk and catching up then deep and heavy issues. My therapist is great at helping me understand and express my thoughts and feelings in an appropriate manner as I tend to bottle things up which just makes everything worse. The biggest benefit to seeing a therapist or counselor is that there is always someone around to talk too freely and honestly with no judgement. Talking to friends and/or family is great but I myself know there are times it is not possible to talk with them freely because you may be afraid of hurting their feelings or causing an argument. I can then go to my therapist and tell her the situation and my thoughts and feelings with out having to worry about judgment and she can give me suggestions as to the best way to resolve any conflicts and prevent them in the future. I honestly think that everyone should be seeing a therapist or counselor (even if it is just occasionally) the way the world is currently. People are experiencing more stress then ever and are working longer hours while running a household and everyone that comes with that. Good therapists do not judge you, embarrass you, or make fun of you. They instead lift you up, boost your confidence, give you advice, and many other things. Seeing a therapist does not make a person weak. I saw friends struggling through middle school and while I also had my fair share of struggles therapy made them easier to handle and helped me let them go versus holding on to them and potentially making myself sick. I would suggest that you do go and see someone because there is no way talking to a therapist is going to make anything worse. When you do find a therapist you like and are comfortable with (this is also really important and I see a few therapists before choosing a new one)don’t try and hide it from the kids. My mother never hid therapy from us which is why I was so comfortable seeing a therapist at 6 years old. I would also recommend family therapy sessions. They are a lot of fun for the kids and really help tie the family together.

[@kimstrait6617]

Carly you are a good mom. It just over whelming when you have so many things. I enjoyed Elliot, lenny playing he was making her laugh. Life is so hard but just take one day at a time. My son told me to do yoga meditation it helps and try a pool were you have candles and it's like pulls gravity you sit alone it's so relaxing. You differently need a spa massage well deserved. Cooper reminds me of my son at that age. Hope you breathe through it all. It will get better. Take a day pamper yourself. Lol always love your vlog.

[@kimberl6630]

As someone that does have bad anxiety..your okay I promise..anxiety is our bodies way at times of saying step back you need a break. You might be taking on to much and maybe learn to say “ no” sometimes.it helped me a lot.The need to have things orderly comes because it’s the one thing you feel you can have control over. It’s tough when you have young kids and your overwhelmed. Your doing great!

[@labaker345]

i love that you made this after our Instagram conversation. it makes me feel less alone! we just all need to keep us accountable and our spirits up as best we can! i HATE when my house isnt clean too! it spikes the anxiety in my brain. if my house isnt clean im anxious and overwhelmed but soooo exhausted from every day life. i click on your videos no matter what they are btw. the good and bad.

[@averyjadec]

I feel the same way about my house and anxiety!!!!! I struggle daily with having to let it go and when to do something about it. I get stressed so easily

[@CarlieStylez]

Avery Jade it has to be something that we can work on and walk ourselves through! Xoxo

[@chantalp6215]

Its always good to talk even if you think its dumb its not sometimes things take time to process and can be overwelming, i use mindfullness/breathing excersizes as a way to sometimes “stop” thinking and release my anxiety 🤷🏼‍♀️ also having a husband 3kids, 2 dogs a household and having different jobs is a lot take a break when you need it 💜

[@emmajenkins6290]

Carlie i have been watching you for 5+ years and i just wish you would realize that you subscribers just like to watch your every day life. The vlogs of you and your family and whats going on. It doesnt need to be tutorials you are a vlogger!! your a good vlogger!!! videos just like today are what i enjoy watching!

[@lifewithsteph8551]

I aspire to be like you when I become a wife/mother. You are amazing! Sometimes life gets the better of us but if you look back and see the smiles you leave on your children/husband/family faces you’ll know how big of an impact you have on them. You are awesome Carlie!!

[@saniyathomas6454]

Carlie, I love your channel and I love what you bring to the table. I think you are an absolutely great mom! You got this girl👍

[@TruthBeTold4ever-j1n]

My washer and dryer (replaces 3 times this year!) are NEVER working properly. Brand new ones not working. Laundry 🧺 is not a little thing. It’s crazy and anxiety-causing. You are not alone. 🙏❤️

[@leahostrum6055]

Yes. You have it. I have THE SAME THING! I talked to my doctor and she put me on anxiety medicine. It’s seriously the BEST thing I could have done for myself!! I’m not saying medicine is for everyone but I just wish I would have done this for myself a long time ago!

[@cetvideos]

I love your honesty and raw footage of real life! We all have those times where life feels like too much and question ourselves. Keep your head up!

[@courtneymahalik9221]

You genuinely inspire me in more ways than one! please never stop being your true self because we all fall in love with your rawness and the true you!💜

[@Megan43210]

You are NOT alone girl. I feel the exact same way . Things feel out of control . I don’t have anything to solve it but I think talking to someone could help I mean it getting anxiety medicine can help take the edge off LOL the laundry kills me too btw

[@staceykey6303]

You are an amazing mother of 3 beautiful children. 2 of which are littles. That, in itself, is a full-time job. I love your vlogs and appreciate that you are real. Be encouraged and have a great week😍

[@mkslatte41]

Anxiety is no joke. Help & support are always a good idea. It’s a very important part of self care. Sending you much love 💕 & support.

[@lindaketchie9553]

I just enjoy seeing you and your family whatever you do. You’re funny, and fun, and your channel is entertaining.

[@DeeDeeMarie09]

Sometimes I'd rather watch someone that's walking a similar path in life that I am. I'm not really drawn to "experts" because frankly, everyone claims to be an expert. I love your videos because you motivate me to keep going. I love your beauty, fitness, and fashion content. Of course your vlogs are fantastic too. Don't be so hard on yourself girl!! Also, don't rule out your hormones. You've had three babies and sometimes your body gets out of wack. I felt as if their was "something wrong" with me and I ended up having thyroid issues. Anxiety, depression, fatigue, ect. could be a sign of more than just being a mommy. Hope that helps a little.

[@americanblonde2434]

Relatable . I think it’s very valuable sharing REAL life because too many people try and put on a front and especially as a mom I appreciate this video! It’s good to feel not alone in the wonderful chaos lol

[@ctomms]

Carlie I get the same way with laundry. Our washing machine broke this year and then three months later our dryer broke. And I had major anxiety during both. I couldn't focus on anything else until we had a new washing machine and dryer in the house.

[@KatieSparkles]

Also I love the super mom montage!

[@ROZMUSA2010]

Omg I’m am exactly the same way.. n after 6 years of fighting this exact same anxiety n pressure n feeling of overwhelmed all that time .. I finally I went to see therapist.. it’s somewhat helpful ..I am definitely a highly sensitive person .. you should seek some professional help.. you’re beautiful n I love watching your channel cuz I relate to u sooo much ❤️

[@veganwitch13]

It’s so funny how Gage always starts a hair trend in the family. Who remembers the rat tails? And now the blond hair😝

[@CarlieStylez]

Veganwitch I mean his mom is the hair pro!!!

[@CrimeTimewithMal]

Yes, it is enough!! Like you said, there is enough s*** in the world, we NEED the raw and real! You aren't crazy or anything btw. I feel the same thing when my house is dirty. I need to organize my closets so bad and I have so much anxiety about the clothes and everything lol. Keep it up. You really are doing great!!

[@sarahmarie7107]

I totally understand getting irritated when my house is a disaster! I think that’s normal for moms 🤷🏻‍♀️ I have two under 2 years old. It’s hard and overwhelming but there are more better times than hard times 💚💚💚💚

[@rachelyourflyxo]

After I have my next baby I plan on taking Alani Nu Balance supplement (Katy Hearn’s brand). I have extreme anxiety, I had to take Zoloft after baby #1 and it helped me TREMENDOUSLY! But therapy is something i really really want to get into. I hear amazing things. You are NOT alone, you’re doing amazing, and you have so many supporters. I LOVE your content because you stay real. My only advice for KZbin is if you stay consistent you will have your loyal viewers always watching, boring or not. You always promise to have all these videos and then sometimes you don’t. I DONT blame you, I understand, but it gets disappointing

[@meranda9804]

Sometimes when I'm having a bad day or can't sleep I look forward to watching your videos. So you do make a difference and have purpose.

[@Berthyelia]

I get the same feeling and Anxious where I can’t breath

[@gre2g]

the anxiety shows in your eyes . never seen you like this before. don't let fear based thinking get you down !

[@nicoleb535]

Your vlogs are the best. I love the real life content. It’s my fav.

[@kathleenadele2613]

It is never a bad idea to talk with a professional at all! It can be such a great thing everyone should do no shame at all!

[@CP-sm3bi]

Your not alone. Love your fam!

[@WyomingBonfire]

Girl! You got this!! -From, another person who's always in their head.

[@CarlieStylez]

Bonnie Swett thank you Bonnie!

[@donkristinandrews6155]

Carlie Thank You!! I got out of my bed, walked in the Den and showed my husband that I was not the only women that feels that way. Thank you🙏 Love the realness! You bring "you" to the table❤

[@Kelvweb]

For anxiety, try L-theanine. I buy it at Whole Foods. It's the same calming ingredient that's in green tea but without any caffeine.

[@dikoehler4255]

From someone with big polar and would get up in the middle of the night to shampoo a stain out of the carpet then doing the entire house! My therapist told me I had to go to bed for a week with the dinner dishes in the sink. Talk about killing me. But I had to learn what was important and spend more quality time with my family. All I can say is it wouldn't hurt to talk with someone if you're feeling overwhelmed. And remember you are valuable beautiful person! That is something that I'm still working on is my self worth! 🥴💦💕

[@KatieSparkles]

It's never a bad idea to go to a therapist honestly. I have been wanting to find a therapist because I definitely struggle with severe anxiety and I know exactly how you feel about those things. So I would definitely look into it, especially if you feel like it's interfering with you living your happiest and healthiest life.

[@stephaniechupin5420]

Nothing wrong with you.....as a mom I feel the same way...work, kids, dogs, house work.... hang tight...

[@stacie.]

Your value? This vlog has tremendous value! Your volnerability and realism has value. You have no idea how great it was to be able to hear I'm not alone in questioning value. But, please know your simple life on camera is refreshing. Doesn't have to be loud to be entertaining. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and days! I value you!!!

[@CarlieStylez]

spacie82 wow. Seriously so kind. Thank you!!!! I’m grateful to open up and feel that my voice is heard and valued! Xoxox

[@stacie.]

@@CarlieStylez - Carlie, I've been a subscriber of yours for many years. My most favourite vlogs have been you and Cooper going to baseball or your simple days w/ the lil ones. Not the brand deals, the loud and crazy trying to create "good" content, etc. Just you! Because believe me or not, you are enough. Those every day struggles is what makes you relatable and therefore enjoyable to watch. While it may just be a camera you're holding up and talking in to, I hear you! Weird, Eh! Ha! Anyways, don't doubt yourself. I'm a single mom who has every day struggles so it's not the "my life is perfect" that I'm coming on to KZbin to watch. It's the "THANK GOODNESS I'm not alone!" vlogs that interest me most. Selfish? Probably. So thanks for being a mess so that I can be one too. Ha!!! Just kidding. You're awesome and I hope you get back to more regularly vlogging. Cheers!!!

[@nicolahutchinson7954]

I love watching you and your family because yous are normal yous don't show off its real life that's what people need to see is that you the people we look up to go through the same stuff. Xx

[@obedgomez1560]

Anxiety and depression have been hitting heavily. Remember that we have a God that is by your side and will never leave you! Keep your head high and pray about it. Have a blessed day!

[@VictoriaMaeva]

I think being real and sharing your love for your kids and being a business owner and fitness and makeup lover IS VALUABLE. I personally would love to see business-related videos - your advice, your story, day in the life etc. maybe you need to hire someone to help you from time to time with scheduling content and having more of a theme? Hire me 😂🙋🏽

[@devron7752]

Yeah anxiety aint fun. I had so many Drs explain things like I had to be in a dark place to be in that state. Finally had a Dr who said you don't have to be dark place its just a chemical imbalance your not generating enough of that chemical and this will help boost it up. Was on it for a solid 3 years before I came back off. Talking to a psychiatrist helped me with anxiety. The one thing I really took away from it was to figure out what really is making you feel trapped and make a plan to move forward. I have only realized recently about tension headaches. Would tell Drs my head feels like someone was pushing their fingers into my head in my temple then it move to be my ear. Going on medication for that actually worked well was alot clearer head and don't feel absolutely shattered at the end of the day. The main cause for tension headaches is stress but they don't know the true cause of them. Its also not a pain killer it falls under anti depressants (really need a better name) but you take it a night cause it makes you drowsy. Getting help is hard at first but so many people have it they just don't talk about it. I've seen how it gets worse if you let multiple things start worrying you which can cause panic attacks where you get the shakes and tense up in some cases. The other is manic depression (Bi polar) start acting really talkative wont stop when your a quiet held back person normally. Anyways never feel your alone in this there is always someone out there who will listen

[@c4arla]

You know motherhood is overwhelming and you sharing your struggles makes moms feel validated and maybe when a vlog is just “I’m happy” it feels like bragging rather than just real aabd maybe saying cool things to do with kids 2-13 or with two age ranges or how to makeup routine for moms kids proof you know? Cause that is relatable and when bad things happen we just wanna be there for you. Tell me if your mom said something happened you wouldn’t call her immediately without even thinking you know?

[@seasea93]

Carlie i am so sad to hear you say that you feel that you’re not certain of what you can contribute to KZbin! Your approach to fitness and especially running was integral in inspiring me to really get into running - since then I have run 4 marathons and now run ultras! And I’m pretty sure I can attribute a lot of that motivation to you. Sometimes when I am especially in need of inspiration I will watch your nyc marathon video just for kicks! Sending love and I hope you realise how much you connect with your viewers and how much you truly do have to offer!! ❤️

[@Shootinforthestars1]

Nails are pretty , love the sparkle

[@SafaaG]

haha that intro bit was ADORBS. I was so worried tho that Elliot was putting the toy in her face haha. But you were watching of course.

[@roslyn_byrne9201]

I'm the same way, if my house is in order, all is right with the world. xxx

[@jovialthinker]

You’re killing it! 💕

[@aschomm1572]

Real mom content is the best

[@yamilethrodriguez6878]

I’m going to become an 8th grader but I started to get so much anxiety in 7th cause honestly I was so worried getting into my class on time, getting detention, forgetting my homework and it’s the worst it!

[@GoodandDelicious]

The sound effect noises that boys make 😂❤️

[@CarlieStylez]

GoodandDelicious he’s so wild!!! i love that we can hear him in the background because one day I’ll miss that so much

[@brittanyecheverria5440]

You are not alone! I’m the say way! If my home is a mess...I’m a mess!

[@alyssamiller6642]

I have really bad anxiety, I have seen a therapist since I was a young kid (now 22). I honestly think it helps sooo much for me. I think it would be really helpful for you, just to talk to somebody 😊 totally coming from a place of love 💕

[@christinatucker7250]

Awe Carlie..... I’m sorry your feeling overwhelmed a bit. Just know that as women , I think, that we all go through this here & there. Perhaps men do too , to a certain extent, but I don’t think it’s on the same level. But yes, just when you think you’ve established a good healthy routine and it’s all running smoothly, all he** breaks loose & you feel like it’s all going wrong so you question yourself. So I do not feel like anything is “wrong” with you at all, I think if you don’t experience that then something is wrong.... lol. You are way too hard on yourself. Being a mother is hard, much less of mother of 3, of which 2 need your full time attention. I just wanted to tell you, that you are doing wonderful, your an awesome mother, awesome wife, and a hella business woman, just give yourself a little credit!!!! Love you!!!

[@AnxiouslyLiving]

I just paused halfway through this and these are my thoughts. Maybe having your home clean, in your mind is something you know you have control over. Mental things like this obviously stem from something deeper BUT, maybe its your way with coping with something you're not even realizing is going on. In your world, maybe when things are going crazy, cleaning for you is something you know you can have full control of. Not saying you're a controlling person at all. Does that make sense? lol.

[@mariaalejandragomezgiglian4886]

best vlog so far. You look so much younger without makeup. I think the desire of having everithing under control is definitely an anxiety issue. You should look for help. Best of luck

[@mrbreeze732]

You do have a new job focus, don't under state where you are in life.. The most important job in this universe, You control your anxiety but its up to you... Mind your thoughts and feelings... You start thinking down the wrong path try changing that state of mind, you can do it.. Keep your chin up and use that smile like you use to do... or find something else to reverse that bad path.. Be a great mom and never feel less then that,, Don't worry about the little things...Easier said then done, but you have to work on it...YOU CAN DO IT