Do Narcissists Enjoy Sex?

[@pjm4653]

“Sex for us is just masturbating with someone else’s body” 💔goosebumps and tears at that statement.

[@kathyvenne8208]

We're just objects, things. Narcissists are Empty vessel's soulless, pure evil.

[@daniellehelliker3990]

You are right and I feel sorry for them

[@Jezebel066]

They can be the best at faking it. Then they withhold to devalue you. All a game.

[@nopereradicator]

Finally! Common ground. The only time we connected. No emotions. Just fulfilling a need.

[@Jay-Jay_007]

Narc can just lay on their back & treat sex like it's a chore.. The lack of intimacy & connection. It's just cold & distant

[@l.c838]

It’s a shame the narcissist will never feel the real enjoyment of a great big tight hug…and the feeling of love and comfort it brings.

[@davidarundel6187]

There were to many others who had come between us - they could be sensed , which put me off after a while , with the hugs , and eventually the intimacy . The extras got the FWB , who after a couple of years on prescriptions , took to much - their drug of choice , myself is reactive to , so I know when the event occurred . Hopefully , they are in a better place than they thought they were .

[@jessicarichter6436]

As a “victim” & empath this one was particularly hard to hear even though I already knew they can’t feel real love, connection or empathy from your previous videos it stills stings knowing you were used & conned on the deepest intimate level.

[@aspadeaspade7163]

It's a robotic act, rather like a gym workout to them. But in the narcs mind that's perfectly normal. They view emotions as abnormal.

[@vanessalobo5508]

True . All for power and control . Some are sadistic , like to degrade the partner. It’s soul breaking … Narcissist a very intense but no clue of connection and there are some that make the partner desire them and sadisticly withhold sex just to see the partner confused and even more needy of them ! That is the most strange and painful aspect of how easy for NOD to go cold if you don’t follow the scripted and use sex as a punishment . This really messes with the victim most innocent and infantile psyche and erotic intelligence . It breaks a human being into such pit of emotional pain . Maybe this is more psychopathic behaviour? I really don’t understand… They can build a facade of being a sex God and then be disfuntional as hell . If you make them feel less then a sex God with the truth be ready to be taken into intense seduction and love bombing just to be broken down and humiliated in order for them to have total control . It’s very easy for them to just go from extreme sexual to extreme coldness in minutes if one challenges their control , dare to be human and refuse the objectification and the idolatry of the sex God . Have sex has 2 human beings is the Narcisist terror . They want to objectify and be objectified. The perform and I bet most of them are addicted to porn and like to degrade beautiful loving caring sexual human 🙏🏼 Thank you Is the first time I’m returning to your videos just to assert my reality clear my mind and get real with my addiction 🌹

[@Joa5588]

N2 was holding back sex. There is only one method - although I was burning with desire and everything in me was throbbing, I NEVER showed it and I never initiated sex with him. He had to stop his stupid manipulation and come to me himself. And sometimes I deliberately pretended to be resistant (he had to make an effort), although in my mind I was already sitting on him :) And when he himself started... he had no chance to get away from me.

[@TheLiznz]

I worked for, what I now realise, was a narcissist. It took a long time before I realised all of the issues were nit my fault. I finally escaped by resigning.

[@claireangier3322]

I worked for a gay narcissist, he was vicious beyond belief! 😠

[@classicaldeb]

As did I! It was the first time I hadn't offered a two weeks' notice.

[@macnchessplz]

This is hard to deal with for people who enjoy physical and emotional intimacy…. I was asked (on Valentines Day,no less) if I had ever felt love during sex. Although, it wasn’t a subject I planned on looking back on (previous experiences) :I admitted that yet I have felt love during sex . Met with a look of disagreement,was told they hadn’t that for them it was too separate experiences independent of the other. I thought it was a “let’s ruin a holiday or special occasion “ as that is the norm. About a month or so later,the statement was made again (but not questioned). So this subject is something I’ve wondered about. This is the type of thing that turns a marriage into more roommates….especially when emotional intimacy isn’t present at all .At All,at anytime.

[@pamelav4628]

Internally they battle strong feelings of inadequacy and low self-esteem.

[@rubytroy7756]

Mine was incapable ….. with a weird twist …. 😮

[@joycejnn]

Yep , kinks and a fetish

[@deborahannemayer6087]

Amazingly SPOT ON analysis.

[@daniellehelliker3990]

I am glad I never encounter a narcissist

[@TracyD2]

You are a rare person indeed.

[@joycejnn]

You will have done but not recognised them as one

[@davidarundel6187]

You may have and not known it . My accomadation is overloaded with them , so a good "school of sorts " , with the landlords staff being as offensive . You find the NARCASSISTS in Medical , Education , Police , Politicians , and neighbours . Most normals and Empaths have a 6th sense , if they're Lucy , about NARCASSISTS and avoiding them

[@meredith2803]

Lucky you, I wouldn’t wish them on anyone.

[@stst77]

Then what brings you here if you have never encountered a narc?

[@No-Name-f8p]

I only did it with my Narc husband! He died in 2017. It was so BAD, NEVER DID IT AGAIN. 🤣🙄

[@Cat-el4td]

Thankyou HG your advice and insight into a narc is very helpful. I’ve understood a lot from your videos because its helped me see into the mind of my narc ex. He was extremely sexual and fooled me to believe he really did feel a strong connection as he called it. Now I know it was his trap for his control over me to get what he wanted. Thanks again for your advice. I must mention your voice is really attractive and would be extremely seductive if I was your supply.

[@rubytroy7756]

Liked me to lie there like a corpse 🧟‍♀️

[@vannee2426]

Hahaha

[@dawnklug6986]

He sounds like a closeted necrophiliac

[@drg2094]

“We take one for team narcissists “ 😂

[@annetallegrand5656]

😂

[@misspapillon8889]

They are poison wrapped in honey. Giving you one of the most powerful natural highs and then discarding you. Absolute vile creatures that mark you for life. May God save his future supplies because that man was immortal in the bedroom.

[@daniellatan9016]

Thank you for making this clear to me now, HG!

[@rubytroy7756]

I think he was a repressed gay …. 😮

[@harrietboateng5239]

i know a repressessed gay narc who likes to mentor young vulnerable men in my church. he like to groom/moleste these men under the guise of mentorship. i became aware of his proclivities when he approached me (a woman) to be his beard/wife so he can cover up his s3xuality and groom/molest these vulnerable young men. he discarded me when he noticed i knew.

[@berniekennedy9793]

" Suck It Up Buttercup" HG Special🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Is Females ALL know this POTENT act lasts all of 2.5 Seconds🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 On a GOOD DAY

[@AlpineSprinkles]

If it's 2 mins I'm elated.

[@davidarundel6187]

You are misinformed . Some can last well over 3 hours and repeatedly 'donate' to the 'bank' . Most deposits being small , though some will give you a 'bath' in it . Luck of the draw , I guess .

[@davidarundel6187]

​@@AlpineSprinklesask him to put some menthol on the end , to stop the quick climax , or tell him to stopp being a wanker , and settle down some for 'jiggy-jig' which if the boy has control should last past 2 mins easily , and maybe you will with practice get him to the 3 hour mark and further 👍🥇🥇🎁🎈🎊

[@berniekennedy9793]

@@davidarundel6187 Misinformed? Listen Buttercup 3 Hours We dont mean BINGE watching Friends 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@piperhurtado4945]

@@davidarundel6187going on forever is no good either. I don’t want to be under a sweaty and grunty man for three hours. Half hour tho; not “fifteen minute men”, but thirty minutes, that’s the ideal for me. 💯. And no shooting across the bow.

[@rubytroy7756]

Was terrified of women 😮

[@msduckie2384]

Makes alot of sense... Thanks 👍

[@piperhurtado4945]

It’s hard to be intimate during sex if you’re a short person as you’re mostly looking at a neck or a chest. Fine by me, as I always thought eye gazing and cheek stroking were corny. You get the fuel aspect of the act tho, making everything worthwhile. This is fascinating HG. Thank you for explaining.

[@rubytroy7756]

😂😂😂

[@berniekennedy9793]

Googles Do Dwarfs Get Intimate & If so HOW🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@piperhurtado4945]

@@berniekennedy9793 oh no 🤦‍♀️, we don’t need to go there! I’m embarrassed to say I saw a nudey film of two dwarves getting it on. Now a dwarf with an average height person, no. That’s probably because you can’t see them.

[@berniekennedy9793]

@@piperhurtado4945 A sure hope they Snow White had a whole ORGY going on🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@lynncrf]

Are you a narcissist? Wondering because you mention seeking fuel.

[@wmhhealth2018]

I don't think my recent ex enjoyed sex at all. She pretended to but it always felt hollow. She also has an avoidant attachment style most likely because of an inconsistent caregiver in early childhood so she has major trust and abandonment issues. It's actually quite sad.

[@rubytroy7756]

How l survived that ….. l don’t know 😮

[@rubytroy7756]

He never touched me and l wasn’t allowed to touch him I any form …. control 😮

[@marthamoreno1539]

Yup

[@pennybrown8083]

Lot even.

[@nylasharper1788]

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[@annetallegrand5656]

No comment🤣😂❤ I have way too much to say here. I’m a somatic elites dream😢

[@tinad8561]

3 hours? Ouch.

[@JFsebastiansDolly1187]

Never been into that curtain billowing kind of intimacy, but i know i'm not a narcissist as my level of empathy is bordering on the ridiculous and gets frustrating. A+Romantic maybe?

[@gostakount7383]

HG, what is your view on those who can recognize what I call the act, know that it is merely an illusion, know it will not end well, and get sucked in anyway?

[@kelirae7870]

Emotional thinking.

[@stst77]

He called it “addiction”.

[@dianaalyssa8726]

Sounds about right. I prefer tall partners if I'm inclined to it, has to be a residual benefit of a betterment in status.

[@Caro_arch5801]

Ok. That's put me off ever having sex again! 😱

[@pennybrown8083]

Explains a lit

[@Hereweare75]

So what is it that makes Narcs so obsessed with porn?

[@stst77]

Lack of intimacy

[@gpparis2023]

Tender love making makes my skin crawl.

[@annetallegrand5656]

Keep others out if it masturbate and watch porn