Do narcissists really treat their new partners better? | The Narcissists' Code Ep 696

[@katvond6346]

We all were once THE NEW SUPPLY. Need to say no more...🙄

[@MentalHealness]

👀

[@dfoxxy]

Exactly

[@dknauss60]

💯💯💯💯💯

[@gailyhanna510]

Yes, they're going to be love bombing the new supply, just like they did with us. And no, it's not going to last. Soon enough, they will be devaluing and discarding their new Supply... who will then be wondering what that train wreck was that just happened. Just like us. Much love and healing vibes to all that are going through the aftermath of dealing with a narcissist.❤

[@DeboraSampy-eb4nx]

Yup my heart was broke when the person I love with all my heart hurt me so bad after 6 years 😒

[@gailyhanna510]

@@DeboraSampy-eb4nx I'm so sorry. It's very hard to break away from these people, but, it's such a great opportunity for our own growth. I have joined some narcissist abuse support groups online, and I'm going to therapy in order to help myself. Things will get better, I promise!✌💜

[@demetrios3232]

What you've said might be true in some cases. Perhaps that applies more to younger people and dating. However, one thing that is often overlooked is money. When a pretty 44 year old Polish narcissistic woman lets go of a handsome, loving and devoted partner of 20 years and finds a multimillionaire new supply, she will never expose her narcissism to the new supply. She has reached her financial goal. She will be taken care of for the rest of her life. She can't afford to revert back to her former self as she risks losing everything. Money has this power.

[@alwaysjolly]

The day you walk away from the Narcissist your sleeping with is the day yoouuu start healing

[@MentalHealness]

Whew

[@travelwithsouthernchick5112]

The new person doesn’t know what they have got into with a person like that! Stay free and run!!!

[@In_the_moment90]

I contemplated suicide when my ex discarded me. After those strong feelings of this extreme devastation i felt mostly not having any type of closure. Also constantly imagining how the new supply was definitely better than me and had something i did not. I had No self worth. I was Just a piece of crap. I was no one. Luckily after a couple years of therapy and medication now im healed. Ill never be as happy as i was in my younger years but im just a new person. And im ok with that. Thank God i didnt actually kill myself, fought it out and just became a better person. ❤

[@araceliramirez7315]

I'm currently going through this and let me tell you, you are the first person I feel can relate to me. NOBODY else understands this and I'm so glad I finally see that I'm not the only one that experienced this because people do not understand that a person can do this to you. He's not with anyone new but just the thought it paralyzes me. I'm glad you healed🙏🏻❤️

[@In_the_moment90]

@@araceliramirez7315 you will beat it. The pain is hell i know but just keep building up the strength and ride it out. You will succeed. I wish you the best!!

[@swanam_1]

I attempted suicide and ended up being involuntarily committed to a mental hospital. I felt like I was being spiritually attacked after the discard. I'm now on a strong anti-depressant and mood stabilizer. I feel like I've lost all interest in men at this point. I've actually even considered getting a sperm donor when I'm ready to have a child. It's insane what these narcissists are capable of doing to us. Sending love and healing to both of you.

[@Alive20244]

​@@swanam_1 yes girl.. I started doing heavy drugs . Meth. After he left me right after I gave birth to our son. He abused me my whole pregnancy. It was unplanned. But he promised me to never leave my side. Then after baby was born he got into new relationship and ran off with new gf. Posting his new life and her on his social media. While I'm home recovering from c section and going through post partum depression because he hurt me so bad at my most vulnerable time... He betrayed me in such an evil way. Abused me so bad... I started using meth heavy.. to numb the pain but I was only making it worse... She is younger and blonde. I feel so worthless. I want to die on many days. Now I'm 1 day sober. I have to live. For my baby. I cant let him destroy my life. He picked the worse time to hurt me... He is evil... Everyone is saying you need to move on you need to move on... It hurts so bad. When you trusted someone and you were hoping you guys were going to start a life together and once baby came he left right away and started his life with this new girl.... The pain is enough to kill yourself but on top of post partum depression.. I give the glory to God. I'm still standing. It is the most painful experience I ever been through. And I'm going through. He turned on me in the worse way... I loved him so much .. Im only 4 months post partum. I hate when people tell me to move on move on. He loves her. He didn't love you. I get angry. HOW CAN SOMEONE THAT ABUSED THE GIRL THAT LOVED THEM AND WAS CARRYING THEIR CHILD HAVE THE ABILITY TO BE HAPPY AND IN LOVE WITH SOME NEW GIRL. AND they say maybe she's the one ??? I refuse to believe they could abuse me and then change for a girl ....

[@Freeminder-tj5us]

Once the new supply requires more emotional intimacy, BOOM! Their defense mechanism will be in full force.

[@BobKhan-k8v]

Boom mask off !😂

[@GS-hc1nd]

i had no boundaries with my ex until we had children. He was abusive and got worse. Found a new supply at his work place. Good luck to her 😂

[@kourtneydouthard-becker1501]

May God be with her lol

[@ta89fr]

Yeah, they don’t change. Unless God changes them. Truly cruel people .

[@ogyouwannabelikeme]

Any update?

[@chloelageaux769]

People who ask this question are usually fresh out of the relationship or still watching. Been there, done that so I get it. However, your PRIMARY focus should be on YOU and HEALING!

[@mortischahicks5341]

YES YES YES! His ex was calling and texting when we started dating. He would say THAT'S my crazy ex. At the the beginning he was treating me nice and treating her badly. Talking about her like a dog and she had his baby. He had discarded her and lovebombing me. It's so sad being in their cycle.😢😢

[@nO_3Xcuses]

The narcissist learns from what they think failed with their previous partners, and refines their techniques of manipulation, deception, and future faking, etc. with their new supply. So, during the loving bombing stage with the new supply, the very things that you wanted out of the relationship before the discard, is happily given to the new supply. At the same time, the narcissist is also mirroring the new supply in the hope of reeling them in closer. If the narcissist has found new grade A supply, this supply right now is most likely fueling the narcissist with tremendous validation and admiration, just as you did. So, the narcissist is most likely completely absorbed in this person, fueling them with admiration as well like they did with you, reeling this new grade A supply in hard. In fact, I believe that the only time a narcissist will give their partner some level of respect and admiration or at least make it appear as such is during the love bombing stage. Now, what is the narcissist telling the new supply about you? Most likely terrible things like they did with you when you were the new supply. These things are most likely something that the narcissist is voluntarily telling the new supply about you, and not because the new supply is asking questions.

[@lingolady9330]

Thanks for this comment. Just one question I wanna ask. When they are getting all the validations and supply the way they wanted then why he tries to reach you and still get you back ?

[@nO_3Xcuses]

@@lingolady9330 In short, this narcissist hasn't been able to find another you in someone else. U was the one who got away, and narcissist are used to old Ex's staying in the picture in some form or fashion as backup supply. One possible reason is that Flying monkeys, etc. are now asking questions, and the mask is starting to slip. Others are beginning to see it. The narcissist smear campaign is not adding up. Therefore, the narcissist false image has been damaged. Their false image is everything. If the narcissist can convince you to return to the relationship even if it’s only for a few days, going back would go a long way in repairing their damaged image and validating the narcissist to others. The narcissist at this point can then convince themselves and others that what they did to you must not have been all that terrible given the fact that you were willing to return to the relationship. So, going back will only serve to validate the narcissist false narrative and invalidate you. Narcissists are always driven by selfish motives. Never go back. Another possibility is that even though you were miserable in the relationship. This time period is actually when the narcissist was at their happiest. Therefore, the narcissist is hoping to return to that. During this time period, the narcissist was feeding off of your energy and glowed because of it drawing tremendous attention from others. The narcissist was in la la land during this time. When you took your energy back and stop given it to that narcissist, the glow that they once had went away. The attention they got dwindled. The narcissist desperately wants that back. It’s tragic. So, as you heal, u will notice your energy coming back and your glow returning.

[@erismana2105]

The narc Derrick Jackson said "how you get them is how you lose them " that rings true for many

[@simplyjustash]

I met him while his relationship was falling apart. That's how I lost him!

[@jocelyndee1906]

@@simplyjustash wow sorry to hear that 😢

[@marianestrada1502]

I broke up with my ex Narcissist a few days ago and he already have a new supply and posting so much love for her, it hurts, but at the end I feel sorry for her, cuz he is not going to change, he didn’t in almost 2 years.😢

[@delaney5721]

The new supply gets it worse every relationship they move onto. At first it’s good like it was for you in the beginning but they get the same outcome and worse eventually

[@creating1_c1999]

There are so many people surviving instead of thriving, merely in relationships out of habit and public affirmation. If you ever felt like you were the better choice, I'm sure life with them humbled you quickly.

[@MentalHealness]

😓

[@cindyallen4831]

When the mask falls off, they're still the same person. So, of course, they will eventually treat NS the same. It's "who they are".

[@MentalHealness]

🥺

[@ShaisTime]

It’s easier to heal when they completely & sadly crossed the line. And when you see seemingly other “happy couples” that what you had with the narcissist WAS NEVER REAL & NEVER WILL BE ‼️‼️ And that the new supply has to deal with them & NOT YOU ‼️‼️ You’re FREE & get to leave as soon as they discard you ‼️🙌🏽🎉🎊👋🏽👋🏽😌🤷🏽‍♀️🙌🏽😊

[@Dunitagin93]

Amen Bro! When you WATCH or try to IMAGINE what’s going on with the new hit-that shit makes you MISERABLE! Instead-focus on something that was said or done TO YOU! Focus on the relationship they had with you. That’s REALITY! The relationship you IMAGINE they have now is FANTASY!

[@kourtneydouthard-becker1501]

No. He cheated on me with her and now that I'm gone he's trying to cheat on her with me 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@Demiurge66]

Smh

[@kourtneydouthard-becker1501]

@@Demiurge66 ikr pathetic 😂😂😂

[@mariefishback835]

so do try to come back after they cheated

[@daniellemorse6929]

Yes, he's treating her better and doing things for and with her that he would never have done for me. 😢

[@feliciamcdaniel9866]

My ex recently discarded me after a 12.5yr on/off relationship. She has what he wants to help his business. I knew it was coming, he denied he was with her, she was just his business partner but her gave her a rose dipped in 24karat gold on valentine's day, some rose he gave me a year ago. He never mentioned that he was selling books in her store. Now, they will be heading to Africa soon to help promote his book. He has been trying to go back to Africa for years, and she has all the connections. I want to warn her so bad, but I am going to stay in my lane and work on myself.

[@margaretgreen9454]

Same here 😢

[@Journey4Vitality]

❤Thank you. Yes, been healing for 7 months. Took him back around the holidays and I was happy- thinking we can grow. Soon as he saw I was happy, he told me about the new supply and even more heartbreaking things. This is so evil, broke me down again. I’m missing work etc, going through this all over. No Contact what I should have stuck to. I had some crazy relationships, but this is just pure evil. Educating us/me is really helping- Thank you soooo much😊

[@vacationeyes6430]

Briefly yes. Just to show their old partner how much better they are doing. This is done to leave the ex wondering if it is their fault they were treated the way they were. This also overlaps with the love-bombing phase of the new partner.

[@emanuelarangos4247]

Yes, they are molding according to the person and situation. It depends on what are they're interests and benefits.

[@Bibleinformationandhelp]

Basically what he is trying to say, if the narcissist has the opportunity to treat the new person wrongly, they probably will. To what extent? It really depends on the boundaries that the new person has. If you aren't married and you have escaped a bad narcissist, it may hurt a bit, but you should definitely move on. In some ways, a narcissist is an emotionally immature person. There is no way you can fix a person. If someone wants to change, they will have to want to do it. I believe it is difficult or impossible to change a person if they don't want to. If you are not a good judge of character, it is probably best to stay away from charismatic people. In my opinion, some of these people may be fake. Also, some of these people may be masking their true nature. They may be different than how they appear to be in front of you. They may act very lively to attract your attention. Once they have you hooked, then they show you their true nature. Get with someone that is level. Someone that seems realistic other someone who seems like a fantasy.

[@foxiefair123]

Yes. He probably is, considering the first 3 or so years he treated me like gold. So yeah. I don’t even want to think about it. However, she’s going to end up getting no compliments or anything like that. I’d rather be alone, I can do a better job of treating myself than someone like that does.

[@simplyjustash]

My ex and his new supply put their social media on private to where they cannot be searched. Thats only going to help my healing process.

[@cherieanne3659]

When he started to be distant, I started to leave his company. It spiraled. The more he was distant, the more I stayed away. And it got worse. I finally left, although I knew I was already discarded. Fifteen days no contact and starting to get the mind shit wondering if maybe if I didn’t become distant…. Ughhh. Trying to stay strong. 🙏

[@mezlandia]

I’ve discarded him many times and this final one was by him, yesterday… what made him do it was that my emotions/honesty caused him shame. 🥺 so selfish… I feel for us and hope that you and I will recover and never deal with another narcissist on this level 🙏🏻

[@cherieanne3659]

@@mezlandia I’m sorry you’re going through this. We WILL recover and be better and happier! Stay strong. NO CONTACT! 💪 Sending you love and prayers. 🙏💪❤️

[@beingpallavi3272]

Narcissistic basically claims BODY .when one body is not in their use or not acting like they want. They go for NEXT BODY. This love is not rational but purely Physical.

[@konangal16]

Absolutely

[@marley-yc1tc]

I recently found your channel and you shown me but I guess I knew all along I just didn't know the name for I applaud you for being self-aware and doing what you do I feel like that takes a big man

[@MentalHealness]

I appreciate it

[@gaetanemcgraw5567]

I am not watching him. I have completely detached myself from it. I understand what narcissism is. Soon I will stop watching videos on the subject. I will pour my energy in my art. I am a visual artist. I will heal myself through art. I am an artist not a victim. In the end this experience will become beautiful works of art. Transformative. This is how an artist see it. It is transformative at the level of the soul.

[@sharibennett2071]

Love Lee, the pastor! You make an old woman laugh EVERY TIME! 😅😅

[@MentalHealness]

😅😅

[@Missybella92227]

In the lovebombing stage my ex Narc was continuously texting, calling, spoiling me, being sweet/romantic. He voluntarily paid for my bills and trips. It was ALL transactional though. He wanted me to put him in front of my myself, my job, even my own son!! When I didn’t adhere to his controlling demands he started taking ALL the generosity and romantic acts.

[@Jade2343]

People say that oh you should have been stricter, put more boundaries. I did put boundaries, I did shout, I did lay things down…but it didn’t change anything. He never listened, he still continued. Many times in the beginning I’d end it to make him listen… but he never changed. So doesn’t matter how much you set boundaries, or put your foot down, they will only temporarily change. The only way to not go through it, is to leave and never go back. Once someone told me you should have put your foot down, then he wouldn’t have done it. I was like what more should I have done to make him listen!? I literally did it all and it never made a difference.

[@MentalHealness]

if you set the boundaries and they violate them in the beginning, you should leave them alone

[@threepeasoup8733]

I saw how my narcissistic dad dated after he and my mom divorced. At the end of every relationship, he always identified one main "issue" with the woman. He'd say "If it weren't for (her perceived defect), we could've made it work." With that "issue" fresh on his mind, he'd go out seeking new supply that wouldn't have that same "issue". Many times, the new supply would be polar opposite in that one area. He'd misrepresent the ex's "issue" to the new supply while complaining about them. It was as if he was trying to coach the new supply on how to be his ideal girlfriend.

[@DeboraSampy-eb4nx]

That's right the new supply will not tolerate the same abuse that you did 👏🏾👏🏾

[@Ice_Ba]

On point. Took him back after he told me he started an affair because he wanted a " clean slate". His litteral words. Came back, just to find out he had several new supplies lined up. At the end, before i kicked his ass out, he said: " we cant go back to how it was" , " you were once my best friend, my favorite person" and " you know to much about me, things i dont anyone to know about me".

[@mikemckay4256]

Great video! You hit the nail on the head across the board. Thank you!

[@christopheryates7761]

They're treating the new supply better than they treated you at the end 😂 I certainly hope so 🤦🏽‍♂️

[@danielac.6333]

Mine was never really good in the beginning

[@MegaRose1958]

You are absolutely right Lee the relationship didn't get better!! That's why he ended up being my ex.

[@M1N1GEM.11]

Great information Lee as always thank you

[@MentalHealness]

You’re welcome

[@MegaRose1958]

That's why I like listening to you, bec. you have a good sense of humor ,and you explain things well.

[@nicholecornes1915]

Yall the new supply isn't the only one anyway😂

[@JohnJohn-hd1pc]

You know this so much. You are such a beautiful human being. I wish she could say what you say. Maybe then i could think of a way to live

[@EdwardRyan-b6s]

I was loved bombed and talked into moving in together. I gave her everything, and I mean everything! After 4 months I paid half the rent for the rest of the lease and hauled ass. I love her but I didn’t know about covert narcissist’s till lately. She found a guy in one week who has a house his mom gave him and is trying to get him to let her move in. Good luck!!

[@michaelludwig9069]

If you have them blocked. you shouldn't see the new supply or narc.

[@misutkagulati1879]

Thank you for a good words ....❤

[@safarievian6049]

Thank you for your channel! I was just about to ask you about blocking if we have kids.thanks for the advice

[@MentalHealness]

you’re welcome

[@gaetanemcgraw5567]

He will at the beginning but it will deteriorate as time will go on. I have been through that cycle.

[@awkwardfellow6912]

Yes, but Only until they grow weary and blast them into space.

[@spiritdavis7356]

He puts his hands on her they fight all the time.

[@stylist62]

The new one is going to be crazy as him🤣

[@wheelernathan34]

Hey Lee One thing for sure with you being a real estate agent, having thousands of videos on KZbin, your merchandise you sell on Amazon and other outlets plus your coaching sessions which you charge $150- 200 per session or hourly you have to be a millionaire! On top of your tours around the country plugging your merchandise and charging for admission to see you and to get autographs signed for profits! I know you're a millionaire! If not close to it!! You've made hundreds of thousands of dollars off narcissism and profit off other people's misery!! Only in America as Don King use to say!! "Where there's a way, there's a will and a profit to be made off other's!! Brilliant and I applaud you!!! Your money is rolling in!! Hopefully you give something to a charity to help underprivileged kids or something to help someone other than you and yours!! I know I would!! Give in return to be blessed and to be appreciative!! While you preaching in this video, try preaching to do something for others without willing to sell you your soul or family's soul to the devil for a dollar 💵! Amen!!😊 All your one on ones and workshops reap the financial profits!! Bravo Lee!!😊

[@maydavis7589]

I've been manipulated, gaslighted, and threatened on a daily basis. Some of the threats were he was going to kill himself if I didn't do what was asked, he would punch pillows or sofa, stand up against me and yell at my face, stand behind the car and not let me leave, sometimes we would be driving and he would threaten to swerve and hit any truck, hold my arms and shake me, push me aside to a wall, and much more. My in-laws were also very verbally abusive towards me. I wasn’t allowed to visit my family or friends. If I did or wanted to, I had to be ready for an argument. Every day I was reminded that I am nothing and that I was not worth fighting for and that I don't meet the standards of being married to their son. Recently, I found out he was cheating on me and had a girlfriend. After seeing the texts and pictures, I became numb. I've been a good wife, I listened to every insult and fight. I never gave up what I knew, thanks to this hacker who's helped me to extract enough information from his device. Someone on here shared a link to the hacker who helped cloned his phone without physically touching it. All I did was send his phone number to him and through a remote link sent to my email, I was able to access all of his texts, emails, Facebook and Instagram chats, real-time call listening and his long deleted messages as if the phone was physically with me. Perhaps, you are in a similar situation and you need help you can get in touch with him Email: instagram.com/mark_clinton2424/

[@ayn7137]

my ex is a narcissistic. this video explains a lot. thank you

[@sharibennett2071]

Had to watch this again. Got me speaking in tongue...😅😅

[@lauraantic1384]

Lee there were red flags all the time from the begining ,since i was with him from young age i ignored that even my friends told me i didnt liesten.After many years it was worse even today when I dont live with him.Abuse all the time.I lost all my friends.Lee it is so hard

[@lorenagiles]

I’m 16 days out of no contact lol (yes, still in the counting phase) 😩 but this is so accurate. He kept telling me his ex was crazy and wanted nothing to do with her. She spray painted my car, would follow me and show up to my house. I called the police on her several times, but he never did. Refused to file a restraining order. Her behavior was too extreme, something had to be going on. He’s probably still playing with her emotions or sleeping with her, while he’s love bombing me. 🙄 I dated him for 8 months and there was something off from the beginning, but I ignored the red flags. 🚩 The last month is when the mask really started to come off. Saw his ugly character when I wouldn’t give into him or his requests. Also, like Lee said, too much had happened. The trust and “clean slate” was gone. I was done and he could feel it. I’m guessing that was the start of the devaluation stage. Had no idea about narcissism until now. I held my boundary and chose not to see him that day, haven’t heard from him since. He’s either back with the ex or his new supply, or both lol 🚰 It does sting, but I’m so thankful it’s over! Follow your intuition 🤍🕊️🧘🏻‍♀️💪🏼

[@TheKEVIN3151]

I’m 5 days of no contact with my ex girlfriend, you were smart like me I seen through the bullshit after 8 months in. I’m free and happy… I do think about the good moments sometimes times, but the bad moments easily outweigh the good moments 😅

[@lorenagiles]

@@TheKEVIN3151 it’s hard not to think about the good times and to believe that none of it was real. Just mind blowing. 🤯 But yes, the hurtful moments definitely outweigh the good ones. Each day gets a little easier 😌 glad that you’re free now too. 🕊️

[@jennygreenwood1756]

Lorena, you deserve a lot better than a boy man. Once someone shows you who they are, especially if it's toxic, know your worth and leave. Praying for you.

[@lorenagiles]

@@jennygreenwood1756 thank you Jenny! I appreciate that 🙏🏼 it’s been a rollercoaster of emotions, but I’m taking it one day at a time 🌤️🌈

[@mezlandia]

Absolutely; follow your intuition! I’m 1 day out and comments like yours is helpful 🙏🏻 ❤️

[@JohnJohn-hd1pc]

Lee. Thank you. I've reached my end. I've tried to understand. But all of it shows I'm worth nothing. Just like my father. Is there never going to be an escape?

[@mezlandia]

The escape is being at peace in your home… your home is within yourself. Nobody can tell you your worth, but you. The narcissist saw your worth. Now you must see that you deserve better, John. ❤️

[@spiritdavis7356]

She has cut him before but I guess he loves it. I’m not worried bout what they have going on I done no contact period

[@araceliramirez7315]

I feel like what he's saying is no the next doesn't get it better then you. After some time they'll get abused too so we have to accept it wasn't us it was them and we dodged a bullet. He's not with anyone but just the thought of him being with a new person and her getting treated better then me

[@litzysoto5965]

My ex did the same he discarded me and after 2 months he started dating his new supply while he was still doing things with me, I tried warning her but she believed him when he said I was crazy, she got pregnant after 2 months, I wonder how long until he shoes his true colors to her

[@AP-mz5tb]

So did you devalue your wife and do you now love her less?

[@margaretgreen9454]

Yes he had moved in with her within a week of knowing her they seem happy and I am hurt trying to heal

[@yuktiarora7105]

But how many clean slates ? What they do eventually, one cant have 100 partners lol, and each will know them, then what, will keep changing lol ?

[@denyce06]

But my ex has been with the new person for four years. I still feel hurt today that my ex cheated on me. I know for a fact that she is not faithful to her current gf now. The current gf caught her four times, but forgave her every time. Why??

[@lindagonino4486]

Lol you’re awesome!

[@kewongcohen9845]

I feel like my husband is a narcissist he doesn’t like me to have a opinion that differs to his , very delusional he puts up a facade to his peers and ppl outside our relationship. He’ll constantly criticise me about being a modern women knowing I was Morden when he married me and said he didn’t have a problem with it constantly tells me I am old and won’t get anyone and will be alone if I don’t change my masculine ways. It’s strange because outside of this his so helpful supportive would do anything for me even when we argue he would still cook for me and help around the house so I am somewhat confused as to whether his a narc or not.

[@heavenlyprecog23]

You make me laugh with your goofiness in your videos 😊😊😊

[@MentalHealness]

I try 😆

[@AustraliaUnmasked1984]

I am trying to work out why he shuts his eyes while talking? It's almost like he is trying to blink on 56k dial up internet?

[@Barbara-ec9ox]

I messed up…my daughter found out he had a GF already n “ in love” I went off messages her n him… then blocked them both..I just told her I would pray for her..n him I asked for my divorce

[@MentalHealness]

stay strong

[@stacy7990]

I turned off that show immediately. I blocked him and her.

[@exofnarccop]

This dude could beat me with a shovel, and I would be arrested . Hand to God

[@devarodgers4676]

no

[@MentalHealness]

🧐

[@erismana2105]

Bye Felicia

[@erismana2105]

Narcissists preacher new character for shorts ?

[@MentalHealness]

😂 👀

[@exofnarccop]

Also, sex sucks. Tarnished

[@MikeTaylor-kj9uu]

We bork up 2 good am over day at woman 😂

[@MentalHealness]

😮

[@danielgoodwin749]

Absolutely so right knowing what her future will end up like in the shittist of ways and knowing just how absolutely evil and nasty and minipulating she was and all the horrible things she was most likely doing and all the twisted depression she brought into my life just knowing that she will end up sad ugly inside and out and is weak and lonely is the best motivation for me because I was worth a million lifetimes more than anything she could ever give. But she has actually been the test I needed to see my best self. And I WILL ALWAYS LOVE AND BE FREE AND HAPPY IN MY LIFE. BEST THING I DID WAS GO NO CONTACT IGNORE THE DOOR AND HOPE AND PREY SHE MOVES ON QUICKLY AS SHE WILL BECOUSE THEN I CAN REST KNOWING SHE'S GONE. LOVE AND PEACE TO EVERYONE ON THIS AMAZING PLANET EARTH XXX

[@MentalHealness]

xxx

[@heavenlyprecog23]

I have to laugh when I found out the narcissistic baby daddy’s current supply is now the old supply and he’s on to a newer supply😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣 #karma

[@maydavis7589]

I've been manipulated, gaslighted, and threatened on a daily basis. Some of the threats were he was going to kill himself if I didn't do what was asked, he would punch pillows or sofa, stand up against me and yell at my face, stand behind the car and not let me leave, sometimes we would be driving and he would threaten to swerve and hit any truck, hold my arms and shake me, push me aside to a wall, and much more. My in-laws were also very verbally abusive towards me. I wasn’t allowed to visit my family or friends. If I did or wanted to, I had to be ready for an argument. Every day I was reminded that I am nothing and that I was not worth fighting for and that I don't meet the standards of being married to their son. Recently, I found out he was cheating on me and had a girlfriend. After seeing the texts and pictures, I became numb. I've been a good wife, I listened to every insult and fight. I never gave up what I knew, thanks to this hacker who's helped me to extract enough information from his device. Someone on here shared a link to the hacker who helped cloned his phone without physically touching it. All I did was send his phone number to him and through a remote link sent to my email, I was able to access all of his texts, emails, Facebook and Instagram chats, real-time call listening and his long deleted messages as if the phone was physically with me. Perhaps, you are in a similar situation and you need help you can get in touch with him Email: instagram.com/mark_clinton2424/

[@MentalHealness]

😂

[@kourtneydouthard-becker1501]

They have multiple supply lined up ready for when things don't work out with the current supply. Lol

[@heavenlyprecog23]

@Kourtney Douthard-Becker: EXACTLY!!!!! Super glad I got off that train wreck when I did 🥳🥳🥳

[@kourtneydouthard-becker1501]

@@heavenlyprecog23 same here. Cheers to us🥂💅🏽

[@exofnarccop]

He did say I was neive.

[@Jade2343]

Please explain cause I’m confused. So are you saying they are more likely to stay with a women who is strong and sets clear boundaries… and doesn’t put up with their sh*t? Or are you saying they usually leave women who don’t allow them to control them? Do they prefer women who don’t put boundaries..or do they prefer women who do? My ex was nicest to me when I kept my mouth shut and let him do what he pleased. When I started calling him out.. he would turn and say I’m the problem. So do they prefer strong women or weak women? I thought they would not like women who don’t tolerate stuff. They want women who are easily manipulated surely and one who they can do what they want?

[@MentalHealness]

depends on the person and what they put up with

[@SweetBlackSistah]

IDGAF now but when I left my ex-husband and found out that he was seeing somebody within a month of us breaking up and I remember him telling me that he's trying to be a better person because he doesn't want to treat the new person bad. I knew he was full of shit but, whatever. Got away from that blue eyed demon lmao Not my problem. No contact for 1.5 yrs

[@EvilTink1_]

Yea I’ve been beat and I didn’t held him accountable for anything and now I’m trying too and it sucks .All because she snitched with screenshots .

[@Nina2598-k5x]

She new we were in a relationship oh wellll 😂I don’t feel bad for her or him have at it ❤

[@EvilTink1_]

Lee Hammocks self love ?

[@MentalHealness]

That’s what to type in for my journal lol

[@EvilTink1_]

@@MentalHealness just got it ..my brain has been all over the map .Ty

[@spiritdavis7356]

What if it a old supply?

[@heavenlyprecog23]

@Spirit Davis: it doesn’t matter to them…supply is still supply at the end of the day…they don’t seem to care where they get it from

[@AustraliaUnmasked1984]

For about 1 week and then it all fades

[@spiritdavis7356]

The other person knows them. It’s his bm and I figured it was a game who was going to get him.

[@heavenlyprecog23]

@Spirit Davis: sounds like triangulation to me

[@spiritdavis7356]

@@heavenlyprecog23 well to her maybe I was just blind or in denial basically listening to him but now I’m woke and I let him go on bout his business.

[@heavenlyprecog23]

@Spirit Davis: super proud of you!!!! Don’t look back and focus on your healing journey 😊😊😊

[@spiritdavis7356]

@@heavenlyprecog23 Ty I plan on it I’m looking for another place to stay. File for my divorce as well but I did cut off the contact with me on every level social media and phone.

[@elianaisrael3898]

Preacher mode lol

[@MentalHealness]

💯

[@exofnarccop]

But, I can't stand up for myself in certain situations that happened. He has a badge . I also want to say I have much respect for police officers . But, not these types . I'm sorry

[@33and4]

The narcissist I am co parenting the longes he stayed are 2 months or less

[@riissmith5836]

Lmao love u man

[@MentalHealness]

🙏 💙

[@EvilTink1_]

Yea like then incorporating a 3some when they have a affair before and after .At this point I have been put up with them for the kids ..I cheated one fine and he’s pissed which I don’t get ..🤷‍♀️when he was trying to get rid of me and idc .I had asked for counseling and all that and he won’t .Just kept saying yes he will .Is their a way I can have 1 on 1 counseling with you via zoom or something?I agree with you I allowed tooo much .

[@Rainbowofthefallen]

🖤

[@MentalHealness]

♥️

[@sabrinachowdhury-uw8jg]

❤❤❤

[@MentalHealness]

♥️♥️

[@exofnarccop]

I was forgiving. I agree. Makes me so angry with me

[@MirjamButikofer-hz7fl]

honestly best channel to help w moving on from them.. im glad i did him dirty too! broke up and hoovered him 7 times and now the 8th time but it’s my final discard 🤭 i caught him comment on other girls thirst traps, so i told him he was a hoe, blocked him everywhere and I’m ghosting him for the rest of his life 🚮 he probably thinks im comming back but nope 🤓

[@emanuelarangos4247]

1 million masks

[@joannemccoy9242]

❤❤❤❤❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥🔥💥💥🔥🔥🔥

[@exofnarccop]

😂😂

[@nicholecornes1915]

Lol

[@DoesYourMommaKnow]

You most definitely are my favorite

[@MentalHealness]

😊