Do Not Give Your Strength to Women / Toby Sumpter / GA18

In this talk from the Grace Agenda conference, Pastor Toby Sumpter gives a talk entitled, "Do Not Give Your Strength to Women."
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[@theDrewzy1]

This was one of the most meaningful sermons I've ever heard. No one has taught me how to be a man throughout my life. I have been struggling with it. God give me the strength and understanding needed to fight the fight you gave me like a man under the headship of Christ and in obedience to Him. Amen.

[@AndHeShallReignForeverAndEver]

You’re not alone, brother. We are striving together towards the goal. Praying for you.

[@mamakort]

Highly recommend It's Good To Be A Man by Michael Foster. He's also a CREC pastor.

[@mc8598]

You know how in your heart don't be mean but Christianity doesn't require you to be a pussy, start learning to fight and most importantly WHEN to fight

[@garymahon1955]

Wow! I have read that in Proverbs and realize i have been too much putting women on pedastels. Im 70 in My, still a bachelor, and never learned how to be a real man much. Have not had sex yet, though, and glad now i haven't.

[@TheSeeking2know]

"Jesus has infinite amounts of strength for every man who submits to Him."

[@PicturesofTravel]

Sounds gay

[@KJBTRUTH]

@@PicturesofTravel gay as in happy and joy. I was a sinner on my way to Hell, eternal damnation. Nobody but God could prevent me from running there. But thanks for His mercy and grace I am now saved from destruction to everlasting life. I'm born again. I pray you will repent, and trust in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior. He is Lord and the only Savior.

[@Izzysai]

@@KJBTRUTH Word!

[@anpdm1]

Just not enough strength to remove nails from his hands or to step himself down from that g_d damned cross. One who doesn't save themselves, can't physically save anyone else. Dead is the weakest state of being in this physical realm. Those who submit to the weakest link, weaken themselves.

[@mrupholsteryman]

@@anpdm1 He didn't stay on the cross...and death was not final for Him... Good thing Jesus wasn't selfish...

[@waitaminutewhat]

I needed to hear this 13 years ago. Single men, I beg of you to listen to this and take what Toby has said to heart. Married men, please repent and apply this message. If you don’t you’ll find yourself alone and your wife gone chasing after other gods. You will be brought to ruin. But even then, the Triune God will forgive you and carry you through the trials and tribulation of abandonment.

[@christophertaylor9100]

Indeed. Christ died for that as well. Christ lived that life we should have lived perfectly and without sin, for us, in our place.

[@Ransetsu]

Amen

[@davidhampton4757]

Thank you for these words. We're showing this to our middle school and high school boys class today.

[@CanonPress]

That's awesome!

[@danielmann5427]

@On SB -

[@kurtnyuli9095]

On SB, did you even listen to the talk?

[@dominicjones8273]

On SB Hi. I’m Dom’s wife. He is told to love me so much he would die for me. I don’t have to do that for him. I’d rather be a Christian woman than a Christian man. He has the full weight of responsibility for my spiritual welfare and that of our children. I wouldn’t want that on my shoulders! But God has made him strong and capable to handle it, and he loves the responsibility. God made us perfectly able to fulfill our different and equal roles. Scripture tells us we are all equal to God. But to each other the men protect the women, and the women help the men. It’s a perfect plan of course, because it’s God’s plan! God revered women so much. As Jesus was dying on the cross he made sure his mother was going to be taken care of. The women stayed with him until he died. The women took Him down, anointed His poor body and laid Him to rest. They were the first to the tomb to find Him gone. Every man (except Adam) is born of woman. God made special provision for widows, daughters and wives. Ask Christian wives with Christian husbands. Do some asking around. My non Christian friends have boyfriends who are generally good, but they do complain that their men don’t really want to commit to marriage, have had lots of partners before and aren’t really keen on supporting their families. I’m generalising of course, but telling you my experience with women I know. Before you write off the bible and have this impression of Christianity being mysoginistic, I would respectfully suggest if you search the scripture you will find the men have quite a tough time while the women are revered and cared for. I wish you all the best

[@dominicjones8273]

On SB hi again, I just wanted to add, this preacher is calling men to be strong and protective. I think you were saying this preacher is saying women are not equal to men. He is not. He’s telling men to be men, and not to let themselves be weaker than women. It’s really positive for men. And women love active strong protective men (just look at how some women go silly over firefighters). So it’s a win win for all of us. Blessings to you.

[@ekmorny1802]

The Americans love to say "a man's gotta do what a man's gotta do", but what is it really that a man has to do? Take a gun and go shoot anybody he doesn't like? Too many people are too afraid to talk about what men gotta do for fear of being tagged "chauvinist or mysoginist". This preacher has laid it out straight, a man's gotta use his strength to build, direct and protect (his family, friends, church, community, country, etc). God bless you, Sir, God bless you

[@snippletrap]

What a man's got to do is his duty, whatever that happens to be.

[@lisamoag6548]

A good man provides, protects, guides, and loves. Thank you all good men.

[@dolucks1]

​@@lisamoag6548a good woman submits

[@mc8598]

Protect,,and all that that entails

[@hectorgalindotorres9257]

Beautiful exhortation and encouragement to especially men trying to do right by their homes and communities.

[@GodsTruthMinistries]

Amen. Wussified "Christianity" is a ball and chain we must cast away and boldly and unashamedly proclaim truth and take the kingdom from the enemies who steal it for evil purposes. Enough is enough. The enemies of God aren't going to back down...

[@jackjones3657]

So true. As Sir Edmund Burke recognized: "All evil requires is that 'good' people do nothing."

[@Kay-hg2vo]

27:03 The Christian's in the midwest have laid down and rolled over! Wish this was my pastor.

[@kerrimerlotboutin157]

Thank you for your obedience to speak the truth so boldly. So grateful for this and will pass it on for others to hear. Thank you!

[@CanonPress]

Thanks for watching!

[@doomerquiet1909]

Definitely making me take a deeper look at my relationships and how I can improve myself in regards to my relationship as a man with the world and God

[@Dbulkss]

Good. We young Millennials are under attack.

[@aaronfrederickson1464]

Wow, thank you so much for the message! Challenge accepted. "OBEDIENCE is better than sacrifice."

[@micahmelby1613]

Great sermon!! I wish I heard it 40 yrs ago.

[@Christloves777]

I loved this sermon and text it to men's ministry grou I'm currently in! I'm a grandfather and father of adult children and have been praying to the Lorf for guidance and clarity in leading my family. I believe strongly this was sent to guide and give me strength and courage in battling Satan.

[@indialeestarks3935]

Ooooooooohhhh this was good. This was SO good. Dare I say perfect? I wish this was a requirement listen for all churches and believers, good grief 😩. And that beautiful conclusion and integration with the foundation of Christ?! 🙌🏾 Ooooh man. I’m definitely sharing this with some ears I know NEED to hear. Thank you, thank you, thank you, for this! 🙌🏾😩

[@yahwehforchristians]

I praise Yahwehshua for His obedience in saving my soul. Yah strengthen me to obedience. 👀📜👂🏽

[@50organizer]

This is one of the best sermons I have ever heard. I am 71 and have heard hundreds. TY for a scripturally sound message for the men we love.

[@TheRobjason99]

I’m listening to this once a month!!! This is by far one of the best messages I heard and need. Thank you 🙏🏾

[@iflyhelicopters]

I’ve been being disobedient to God for the past 6 years giving my strength to the wrong woman, destroying my life and relationships. I’ve become a ghost of a man. I finally listened to God and let her go. But I am completely lost idk who I am anymore and I’m weak. I’ve lost my power, strength and voice and influence. I’m nobody with zero power in this state of the world and I feel so ashamed and guilty. I can’t even function. I cant look anybody in the eye. Am I too far gone? I’ve been selling my own soul and surrendering my kingdom for 6 years… I need some serious help and any advice would be very helpful anybody. I feel so sorry. This sermon is spot on. It sucks to find myself on the wrong side of it but I’ve always been stubborn and had to learn the hard way. I’m only 28 and I do have the smallest inkling of hope but my kingdom is demolished. My friends and family don’t recognize me anymore. I don’t recognize me anymore.

[@iflyhelicopters]

I want to reclaim my soul, regain my strength and influence, and serve God with all my might until the end of my days. 🙏 I’m asking Jesus for strength everyday. Strength to accept the consequences of my actions with grace and continue to get up and serve God as I am. And hope that one day I’ll wake up and feel okay with myself again. It’s a miracle I’m still alive today I’ve been so reckless and suicidal. I do believe Jesus is saving me. But the devil is attacking me so hard. This is a slow battle I’m fighting it feels but I do believe Jesus has already won. Amen 🙏 Lord help me get out of my own head and selfish desires and think more of others than myself. Make me into your servant. 🙏 I’m desperate. I cannot go back in time and change what I’ve done but I cannot give up. I want to get back into the fight.

[@justanOldBird]

Pray for strength to stand up and be the man God intended. Sounds like the devil has foothold and you've surrendered a piece to him. You've got to take it back which means fight. ❤prayers for your strength

[@melaniedileo5232]

There is forgiveness in Christ. Don't give up.❤

[@garymahon1955]

I can relate, some, as i have backslidden into abominable sins for 20 years, but almost 2 yrs now, abstaining and overcoming. Had several near death experiences and repented of it. It was not a woman, but my weakness is women, and i hated being male for so long, as was rejected so much by women i wanted. Romance and female beauty were my idols!! I finally have woken up to my sins, even though i was baptized in 1981! King Manasseh was the most wicked Israelite king, but came to his senses later. Solomon aat the end of his life, apparently turned again to Yahwah or God. Ecclesiastes seem to show this, at the end of the book. I cry out to The Father and Christ often, for full forgiveness of my sick sins, and to restore a right spirit,and help me to embrace my masculinity and get rid of effeminacy. Pleas e do not give up. If this old fool can change, I know you can, too. It takes time and prayer, Bible reading and practice. I know i have a lot of changing to do yet.

[@TheRobjason99]

You did the first part brother by confessing and taking accountability.. God is the only True restorer and As long as you start with Him as your foundation this time and let His word guide your path you won’t fail… sure we will stumble because it’s a daily fight but God promised He won’t ever leave us or forsake us.. Get up and fight brother!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@safuan5941]

Glory to God for this most excellent sermon!

[@EOD1956]

Finally a man willing to speak the truth!

[@jamesogwuba9248]

Adam chose the wrong sacrifice....eyes openings.

[@sam_the_davidson]

Exactly.

[@tormodundheim259]

That hit me hard. Don't know why.

[@LeviNormandeau]

“Sin is knowing what is right and not doing it” James 1

[@DennisSlone]

One of the best sermons I’ve heard in a long time. Thanks and Amen!

[@MaximumWarp2099]

One of the best sermons I’ve ever heard. Thank you.

[@jello1847]

Man WOW this was convicting and incredibly ENCOURAGING thank you so much !!! God bless you brother !!!!

[@justinghavami1778]

Thank you for helping me understand how a man should act and behave.

[@jeanettejeanette1199]

God gave us very clear order in the bible, each has their own purpose, their own role, all to glorify God! :)

[@amw0207]

Amen! Thank you for standing courageously and sharing truth!

[@jeanpaulgartier3404]

Somehow "don't give your strength to women" wound up meaning "protect and provide for women"... Incredible good job

[@Fakeslimshady]

What else did you expect from the modern church? lol

[@rockkstah2550]

@@Fakeslimshady I call it western Selfianity..

[@Fakeslimshady]

@@rockkstah2550 If it is Selfianity, where are the sermons telling men to look after self?

[@claudiabailey5302]

I actually never thought it had anything to do with protecting and providing for women as a women

[@jeanpaulgartier3404]

@@rockkstah2550 tradcuck misandry is the name

[@jackjones3657]

As Sir Edmund Burke recognized: "All evil requires is that 'good' people do nothing." Interestingly the church has been at that point for decades and now the culture too is on the precipice of relativism at the highest levels.

[@akbrooks70]

Relativism started with the culture and church accepted/appeased it instead of fighting it.

[@johnwurfel2862]

Seems like the culture is relatively destroyed and the church is being corrected in a relatively direct way by Corona Virus Lockdowns, loss of donations, and persecution for any who live truth and obey by not partaking in the dying culture's idolaty, pharmakeia, and fear.

[@Fakeslimshady]

Are you implying the world follows the church? That the church has power to set trends? lol

[@studiobencivengamarcusbenc5272]

I do not care about the culture but seeing churches bow down to tyrannical nonsense that is insulting and slurring God disgusts me.

[@bibleforovercomers]

Thank you for addressing this subject - so very needed. No apologies & stay strong.

[@chrisd8363]

Amazing sermon. Extremely helpful for me. Thank you Toby. God bless you.

[@freshbeanne]

This was a masterpiece!

[@sheilaprice5202]

Thank you for such honest teaching preacher

[@724denise]

This was a true and positive message more men are needed to stand for the truth of God.

[@christopherwhite6006]

Praise your sermon!! The lord spoke through you Bless You and Praise Jesus!

[@TheMcGloneCode]

Do not give up** your strength to women

[@jamescook5617]

Wow. This should be required viewing for every youth group. Constructive counter-culturalism.

[@erroldintong615]

A big amen to this. It pierced my heart.

[@davidsumrell1070]

This was very good. Never heard of this man before..but well done 👏

[@andrewoconnor5605]

This is fantastic for 2018, hallelujah! God Bless You Ps. Toby, Peace

[@CanonPress]

Thanks for watching, Andrew!

[@kurtnyuli9095]

Thank you for having the courage to give this talk Toby. I hope God gives me the courage to live this out everyday.

[@nancypatricia511]

Courage is taken when your perspective of God is right and your surrender to God is full and absolute.

[@timsharpe6652]

Thank you for this . Powerful 😊 🙏

[@edwardsimmons7751]

The best message I've ever heard on the call of God to men of God who know that we must stand by the power of God against this present darkness. Sola Gratia, Sola Fide, Solus Christus, Sola Scriptura, Soli Deo Gloria!

[@studiobencivengamarcusbenc5272]

🤗💪🏼🤗

[@MiloDC]

I needed this. Thank you, and praise God.

[@evanharris672]

I needed that. Time to share with other males

[@tormodundheim259]

Loved this sermon. Not because it tickled my ear. It broke my heart instead. I wish this message found me earlier in my life.

[@bradgetz]

A good, strong word, sir.

[@ringforthrev]

Yea this one went deep. Incredible how one besetting sin over time can wreak havoc in every other part of your life. It is a pit I began digging decades ago. You sir, are a welcome hand that helped me climb out...no longer there, praise God. I had so much garbage in my head, reinforced over time(strongholds). Basically I have been soaking in a lot of you guys' content over the past two years. I knew at some point the good stuff would eventually have to outweigh the bad. The seismic shift came when I watched Doug's sermon "What It Means To Be Forgiven". All I know is, my sins are gone, I actually believe it now. Thank you so much for your channel.

[@dr.vonslifeinvesting6485]

I’ll have to watch that sermon seems the devil messes with me on letting go of bad thoughts, habits

[@VintageHart1]

I may have shared this 50 times… ❤️‍🔥

[@rosagoglia4649]

Wow, thank you.. it’s right on time

[@hugoalonsopalaciosibarra4690]

This was amazing.

[@ArcherProdz]

What an awesome message! I shared this 3x. Our family loves you Toby! You are a hard hitter. Respect 👊🏻 Molly Johnson

[@nicoleshepherd3665]

Wow. This is really, REALLY good.

[@chicohta]

Really great sermon. Especially at 44m. Reminded me of the old black & white movie called The Abdication.

[@ChristieJo]

Wow! This was great!

[@studiobencivengamarcusbenc5272]

This preacher satisfies my realism and my disgust for bullcrap - feminism makes physically since childhood and this is not an ironic comment. God bless clarity & courage 🤗🤗🤗

[@vbenitez5700]

Great teaching

[@topkapi9351]

This was amazing. What I needed to hear and will most likely need to hear again.

[@Ransetsu]

I'm watching this again for maybe the 5th time. It is perennial.

[@restoringheroesproject]

This is great.

[@The_Truth_Talk]

Jordan Peterson wrestles with ideas and truth. This man on the other hand proclaims the truth.

[@cosmictreason2242]

Good way of putting it.

[@brianbeach3897]

Wow love it!! Good job Toby

[@gareth3566]

This guy is amazing 👍👍👍

[@Jamestown5667]

Just found this preacher and I'm already subscribed ..thanks you for this great wisdom ♥️🙏🙏🙏

[@devanshusharma2772]

This reminds me of the importance of Brahmacharya (Hindu thought of divine celibacy)

[@Ransetsu]

I love this talk

[@TheSeeking2know]

I am convicted. Lots of lessons to learn as a man.

[@andrewhamm6498]

Thank you so much for your God given, hard hitting truths. A more convicting lecture would be hard to find! Jesus paid it all, all to Him we owe

[@regularguy3202]

This changed my life. Hit me right between the eyes. Thank you.

[@cosmictreason2242]

Username checks out

[@regularguy3202]

@@cosmictreason2242 si! Better than “unleaded guy!😂”

[@cosmictreason2242]

@Regular Guy I think Phil Collins would be _Supreme Guy._ “you can’t hurry love “

[@regularguy3202]

@@cosmictreason2242 I like Phil Collins.

[@gerardsymonette8906]

To simply take up this topic was valiant, and most of the message was good. There was some tap dancing though😏 which to me, was in effect, giving strength to women. Peace.

[@Siftedheart]

Amen thank you

[@ryanc1538]

Thank you

[@stopmayhem937]

Great sermon!

[@breynnbailey1287]

Cookies and cream with peanut butter! Yes! I am not the only one. 😋🤣 Another very good talk. Thank you.

[@MrBlackstone]

I feel so ashamed that this message will never be preached in my church

[@radekszafran1896]

Adam was the first simp

[@jblegend5272]

No he wasn’t

[@Jonathanped]

Thank you.

[@Kahoku53]

This is truth.

[@Kikuye]

Whenever I hear this man's voice, I just hear "Go home Beth Moore!" 😅

[@edbenjamin5136]

@@user-mx3kh8rj1t Beth Moore made it clear that she is not a proponent of CRT, but rather recognizes that the concern about racism in church history is now being attacked as a progressive heresy rather than discussing what God's justice has to say or teach us about not oppressing others.

[@cosmictreason2242]

@Ed Benjamin Beth Moore is a heretic and has been for decades

[@Hope-bh3ue]

This, this was hard to hear but I needed to hear it.

[@aliencasinobartender8735]

I did and it was horrible. She became narcissitic. Evil, stopped sleeping in the bed for three years. I felt i was losing my life. scary. Repented toward God and Filed. Praise God.

[@andrewsimpson8031]

A message for the men today.

[@susannahwhite7561]

Buy the TRUTH and sell it not; and wisdom and instruction and understanding. Proverbs 23:23

[@ebsss100]

Holy moly couldn’t believe this was posted 3 years ago… well it’s timely for me, thank you

[@jayjankowski8244]

Good message

[@robertclark9]

1969. A turning point in America that never should’ve happened. Betty Friedan and her book “how I make happy women miserable for $2.99” was on the shelves, the “new age” was just gearing up, and God became persona non grata. I remember it well. But not as well as God will remember.

[@gbolahanraje4213]

This video hits hard yo!!!!

[@CaptaenRon]

Wow!

[@garymahon1955]

Sadly, many men were abused as boys, and really fouled up at a young age, and many are old bachelors now, like me, 70yo. Spending our lives trying to recover from much abuse.

[@jeanettejeanette1199]

I recommend anyone to read Douglas Wilson's 'Raising boys to fight giants', it'll change your world!

[@melissahunnybee2you]

Good man.

[@junior3402]

@jordanpeterson should hear this

[@zhenyakc3586]

Amazin' 👏

[@ronaldwilliams1968]

My God Help Us

[@sergioadrianzampa8166]

Sacrifice Pleasure For Power... Semen Retention

[@nicobrits5111]

Interesting the lady hosting the meeting is Leila Karp. Maxism is always initiated by the Karps even in a place as remote as South Africa.

[@toddhurst4041]

Amen

[@withhim7800]

Praying the Lord will raise up a host of these kind of men. We women need them.

[@andreyemelyanenko5230]

Hallelujah

[@abba_alabanza]

really epic

[@markmedeiros6584]

Wow! I can’t remember the last time I heard a preacher preach on such a subject and with such straightforwardness and power. I’m ashamed to say that my marriage of 34! Years ended in divorce because I took a strong stand for the Lord the way he would have wanted too late after giving my strength to my wife for too long and when our son reached his teens and rebelled I took a stand and they both turned away from God and left me . She for another man long before the divorce. My son from his professed faith. I know I failed in many ways but especially I failed my Lord and savior. Thank you for this sermon .

[@dr.vonslifeinvesting6485]

So sorry but thank you for sharing I need to be a more obedient to God

[@toddcote4904]

Same here brother. I took a stand for Jesus once I realized the false doctrine of my pastors. But it was too little to late. My marriage of 20 years has ended and 2 of my 4 kids want no relationship now. I lost everything except my life and my 2 younger girls. I'm (the Lord is) rebuilding my life now and pressing on in obedience to God's word.

[@markmedeiros6584]

Praying for you Todd. God bless brother.

[@toddcote4904]

@@markmedeiros6584 Thanks brother