Do You GIVE Too Much?

[@nop5584]

i've been watching your videos and practicing your tactics. They worked. Especially "Bring it on" and calling problems challenges. Infact, they work so well, I was able to get the girl I've wanted for a while. She's hella hot and I thought I'd have no chance, but thanks to you I gathered up the confidence to try, and it worked. On top of that, I find that i'm a LOT more assertive, I speak and make jokes way more than I used to and I haven't felt any fear of getting cut off / not heard etc. I also was able to be satisfied with how I look, I thank you a LOT for your support

[@GetMoreConfidence]

Wow Nop, that's fantastic! Excellent work. Would you be interested in making a video for my Confidence Breakthroughs channel and tell your story as outlined above? If you'd prefer to remain anonymous I understand. However, if you're up for it that would be awesome!

[@nop5584]

Get More Confidence Sure thing, i'll get to it when i have the time. Currently i am not home, but whenever the oppurtunity comes i'll take it.

[@GetMoreConfidence]

Cool, thanks! Just hit me up and I'll send you some tips when you're ready.

[@azifhi6737]

I was giving too much to all the universe and getting nothing for 30 years even to my family to my mom giving anything and didnt get even love...and one day I exploded..

[@momione11]

Does not always be the one who just gives. But when a special energy is on I can not say no. Gets completely exhausted. Traced my soul. A hard work of 5 years. Has not in all relationships become like this. But when the special disgusting the energy is on. I'm losing myself.Also becomes physically ill.

[@ChezSophia_Inspirations]

You are absolutely right. It happened to me and when the resentment set in it took me a year or so to make that shift, set boundaries and get the balance right, where l give to myself adequately. Thank you for this video Dr. Aziz!

[@GetMoreConfidence]

Thank you, and congratulations on finding balance!

[@PracticalInspiration]

I'm new to the channel but I love the message. I understand the feeling of burnt out. Give quality, not quantity

[@GetMoreConfidence]

Welcome, I'm so glad to have you here! Be sure to take full advantage of all my free online resources too… 1) First, stay in the loop by going here and signing up for my newsletter: socialconfidencecenter.com/products/5-steps-to-unleash-your-inner-confidence/ In the process, you’ll receive my ebook that has helped thousands of people, “5 Steps To Unleash Your Inner Confidence.” You’ll also receive a lot of helpful tips and information on a regular basis as well as access to resources only available to subscribers. 2) Subscribe to my podcast here: www.ShrinkForTheShyGuy.com If offers great information for both men and women, including interviews with other leaders in the field of confidence and social anxiety. 3) Subscribe to my KZbin channel here. (Don’t forget to click on the notification bell icon!) I release at least one new video every week! kzbin.info 4) Follow me on Facebook! facebook.com/DrAzizGazipura/ 5) Browse through my published books on specific confidence issues and how to crush them! DrAzizBooks.com 6) Check out my next live event. These weekend intensive experiences are life changing! socialconfidencecenter.com/events/

[@tigersanchez98]

Hi I'm a huge fan of your videos and books! I'm currently reading Not Nice and as soon as I started this journey my life has changed and I've grown so much as a person. I absolutely love your content and what you're doing to help people. You truly have helped me bring out the best version of me. Thank you for everything I really hope you see this comment! P.S. I like your beard :)

[@GetMoreConfidence]

Thanks! When you're ready, check out my follow up to Not Nice here: www.OMOSBook.com

[@elizabethsantos6549]

This is great, thank you, I need to give less at work. I give and give and then am exhausted at the end of the day. Burnt out, exhausted yet!! Everything you say is how I feel. You are the thoughts in my head.

[@GetMoreConfidence]

It's a common set of challenges. Keep up the good work!

[@sami86don]

Impressive video. Already suggested the channel to my friends.

[@GetMoreConfidence]

Thank you so much! Don't forget to check out all my other online resources too! 1) First, stay in the loop by going here and signing up for my newsletter: socialconfidencecenter.com/products/5-steps-to-unleash-your-inner-confidence/ In the process, you’ll receive my ebook that has helped thousands of people, “5 Steps To Unleash Your Inner Confidence.” You’ll also receive a lot of helpful tips and information on a regular basis as well as access to resources only available to subscribers. 2) Subscribe to my podcast here: www.ShrinkForTheShyGuy.com If offers great information for both men and women, including interviews with other leaders in the field of confidence and social anxiety. 3) Subscribe to my KZbin channel here. (Don’t forget to click on the notification bell icon!) I release at least one new video every week! kzbin.info 4) Follow me on Facebook! facebook.com/DrAzizGazipura/ 5) Browse through my published books on specific confidence issues and how to crush them! DrAzizBooks.com 6) Check out my next live event. These weekend intensive experiences are life changing! socialconfidencecenter.com/events/

[@lyt_w8t]

the thing that scares me is that I don't make a decision! The giving comes out subconsciously / automatically before I know what I am saying and then after when I have stopped to think about what I've done... I think wow I'm like hemoraging energy! (money, time, physical energy etc.)

[@GetMoreConfidence]

You're not alone, these are common thought processes. Try exercising your newfound power on smaller matters at first and work your way up.

[@lyt_w8t]

it makes one fearful to interact with the world because you never know what you'll get yourself into unintentionally .

[@lyt_w8t]

thanks man, you are the best !

[@GetMoreConfidence]

You're welcome!

[@annesawadogo7466]

Thank you so much! Very helpful!

[@GetMoreConfidence]

Glad it was helpful!

[@danielalexander5510]

Awesome!!

[@GetMoreConfidence]

Thanks Daniel!

[@compassion-b8i]

Really nice upload Dr Aziz

[@GetMoreConfidence]

Thank you!

[@syedanaz6490]

As always awasome information love u as always

[@GetMoreConfidence]

So glad you're here!

[@ishratrahman6714]

The guilty sense was so severe for me that i hurt myself many times for others who later even didnt respect any of that

[@GetMoreConfidence]

It's a nasty circle isn't it? How will you avoid this in the future?

[@ishratrahman6714]

Well actually i dont need to avoid any circle. It was me who became the reason of my own sadness. I was giving them more importance than my ownself, without considering my own feeling. So, i have to shift that trait of mine, i need to give myself more attention, still helping out people but not giving them all my importance. I need to create healthy boundary between helping others and listening to what i want. Also i cant judge people why they dont respect what i did for them lol. Its their choice or nature so. But i can control what i am gonna do, how i am gonna react and how i can be happy. I learned alot things from your videos. So thank you so much....i meant it ^_^. Now i have learned speaking of what you want is not selfish....we cant take responsibility of everyone's happiness.

[@rani1835]

Your timing, Dr Aziz, is perfect! I really needed to hear this advice right now and I’m ever so grateful that you shared your wisdom. Watching your videos and listening to your book on Audible is part of some very important self-care/giving to myself. YOU ARE AWESOME 😀🙌🏽

[@GetMoreConfidence]

Thank you Izzy K! Also, be sure to take full advantage of all my free online resources… 1) First, stay in the loop by going here and signing up for my newsletter: socialconfidencecenter.com/products/5-steps-to-unleash-your-inner-confidence/ In the process, you’ll receive my ebook that has helped thousands of people, “5 Steps To Unleash Your Inner Confidence.” You’ll also receive a lot of helpful tips and information on a regular basis as well as access to resources only available to subscribers. 2) Subscribe to my podcast here: www.ShrinkForTheShyGuy.com If offers great information for both men and women, including interviews with other leaders in the field of confidence and social anxiety. 3) Subscribe to my KZbin channel here. (Don’t forget to click on the notification bell icon!) I release at least one new video every week! kzbin.info 4) Follow me on Facebook! facebook.com/DrAzizGazipura/ 5) Browse through my published books on specific confidence issues and how to crush them! DrAzizBooks.com 6) Check out my next live event. These weekend intensive experiences are life changing! socialconfidencecenter.com/events/

[@rani1835]

Thank you very much for sharing all these resources. I can’t wait to get stuck in! Best wishes to you and your family 🙂❤️🙏🏽

[@GetMoreConfidence]

Same to you Izzy K!

[@abbeypropertycare8081]

Very helpful

[@GetMoreConfidence]

Glad to hear that!

[@syedanaz6490]

I was not able to watch u for sometime because my husband was not well but now he is okay again i am free to watch ur videos

[@GetMoreConfidence]

I'm sorry to hear of your difficult times, and welcome back. :)

[@PracticalInspiration]

Good to hear he's ok 🙂

[@syedanaz6490]

thank you so much..but in my difficult times you were my strength bec what u taught that i put in practice and was positive

[@syedanaz6490]

thank u very much

[@GetMoreConfidence]

It's my honor to be of assistance!

[@marwanmohamed2500]

my saint

[@GetMoreConfidence]

That's very nice of you!

[@MrMrAzad]

Are you planning to write your 4th book? If so, have u picked the subject yet, what is it?! Also would love to see more interviews with Candace, doesnt matter what u talk about, ur connection is awesome to see^^

[@GetMoreConfidence]

Yes I am! I'll announce the subject in a timely manner. And yes to more Candace! :)

[@silungwe]

Thank you very much

[@GetMoreConfidence]

You're very welcome!

[@matethegreat1221]

Great video Dr. Aziz, I'm on the second read of your book Not Nice, it has helped me a lot in the past few months. You mentioned in the video that you incorporated "hacks" to extend your alone time. I'm curious as to what those hacks are.

[@GetMoreConfidence]

I've used many techniques including detailed scheduling including a polyphasic sleep schedule.

[@dearbrave4183]

Great advice! Thank you ❤️ Bdway this was 3 years ago, how far are you now in your French learning journey?

[@GetMoreConfidence]

Not as far as I would like. :)

[@dearbrave4183]

@@GetMoreConfidence If I may make a suggestion, try listening to kids cartoon in French regularly, like 'Titeuf'(comedy with episodes) Or the French version of the ones in English like Franklin, Tintin ( they also have episodes) The stories are interesting, they are very expressive and help to acquire the language and learn new vocabulary. France 24 for news in French or TV5 monde for other programs help a lot as well. That's what I did when I was learning French.

[@ibohinc]

You made me laugh about BTC. Yesterday it hits 40.000$. 😆 I'm into crypto for 5 years, but confidence issues brought me here. I'm in pain and you're commenting Bitcoin made my day. Thanks. ❤️

[@GetMoreConfidence]

Boom!

[@amaurypuello9802]

Dr the book 📖 is Spanish too

[@GetMoreConfidence]

?

[@syedanaz6490]

happy to be the first person to comment

[@GetMoreConfidence]

Yes!

[@wasifgill7298]

Aziz i am following your advice and taking risks in the area of dating and relationships but I am getting rejected over and over again. may be their is some thing wrong with me . recently got rejected today . A women showed interest in me so I started pursing her and it turned it she didn't liked me it was just a joke . if this doesn't prove that their is something wrong with me and I am unworthy of love i don't know what does. I followed your advice of taking risks and got hurted more than I ever did in the past . plzz reply I want to talk to you

[@GetMoreConfidence]

First, congratulations for getting out of your comfort zone and taking bold action! Being supremely confident doesn't mean you have magic powers and will prevail in every situation 100% of the time. Rejection is part of life, something we learn to handle and not affect us for more than a little while, if at all. We're still just human. :) And, if these's something causing more than usual negative reactions, for example your approach or conversational skills, that's just a skill you need to focus on and improve, it doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you at all. However, it can be hard to analyze what's happening on your own and outside input can be helpful. Hit me here and let's see if there's something we can do to boost your skills: www.socialconfidencecenter.com/coaching/

[@wasifgill7298]

Aziz can you finely end two of my biggest questions whose answer I had been looking for a dacade. 1 what's wrong with me 2 why people I am attracted to don't seem to like me back are reppled by me. I am like a crazed animal in a cage who is desperate for answer of these two question . plzz give answer

[@GetMoreConfidence]

Just look above at my last reply to you. :)

[@d4nortiz]

How much your BTC would’ve been today? Haha great content 👍🏻

[@miguelpress]

no more mr. nice aziz

[@GetMoreConfidence]

That's the spirit Miguel!

[@Veronica521M]

I give to much and forgive to much?

[@GetMoreConfidence]

Possibly. It's very common.

[@adwarbilly7994]

And you shave and you shave and you shave ......

[@GetMoreConfidence]

Sometimes daily!