Do You Put Your Relationship All Over Social Media?

[@jordis5789]

It's very simple; If you post a lot of "couple" or "love" pictures, you need validation from others. If you never, almost never or simply forget to post couple pictures because you have a good time, it means that you two are very sure of each other. 95% of what people post on social media, has a psychological reason behind it.

[@ellona3645]

My cousin is like this. She also shares their messages on Instagram stories. Like...... it's too much. Muted her, tired of seeing their relationship 24/7 😂

[@shutit4024]

@@ellona3645 I have a friend that does the same thing and she stay hoping from relationship to relationship it’s not a good look for a woman( men too) to be posting up your relationship with new people every damn 6months/year

[@Young4eva121]

@@ellona3645Yeah I never understood when people share private relationship texts on social media. It’s tacky in my opinion. It should be between you and your partner.

[@davidheaven8950]

Keep your Privacy & Private Life for yourself. That's a important asset.

[@X266.]

If you put your life on social media don't complain about people's opinion about it .

[@AfroAngola]

X226 Preach!!!

[@didi3016]

AMEN 👏👏👏

[@mercedeswilkins9085]

Yes

[@MelonySmith-rs5vi]

People posting multiple pictures of their significant other on social media all the time. Like that guy from Restaurant Impossible/Dinner Impossible and that annoying lady from TNA Impact Wrestling who is an ex WWE wrestler who post pictures of each other all the time like they have some doggone suffocating mental hold on each other. It is so annoying enough to make somebody throw up.

[@JO-vy3du]

I believe in privacy! My opinion.

[@StaceysYouTube]

I feel somethings are meant to remain private. Sharing every intimate, and sacred detail thing about one's relationship or marriage is a set up for yourself. Especially if your partner isn't cheer leading for you the way you do for them. Meanwhile expect people who once rooted for you take a seat and some popcorn and laugh when it all falls apart.

[@crissyc8260]

I actually plan on keeping mine private until there is an engagement. Maybe even until the ceremony. Or maybe we'll just randomly fly out to Vegas one day, who knows?!

[@SnowFoxParty]

As a young adult I learned to not do it because I have no ring on my finger and this relationship can fall apart leaving me to delete alot of photos

[@jonav4489]

How pretentious can you be to think that posting about your love life is "inspirational"?

[@jasmyne332]

Agreeee

[@ThePlumbobiana]

Anything can be inspirational

[@butterflyygyrlsworld5106]

Jona V EXACTLY! 🤦🏽‍♀️🤣

[@PoeticJustice05]

Jona V A lot of people think they are inspirational.

[@ineedhoez]

Right?

[@Alyssamp97]

I don’t post my relationship on social media because everyone doesn’t need to know who I’m with! I also don’t need anyone thinking their apart of that relationship, the only people who need to know who I’m with is my family and my closest friends! If we make past the 6 months then he’s meeting my family like my siblings my grandparents and my cousins! He’s always meeting my parents first hand, and if we make it a year I’ll start posting very little of him but never will I Post something with his face in it! I’ve learned from experience that if you Post your relationship everyone thinks their apart of it and they have a say so with what goes on! And when I post stuff like memes about our relationship I don’t tag him! And he’s does the same, we just don’t share who we’re with!

[@LongAwaitedBaby]

Good point. The world does NOT need to know who our partner is and who our ex is.

[@sucram1015]

@Brittany Lynn Or maybe she just wants it private.

[@candy2325]

Brittany Lynn that’s a bit of a stretch. It’s just all about privacy. Only people who are super insecure of their status would think someone is cheating just because they don’t post. It’s not that serious.

[@Alyssamp97]

Mr. Obama Jr. Why thank you

[@Alyssamp97]

Brittany Lynn first off sweetheart I wouldn’t ever cheat my momma taught me better than that, I was simply raised with old fashion values which I hold deeply on to now after being cheated on multiple times and etc. If a female feels the need to flaunt their relationship over social media then that’s their preference, Not everyone who keeps their relationship off social media is cheating or hiding their relationship they just want privacy! What’s sad is we live in a time where it’s expected to throw these type of things out there just to prove you love that person or that we’re officially together, I don’t need or want people who aren’t my family or closet friends involved in my private life because they aren’t the ones who know me the way my family and friends do and I ESPECIALLY DON’T NEED APPROVAL FROM ANYONE BUT MY FAMILY AND FRIENDS! But thank you for your opinion on how you think a relationship is automatically like if you don’t post it and I pray that the good lord helps you see what a relationship should truly be about I hope you continue to have a good day or night.

[@brooklynforever1990]

People over share on social media are over compensating plain and simple. You are looking for outside validation. An occasional post no problem but all the extraness, nope keep it to yourself. And claiming you're inspiring people with your relationship? LOL stop it. I know quite a few couples who post up their great moments on social media, but we all know the dirt behind the scenes.

[@LongAwaitedBaby]

Some people post about how great their partner is. They even post provocative pictures of their partner.

[@allhailsunshine052]

Me too it’s all a lie . Someone I know posted how he met his gf and he wrote some cringe love story . Me being actually in that moment, I know what went down 😂 like why didn’t you put where you told all of us that she is not your type ??? Looolll don’t be fooling everyone .

[@jazcruz3937]

@@allhailsunshine052lmaooooooooooooo

[@Kerokeroppi07]

I believe in privacy but at least declare me as his girlfriend. I don't need him to post me everyday.

[@Noname19980]

Perfect 👌🏼

[@NaturallyMeNaomi]

😱😱😱 Shannon!!!!! That's really cool seeing someone you watch on YT on TV! 👏🏾👏🏾

[@MegaCadette55]

you are still watching her on YT tho lol

[@NaturallyMeNaomi]

Rosa lol true!!

[@MegaCadette55]

+Naturally Me Naomi 😂😂 you are so pretty! makeup slayed to the gawwwdsss

[@NaturallyMeNaomi]

Rosa awww thanks girl!! 😊

[@MegaCadette55]

@Naturally you re welcome

[@ShaeMonique]

YASS SHANNON!!! ON NATIONAL TV WITH MY FAV COMEDIAN. Getcha lifee sis

[@mrsingh2005]

T

[@AshleysJoys]

Tierian La'Shae right!!! ❤️❤️❤️

[@Mizzwurie]

mrsingh2005 yes I love her

[@VONiiE8]

Honestly, I came to the comments to see if anyone else recognizes her. Like yes sis, from KZbin to National TV. Work, sis!!

[@dashelledisna6239]

Yass . Garcelle is my true Haitian sister.. Ring and a date. I aint flaunting no man. He has to do flaunt me 1st.

[@MegaCadette55]

preach! lotta women outta here don't get it! SAD!

[@LadeOla]

It's common sense to be honest, but sadly common sense is not common

[@ladymay7789]

I say NO...NO...NO. If you're posting, or in most cases OVERSHARING your relationship (especially if it's a rebound) all over social media, to me, you're desperately seeking validation not only from yourself but from others as well when you know that at some point that relationship might/will not go the distance.

[@BreenyLee]

Shan killed this one!

[@tamesechristian6020]

No. Keep it to yourself. I don’t need that plastered all over my newsfeed especially since I’m having a hard time with this part of my life. Plus nobody cares I know I sound angry/bitter but that’s my truth that’s what I struggle to deal with on the daily

[@courtneyballard1452]

But they won't show the bad times lol

[@Jemso999999999]

Its all a lie

[@sucram1015]

😂😂😂😂😂 Some do. But we all see what takes place.

[@JamesbryantBryant]

Sometimes when people post all their business on social media, I always wanna comment who the hell cares. I might do that one day.

[@shutit4024]

Same have you?

[@Noname19980]

Yes same here

[@mitty2575]

It’s easy to remove people off social media😂

[@jayg5391]

Based.

[@candy2325]

😂😂

[@ebonimakedaaa]

YASSS Shannon!! She made it to NATIONAL TV! From a fellow Canadian, congratulations! Get it!

[@FrauIndian]

I personally would not want my relationship shared all over fb. I am single but I like my privacy.

[@quitecontrary23]

I want to hear more conversations like this about navigating social media. Steve was onto something there at the end about knowing how much to show.

[@40III]

If you’re gonna post about your relationship on social media then you definitely should wait at minimum 6 months depending the level of chemistry you’re able to build. Things can change so drastically and you can look like a complete fool if it takes a turn for the worse. Gotta be careful with social media.

[@Noname19980]

Plus I wouldn’t post on social media every time you get a new girlfriend/boyfriend people talk behind closed doors

[@candy2325]

I highly agree. I’ve been dating for years and there’s not one photo of my boyfriend on my Instagram page.

[@imcharmed4evr]

Shan made it on Steve Harvey! Woot! She doin big things all the time! 💖

[@glam_queen9502]

Completely agree I see couples doing the most on social media meanwhile the guy is cheating.. I’d say wait until you get married/ one or two posts are ok but you shouldn’t really put everything about you’re relationship online.

[@classysis6264]

Sometimes he be giving std to the girl, yet they out there acting like everything was perfect 🤣

[@Noname19980]

@@classysis6264 I see that too

[@TheBritfashionista]

For me I'm not posting you until we are married.I made that mistake before,luckily I didn't claim him as my boyfriend.I just posted the picture.They didn't know who he was.So it was easy for me to delete it without anybody asking me what happened.

[@godwillbongani5240]

I found that people are very secure the ones who dont have their agenda why date a guy if u dont think things will work 🤷‍♂️this is why we say people that dont post are hiding something whats wrong with showing people how much i love someone

[@Young4eva121]

@@godwillbongani5240 I think the video is referring to the people who constantly post their relationship over and over multiple times a day etc. if you’re happy and in love, posting once in a while is completely normal in my perspective

[@stektirade]

I say anyone who is shoving their life down peoples throats they don't know is attention seeking big time.

[@afrahrage5165]

SHANNON YOU BETTER GET YOUR SHINEEEEEEEE 💓💓💓💓

[@samsamhassan261]

Waa lagu salamay hun

[@nickylnr]

I feel like Steve is auditioning females for a new talk show

[@br.3anna]

nicky rosey that makes so much sense I can she him having Marjorie on as a host

[@UnyikQueen]

Good point

[@Kelly101Girl]

Hmmmm u may be right What ever happened to to the talk show Tamar was suppose to had been on that Steve Harvey was producing 🙄😏😐😂

[@Jay-jb2vr]

@@Kelly101Girl Tamar??? Lmfao really HAHAHAHAHA

[@Raniko2020]

I'm on the tail end of Gen X. my ex was early whatever was after that. one of our disagreements was over her putting everything all over her facebook page. I was against everyone online knowing everything about our personal business. and i mean everything. I was fine with the 'in a relationship' status bit, but no one but the two of us needs to know about where we went to eat last night, how good the kissing was, etc.

[@lex.mordecai]

Shannonnnnnn! I’m so happy for herrr ♥️♥️♥️

[@AJTho]

If you want to post your relationship on SM , be my guest. If you want to show us how you're cuddling and eating together and going out shopping, go on girl, do your thing. But why is it the moment you two break up... there are no more updates ? You have gotten me SO invested into your story and now when it goes bad you punk out ? seriously ? if you want to be real then be real, show the good the bad and the ugly. If you're not doing that or are prepared to do that, buy a book, print out your picture and show that sh*t to your family and friends. Otherwise you're just an attention seeker, own up to it.

[@selenajoefield3104]

Facts

[@Noname19980]

Right

[@allhailsunshine052]

Tru

[@giabrooks2717]

I agree don't place your relationship on social media without a ring and a date. It doesn't make any sense that you with someone one minute, then you break up with them on the next. Then you repeat again and again and again.

[@fredwilliams4592]

@@k.t1000 A marriage is a bigger commitment. And while there's no guarantee that a marriage will work, it's better to post them when married than to have a bunch of photos of the people you've simply dated plastered all over your social media. dating relationships are more susceptible to end at any given moment. it just doesn't look good to have various people you were simply in a dating relationship on your social media page and to have to keep changing your relationship status.. Marriage is more serious and sacred. plus when you are married your relationship is legal recognized whereas if you're simply in a dating relationship you are technically single.

[@kujas]

personally i find it a bit narcisstic to post your relationship on social media but do you.

[@LongAwaitedBaby]

Some people find it narcissistic.

[@LongAwaitedBaby]

Imagine if you met up with someone who was interested in you, and this person stated on social media that they were in a relationship with you.

[@tammilynnhenderson1621]

I think it’s not anyone else choice to tell someone what to Do with their social media. It’s all about how u want to do things, I personally feel that to many people hide things though and if they hiding things theirs a reason! Every single time!

[@MRJAZZ1959]

Those that walk in fear walk in darkness. Garcelle is not someone to take any type of interpersonal relationship advice from. Her life and relationships speak to that.

[@aliscia09]

Our relationship is beautiful and we are engaged now and we are not ashamed of our love, why not? Let’s share our happiness!!

[@Young4eva121]

I think they’re referring to the people who constantly post their relationship over and over multiple times a day etc. if you’re happy and in love, posting once in a while is completely normal. Best of luck to you and yours ❤

[@travis6694]

No, most of the time you are projecting false happiness.

[@godwillbongani5240]

Nope the ones who are private are the sneaky ones

[@KimBrce]

I've noticed couples who constantly post about their relationship feel very insecure and are not really happy behind the scenes. Another story is posting your baby.. i think this is way too sacred to post.

[@Young4eva121]

That’s true. How do you feel about people who make an announcement relationship post? Like they get together and they announce to social media that they’re starting their journey together as boyfriend / girlfriend?

[@madiperez6073]

When u put stuff out there it becomes everybody's business. And if I have an opinion that u might not like and u say it's not my business well u made it public. It means I get to say what I want to say because it's public information.

[@pay4739]

YES SHAN!!!!! so proud!

[@AdamantMindset]

"almost" every couple that does it, is to brag about it tbh.

[@flawlessstone7669]

I am loving the new show for Steve,Ladies taking over.

[@VONiiE8]

Shannon!!! From Those Girls Are Wild to Steve Harvey!! I’m here for this 😩

[@MickeyR6]

Finding a woman off of Social Media is like finding a woman who can cook! Rare!

[@JVL8A]

SHAN💖

[@Recklyss]

OMG! So glad to see Shannon get her shine!

[@denaspell8125]

YES ring on it and then you can post IF YOU WANT TO.

[@mercedeswilkins9085]

To a certain extent. Not all the time, though and dont be talking about your sex life, break ups, etc.

[@chanyisme]

I'm not even friends with my SO on social media 😂.

[@sasjaparson8090]

Yes it these new age folks are sharing to much and to quick🤣Like if u was in love last week en now next month u break up u have to delete everything. Nah to much work sorry. People want to show out for attention nowadays and all this flexing can go very wrong. Do it at when you are absolutely sure this person is here to stay in your life.

[@princessingrid6209]

Na but when I get married I will have to update that am married

[@zairaperez4]

I love you stevetv😊 i hope you get 2millonsub i am really sick😞 today i don't felling well god bless you all you to stevetv😇💟😇💟😇💟😇

[@EllenBanda]

Yas! Shannon so proud

[@CarAmeL624]

SHANNON!!!!!!!!! Great to see you here girl 😀🙌🙌

[@trayhollis9685]

My girlfriend is on social media 24/7 I just wanted her to realize I'm in love with her

[@Young4eva121]

Are you guys still together ❤

[@allhailsunshine052]

It’s defo for validation and compensation lol there’s this couple who lives together and still posts about each other and those cringy appreciation posts like gurlll don’t u live and see each other like everyday say it to each other in person LMFAO who u tryna convince 😂😂 let’s not forget they also post their baby too like keep the child out of your show

[@Young4eva121]

Facts. Thank you ❤

[@ninawaryaro9415]

Ring that's it

[@Young4eva121]

Period

[@bdoti1822]

Why is everyone talking about Shannon. Where is she from?👀

[@anniebello2273]

Bdoti she’s a KZbinr

[@Recklyss]

She's dope. From the 6 and is cool as hell in real life!

[@Pharaohdefowl]

I've been single for a yr and a month and all these gurls on social medias are childish and are hard to find bc I get called names and stuff. That's why I'm ready to find my Latino heat other half

[@scottelkinsmedia]

It happens all the time. OMG THE LADY IN BLACK THOUGHHHHH WOOOOWWW SHES FINE.......

[@aderianramiah5476]

Steve is a LEGEND...

[@ohhdanggx94]

SHANOOOONNNNN!!! Omgsh! So excited for her to be in Steve harvey!!!!!

[@sahadaouattara]

it's fancyyyy.she's very old school.I like her

[@carlissa711]

SHAN ❤❤

[@nande5661]

Gooooo Shannnnon!

[@JuanitaMichelle]

Garcelle Beauvais seems scorned. Her perspectives are kinda jaded to me.

[@evewatts4913]

Shanboody!!! ❤️❤️I love her!

[@UnyikQueen]

I talk about my relationship on social media ☺️ I feel like I’m being hidden if I’m with someone who doesn’t ☺️ That’s my opinion though!!

[@omphilemoerane2569]

I feel exactly the same. We don't have to post everything we do but one picture is enough for me to feel that the person is proud to be with me and wants to make it clear that they are no longer available.

[@aydanjamison122]

Keona Jordan Music & Tips don’t feel like that ladies. I don’t post pictures nor do I post about my relationship on social media because 1. It’s nobody business only people I actually socialize with know about my boyfriend as long as I’m showing and giving love and being a awesome girlfriend that I am then me posting a picture up shouldn’t be a mandatory thing and I believe that’s the same for your men as long as people know about you and he treats well and gives you genuine love that’s what matters the most ❤️

[@UnyikQueen]

Omphile Moerane agreed ☺️

[@UnyikQueen]

Andrea Jamison I definitely respect your opinion but it’s mandatory for my relationship lol. Not all day everyday day, but occasionally he should definitely talk/post me on his page. ☺️

[@Ccollinsthe1]

Not gonna lie... I side with Garcelle.. until it's a ring evolved.. I dont wanna be on your social media. And you not on mine. I'm not in your phone.. and you not in mine.. I read these threads.. and I see only women saying they wanna be there. I think women naturally seek validation.. I'm not bashing.. so please don't take it that way.. but until me as a man desides to put a ring on it.. your stuff if yours and my stuff is mine.. I dont even follow my significant other on social media. Cuz I do not want to see comments of other men giving heart emojis under my woman pics. And she doesn't follow me either

[@mleekahh]

I LOVE SHAN BOODU

[@SweettCurls]

Omg Shan!!

[@prossynakamyuka2260]

Your de best Steve, yo right I do what I wanna do

[@ndnadia9]

GIRL! I SEE YOU I SEE YOU ON STEVE HARVEY SHOW!

[@nattie2355]

If he doesn't post in this day in age it's because your not really his gf period. I'm not saying post a pic everyday but one pic would be good enough because it's embrassing for that girl when she's out with her man , and he's see one of his good friends and they say hi and who are you lmaoo. What there saying sounds good but for me I need to be known by the public as well as just having close family and friends knowing who I am

[@sucram1015]

So you need validation from the public that they need to know your with someone instead of the relationship itself bascially.

[@godwillbongani5240]

@@marnie1565 mam people need to know ur in a relationship has nothing to do with validation most people who cheat r the so called private ones because of their insecurities they think everyone's will hurt them honestly if keep yr partner a secret and people dont know ur dating whats stopping guys from hitting on u they will think ur single since ur private honestly ur the one that needs to grow up u sound emotional unavailable

[@godwillbongani5240]

@@sucram1015 thats her choice why does it bother u yall private people r known for cheating thats why

[@godwillbongani5240]

@@marnie1565 i dont know u nd i dont need to know u if u prefer keeping things private thats u but most people who do that often r cheating so u do u but leave those who prefer posting its none of yr business if a person wants to post their partner

[@godwillbongani5240]

@@marnie1565 as long as u dont behave like ur single then there is no problem nobody cares about ur relationship but as i said some people post to show boundaries that dont try anything thats all

[@basilhenry-eyo6522]

Nahhh... please don't ever share your relationship on social media, like the saying is "keep your accomplishments and relationships private because people love to ruin good things"!

[@nolor8397]

Does it even matter??

[@cynthiatanaka1098]

Dear cute couples l don't who needs to hear this but one day you shall delete all those photos you posted whilst crying....... So it's for the best not to post anything

[@XOM1231]

So were engaged still she wont put me on social media never even put engaged is that not important enough?

[@Nosey855]

My girl Shannon!

[@HabA-qn1nv]

Shan Boody 🤣

[@Christian-xw8ne]

No.

[@fatimah1]

Love you Shan!!

[@RoyalMasterpiece]

Team Garcelle ❤️

[@mitty2575]

Ugh Garciel looks annoyed all the time.. no wonder she’s alone. Didn’t care for her on The Real either

[@tuesdayaddams666]

no Steve, ITS A BOOK...

[@sqoishicasette]

*I'm here after their breakup news so...*

[@KristieBach]

I would never

[@vasht7976]

Hell! No!

[@zippyblessed839]

I say NO !!!!

[@asia5964]

GO SHANNON!

[@LP-wf4uj]

YESSSSSSS Shannon I luv when she on

[@richardkasoma2870]

I like you Steve. .💃💃

[@avianalaureano8264]

I believe in love I’m gonna find my true love I’m only 19 gonna be 20 in two months and I’ve got time

[@CandanceOnline]

I’m sorry but if I come across a very FINE attractive looking guy & he’s posting about himself but there’s no signs of a significant other or girlfriend or any body or even anything about him dating anyone I’m going to automatically assume he’s a 💯% single and I can mingle with him and possibly get with him especially if he’s not given any type of inkling he’s even dating a girl. Now it’s a little different if he’s saying he has a girlfriend , but there’s some guys who don’t even give you any inkling or any sign that he has a significant other or girlfriend or anything it’s just pictures of him hanging out with his buddies and friends and of himself and etc but nothing of a inkling he’s with anyone now that’s a different story then a guy who may not post his girlfriend on his Instagram or Twitter but he’s letting the women know hey I’m not available to me I’m just keeping my girlfriend private now I respect a guy who can do this but sadly there’s not many guys who do this .

[@toni-annmonique8960]

Shannnnnn💖💖💖💖💖💖💖

[@mariebbgon]

"If you break up, you'll have to delete everything" - eh, why? If this person was a part of my life for some time, I don't need to hide it. Like I don't delete pictures of friends I've lost contact with. On the other hand, I don't change boyfriends every month, so I don't need to be ashamed of my love life or justify it to anyone. When I broke up with my ex, I wrote a post for my close friends on social media explaining what happened. I also do post my boyfriend's face on social media from time to time, because if we are travelling together, why the secrecy? I asked him beforehand and he gave me his permission. Also, what are these negative comments everyone is talking about? I never got a negative comment about my relationship online. (Advice: You can ban the trolls.) No, wait, once someone said my bf wasn't sexy and they wouldn't sleep with him, so I was like: "Lol good, nobody invited you anyway".

[@candy2325]

Hopefully you changed your mind on this thought process..

[@christylouis2611]

Isnt Shan the polyamrous chick

[@thegemunique7478]

All that keeping life and relationships and things private goes out the window once you build platform open those doors be apart of entertainment industry💯😘

[@missuniquebeauty100]

Shanbooty heyyy!!👋🏾

[@Gregimus]

Hell no!