Do you think you’re ready for marriage

[@WhatTheFWAFA14]

I was obsessing over marrying someone and we both have a lot to learn and fix with Allah. I think I should start praying to be a better person!

[@meiiilin]

Yeah that’s the best thing to do focus on Allah and you

[@maimunasaw]

"Scratch out the timeframes" not only for marriage, but in general - yaaaaas, love the honest and raw insights

[@meiiilin]

Absolutely

[@4bdl224]

Also do not just scratch it out for the sake of it. Work on yourself and make the actions for it to happen. Otherwise it would be a mistake in my humble opinion.

[@SheCanSmile]

this was so wise. i needed to get close to Allah first; I realise this now when I look back at my life.

[@meiiilin]

Honestly we’re all learning together sis ❤️

[@f4iry__mermaid245]

"Are you a good person to deserve a good person"

[@fridawsbamba1641]

Exactly what I always ask

[@1OddlyOdd]

Very few women are actually ready for marriage very very few most are incredibly dependent on so many different things except Allah swt. May Allah make us from the people He loves and grant us people who remind us of Allahs love

[@meiiilin]

Ameen Ameen but I don’t agree with this sentiment, many great women out there focusing on Allah swt and themselves

[@_-FreePalestine-_]

The more I focus on my relationship with Allah SubhanahuWaTa'ala, the less I obsess over marriage.

[@meiiilin]

100%

[@ousmanjarra-r5y]

May Allah put Baraka in our time.

[@meiiilin]

Ameen

[@ServantOftheMostHigh]

This touched my soul right where it hurts the most. ❤. May Allah bless us with the best. Amiin Jazakillahu khairah sister 😇

[@meiiilin]

Ameen ya rabb sis & for you too, sending love ❤️❤️

[@Orooj]

I 100% agree with you on this! I’ve honestly have been doing this myself and I’ve placed the rest in Allah’s hands. Thank you for the great video!

[@meiiilin]

As you should bbe & may Allah swt bring you your person

[@Orooj]

@@meiiilin Thank you lovely! InshAllah for you as well :)

[@PrinceLpez]

Hi sister I agree when u said a good men is for good woman I know Allah is going to bring me a good Woman to be wife ❤🎉

[@fridawsbamba1641]

​@@PrinceLpezhope u are a good guy urself

[@kitt7477]

From a wife of 25 yrs, marriage is NOT about cooking & cleaning, but it’s about obeying & conforming yourself.

[@meiiilin]

Definitely not about cooking and cleaning 😭😭 May Allah continue to bless your marriage 💓

[@aasiyahfauzi3262]

completely agree on your views on marriage, another close companion of the prophet, Um Aymen, who was like a mother to him married Zayd ibn Harith after the hijrah to madeenah and gave to Usama ibn Zayd, one of the most beloved children to the prophet, at quite an ‘old’ age, marriage, children, theyre all according to His timing, if its not meant for us in this dunya, its promised in jannah

[@meiiilin]

Absolutely, all His timing which is always the best. Jazakallahu khair for the reminder

[@muritalasikirullah3814]

This is honestly insightful. BarakaLlahu fiik

[@meiiilin]

❤️❤️❤️

[@samiraosman46]

love this, and i like your personality, feels like im listening to a friend! May Allah increase you in goodness and knowledge

[@meiiilin]

Thank you!! We are at this point 😂, Ameen and for you too 💕

[@farukmukhtar]

sure thing, Allah's time is the best

[@OmarIbnAlKhattabIsMyRoleModel]

You're the only person i listen to the podcasts of. I'm the most impatient person to exist and i can't keep up with long videos,i skip them but you!!! You sound like a Big sister giving advice on deen. Thankyou so much for being here and giving us a chance to learn from you. Love these!❤

[@meiiilin]

aww I’m honestly honoured 🥹❤️because there are some great podcasts out there

[@amaduimurana9825]

May Allah Almighty grant u more knowledge (Beneficial one ) Meiiilin.❤❤❤

[@meiiilin]

Allahumma ameen and you too

[@Thereadinghoek]

sis, I know so many people that met their person and they don't even pray. it's alway good to grow closer to Allah and become a better muslim but that's not always the reason why your marriage is delayed.

[@By_Aleeya]

MashAllah sweetie. You have spoken on this topic with such maturity and wisdom and given practical tips to help your audience. May Allah bless you and keep you on this path to success. Ameen 🩷

[@meiiilin]

Ameen and you too, Jazakallahu khair habiba 💕

[@MonyB-c3w]

wise words, from a wise woman. Ma Shaa Allah.

[@princess0176]

This literally came at the right time x

[@meiiilin]

Alhamdulilah ❤️

[@Deek_kimiko18]

Yea sis that's true we will expect to get good ones in the near future .

[@shehudeennurudeenolusholao8039]

Wa Alaykum Salam Waramotullahi Wabarakatu. Maasha Allah.

[@meiiilin]

Waleykum Salam

[@aspengrey1898]

I remember when I was dumped by a guy and each time I opened my facebook page, someone was married. I stopped using Facebook. Now I'm in my studies. I don't think about marriage anymore 7:32

[@meiiilin]

Alhamdulilah a blessing 💕

[@shimmer4771]

I am 26, a virgin. I was a little stressed about marriage. I need to focus on Allah and hus guidance. Then, when the time's right, Inshallah, he will send me a good husband.

[@meiiilin]

Ameen and may He reward you ❤️

[@manouk6725]

This jilbab looks beautiful on you Allahuma Barik

[@meiiilin]

Ameen! Jazakallahu khair ❤️❤️❤️

[@Phauzia549]

Thank you! Your videos are consistently helpful and appreciated ❤

[@meiiilin]

Alhamdulilah ❣️❣️❣️❣️

[@bilalnekere3811]

Ma sha Allah how are you doing

[@monchez254]

Masha'Allah habibi

[@sabibabee7776]

Merci from Paris Meiliiin❤

[@meiiilin]

❤️🇫🇷

[@yumgatto467]

But I'm a teenager and I've had negative experience as growing up in my whole childhood i saw domestic abuse and i fear marriage so much and whenever my mom brings a topic about it i cry alot and it is my biggest fear. I have told my mom multiple times that i will never marry to which she responds that i shouldn't be saying this as Allah s.w.t could get angry with me. Also in our culture there's no such things as being ready for marriage for a girl they just set a specific age 22 which my mom told is perf for it uhh Its just creeps me out . Its just sooo scary man . I swear whenever i get a thought of marrying i cry so much 🥺💔

[@yumgatto467]

@@user-ge3ut2bk5l omg you're so sweet Ameeen . May Allah grant you the best spouse for you too who you would find peace with and who would be exactly up to your standards and desire Ameen❤️❤️❤️

[@loveislam3801]

Assalam o Alaikum, FOR THE SAKE OF ALLAH I LOVE YOU SISTER Alhamdulillah❤

[@meiiilin]

Waleykum Salam, love you all for His sake too ❤️❤️❤️

[@loveislam3801]

@@meiiilin May He for Whose sake you love me, love you” أَحَبَّـكَ الّذي أَحْبَبْـتَني لَه ' 🫀

[@meiiilin]

@loveislam3801 Ameen ya rabb ❤️❤️

[@loveislam3801]

@@meiiilin ❤️🫂

[@WhatTheFWAFA14]

My question is how to even find husband when you’re a busy doctor in residency

[@meiiilin]

Honestly it’s all about leaving it in the hands of Allah He’ll place you right where you need to be to find your person in sha Allah

[@fatimamrabat6140]

I love you so much sistre

[@meiiilin]

Ilym 🥹❤️

[@Maryam-rw7cx]

❤❤❤❤

[@ilmam9603]

Which verse is the one about change and the mountains

[@meiiilin]

Sorry I don’t know if I said verse, but it’s a Hadith

[@maryammalik1374]

😊

[@zakiyufuggfgghhufeidshuaib7857]

Assalamu Alaikum, jazakallahu

[@meiiilin]

Waleykum Salam, wa yakia

[@fatima.muhd_]

🤍🤍🤍

[@meiiilin]

❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@sadafjamal5451]

What about one sided love

[@meiiilin]

It’s okay to be a loving person but go where your energy is reciprocated

[@Aymana44]

Let us just not get married🙄

[@meiiilin]

Wait wdym 😂😭

[@Aymana44]

@@meiiilin It's just I see it when a girl or a woman wishes for marriage she looks stupid, especially when they ain't successful and it's so frustrating

[@Qalaska]

@@meiiilin Asalama alaykum sister can I have your email address please

[@ludwigrando5603]

Yees this is very good but auran says very clearly, islam cang married no islam, only islam or believer slaves 2 sura 2.221 Im not married islam believer muslim woman

[@meiiilin]

Yes a Muslim women we can only marry Muslim men

[@yourtravelmate4767]

❤❤❤❤❤

[@meiiilin]

❤️❤️❤️❤️