Me and my soon to be wife are becoming Muslim before marriage, may Allah SWT bless all of you and us
@pontsomotsau77932 жыл бұрын
Alhamdulillah, May Allah bless you, your wife to be and your marriage. May it be a means for you to enter Jannah. Ameen.
@faridaashu2 жыл бұрын
Ma shaa Allah. May Allah make it easy for you, and guide, have mercy upon you, and bless you through it.
@micgreenson73082 жыл бұрын
@@pontsomotsau7793 thank you so much 😊
@micgreenson73082 жыл бұрын
@@faridaashu thank you so much 😊
@faridaashu2 жыл бұрын
@@micgreenson7308 my pleasure.
@Aisha25602 Жыл бұрын
I don't regret change from a Christian to a Muslim am so happy and I believe in Allah
@Tinkerbell-d3j5 ай бұрын
🎉Congratulations🎉 welcome to Islam ❤❤
@nushratsharmin84023 ай бұрын
SubhanAllah
@SkyRapidIT3 ай бұрын
Ma Shaa Allah. May Allah keep guiding you.
@diengdieng90952 ай бұрын
ALHAMDOULILLAH 💚
@miski33897 ай бұрын
1. Attraction (mutual interest in both sides) 2. Istikhara (positive response from your istikhara) 3. Core values (he meets your core values) 4. Compatibility (your personalities complement each other) 5. Goals ( Your main life goals align) 6. Lifestyle (your lifestyle align) 7. Family (they are in agreement with your marriage!) 8. Protection ( he is protective over you in a healthy way!) 9. Providing (he is able to provide for you)
@wilstarmbel2 жыл бұрын
This is a great video. I’m a Christian and felt my ex husband trapped me to believe he was a good Godly man. Once wee got married he went back into a life of smoking weed and he stopped going to church. We where married for 18 years and we have 4 beautiful children. So much more to mention on here. Currently I’ve felt God is leading me to Islam. Over the last 6 months I’ve been studying the Quran and praying much. Please pray for me sisters. I currently have a lovely Muslim man who has become my friend. He has been a blessing. We have met a couple of times in public places. He’s full of respect and it has came equally for both of us. He’s from Oman and I’m from Ireland. I’m praying much about this situation as well. My next husband will have to be a very Godly man I won’t settle for anything less.
@mafahkiz18632 жыл бұрын
Aww. May Allāh keep your heart firm on His religion, may He also ease your affairs and bless you with a pious husband who will be the coolness of your eyes and you will be the coolness of his eyes too. Aamiin.
@wilstarmbel2 жыл бұрын
@@mafahkiz1863 thank you for your lovely words 🌻☘️
@momadeabudo6374 Жыл бұрын
God bless you sister
@Amina-vo8vk Жыл бұрын
look into Islam sister, that should be your first priority may Allah open your heart to accepting Islam and becoming a muslim
@sumayaasadi8339 Жыл бұрын
Sorry dear may Allah give Mr.who is a Muslim inshallah but u should also convert to Islam
@be_usherseif4396 Жыл бұрын
Am still here praying to The Almighty Allah to bless me with a good husband, am 35 but I have faith that I will eventually get married when Allah wills.
@HannahBrowsley7 ай бұрын
Insha allah
@muhammadawais61265 ай бұрын
Insha Allah❤
@naimajannah50782 жыл бұрын
My sisters, you can't study a man fully before marriage. You can only know them after you've lived with them,so the most important thing is to ask Allah for a righteous man who would love you for His sake not for worldly reasons.
@saumwbellah95832 жыл бұрын
Correct 💯
@qu33nprodigy702 жыл бұрын
Best answer sister
@kyakushamie5260 Жыл бұрын
I agree 👍
@murrdiyaaminu7668 Жыл бұрын
Facts
@leema365 Жыл бұрын
Just look at his parents a lot of your questions will be answered
@qufluna2 жыл бұрын
Agreed with istikarah. Im with someone previously & pray in my istikarah. I was given a hint that he was not the one, my family not agreed with our relationship & his attitude getting on my nerve. Alhamdulillah i feel peace after ending our relationship & i found someone better after 2years of my prayer. Allah give me someone in a right time.
@leansipperr5494 Жыл бұрын
subhanallah
@myheartwillstopinjoy81422 жыл бұрын
Istikhara is SO important. I'm not married but I remember once I had to chose between two fields of studies and I was so lost as to what to chose and what would be better for my future. I prayed istikhara and wallahi by the time I had finished one of the two options completely left my heart and became unappealing. Never thought of "what if chose that field" again.
@Zzucia2 жыл бұрын
SubhanAllah!
@السلام-غ9ج2 жыл бұрын
salam can you tell me what you said when praying istikhara (if I ghouls chose this field or the other..?) I am in the same situation and I’m lost
@KHALISSAAlissa2 жыл бұрын
@@السلام-غ9ج Assalamu Alikom wa Rahmatu Allah wa Barakatih .. here is a link to a detailed video on how to perform Salat al Istikhara by Sheikh Mufti Menk: kzbin.info/www/bejne/fKOyZKaieJqna80 . watch it and may Allah ease your way to the right decision.
@maryamadanali79602 жыл бұрын
Same walahi I just experienced the same thing as you
@wookie4522 Жыл бұрын
@@السلام-غ9ج there's an ishtikhara dua which you make and just ask Allah SWT provide me with whatever is better for me
@Base.2 жыл бұрын
3:25 "The feelings will come to me later" is a huge misconception. Very well spoken on this matter ukhti 👏🏿Sometimes we fear never marrying, or aging, and wonder if we're being too strict so we tend to settle unknowingly, but if you can't see yourself in that man's arms, and the thought disgusts you, then how do you expect yourself to live with this man with love and affection. Salatul istikhara inshaAllah will clarify your qadr. May Allah reward you greatly, dear sister ♡
@UpGradedUkhti4 ай бұрын
I do istekhara for marriage proposal. My family is sayisfied. But i have doubts about this proposal and statisfavtion that ALLAH will stop this to happen and will protect me from this man. I am calmness in my heart that N MOREOVER I just want to keep quit and left this matter to ALLAH. Is this a sign of istekhara? That this man is nit in my good favour
@Veilorah3 ай бұрын
@@UpGradedUkhtiistikharas answer is not by feelings. If that man is bad for you something will stop him from marrying you. Allah will stop it. Please watch some videos from Sheikh Assim Al Hakeem talking about istikhara. Make sure that you prayed istikhara correctly.
@UpGradedUkhti3 ай бұрын
@@Veilorah i was stopped evem before coming to my home.
@rahmajohn72842 жыл бұрын
Remember me in your dua sister ,,may Allah grant me a Better spouse soon
@NafisasPearlz2 жыл бұрын
May Allah grant you the best of spouse who will be the coolness of your eyes.
@rahmajohn72842 жыл бұрын
@@NafisasPearlz Ameen thuma ameen
@rahmajohn72842 жыл бұрын
@@popularmmos8428 Ameen ,In shaa Allah thank you
@muritalaakande692 жыл бұрын
@@NafisasPearlz Ameen including me.
@BED-ELTBMZFShafeera2 жыл бұрын
@@NafisasPearlz Ameen
@Mesmerising_Eyes2 жыл бұрын
Alhamdulillah, this means that I've found him already! ❤️ We are getting married in October 2022, In'sha'Allah... Please pray for us ❤️
@Мэйбл-ч1к2 жыл бұрын
May Allah bless you two💫 I wish you all the best sister💚 May Allah help all sisters around the world to find their true husband! Amen!
@Adr12672 жыл бұрын
MashaAllahhh may Allah bless your marriage and keep u guys together in this life and i the hereafter in jannah
@Adr12672 жыл бұрын
@@Мэйбл-ч1к ameeen
@najmahunri2 жыл бұрын
Mashaallah may Allah protect you guys and keep you together till death and in jannah inshaallah❤️
@zaynaali14542 жыл бұрын
Not long now! May Allah bless your marriage and grant you happiness xx
@Ahbhswrzq9221 Жыл бұрын
I would also add a sense of peace or feeling like home. If the is person gives you a sense of peace and your heart is at ease about him / with him , that is a huge sign as well.
@pzmynn2 жыл бұрын
Masha Allah I think Allah ﷺ has guided me to found and listen to you. I’ve asked on my prayer about marriage so Allah could guide me and this came on my feed. Subhanallah. Thank you 🙏🏼
@نجمة-ت8د Жыл бұрын
Also remember sisters(and brothers) if a marriage becomes toxic or you simply fall out of love you are fully within your rights to divorce. A toxic or unhappy marriage will never be worth suffering.
@suadfarole5136 Жыл бұрын
My Istikharah showed me clear path and it open all the doors until he got cold feet and broke up with me last minute. After meeting the family, friends, setting our goals, even our retirement plans were we going to be. His lost Alhamdulilah I’m going to be okay Insha Allah
@rayan0678 Жыл бұрын
may Allah reward you for your patience
@yuseflittleb185011 ай бұрын
What's your ig
@maaryag35614 ай бұрын
Sirf Allah SWT nazar se bacha sakte hain, haur koi nahin
@mazenelzamel642 жыл бұрын
I’m a man and I’m taking note of this myself. These pointers are spot on for both genders tbh💯
@Zumerjud2 жыл бұрын
Please make dua for me that Allah softens my father's heart so I can marry who I want. May Allah bless you all.
@NafisasPearlz2 жыл бұрын
If he is best for you then may Allah guide your father’s heart to agree and pray for you both, ameen.
@halimataminu14232 жыл бұрын
Don’t force anything, rely on Allah and prayer
@ryeofoatmeal2 жыл бұрын
completely agree with everything nafisa said. a sensible woman with a healthy mind would think about all of these before getting married. especially if the goals are aligned with you. for example my cousin just divorced his wife bcos she wanna work abroad and he didn't agree with that. she insists to work abroad regardless. the verdict is divorce if that makes both parties happy. it's just very sad... and also the attraction. people always said I too focus on physical attraction. I'm not looking for the hottest man in the world, but just a good-looking man in my eyes. yet my friends always said I'm too choosy. like nafisa said, at least you need a little attraction so that you both can pursue the needs. can't imagine how you are just ok with any look while you will sleep with them, eat with them. if they're not pleasantly looking in your eyes, how can you live for the rest of your life with your partner...
@sumy45512 жыл бұрын
Same here I always tell my family I want a man that I’m attracted too and they always think I want the most good looking man on earth and I have to explain to them in details and they now understand, physical attraction and emotional is so important and people should know that. Islam tells us to look at this
@ryeofoatmeal2 жыл бұрын
@@sumy4551 exactly, even in Islam is permissable to look at physical appearance as one of your spouse criteria. so why look frown upon that. mufti menk has mentioned this as well. do you wanna live with somebody who isn't physically attracted to you. that would be difficult to go thru your life
@Zazezoo2 жыл бұрын
I agree 💯 and please never loose your value. Don’t listen to anyone that believe you are choosy! When you go through divorce or end up a lone parent, none of them will suffer the consequences on your behalf. I’m divorced and can tell you physical attraction is very important! Just because a man is attractive to the world, it doesn’t mean you’ll be attracted to them or with time you’ll fall for their character. Yes some make compromises and fall In love in marriage, but this is a very small minority. You must feel something when you see them! Women are different and without that chemistry and attraction, intimacy becomes very difficult!
@bayanbishara66662 жыл бұрын
super right!! we always want to sound perfect that we don't care about the looks in relationships, but who r we kidding? IT MATTERS in marriage! and as muslims we're ought to make the effort to look our best(both men n women) to please n attract our partners, but people r just pressured to sound perfect while we all deep down want to be with someone we're attracted too, yes marriage is not only about attraction, but attracrtion is a huge part of it
@linaazmiin74792 жыл бұрын
I am sad my parents dont understand me too I feel like If I accept what they want I will end up being unfair in my marriage and for me is better to be alone than being unfair in marriage and breaking someones else heart what my parent can find good looking is not the same for me our taste is different what my friend find good looking is diffrent for me hamdoulilah الله created diffrent type for everyone. i know I might seem picky which I wish I was not sometimes and I wish my heart could accept my parent choice of futur husband but my heart just cant and I night I cry because I cant put them into my heart may الله forgave me for feeling this way. me too I want good looking husband into my eyes I don't care if everyone finds him ugly for me he should be the coolest of my heart and my eyes.
@MsLadyOrchid2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations on your nikah, Nafisa - mabrook! Thanks for dropping these gems for all of us. ☺️
@humayrax Жыл бұрын
This was soo beneficial! Thank you so much. May Allah shower your marriage with His barakah & sakinah, ameen!!
@aura7153 Жыл бұрын
I'm not married yet but from life experience and a failed engagement I've discovered these are very important ones especially estkhara and and core values And all other points are very important mashAllah
@aishas41822 жыл бұрын
Sister, it’s as if an elder sister is speaking to me. Jazak Allah for this video 💕
@NafisasPearlz2 жыл бұрын
Waiyakum
@struggle9394 Жыл бұрын
Alhamdulilah you added protective in a healthy way coz really some girls sees over protective which is unhealthy as sign of love 🤦♀️🤦♀️ May Allah guide us all Thanks sister❤
@mystique51682 жыл бұрын
Congratulations on your nikkah. May Allah bless your marriage. 🙂
@ladyhujja0012 жыл бұрын
Wow. Thank you for this sis. I am always indecisive in matters like this. And there is also the pressure that comes from family and friends concerning this marriage issue. May Allah guide us all. And may Allah reward you for this.
@NafisasPearlz2 жыл бұрын
Ameen. It is indeed a careful choice to be made but with Allah’s help it can be easier
@zainabzuhasarafdeen48732 жыл бұрын
Aameen aameen yarabbal aalameen
@muritalaakande692 жыл бұрын
You have nailed it all, same thing am experiencing.
@fatumauwimana82402 жыл бұрын
Aww sister, how about long distance relationships ? How can you know if someone is really now I find Pakistan guys he looks like nice guy but people keep tell me not because he is Pakistan and I am black women what can I do?
@farhiyaa48802 жыл бұрын
@@fatumauwimana8240 Meet his family, bring a family member, ask questions, get feedback.
@MadinaAhmed902 жыл бұрын
You have been missed Nafisa. A very interesting video to be had, since there’s much to understand when it comes to finding the right spouse. جزاك اللهُ خيرًا again love for this well needed topic.
@NafisasPearlz2 жыл бұрын
Thank you dear. Glad you found it beneficial. Jzk
@silverkitty2503 Жыл бұрын
I needed to be reminded that to settle is in fact the hard way and the wrong way to go about things.
@CMA-he7pe2 жыл бұрын
Definitely came at the right time 🥺 Can you make a video about how to manage family relationships ? Toxic family members etc and all of that , I'm struggling so much with it , between feeling the need to cut bridges , and then people telling me that it's not islamic to do so and I have to be patient until the end 🙂
@NafisasPearlz2 жыл бұрын
Insha’Allah I will add that to my list.
@lionessz91222 жыл бұрын
Im going through similar issues myself. It’s not easy at all. May Allah make it easy for you and rectify all your affairs . Ameen 🤲🤲🤲🤲
@tehyalewis25492 жыл бұрын
Yes please
@nushieeee2 жыл бұрын
The point about families being in agreement is a hard pill for a lot of people to swallow, but well said, Nafisa. If you are praying istikhara and family is being an obstacle, I think it is prudent for us to take that as a barrier Allah SWT is placing to protect us. And Allah SWT knows best.
@salmah56382 жыл бұрын
Would you be okay on elaborating on that more? InshaAllah. What if it isn't an obstacle, but a test? Or what if there are certain concerns where parents need to be talked to and convinced? Because sometimes, parents may not accept and agree right away. Jazakallahu Khairan!
@NafisasPearlz2 жыл бұрын
It is a really hard one and in all honesty sometimes parents reasoning for refusing is not justified and based on their unjustified discriminations but sometimes they truly are looking out for their kids but the child doesn’t realise until later on in life. May Allah guide us all to what is best.
@alhamdulillahnotes45112 жыл бұрын
@@NafisasPearlz You are full of wisdom ❤️
@aishahabibi64632 жыл бұрын
So what if you are a revert lady and your family wouldn't allow you marry a Muslim man simply because they don't even like it that you are a revert Muslim so 🤷
@bilalel-baher78592 жыл бұрын
@@aishahabibi6463 in that case the father would not have the authtority to prevent you to get married and you would have to find a male wali instead of him. If you cant find anyone in your family, then the qaadi (judge or muslim authority in the community) will suffice.
@nishatmullick21362 жыл бұрын
I came across your KZbin channel a long time ago and now today I know you got married I am happy for you sister Alhamdulillah. May Allah bless you and protect you. Keep me in your duas
@eemann49892 жыл бұрын
not me watching this at 15 and never being in a relationship. but i luv nafisa so ill watch any vid she posts
@amatullah15102 жыл бұрын
So proud of you sister Allahuma Barik. May Allah bless you with a righteous spouse (when you are ready) who will be the coolness of your eyes. Allahuma Ameen💕
@amatullah15102 жыл бұрын
@eemann
@NafisasPearlz2 жыл бұрын
May Allah continue to bless you my dear. Jazaka’Allahu khairan for your support of this channel ❤️
@hananmijinyawa4722 жыл бұрын
Salam sister I'm a Muslimah from Nigeria Your videos re really educating
@sadafahmed95632 жыл бұрын
Mash Allah another great video tips and advice for sisters. Good advice. We need it in this day and age! A once disposed a weak, a narcissist, a psycho, a mentally & emotionally unstable a rude, arrogant, stingy argumentative, deluded 50 year old indian man/ just days before the nikkah! Just in time. Luckily I was saved by Allah! Alhamdulilah. I thank Allah azza wajjal till this day. Marry someone who is right for you and stable in every way - and always seek Allah's help. Marry someone who will add to you!
@Yuna2346minji2 жыл бұрын
brothers and sisters. Please pray for me because I have a big exam coming up. I want to do well and also pray I find my other half soon.
@bakedpotatoes55452 жыл бұрын
May Allah make it easy for you Ameen trust Him
@ilmiomar19982 жыл бұрын
may Allah azawajal make it easy for you Ameen
@saradigota72012 жыл бұрын
Love you sister in islam. So good how you adressed like dont settle for less than with whom Allah has for you with whom you genuinly feel good
@redapple94882 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. I had the nagging feeling that I was settling on a marriage proposal because of pressure from family and pressure concerning my age… but this video really brought to light that settling for a man you don’t even like as a person isn’t ok
@Zazezoo2 жыл бұрын
I’m glad you’ve reflected on this! Take it from a lone parent whose been divorced multiple times. At the end of the day, those who put pressure on you will not suffer the consequences of divorce or being a lone parent. Also think about the impact it would have on future kids etc
@Adr12672 жыл бұрын
how r u now sister
@redapple94882 жыл бұрын
@@Adr1267 I’m still not that well honestly… but Ty for asking. I haven’t told him that I am not interested in marrying him. since Im 26 I feel pressured to settle for a marriage since I’m getting older.. I’m nervous to disclose that I want to end my situation with him
@Khayran2 жыл бұрын
@@redapple9488 I know exactly how that feels I've been in a your situation before but the thing is, remember you will be most affected by the marriage if you marry the wrong person, not your family. I'm 26 now too and I'm still so glad I rejected that man that my family wanted me to marry. I found out more negative stuff about him later on too. Also remember that being able to choose a husband is a blessing that not all women have, so I suggest you reap the FRUITS of this blessing!
@redapple94882 жыл бұрын
@@Khayran thank you for everyone’s kind words. It’s good to know that I am not alone in this experience. I guess I’m scared to reject the proposal since I don’t TECHNICALLY have a good reason to. He’s religious and a pretty decent guy. I just personally am not into him at all. We don’t connect/vibe and I’m not interested nor am I attracted to him. But I feel my family wouldn’t get my reasoning for rejecting “a good proposal from a good family”
@nuhaalmariyood51052 жыл бұрын
I will married soon Thank you for all the advice and support love you 😍 and Allah bless you
@KingKromah2 жыл бұрын
by overprotective the lady means, we wouldn’t let anything scratch you. we wouldn’t let you trip or get hurt. we’re always there for you no matter what.
@sab8892 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately for some men this means taking away your freedom and your rights which is wrong. Protecting your spouse should guarantee her safety not make her miserable by controling her
@KingKromah2 жыл бұрын
@@sab889 yep agreed
@EmHussa63822 ай бұрын
@@sab889Okay so how do you determine if a man would be controlling.
@sameraousman2956 Жыл бұрын
Masha Allah this confirms that I’ve found the one. We’re getting married this year In Shaa Allah 🤲🏾
@BQ900 Жыл бұрын
Such a good lady to bring us the benefit of her knowledge. My husband told me he chose an American not to have issues with experience. I told him I had no choice being 17 and having a very strict father so deal with it!!
@atiqahussain2493 Жыл бұрын
more videos about this topic for people looking, these are so helpful for me as a 20 year old
@zainabzuhasarafdeen48732 жыл бұрын
Going through a hard time waiting for a relief from Allah arrahman it has been about a year and half this conflict in my life has startedIn Sha Allah please keep me in your duas sisters May be that Allah arrahman accepts one of your Dua and grant me the very much needed relief May Allah bless us all immensly Aameen aameen yarabbal aalameen
@LoveCisse2 жыл бұрын
🤲🏾 insh Allah may Allah make ever workout for you sister
@zainabzuhasarafdeen48732 жыл бұрын
@@LoveCisse jazakallah Aameen aameen yarabbal aalameen May Allah arrahman bless you and grant all of your duas In sha Allah have a good day ahead
@HealthyQueen.2 жыл бұрын
BarakaLlahu feeh on your marriage, just realized, Mashaa'Allah 🎉
@dubaifatimaali Жыл бұрын
Alhumdulillah yes my hubby is the one MashaAllah ❤
@abiodunkehinde368 Жыл бұрын
This is really a heart filled lecture, thank you very much . May Allah SWT bless you.
@muritalaakande692 жыл бұрын
May Almighty Allah be with us all by showing us the right path to be followed in every endeavor.
@olorisummer4760 Жыл бұрын
One of the character I don't like a man do is cheating... Nobody is compatible when the man cheats
@salmaie Жыл бұрын
This is the most valuable information I have come across regarding a partner. Thank you so much and May Allah reward you with goodness
@najmaissak37922 жыл бұрын
Mashaa Allah tabarakaAllah sister ❤️ JazakaAllahu Khair.......May Allah bless your married life and Grant you goodness in this dunya and JANAH in akhera ❤️
@LG-dq7lg2 жыл бұрын
I am a recent revert and I had a few long term relationships before. I feel that every relationship taught me so much, and made me grow as a person, develop my ability to understand others, expanded my view of life, and made me grow into becoming a great partner. To be close to a person and going through life together is a great teacher that I’m so grateful for. Listening to this video I think it must be difficult to find the one without any experience. But I greatly respect everyone who waits until marriage and I wish them all to find true love ❤️
@Ricestlover2 жыл бұрын
Thank you sis and welcome to the ummah Stay strong and have taqwah and sabr (trust in Allah and patience)any hardship will go away
@sarahb67582 жыл бұрын
Be very careful about sharing your past relationships sis with Muslims around you, because if they know certain things, it might be harder for you to have a good name for marriage. Move with a clean slate to make things easier for yourself.💘
@naimajannah50782 жыл бұрын
May Allah help you understand Islam and strengthen you 🤲
@نجمة-ت8د Жыл бұрын
@@sarahb6758 a man who loves her for her will not be bothered by her past relationships. Plus he would find out either way it would be better to be upfront than make someone feel like they were deceived.
@zf16702 жыл бұрын
BarakAllahu feeki ukhti for such a beneficial video! One point that I'd like to point is regarding the ayah displayed in the begining overlapping with humming, why not have a recite reciting the ayah? It is be more impactful that way. ♥️ plus will not disrespect the ayah displayed 🌹
@nimatullahabdulmalik95132 жыл бұрын
I wish I could like this video multiple times. May Allah reward you immensely ❤❤
@sweetlovely64002 жыл бұрын
Always ask for guidance from Allah SHT and please listen when Allah send you response whether you like it or not. I met this great guy everything seems perfect but as soon as I ask for guidance we always have a big fight over nothing it happens every time I ask for guidance so I have decided to let it go and submit to Allah’s plan even tho it’s painful. I pray Allah gives us sabr.Thank you for this video 🙏🏽
@sarahb67582 жыл бұрын
May Allah make it easy for you sis. May Allah bless u with an amazing husband, your special pair who loves and protects you so much.ameen 💘
@Ayshat2 жыл бұрын
Nafisa, you look more beautiful every time I watch your video. Masha'Allah!!
@raniach1124 Жыл бұрын
Salam aleykum sister, this video was so so so great. May Allah reward you immensely for the work you have put into this.
@MM-em6ly Жыл бұрын
I miss watching your videos so much! I have an older account and I was subscribed and I was watching your videos during Ramadan two years ago. My mother died a few months later and…I was not able to focus on anything. I went through a very difficult time in my life, to put it simply. This Ramadan, I wanted to go back to that and your name kept clicking in my head all day yesterday and, without effort, I kid you not, your videos were in my suggestions. So, here I am, on your channel. Thank you so much for your wisdom and love ✨
@1OddlyOdd2 жыл бұрын
may Allah grant us all good spouses and healthy offspring, ameen ya rabb al alameen!
@SuliatAbisolaAjoke Жыл бұрын
Very true, i'm stuck in this now and it so troubling lifestyle needs be iin alingment
@rukaiyadauda1422 жыл бұрын
Alhamdullilah first to comment, I lovea your videos sister nafisa.thank you and you are glowing amarya( amarya means new bride in hausa language northern nigeria, but in yoruba its iyawo
@NafisasPearlz2 жыл бұрын
Jazaka’Allahu khairan for the compliment
@basraabdulle35262 жыл бұрын
this Girl is my hero she is not going into things that we didn't want to talk about it she is so beautiful and find husband it was easy for us Muslim women to get a Husband but what is the problem is we don't usually don't love our husbands especially when we get married by arrangement marriage in my culture we use to do that but lately people grow up from that ignorant and then now we have to act like the western countries we meet men through friends and they are all good men before married but when we go into the marriage then we are stuck and we don't no other choices but to accept what we go and it has to work and we have to deal with whatever he comes with even if want to marry again which Muslim men always think about in the first year in your marriage so that is why we are having a lot of
@sherifaholuwatosin1041 Жыл бұрын
Very deep and full of lots of lessons, jazakumullahu kharean kazeeran sis
@zee20592 жыл бұрын
MashaAllah, May Allah make it easy for you
@Reenie392 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Nafisa, for this wonderful information! Throughout this marriage process, it’s felt like I have to settle, but I know not to do so. You video has helped reinforce that.
@bellokhaeerat Жыл бұрын
Jazakumullahu Khairan for sharing sis. I really found this video very beneficial.
@azeezsofiat98952 жыл бұрын
This really came in at the right time, I checked your channel this morning to confirm maybe am not being updated anymore and immediately I saw the notification popped, my mind was calm and relaxed and watching this made me fulfilled. BarokaLlah fii yah ukhty💖
@NafisasPearlz2 жыл бұрын
Thank you dear for coming back. May Allah continue to guide us all 🤲🏾
@muritalaakande692 жыл бұрын
Same here
@sumeiyambwana90312 жыл бұрын
Thanks nafeesa, you really did a good job addressing this.May the Almighty bless you abundantly. Amiin
@NafisasPearlz2 жыл бұрын
Ameen and May Allah bless you for seeking nearness to him.
@MohammedAhmed-lm1vm6 ай бұрын
I accepting your idea and how can get good wife for allaha? I need to change one place to other place incase of realy for live worshiped only allaha ways with the wife respect evrything and to do with me for allaha.
@PreciousAwakening2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Nafisa 🤗💕 Please pray for me to find the right one🤲
@habsomohamud94752 жыл бұрын
Jazakuallahu khairan for posting this sister. Alhamdulilah so there’s not a video of yours that I have watched that i have not found beneficial. Everytime it feels like you are speaking directly to me, may Allah accept and reward you for efforts in educating us and May it weigh heavy on your scale of goods on the day of judgement.
@NafisasPearlz2 жыл бұрын
Ameen. Waiyakum
@mardiaazis2603 Жыл бұрын
Sister Nafisa, thank you for sharing this .. May Allah bless you with His grace 💙
@weebo452 жыл бұрын
MashaAllah an amazing video, JazakAllah Khair!
@Seerat1624 Жыл бұрын
Assalamu alaikum sister.. And Congratulations sister for your marriage.. May Allah give barakah in your married life. Pray for me so that I can also find my right one.
@salihaslifey1163 Жыл бұрын
Your video is very helpful alhamdhulillah. Can you plz make a video of difference between healthy protection and unhealthy protection from a men
@시린-d4i Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your knowledge sister, Ma Sha Allah you are wise and I learned a lot. I’ll definitely work on myself. I have also heard that you should try to be someone who’d you want to attract for example if you want a religious and pious husband then you should try to be like that before marriage. If you want to attract a fit/healthy man then you should be fit and workout to attract a man like that.
@unanochemedellin2732 жыл бұрын
Taking notes 📝 💅✍️
@saidakingimwakitete94002 жыл бұрын
Ma shaa Allah, right on time: I surely needed this! Jazakallah khairan sis!
@NafisasPearlz2 жыл бұрын
Alhamdulilah
@alriyaad2 жыл бұрын
This came at the right time 💝!!!
@sarahh80972 жыл бұрын
Am not even planning to marry anytime soon but i watched the whole vid coz she's so good to listen to
@MM-em6ly Жыл бұрын
She’s amazing. What she says is so on point and she gives a thorough explanation. Plus, her voice AND tone of voice is a major bonus!
@empress_zaakirah7602 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video was very beneficial, I would have to rewatch it again... I pray that Allah subhana wata'ala give us the best of the best in this earth and hereafter... Amiin
@abdoulatifndiaye683 Жыл бұрын
All good talking points. I would add 1 important thing I think the sister missed, when it comes to sisters determining if the guy is the one for them or not. Envision the guy as the leader of your kids and YOURSELF, and assess the level of discomfort and/or opposition you feel within yourself. If that's high, then he is not the one.
@airacriscedeno93972 жыл бұрын
Im glad that i came this video😍😍 inshallah his the one
@mywork36482 жыл бұрын
Congratulations on your marriage ya ukhti! May Allah bless you both and keep you together in peace, love and mercy in this world and the hereafter. Ameen ya rabb! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@lauraarroyo26852 жыл бұрын
Masha'Allah Congratulations. Subhanallah so well said !!! Shukhran
@hawanatukoroma11942 жыл бұрын
Congratulations on your marriage 💙💙🙏🏽 may Allah bless your union
@Nouss232 жыл бұрын
please sisters pray for me to find my partner :D
@fatumahnassali165 Жыл бұрын
Jazaakillahu khayran sis Nafisa,I really like your videos b'se their so interesting and educational. Keep up the good work, sis..
@studywithmedstudent44592 жыл бұрын
Loved it sis. Jazkillah khairan wa ahsan
@Khadijafatima85952 жыл бұрын
Mashallah sister, the way you explained it was soo beautiful
@NafisasPearlz2 жыл бұрын
Jazaka’Allahu khairan
@nahiedlaila96012 жыл бұрын
Could you make a video about How Allah is preparing you for marriage? I feel like muslims dont pay attention to this aspect whereas Christians always highlight the fact that there are signs your getting prepared for marriage thru certain signs or development of character and growing maturity. Its dissappointing that muslims dont focus more on this aspect as much as they focus on preparing yourself for marriage which is not the same as Allah preparing you for marriage cuz then you know for sure that you will get married and not get lost in uncertainty, doubts and confusion...
@jalamangjobarteh96912 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much my dear Sister may Allah SWT Reward u. I have never come across anything educative and well constructed regarding to marriage better than this analysis of yours . May Allah reward u have hav subscribe.
@noorafzaal7350 Жыл бұрын
Thank you sister such an informative and thoughtful video
@bakiekoroma68142 жыл бұрын
Alhamdullilah sister for this message ❤️
@chaeun-woon84052 жыл бұрын
Please make more videos! I really love your videos and I just love hearing you and learning more knowledge from you.
@nadirajames42672 жыл бұрын
SubhanaAllah!!!! Sis thank you so much for such amazing videos your always sharing with us such beautiful beneficial knowledge Ma shaa Allah TabarakAllah beautiful advice Sis🤲🏾🤲🏾❤️🌹
@narjisel84302 жыл бұрын
Is our beloved sister Nafisa married?? Wauw elhamdulillah, i’m sooo happpy for you honeybee ❤️
@NEOGEO1966 Жыл бұрын
MashAllah this lady speaks sense.
@ndeyndey34482 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much sis and may almighty Allah bless you married
@user-fn6jr7gt8n2 жыл бұрын
What an amazing video mashaAllah! ✨ JazakaAllah khair Nafisa 💕
@rubyjane15742 жыл бұрын
I found your video in my KZbin suggestions and I'm not even surprised by what I just heard: how many times have I done the salaat istikhara and douaas for this man and how positive the signs have been for me. We have the same projects, personalities that complement each other and the same vision of life. The only problem is that we live in 2 different countries, he intends to come to my country next summer but in the meantime it's a relationship that is haram even if we are not in a couple anyway thank you for your video 💕
@taibalogun2 жыл бұрын
I'm on this train with you. May Allah make it easy for us
@einas19952 жыл бұрын
Mashallah sister, finding your channel one year ago was one of the best things. You've been helping me so much. I truly wish you a successful life full of blessings and all that your heart desires. Keep up the great work, and please never stop inshallah from making videos for us. Your channel became a must for me. God bless you
@NafisasPearlz2 жыл бұрын
Alhamdulilah for everything. I am so glad to hear that. May Allah continue to bless us all and Ameen to your duas. Jazaka’Allahu khairan
@defsoul81922 жыл бұрын
Mashallah nafisa! Im so happy and Glad That you posted this! I needed this ! Sooo Much Subhanallah. Allah Send me you as a sign ❤️ may Allah bless you and everyone who is watching. May Allah enrich us⭐️⭐️