The Story Of How I Lost My Mom & Why We Got Roxy

[@bobbysmith1956]

The fact that you still finished med school amid losing your mom; that’s priceless! When my mom passed, I dropped out of school. You’re a legend, Mike!

[@samanthastuart4607]

Yehh he's a strong man for sure

[@kittyr6534]

Sorry to hear you lost your Mum. Everyone deals with it in their own way ❤

[@Haroldthecheeseman]

mike is a badass in 5he medical field! bravissimo!

[@julievanderleest]

I wanted to quit school when my dad died but I was only a freshman in HS. My mom of course let me take time off and my teachers were all in agreement even though it was during midterms. My mom worked at my HS as well which was a blessing. Sadly my mom is gone too now. She passed unexpectedly just this year. Everyone grieves in their own ways and there’s no one way or right way to grieve. I’m so sorry for your loss of your mom too. Losing a parent young is so hard and painful. ❤️💔

[@bobbysmith1956]

@@julievanderleest omg, I’m sorry to hear about both of your parents! You’re definitely right that losing a parent is traumatic! Thank you for your kind words!

[@HeisenbergFam]

I respect the fact you got so comfortable with community that you talk about personal things, RIP Doc's mom

[@minaharker5733]

​@@NewKitchenGun117And the fact that u have the audacity to say that is just insane to me I could never me personally.

[@TehPwnerer]

Everyone RIPs you dont need to say it

[@hyperdiamond4044]

Best heisenbergfam comment

[@Overwatch2003]

@@TehPwnererWell they don’t have to but it’s nice to hear it

[@stupiditiusmaximus]

​@@minaharker5733what did they say?

[@karengieseking1437]

My mom passed when I was 12 - my dad was diagnosed with terminal lung / liver cancer when I was 18. When he was in the hospital, they asked if I wanted a DNR order for him. For one, not something any 18 year old should have to answer, but I asked them if it would do any good to bring him back. When they said no, I said yes, let him go. I spent years wondering if I did the right thing. Thank you, Dr. Mike.

[@clairebooton1864]

I am so sorry you had to go through that, my dad also had liver and lung cancer and passed when I was 18

[@beheroot]

often doctors said this is hardest thing for them to learn: when to stop.

[@DTISAV]

My grandma died from cancer :( rip

[@zomacchy16]

I’m sorry for your loss, your parents are looking at you now ❤ Hope things are better

[@zomacchy16]

@@clairebooton1864I’m sorry for your loss, Your dad is look at you ❤

[@Kate-sp1vx6vz9z]

Gotta love a man who knows the best thing for grief is a dog.

[@GreyTheGreat-e9q]

true

[@thev0idnati0n]

The amount of grace to say "stop chest compressions; you're doing damage for hope and not out of logic" is astounding. So glad to hear this story.

[@galinavalova4803]

Having to lose my mum to cancer at 16 years old this September, I suddenly don't feel alone anymore...thank you Dr. Mike ❤️

[@anushyapriya9137]

I’m so sorry for your loss 🥺🙏

[@galinavalova4803]

@anushyapriya9137 It's ok, she still lives in my heart ❤️

[@cailyndesouza483]

Please know that she's still with you🤍 Hope your doing a little better🤍

[@TheIsaacHour]

Praying for you❤

[@blackmooncultx9552]

Im sorry for your loss.

[@thepublishinggame]

When people say to me, "why would you listen to a KZbinr like Doctor Mike?", **THIS** is why. You've never been anything but open and honest with your community, and opening up your heart to tell such a personal story like this in such a public way takes a lot of strength, courage and character. You going public with this story is undoubtedly going to help someone going through something similar. Thanks for being you.

[@raphaelasantos3148]

it really does help buddy... i went through something similar with my family and i wish there was something like this at time, when social media and youtube was a stage for a unrealistc happy bubble. it does brings some air to the ones who are bracing themselfs not to fall apart.

[@cmunch7473]

Do people actually question that??! People are outrageous. Why would anyone have an issue with Dr. Mike?? 🤔

[@americaneclectic]

I am a retired Hospice nurse. When families insisted on CPR when there was no hope of reversing what had happened, it was very difficult. We always tried to move people toward acceptance of death long before the heart stops beating, Sometimes it’s entirely unexpected like Dr. Mike’s mum. That’s tough to process.

[@GiangDang-l5l]

​@@raphaelasantos3148same

[@shaynewheeler9249]

Dr Mike

[@nathanielsuinan]

Your mom knew how wonderful you are. She never failed to raised an incredibly amazing human. I feel so sorry for your loss 😔

[@ettagi1068]

She looked so beautiful, I'm sure she was a shiny, good person as you are. Thank u doctor Mike for sharing.

[@lynnehood2198]

Your mother was a beautiful woman. I am thankful for her life and the wonderful gift she gave the world by bringing you into it. A healer in many different ways.

[@clairebooton1864]

Losing my dad to cancer was one of the hardest things, being strong for your whole family is so difficult. Im sorry for your loss Dr. Mike.

[@meahdahlgren6537]

Right

[@margaretr5701]

As the eldest child, I had to be strong for Dad and two younger brothers. Thankfully blessed with a really good Father.

[@protecttheeartha]

I’m so sorry for you😢❤

[@elishebasutherland2920]

Your mother's death was NOT your fault Dr.Mike instead you actually saved her and she received from you the best love a mother could from a son. She looks down from Heaven at you and she's very proud of you and she loves you very much Dr.Mike ❤❤.

[@meahdahlgren6537]

Right

[@user-wn2fh7cr3x]

Words can not explain how emotional you made me what you said is

[@NFLKID212]

Amen

[@GingerNinja1]

​@@user-wn2fh7cr3x SAME!!

[@Chelseagouchwal]

I respect the fact that you were able to share something so personal with your viewers

[@ElianaRosalind]

i lost my mom a few months ago, the day i finished my medical exams & i got the news i officially became a doctor she fought to the last minute for me, like she always did, and in a way i believe she waited until she knew i made my dream a reality truly it wouldn't have been possible without her, but i have trust in myself that i will be the person she raised me to become i miss her every single second & i just remebered that mike went through a similar story so now i'm watching this take care everyone ❤

[@PinkieLikesPink]

I lost my mother in November last year. It has devastated our family. It's so hard when you lose your mother. Thank you for sharing your story with us. You are awesome Mike.

[@Crossyroadgmail]

Sorry for your lost 😢

[@MilesJ.]

Mad love and props, Mike. Always takes guts to get in the ring, but takes way more to be vunerable to your audience. Shoutout Roxy, too! We love you, Roxy!

[@biCARRIEous]

I know it's basically inevitable, but I literally can't fathom losing my mom. What a bittersweet story. ❤ Thank you for sharing.

[@ihatechyna]

Every time you tell this story you grow more and more into a place of reflection and educating. Grieving is a life long process. I'm glad you've reached the stage where you can think of your mom with it ripping away at you. I remember you stating in your original Mother's Day video, that you got a husky because it shared your mom's blue eyes. So sweet. Much love to you and your mother.

[@hstteacher]

Oh, I am so sorry you lost your mom way too early. I am a survivor of ALL leukemia (diagnosed on my 49th birthday). I was lucky -- after an unrelated stem cell transplant (which almost killed me) -- I survived and am now retired at 65 -- also got married at 52 for the first time -- I had thought that my life was over and done with. So, so sorry -- I have had times where I have wondered why I survived (no kids, no significant other at the time) -- the guilt is there. I just discovered you and your your KZbin channel and appreciate your honesty. I knew I had a good oncologist when he took a call during one of my appointments where he was asking another doctor about how he should treat a patient -- I complimented him afterward -- I was glad he said that he did not know, but he knew who the experts were. I had seen too many Ph.Ds not able to tell students or anyone that they "did not know" and were unable to seek out the answers they needed. Bravo! I am sure your mother would be so proud of you!

[@IsntThatPrecious420]

Deepest condolences to you and your family on the loss of your mother. Your courage to give your family the straight facts is admirable so she didn't suffer more.When my dad passed away unexpectedly, I bought a puppy for my mom and you wouldn't believe it but the puppy had a rare genetic disorder and ended up passing away. So sad! The breeder was so kind and we were able to get mom another puppy who is now fully grown and still sits on my mom's lap like a big old baby. Animals are amazing. I hope Roxy brings comfort, joy, and unconditional love to your dad.

[@mahlakashaikh9895]

You brought me closure.. 😢 my dad past away from cardiac arrest when i was 16 I froze & didn’t do chest compressions he was also a cancer patient and old… I blamed myself for his death until now.

[@nevinneblake486]

❤

[@jeni12780]

losing a loved one at a young age is hard, unfotunately I can relate, my own brother passed away this year (he was 16, I was 14) and the process of grieving is diffrent for everyone. The way you 'cheered' up your dad with Roxy is just simply too amazing for words. I am not ashamed to say I cried watching this video.

[@melissasheppard6674]

Condolences for your loss

[@jeni12780]

​@@melissasheppard6674thank you❤

[@Shebeast3]

❤❤❤❤🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗that must have been very tough sending you all my love

[@12thDecember]

You sound extremely mature for your age. And you're not the only one who shed tears watching this video.

[@jessicas2379]

My poor cousin lost her dad at age 20 2016 was the worst year for me.

[@giannishen]

She must be proud of you! RIP Mike's mom, she made you a better doctor! Thank you very much for sharing such a touching story! 🥰🙏

[@kimberlys5266]

My friend CJ's dog just lost her leg to cancer. But like Roxy she's cancer free and finally starting to hobble around with her tripod brother!!!❤❤❤❤

[@lindameadows147]

I cried and cried and cried some more. Absolutely sweet of you to think about getting a dog. What an awesome dog God had planned for your family. God bless you thank you for sharing.

[@GingerNinja1]

I just found his channel today & have been binge watching. It's no suprise that he doesn't have anyone being nasty in the comments bc everything he & his loving family have been through & came out on top. Watching this channel is like chicken noodle soup for your soul. It just feels right. To all who shared about losing your mother or father, including Dr. Mike, my heart goes out to each of you. ❤

[@BigTymerz2009]

The type of mental and emotional strength it takes to share something like this. Thank you Dr Mike ❤

[@Shebeast3]

👏👏

[@4RILDIGITAL]

Your mother's story and your family's deep love for one another will inevitably touch countless hearts of those who come across this video.

[@meahdahlgren6537]

Right

[@drdragapult3092]

So so sorry for you Dr Mike, you didn't deserve what happened to you and your mum.

[@afi3102]

you said doctor mike didn't deserve it at all .if someone is destined to die. it happens to anyone it doesn't matter whether it's the president or the doctor or others if you leave this chat you,ll die and you don't know

[@klarabarunovic9841]

Of course he didn't, bad things always seem to happen to good people😔

[@WumpusAlpaca]

​@@klarabarunovic9841Blud fr doesn't understand death.

[@drdragapult3092]

@@WumpusAlpaca Nah its just cause his mother didn't get to live out her full life or see her son become a doctor, that's what he didn't deserve.

[@SolensHormoc]

​@drdragapult3092 It might be because I'm tired but did you respond to the wrong comment?

[@angamgangmei3747]

Animals are such a blessing. No matter what you are going through, when you see the love and acceptance you see from them bring so much of comfort.

[@lauraquigley6403]

God Bless You Dr Mike! This is why we Love You🙏🙏🙏

[@anasazidarkmoon]

I don't know if you'll see this, Mike, but I really, really wish I could hug you right now. I lost my mom to metastatic breast cancer in 2019, just three days after her birthday. When she went on home hospice care, I had a long and serious discussion with her hospice nurse about DNR, because when the cancer had reemerged, it had done so in her bones, and doing CPR would just mean shattering already frail ribs and spreading the cancer around even further. To this date, it is still the hardest thing I've ever had to do, and I'm tearing up as I type this, but I signed the DNR for her. Mike, thank you for sharing your family's story with us.

[@lyndsaybrown8471]

Sorry for your loss. Sounds very traumatic. Hope you have been doing well.

[@anasazidarkmoon]

@@lyndsaybrown8471 I have, thank you. I miss her every day, but that loss is tempered by the knowledge that she isn't in pain now.

[@ollieciro3452]

I’m sure your mother is so incredibly proud of you. We as an audience are also proud of you for acting as a kind son and empathetic doctor, it sets such an important example. I am entering my clinical CNA training this week. I intend to work in hospice care. This was a video I really needed to see right now, and I appreciate how you make this personal and informative at the same time. Thank you for being such a great role model. There are so many folks I’m sure I couldn’t even speak for to say how you’ve influenced our healthcare careers.

[@richardcope9803]

Dogs can be so incredibly healing and clearly Roxy helped to ease your father's suffering. Way to go Roxy and Dr. Mike

[@katherinerummel1900]

I lost my dad also due to cancer and it is the worst thing to ever happen to someone to loose a parent. You are amazing to open up about what happened I have only told my very close friend about what happened. But it is the worst thing to ever wish upon someone. You are a legend Mike

[@nbrowser]

My deepest condolences to you and your family Mike.

[@magicalmadscientist8115]

I lost my Dad this year due to complications from Covid. Right before he was put into the hospital he found me the most perfect emotional support dog you could imagine and she's literally been my guardian angel throughout this stressful year. Im so sorry about your mom, losing a parent is never an easy pain to deal with. Nevertheless i hope you and your family have a wonderful Holiday ❤

[@Elephant-Puppet]

I’m so sorry for your loss

[@GriffinGal1991]

I really needed to hear this right now. My father passed away early this morning from recurring throat cancer, and I had to help my mom make the call to get hospice care for him just a few days ago. I'm so sorry that you had to go through that with your mom, but I'm so glad that you shared your story.

[@itzmarvinplays1605]

I’m actually so so sorry for your loss man, your father loves you and will always look over you in heaven, may god consult you and support you!

[@Slytherin_101]

Man, so sorry about your loss man.

[@SaraMGreads]

I am so sorry about your dad. ❤

[@MarissaElliott-i4s]

I became a widow at 26, having to tell the doctor's "stop its time for comfort measures" is the hardest! My heart is with you and your family! ❤️

[@carlariggs525]

that's a wonderful story and sorry for your loss. Your compassion for people in a medical crisis is evident.

[@TUH_sheainte]

This was so beautiful. Losing thee love of your life hits you with so many different emotions at once but you guys got through it and are still getting through it , TOGETHER!! Thats the best support anyone could have. You can tell you are the strong one of the family Mike. You being strong helped your father more than you could ever imagine. Rest in Paradise to your beautiful mother !

[@tommiegirl2441]

I knew this was going to make me ugly cry. Making the call to stop all life saving measures and let a loved one go is the hardest thing I've ever had to do, and I'm thankful that the decision didn't come down to me alone. And Roxy... Roxy is Roxy. She's love and light. And you are beyond amazing, Dr. Mike. I'm sorry for your loss. If it helps you - and your family - millions of people you've never met have got your back. Love and hugs!

[@CHAMPIONEDITS656]

Mike we’re all so sorry for your loss😢. Such a great person and you didn’t deserve it.

[@tigusvaton8406]

I lost my mom 5 days after I turned 15, losing a parent when your young is a difficult and dark time. Im sure its very different when your older. Thank you for being so vulnerable and real.

[@Lalaland_lady]

First, I love the animation!! So well done and heartfelt My mom died of early onset Alzheimer’s when I was 19. I was not only her daughter but her conservator, as my father died when I was 18 of lung cancer. I had to make many difficult decisions out of love and logic. I had the support of a university ethics professor, friends and my catholic community. But it was still so hard. I finished nursing school after moving schools and to California from Nashville. I worked as an RN for 30 years, had a family and a lot of rescued emotional support animals. I know my mom and dad are proud of the caring work I did. Same for you Dr Mike!

[@sistertara9730]

I’m so happy you got Roxy, sounds like you all needed her. Thank you for sharing something so private with us. Your love for your family is very touching. Peewoop!

[@hatsonhatsonhats]

This is so deeply personal. My heart goes out to him his family and anyone experiencing something like this. My aunt is in the hospital fighting herself. It isn't easy.

[@Just4Fun1276]

I don't know how you managed not to cry, 'cause I definitely got teary, especially at the part where your dad fell in love with Roxy, this one got me

[@danduntz2539]

I’m sure he’s done a lot of that between then and now. It gets easier, but there’s an impact on your heart, emotionally, forever.

[@ChelseaBrown-qn8ir]

I love hearing about your family. I think it’s easy to look at you and think everything is perfect and this reminds us that everyone has a story, a hardship. I also love that you ended this with “say I love you to your loved ones” as not everyone has/had a mom, myself included. Forever obsessed with your channel!

[@unknownperson2189]

I lost my mom to NASH disease also known as NAFLD when I was about 15-16, and your story really made me feel not so alone in losing my mom at such a young age. And to know you went through that and still became a doctor is really encouraging. Thank you ❤

[@yuikuznetsov2276]

Thank you for sharing your beautiful story. Your mom is watching by over you and she is for sure so proud of who you became.

[@evedye1534]

My dad recently passed away, so this video came out at the right time and helped me with my grief. So thank you for this and sorry for your loss.

[@mmagicallfish]

… i am so sorry for you Doctor Mike, its very hard and i can not imagine the pain of losing my mom. I am so sorry for you. Stay strong man! You are a great doctor now. Your mom is proud of you.

[@lifewithme-y9l]

Dear Mike, I am so sorry for your loss this is my worst fear that my mom dies and the fact that you went through this is unimaginable my condolences may you and your family have a blessed life

[@4-8-4Northern]

I understand Dr Mike. I lost my dad at 13. I am about to turn 17 and I am ready for lifes challenges. My condolences for your mom. I am also part Russian too!

[@ThurayyaAhmed-Sumaila]

*THERE ARE NO WORDS LEFT TO SAY! YOU ARE AMAZING, MIKE* *RIP, TO A QUEEN*

[@AmeliaUnleashed]

I’m 28 and we are expecting our second son in a few weeks. We lost my mom to cancer this July and I can understand the grief so fresh of losing a mother. I’m forever marked by losing her so early in my life.

[@wandervoltz]

I lost my Mom to cancer in July, too. It hasn't gotten easier yet. I'm so so sorry for your loss.

[@NurseMJ986]

Lost my mom to cancer at 23 while in med school as well. It was tough but I finished. However, I realized that I was meant to be more than a doctor. I was meant to be a nurse. Someone who spends more time with the patient at the bedside. It’s a very rewarding job. Thank you for sharing your story. To all those who want to be a doctor to “take care of the sick and make them feel better”. Please consider being a nurse. We are short nurses at the bedside. We need more people willing to really lay “hands on” the sick and help them feel better.

[@Elephant-Puppet]

I’m so sorry for your loss

[@jasminj1406]

I love that you got Roxy to keep him company. Feeling alone might be one of the hardest parts of grieving. A few weeks after my dad died, I decided to move back home and live with my mum and brother for a while and I believe it's the only reason I survived.

[@jokeswijsen5244]

I cried while listening to this and watching. I really love your video's, i wanna be a doctor later, your inspiring me to never give up. I am really sorry for your loss, it made you stronger. Your giving me so much hints, tips and things to do what happens if someone gets hurt. I am 12 years old, and my sister is a nurse. Remember, your mother lives in you, she's always there. By your dark times and good times to help & praise you. I have depression, Thank you for making my life brighter. . . ♥️♥️

[@lolahernandez6871]

My dad just got diagnosed with bone cancer and I don't wanna think about what can or will happen. ❤ Sending you positive energy, Dr. Mike. 💫💫💫

[@Haylee_9700]

I just went through almost this exact same situation with my grandmother about a year and a half ago. It’s so hard seeing them decline so quickly and so fast. Sending love to you Mike and thank you for sharing your story with us ❤️

[@MxPotato84]

So sweet you got your dad Roxy to comfort him during a dark time in your family. It looks like she helped him heal and be happy again. Legit crying as im typing this! 😭💙💙💙

[@itssoph99]

I’m so sorry for your loss Mike, the fact that you felt comfortable enough to share your story and hers with us truly means so much, and the fact that you had enough strength to keep going and make something out of your life dedicated to help others is truly a testament to how she raised you and how proud you’re making her every day. Sending you so much love 🫶🏻

[@MarkWG]

So sorry to hear about the untimely loss of your mother. You have my deepest felt sympathy and empathy. Your mother was very beautiful. I too, lost my mother too early to stomach cancer back in 2011. She was 69. Just lost my father in 2021 he was 82. My father died of latent dementia and basically a broken heart. He never recovered from my mother's death.

[@queenbee3647]

Dr. Mike, Im old enough to be your mom. I loved your videos and I get such a good vibe from you. Im sending you virtual hugs honey. Just keep being you. 💖

[@kristinaarp9144]

The story of your mom always makes me cry. There is no doubt that she is incredibly proud of the person you’ve become. ❤

[@WilliamsOSmith]

Hey Kristina 🌹🌹 How are you doing??

[@silkzilk4926]

Don't push it away or push anything down. Feel what you feel and know that you're never alone and that she loved you more than anything. We're here for you, and remember that you're loved.

[@Shebeast3]

yes it's better to let it out ❤

[@mpshields]

I learned what death is. I spent the last few hours with my Mom until her last breath. She was very much aware & able to speak. I think this made her passing much more difficult. I witnessed something so profound. I could not comprehend nothingness. A soul gone, as my soul was ripped away. 10 years have passed & sometimes I have happy dreams of her, but part of me died back in that moment. I go on and find some happiness in each day to fill the void because that is what she tought me.❤

[@SusanCraig-c9f]

I am so so sorry. It sounds so much like the story of when we lost our four year old son to JMML and T-cell lymphoma. Greatest pain of our lives. God bless you for all you do to help others.

[@kirbyourenthusiasm]

Aw what a terribly sad situation and what a wonderful way to honor your mom and help your dad on his time of great grief. You are the kind of son a parent HOPES AND PRAYS to have. Thanks for sharing that story.

[@Shebeast3]

i know your mum is eternally proud of you and always watching over you ❤ my mum is about 5 to 6 yrs in remission.its never easy watching a family member fighting cancer❤

[@-3Jordan3-]

This video made me very emotional. I recently lost both my grandparents just a few months apart and seeing what they went through and what my grandpa went through after my grandma passed was awful. I truly don’t know what I would do without my family. Thank you for the amazing videos and all the information you have taught me and so many others! Your mom will forever be remembered! R.I.P 😞💗

[@kevinyancey958]

Beautiful woman, inside and out, and you look like her. I'm so sorry for yours and her struggle, and loss. She lived a life of service, to both educating children and raising a family. You honor both your parents well, by being both a great physician and educator! Be very proud. I know we all are!

[@potoning]

This reminds me of when I was in the hospital. At that time I had Covid and I was just chilling on the bed and excited because I’m leaving in a few days, and all of a sudden I hear over the speakers saying “CODE BLUE, CODE BLUE” over and over and I thought that it was just a normal situation and watching this just made me realize what it is. And my grandpa is getting old around 70 and people die around age 72 so, Wish me luck.

[@Dustin_Platt]

Those "Your "enter family member here" is in the hospital. You need to get here asap, are always the worst calls. And when you start getting older and you get more of those calls, it sucks. Yeah, we all die, but it's still depressing. The worst part, so far, for me was my dad dying during 2020 Corona at it's peak and I couldn't even say goodbye in person while he was on life support. (He didn't have Cov, he died of a massive stroke) Basically a video meeting of staff "unplugging the machines"

[@drawnseeker]

I'm so sorry for the loss of your mother. Thank you for being so open with us about your mom's struggle with cancer. Your a beautiful person, inside and out.

[@Carol-Vaiphei]

Thank you for sharing your story❤. My dad passed away last year due to a sudden heart attack. It shook us and we are still coping with the loss of him, and in some ways your story resonate with me so much 🥺💓. May God's grace and peace be with you!

[@8yuhg]

My moms passing from pancreatic cancer led me to become a doctor as well Mike. I’m sorry for your loss

[@JackieOgle]

I'm so very sorry for the loss of your precious Mother. Thank you for sharing such a difficult time. God bless you and your family.

[@Nature1sAmaz1ng]

Even tho you lost your mom you still finished out strong in your med school. I am sorry for your loss and I hope you will be better soon. I know it will be tough without her but we all are here for you and your family. Love to your family❤️

[@TaylahMadeComingSoon]

I am so sorry for your loss. She'd be so proud of the man you are today. Big love to you are your fam ❤

[@xZuunes]

A tragic and beautiful story Mike. Your mother would have been proud.

[@nancymueller6206]

She was so beautiful! I lost my Mom on December 12, 2011, my only aunt the first week of May, and my Dad the last week of May. It hurts to remember how life was before and how it is now. We adapt. Grief takes its time. I hope each day is joyful and the memory of your mom brings you the love she has for you.

[@IloveRyder_c_stark]

I'm so sorry about that. I lost my grandmother recently, so I feel your pain afresh. Im really sorry.

[@shuchisaptarsi]

I’m in my med school third year, my mother is fighting cancer ,it has been ten years,this year she’s gotten worse… I can relate a lott with the grief you went through, my third year finals are going on,but I cannot focus,cannot go home to see her even,,, I am stuck with a truckload of grief ,,your story is somewhat inspired to get myself to work and somehow pass my exam ahead so that I can go home asap and spend some time with her,,God knows what’s ahead,,but I cannot tolerate her pain anymore,,I question myself each and every second,what I am doing here, what rubbish stuffs i am studying,i have no power to lessen her pain even a lil bit..

[@strawberrysplitz1566]

My mother's mother passed away from cancer when she was 10. Her father didn't want to take care of her and left her with no mom, no dad. Luckily her mom's old husband took her in. She had to do everything herself, as my grandpa Igor knew nothing about children. 40 years later and she now works for a very high paying law firm, and has a living husband and kids, relatives, a bit house, a wine farm, stables with horses and a lot of money. She was Russian too. I get what you are going through, Dr mike. You make so many people happy with your videos. I'm so sorry for your loss

[@Elephant-Puppet]

So Basically You’re Grandma Passed Away And I Feel Sorry For You

[@mariaobregonn]

having just recently gone through something similar with my dad, about two weeks now, i admire you & thank you for sharing your story! my dad was in remission from AML, had just received maintenance chemotherapy & was doing well, until he got an infection at the hospital. i was there & watched everything happen & it’s the WORST thing in the world. again, i admire you for sharing your story, thank you & my condolences to you.

[@brezzainvernale]

You made me cry, I can only imagine what happened to you, your sister, your dad. You mastered the situation and your life so well, you have a way to remember her. Well done, stay strong. A lot of strenght to you and your sister and dad.

[@MitchellShilling]

I lost one of my good friends from Glasgow when I was 17 from cancer. I remember after hearing about his diagnosis and just hoping that he would be free of cancer, but over time, I had become more worried about his situation since I hadn’t heard from him in a few months, but unfortunately, I found out at the beginning of Thanksgiving break 2018 when I found out the he had passed away from cancer on October 13, 2018 at the young age of 18. Although he lived in Scotland and I lived in the States (still do), but we were good friends on Twitter, and he was one of those people who would make you smile on your worst day. I will never forget him.

[@ddejong11]

What a wonderful man you are. Your Mom would be so proud of you, and I'm sure as she's watching over you from heaven, she's smiling down on you. What a blessing you are to your family. May God bless you in all you do.

[@alisafakhou3047]

Сочувствую потере вашей матери, надеюсь, ее душа покоится с миром и рада видеть ваши успехи и покой вашего отца.

[@TheIsaacHour]

Agreed

[@karusel_ka]

Cannot imagine the level of pain you and your family went through, so sorry you had to experience this. I'm sure your mother would be proud of the lives you've saved being a doctor and exposing misinformation in social media. ❤

[@rickybrunet2852]

Oh, Mike, you made me cry like a baby (I'm 62). I lost my mom to heart disease when I was 39, and my world crumbled. I had lost my dad to diabetes 5 1/2 years earlier. Thank you for sharing your story.

[@GeorgianaPlatsis-zt7db]

I have a very similar story. Two months ago my mom died from cancer. She had it for my entire life and possibly longer, but she found out when I was born. A few years ago, she began a steady decline, but she was still active and able to move around a lot so me and my family thought she was fine. A few days before she died, she still seemed completely healthy, except she was having a bit of trouble breathing and had a very small lung capacity. She decided to go in to a hospital for some sort of scan one morning. I was still asleep. When I woke up, my grandma, who had been living with us for some time, told me my mom was in the hospital. I didn’t think much of it. I knew she wanted to go in at some point. I went about my day as usual. Usually, when my mom was in the hospital, I would try to stay awake as long as possible in case she needed me. I stayed up until 2am. This was a mistake. At 3:30ish AM, my grandma woke me up saying my aunt, who was staying with my mom at the hospital, told her my mom wanted to see me. Exhausted but wanting to help my mom as much as possible, I dragged myself to the hospital. I was not prepared for what I was about to see. My mom, looking pale and skinny, was lying in a hospital bed, an oxygen cannula in her nose and IV fluid going into her arm. She did not look good. She could barely talk, but seeing me seemed to calm her down a bit. Me and a lot of my family stayed until around 10:00ish AM and then I wanted to go home. One of her lungs was not really functioning and she was too weak to live on the other one. We were pretty sure she was going to die in the next few days or weeks. I had to come back to the hospital a few times after that, and the day she died, my whole extended family was crammed into that hospital room. I held her hand until she was gone and felt it get colder. For context I am an only child, do not have a father, and am twelve. Seeing videos like these online help me deal with this a lot and I am comforted to hear others’ stories and experiences.

[@jessIe76468]

The hardest thing about being a doctor is recognising you can'ts ave everyone. You did well, Dr. Mike ❤

[@singingfan]

💖 As a service dog owner, can attest to how amazing dogs are. They can provide a level of care that goes beyond humanity.

[@winkyman_]

I am so sorry for your loss. Your mom seems like she was the most powerful and strong woman I have ever seen. Not only were you in medical school, which is hard on its own, and also losing your mom. You are so inspiring, and you’re doing so well to even be here now, and possibly inspire millions to cure others, just like you! Remember your mom will always be with you - and stay strong ❤️

[@natalievogel2654]

I lost my mom from colon cancer when I was just barely 17. It definitely doesn’t feel like real life when it happens to you. Everything goes down so quickly. I’m very impressed with how you were able to be there for your dad like that. It sounds like you really got him through it. It almost makes me wish I had been a little older just so I could have given mine that kind of support.

[@skyelala07]

Im so sorry for your loss.

[@ayysweetstea9339]

Sorry for your loss. God Bless this Doctor!.

[@underseven9016]

My mom just diagnosed with breast cancer and it was hard for me being an only child, dad already passed.. I didn't know where to start, where to get money (where I come from chemotherapy is so expensive) But I am optimistic my mom will survive this. Thank you for sharing your story.. It might not be exactly what I'm going through but knowing I wasn't the only child who feels broken is reassuring that I'm gonna be OK.