I was very happily married to a woman that was 14 yrs older than me for 40 very happy years,I lost her a yr ago to Alzheimer's, was holding her hand when she passed,we were very happy together and had a very strong and positive marriage,I miss her alot, great show I've subscribed to your channel because of the quality of the video
@onwukaebukacollinsebuka23312 жыл бұрын
Does it work
@carlgomm96992 жыл бұрын
@@onwukaebukacollinsebuka2331 Yes it does work as long as both are on the same page, we both were raised by our grandparents and saw things in life the same way, age shouldn't be an obstacle, we had a very long and happy life together
@onwukaebukacollinsebuka23312 жыл бұрын
@Carl Gomm what of not marrying ur own tribe how do u look at it pls
@carlgomm96992 жыл бұрын
I never wanted to make a family of my own, I was blessed with a mature woman, a real gift from God himself, a woman my own age at the time of it was nothing I ever wanted, back then there were way too many problems with things like this, am 64 yrs old and I get lots of attention from ladies much younger than me, too late for that now. Sir there's nothing wrong with a mate your own age, it depends on what you're looking for in life
@carlgomm96992 жыл бұрын
@@onwukaebukacollinsebuka2331 Sir may I ask what issue you're speaking of ?
@JudyChilds-fu4em5 ай бұрын
I'm so glad I stumbled on this page, because the focus is almost always about younger women, older men. This is so refreshing ❣️✌️🥰🥰
@sydneystiles151 Жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot for these sessions. I am learning a whole lot. I am 26 and my girlfriend is 20. At first I thought that maybe I am too dumb and she's too smart, 'cause she's way emotionally mature and composed compared to me. Sometimes people have told me she's too young (referring to the number) but I feel like if they zoomed closer into the relationship they'd see the truth of it. It angers me a lot sometimes (perhaps this is another sign of immaturity haha). But I think it was important to become self aware about this. Ironically, I never had this self awareness before I met her. I think that is the first step towards growth...the maturity of emotional intelligence. This video has articulated what I have felt very fluently. I wish you could do a video on some practical ways to increase one's emotional intelligence, in essence the steps following self awareness. Thanks again.
@zeridahatwine40894 жыл бұрын
We need to assess ourselves more on the inside to gauge our readiness for relationships rather looking only to the outside which would mostly be physical age.
@zeridahatwine40894 жыл бұрын
This is a very amazing perspective. I believe people focus more on the physical age aspect because they worry how it will be perceived by the outside world.However, as you mention, mental age is the most important. And the physical age should be of concern to only the parties in the relationship. Very excellent advice Icfcl !!!
@TarusOdroeid3 жыл бұрын
My friend you just said what am facing at the moment.
@ed.chirwa2 жыл бұрын
@@TarusOdroeid ow
@TarusOdroeid2 жыл бұрын
@@ed.chirwa Infact i can't believe 1year is finished since I leave this comment.
@alvinacardoza24812 жыл бұрын
Thank you Madam for the in depth knowledge. I'm unmarried but I'll bear in mind your words
@graceekellem40872 жыл бұрын
After listening to your presentation of the theme ,I subscribed to your channel. Great wisdom and insight . Thanks ma'am and keep up the good work
@mathiasocha83522 жыл бұрын
You spoke very well and I wish older women listen and understand too. I love to marry Older woman but how do I approach is my problem and how it will turn up.. maybe get angry something like that. My reason is that she will understand me better and I will be ever ready to understand her each day as well. But how to meet is the big problem I have
@AnnaMukhwana-pf4qr Жыл бұрын
Hw old are u ..what age do u prefer
@preciousrushwaya46408 ай бұрын
Profound … thank you so much
@katek4724 Жыл бұрын
I'm ashamed to admit that I found this channel a week ago. How did I not know about this 😂. Anyway, glad I finally found this channel, I'm really enjoying the content.
@DamalieK6 ай бұрын
Thank you madam Evas for the emotional maturity bit, it's so important and u explained it well
@mushimiyimanagloria3171 Жыл бұрын
Wow, thank you.full of knowledge and i love the calmness.this is really good
@amaamponsahsefebonsu69322 жыл бұрын
Pls advice me ma'am. I would be 39 soon n my man is 60, we love each other so much n very happy together but sometimes he thinks the age gab is too much. Pls what do u think? Bcs I love him n want to settle with him
@zenniah2 жыл бұрын
excellent points!!
@maulinenkatha7076 Жыл бұрын
I would be so happy marrying someone way older than ma’self.Excellent points there
@juliakabajurizi2109 Жыл бұрын
Insightful
@evanna89363 жыл бұрын
Very enlightening
@iestrrguthrie46202 жыл бұрын
The best heard thus far on age differences. Am adult male.at a great level of maturity. And your thoughts are most important. Not only to the individuals but to society at large. Much pressure place on couples from the outside world by people of oppionions. Every one has them most have little or no support behind those oppionions. Just polleys repeating what others say So couples have also remove themselves from outside pressure. Believe in time much of this will improve thanks to persons like yourself who our trying to help educate the public Lord knows education need to be updated in this modern world. Thank U
@akpachukwuloveth31527 ай бұрын
This message is powerful Thank you so much ma’m I really needed these lessons
@barbratukamushaba31809 ай бұрын
Wow wow and wow,thank you madam Evas❤surely u made just to this question of whether age matters 😊 i have learnt something from ur talk
@realitycheckicfc9 ай бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@lydiakhalai78013 жыл бұрын
Quite enlightening
@annetkajumba462110 ай бұрын
Thank you Doctor
@Vivilaks0756 ай бұрын
So insightful
@gettoknow247 Жыл бұрын
Please does 18 and 31 make sense
@AmusedPizzaSlice-ps3sw6 ай бұрын
Can 20 and 35 get married
@peterochieng-bd7ptКүн бұрын
Their is a reason God decided to create Man before He gave him a woman from his ribs.
@doristanu77489 ай бұрын
Am 41 and he 52 can I get married to him
@evasatwinekansiime51066 ай бұрын
Yes
@dejadeering68243 жыл бұрын
No it dont
@briangode13813 жыл бұрын
One worst thing most volks do has been said we are to judgemental outside first looks what the average person does or is not knowing the whole acts look can be are misleading just because everyone does it I donot have or how we wear senoritas senors fashions dress who bothers who or hurts who we are mostly in a hurry to judge adios
@briangode13813 жыл бұрын
It should matter religion s I see it or share yours if close to each other same likes dislikes no one should be on drugs that re used alcohol being bored doing what I used to work most often because no one to date I joined auto club made amigos should have known my now senorita amigo sooner to do more or enjoy things more than going places alone some of this is not around anymore to do or les of life is daily who knows unpredictable until it happens how to say it I know what I mean my past present but how to properly word say it some want it so badly they just ruin it for themselves in a hurry I have found easy does it just doing hints even in my business if only ten cents just do anything for dinero you never know what could be doing what will get you what I just donot go anywhere doing zero life for me is very dull boring doing just sitting around like my dad use to say I’d come home with fifty cents after doing it long time you learn things too mucho volks say nothing to pick up I donot worry I chose where to lookjust easy does it if I go else where I hate it being told too mucho work or hard or what do I do with five cents then just go some where sit on your ass doing next to what have nothingdios I am tired of this all even in dating no nice ups around or where their own fault they turned down some thinking the grass is greener on the other side not always true
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