DOES AGE MATTER? | WHAT WE KNOW FOR SURE - S2E1 | Soila & Curtis with The Kinaras

[@afreecanradiopodcast6765]

The Kinaraas should be back for part two, I enjoyed the show and have really grown in how I view life and growing towards being a great and understanding husband in the future. Kudos to Soila and Curtis for helping us understand how life is on the other side that most men are afraid of crossing which is marriage life, am blessed by this episode honestly.

[@EvangelicalPoet]

I picked this episode and it's deep

[@Munalaphoebe]

I dont know njeri but she seems cheeky😂😂 iyo apple green date, she was there for food 😅😅 woiye Innocent🙂

[@rasugukinara]

lol

[@melindakemunto7209]

Thanks Soila and Curtis for bringing back these episodes

[@SoilaandCurtis]

Your're welcome Melinda.

[@hpal]

We've missed this show. Thank you for bringing it back. And thank you for doing so despite what you've grown thru the past 2 years.

[@SoilaandCurtis]

Thank you for understanding Albert. Its been a lot of ups and down but thanks to God we are here. 🙂

[@staceyjairah3538]

Funny how this age matter has been on my mind very much these days 😅 then here you are🤭...personally I'd be disturbed falling for, let alone marrying a guy younger than me 🤧..let me listen in now 🍿

[@MtotowaNjuru]

My favorite type of content on your channel is back 💃💃💃💃

[@lydianjeri7943]

It's really impacting weee that was wisdom with kinaras....There is so much I have grasped.

[@SoilaandCurtis]

Thanks so much for watching and finding it helpful. 🙂

[@gakiikinoti4514]

Njeri has the cheekiness of Liza koshy😂 Love it

[@knjerv]

Mlipotea but He who began a good work... Lovely to see you again

[@SoilaandCurtis]

Thanks for staying tuned. The good work is not yet finished.

[@zipporahnyambura8106]

Did I just hear because she is a grandma or what? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 weeee i love this conversation the way God is involved is just on another level 🙏 . We need more and more.

[@SoilaandCurtis]

😂😂😂 yes you heard right. God at the centre.

[@wamuhuthu7802]

Happy to see you back, As always nothing less of Soul food. Never ending food for thought, each topic you tackle opens up some part of societal nuances that we shy away from or have adapted without understanding why we have chosen to believe in them. The content you share is Christian based content and all the Couples you have brought have followed the Christian way of getting together, which is nothing less of admirable. I appreciate that you guys are never judgemental nor portray yourselves to be. Perhaps because it happens you can discuss or find inspiration from a couple where one met the other when one of them had a child, and how they navigated that and if it at any one point was the child a bone of contention for the childless party. How they overcame that and what advice they would have, that would be a blessing to me and perhaps someone else who loves your content.

[@SoilaandCurtis]

Wow. Thank you for your sentiments Muhuthu. It means a lot and we are glad you find the content relevant. We will definitely consider your request, I am sure it will be a discussion many would want to have.

[@Graceieey]

Amazing they honestly need to come back again.Loads of content.

[@SoilaandCurtis]

Thank you Yvonne.

[@JACINTAWAMBUI]

Love the eye opener n the mind shifts we need to intentionally work on. Love the couple.

[@SoilaandCurtis]

Thank you for watching Jacinta.

[@hellenkasyoka6745]

The guest lady is super beautiful

[@SoilaandCurtis]

Yes she is. 😊

[@Lazizisfavourites]

Yeeeeeyyyy so happy to see you guys back. Great content as always

[@ivywangui308]

I have dearly missed you. I have been constantly checking if you've posted . Good to have you back. Acha sasa niwatch na amani❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@faithbwire9164]

Where I've been in my life? Great content and this i must say ni Mungu ametuma very timely in my season

[@SoilaandCurtis]

You are very much welcom Faith. Glad you found it edifying. 🙂

[@mruthgathoni9899]

Love love love the discussion.

[@Sonny4468]

Always learning from you and your guests. Thank you Soila, Curtis keep adfocating

[@awuorawino8978]

😂😂adfocating lol

[@TNJ-gn2gv]

I like Njeri's dress and head wrap

[@thesoundgirlpod]

This was really awesome! Some really good and enriching content worth everyones time.👌 And the Kinaras should definitely find their way back for a part 2.🤗

[@SoilaandCurtis]

Thanks for watching Nonni. We'll see how part 2 can happen. 🙂

[@thesoundgirlpod]

@@SoilaandCurtis sure please do. Also thinking of bringing you both back for another one very soon!! 🤗😃

[@wambuimwangi6082]

I learn a lot from your content. Be blessed and thank you for allowing God to use you to minister to us

[@SoilaandCurtis]

Thank you Wambui. 🙂

[@cnbpodcast8704]

throughout this video, i kept saying "oh yeah! that one too for sure!" yoh gooood stuff love it

[@theessencehub]

Somehow I landed on this amazing channel and have already liked and subscribed. This is such relevant content and I’m glad to have consumed it. Much love from Uganda 🇺🇬😍🇺🇬

[@SoilaandCurtis]

Thanks for coming on board Emmanuel. Share the good findings with your people. Much love from Kenya.

[@MissGathoni]

Amazing content as always. It was worth Listening.

[@SoilaandCurtis]

Thank you for watching.🙂

[@purityowuor2634]

Good information 💞💞

[@judyjepchumba8619]

Welcome family I missed youuu soooo much ❣️❣️❣️❣️

[@marywainaina7445]

Soila mnafanana na Njeri.Good content 💖 I'm inspired

[@SoilaandCurtis]

Soul sisters 🤣

[@nyamburagachara1549]

The topic was awesome am always learning more from this channel.

[@SoilaandCurtis]

Glad you enjoying the content Nyambura. 🙂

[@fromgrasstogracekate1404]

This was awesome learnt something in deed

[@SoilaandCurtis]

Thank you for watching.

[@leahnduta2497]

very informative. Be blessed

[@SoilaandCurtis]

Be blessed as well.

[@africanqueen8536]

Welcome back ... I really missed you 😊😊 Am really blessed with your this topic 👍👍👍

[@SoilaandCurtis]

Thank you Valerie. Barikiwa sana. Glad to be back.

[@florencenjoki7190]

🔥🔥🔥moto kama pasi!!

[@josephinenjerikiruku5174]

Soila and Curtis....loving the content. My friend and I met you at Crave Kitchen last month. Keep sharing :)

[@SoilaandCurtis]

Hey Josephine. Yes we remember you guys. We should have taken a selfi. I don't know how that slipped our minds. 😅

[@josephinenjerikiruku5174]

@@SoilaandCurtis I know right...oh well, perhaps we shall get another chance to meet up...then we will take a selfie :)

[@annahr8282]

This was so enlightening! Some mindsets that I have,have to go.

[@SoilaandCurtis]

Amen to that!. 🙂

[@odangapriscah9652]

I loved this episode 💛... The kinaras were amazing, Soilaandcurtis, karibuni back 😩, ts been a hot minute

[@SoilaandCurtis]

Thank you for having us back and enjoying the Kinaras. It's been a really busy year but we shall try our best. 🙂

[@josphinesolomon2166]

Great content,God bless you all

[@SoilaandCurtis]

God bless you too Josphine. 🙂

[@MissJackie254]

Is been a while had missed you guys😍😍😘😘

[@HuusHome]

Seeing my friend Rasugu here made me click so fast. As expected, the conversation was so deep and informative. Its so beautiful seeing happy young married Christian couples. Bless you guys 💕

[@SoilaandCurtis]

You are blessed if you have interacted with Rasugu at some point in your life. This guys is loaded with practical wisdom.

[@rasugukinara]

Hi Nancy!

[@HuusHome]

@@rasugukinara Hi Rasugu, it was great watching you and your beautiful family.

[@susanasere6258]

Finally you guys are back, it has been a minute...as always great content

[@SoilaandCurtis]

Thanks for waiting patiently. 🙂

[@elizabethmurage5761]

Wah Soila's hair is beautiful ❤️. Anyhu love the conversation

[@SoilaandCurtis]

Thanks Elizabeth.

[@mirriamambiyo9706]

The whole episode was educative but Curtis crowned it all with "adfocate"😂

[@SoilaandCurtis]

😂😂😂😂

[@esterotuya3590]

I'm definitely subscribing. I love the content!!

[@SoilaandCurtis]

And please spread the good word. 🙂

[@isilantoi]

This was so good guys. Thank you

[@SoilaandCurtis]

You're welcome Silantoi.

[@heartout916]

Fun to see you guys 💗💗

[@SoilaandCurtis]

Glad you are enjoying the content.

[@dennisochieng6022]

good content keep it up

[@candyo4670]

I was waiting for the season episodes to accumulate ndio ni binge watch. I loooved the first season so I know this one will just be as edifying. This episode has me thinking about my biases towards dating younger than I. Maturity definitely has nothing to do with age. I'd have to listen to this episode more than once to let it sink in. Thank you so much Njeri and Innocent! Love and Light

[@SoilaandCurtis]

Thanks for watching Candy. It is true indeed. You have to listen to a person so as to ascertain the content on their heart and mind. Age often doesn't speak much.

[@joankalekye9660]

Totally blessed by this topic. Please tackle the issue of finances and when the woman earns more than the man

[@SoilaandCurtis]

Definitely coming soon. 🙂

[@SafariByHal]

I love love this episode makes sense and has answered alot of my questions may God bless you guys

[@SoilaandCurtis]

God bless you too Safari. 🙂

[@HandpickedOnPurpose]

Can I give two likes, pls? This is deep! "...God has accepted & approved me,...then I don't need any person's approval... including my wife's..."

[@SoilaandCurtis]

You can give 10. 😂

[@lucykiguta4719]

This is great! Be blessed always.

[@gracembatha2013]

Nice conversation there. The sound volume is a bit low though

[@SoilaandCurtis]

Thanks for the this. We'll do it better moving forward.

[@DianaRoseAOyula]

Its always nice listening to you guyz, 😌 I learn a lot. I refused to marry younger guyz because of some of the reasons you mentioned. Now I know that I know I know, I know it... not all older guyz are old👀😳

[@SoilaandCurtis]

Hahaha. Age is a good thing to look at but it should not be the final determining factor. 🙂

[@carolinemakena7243]

Njeri's skin is goals

[@SoilaandCurtis]

Yes it is.

[@abilityclan4790]

Wow...first of all welcome back...last week I was looking for your content and I thought the problem was on my side so just to see this pop up...I was so glad my subscription was not an issue. Second, I loved the wisdom shared today.

[@maggiemuhanji80]

Yes I agree with Innocent 100%. If God has approved me. I don't need man's approval. And yes insecurity is self-destructive!

[@janetwairagu4462]

An aunt married a man 9years younger and off all her relationships this is her happiest. Personally ... Shindeni-hapo-n.a. stereotypes-

[@SoilaandCurtis]

Hahaha. We would love to hear more about this. Looking forward to the story. 🙂 All the best.

[@lindagithaiga1974]

Wah Janet stereotypes zitatumaliza na kutukeep pending 🤭

[@mbuthiaperis]

To be honest...older guys sometimes have an old brain...

[@janetwairagu4462]

@@mbuthiaperis old brain and alot of generational trauma resulting in archaic thinking ....... Younger guys don't have those trauma

[@lordvixx9682]

Huyu Dem hakuwa Daystar. Looks so familiar

[@jollymukiri3240]

Finaaallllyyyyy!!

[@SoilaandCurtis]

Finally! 😎

[@amoswere6082]

You guys are an inspiration and a God given gift in this season and Time to this generation. May God continue Anointing you with more and more revelations and surely Bless your union🙌...#GodinMarriage#marriageworks

[@SoilaandCurtis]

Thank you Amos. Glad you are enjoying the content. Barikiwa sana.

[@thegodlyprincess_kenya]

Age doesn't matter but if you must avoid a younger man AVOID😂Thank you.

[@SoilaandCurtis]

😂😂😂 Share your story. 😂

[@thegodlyprincess_kenya]

@@SoilaandCurtis wachana nayo 😂😂😂

[@janetwairagu4462]

It's so sad some of the comments on here . Let me start by saying most relationships where people are not following the usual path inerms of age always nearly work. Do u know why? For a man to Pic a woman who is older and stick with that decision means she must reaaaaly make him happy and also they must really be compatible and the woman too sees and feels it. They also know it's not the usual narrative and that's a receipe for success.

[@SoilaandCurtis]

This is quite an observation. Interesting...

[@JudyWM]

💯🔥🔥

[@teresamboci744]

Age is everything, I would never have been married to guy younger or exact age as me.

[@SoilaandCurtis]

Tell us more... 😂

[@sharonngala1917]

Feeeling is not a criteria wow! that is eye opening

[@SoilaandCurtis]

You will love the next episode. Stay tuned. 🙂

[@sycostiirene7439]

wow lovely Godly marriages are just cute

[@SoilaandCurtis]

Yes! 🙂

[@bramuelmwai7998]

Question: could you please make a list of the "things that can't get into marriage "... as Curtis has said 39:01

[@SoilaandCurtis]

Stay tuned, we will be sprinkling them within other videos.

[@bramuelmwai7998]

@@SoilaandCurtis will be sure to🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳

[@sarahmunga]

Genesis 38, Tamar was given to the brother to make her pregnant(my assumption is that Tamar was older than Onam) so in marriage its not about age. 2nd scenario is in the book of Ruth, Ruth told his daughters-in-law that she was old and couldnt give them sons to marry them and if so they couldnt wait. in the Bible so long as the man is old enough to make his brothers wife pregnant thats its, they were to marry them. My small opinion though!

[@valariogulah]

There is someone who keeps bugging me God spoke to him.

[@wairimumuthuo9625]

God should also reveal the same to you

[@rasugukinara]

If he can't wait for you to hear God for yourself, it's a sign of their immaturity and maybe even controlling tendencies. You have a God given right to say yes or no. No one should use the name of God to manipulate you into a relationship. Take your time.

[@jessyjonas4988]

An insecure person is not ready for marriage First learn yourself before seeking to learn another

[@faithwasieba6432]

Are you two sisters?

[@SoilaandCurtis]

Sisters in Christ. 😂

[@rosembimo]

Wanafanana, thought so too

[@nancymukoya_1685]

In my experience, biggest challenge in marrying someone older especially if the guy marries an older woman, is the family of the man 👨who believe a woman who is older especially if she is already in her 30s..not meet the family's desire to bear enough grandchildren or she will av challenges..i av seen this with my family n i wouldnt want to put someone or be put through that kind of shame over something you cannot control..and that is why in my case i do not want to marry a younger guy

[@SoilaandCurtis]

This is a really good point you have raised...Family! Allowing family members to have a huge stake on who you marry can be a very tricky scenario. Because it means even after the wedding day they will still be controlling one or two things here and there. It's good to listen to your family for advise, but the ultimate final decision should be between the two partners.

[@frashiermwihaki7453]

first of all innocent look five years oler than njeri

[@tevinw.6031]

So will God always talk to you?

[@rasugukinara]

@Tevin. God always talks to everyone in many different ways but we don't have the same level of awareness for many different reasons. About a spouse, it's dangerous to make a template out of my experience or anyone else's. I have many friends who are married who had very different experiences from mine.

[@tevinw.6031]

@@rasugukinara Very true. SO the key take away from this is to have a relationship with God so that you can discern His voice. From someone who is looking to grow that relationship, how can I grow it so that I am able to discern His voice?

[@rasugukinara]

@@tevinw.6031 You are wise to seek to grow your relationship with God. Honestly, it's a journey that requires faith and commitment for life because both of these will be tested along the way. But it's very rewarding and there is nothing meaningful in life without a relationship with God. We can talk more over coffee or something. Hit me up on FB - same name.

[@valentinengare3022]

Absolutely beautiful content.