Does it really go down in the DMs? 👀 ft. Linda Dong & Mike Bow - Lunch Break!

[@morewongfu]

On October 3rd, he asked me what day Lunch Break comes out this week

[@Mailman2-1Actual]

It’s October 3rd

[@rjdiego6427]

@@Mailman2-1Actual why does this reply only have 5 likes

[@LeendaDProductions]

sliding into the DMs LOL thanks for having me! :D

[@Pyridius]

Thanks for guest starring, I'm sure most of us would want you to show up on Lunch Break more often!

[@protoman2260]

LOL 🤣

[@stawbewii]

Hey Linda, it's nice to see you being real and opening up. It's so relatable!

[@Sorozatfuggoseg]

Hi Leenda, you are great. Hope to see you in jkp and jkn again. Hope you want to be in jkn again lol 😂

[@GundamMeteora]

Did you feel like your opinion about love at first sight changed? After hearing those responses?

[@strom51]

Phil actually giving good life advice for relationships and love

[@disgr_ace]

Linda this whole video: I came out here to have a good time and honestly I feel so attacked right now

[@Tvd563]

Phil being worried for Linda made me laugh so hard

[@mr.q337]

Papa Phil instinct kick in XD

[@Ezero8]

He's right, it explains so much about her videos lol

[@kkp4297]

phil being a responsible older brother.

[@trudy_triad]

😂😂😂

[@kellyn.993]

the way Leenda deadpanned “LinkedIn” 😂

[@protoman2260]

Kelly Ngo FR! 😆

[@HAlC-up4hm]

...I've done it. lol

[@TheAntinomies]

Linda: "Attraction is love-ish" Me: "NOOOOOO" Wes, Mike, Phil: "NOOOOOO" God: "NOOOOOO"

[@amieamie7136]

Linda is a hopeless romantic 😂😂😂

[@AsiatiqueMedia]

I know exactly what Linda feels

[@sjappiyah4071]

TheAntinomies LOOOOL

[@MikeBowShow]

I’m a serial dater...Cocoa Puffs..Frosted Flakes..

[@teerich2011]

It's better than being a serial killer

[@esperanzaruiz4782]

New date every morning? Couldn’t be me, I’m in a cere-ous relationship with Cinnamon Toast Crunch

[@toricow8573]

That was corny. Corny Flaky.

[@muzicx12]

"Don't date until you finish college. Why haven't you found one yet?" "YOU DIDN'T GIVE ME THE TIME TO DEVELOP MY SOCIAL SKILLS" Me: *chokes on drink*

[@karenlee4935]

lmao this needs to be a gif so i can send it to people

[@societybye7166]

Love what Wes said about some people don’t need a companion and are just satisfied with their friends and family and health etc. I feel the same way. Also for people who aren’t aware there is such thing as asexuality and aromanticism. People that identify as asexual don’t have sexual attraction for people so they may not like to kiss, hold hands etc. And then there are people who identify as aromantic who don’t feel romantic attraction towards people. They have no desire to date, get married etc. At the end of the day just live your life comfortably and by how you feel and what you want. Don’t let people make you feel weird for not wanting what’s considered the norm in this human life. We are satisfied with different things.

[@magnolia3802]

Glad asexual and aromantic perspectives are being voiced and included! When Wes was responding to Phil’s suggestion that all humans want companionship and implying a romantic/sexual partner is the means of fulfilling that universal need--- and Wes forwarded the case of people who don’t feel that need and can instead be happy with friends, family, career, I immediately thought of aromanticism too!

[@magnolia3802]

Something to add is that just because an asexual doesn't experience sexual attraction doesn't mean they also don't want to kiss or hold hands. Sure, they might not want to do those things. But plenty asexuals do want to, they just don't experience them as being sexual. For me, I'd say they fall more under sensual attraction (attraction to sensory experiences to be had with someone, ex. touch of holding their hand, sound of hearing their voice, etc.) and romantic attraction (attraction to romantic experiences to be had with someone, ex. expressing affection and/or commitment). I guess for sexual people they'd just have an added lens of sexual attraction through which they'd experience kissing or whatever else.

[@HAlC-up4hm]

Phil achieved level 10 dad in this lunch break. lol "I believe in attraction at first sight" "Yeah. That's like love-ish...right?" "OH GOD I AM SO WORRIED FOR YOU!"

[@MikeBowShow]

Do we give good dating advice or what?! 😄😄😄

[@kdpc06]

Yeah, to be honest it was actually really helpful and it’s made me think a bit more on how to engage with people when dating. It was also nice to hear that I’m not the only who feels so pressured to couple up. Since all my friends have gotten married and I’m the last single person in the group it’s just painful when relationship status comes up because I get ganged up on.

[@iwillgiveyouapassion4986]

Man, if Wes DMed me about my pictures, I think I'd be too star stuck to even realize he was shooting his shot.

[@JazzzyGee]

Phil at 13:01 “But. You. Didn’t. Give me the time to develop my SOCIAL SKILLS.” 🤣🤣👌🏻👌🏻

[@Yinyueify]

“hey i like your photos” reminds me of “do you like messi” from kim bok joo 😂

[@ttrinh25]

Thanks for the words of affirmation Wes @14:10 !!! very hard to explain this to your traditional parents and inquiring friends of when you will be partnered up

[@waikayec]

4:10 PHIL I'M WATCHING YOU

[@chachieabara1635]

waikayec Jenn was right.

[@GurjotRandhawa]

Ahaha I didn’t even notice until you pointed it out

[@Valentina-jc7wr]

You know what, just bless WongFu. Watching their videos is like having best life teacher, makes you rethink stuff and also about these lunch break series, it feels like sitting with friends and having really great and important talks, cos not always we have that chance but it feels so good and healing, that’s just how it feels. Thank you, WongFu team! More more great projects and ideas!

[@lalakoaiko]

ah wes described exactly how i feel. i’m 25 but not really interested in dating nor do i have the urge to get married because i’m already happy with my life and just being around my friends and family. i don’t want kids either so i’m really glad my parents support how i feel and don’t pressure me into marrying and having kids.

[@deem3365]

Wes so smooth He doesn't even know he's hitting on the person.

[@thewesleychan]

Yeaaah. There's probably a different word for that lol

[@onedollah]

i love Linda!! She's someone who really likes and cares about the Asian Community!

[@pipsplace9072]

Thank you Wes for pointing out that you don't need to be in a romantic relationship to be happy. As an aromantic, I have no interest in dating or marriage, but that doesnt mean I cant have meaningful connections and relationships that are just as important as romantic ones. Marriage is a social construct!!

[@sweetheartycandy]

Phil: i believe in attraction at first sight Leenda: that's like love-ish 😅😅 Phil: i'm so worried for you 😂 LOL Leenda's so cute

[@xyz-pg3zd]

It's so subjective. Everybody has different needs and are at different points in their lives. But some good advice here and do what works for you. Have to try, and see (date, socialize, etc) what you're ultimately searching for.

[@julzamidala2865]

It's really great to have been able to see Phil grow more comfortable talking about the feels when things get real over the last few years.

[@Iamatomto]

omg i really loved that bit when Phil was talking about parents and when Wes was talking about singleness!

[@goteahue9260]

"Just like love" Beautiful...just like Wes.

[@beepbeepcasucha]

Phil talking about how parents put pressure on us to get our lives in order before they're gone made me so teary because it's so true.

[@safirazuidveen1837]

Be patient guys, you will all find the right one for you! For me, being single has taught me a lot about myself. Made me realise what I actually wanted and that I needed to work on aspects of myself. And that is okay. Because our timeline is different from others, doesn't mean that something we've failed or something. We are on our own path living a beautiful life.

[@Aznlollipop]

I loved this episode of Lunch Break! You guys should have Leenda and Mike on more! They're amazing

[@janidang90]

THIS...just this... thank you WongFu, Mike Bow, Leenda Dee!!! I needed this

[@KienTran]

Man that’s totally the experience. “No dating till you graduate, get a job, buy a house!” Then suddenly it’s non stop suggestions about my parents’ friends’ daughters.

[@jshen5377]

YAY! Extra long lunch break video to eat my lunch with AKA longer break for me too!!!😄 look forward to these every week!!

[@kawaiiafangirl]

Forever alone squad, where y’all at?

[@janikami21]

Loved this episode of Lunchbreak! what Phil said at 11:18 was gold, also at 14:45!

[@xangraneko2290]

This was quite informative. I feel like I understand Linda's position a lot since the points she puts out really can be like what I'm going through. I really enjoyed hearing everyone's opinions, especially Phil's. Also, the way Phil mentioned the social skills part--yep that's also me too. Didn't get enough social skills to actually understand dating.

[@estellelopez6682]

"LinkedIn" lol ....too real

[@KwanFung]

12:38 damn you can feel the heaviness of Linda's voice

[@applejacks0711]

Loved the convo :) def think that as you get older, too, there’s more self-acceptance of who you are as a person . While those societal pressures are still there, you develop the confidence to just be like: “nah, I’m good, thanks.” :)

[@braceface813]

I absolutely loved Leenda's honesty!!!

[@ilhuicatlamatini]

Wow, thanks y’all. This was super helpful and I wish I’d found it sooner! Subscribed! 😊

[@victorli5156]

Better to be single than to be with the wrong partner and a kid.

[@ladymex07]

Love is like a plant you assist it in growing when you water it and give it sunlight.

[@trudy_triad]

Dude on the far left is that guy that will give you some real advice and truth, even though it's unsavoury. We all need a friend like that.

[@chachieabara1635]

Damn I wish this was longer. This is soooo relatable

[@annahi017]

Watching Mike Bow wanting to start eating but waiting for the right timing.. 😅

[@benjimw]

Love at first sight? I say yes, it does it exist. From the first days I saw my now-wife online, I thought she definitely was cute. Almost as soon as we started talking (with Google Translate's help, mind you--lovely language differences), I knew she was the one for me. But y'all are absolutely right that true love is a continuing process, something that needs care and attention like a young plant. My parents always told me that marriage isn't easy but that it's incredibly rich.

[@RealSoccerFreak]

13:31 that's so deep Phil

[@jasonle6840]

Lmao 4:09 look on the right!

[@kirawrxD]

I JUST SAW LINDA ON MIKEY CHENS CHANNEL! Wow she’s popping up everywhere I love it

[@kericwu]

She's blowing up alright! Proud of her! I've watching her since she started

[@caffeinatedx]

I think Mike actually deserves a No. 1 fan of Wong Fu award.

[@StephaniePhan]

I love this episode! Very raw and a good length. Great job, guys!

[@kyoko703]

Hahahaha! Leenda's answers were a trip, LOL!!! Time to slide into her DM's. LOL!!!

[@AlexBobalexRavenclaw]

Wow. This was a really mature conversation. Good answers.

[@Jenoblade]

Damn bruh this episode hit me hard, I relate to Linda about parents pressuring you to get married and having kids and it's because of that I'm scared of growing older when I should really just enjoy and live my life the way I want to. People around me are having kids and it makes me feel uneasy all because my mum is constantly on my back about it. Anyway, I'm glad you guys express that it's okay not to pursue that life choice, it brings me a bit more comfort

[@OfficialCrystalSings]

This was such a great episode! Thanks!

[@RoyalGaming420BlazeIt]

Beauty attracts Personality makes them stay

[@t-riz7630]

Loved how honest Linda was! Great ep guys

[@houav.61]

This was a lovely episode! Not just the topic but y'alls friendship.

[@Worldwithoutboarders]

Linda is so natural Infront of a camera, she should be in movies.

[@chinesesogood]

Proud of Linda who went to the same highschool as I did.

[@kericwu]

Hahaha she grew up in the same city as me as well

[@since_6592]

Phil is next level relationship counselor!

[@honeykai8274]

More dating advice videos! Especially for singles trying to enter the dating world!

[@xeax-r5l]

even though this was one of their longer lunch breaks, it went by so fast :/

[@robinchan4801]

i love wong fu so much, i get introduced to such fun creators, i did not know who leenda was now im binging all her videos😁

[@stellagu]

12:12 What was that pause before Mike said "Girlfriend"? It looked like he was gonna say "Boyfriend" lol BTW I'm not judging, just stating my observation.

[@dreamxpaili]

i obser ed the same thing

[@caffeinatedx]

I noticed that too.

[@dulche5087]

Oh.. Yeah.. Looks like and sounds like twas what seemed like he's supposed to say. 😩

[@sungminkim2742]

Oh my godd. Linda saying that attraction is the same as love as first sight made me HURT

[@iiaaannnn]

"Haven't had lunch for a while" ㅋㅋㅋ

[@ylsflv]

Love this lunch break, thanks 4 doing it!

[@mind_palace]

17:21....wow, some honest truths there

[@LPSawesomnessProductionsTM]

We need a lunch break podcast 🥺

[@teelyt5637]

Really great answers guys👏👏👏, more dating Q&A's please☺️

[@할배와나]

even though this was one of their longer lunch breaks, it went by so fast thanx

[@mags787]

12:55 Leenda: don't date during college but why haven't you found one yet Phil: you didn't give me the time to devELOP MY social skiLLS relatable

[@kirawrxD]

Mike’s “OH WOW” at 17:44 felt awkwardly delayed I couldn’t help but laugh 😂

[@grounded.growing.and.glowing]

haha *17:44?

[@yanzodadon]

Leenda out here breaking hearts I reckon

[@JezzWat3vr]

Linda is more comfortable on Lunch Break than JustKiddingNews!

[@caprobatica]

ILLUMINATING!!!!! Thanks so muchfor sharing these highly relatable and entertaining insights!! Really enjoy each of your inspirational personalities and please keep shining!!! By the way, did somebody mention a possible Lunch Break spinoff called "Wes Happenin", hosted by Wes? LOL.....Just an idea! With Gratitude, Largy (The AcrõGecko)

[@karstenberning]

Wow! Linda is amazing! So much cool emotions :D Linda please do more vlogs

[@jasminejelly6882]

I’m at that point of no dating until you finish college/university

[@bwingbwinggwiyomi]

I've had sooooo many crushes, no dates, but bc of that now I'm like Linda.. Tryna find that perfect middle, it's so bad lmaoo

[@justkeepsigning5032]

Was hoping Mike would pull a Phil (from the end of the previous video) and say "by the way this is my girlfriend Linda" loool

[@mancantchew]

I feel like if you have a problem with your SO liking photos and/or leaving comments, that's just a sign of insecurity/a shitty past. If you fully trust them, there shouldn't be a concern about something as pervasive as that

[@ymLee6891]

Love how Phil just took a steak piece from Mike! lol.

[@PokeMinh]

How can you not love Linda :')

[@ankyanku425]

So happy to see Leenda on lunch break!! Also, I ship Leenda with Wes and Mike. Is that wrong? 😂

[@serenityq26]

love at first sight exists and just cause its at first sight doesnt mean its the peak of your relationship...........illogical! and yeah love isnt momentary, its FOREVER. thats how you know its real, cause ten years later you still feel the same. when you "fall out of love" it just means you never loved the person in the first place

[@chenjus]

This ep was so good!

[@jacquelinisidro1931]

Wasn’t Wesley in a long distance relationship?

[@saanddee]

Jacquelin Isidro he was but they’re no longer together.

[@kericwu]

I felt like love at first sight was a thing when you're young because my first love was like that 😂

[@bradcha5413]

13:32 wow Phil is old, so wise

[@duskshadow25]

Maybe I'm the few ones, but I don't judge my partner or anyone based on what they do with their own life and right, unless the situation is extreme to the point where he/she is a serial killer or those kind. If people argue with their partner over commenting a picture or liking a picture, that just means that individual is very insecure and seems borderline crazy. If you think about that logically, who they like and who they talk to about a photo is their own privacy and their right. People in a relationship, it doesn't mean you dictate their life nor do you have the power to control their life. It's supposed to be two people coming together, grow together, and enjoy each other's company. It really should just be a solid friendship that you enjoy spending time with, then you build love interest on top of that. Just like I would want my partner to respect my boundary and privacy, I would give that fully to her as well. People that tell their partner they cannot have certain group of friends or be with these kind of people, they need to understand that they are in no position to ever tell anyone any of that. Even if you are the President of the United States, people don't have to listen to him at all because that's their right and their own life. Just because two people are in a relationship, it does not mean one or the other gets to dictate over the other person's life. Do people not realize this simple logic? It's also very hypocritical for people to say "you can't like or leave comment on this person's photo." If I'm a guy and I like another guy's photo, are you going to be like "are you gay?" That's just immaturity and insecurity. As long you aren't cheating with another person and having sex while you are in a relationship, I don't have the right to say anything about your life because I'm not your parents. It's literally that simple.

[@Ezero8]

I use DMs like how Wes uses it too lol, so not for hitting on people.

[@thewesleychan]

Chan Fam

[@Alex-lk7qy]

Wesley hitting them DMs. Giving people hope 😂

[@yeeleng6449]

So is Leenda’s name spelled Linda or Leenda?

[@millienexu5684]

Ofc sliding into the dms work when ur Mike Bow *hint hint* 😂😂😂

[@peacelife]

Haha since Linda knows the group she is more laid back and comfortable here than JKnews

[@bibno9308]

This lunch break launched me into a lunch break binge instead of studying for midterms,,, sigh *_____*

[@strom51]

saaaame

[@JLF909]

No one's even going to mention that squarespace totally took Ryan's "woof" idea to link all your social media?! 😂

[@thantzweaung9080]

4:11 Phil is sneaky.