Does Mom Accused Of Being Violent With Children Admit To Having Been Abusive?

[@ashleytollner]

You can tell the daughters are in a lot of pain and frustration 🥺

[@DragonGoddess18]

How can a person ever be abusive "to an extent"? Either you are abusive or you're not

[@audhumbla6927]

My mother is exactly the same. She hit me, she watched her boyfriend and my brother hit me, she lied and told everyone lies about me, she manipulated me into thinking i was bad, she pulled my hair and lifted me by the hair and threw me across the room and sat on me and hold my mouth and nose so i couldnt breath and chased me and threatend me and pushed me and shoved me into corners screaming at me and forced herself into my room, she scratched me, i remeber having marks of her nails on my arms for most of my childhood. she used to throw herself on the floor, like a complete mad man, just throw herself backwards on the floor, screaming, then when my brother and her boyfriend came running she pointed at me and was shaking and said she hit me she hit me, but i had done NOTHING, we just arguing and she threw herself on the ground out of nowhere. BUT she still thinks it wasnt that bad and she is maybe not perfect but absolutly not abusive. its sad.

[@wontsufferfools9332]

@@audhumbla6927 "Not perfect but ..." Is the most common deflection ever. "Not perfect" excuses the little things they did wrong and gathers sympathy. Claiming their childhood was horrific is another Also "that didn't happen" or "You're remembering wrong" are others Know the truth and refuse to be further abused just because they are family or blood is thicker than water. They didn't protect you as a child, protect yourself now. Physically, emotionally ... Every way possible

[@audhumbla6927]

@@wontsufferfools9332 ❤❤❤

[@jamesblumensheid353]

Yes agree. There's such thing as an almost pregnant awnser. Eather YES or a NO!

[@BillyAlabama]

Leaving marks and bruises. In other words, “I didn’t leave any evidence!”

[@tempersflaire]

I love Dr. Phil just writing everything down in the back silently

[@daliahasna5737]

Well hopefully he would since he is a therapist

[@KJ-kd5rx]

I love when she crys but no tears appear.

[@deepblueinthedark9856]

I noticed that too😏

[@imintheghettoratatata6593]

Narcissist tears

[@EYE_GOTCHA]

My covert narcissist mother was a pro at doing that. 😑

[@dianemorris5816]

I noticed that too.

[@boiledburger4463]

Yeah and how she imidietly went backe to talking normally

[@kathconserv]

she wont change. they need to leave their mother alone.

[@paganfox165]

"I dont remember things the same as them" dosent seem to stop her from claiming shes right.

[@lynxkei375]

“My childhood was brutal” so that justifies you abusing your children? Ha. Cute.

[@Saiyan_Steph]

My mum has been abused all her childhood and she is a great person and a great mum to me and my bro and sis. So in some cases being abused is no excuse to abuse other people.

[@lynxkei375]

@@Saiyan_Steph Using your own trauma as a way to justify the trauma you inflict on others is NOT okay.

[@Saiyan_Steph]

@@lynxkei375 that’s what I said, well tried to say sorry I’m not good at putting words together.

[@lynxkei375]

@@Saiyan_Steph no no I get it, but under no circumstances do YOU or anyone else deserved to be treated like that!

[@lynxkei375]

@@samking7916 I am relaxed lol

[@bRina1199]

my mothers childhood was abusive too and she never raised a hand to me. your past doesnt dictate your future.

[@haji818721]

When she called them this one and that one that told me everything I needed to know. She doesn't respect her children enough to call them by their name.

[@Candlewick14]

That daughter is 1000 percent legitimate. She is srly angry over what has been done to her. She remembers.

[@emmuhlu]

That daughter has been gaslighted tremendously. Her pain and anger with it is so clear

[@pamelalansbury94]

My mom wasn’t this bad, but had the same attitude of “well I was horribly abused as a child so what I’m doing to you is nothing!” To this day she did nothing wrong and her own childhood was the worst.

[@mirameyer9118]

I’m sorry to hear this😔 my boyfriend does the same at times, it leaves me in a position where I feel like I can’t do anything

[@justv5136]

My mom has never physically abused me but there are times when I've almost wished she had - because then I would've had proof, to make people believe me. But she has been verbally abusive, gaslighting, dominating, undermining my self-esteem completely and to this day she keep inflicting emotional wounds that takes forever to heal. And yet she claims she was a great mom, because "your grandmother hit me with a clog every day and I've never even spanked you!!"

[@Leo-sm9wu]

@@mirameyer9118 bro leave

[@Blue_Mist]

@@mirameyer9118 you genuinely need to break up with him bc that’s not goood

[@pamelalansbury94]

@@mirameyer9118 I hope you’ve left that situation and are in a safe place now. You don’t deserve that.

[@deckardcain6375]

"I DIDNT-" "KEEP YOUR HANDS OFF OF PREGNANT WOMEN" "I DID NOT-" Dr Phil: *writing

[@G.S.Productions]

Dr. Phil is the type of person who would expose the real truth than the mother is.

[@pocahontas_2983]

It's all about her, her problems, her thoughts about abuse, her childhood, it's almost like she doesn't care about what they have to say at all, their side of the story is dismissed, she doesn't want to know how her actions influenced them, she doesn't want to take responsibility for what she did, she won't even admit it...and that my friends is a narcissist

[@zazlar4228]

The daughters pain is evident. I can relate. It just makes you really feel like you hate your parent

[@MulattoArchive]

I hate when abusive parents conveniently forget

[@SunBunz]

"Here's my thing..." "Apparently so..." "To an extent..." Typical liar's responses.

[@alisonmason7593]

I advise these two girls to cut all ties from this abusive woman she’s in denial of what she has done and is capable of doing she’s dangerous

[@alloysa]

This is my mother’s twin! There are far too many parents that play victim and live in denial and it’s more than time for their abused children to expose them. We never deserved that. Enough is enough. Acknowledge and address things from the root and speak the truth💯

[@jazmeenrayne5745]

The gaslighting is insane don’t put your problems out on your children and even now as adults leave her toxicity I wouldn’t even have her in my life anymore

[@pitbullmom5038]

Abuse comes in many forms

[@adelam.6123]

Absolutely!

[@lucindagaskill7137]

It’s amazing how fast Mom tries to shift gears.

[@dianacalahorra9467]

This Mother is frightening. Initially, did denied any violence. Now, she changed the story. She is an abuser. I

[@ohitsmimi096]

Sometimes it’s better to cut off the toxic family members and move on. She not worth it

[@Usedw0tm8]

I was abused physically, mentally, verbally, and emotionally for 20 years (I'm about to be 24) and I have NEVER ONCE used that as an excuse to hit ANYONE. How dare she justify physical abuse that way.

[@lindasansone3345]

Amen 🙏

[@houby1632]

"my view of abuse was to leave marks" she practically said its okay to murder if you dont get caught

[@chrystallinne]

Just because you were abused as a child doesn’t mean you have the right to abuse your children.

[@donniealbaugh8947]

If you leave no evidence of having stolen something, does that mean that you didn't still steal it? This woman is ridiculous

[@SherryEllesson]

Mommy raised her kids with anger and violence. Period.

[@dawoodwaris]

I ran away from my home at the age of 12 for one day and at the age of 14 for 2 years and 8 months because of constant mental and physical abuse by my mother. She never changed when I came back. I am 40 now, have a loving wife and a successful career but the past still haunts me the years between age of 7 and 22. I completely cut off the connection with my mother as she have malignant narcisstic personality disorder.

[@lauriegerling3046]

My mother did these things...and then some!! The only additional is that my parents were a minister and wife. They hid behind their successful gospel music and were celebrated, admired by those who didn't even know who, or what they really were. I can't find words enough to speak of my mom's sadistic rage. My father molested all 3 of us kids.

[@Suchwerewolf]

“My view of abuse was leaving marks” so your view of abuse was getting caught

[@jallbrig585]

Crocodile tears were laughable !

[@robynhibbert6215]

What tears!?! Her face was bone dry!:ha!! 😝

[@funnyusername8635]

"But they never say how". They do. They were specific right then. She's not hearing it because she's waiting for her turn to talk instead of listening.

[@madibrookebk.]

she keeps saying “this one” like LMAO YOUR DAUGHTER

[@glxskyiscool9990]

This mom had me triggered....but at least she appeared on the show.that shows an ounce of accountability

[@emilythomson418]

“My childhood was brutal” then you should be trying everything in your power to keep your children’s childhood from being the same.

[@jantelopez5626]

press charges .. put her in prison please.

[@m-4478]

Some people can’t be helped.

[@alecia175]

Bad parents, still get to be parents. My husband and I have been trying to have a baby for over a year and this just makes me so sad.

[@Petarosus]

Every single abusive mother I saw, when gets old DENY DENY DENY. I never saw any apology or admission EVER.

[@rebeccabriggs2982]

Fix it, fix me. No lady that's your number one job. Yes it's a tough one and I hope attending the show was your first step

[@luisguillen7005]

She said “I have issues.” Clearly.

[@noname-qw9td]

This is literally Amber Heard's, "I didn't punch you I just hit you". Unbelievable.

[@robynhibbert6215]

She is trying so hard to muster up tears she's put wrinkles in her forehead 🤣

[@haruheh1486]

What’s wrong with this ladies hair is that even a hair-do It looks like she accidentally cut her bangs 3/4 and then tried to cover it up

[@tcmaddox]

It's a wig. Dr phil puts all guest in wigs. That's why they look different in the at home vids

[@realmnthrwknives]

@@tcmaddox not all of them wear wigs, a lot of the wigs if they are wearing them are very obvious. none of these ladies appear to be wearing a wig in this video

[@alr1ghtpal]

💀💀💀

[@laurenhoffmann2839]

@@tcmaddox haha i might ne the last person to ever notice this but i had no clue. Do u know why he does this? Saw a homeless lady once and everyone in comments section wondered how if she was homeless she had perfect streaks in her hair. That would explain that. Of a fight ever occured on stage or if a guest flipped out i picture the wigs flying.

[@Authenticallyathena]

Her tone is so annoying.Crying stopped immediate when he was making her point. She's a narcissistic mother who is jealous she has 2 gorgeous daughters and they are taking attention away from her the older they get. She's not fooling me, my mom is just like that. They fake tears so the outside world sees 5hem one way knowing full well they are pure evil.

[@joansmith1195]

They will never get resolution from the mother. She has built barriers and will never accept her responsibility. The children need to walk away and get individual therapy

[@mailife2494]

I was also abused as a child and molested, in fact got abused by my whole entire family and both side of extended families up untill high school. Got beaten so badly by my mom as well growing up, but I don’t use that as an excuses to repeat that with my children. I break the cycle and became a great mother to my kids, we are all adults so own up to your mistakes and learn from it. You are the mother so set good example

[@alliesinger297]

2:49 damn worst fake crier in history

[@harrisshob5819]

as a parent now, but a child raised by abuse, i can say that i had the belief that hitting and such wasnt abuse. this isnt therapy... this is blaming. she is abusive, and she is also the abused

[@mackenziewilcox2625]

She obviously doesn’t know that there is another version of marks/bruises you leave on a child, besides physical ones 😔

[@TheNicholle23]

God I just want to give my mom the biggest hug in the world and tell her I appreciate her so much. And for people out there who are being or were abused by a parent…I’m so so sorry. You deserve better and it was NEVER your fault. They were the parent. They were the adult. You had no say in any of that. You’re strong and you deserve to be happy.

[@omayraconcepcion9022]

She HATES AND RESENTS her mother. I feel her😢

[@sportsprogress4701]

Why is she arguing she literally admitting that she's abusive

[@Andrewweiland4509]

The mom needs to go to jail and get an no contact order on her daughters, and the daughters don’t even deserve to go to her own funeral because of how she treated her children.

[@NewRevelationUniverseNru]

She seems like an angel compared to my Mother.

[@morgan7112]

Typically, no one who is abusive is abusive 24/7 365. Everyone has moments of kindness, that does not make you only half abusive or abusive “to an extent”. You don’t have to be beating your children every second you’re with them to be abusive. 😅

[@lindasansone3345]

She needs help . Toxicity doesn't look good on ANYONE

[@meavegalager4940]

That whiteboard

[@jimmydavis1657]

This is why young people have the opportunity to leave home when they turn of age. While I don't agree with abusing children, no child of mine would curse me in my home.

[@sarahuber8567]

Trauma begets more trauma.

[@michaelmurphy5916]

Lots of people have had brutal childhoods and the vast majority don't grow up to be abusers themselves. This notion of generational tyranny only accounts for about 15% of those who suffered.

[@shannonmcgivern8858]

"Yes, apperently" GIRL WHAT? 😭🤚

[@BuzzLightyear66]

She's saying 'apparently' like it will make her look better smh

[@deidrejones6075]

She said doing some thing to her, PRISON PRISON PRISON !!!!!!!!!!!

[@maxfranklinmeans]

There is no such thing as "abusive to an extent"! Either you're abusive, or you're not! STOP BEING WEAK AND GROW UP, LADY!!! 😡

[@91KP_SilentEchoes]

When she softens her voice and speaks she is a narcissist putting on the mask. My father is a narcissist and I cut off communication with him for 4 years so far. They are not just master manipulators but they are very egotistical and must Always protect their flaws... by putting on their nice guy mask.

[@LiterallyVee]

You can tell the daughters are at their wits end and their nerves are shot. The one daughter is about to jump out of her skin, she's so riled up. Mom takes no accountability

[@debhammersley6756]

Just because you give birth, that does not make you a mother.

[@SimCityEA1989]

"Don't smack children with wooden sticks" Sooooooo pretty much the entirety of the 19th (and a bit of the 20th) century school life?

[@jantelopez5626]

i hate abusive parents with a passion - and you can bet that laws are gonna change on our watch. . parents should be scared of traumatising their kids. we need to sue these poeple so they know we will come for them if they bully their kids

[@EADUSA222]

Here’s the thing she probably doesn’t remember because she has the ability to forget but her children never will.

[@philmarquez8707]

All 3 of them need to walk away from each other and go live their lives separate and never see each other for ever...

[@PattieCakeeee]

“THAT ONE” ?! 🙄 Wow . Can’t state her name ..

[@Andrewweiland4509]

Is there an update on how all of them are doing?

[@AmusedChild]

No, mom, YOU do something with you.

[@aroguereptilian]

That jezebel spirit be strong in these end of days baby.

[@Mur-zoUxw]

It is sad that there are people like that muther will never change their ways.

[@Andrewweiland4509]

Where’s Jack Trimarco when you need him.

[@bellerain381]

I’m picking up on the mom addressing her kids as “that one” or “this one”….she hardly ever address them by their names. That’s part of the manipulation, distancing herself from her children and trying to make herself as the victim.

[@tracyross5831]

Can I make a suggestion.......GO NO CONTACT.....I did, and My Life, and my kids Life is SOOOO much BETTER 👍👍👍🤗🤗🤗❤️

[@Lionsmaneisdangerous]

They never remember

[@royfr8136]

abuses. Plays the victim card.

[@tyrues1682]

lmao playing the victim

[@artistic_0ddball793]

she gets points for admitting shes abusive but she losses them all for blaming her past and not apologising

[@merryhunt9153]

"I'm not a great mother." That's an alibi. She doesn't need to be a great mother, she needs to be a normal mother. A parent's first job is to keep a child safe, and dragging her kid down the stairs is the opposite of keeping her child safe.

[@moe7706]

when did these comments open up?

[@peskybee4332]

they opened the comment section on these old videos last week The new episodes all have the comment section open, I guess they thought it makes sense to open it on the old ones

[@moe7706]

@@peskybee4332 hmm i wonder why.

[@dlemon90]

@@moe7706 I’m not totally sure but I heard that it had something to do with new KZbin guidelines going into effect

[@Leo-sm9wu]

slap≠ abuse punch= abuse wooden spoons definitely ≠ abuse

[@marianeto6568]

I to got the some treatment fr my kids , don’t remember and it’s tru , had to bring up 4 kids and work I was depressed etc

[@amirahjackson8036]

Them kids ain’t lien I’ll always believe a kid y’all cps been trying to take my kids since I was 15 but y’all know I didn’t let the system get them I’m 18 first is 2 and youngest about to be one and ppl like this still have their kids and I was born in abuse and always promised not to hurt them or let anyone take them away and hurt them this women needs help how can you do this to a child your child I can’t imagine

[@royadartube]

In comparison with "Mommy Dearest" ummm ..... she is still worse.

[@alexdungan4662]

from 2:10 to 2:12 Does Dr.Phil often say what He said?? I heard him say it only from 2 different episodes

[@divinequeen000]

She needs help she may have been abused too. But that’s no excuse she does need help.

[@j3pelfrey]

I did not leave marks and bruises............So if someone was to beat you but leave no marks that makes it ok?

[@jessewalker7170]

When did wooden spoons become bad I used to get the belt

[@loriloy1564]

I can agree with not abusing children or hitting pregnant women, but spare the rod and spoil the child .

[@loriloy1564]

If she is giving consequences and theirs not marks . She isn’t wrong

[@RYCH3]

Physical harm isn't a consequence. And she did more than just spank them. Installing fear and anxiety into your child is not making them a better and happier person.

[@safraz1400]

im aorry for the mother, children should understand