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@tylersanders2388
@tylersanders2388 27 күн бұрын
That's a mess. They're hardly even married. I'd say they are nothing but roommates, but honestly they're not even very good roommates if he's coming up short on the housing payment.
@fhuber7507
@fhuber7507 26 күн бұрын
Roomies with benefits in the bedroom and idiotic kids about everything else. She's as guilty as he is. And this is just carrying over the bad habits they developed in their previous relationships.
@AllynHin
@AllynHin 26 күн бұрын
He *needed* a new car so *he* bought a new car. I wonder how much that car payment is. Who can possibly think paying for private school is more important than not being homeless? I feel bad for the caller. Her life is a mess.
@socketyellow3
@socketyellow3 22 күн бұрын
So did I, but she seems to have this problem and being a tool. Also where are the kid’s dad? Is he dead? That’s still going to be income from the state, is he incarcerated? Doesn’t looks good for her to have multiple kid with him or with other guys. Guys a POS and she’s too used to letting people walk over her
@scottlaux6934
@scottlaux6934 25 күн бұрын
Catholic school for 3 kids isn't as important as not having a home to live in.
@maryanne2939
@maryanne2939 2 күн бұрын
Speak with the school. There may be scholarships available for your money Ds to continue at their school
@JoshuaaColin
@JoshuaaColin 27 күн бұрын
Hate that kids are involved. They’re clearly gonna divorce soon. Sad situation.
@lav7161
@lav7161 27 күн бұрын
They won't. They can't afford divorce.
@hiteshadhikari
@hiteshadhikari 24 күн бұрын
​@@lav7161i think this cheaper to keep her doesn't apply here, he will be better getting rid of her
@tpeters85
@tpeters85 19 күн бұрын
@@hiteshadhikariyou think she’s the problem? Did you even watch the video?
@DakotahMe
@DakotahMe 26 күн бұрын
We I got divorced, I showed the judge a spread sheet showing his WHOLE paycheck went to his expenses. Zero to the household. The judge made him sign over the equity in our house in a quit claim deed. His selfishness needs to end today!
@sandrasimplytoday7772
@sandrasimplytoday7772 26 күн бұрын
This was a great idea. I wish I would have fought harder and kept more of my equity since I paid the majority of the bills.
@marshalltille7770
@marshalltille7770 24 күн бұрын
‘We I got divorced.’ What does that MEAN.
@dayfin1843
@dayfin1843 23 күн бұрын
​@@marshalltille7770 "When I got divorced" probably
@tiffanyjohnson2834
@tiffanyjohnson2834 27 күн бұрын
She has to understand that they can’t afford private school. With his money or not! And if they don’t bring more income nobody is going to have a good outcome. The old saying I can do bad by myself. And her husband doesn’t want to let her know what his income is. It is ok to say I made a mistake by marrying this man. Love don’t pay the bills!!
@BeyondTigerMilk
@BeyondTigerMilk 27 күн бұрын
But it's important to her for others to know her kids go to private school and that her family pretends to have values.
@jeraldbottcher1588
@jeraldbottcher1588 27 күн бұрын
Her husband not disclosing what his income is a big issue.
@jamesseurat8679
@jamesseurat8679 26 күн бұрын
​@@BeyondTigerMilk I don't get how you can spin this to be her problem. She even admitted that cutting out their private school was a step she's willing to take... the husband not bringing her in and treating their finances like they're one is the root of the issue, not private school.
@BeyondTigerMilk
@BeyondTigerMilk 26 күн бұрын
@@jamesseurat8679 Marrying wrong is her problem. Enrolling kids in a school you can't afford is her problem. Divorcing and remarrying a man who doesn't want to integrate lives is her problem as much as it is his.
@jamesseurat8679
@jamesseurat8679 26 күн бұрын
@@BeyondTigerMilk So everything is her problem and nothing is his? I don't understand how you can be so delusional to assign all of the blame to one person.
@fernnoli
@fernnoli 27 күн бұрын
Sounds like she didn't do her research on why he was actually divorced.
@luisvigo3777
@luisvigo3777 27 күн бұрын
She’s calling to have other sh** all over the husband with just her side of this story.
@Dbeaves2493
@Dbeaves2493 26 күн бұрын
She also had to have known.. it's been less than a year
@ryanray6215
@ryanray6215 26 күн бұрын
@fernnoli . No ! Why she was actually divorced ?
@sarahp8937
@sarahp8937 26 күн бұрын
I don't understand why people don't talk about this together before marriage
@soni05131
@soni05131 5 күн бұрын
....or after marriage for that matter. 🤔
@parkermarsch646
@parkermarsch646 27 күн бұрын
As a husband WITHOUT kids, I couldn't imagine not caring enough to just let my wife and kids be put in a terrible situation like this. Stumbled across Dave due to $5K in CC debt and $10K in car debt. Worked 80hrs a week to get that cleaned up and a proper emergency fund in place. This dude is like "lol, not my problem that your account is negative. Have fun taking care of the kids though"
@CarlGorn
@CarlGorn 26 күн бұрын
Agreed. I don't understand how another man can get married and act like this. If he were my brother, I'd be asking him, "Do you want a wife, a divorce lawyer, or a bed in the morgue? Because the way you're acting is going to end in one of the last 2, guaranteed."
@mahoganyrn5611
@mahoganyrn5611 25 күн бұрын
What kind of job did you work when you were clocking 80 hrs a week?
@parkermarsch646
@parkermarsch646 25 күн бұрын
@@mahoganyrn5611 engineer / project manager as my career from M-F. I’d log off at 5 and helped a contractor with additional labor for evening and weekend projects he had. Any other spare time went to Door Dashing / Uber Eats.
@MarcusKiner
@MarcusKiner 24 күн бұрын
@@mahoganyrn5611plenty of service industry jobs that you can do this in.
@gdolly166
@gdolly166 27 күн бұрын
So many red flags...can't keep up. She gained another 2 children not a husband. Sad.
@kayn2756
@kayn2756 26 күн бұрын
Some people don't need to be married.
@God.Almighty
@God.Almighty 24 күн бұрын
my hands are up. way way up.
@119jle
@119jle 25 күн бұрын
Two jobs people. I drove FedEx nine hours then did security eight hours after. Not hard to do. Two pay checks six hours of sleep a day for two years. Man up! $90,000
@johannesswillery7855
@johannesswillery7855 25 күн бұрын
Yes. I've never limited myself to one job or forty hours per week.
@tracybrovan3997
@tracybrovan3997 27 күн бұрын
Their marriage is going to end in divorce soon.
@djpuplex
@djpuplex 27 күн бұрын
Briffault Law.
@miketheyunggod2534
@miketheyunggod2534 26 күн бұрын
Ok Dave. 🙄.
@kristoferchandler8294
@kristoferchandler8294 26 күн бұрын
Take it easy there tiger
@KiingM
@KiingM 26 күн бұрын
Relax, y’all always jumping to divorce without trying to fix things.
@djpuplex
@djpuplex 26 күн бұрын
@@KiingM It's a second marriage and the moneys not working like she thought. It's over.
@pamt3915
@pamt3915 27 күн бұрын
Besides that this is primarily a marriage problem, what’s their income. Since she’s not willing to give up private school, it sounds like they live well above their income. Why didn’t Dave ask for their income & debts?
@bradleygraves5915
@bradleygraves5915 27 күн бұрын
Probably because none of that matters if they aren't working together like a married couple should. Nothing else matters if that is not happening.
@pamt3915
@pamt3915 27 күн бұрын
I already stated that this is primarily a marriage problem. Their income/debts are also important because she is unwilling to stop paying for private school. Dave has repeatedly had people making over $150,000 year whose spending is out of control & they aren’t willing to give anything up.
@vioxx111
@vioxx111 27 күн бұрын
As a man with a wife and two kids, I couldn't look myself in the mirror when I woke up if I wasnt providing for my family
@khrisstake2210
@khrisstake2210 27 күн бұрын
And this is why we have the societal problem now
@miketheyunggod2534
@miketheyunggod2534 26 күн бұрын
It’s called equality. The woman should also be the sole provider in marriages.
@chazzkramer7676
@chazzkramer7676 26 күн бұрын
@miketheyunggod2534 Umm... sole means 1 dude.
@289Mustang67
@289Mustang67 26 күн бұрын
@@miketheyunggod2534 Do you know any marriages in which the man and the woman are both the "sole" provider?
@khrisstake2210
@khrisstake2210 26 күн бұрын
@@chazzkramer7676 that's the point
@user-se6ww2xe9q
@user-se6ww2xe9q 23 күн бұрын
My ex had me in debt with 10 credit all max out I had to wait 7 years to start over she's gone now had two grown kids from another man I'm happy 😊 she's gone I'm doing good today financially I'm bless
@johnjeremih
@johnjeremih 27 күн бұрын
This is the reason why you should NEVER move a man to your home!
@BenState
@BenState 24 күн бұрын
weird arse comment
@adammoss7707
@adammoss7707 26 күн бұрын
Private Catholic school and behind on the mortgage lol
@darrellm.9622
@darrellm.9622 25 күн бұрын
What's funny no different than u behind on ur car payment but u paying for online gaming 😂😂😂
@dominiquejones6758
@dominiquejones6758 27 күн бұрын
She has three children and no husband!! Heck no!!
@benmyers9030
@benmyers9030 27 күн бұрын
She is sending kids to catholic school. She is the ignorant child
@khrisstake2210
@khrisstake2210 27 күн бұрын
That's pretty harsh isn't it
@costco_pizza
@costco_pizza 27 күн бұрын
The truth is a lot of people are struggling out there. We are suffering and don’t know where our next meal is coming from. A proper UBI and student loan relief would go a LONG way in helping us all out. We could pay our bills and put food on the table. Why don’t Rachel and Dave want that for us?
@vbelbel490
@vbelbel490 27 күн бұрын
@@costco_pizza Why should I as a tax payer relief your student loan?
@tonytoni1150
@tonytoni1150 26 күн бұрын
@@costco_pizza most people aren’t on a budget and living below their means, that’s why so many are struggling. Not because of student loans. It’s because they’re not disciplined financially.
@Ashley-ku7is
@Ashley-ku7is 27 күн бұрын
OMG, what is wrong with the Husband? What a weirdo.
@sophie20001
@sophie20001 26 күн бұрын
He doesn’t trust women.
@analyticalchick3064
@analyticalchick3064 14 күн бұрын
He didn't want her. She probably didn't want to be a single mother and took what she could get.
@Kysen10
@Kysen10 27 күн бұрын
She doesn't have a husband she has a room mate.
@donaldrichey3318
@donaldrichey3318 26 күн бұрын
Stop writing checks when you don’t have money.
@SoUnDMaN831
@SoUnDMaN831 27 күн бұрын
Assuming the overdraft fee is still $25, she’d have to overdraft her account 65 times to get $1,300 in fees. That’s a huge red flag for this couple. They probably should get divorced. She’s overwhelmed and he seems completely disengaged from being a supportive husband.
@miketheyunggod2534
@miketheyunggod2534 26 күн бұрын
Many customers use overdraft like it’s their money.
@firefly9838
@firefly9838 26 күн бұрын
@@miketheyunggod2534 why don't people use overdraft protection?
@Bruin2002
@Bruin2002 26 күн бұрын
Why overdraft fee is his problem? If they have separate accounts and she paid $1300 in overdraft fees, that tells me she is grossly negligent to her accounts. Also, she says her account is -$600 after the overdraft, that means her account would have $700 otherwise as long as she paid attention and transferred the money before the fee occurred. Also, I believe most banks would send notifications when account is overdrafted and she usually has a day to transfer the fund, so she could easily avoid the situation if she simply paid attention.
@SoUnDMaN831
@SoUnDMaN831 26 күн бұрын
@@miketheyunggod2534I don’t understand how a bank can let a person overdraft that much. They’re probably giving money away by doing that. I say probably because I don’t know how much money was pulled from the ATM each time, but I’m willing to bet each withdrawal was more than $25.
@SoUnDMaN831
@SoUnDMaN831 26 күн бұрын
@@Bruin2002The overdraft fee is not directly the husband problem, but at the same time you can’t just let your wife sink like that. Why even get married at all if you’re just going to sit back watch your wife destroy herself? He needs to step in to be the voice of reason and say, “this is a big f-ing deal and we need make a plan to deal with it properly”. When you get married you’re a team. You can’t just throw your wife out to the wolves when she messes up.
@ljljlj9263
@ljljlj9263 26 күн бұрын
Nah sis, you got 3 KIDS!!! GET OUT 🏃🏾‍♀️💨
@Rebecca-ci3zc
@Rebecca-ci3zc 25 күн бұрын
So easy for you to say. I suspect she married him for security, financial and otherwise and needs his income too.
@JoeyNYSDnomad
@JoeyNYSDnomad 27 күн бұрын
2nd and third mariages, come on people learn from the first time, get a dog.
@mike112079
@mike112079 26 күн бұрын
lol. No, this time it will be different 😂😂
@odessajackson4551
@odessajackson4551 26 күн бұрын
Uncle Dave now you're a marriage counselor 😂😂
@sitcomchristian6886
@sitcomchristian6886 26 күн бұрын
UN checks out 😂
@lombardo141
@lombardo141 27 күн бұрын
The 13,000 is an obvious typo. Relax commenters, give them time to fix it. 😂
@bradleygraves5915
@bradleygraves5915 27 күн бұрын
There are months and months of bad decisions coming to fruition here.
@bobmcdoggish9659
@bobmcdoggish9659 27 күн бұрын
There's not enough information here to make a judgment call.
@jasonjason5325
@jasonjason5325 25 күн бұрын
Agreed 👍
@fluffyspunsugar
@fluffyspunsugar 22 күн бұрын
My ex-husband did something similar to me. His excuse was I brought debt into the marriage, and if I didn't have personal debt, that money could go towards rent, utilities and food, and he wouldn't need to contribute to our finances. He said it wasn't his responsibility to make up the difference. And since he had no debt, he didn't have to work. When I said he needed to help with shared expenses like rent, he'd circle back to my personal debt and say if I didn't have it, then the whole rent would be paid. That was his mentality. That's why he's the ex.
@MarkYeung1
@MarkYeung1 27 күн бұрын
Seems like they have a serious marriage problem
@mike112079
@mike112079 26 күн бұрын
Yeah, they shouldn’t be!
@TMPS93
@TMPS93 27 күн бұрын
$1,300 not $13,000
@jimmymcgill6778
@jimmymcgill6778 27 күн бұрын
CLICK BAIT. They've been doing that a lot lately.
@lombardo141
@lombardo141 27 күн бұрын
I think it’s a typo…they don’t need to click bait.
@BlakeWheelersBurnerAccount
@BlakeWheelersBurnerAccount 27 күн бұрын
It’s actually 1.3 million in overdraft fees 🤭
@scootertheuce.mychannel4pe477
@scootertheuce.mychannel4pe477 27 күн бұрын
I don't even think that it's possible to overdraft that much and if it is it shouldn't be!
@chazzkramer7676
@chazzkramer7676 26 күн бұрын
Where did you get $13,000?
@rabbidginger
@rabbidginger 27 күн бұрын
$1,300 in fees, not $13,000
@scootertheuce.mychannel4pe477
@scootertheuce.mychannel4pe477 27 күн бұрын
I don't even think it's possible to have $13,000 in overdraft and if so it shouldn't be! Why apply for a loan or credit card if someone can just overdraft lol.
@1965mymaria
@1965mymaria 26 күн бұрын
He has another life.
@SpicyKimchi-
@SpicyKimchi- 27 күн бұрын
I probably have accidentally over-drafted a hand full of times due to timing (I don’t keep extra money in my checking), my bank has always reversed the fees.
@amydoran9987
@amydoran9987 27 күн бұрын
She sounds really unhappy. It also sounds like he’s about himself and the previous marriage is causing stress and many issues. They just got married and it sounds like a train wreck. Her life may be difficult if they stay together.
@zvmZvm0102
@zvmZvm0102 23 күн бұрын
Yeah poor guy, she sounds like a nagging wife
@eldorado1244
@eldorado1244 27 күн бұрын
They should get divorced, its not going to work out
@lindacondilli6494
@lindacondilli6494 24 күн бұрын
Why didn’t they ask about their debt, their income, tell them to sell the new car, the house. Etc.
@lizacopeland2388
@lizacopeland2388 26 күн бұрын
My husband and I have separate accounts but we pay bills together and about spending discretionary money together. This guy can help too.
@analyticalchick3064
@analyticalchick3064 14 күн бұрын
Yeah, us too. He pays anything you write a check for and I buy things in person-take out, groceries, Walmart, car repairs, vet bills for cat, Amazon (ok that's online).
@rltreasure
@rltreasure 7 сағат бұрын
Yes, she is by herself. His head is in the sand and he doesn’t care about his wife.
@ugladden
@ugladden 23 күн бұрын
Her Logic: School > Roof Wow!!
@davinasquirrel7672
@davinasquirrel7672 26 күн бұрын
I would have liked to know how much the husband spent on the car, what the repayments are, etc, because it does sound as if it hit the fan with the car (or was it a stupid truck?). The husband seems to be playing "what's mine is mine, and what's yours is ours'" game. That usually ends in divorce.
@fhuber7507
@fhuber7507 26 күн бұрын
It's just stupid to keep writing checks when you don't have money in the account. And they've chosen the stupid separate finances.
@fhuber7507
@fhuber7507 26 күн бұрын
And we will never hear his side... about her spending like an idiot on crap from Amazon.
@ppoppoiop6336
@ppoppoiop6336 26 күн бұрын
Choose right the first time, y'all.
@michaelcatalanottohandyman
@michaelcatalanottohandyman 27 күн бұрын
Even $1,300 overdraft fees is absurd. No need to exaggerate it to 13k.
@lombardo141
@lombardo141 27 күн бұрын
I think it’s a typo. Video just came out. Give them benefit of a doubt
@alluringbliss4165
@alluringbliss4165 26 күн бұрын
I was afraid to click 😂😂
@jeraldbottcher1588
@jeraldbottcher1588 27 күн бұрын
That husband is a deadbeat dad without being divorced. He needs to put his full paycheck into the accounts. Then pay the bills including the car payment. If he ends up being a little short of cash he has to suck it up. I bet he is walking around with plenty of cash in his pocket.
@khrisstake2210
@khrisstake2210 27 күн бұрын
Naw. Women asked for this. This they will get
@mhodge0890
@mhodge0890 27 күн бұрын
Been there done that. I had a -2000 back in 2020
@michaelmadsen1222
@michaelmadsen1222 26 күн бұрын
It is weird to me how many married couples don't have their finances combined. I didn't even realize that was a thing until I started listening to the Ramsey show.
@maoak5470
@maoak5470 23 күн бұрын
My spouse and I have separate finances. Its the best way to go with a second marriage with kids from the first marriage. The problem with this couple IMO is not that they have separate finances. The problems are that her husband is a deadbeat and she is clueless as to how much he even earns. He needs to be coughing up either half of the household expenses or a proportion based on his salary relative to hers, in addition to his own personal expenses and those of his kid.
@danielfair4675
@danielfair4675 9 күн бұрын
That's because they're not idiots. Your #1 job in life is to protect your future. If you can't at least provide for yourself, you're incapable of providing for others. #2 marriage is NOT a guaranteed life event. Chances are 1 of the 2 involved people are going to screw the other over in one way or another should things go bad. Any combined account could be wiped out and you'd have nothing to fall back on if need be. I'm 59 yrs old, and have never had one. My parents were married 45 years when my Dad passed away, and never had joint accounts.
@michaelmadsen1222
@michaelmadsen1222 9 күн бұрын
@@danielfair4675 I'm glad it's worked for you, but I always felt like when you get married you become one. For us there is no such thing as mine and yours, it's all ours. That's the way divorce court would see it too. Glad you've found something that works though!
@Knyght100
@Knyght100 25 күн бұрын
Incredible how not a single thing was said about her thinking going to private school is more important than food and shelter. Absolutely incredible. What a joke.
@JonathanIvy221
@JonathanIvy221 26 күн бұрын
That’s not a husband, that’s a roommate
@AmyBethB
@AmyBethB 25 күн бұрын
He is putting himself #1 and forgetting her!
@IrishMexican
@IrishMexican 26 күн бұрын
Hold on. This married couple are devout Catholics, yet they have split finances? WTH?
@danielfair4675
@danielfair4675 9 күн бұрын
Being Catholic has "0" to do with the issues
@annaelisavettavonnedozza9607
@annaelisavettavonnedozza9607 26 күн бұрын
How do you get negative in a checking account? All overdraft fees?
@andresosa8842
@andresosa8842 20 күн бұрын
They failed to ask who owns the house. More likely is hers and she got prenup. So he feels like he’s not part of it . Not saying he is right, but that adds to the issue.
@theplaintiff5450
@theplaintiff5450 25 күн бұрын
I guarantee he is making more than what he is telling her.
@Paul-ou1rx
@Paul-ou1rx 25 күн бұрын
I think he knows exactly what he is doing. In no world does the husband have an income and zero goes twords the responsibility of the homes finances. Unless the couple decides to live on one income to get out of debt or make a major purchase in the future.
@cljerjr31
@cljerjr31 27 күн бұрын
Albany- my home town!
@sophie20001
@sophie20001 26 күн бұрын
Would love a follow up call.
@Dreamprism
@Dreamprism 23 күн бұрын
1:25 The husband and wife need to get on the same page with how they're financing their life.
@tituswillb
@tituswillb 27 күн бұрын
yikes .... she must be terrified
@kathyharmon2093
@kathyharmon2093 24 күн бұрын
Every time I think about being alone I just listen to these people’s stories and remind myself what it was like to be married, NOPE NOPE NOPE
@zvmZvm0102
@zvmZvm0102 23 күн бұрын
Marriage is great; most people i know who don't "want" to get married usually are undesirable people.
@DamonMoves
@DamonMoves 25 күн бұрын
I feel for her, I’ve been in that same position before minus the marriage. Overdraft fees are a different kind of debt, it is more urgent and you feel more overwhelmed because you don’t have the money and each time something is taken out you get charged for it. I don’t blame her for feeling overwhelmed.
@rltreasure
@rltreasure 6 сағат бұрын
This very well maybe why he was divorced in the first place.
@cyoohoos
@cyoohoos 26 күн бұрын
Less than a year of marriage? But it's hard to feel sorry for this when they prioritize private school over food
@Chet_24
@Chet_24 27 күн бұрын
Dont overdraft the account, and this wont happen
@RealWallyGator
@RealWallyGator 25 күн бұрын
How much does he make? How much does she make? How much are all their bills? Dave just threw the husband under the bus without asking questions.
@Beginningtopeak
@Beginningtopeak 27 күн бұрын
Is the husband not contributing to the mortgage? I don't remember if she said it or not.
@jeraldbottcher1588
@jeraldbottcher1588 27 күн бұрын
IT sounds like he may think he is but he is just giving her money when she asks for it and does not know or even care if there is enough money to pay the bills.
@coolaunt516
@coolaunt516 27 күн бұрын
Finally a regular call from regular people.
@Fe26man
@Fe26man 27 күн бұрын
I used to bank with Wells Fargo and they gauged me overdraft fees, even when I wasn’t negative. I bank with a money market that has overdraft protection. If I can’t afford it- I can’t get it. As it should be.
@lizh4933
@lizh4933 27 күн бұрын
Wells Fargo. Bank fee thieves.
@MrTmenzo
@MrTmenzo 27 күн бұрын
I have Wells Fargo and no fees
@front331
@front331 27 күн бұрын
I bank with Wells Fargo too and had that problem 20 years ago when I was 16. Never had that problem again because I don't live paycheck to paycheck. You shouldn't either.
@Fe26man
@Fe26man 26 күн бұрын
@@MrTmenzo this was a decade ago… but that’s why they lost me as a customer. At that same time, the only way for my parents to get free checks (that’s how boomers pay) WF made it so the only way they got free checks was to maintain a minimum balance of $20,000! That’s just stupid. They got smart faster than I did!
@Fe26man
@Fe26man 26 күн бұрын
@@front331 I don’t! But I do make money with my money :-) I’m a decade later than the overdraft fee of myself! But it was down to being off by Pennie’s and being charged $35 each time I rounded wrong! Never again!
@TheEckoEcho
@TheEckoEcho 26 күн бұрын
Child support hit the husband hard
@lav7161
@lav7161 27 күн бұрын
This is why I don't have kids. Because I don't have money lol
@Neddie2k
@Neddie2k 26 күн бұрын
This guy moved in with her, looks like it’s her house not his. Looks like the guy has checked out mentally for whatever reason.
@zvmZvm0102
@zvmZvm0102 23 күн бұрын
It was probably her ex-husband's house to begin with.
@analyticalchick3064
@analyticalchick3064 14 күн бұрын
@@zvmZvm0102 He probably didn't want her but it looked like an easy opportunity to take advantage.
@Hoped4
@Hoped4 27 күн бұрын
He is not providing for his family
@jimbrown3366
@jimbrown3366 27 күн бұрын
Only one side of the story
@graceweber2822
@graceweber2822 27 күн бұрын
Maybe he is not enthused about supporting her kid.
@whothou
@whothou 26 күн бұрын
Incels out in full effect 🤣. Why the hell are you getting married to someone if you're not gonna take care of each other's kids from the ex? Especially if the kids live in the same house as you. Tbh it seems like the deadbeat husband doesn't want to support the lights staying on or food on the table. ​@@graceweber2822
@miketheyunggod2534
@miketheyunggod2534 26 күн бұрын
Feminism.
@289Mustang67
@289Mustang67 26 күн бұрын
@@jimbrown3366 Would you say that if it was a husband complaining about his wife?
@jessicanoble1834
@jessicanoble1834 27 күн бұрын
So random I know, but I’m LOVING Rachel’s new haircut 😍❤
@lanetollen7909
@lanetollen7909 27 күн бұрын
$13,000 over a period of a Couple of years could definitely add up to $13k e.g., $28k on 2 cards equal approximately $600/mo interest if you are making monthly minimum payments. If you're unable to clear your CC balance(s) monthly you can get in trouble very quickly. Sad... 28
@iluvworldofwarcraft
@iluvworldofwarcraft 26 күн бұрын
Having her kids in private Catholic school is important to her? You know what SHOULD be important to her even more? Getting out of this financial hole. What we WANT and what we NEED to do in order to survive are two different things. Those kids need to be in public school, at least until mommy and daddy can fix their issues.
@kathyharmon2093
@kathyharmon2093 24 күн бұрын
Or homeschool
@iluvworldofwarcraft
@iluvworldofwarcraft 24 күн бұрын
@@kathyharmon2093 right!? That's a choice too
@Here2Comment
@Here2Comment 26 күн бұрын
I feel like we are not hearing the complete story.
@David-wo9un
@David-wo9un 26 күн бұрын
She said the fees are ridiculous, but how many incidences were there? A bank might forgive one or two but you’re not getting off totally free if you had 50+ different overdrafts.
@sprint7412
@sprint7412 26 күн бұрын
Comments are saying husband may not want to combine money because she is bad with it but that doesn't make sense. If he is the responsible one then he would be making sure the mortgage and other bills get paid before anything else. But he isn't doing that.
@mimosahoney5617
@mimosahoney5617 26 күн бұрын
I feel you a feeling of money gone ...Hope you get help to find the way at the end of tunnel!💖
@juicysmith38235
@juicysmith38235 27 күн бұрын
I have auto draft protection. This is just sad wtf
@kimadams1548
@kimadams1548 26 күн бұрын
I, too, have overdraft protection.
@ianmowbray3284
@ianmowbray3284 26 күн бұрын
They can always live in his new truck omg this is so wrong 😮
@Daveyboy28
@Daveyboy28 26 күн бұрын
Make men men again
@StephanieJoRountree
@StephanieJoRountree 26 күн бұрын
They don't have money for a counselor!
@robr268
@robr268 26 күн бұрын
Show me the numbers! I have a feeling even with combine incomes you don't make enough.
@sophie20001
@sophie20001 26 күн бұрын
Always know how your partner is with money before you marry them.
@barryetherton4889
@barryetherton4889 26 күн бұрын
I feel for her, but still like to hear his views.
@afjm7499
@afjm7499 27 күн бұрын
So curious what their total household income is. And how much debt they have besides the mortgage. Surprised Dave & Rachel didn't ask. Hoping for their sake and the kids sake the solution will be as simple as combining everything and working together like adults. Also - send your kids to public school or sell your house before having a negative balance in your bank account.
@christinebutler7630
@christinebutler7630 27 күн бұрын
Public schools are a dumpster fire. Send the kids to the grandparents to be homeschooled if they cant afford private school. Or apply to the archdiocese for scholarships.
@bovinebeautymoo2884
@bovinebeautymoo2884 27 күн бұрын
After kid #1 and her Spouse was STILL doing this… It was PAST TIME for her to . or get off the 🚽
@EsiriE
@EsiriE 26 күн бұрын
They don’t have children together. Just from separate relationships
@caseysotg
@caseysotg 27 күн бұрын
Avoiding money problems never seems to pan out… the husband has to step up and take his part in the financial responsibilities.
@sarah345
@sarah345 20 күн бұрын
If they had joint accounts, he would just be spending all of her money too.
@odessajackson4551
@odessajackson4551 26 күн бұрын
So why she didn't call the bank before calling Uncle Dave so he can wave his magic wand and make it all go away.. wtf is up with the husband.. Make it make sense.. private school 😢
@Fred2-123
@Fred2-123 26 күн бұрын
Two people who each have been divorced. Odds are not in their favor.
@danielfair4675
@danielfair4675 9 күн бұрын
Common now days
@rayhill5767
@rayhill5767 26 күн бұрын
I’m sure that third or fourth marriage will work out fine.
@pahanin2480
@pahanin2480 20 күн бұрын
When cars are involved, its over
@joeh2401
@joeh2401 21 күн бұрын
My friend switch cultures and the same thing happened. They got a new car and their kid was more important.
@johndone8045
@johndone8045 27 күн бұрын
File bankruptcy Well seperate account works for me and wife so.... They just dont communicate We feel more comfy when we both have some privacy Broke people dont go private school
@atouchoftash2381
@atouchoftash2381 26 күн бұрын
Ask the Creator who He has for you and allow Him to show you. Patience can be hard but worth the wait to marry right.
@lindawilson4625
@lindawilson4625 27 күн бұрын
He isn't motivated to change. He likes things as they are. Please listen to Dave to get back on track, but your marriage issues need to be addressed, too. This is unfaiir. I suggest dropping private school because you two simply can't afford it right now. You can always re-enroll later.
@9liveslisa
@9liveslisa 27 күн бұрын
Nice if you can get it! Ladies, stop being a door mat in your marriage and get on the same page and bank accounts for your finances. Sounds to me that he wanted a cash cow for a wife. Don't accept that line of work.
@kathleencooney1518
@kathleencooney1518 25 күн бұрын
She didn’t know how he would behave before they got married. My parents sent us to Catholic schools & I wish they hadn’t, it was something they couldn’t afford. We would have been just fine attending public schools. Thinking of the stress my parents had makes me sad.
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