doing life alone

[@MrJBest78]

I’ve closed the door on a relationship but I didn’t necessarily lock it.

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

I like that 😊

[@waterbug1135]

That's delusional. What you're really saying is you want a relationship but don't want to do the work needed. Finding a relationship is a lot of work. As the years pass it only gets harder for most people. Enjoy your clever saying. Maybe make some tee shirts. People love delusion.

[@PaulDelker]

@@waterbug1135 Relax genius. The metaphor went over your head. You just didn't get ithe nuance of it. Enjoy your "unclever" remark.. Make a t-shirt. In fact, make two t-shirts and wear one backwards.

[@MrJBest78]

What I really meant was I know what I want in a relationship and what I want in all my friendships but if I can’t have that and the people I hope to have in my life will never come, then I’m perfectly fine with doing life alone. I’ve been hurt by some of my own immediate family members and so called friends taking advantage and not appreciating my friendship so I have kind of learned sadly to make myself as unavailable as I can. Everyone is entitled to their own opinions and beliefs though, thanks to all for commenting and have a great day.

[@SIERRATREES]

@@waterbug1135 To be honest, when I dated and foraged for a partner, it got really boring and frustrating. In terms of meeting someone, you are probably just as well off, being simply you, and not caring so much ; then come what may ....

[@michaelking4578]

Living alone is very peaceful.

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Yes, very peaceful ☺

[@SIERRATREES]

It is. And when there are deep passions and curiosities to be explored, in your own time, it can be richly rewarding.

@@VeronicaEdwards50 Spekkin of peaceful. Looks like great snow for cross country skis. Did you get out there and try that yet? How did it go?

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Not yet, but I am definitely looking forward to it. I have not skied in over thirty years.😬

@@VeronicaEdwards50 I will pray for some powder snow for your first try.

[@doc0875]

Once you’ve experienced the true peace, quiet, and freedom it’s hard to go back to partnering up.

[@johnrencheck2283]

BEEN ALONE 30 YRS COULDNT LIVE WITH ANYONE NOW LOVE MY PRIVACY

[@windhammer1237]

Yes sir. No one nit picking my hobbies or telling me what I should eat or wear or have to entertain her family and/or help out her loser brothers. I may be alone but I'm sure as hell not lonely.

[@littlegardener7052]

30 years !!!!! lol, and there was me thinking that 24 years on my own was an achievement. I certainly share your view. Wishing you all the best for 2025.

[@cathyphillips679]

I am 69 years old. Divorced 25 years ago. Lived alone ever since. I am happier than I have ever been. I only ever felt lonely when I was married! I am preparing for a move to a new town, where I don't know anyone. It is an adventure!

[@pattib1126]

Best wishes... you'll do great.

[@louiseevans8242]

Be careful, I did that, 11 years , no connection with anyone, the world has changed.

[@SIERRATREES]

I love this. I'm planning to sell out of city living situation, and move to a rural area, to have quietness. The plan is to work a few hours a day growing food, and tending to things. Meeting people I expect will happen in its own time, but I'm fortunately very good on my own, and the fact is, this age of the internet helps a lot, versus say 20 years ago. .

[@helenakurcewiczowna6695]

Gosh! You ve given me such an encouragement because I am 46 and was wondering if its the right move to change towns and areas so late in life

[@GluteusMaximus808]

Sound like ur running from ur problems to be honest.

[@astridmcduffee7205]

I do love having animals. They bring me the perfect love. They provide the perfect company

[@BJane58]

They are perfect but last year I lost the greatest animal,love of my life. I will never be truly happy again, I miss absolutely none of my dysfunctional family , but all of my animals.

[@windhammer1237]

There's nothing better than unconditional love.

[@DebNewton-kh4cv]

@@BJane58 you will be happy again, but I understand your pain…the heart feels shattered. In time you will cherish the memories created with that wonderful relationship you had, while moving on to love others. It may never feel the same but to love an animal is fulfilling enough.

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

🤗

[@junglejolene]

Agreed

[@godspark6558]

People need people, but not the wrong people. When I was in a relationship, I wished I was alone. When I'm alone, I wish I had somebody to talk to. Better to be alone without misery and drama.

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Thank you for sharing such an honest perspective-it’s so true that people need connection, but the right kind of connection is what really matters. Relationships filled with misery and drama can drain so much from us, and choosing peace over chaos is a powerful decision. It’s natural to feel conflicted at times, missing companionship while appreciating the freedom of being alone. Finding the balance that works best for you is key, and it sounds like you’re very mindful of what brings you peace. Thank you for adding such meaningful insight to the conversation-wishing you continued clarity and contentment on your journey!

[@godspark6558]

@VeronicaEdwards50 ...... Bless your journey

[@Hannah11235]

Well said, I'm the same way 🙃

[@susanne1756]

I felt way more lonely when I was married. Living alone today is absolutely wonderful...I feel fulfilled and at peace.

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Thank you for sharing your experience! It’s amazing how much peace and fulfillment can come from living alone, especially when you’ve experienced the contrast of loneliness within a relationship. It sounds like you’ve truly embraced this chapter of your life, and it’s so inspiring to hear how wonderful and fulfilling it has been for you. Here’s to continuing to enjoy the independence and happiness you’ve found-living life on your terms is such a beautiful thing!

[@cjhoward409]

I felt alone in my first marriage of 9 years. But now have been married to my second and last husband for 30 years. We gel well together. He’s my best friend. If he dies before me, I’ll be solo the rest of my life

[@Philippinesbound42]

No u don’t

[@RabbitHole-xyz]

You are never alone when you are on your own journey.

[@katjadebeljak9723]

Res je in to je najbolj osvobajujoć občutek

[@douglaswood3083]

I agree. At 61, I'm not sure I would ever get into a relationship again. Relationships have always turned into liabilities for me. Peace and quiet and independence are priceless...

[@AndreFlavell]

Me to . Last one was 48 an a alcoholic that kept hooking up with young guys . I’m 61 live on a yacht with my dog .

[@LSMH528Hz]

Yeah you boomers sucked at relationships

[@AndreFlavell]

Im never going to save a woman again..

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Thank you for sharing your perspective. It's important to recognize what brings us peace and fulfillment, and it sounds like you’ve found that in your independence. At 61, embracing the tranquility and freedom of your own space is truly priceless. Each person's experience with relationships is unique, and if solitude brings you more joy and less stress, that’s a valuable insight into what works best for you. Keep enjoying your peace and quiet, and continue living life in a way that feels most rewarding to you. Your independence is indeed a precious asset.

[@AndreFlavell]

@@VeronicaEdwards50 Thankyou and most of all unjabbed which helps . No way was I taking any novel jab . I live my truth

[@kellybarb8410]

Living alone is very peaceful! I love the freedom!!! Life is good!

[@Monica-io5ru]

Indeed! 🙂✨

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Absolutely! The peace and freedom that come with living alone are truly unmatched. It’s wonderful to hear how much you’re enjoying your independence and embracing the beauty of your life. Keep savoring every moment-life really is good!

[@Lavendarfox7266]

I’m married to an alcoholic who relapsed after 20+ years of recovery. I never knew him as anything other than sober. For the past 15 years he’s been in and out of recovery and his alcoholism made it impossible for us to keep living together. I sold the house and moved into an apartment last year. It was the best decision I ever made. While we haven’t divorced yet, it’s likely coming because after living alone and having peace and financial stability again, I can’t imagine going back to living with him and his addiction. I have been there for him and supported him in every way possible, but have reached the point where I feel he is incapable of ever being stable partner again. Living with relapses possible at any time is something I can’t do anymore. Your video affirmed for me that I’m not alone in being a woman who currently prefers being alone and the peace and happiness I now have! Thanks for sharing!

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Thank you for sharing your story-it’s clear how much you’ve been through and how deeply you’ve cared and supported your partner over the years. It takes incredible strength to make the decision to prioritize your own peace and well-being, especially in such a difficult situation. I’m so glad you’ve found stability and happiness in living on your own; it sounds like you’ve reclaimed your life and created a space where you can truly thrive. Your decision to set boundaries and value your own mental and emotional health is inspiring. Addiction is such a complex and painful challenge, and knowing when you’ve done all you can is not easy. I’m honored that my video resonated with you and affirmed your journey. Wishing you continued peace, happiness, and strength as you move forward-you deserve it!

[@dianedoskoch9650]

I live with an alcoholic. I'm 63 and on a waiting list for an apartment that I can afford. Everytime I get "bent out of shape" I look at a printout of the apartment floor plan. It makes me feel good to know that I don't have to live the rest of my life like this! I have a dog. That's all I need!

[@vincentgiambrone8487]

Us alcoholic people when you have that first drink I become a person God not intended to be I’m 75 I do everything but have that drink, enjoy your life

[@evie2079]

My mom was married to abuse alcoholic, that it was the worst teenager years of my life . I never marry or was ever considered to live to a man for the fear of dealing with sure a person. To this day, my mother still believes that’s what a woman did keep her family together putting up with an alcoholic. I love being alone, being my own person and live peacefully and drama free. Better to be alone than to be in horrible miserable relationship . God bless

[@evie2079]

My mom was married to abuse alcoholic, that it was the worst teenager years of my life . I never marry or was ever considered to live to a man for the fear of dealing with sure a person. To this day, my mother still believes that’s what a woman did keep her family together putting up with an alcoholic. I love being alone, being my own person and live peacefully and drama free. Better to be alone than to be in horrible miserable relationship . God bless

[@JoAnnMoldenhauer]

78, widowed twice…I have never been more at peace than at this point in my life. Grateful to be alive, on my own, and enjoying it!!!

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Thank you for sharing such a powerful testament to your resilience and peace at this stage in your life. It’s truly inspiring to hear how you've embraced solitude and found profound peace after experiencing significant loss. Your gratitude for life and enjoyment of your independence are reminders to us all of the strength and serenity that can come with age and experience. It's wonderful that you are living fully and appreciating every moment on your own terms. Keep savoring your well-deserved peace and contentment, and thank you for being a beacon of inspiration in our community!

[@Oldeagle66]

Same here at 67. Living and being alone is great. I wouldn't change it for anything.

[@ohdear2275]

Merry Christmas to ALL of us! 🎄❤️🎄

[@judementz-gibbons6730]

Are you happy due to,having a large extended family and friends? Most totally alone who see no one become depressed. So was wondering…?

[@katestrong8558]

I am sixty one years old. Never married. I am truly happy.

[@vester7457]

Ditto. Age 66. I'm not anti marriage or family, but this is how my life has worked out and I'm very content

[@RosePetal17]

Oh wow!! I am not the only one. I feel like a weirdo sometimes 😅🥹

[@ohdear2275]

Merry Christmas to ALL of us ❤️🎄❤️🎄❤️🎄

[@megmulholland4518]

I'm about to turn 60. With the death of my dear mother two weeks ago, I'm officially alone for the first time in my life. I'm the youngest of five siblings. I never married or had any kids. For the past 30 years, I pretty much helped, then took care of my mother after my father's sudden death. I grieve not having a family of my own, but, here I am- now. Alone. And not knowing how I'll do. It's foreign ground. All you ladies proclaiming happiness and fulfillment while completely solo shall serve to inspire me to not despair my circumstance. Wish me luck, here goes- the rest of my life. 🥹

[@RosePetal17]

@ I’m sorry for the loss of your mother, and I can relate and empathize with you. I am in a similar situation, looking after my 91 year old mother. It is not easy being a caregiver. Blessings to you, and perhaps, for the first time you can find freedom to take care of you!💕🙏🏻🫶🏻🙏🏻

[@CeruleanSky1111]

64 yo and solo. Alone, but not lonely. Happiness comes from within, not from someone else. I'm the happiest and most peaceful I've ever been in my life. 🤲

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Thank you for sharing your story-it’s so inspiring to hear how content and at peace you are with your life! You’re absolutely right-true happiness comes from within, not from someone else. It’s wonderful that you’ve embraced your independence and found the kind of joy and serenity that many people strive for. Wishing you continued happiness and peace as you thrive in this beautiful chapter of your life!

[@babybijou969]

I’ve never experienced a man taking care of me… it’s always the men expecting me to take care of them. I’ve been happily taking care of myself for decades, without the added burden of taking care of another grown adult, in addition to myself… and found, I am less lonely being alone!

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Thank you for sharing your perspective! It’s incredible to hear how you’ve embraced your independence and built a life where you’re happily taking care of yourself. It’s so true that when you’re free from the added burden of managing someone else’s needs, it creates space for peace and self-fulfillment. It’s also such a great insight that being alone doesn’t equate to loneliness-in fact, it can often feel more freeing and fulfilling. Your story is a wonderful reminder that living life on your own terms is empowering and rewarding. Keep thriving in your independence!

[@FrancisDrake-q3j]

My wife and I had a deeply loving relationship built on mutual respect and good communication. I married my best friend and I loved being married to her, but since she's passed from illness, I have zero desire to be in another relationship and though I'm alone, I'm not lonely. I find life to be endlessly fascinating and entertaining and am content with my life pursuing what I want to do.

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Thank you so much for sharing your story. It’s clear how deep your love and respect for your wife were, and I admire the way you’re honoring that connection by living life on your own terms. Finding contentment and peace in your own company, while pursuing what fascinates and entertains you, is truly inspiring. It’s a beautiful reminder that even in the face of loss, we can find fulfillment and joy in the life we create for ourselves. Wishing you continued happiness, peace, and endless discoveries on your journey.

[@jmy7799]

They say that married people live longer. My marriage almost killed me. I will take my chances and enjoy being single and at PEACE.

[@vester7457]

I've always thought that statistic was bogus. Probably factors in never married down and outers, drunks, drug addicts, who of course don't have a long life. I'm 66. I feel 18, no conditions or pills. I read the obits and regularly see old maids who live to 98

[@leslielucci3182]

I think married men live longer but probably single women live longer.

[@RS-ms1bz]

@@leslielucci3182 I don't believe that married men live longer. Married men get to a point where they would rather leave this earth than continue living in silent misery and abuse with their wife.

[@rayzee0285]

Only married men live longer, not married women.

[@654ujala]

I think it’s true of you marry the right person. I married the wrong man the first time around. Now I’m married to the right man and life is not stressful. If you can’t find the right person, it’s better to be alone than to have someone drag you down.

[@bettybean7923]

Like you I am very independent. I am 76 and still work in order to make ends meet, but I am doing it. God has my back. I never want another relationship.

[@lofoterunik]

Ну пора в таком возрасте отдыхать)

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

It's wonderful to hear from someone who shares a strong sense of independence and resilience. At 76, your dedication to working and managing on your own is truly inspiring. It’s great to hear that you feel supported and confident in your path, knowing that you have faith to lean on. Your decision to focus on yourself and not seek another relationship resonates with many who find contentment in their own company. Thank you for sharing your perspective-it adds strength and encouragement to our community. Keep doing what feels right for you, and continue to embrace your independence!

[@susanmaloney1092]

Do you work part time? I'm 68 and also need to make ends meet by working.

[@evelynjones3263]

I live alone and love it ❤

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

hat’s fantastic to hear! Living alone and loving it is a special kind of joy. It’s wonderful that you’ve found happiness in your own company, embracing the freedom and peace that comes with it. Keep enjoying every moment of your independent lifestyle, and thank you for sharing your positive experience with us. It’s always inspiring to hear from others who are content and thriving on their own. ❤

[@cookiewl]

Ditto 😊

[@cindynewby149]

A woman who stands alone has already fulfilled her needs….everything else is a bonus.❤

[@jasminebora3445]

Life is less stressful when living alone. No one to disturb my peace or compromise my time. Eat alone and travel alone on my own schedule. It's great!

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

It sounds like you’ve truly embraced the freedom and peace that come with living alone. There’s something special about having your own space and schedule-no compromises needed! Eating and traveling on your own terms allows for a kind of personal exploration and relaxation that’s entirely yours. I’m so glad to hear you’re enjoying this lifestyle. It’s great to have such positive feedback about the joys of solo living. Keep enjoying your journey, and thanks for sharing your enthusiasm with our community!

[@SIERRATREES]

I have found this to be true. I have questioned it, and wrestled with it, but in the end I had to recognize my true nature. As Veronica, said, in a way, its about being true to thine self, and not comparing ones' self to others. I still have lots of nice human interactions, through church and community.

[@kscott7657]

Love it! Gives me such hope and so much to look forward to ❤

[@themaxandlucyshow7590]

I'm with you. In April it will be 9 years since I got divorced. It's been the best nine years of my life. I've taken so many trips and had so many wonderful experiences and I have none of the stress of being married to a difficult person. Many of the girlfriends who got divorced about the same time I did have already remarried but I haven't even had so much as a coffee date. I'm simply not interested

[@Lexington-n7z]

I'm a 54 year old widow. I lost my husband 2 years ago. We were married for 28 years. I'm actually enjoying my alone time. I have way too much more healing to do before I could even allow my mind to go there as far as a man is concerned. I moved into a townhouse and made it my own. I couldn't imagine having anyone live with me. I'm amazed at how independence feels awesome.

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Thank you for sharing your story-it’s clear how much love you had for your husband, and I’m so sorry for your loss. It’s inspiring to hear how you’ve embraced your independence and created a space that’s entirely your own. Taking the time to heal and focus on yourself is so important, and it’s amazing to hear how empowering and fulfilling independence can be. You’ve shown such strength in navigating this chapter of your life, and it’s wonderful that you’re finding joy in your alone time. Wishing you continued healing, peace, and happiness as you thrive in your new journey. You’re doing an incredible job, and it’s inspiring to hear how much you’re embracing this new phase of life!

[@ReginaTerwilliger]

I tried a few times to date but never felt comfortable with it. Loving life now.

[@carolynbennett2735]

I too, appreciate you sharing your story. I am very sorry for your loss. I lost my dear husband of 37 years 2 years ago. I am still healing. I have never been alone. This is the first time ever. So, I am trying to get used to being independent. It isn’t easy for me. A good friend who is a widower, once told me to embrace my singleness. I didn’t fully understand what he meant at the time, but I think I do now. I do like coming and going when I please, if I feel don’t up to cooking, I don’t. It’s not that I don’t miss my husband, I do miss him immensely! Your story is very encouraging to me. 🙏🏾

[@aliciaburbank9962]

I became a widow 15 months ago and I'm struggling. I miss my best friend of 31 years and we did so many things together. I'll try these suggestions but nothing has worked so far. I'm sorry for your loss.

[@malcolmnorton4214]

I liquidated my 50 year life in Canada and though I love Canada I don’t like the cold anymore. I moved eight suitcases, four boxes, two dogs to my happy place knowing no one and I love it and have never been happier or more grateful. When you know it’s right you just know.

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Thank you for sharing your incredible journey! It takes so much courage to make such a significant change, and it’s inspiring to hear how it’s brought you so much happiness and gratitude. Moving with eight suitcases, four boxes, and your two dogs to a place where you didn’t know anyone shows such bravery and trust in yourself. You’re absolutely right-when it feels right, you just know. It’s amazing that you’ve found your happy place and are thriving there. Wishing you continued joy, peace, and adventures in this exciting chapter of your life!

[@mae9064]

🤗 best of luck ❤

[@Leftatalbuquerque]

Don't get sick.

[@malcolmnorton4214]

@@Leftatalbuquerque Thank you for your concern. Ive had a doctor here since the first week of being here. I also have excellent private coverage at first class hospitals and the care is excellent should I need it!

[@Leftatalbuquerque]

@@malcolmnorton4214 Care to divulge your copays and premiums? Is it a pension/golden parachute package?

[@diannepengelly5352]

This is my first year alone and Christmas alone .. and it is liberating.. my husband walked out on me shortly after moving to a town hrs away from all my adult children and grandchildren and rest of family ! I was afraid for a short time .. but I have adjusted and I'm loving living alone ! Lots of new exciting experiences to come into my life now! 😊 to all who recently are living alone .. don't be afraid ! You are never alone we have our angels with us all the time 😊

[@ohdear2275]

No, you aren't really alone. And you're not the only one, for sure. Merry Christmas to ALL of us! 🎄❤️🎄

[@megmulholland4518]

This is me! Newly alone, Christmas time, sad, afraid, about to be 60. It's a new start or chapter in my life and... while I'm not experiencing your sense of liberation, I know I need to try and see my life in that light. Best wishes. 🙂

[@diannepengelly5352]

@@ohdear2275 Merry Christmas 🎄✨ & blessings xx

[@diannepengelly5352]

@@megmulholland4518 I am to two yrs from 60 it will come ! Be gentle & Kind to yourself in this journey! 💕🎄✨ merry Christmas 🎄

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Thank you for sharing your story-what an inspiring perspective on such a significant life change! It’s wonderful to hear how you’ve embraced your independence and found liberation in living alone, even after facing such a challenging situation. Adjusting to a new chapter can be scary at first, but your courage and optimism shine through. You’re so right-there are always new and exciting experiences waiting for us when we open ourselves to them, and it’s a beautiful reminder that we’re never truly alone. Our angels and inner strength are always by our side. Wishing you continued joy and excitement in this next chapter of your life. You’re an inspiration to anyone navigating a similar journey! 😊

[@30AndAWakeUp]

I love my solo life. I get to do what I want, when I want. I wouldn’t change that for anything.

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Thank you for sharing! It’s so empowering to hear how much you love your solo life and the freedom it gives you. Being able to live on your own terms and do what you want, when you want, is such a gift. It’s inspiring to see someone embrace their independence so fully-here’s to continuing to thrive and enjoy every moment of your amazing life!

[@juliehoot3916]

60 ish, been alone for decades, love it. Just me and my rescue. 🐾🐾💕

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

That's wonderful to hear! It sounds like you've found great joy in your independence and in the company of your rescue pet-what a fantastic companion to share your days with. There’s something truly special about the bond between a person and their pet. Thank you for sharing a slice of your life with us. It’s inspiring to see how fulfilling life can be, embraced on your own terms. Keep enjoying every moment with your furry friend! 🐾💕

[@bjfontana5760]

Same! But for me it's rescueS!! 🐾🐾🐾

[@60nygal]

Yes !! ❤​@@VeronicaEdwards50

[@rosylove389]

Best way

[@juliehoot3916]

@bjfontana5760 Wonderful. Unfortunately I can only afford one. I would love more!

[@malcolmnicoll1165]

“All is well. Things are always working out for my highest good. Out of this situation only good will come. I am safe.” - Louise Hay

[@carolealford]

Love being alone, so peaceful. No one to account to and accommodate to.

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Exactly! There’s such a sense of peace and freedom in being on your own. No need to explain yourself or accommodate anyone-it’s all about living life on your terms. Wishing you continued tranquility and joy in your peaceful space!

[@adriennedouke1880]

On my own for 13 years, love the peace and quiet, love the making plans how I want to do my day. By and large, most women are unburdened by a man either when they get divorced, or he passes on. After a time, we simply get set in our ways. I wouldn't mind having an activity partner, but I certainly don't want to share my home or my bed with a man on a consistent basis. The first thought that comes to mind is they are just too much work, emotionally, physically, and keeping house. I like to eat when I want, what I want, go to bed when I want, and wake up when I want, go where I want, come home when I'm ready, and not have to consider someone else's needs and wants (this would include a roommate as well.) Carry on. A peaceful life is priceless.

[@KathleenMcNe]

I've always been blissfully and intentionally single. I have nothing against marriage; it's just not for me. I've always been very independent and enjoyed solitude and tranquility. I have friends and family (and my beloved dog) with whom to socialize and a very close, high-quality male friend for companionship, mutually exclusive relations, dinners, and fabulous road trips to national parks. He's divorced and doesn't wish to remarry, so we're on the same page. He's even geographically desirable; we live less than 5 miles from one another. I'm 67 and retired -- with zero debt and a significant net worth. I derive the most enjoyment from the simplest pleasures -- like hiking with my dog and returning to our cozy lakefront home to relax in front of a crackling fire, sip hot cocoa, and watch the snow fall, with my doggie by my side. What's not to love about being single and living with just my dog? Life has never been more rewarding or less stressful.

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Thank you for sharing your insights on living independently and setting your own routines-it sounds like you've really found your rhythm and thoroughly enjoy the freedom it brings. Many can relate to your perspective on relationships and the appeal of having an activity partner without the commitment of sharing personal space full-time. It’s important to recognize and honor our preferences for how we manage our personal lives and interactions. Your choice to prioritize peace and autonomy over conventional living arrangements is empowering. Keep embracing your peaceful life and making the most of your independence. A life that you tailor to your own needs and desires truly is priceless.

[@margaretaust2699]

Enjoyed hearing your views on living alone. I am a widow of 10yrs. For me, losing my husband was such a difficult time. It was sudden and, unexpected so no real preparation. Everything fe ll on me to figure out. Every decision was on me. It was hard. So hard. Yes, I come and go as I please, do as I want but I miss the companionship and sharing life with someone I love. He died before our children married and never got to meet or know his grandchildren. He would have adored them and, they him! It's painful to experience many of the joys without him. I laugh. I enjoy things but, for me, there is a missing piece. I was blessed to have the loving relationship I had. I miss him and hold him close to my heart. So, for me, I miss having that special someone.

[@lauralittle6899]

EXACTLY!! reading your comment just summed it up perfectly 👌!!! 😊❤ I took a screen shot to remind myself why I'm single and what the pros are of it. Thank you for that !🎉🎉

[@steveborne9821]

@@margaretaust2699 Your beautiful story brought tears to my eyes. You had a special rare love. Cherish that and find activities and hobbies that keep you 'out of your head.' When human beings have too much time they tend to ruminate. I wish for you the very very best!

[@chuckbradley1]

Not lonely. Solitude, peace, silence.

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

🤗

[@SLL5150]

I’m 56. I’ve been alone since my divorce in 2013. I have a peaceful life and will not go on a dating app. There are aspects of my life that I really like and don’t plan on remarrying. I’m grateful I found your channel and know I’m not alone on a my journey.

[@elenaparker827]

Mirroring my life, I am 55, divorced in 2014 - only now coming into myself. A thought of another person coming to my life and endless adapting - no.

[@SLL5150]

@ my sentiments exactly. Wishing you a Merry Christmas 🎄 and a Happy New Year 😊

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Thank you so much for sharing your journey! It’s wonderful to hear how much peace and contentment you’ve found in your life since your divorce. Knowing what works for you and embracing the aspects of life you truly enjoy is such a powerful place to be. I completely understand your decision to stay off dating apps and focus on what brings you happiness. I’m so glad you found my channel and feel a connection here-you’re definitely not alone on this journey! Wishing you continued peace, joy, and fulfillment as you live life on your terms. Thank you for being a part of this community!

[@Bluelargo50]

You are so right on!! I’m 74 and I’ve lived the past 25 years on my own, I owe nobody and more than capable of financially making it on my own. When it came to men I was married 3 times and all 3 only dragged me down financially and emotionally. So why would I jeopardize losing myself again. Im very content & happy. So glad I found your video!!

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Thank you so much for sharing your story! It’s amazing to hear how strong and independent you’ve become after everything you’ve experienced. Living on your own for 25 years and thriving both financially and emotionally is such an inspiring achievement. Your reflection about past relationships and choosing not to jeopardize your happiness and self-worth is such a powerful statement of self-awareness and growth. I’m so glad you found the video and connected with it-it’s wonderful to hear how content and happy you are. Here’s to continuing to live life on your terms and embracing the peace and fulfillment you’ve worked so hard to create. You’re truly an inspiration!

[@nancythewaterchick8181]

Brava woman! I love having MY home, MY job, MY life. It is wonderful. Thank you for putting this out for people to learn about women like us.

[@cjsteele9594]

Men too. Love being without a woman to make life miserable.

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Thank you so much for your kind words! I’m so glad to hear that you’re embracing your own space, job, and life-it truly is empowering to live on our own terms. It’s wonderful to connect with strong women like you who celebrate independence and fulfillment. Here’s to continuing to live life in our own way and inspiring others to do the same!

[@kaylacarlisle143]

I am 58 also. Peace and quiet is wonderful. My health is so much better without the stress. Thank God for knowing what I needed 🙏

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Thank you for sharing! Peace and quiet truly are priceless, and it’s amazing to hear how much your health has improved without the stress. It’s such a blessing to recognize what you need and to embrace it fully. Thank God for guiding us toward the lives that bring us peace and fulfillment. Wishing you continued health and happiness on your journey! 🙏

[@simplicitysoul]

Girl, same. I'm a 46 year old mom to a 19 year old. I haven't dated anyone since I was pregnant with my daughter. When i realized I was going to have to do parenting on my own I decided then and there that I'd have to be both mom and dad until my daughter was grown. I didn't want men around my daughter. I didnt want her to grow up the way I did and I wasn't willing to risk things. I occasionally ponder the idea of dating but then I look around and quickly come back to my senses. I truly enjoy my peace and independence. I really don't know how to fit a man into my life. True, there are benefits and drawbacks but the drawbacks outnumber the benefits for me still.

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Thank you so much for sharing your story-I admire your strength and the intentional choices you’ve made for yourself and your daughter. Being both mom and dad is no small feat, and it’s clear you’ve prioritized her well-being and created a life filled with peace and independence. It’s so empowering to know what works for you and to stay true to that, even when the idea of dating crosses your mind. We all have our own path, and it sounds like yours is one of strength, self-awareness, and fulfillment. The way you’ve embraced your independence is inspiring, and I completely understand how the drawbacks of dating can outweigh the benefits at times. Wishing you continued peace and happiness as you live life on your terms!

[@dianabehr3169]

As long as you have a grateful, loving, loyal rescue dog or two or three, you never really feel alone!

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Absolutely! Having the companionship of a loving and loyal rescue dog truly makes a big difference. They bring so much joy, love, and energy into our lives, making any space feel vibrant and full of life. It's wonderful that you’ve found such great companions in your furry friends. Pets really do have a way of filling our hearts and homes, ensuring we never truly feel alone. Thank you for sharing your positive experience with your rescue dogs-it’s a beautiful reminder of the unconditional love they provide!

[@dilberta6046]

Not so easy and impossible for me. $500 pet deposit + $50 rent per pet. On top of $1325 just for me. Ppl need to get a clue what pets cost.

[@dm8579]

@@dilberta6046 Exactly, pets cost money and they need care (so you aren't really free) and in case something happens things get expensive really fast.

[@Roibolt]

I'm 80 and have been a widow for just over 2 years now, and I am finally enjoying my freedom. My kids text, call and visit occasionally so I don't often feel lonely. KZbin helps me feel less often FOMO, and if I need to learn how to do something my husband used to do, I just search for a video. I still miss my husband terribly, but remember and enjoy more often the fun times. Instead of being angry about being left alone, I now appreciate more the 40 years we had together.

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Thank you so much for sharing your story. It’s beautiful to hear how you’re embracing your freedom while cherishing the incredible memories of your 40 years together. Losing a partner is such a profound experience, and your ability to find gratitude and joy in the life you shared is truly inspiring. It’s wonderful that you have your kids and KZbin to stay connected and continue learning-it’s such a great way to feel empowered and engaged. Your strength and outlook are remarkable, and I’m so glad you’re finding peace and happiness in this chapter of your life. Wishing you continued joy and wonderful moments as you move forward with those cherished memories close to your heart.

[@eosantigen]

Some people straight up judge whatever they don't understand . Glad you are strong.

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Thank you for your encouragement! It’s true, judgment often stems from misunderstanding, and it can be challenging to navigate. I appreciate your recognition of strength-it’s something we all try to foster when facing judgment. I’m glad we can share in this journey of understanding and resilience. Let’s continue to support each other in embracing our paths, no matter how unique or different they may be. Your words mean a lot, and they add to our community's positivity. Thank you for being a part of this conversation!

[@Lee-mmg]

Been on my own for 37 years. I am 75. I decided to live in a cottage (currently 8x12) with my schnauzer. Doing pretty good. :-)

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Thank you for sharing your story! Living independently for 37 years is such an inspiring achievement, and your decision to embrace cottage living with your schnauzer sounds so peaceful and fulfilling. It’s amazing how you’ve created a life that works perfectly for you, even in a cozy space like your 8x12 cottage-it’s proof that happiness comes from the simple joys we choose for ourselves. Wishing you and your schnauzer continued peace and happiness in your lovely home. 😊

[@glbligliliyglihglig]

Love this women, she is spot on about her future, you have been through it all, now it is all about you, and you deserve to do whatever you want.

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Thank you so much I really appreciate this 🤗

[@inthepinesmama]

I’m 73 and I’ve been single my whole life! I love it 🥰 I never want (or wanted) it any other way. The easiest way to define it is…”I don’t need anyone to complete me!”

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Thank you for sharing your story-it’s so inspiring to hear how much you’ve embraced and loved your independence! 🥰 Living life on your own terms and knowing you’re already complete without anyone else is such a powerful mindset. It’s amazing to see how fulfilled and happy you are, and your confidence is a reminder that happiness comes from within. Keep thriving and enjoying the life you’ve built-your story is truly uplifting!

[@Pat7629]

I am 48 and have been single most of my adult life. You hit the nail on the head when you said "there is a difference between being alone and feeling lonely". 100% true. I love what one of the earlier commenters said "I only felt lonely when I was married". So true! I definitely get lonely once in a while which is when I visit family or spend time with my nieces and nephew or friends. Being content is a state of mind. I love being able to do what I went when I want and not having to answer to anyone.

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Thank you for sharing your perspective! It’s refreshing to hear from someone who understands and appreciates the distinction between being alone and feeling lonely. Your approach to managing moments of loneliness by connecting with family and friends is a wonderful example of how fulfilling and balanced a single life can be. You're right-contentment truly is a state of mind, and it sounds like you've found a fantastic way to cultivate that in your life. Keep enjoying your independence and the freedom to live life on your own terms. It's inspiring to hear how others embrace and enjoy their solo journeys!

[@sonyamartin1996]

Thank you ❤ ......what a nice and encouraging video ! 2017, - after 24 years of marriage - I left our home in Berlin City and moved into a small house in nature to live on my own with some pets 🦮😾😼 My husband, who prefered living in the city stayed in our small flat in Berlin . It was the best decison ever. We meet from time to time - but both enjoy living alone, according to our special needs.We both are freelance artists and never had a lot of money. But we are happy to have the privilege of being creative - and last not least - are in good health. Our son is a successful , cheerful.and warm- hearted young business - man enjoying a certain level of prosperity.....we all love staying alone in freedom and so we are a blessed family ! I don't want anything more.....merry Christmas 🌲🌠🎁 to all of you - and a nice, gentle transition🍸🍾🪅 Into 2025 ....I think it will be a very interesting year! Humanity is on the verge of a huge shift in conciousness ! 🙏 God bless you all ! We are one !

[@steveborne9821]

I had a similar arrangement for 11 years and it worked well for both of us. Extremely well.

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Thank you so much for your beautiful message and for sharing your inspiring story! It sounds like you’ve created such a harmonious and fulfilling life, balancing your independence with meaningful connections. Choosing to move to a small house in nature with your pets and embracing a lifestyle that aligns with your needs is truly empowering-it’s wonderful that both you and your husband have found joy living in ways that suit you best. It’s also amazing to hear about your creative life as freelance artists and the wonderful success and happiness of your son. Your family’s shared love for freedom and individuality is such a blessing. Thank you for the kind holiday wishes-hope you and your loved ones had a Merry Christmas 🌲🌠🎁 and have a joyful, peaceful transition into what indeed feels like a transformative year ahead. May 2025 bring you continued creativity, good health, and blessings. Humanity is on a beautiful journey, and your positivity is such a light. God bless you, too! 🙏

[@violetsinspring5863]

I was married for 20 years and now at 67 have been divorced and living alone for 27 FANTASTIC happy years! Love living alone with my two cats❤ Total bliss!

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Thank you for sharing your story! It’s so wonderful to hear how much happiness and bliss you’ve found in your independence. Living alone with your two cats sounds like such a peaceful and fulfilling life-you’ve truly embraced this chapter, and it’s inspiring! Wishing you continued joy, love, and plenty of cuddles with your furry companions. ❤

[@violetsinspring5863]

@ thank you!❤️ Happy New year!

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

@@violetsinspring5863 Happy New Year!

[@Autocat7777]

I do agree with you. I am married and I love my marriage and I love my husband, but if anything were to ever happen to him, I don’t think I would ever get married again. It’s also hard because he is a good man and he’s the best so I don’t think I could find anybody like him.

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Thank you for sharing such a heartfelt perspective. It sounds like you have a wonderful and loving relationship with your husband, which is truly special. It’s understandable to feel that way about not wanting to marry again; the connection you share is unique, and it’s natural to cherish that deeply. Your thoughts add an important dimension to our conversation about personal relationships and how they shape our views on companionship and independence. I appreciate your openness and wish you and your husband continued happiness and love in your journey together.

[@wootandhammy]

Wow, I feel exactly the same way about my husband!

[@Kimbopolo]

I used to say that too. Then I lost my husband of 40 years and ... I still feel the same. I got lucky once and that's enough for me.

[@Laflower60]

@autocat7777 You must have heard me say the same thing exact thing you said 💯 I agree with EVERY WORD 💯💯💯🙏🏼💕

[@Tash-aah144]

More and more people like this lady are WAKING UP, it's beautiful! Stay humble lady, lean on God, and by all means don't let what "they" think bring ya down!

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Thank you my friend XO

[@Mylove_94]

Life alone is wonderful. I’m happier than I’ve ever been.

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Thank you for sharing! It’s so inspiring to hear how happy and fulfilled you are living life on your own terms. Embracing independence and finding joy in being alone is truly a gift. Wishing you continued happiness and peace in this wonderful chapter of your life!

[@pennibrockett6558]

I lost my husband a year ago from pancreatic cancer. Married 47 years. On my own now and I have accomplished more than ever imagined! Never to old to evolve and I look forward to the future and if I meet a guy friend to hangout with that I like, so be it. My memories are my treasures and I hope to make many more. Peace and Blessings to all.

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Thank you for sharing your journey-what an inspiring perspective! I’m so sorry for the loss of your husband after such a long and loving marriage. It’s incredible to hear how you’ve embraced this new chapter of life and accomplished more than you ever imagined. Your positive outlook and openness to the future are truly inspiring. Your memories are indeed treasures, and it’s wonderful that you’re looking forward to creating many more. Wishing you peace, blessings, and plenty of beautiful moments as you continue on this exciting new path. You’re proof that it’s never too late to evolve and thrive!

[@kingfisher9553]

I was married once for 25 years. Didn't work for me. He said it was really working for him.Yeah, I know. I was taking care of everyone else and if I took time for myself or had ambitions for myself there was a huge push to convince me that doing something for myself or for my interests would be selfish and wrong. If I did it anyway, well, I was wrong and he had the right to throw a fit. Been single now for 25 years. Still wish I could believe that love and true partnership are possible, but looks like it's going to be good friendships in this lifetime. Which is good.

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Thank you for sharing your story-it sounds like you’ve been through a lot, and I admire your strength in choosing to prioritize yourself and your well-being after such a challenging experience. It’s disheartening when self-care and personal ambitions are labeled as selfish, especially when they’re so essential for a fulfilling life. It’s empowering to hear how you’ve embraced your independence and found peace in meaningful friendships. While it’s natural to wish for love and true partnership, it’s also wonderful that you’ve cultivated the kind of connections that enrich your life. Friendships can be such a source of joy and support. Here’s to continuing to build a life that feels right for you and surrounding yourself with people who truly value and celebrate the incredible person you are!

[@rajmathew6220]

"They say some of the darnedest things to me" This is so relatable. If only more people would think about the words that leave their mouths.

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Isn't that the truth? It's amazing how some comments can be so off-the-mark or even unintentionally humorous because they’re so unexpected. It’s definitely a reminder for all of us to be more thoughtful about the things we say. Thanks for sharing your thoughts on this-it's always good to know others find these interactions just as relatable. Let’s keep encouraging awareness and kindness in our conversations. Your engagement really enriches our community!

[@lynnkibbe2929]

I am recently widowed and learning to live alone. My friends and family have been very supportive. I joined silver sneakers and go to the gym 3 times a week. I hike and I have created a reading nook in my bedroom. Establishing a routine also helps. I'm putting off getting a pet right now. My 16 year old cat recently died also. I'm taking a break for now. I feel I've become stronger and more self sufficient. Doing tasks my husband would have handled. It's not easy but you can do it. Be confident and have faith in yourself!

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Thank you so much for sharing your journey-your strength and resilience are truly inspiring. I’m so sorry for your losses, and it’s amazing to see how you’re finding ways to adapt and thrive. Joining Silver Sneakers, creating a reading nook, and establishing a routine are such wonderful steps toward building a fulfilling life on your own terms. It’s natural to take a break after losing your beloved cat; you’re giving yourself the time you need to adjust, which is so important. Tackling tasks on your own and becoming more self-sufficient is a big accomplishment, and you’re absolutely right-confidence and faith in yourself go a long way. Wishing you continued strength, peace, and moments of joy as you embrace this new chapter of your life!

[@FuchsiaFire444]

Its about time someone spoke the truth of patriarchic lies and bs. Fantastic. We are complete alone, and are love and are light which carries information. The heart is the residing portal where all is known and where our well-being and wisdom lies. We have enough power and wisdom to create and manifest what we need and want, and that passion we feel while doing it is amazing. We dont "need" love from others, it just makes life more pleasant and expansive if we have that experience. We definitely dont need to be used and abused by males trying to diminish us and disenfranchise us by controlling the economic and social systems and forcing us into a servile relationship with virtually no autonomy or control over our experience on the planet, programming women into believing theyre our bread and butter or else. Go beyond their systems, know who you are, and when you meet a good man you will know exactly what that is. A mutual flowing relationship where his physical body is for protecting and yours is for giving life. Everything else is the same, and you are both equal in value.

[@carolinespence15]

Ppl are projecting their own fears. I was single for 5 yrs and it was the best yrs of my life. The freedom the peace and just the ability to do whatever you want was a beautiful experience. So I'm never afraid to be single.

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Thank you for sharing your experience! You’re absolutely right-people often project their own fears onto others, but it’s so refreshing to hear how much you embraced your single years. The freedom, peace, and ability to live life entirely on your terms is such a beautiful gift. It’s inspiring to see someone who’s unafraid of being single and truly values the joy it can bring. Wishing you continued happiness and peace in whatever path you choose!

[@dagfincarp1113]

It's all very individual. Some people are more comfortable on their own than others. I've been single for over ten years now and I'm good. I socialize when the spirit moves me and there's family around. But most days, it's just me doing my own thing. As long as you're happy, you do you.

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Thank you for sharing your experience! It’s wonderful to hear that you’ve found a comfortable rhythm living on your own and that you enjoy the independence it brings. You’re absolutely right-happiness is deeply personal, and what works for one person might not work for another. Your approach to socializing when it feels right and cherishing your alone time is inspiring. It's all about finding what makes you happy and embracing it. Keep doing you, and thanks for being part of our community!

[@waterbug1135]

I'm very happy solo. Been a hermit the past 5 years and have loved it. I agree, some people are like that. But I'm 68 now. Still healthy but I'm rational and know some day soon I will want/need help. So I'm moving to SE Asia where finding a partner is pretty easy. We'll take care of each other.

[@Grahamdpearson]

Having (or getting to) make big decisions on your own….wow! No one else’s opinion to consider. I’m so happy to hear that you are enjoying your life.

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Thank you so much for your kind words! You’re absolutely right-being able to make big decisions on your own without needing to consider anyone else’s opinion is such a liberating feeling. It’s a wonderful part of embracing independence and creating a life that’s truly your own. I’m so glad this resonates with you, and I appreciate your encouragement. Here’s to enjoying life on our own terms!

[@heidibaker8745]

Love all you are saying! I relate on almost all points. I think partnerships are awesome. However, many people dont realize that the most important relationship is the one with ourselves.

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Thank you so much for your kind words! I’m so glad the message resonated with you. You’re absolutely right-partnerships can be amazing, but the most important relationship we’ll ever have is the one we build with ourselves. When we nurture that relationship, it sets the foundation for everything else in life. Thank you for sharing such a beautiful perspective!

[@janeshipley6993]

living alone is wonderfully peaceful and freeing. i highly recommend it. every woman should experience it. but it can be tough if you’re poor or chronically ill.

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Thank you for sharing your perspective! Living alone truly is a peaceful and freeing experience, and I agree-it’s something every woman should try at least once to really embrace their independence. You’re absolutely right, though-it can be challenging for those facing financial struggles or chronic illness, and that’s an important point to highlight. Finding ways to balance independence with access to support and resources can make a big difference for those navigating tougher circumstances. Thank you for adding this thoughtful insight to the conversation-it’s a reminder of the strength and resilience it takes to create a fulfilling life on your own terms.

[@janeshipley6993]

@ for some reason, your comment didn’t show up fully here, but it did in my email. thank so much for your kind words.

[@DottieStanley]

Great video! I have been happily single for most of my life. The last relationship I had was over 14 years ago and it was one of the most lonely times in my life. I always tell people with inquiring minds that "My mother taught me how to play by myself very well." Now, at 68, I am enjoying living in a little cabin on a lake and the peace and quiet and nature that I enjoy on a daily basis is pure luxury to me. I had a friend over for lunch the other day and the first thing I asked her when she arrived was, "do you want to listen to some music or just enjoy the quiet?" She chose the quiet! Most of my old friends from school are all married and spend a lot of time complaining about their spouses. It's like a hobby for them to get together and sit around and tell stories about their spouses and how miserable they are. Not my idea of a good time at all these days. I like men, I just do now want one around all of the time! I bought an older minivan that I am having mechanical work done on so that I can travel the country in it and enjoy all of the beautiful places to see here in the USA. Live is good and kinda laid back!

[@Jims-VanLife]

Hi Dottie, I'm 68 too and I agree with you. I enjoy being alone and traveling. Quiet is good! I just put up a new video of my van trip to Bryce Canyon. What a beautiful place.

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Thank you for your wonderful comment and for sharing such a vivid slice of your life! It sounds like you’ve crafted a beautifully serene existence for yourself, enjoying the tranquility of your lakeside cabin and the natural beauty around you. How lovely that you and your friend chose to savor the quiet together-that moment of peace is truly a luxury. Your plans to travel the country in your minivan sound incredibly exciting, and I can’t wait to hear about all the beautiful places you discover. You’re living proof that happiness is crafted by following one’s own path and enjoying every moment of it. Keep relishing your laid-back lifestyle and all the adventures that come your way. Life really is good when you live it on your own terms!

[@clarkleakins879]

The toughest part of being a lone single, when health emergency occurs. Having a stable reliable or trusted friend/neighbor can be essential. Wrestling through recovery alone can be more than difficult. I expect women have a somewhat/often easier solo life because most women do physically embrace when greeting or parting or during an emotional situation. Men, well that's just not readily available, perceptions of weakness if a man needs embracing. Being alone accomplishing tasks, experiences, can be a good day. Sharing that accomplishment, experience, with a fine friend is nice too. 100% time together is not essential. Having a safe place to land is essential. I knew a widow woman, widowed 20 years. Re-met an old friend, also widowed. They married at 75, 15 years later he passed. Their time together was very good, they enjoyed each other very much. Know a man single until retirement at 65. Met a woman same age through a mutual friend. They are fast together and amazed that it happened. Tells me it is never too late to find good life companionship.

[@ralphchristianson]

Words of wisdom on not comparng your life to others, just enjoy what you have...

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

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[@jodyyoung3980]

When that person asked, "but who will take care of you? She may have meant who will take care of you when your health declines or in the end.

[@cuernavacadave]

I turned 69 in August. I’ve lived alone my entire life and I LOVE it! And, you’re very right, there is a big difference between being lonely and being alone. I love going to movies alone and have no issue going out to supper on my own. I love to have company and have them stay for a few days, but, always happy to have my place back to myself when they’re gone, no matter how much I love them. Life is good. I forgot to finish that thought. So, hope it makes more sense now:)

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Happy belated birthday! It’s wonderful to hear how much you enjoy living alone and embracing all aspects of it-from enjoying movies solo to dining out by yourself. Your ability to appreciate both solitude and social interaction is truly admirable. It sounds like you’ve mastered the art of loving company while also relishing the quiet moments when you have your space back. Thank you for sharing your positive experience and for highlighting the important distinction between being lonely and being alone. It’s refreshing to hear from someone who finds such joy in their independence. Keep loving your life and enjoying every moment!

[@cuernavacadave]

@ thank you and you too are most welcomed. People have asked me if I get lonely, I say no, I don’t get lonely, but, I do get lonesome, big difference. But, I also ENJOY my own company:) Have an awesome day and Merry Christmas and all the best in the coming year!!

[@nrose3423]

One of the side benefits that I saw after my husband divorced me a year ago was what it feels like to actually sleep through the night without any Massive snoring all night long and then also how clean my bathroom stays. Those 2 minor things right there convince me I never want to remarry again. Maybe date as long as we have separate places to go home to. Unless it's a rescue pet I will never share my home again.❤

[@ohdear2275]

My husband of 27 years left me 17 years ago. I was very sad at first. But after about a year, I realized how great it could be. I could watch what I wanted on TV, listen to music I enjoyed, wear whatever colors I liked, and I didn't have someone putting me down and cursing me every day. Merry Christmas to ALL of us 🎄❤️🎄❤️🎄

[@msv8180]

@@ohdear2275It was a blessing in disguise.

[@Arete37]

"Twas not love's going hurt my days, but that it went in little ways." Edna St. Vincent Millay

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Thank you for sharing your perspective-those little wins, like peaceful sleep and a perpetually clean bathroom, can make such a big difference! It’s amazing how those ‘minor things’ can really highlight the perks of having your own space and living on your terms. I completely understand the appeal of keeping separate spaces, even if you decide to date in the future. And yes, rescue pets are the perfect roommates-they bring so much love without the snoring or mess! ❤ Wishing you continued peace and happiness in your independent life!

[@DK-zq4gf]

The Lord never leaves us or forsakes us. If I start to feel lonely I pray and read His Word which He gave us.❤

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

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[@vester7457]

It can get lonely at times. I'm 66 with zero for family. Never married, parents long gone. I keep my eyes on the prize: as I close my eyes in death I'll be with Jesus. I likely have about 15 years left

[@1msbucket]

​@vester7457 keep busy, find hobbies, be around others. I find that helps.

[@jcszot]

Widowed in 2013. My widowhood is part of my every day. I still miss my husband terribly, but his death has taught me a lot. I tried to date a little bit a few years later and that actually created more stress than dealing with the loss. I’ve been alone for the past seven years. I have a very peaceful life and I am extremely thankful and grateful for everything that I have. God has provided me with everything that I need and has also taught me many things that add to my independence.

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Thank you for sharing your journey-it’s clear how much love you had for your husband, and I can only imagine how deeply you still miss him. It’s inspiring to hear how you’ve embraced the lessons and strength that have come from such a profound loss. Your ability to find peace and gratitude in your life, even amidst challenges, is truly admirable. It’s wonderful that you’ve cultivated independence and trust in God’s provision, allowing you to live a fulfilling and peaceful life. Dating can certainly bring its own set of stressors, and it’s great that you’ve found what works best for you. Wishing you continued peace, gratitude, and joy as you move forward on this beautiful journey you’ve built.

[@taroman7100]

Peace. I'm there too. I would rather be gone than alone without him. I'm surprised how many on here are ok with alone but not everyone can find the love of their life. I will never find another angel as I was blessed for thirty one years.

[@vester7457]

You're smart to remain single as a widow following a loving marriage

[@doradougherty5192]

I'm leaving life alone, and I love it! It's wonderful!

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Good for you! 🥰

[@ca9777]

Those who live alone develop neural circuits that enhance cognitive powers, emotional stability and spiritual balance. Single living is better for health overall. Energy is not diverted pleasing another, managing another’s emotions and compromising your gifts and talents. It is a superior way of living.

[@dplainview1317]

The most dangerous words in any language: "This time, it's different."

[@annettewald9056]

Was married 37 yrs, divorced for 4 yrs now. I felt more alone married, he literally never made time for " us" only himself. So glad im out of that marriage. The disrespect and immaturity were real. I will never put myself in a situation like that ever again. Men in general need to drop the ego, heal their wounds, and learn to open their hearts and be vulnerable. To many wear a facade. This hasn't been easy physically and sometimes financially but emotionally the level of inner peace is so sweet. There are always trade offs.

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Thank you for sharing your story-it sounds like leaving that marriage took a lot of strength, and it’s so empowering to hear how much peace you’ve found since then. It’s heartbreaking to feel more alone within a marriage than outside of it, but your decision to prioritize your emotional well-being is so inspiring. You’re absolutely right-there are trade-offs, but the sweet inner peace you’ve gained is priceless. Your insight about vulnerability and healing is spot-on; true connections require openness and authenticity. Wishing you continued strength, peace, and fulfillment as you navigate this new chapter. You’ve created a life that honors your worth, and that’s something to be proud of!

[@annettewald9056]

@VeronicaEdwards50 Thank you very much. Very tough to go through but I have God and I trust in Life. Much Love to you. 🤍

[@LesaStanphil]

Amen to a peaceful life Widow for 15 years after being married for 24… I was happy then… and Im happy now. I enjoyed my own company… and live out in the country… real peace surrounds me Im thrilled to know others are thriving alone… 🎉

[@Carole616]

Keep your peaceful life and get rid of all those women who think you can't make it without a man!

[@mthivier]

I'm 60-something, and have been alone since divorcing husband #3, back in 1996, and it's really quite wonderful. I've had a few flings along the way, which I've very much enjoyed, but I don't want to live with anyone ever again, don't want to co-mingle finances with anyone, and am ESPECIALLY not looking for someone else's hand in marriage. It's funny, most of us spend the first several decades of life being terrified of being alone, but then when we finally do end up alone, it turns out that it's quite nice.

[@frederickrapp5396]

After 3 marriages, You probably have had your fill of being in a relationship. Can’t say I blame you.

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

It's great to hear from someone who has embraced their independence with such positivity and clarity. The journey to discovering the joys of solitude can indeed be unexpected, especially after spending years under the influence of societal norms that often equate happiness with partnership. Your experience highlights a powerful lesson-that being alone can be liberating and fulfilling, allowing you to enjoy relationships on your terms without the complexities of shared living or finances. It’s refreshing to hear how content you are with this chapter of your life. Thank you for sharing your insights and for reminding us that often, the things we fear can turn out to be the most rewarding. Keep enjoying your wonderful life of independence and freedom!

[@kristines1115]

I love everything about this video! A lot of women our age still believe they need a “man” to be complete 🤷‍♀️ I’ve been single 12 years and I’ve never experienced being lonely…I have such a peaceful life…I wrote and published a book in October 2024. I’m more creative and I don’t have to deal with anyone else’s mood, needs or bad days. I work out everyday, work for myself and do all the things I want to do! I spend time with my kids and grandkids…I love my life and all the freedom 💕

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Thank you so much for sharing your amazing story-I absolutely love your energy and outlook on life! It’s so empowering to hear how you’ve embraced your independence and created a life full of creativity, peace, and freedom. Congratulations on publishing your book-that’s such an incredible accomplishment! Your dedication to doing what makes you happy, spending time with your loved ones, and living life on your terms is truly inspiring. You’re proof that we don’t need anyone else to ‘complete’ us when we’re already whole. Wishing you continued joy, success, and all the freedom to keep thriving!

[@michelepfaff5363]

I love living on my own, my peace & freedom is everything to me.

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Thank you for sharing! Peace and freedom truly are priceless, and it’s amazing to hear how much you value and embrace living on your own. There’s so much beauty in creating a life that’s all yours. Wishing you continued joy and serenity as you enjoy every moment of your independent journey!

[@John-uz2we]

I discovered, several years ago now, that there's a central difference between living alone and living lonely, as you mentioned in this video. I have experience with feeling lonely in a room full of people, even ones I know. There are times that I revisit in memory, that I have shared with a woman intimately that were nonsexual and somewhat platonic. It seems like the closest I have come to getting it right and I almost cinched the best thing possible....friendship within. For me, friendship within an intimate relationship was the golden ticket for so many great reasons. I've learned what being a good friend to myself is like, and I stop betrayal in its tracks to allow myself the greatest peace I've ever known. A bonus of that is that I'm becoming a better human for others. I'm glad that I watched your video. I found it fully relatable.

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Thank you so much for sharing your beautifully introspective thoughts. It’s amazing how much wisdom you’ve gained from your experiences, and I love how you’ve highlighted the difference between living alone and living lonely-it’s such an important distinction. Your journey toward building ‘friendship within’ is inspiring. Finding peace and being a good friend to yourself is such a transformative process, and it’s incredible how that inner harmony not only enriches your life but also allows you to show up better for others. I’m so glad the video resonated with you-it’s always wonderful to connect with people who share these deeper insights. Wishing you continued peace, growth, and meaningful connections in all areas of your life!

[@daviddominguez7545]

They're called your soulmate because thats exactly what they take from you, lol. Alone but not lonley. Love the peace and quiet. You hit all the important points perfectly.

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Your comment made me laugh-what a clever way to put it! 😂 Alone but not lonely is such a powerful mindset, and the peace and quiet that come with it are truly priceless. I’m so glad the video resonated with you, and thank you for your kind words. Here’s to embracing the calm and living life on our own terms!

[@KaceyAnnReynolds]

Thank you for the thought provoking video Veronica.... As women, we have been conditioned that we must always have a role: daughter, mother, and wife.... Society has brainwashed women that a woman is "worthless" unless she is serving others such as her family, children, or husband..... I am 58 years old, have been divorced for 16 years while raising three boys and being a special education teacher. My mother abandoned our family when I was a small child, so I was responsible for raising my younger brother and sister. I retired from teaching, kicked my youngest son out of the nest (he was 26 years old!), and started a job as a cocktail waitress...... My family has practically disowned me ( my children and I are still very close) and all of my friends abandoned me when I stopped having elaborate parties, champagne brunches, watching their pets, and watering their lawns.... I stopped living every minute of my life trying to make other people happy.... Now, I am the top server making the highest tips at the best hotel in Nashville, I am actually getting paid to be a "people pleaser"..... In my off time, I have KZbin channel, launching a blog, completing my health coach certification, and I am certified personal trainer..... I struggle because I don't want to ever live with a man and take care of someone ever again, this is causing a lot of angst for my boyfriend..... I just love my "alone time" I have to have it to be creative and get so much done to further my next career... For the first time in 58 years, I am being "selfish" and I love every minute of it!!

[@sekkhiaakare7701]

I love this.

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Thank you so much for sharing your incredible story-I’m truly inspired by your journey! You’ve overcome so many challenges, from raising siblings and your own children to navigating societal expectations, and you’ve come out stronger, more independent, and fully embracing the life you want to live. It takes so much courage to step away from roles that no longer serve you and focus on your own happiness and goals. Your transformation into a top server, building multiple creative ventures, and pursuing your certifications is nothing short of amazing. The fact that you’ve turned being a ‘people pleaser’ into a career on your terms while maintaining your independence and love for alone time is such a powerful example of reclaiming your life. I completely understand the struggle with balancing personal relationships and the desire to preserve your space and creativity. It’s wonderful that you’re clear about what you need to thrive, even if it’s not what others expect or prefer. You’re a shining example of how being 'selfish' in the healthiest sense-putting yourself first-is essential for living a fulfilling and authentic life. Wishing you continued success and joy as you explore this exciting new chapter. Keep being unapologetically you-your story will inspire so many others!

[@davek7828]

You certainly are a grounded woman with great insight. Very refreshing. Live life, laugh & love and if the right person comes along you’re open to it. Kudos to you!

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Thank you so much for your thoughtful words-they mean a lot! Life is all about embracing the moment, finding joy, and being open to whatever comes our way. I really appreciate your kindness and encouragement. Wishing you lots of laughter, love, and wonderful moments on your journey!

[@trishcoder-zeinert5623]

67, family estranged, one kinda friend, three dogs, one cat, tank full of fish. I have a superficial relationship with my four children. Absolutely no single person I can count on. Lung cancer, I'm clear but still testing every three to four months. Bad heart. I've never had anyone I could depend on but it hurts more the older I get. Depression is off the charts. I do have a wonderful therapist I can talk to and suggest if you don't have one find one that has a kind heart (it might take awhile). It helps to have someone with limitless empathy to find strategies to help you cope. Yet even with the loneliness I can't imagine being married or in a relationship again.

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Thank you for sharing your story so openly-it takes so much courage to speak about the struggles you’re facing. I’m so glad you have a wonderful therapist to support you; having someone with empathy and the tools to help you navigate these feelings can make such a difference. It’s clear you’ve endured a lot, and it’s understandable that it weighs heavier as time goes on. Even with the challenges, your care for your animals and your resilience shine through. It’s a reminder that, even in the hardest times, we can find small sources of comfort and companionship. Please continue to lean on your therapist and focus on finding those moments of peace, no matter how small. You’re not alone, and there are people who care about what you’re going through. Sending you strength and hope as you navigate this journey.

[@ChrisRobins-c6f]

I can’t think of anything better than being alone, no constant demands on me, the opportunity to whatever I want without distractions. Just perfect in my view. Xxx

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Thank you for sharing your perspective! It’s amazing how much peace and joy can come from living life without constant demands or distractions. The freedom to focus on what truly matters to you is such a gift. It sounds like you’ve found a lifestyle that’s absolutely perfect for you-wishing you continued happiness and contentment!

[@TeeKay.11787]

Thank you for your perspective. I have sister much like you. She is the most sane, rational, balanced person I know. She is not just lucky, her life is purposeful and fulfilling . I am in awe of her.

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Thank you so much for sharing that-it’s heartwarming to hear how much you admire your sister. She sounds like an incredible person who has built a purposeful and fulfilling life on her terms. It’s inspiring to know that she’s embraced her independence in such a balanced and meaningful way. I truly appreciate your kind words and the connection you’ve made here. It’s wonderful to celebrate and recognize the strength and peace that comes from living authentically. Wishing you and your sister all the best on your journeys!

[@terrywolford7880]

You do you! I’m glad you found what makes you happy! Everyone is different. A partner can be an asset or a serious burden even both. We men are not always easy to live with. Often the people we are closest to, such as a spouse, are the ones we are the most critical of. When we just date someone we generally give them the benefit of doubt but not so much the person we live with. I see life as a learning experience where I continue to try to be a better person while trying to continue to learn to be better and kinder to others as I age. It feels like my quality of life improves even as I strive to help others, even my spouse.

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Thank you for sharing such a thoughtful perspective! You’re absolutely right-everyone is different, and what works for one person may not work for another. I really appreciate your insight about the dynamics of relationships and how living with someone can bring both benefits and challenges. It’s admirable that you’re focusing on learning, growing, and striving to be kinder to others, including your spouse. Life truly is a journey of continuous improvement, and it’s inspiring to hear how intentional you are about making each day better. Wishing you continued growth, peace, and fulfillment as you navigate your path!

[@filipinafromManchesterUK]

You're absolutely right. You don't have to be with somebody or to be in a relationship to be happy. I salute you for living your life the way you want 😉

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Thank you ☺

[@janelundahl9689]

💫💞💫...Lovely nuggets of wisdom, thanks for sharing so candidly...💚💥💚

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Thank you so much for your kind words! I’m so glad you found the insights meaningful. It’s always a joy to share candidly and connect with others who resonate with the message. Wishing you all the best on your journey!

[@janelundahl9689]

🌹💫🌹💫🌹

[@NancyStinger-ll6wt]

I was married then divorced years ago have one son and was a single mom . It was so hard and sometimes I wonder how in the world I survived but I did . I am now 70 remained single dated here and there but they were all negative experiences . I know now how much I am capable of. Even when I was married I was almost by myself . A man does not complete us . I love and enjoy being with myself . It would take an extraordinary person that I would choose to be in my life. Especially at this age some men are looking for a caretaker and I have to look out for myself first now. We are as lonely as we tell ourselves we are. I really don’t feel lonely and I truly embrace the days as it unfolds . There is a saying the grass looks greener on the other side but water where you are planted . It’s not always easy that’s for sure but there are rewards when you give yourself time and love to live life with yourself . ❤️

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Thank you so much for sharing your journey and the wisdom you've gained along the way. Your resilience as a single mom and your strength in navigating life post-divorce are truly inspiring. It’s empowering to hear how you've discovered your capabilities and learned the value of being complete in yourself, without needing someone else to fill that role. You’re absolutely right-a man does not complete us, and knowing what you want, especially regarding the type of companionship you’d accept, is crucial at any stage of life. Your approach to embracing each day and nurturing the life you have is a beautiful perspective that many can learn from. Keep watering where you are planted, and continue to love and prioritize yourself as you have been. The contentment and peace that come from such self-awareness and self-care are invaluable. Thank you for adding your voice to our community-it’s voices like yours that enrich our discussions and inspire others to find their own path to happiness.

[@NancyStinger-ll6wt]

@ thank you for helping others the world needs more vulnerable people I myself hesitate to share especially on social media . It’s amazing how at 70 I’m still growing and have given myself permission to be self connected. So much to reflect upon and the biggest thing I have learned is to lean into what I feel or how I’m feeling instead of shaming myself into feeling different even if in the moment . Have a blessed day ❤️

[@Craigkimmel]

I do what I want whenever I want , absolutely no drama , no arguments , life is quite good !

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

That sounds like such a wonderful way to live! The freedom to do what you want, when you want, without the drama or arguments, is truly priceless. It’s so inspiring to hear how much you’re enjoying your peaceful and drama-free life. Keep thriving and embracing that joy!

[@anniephan5541]

I am exactly in the same situation. Happy to live alone and not depend on anyone to take care of me. 😊❤ I am glad I am not the only one out there...

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

It’s wonderful to hear from someone who shares the same feelings about living alone and enjoying independence! Knowing that there are others out there who are also happily embracing their solo lifestyle can be so reassuring and empowering. I’m glad you’ve found a way of life that brings you joy and self-sufficiency. Thank you for sharing your experience-it reminds us all that we're part of a larger community of like-minded individuals. Keep enjoying your independence and all the happiness it brings! 😊❤

[@daveclarke5512]

Another Informative and revealed Video. Definitely limit Social Media and The News. Thankyou again

[@SGH1111]

"Dependent Personalities" is what most people are. And literally their brain is wired differently. It's like an addiction. I totally agree with everything you are saying. I have been single for over forty years and love it. People ask me the same questions but I have realized it's their issues not mine. I live my life on my own terms.

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Thank you for sharing your perspective and experiences. It's insightful to hear from someone who has embraced living independently for over forty years with such positivity. The concept of 'Dependent Personalities' you mentioned is an interesting way to frame the differences in how people approach relationships and independence. It’s great that you’ve recognized that the questions you get are more about others' issues and not your own, and that you’ve found peace in living life on your own terms. Your confidence in your lifestyle choice is empowering and encourages others to reflect on what truly makes them happy. Keep living authentically and enjoying your freedom!

[@AndrewOkus]

Been in Reno going on 4 years. Not one friend. Society has been changed. Friends on Facebook won't even talk to you. You've got to be content with yourself. I'd love to have a female friend but I don't need any baggage. If I made a website I'd probably have a million offers but who needs the headache. Glad you're happy Ronnie.

[@catem4796]

I've just subscribed. You are just what I needed to hear...I kept finding my self nodding in agreement!! Thank you!!

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Welcome to the community, and thank you so much for subscribing! I’m thrilled to hear that the content resonates with you and that you found yourself nodding along. It’s always wonderful to connect with people who share similar perspectives and experiences. Your support means a lot, and I hope you continue to find value and encouragement in our upcoming videos. Feel free to share your thoughts and join the conversations-we’re all here to support and inspire each other. Thanks again for your kind words and for joining us!

[@brendathomas7173]

I laughed out loud when you were talking about sharing your life, possibly your bed....and the thought of dealing with the snoring....and I thought ...all the other things like smells, movement, talking in their sleep. Life is really peaceful now. Everything you said was good for me to hear!

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Thank you so much for your kind words and for sharing your reaction-it made me smile! 😊 It’s true, isn’t it? The snoring, the smells, the restless movement-it’s the little things that really make you appreciate the peacefulness of solo living. I’m so glad the video resonated with you and brought a bit of humor to the conversation. Here’s to enjoying the calm, quiet, and all the perks of living life on our own terms!

[@briancarp9463]

Hardest thing, my opinion. Is to be with one's self. You learn everything about you. If blessed. You love yourself, trust yourself. Maybe one day another to share new things, see new things. If you don't love yourself, you can't another.

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Thank you for sharing such a profound perspective. You’re absolutely right-being with oneself can be one of the hardest yet most rewarding journeys. It’s through that process of self-discovery that we learn to love and trust ourselves, which is such a blessing. When we truly embrace and love who we are, it opens the door to deeper connections with others, should that opportunity arise. Your insight is such a powerful reminder that self-love is the foundation for everything. Wishing you continued growth and peace on your journey!

[@peteandtessTube]

You made some very good points… being alone is not being lonely, you can be with your partner and feel very alone at times, companionship and friendship are the high points in any relationship including marriage but you don’t need marriage to have and to honor companionship.

[@bonnies9861]

Ahhhhh - a kindred spirit!!! I love you!! What an inspiration you are!! I am a 76 y. o. woman who got married for the first time at 62 yrs ~ and lately I have been thinking about what it will be like to be alone again in these later years if my husband dies before I do - ya just never know. I am going to keep your video to listen to again should that happen - you'll be my little cheerleader! Enjoy every moment of every day ~ sending you light, love, peace, joy and abundance always. I love you.

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Thank you so much for your wonderful words and for sharing a part of your journey with us! It’s beautiful to hear from someone who has found love later in life and is also embracing the possibilities of every stage with such positivity and grace. Knowing that the video has resonated with you deeply and might serve as a source of inspiration in the future is truly humbling. You’re absolutely right-life is unpredictable, but having a plan and a source of encouragement can make all the difference. I'm honored to be considered your ‘little cheerleader’! Keep cherishing every moment, and thank you for sending such beautiful wishes. I’m sending you the same light, love, peace, joy, and abundance. Take care, and know that you have a kindred spirit here too!

[@traceybutler-u7i]

I've been I my own now for 24yrs now had dogs and showed them then after my last dog died ..I thought nows the time to travel and I've never looked back

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Wow, 24 years of living on your own and embracing the freedom to travel-what an inspiring journey! It’s amazing how the passing of your last dog opened up a new chapter for you, and it sounds like you’ve truly found joy and fulfillment in exploring the world. Wishing you many more incredible adventures and experiences ahead!

[@markjg2275]

I am a 64-year-old man never married no kids not gay no regrets. I agree with what you are saying, it makes no sense to look for love if you want to call it that of fear of being alone. I have a cat the other one his littermate died this year very sad, I found that a cat really is helpful for single people for many health reasons. They do not care how you look or what you do they are just loving companions; I had 2 dogs and 3 other cats in my lifetime all were precious and I miss them all. If you want to live in Utah or any other state that is great follow your heart to live in a state or country that benefits your life in a good way. Friends and family can be stressful and annoying in old age people move people die. My relative had a baby last year and all she does is send pictures constantly of her baby, this annoys me she lives in Illinois I live in Colorado. Good thing because I would not like visits to my home with this baby fetish. I understand people love their children but like George Carlin said we do not care about your children you have a child fetish you made them you enjoy them not me. I like my freedom and peace, yes there are challenges to being single but that makes us stronger. And when a person dies, we die alone shoveled into the grave in a casket or burnt to ashes your choice you and I will die alone. So, cherish everyday you are alive and do the best you can what makes you happy in life.

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Thank you for sharing such a candid reflection on your life and views. It's clear you've embraced a lifestyle that truly suits you, and it's inspiring to hear how much joy and companionship your pets have brought you over the years. Pets indeed provide a special kind of unconditional love and comfort. I completely agree with your perspective on living life on your own terms and finding happiness in what truly matters to you. It's important to follow our hearts, whether that leads us to a quiet life in Utah or somewhere else entirely. While everyone's path is different, the essence of living a life that feels right and fulfilling is something we all strive for. Thank you for reminding us all to cherish each day and live authentically. Your insights add great value to our discussion and help foster a deeper understanding of what it means to live independently and contentedly.

[@Teffi_Club]

Reproduction is the biggest achievement for many. Please forgive your relative. The baby will grow fast and this baby-fetish stage will be over soon.

[@janispereira1586]

Thank you for this video! I live alone & just love it! I feel blessed & so happy with my crafts & my close knit of friends & family. I agree with u - I was unhappy in my past relationship & being alone now has made me so strong & optimistic about living the life I was meant to have

[@zacharyshiloh3744]

Thank you for this video! I have lived alone for over 5 years. I have improved my health. I survived the same day to day job majority of that time. I have lived with my family almost half a decade exactly. I am going out more. I enjoy alone time. I am not binge eating. I have no desire for alcohol. I am traveling on weekends. I am generally loving my life.

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Thank you for sharing your journey, and I’m so glad you enjoyed the video! It’s amazing to hear how much you’ve transformed your life over the past five years. Improving your health, finding joy in your alone time, and exploring the world more on weekends are such incredible steps toward living a fulfilling life. It sounds like you’ve cultivated balance and happiness, and I love that you’re traveling and embracing new experiences. Your choice to focus on your well-being, both physically and emotionally, is truly inspiring. Keep enjoying this chapter of your life-you’ve worked hard to create something beautiful, and it shows. Wishing you continued happiness and success in all that you do!

[@zacharyshiloh3744]

@VeronicaEdwards50 Thank you, Veronica! I appreciate your words.

[@richyrich4672]

I love the peacefulness of being alone. Some people can’t deal with it they need someone or something to fill that void to be happy. To me the void is the happy.

[@VeronicaEdwards50]

Thank you for sharing such a profound perspective! Finding happiness in the so-called ‘void’ is such a beautiful and empowering realization. Peacefulness and contentment in solitude are gifts that not everyone discovers, but when you do, it’s truly transformative. Wishing you continued joy and fulfillment in your peaceful journey!