The harsh realities of life after 60

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

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[@YvonneNelson-yl8ub]

@WomenBlazingTrails my birthday is 09/24

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

The day before mine!! 🎉🎉​@@YvonneNelson-yl8ub

[@LoriCurl]

I agree with all you say so much!! I am 63 and a Libra also!

[@sscot720]

We only have about 6 to 8 years left..

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

@@LoriCurl when's your birthday?

[@carolinegathercole8473]

I’m 68, live alone, have zero friends, never lonely.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Sounds great!

[@sretnazvijezda400]

It's nice to be free from others.

[@Valkyriepedersen]

me to 68 and I quit caring , I don't live alone

[@carlsenlifeafter60carlsen11]

Me to, i’ve been burned so many times by so-called friends in the past that I’m done. Too many takers in this world and not enough givers..

[@joannedibben2352]

Good for you I'm very pleased to hear your not lonely and getting on with life I wish you well

[@mandorasbox]

It’s not loneliness it’s enjoying your own company and what you like doing.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

🙌🫶😎

[@amya.gentry1238]

Amen!🙌🏽

[@tonicamaro8683]

Well said...

[@patkearney9320]

Solitude I find a blessing I like my life my dog I’m sick of people.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

@patkearney9320 dogs are life ❤️

[@patreading5413]

60? My kids are over 60. My husband is 91 , I’m 88. We live in a senior apartment. Great place lots of friends. We both still drive, thank god. Life is good!

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

That is so awesome!!!!

[@liliethedwards968]

Ok, and you are still alive. She likes to talk about death, like when you reach that age you're not going to live long

[@AdwumaKusi]

❤God is good all the time

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

@liliethedwards968 that's not quite what I said but if that's all you got from this video I'm sorry

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

@@AdwumaKusi yes He is

[@humanchildofgod3126]

63 NO FRIENDS, no codependent humans near me, no man mistreating me, no man living with me, no adult children emotionally using me! I have SILENCE, SERENITY, HAPPINESS! Thank you MY GREATER POWER!

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Sounds blissful!!!! ❤

[@jaydenp4975]

You’re living the dream. Sounds wonderful!

[@jmalin6359]

Same

[@mostaanroya]

You probably had lots of bad experiences and were surrounded by wrong people.

[@tomTom-lb5cu]

Agreed , over 60 after raising my kids to be responsible adults and on their own with steady jobs, parents have now passed away. This is my time to relax on life only being responsible for myself. Doing what I feel like doing in my life. Over 60 years old, at least 40 of those years was caring for others in a life I created as far as a wife and kids, caring for parents as my responsibility I accepted and enjoyed. So I am allowing myself to enjoy this time in my life, retired, plenty of income to cover my monthly bills enjoying my home and garden going here and there whenever I please. Of course every day without missing I spend time in the word of God from the Holy Bible. I have peace and I love it. I plan on enjoying this stage of life guilt free. God bless

[@Emily_Paris]

I’m 65, single and drama free. I said goodbye to love some years ago. Freedom is good, retirement is good. Life is good and I’m grateful.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Wonderful!

[@kattalady8114]

If my husband and I ever split I'm done with finding love too. No need for all that drama. What a relief.

[@jonimoore1994]

I am 72 have friends but happy being home by myself, never lonely. I was lonely when I was married.

[@salexanderc396]

😅

[@georginapaul9672]

I am almost 71 yrs old. My real peaceful joy comes from a close relationship with Jesus/Yeshua. He blesses me.❤

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Amen!

[@ladytmiddleton1831]

The joy of the Lord is my strength!

[@viviangendernalik]

You don't get lonely with Jesus. He is always around. I refuse to give up my time with him, as nothing or no one matches his presence. Get deep enough in the relationship and miracles become norm, nothing more exciting.

[@anthonystroman8407]

That's it!

[@anthonystroman8407]

​@viviangendernalik exactly!

[@beverlysmith6539]

Life is what you make it no matter what the age!

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Exactly!

[@km6237]

❤ yes!

[@mirthacolman9848]

@@beverlysmith6539 yes!!

[@janebufton1960]

I disagree. Life style and luck, good health, and financia all contrbute tiwards good and aging life. ( NOT TALKING ABOUT BEING VERY RICH, or being whelthy.)l

[@beverlysmith6539]

@janebufton1960 you should learn to spell words correctly

[@deewd8290]

The "we don't put up with BS anymore" is SO TRUE!!!!

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Right?? 🙌

[@tahirahparacha9392]

And isn't it just great!!!

[@cherylheuston4369]

Amen🎉

[@annbet3684]

Yup

[@m.allenbruce8327]

I’m 62 and I’m in better shape than many people 20 years younger than I am. I eat clean and I work out. I have no regrets. I’m not as strong as I was when I was in my 20s, but I’m stronger than most people. I’m not on any medications. I feel good. I consider myself truly blessed.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

You are truly blessed!!! ❤️

[@catherines7553]

I'm 65 and feel no different than 20 years ago. Love spending time with family and grandkids are so fun. About to go on a family cruise.

[@gregorypope3899]

May your blessing continue..

[@tinafabulous50]

That's amazing!

[@brendamller]

Me to😊💝 63

[@rozchristopherson648]

I’m 63. Never married. Never had children. As an only child, I became a caregiver for my elderly parents and grandmother. They’ve all passed away now. I’m free to just be me. I love it. ❤

[@kat35lulu88]

I felt like I was reading a comment I'd leave!!!! This is me 100%. Once my mom passed..... she was the last to go..... I was FREE!!!! I'm alone but never lonely. Have good friends and neighbors.....to call upon if I need.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Great freedom!!!!!

[@Sheri-kp8nr]

I'm near 70, don't tolerate BS, don't appreciate the drama, don't care much anymore about petty things, have no kids. I planned this FREEDOM. Yet, unable to truly ENJOY my life. I live with family, rely on a meagre $100 pm gov pension, get meds from the state. In my youth I was so self sufficient. When life gives you lemons, be grateful and make lemon meringue pie...😆

[@BettyHall-r5n]

ME TOO!

[@BettyHall-r5n]

@@kat35lulu88yay!❤

[@saturnsun203]

I'm 65 and decluttered for years. Now, I live like a student again, minimal everything. Easy. 😊 Good health.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Minimal living is the best!

[@carolhill8917]

I feel like I'm going that way though. Never had the big formal dining room sets or multiple bedroom sets.

[@One-z6y]

You rock! That truly is a freeing way to live!!!

[@stephaniemccarthy1676]

Agree.

[@ms.shelia5737]

Awesome, i so want to declutter, i know our three children will not be interested in having most of our prized possessions. How did you begin to declutter?

[@JennWatson]

64 living by myself with 3 dogs and a cat! It's perfect! No one can wreck my good mood! ❤

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Love it!!!!

[@trudieristich795]

Or some dude always hold on to the remote like their life depends on it

[@goombah226]

I'm living in a van down by the river!

[@phoenixrising5088]

When you have Pets, you're never alone. They make our life so much better, in every way.

[@phoenixrising5088]

​@@goombah226could be worse. At least you've got a Van. 😂

[@jos8224]

I hate it when people say age is just a number. No, it's a whole different thing altogether.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

You're right It is a whole other thing and can be quite a challenging thing too.

[@suzannehall8687]

What do you mean

[@keepitforreally4501]

@@jos8224 it sure isn’t after 60 lol

[@wandah9468]

With luck, and staying in shape, im outliving those "frenemies" who smeared my name for whatever reason. Yep, theyre dead now! And I'm doing fine at 68. So far ive beaten cancer, got a knee replacement, and im working out to get back in shape. To the judgy clowns sticking their noses up at me, I have a message. Your team is expiring like flies, hope youre satisfied. I know I am!😂😂😂

[@susant8555]

Took the words right out of my brain. I think it's supposed to be a compliment of some source. But ah no.

[@hadijakalyegira4107]

I am 50years old and the aches, pains, floaters , brain fog, irritations, stomach issues, menopause😢 who needs friends when you suddenly realize nobody really cares, isolation becomes normalized.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Sorry you are dealing with that. I think if we try to find the positive things in our lives and talk about those instead of our troubles, people might want to hang around us more! 😁

[@missmuffet3874]

I’m 55 going through menopause. It’s horrible. Hopefully 60s will feel better 😊

[@Zaradean698]

Join a gym they do exercise classes for over 50 its a good way to meet people.

[@gusmonster59]

Look into holistic choices for those things. There are several herbs out there that help with menopause and brain fog. Aches, pains will depend on what is causing them. Moving often helps a lot those (walking, stretching, etc.). I understand about isolation and no one caring, but you can offset that by going out and doing things you enjoy on your own. Eating out, going to movies, concerts , etc. You don't need company to enjoy those things. Stomach issues - again, I don't know what they are or what is causing them, but I can tell you I had to change to lactose free milk as regular milk was giving me loads of gas. 65 years of regular milk and now my body can't tolerate it. Try and pin down when your stomach acts up and see if it's just a food issue. You can also join a group such as your local historical society. Historical societies are often older people who have the time. That will give you some peers to spend time with, you volunteer at your local historic sites, museums, etc. Every Halloween the historical society where I live does a graveyard tour. Each member takes on local person and stands by their grave site and talks about who they were to the community. Sounds a bit morbid, but it very popular and the it's a busy few nights! 🙂 I hope that helps you a bit.

[@janicemutuku3676]

50 as well and does 24 HR shift infact am a cashier in a pub and still menstrating

[@lindareinen1259]

I am so glad I saw this, I’m 63 and for the last 2-3 years I have wondered if the way I think and feel was normal. A few of my family members say it’s not and that I am a Hermit because I enjoy my life without friends and live in the country. I also don’t like going to town, cause I love a more serene life, no worries, not as much traffic noise. I like the sounds of birds, chattering squirrels, seeing deer, eagles, several different types of birds flying around. I lost my husband in 2020 to cancer and just want to be on my own now. My adult boys check on me from time to time, call every couple weeks and I’m fine with that. I’m happy to see that it’s okay for me to live this type of life. Thank you for putting this on You Tube.🙏❤️

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Your life sounds so peaceful and wonderful Linda!!

[@cmbooks2000]

Lost my husband to cancer in 2020 as well. My two adult sons check up on me. I'm 67, debt free, travel, come and go as I please and live as stress free as ever when I had "friends" coworkers extended family, etc. If I want company I go out in public. It always feels great to return home.

[@YvetteJefferson-j8y]

Sounds like the good life!

[@deniseatthelake]

On Walden pond author said, you are never alone/lonely in nature! I love being alone, it does not feel lonely, it feels peaceful. I have good friends and we meet periodically, just enough. Book club, garden club keep me content; always things to do and contribute to!

[@juliedepaolo9971]

If you are happy with where you are it's all that matters. Don't you love the peace? I'm 65 and at 50 I started dreaming of retirement and moving to the country. Here I am! I am married, but my daughter was not happy that I moved out of the big city but I still went.

[@whitehorse3828]

This may sound odd, BUT I am 69 and having no "friends" anymore has been a relief and given me freedom as I am beholden to no one, don't have to deal with their "jugements, gossips, opinions" (which hardly ever agreed with mine) I don't owe anyone anything and as it turned out, over time, I found out most of my so called "friends" were really frenemies holding secret jealousies, envy's and hopes of my failure....who the hell needs THAT..... get a pet if you want company!

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Yes to get a pet!!!!! I've also lost a few'friends' in the last little while and realize they weren't really friends. I'm better off without them. Thanx for watching.

[@billwilson3665]

They were never really friends only acquaintances.

[@elainecameron5545]

I'm happier without a lot of friends now. Happier without a scheming partner

[@marisol6560]

This is so true! I had a man who treated me like crap for twenty years. I am now single and happy and love my freedom! The only crap I deal with is my own! 😂

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

​@@marisol6560perfect!

[@rose5566]

I am sixty one years old and for me, sixty is the worst decade. Too old to be considered young and too young to be considered old! Loved ones have passed away (husband, parents, brother, mother in law, etc.). I am missing them deeply and I have found that sixty is a time of deep reflection and the regrets of a youth that wasn’t prepared for the loneliness of losing the beautiful people that gave you a strong sense of security and love that was just taken for granted.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

@@rose5566 very well said!!! I agree with everything you said. No one prepares you for this.

[@ThePantherproof]

Sorry to hear that. My 60s are so far one of the best decades of my life!

[@annhopkin5079]

Why would you choose to focus on that. By the time. We're sixty we all have loss. No way. Am I wasting what I have left focusing on the past, and loss.

[@nomadame333]

I hear you, Rose. But at 61, I'm taking Anne's route outta here..

[@rose5566]

@Annhopkin - Just because “we all have loss”. At sixty one, doesn’t make it less painful and real. Focusing? What about wisdom gained by acknowledging the past lessons of life and beautiful people who were in your life? Yes, life moves on, but with more wisdom and compassion gained from the past.

[@GwynneHeard]

I’m 70 I am alone but not lonely. I love my home, my cats the sky, the trees, walks. There is no end to it. If I spent all my time worrying about whether I had a person in my life or not or if I’m lonely, I might miss a lot of this. I spent the first years of my life being completely social. Who knows what these last year‘s have to offer, but what I have is good enough. I am so grateful for my contentment and joy.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Sounds wonderful!!!

[@dixiegirl999]

I'm 61, got out of a miserable 30 yrs marriage 3 yrs ago for my sanity. All my friends have moved off, passed, etc. I've moved out to a peaceful rural area & starting over. Planning on retiring next yr & working for myself out of my home. I too quit smoking after 35 yrs about 7 yrs ago. I too have aches & pains but, I'm ready to start having fun for the first time in years.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Yay to your new freedom! I hope the next chapter is everything you dreamed of and more!!!

[@KamalaWalz2024]

You go for it! 😊I wish you the best!

[@oceanwater2wave]

I lived that story 35 years. I’m in the forest now with cats! Lol

[@angeliahuff6373]

You are very strong and brave. God bless you for having the strength to change your life for the better. It’s never too late to improve your life.

[@danielahTZ]

I’m 59. You would be surprised about how much ppl who shouldn’t be in your life contribute to your aches and pains. I broke up with someone and asked them to move out a week ago and the aches and pains decreased by leaps and bounds! He even told me that I look more relaxed. 😎

[@greeneyedmimibostian3013]

❤ I'm 68. It's scary. It happened so fast.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

So fast, right? It's like I woke up one day and I was 62. How did that even happen?

[@terrymartino5827]

I am 69 and I can't believe it went so fast. And it is scary. ❤

[@sandystudner9639]

​@WomenBlazingTrails totally!!! Same 62!! WTF happened? I was just 16!! It is scary.

[@txgal6855]

I just turned 65, yes, it’s a little bit scary. So different from when I was in my upper forties and early fifties! My mid fifties I put on an unusual bit of weight as I had always been under 120 all my life until then. I just keep seeing my 88 year old mother and her knarled hands and keep hoping that won’t be me😳

[@ileanamuntean7338]

@terrymartino5827 Same here! I'll be 69 this Christmas. I remember when I was about 12 but the rest of it just happened in a flash.

[@katherineelizabethco]

My and husband and I got married at 20. Neither of us had ever lived alone. We had our first child at 20. For six decades we’ve been enmeshed with our parents and our kids. So many ups and downs. A drain at times, but good as well. Now the parents are all dead and we live faraway from the kids. For the first time in our adult lives it’s just me and my husband and a dog. I’m delighted with how peaceful life is !

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Sounds wonderful and peaceful!!

[@juliedepaolo9971]

Congratulations. Peace is wonderful. So is the freedom.

[@Trophygyrl]

Thank God you are both here with each other ❤

[@MonicaCraigFlyonthewall]

Same situation with my husband and I. Also, for the first time, we are also dogless. My husband has always loved having dogs. It's been 33 years living nose to nose with dogs, I finally told him, it's my turn now, no more dogs!

[@rebeccafriel6455]

ARE YOU KIDDING? I am 79. The GYM is a favotite place.5ft 4 with serious muscles.You meet great people there. I shovel snow,mow my lawn. JOSTEN's ARTIST doing portraits now. Lived 14yrs in the West Indies. Never slow down.Not gonna do it 😂

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Good on you!!!

[@lynnesookdawar3979]

Agree! Good for you. I’m just 62 but recently moved to another totally different country. I do diy, paint and decorate, water ski, learn languages and generally keep busy.

[@arnoldblashak171]

Hey you're my hero I just turned 73 and I want to be like you😃👍

[@rebeccafriel6455]

@arnoldblashak171 Yes,read used books.Go where you can,every day.Eat no sugar, no salt(cause it ruins kidneys) best wishes

[@arnoldblashak171]

@@rebeccafriel6455 thanx

[@stypa1717]

Well, I am over 60, and all the aches and pains surely were already there for some time... So 6 months ago I started to massage my body with organic Castor oil twice a day, and, 5 weeks ago I started to take Collagen powder, and within only a few days, all that stopped! I used to have constant pulled muscles, and all kinds of mystery pains just about everywhere, and now, none of it! I never felt better, even in my 20s! As for 'packing my bags to die', I do not do that at all. I love the maximalism of antiques and vintage and have a beautiful home filled with what I truly love. I do not worry what my kids/grandkids do with all that, I simply intend to enjoy my life till the very last day!

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

You go girl!!!

[@maniwyatt6559]

I totally agree with you!

[@focusedfreebird]

I'm betting those massages helped stimulate your lymph system, moving the lymph fluids and invigorating your body. Keep on moving...it will help with aches and pains....😊

[@lazapololapolo9824]

@stypa1717 *Massage is a life saver at any age but especially when you're older. In fact, many discomforts of the body can be easily dealt with by massaging the area. It's great...!!!*

[@kathyhansen2820]

72 and just started collagen powder about a month ago and am drinking soursop tea due to breast cancer which it seems I beat. Last week my dishwasher was acting up and I thought I bought it about a year ago. Dragged out the paper work and I bought it 3 years ago. Yikes My concept of time has changed radically.

[@jacquelineharris7156]

Im 65 and spent many of my adult years on drugs and homeless in the streets. Now im sober have my own place and at peace. Yes i have regrets,but i move on and thankful for the peace God has given me after spending years in chaos.Living for God you are neve lonely

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

How amazing!! I'm so happy for you. God is good 🫶❤️

[@jacquelineharris7156]

@WomenBlazingTrails 🥰

[@AP-nx6xo]

I’m happy for you

[@thomaslee6003]

Ty, I’m 69 and single, no drama, peace, and my two dogs….life is good, no regrets, traveled extensively when I was younger and now just enjoying.😊

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Sounds great!!!

[@karencahill4798]

I am 68. I am so blessed to have 2 adult children who live near me, in their mid 30’s. I do have friends. I’m going to join a gym near me so I’m out and about doing new things, meeting new people. It does take an effort. Well worth it. I call it Self care!

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Great that you're joining the gym soon! You are blessed to have your kids nearby. Self care = super important!!!

[@carolebaines4075]

One thing I've discovered, is that you actually do become "invisible". People talk to you like you are stupid or something, because you are an 'old person'.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Exactly...that part sucks.. :/

[@paullanier8280]

​. People dont treat me like I'm stupid because I've retired in maintenance on most things , mechanical and electrical and some luthiery. Lots of people show to be my friend when something goes wrong .

[@Rose-ht3xc]

I often get "things are different now than they were when you were young..." That may be true to some degree but PEOPLE are still people with wants, needs etc. All that's changed in my opinion is morality!

[@jillybe1873]

I like being ignored

[@keenacummings2017]

I agree my own daughter treats me most of the time that I’m stupid I don’t know anything.. I just turned 60 on 12/4 .. glad I found this video ..

[@carolgiangreco6548]

At sixty I drove cross country and spent five plus months on the road. I visited National and State Parks and Forests, camped and lived the life. It was the best thing I've ever done.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Sounds awesome!! Are you still traveling?

[@carolgiangreco6548]

@@WomenBlazingTrails No, that was years back. I may tour the Northeast this summer if I can find a vehicle I can sleep in.

[@vickiladu6755]

You traveled alone? If so, you're brave!!!

[@sallyprzybil2404]

That sounds like so much fun….lots of state parks have cabins that can be rented……..personally I can’t do tent camping any more..at 70 I find that if I’m on the ground or floor for any reason I have an extremely hard time getting up!

[@bk4of4]

That's impressive and I often think of doing the same when I retire in 6 months, God Willing

[@beago0810]

I'm 67 and know in my mind's eye as to how I want to look and feel. I have minimal regrets and they only involve my choices. I have acquaintances, not really any friends. I'm not lonely because I enjoy my own company. 😊

[@beago0810]

I'm a Libra, too. 😊

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Thanx so much for watching and sharing your thoughts! Sept 25th here fellow Libran :) When's yours?

[@hope6811]

My biggest worry is finances, now that I am 66. Through 2 divorces and raising 2 children, there is no money left to be had. I do have a roof over my head, food in my stomach and clothes on my back, my health is so so. I am blessed. 🙏

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

@hope6811 you are blessed! I worry about finances too sometimes. I don't have a retirement fund or pension, still working and may have to until I die

[@saintetienne755]

Time really does fly - wake up one morning and wonder where did my life go? There is no luxury of time anymore - growing older really brings its own pressure when i thought it would be a relief

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

You're right! Thanx for sharing your thoughts and watching!

[@VirginiaButler-px1uw]

I'm 63, no children, parents passed in 2022. I have cats and dogs. I never feel lonely. Thankfully, I just can't even understand that feeling. I absolutely love being by myself! I think if you like yourself and enjoy your own company, loneliness has no place in your life. I'm blessed with great friends, but actually prefer just being at home. Thankfully, I'm pretty healthy. Just enjoying retirement and trying new hobbies!!

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Awesome!! Having pets is so fulfilling!

[@jimrusch22]

The worst part of getting old is the physical limitations of what you can do. This makes you reliant on others for getting some jobs done.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

You're right about that 😞

[@judyshepard1425]

I’m 74 and get everything you’re saying. I’m married 53 yrs and were very blessed. Have children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren and were healthy. I’ve lost so many friends and sometimes really miss them so much. God bless you!

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

God bless you too!!

[@grannygoes7882]

I'm 66 and my husband of 31 years is 57. Neither one of us plan on dying soon. My grandmother lived to be 110 and nothing was wrong with her, she just didn't wake up one day. My MIL is 92 and still works part time because she likes it. She has a huge house/yard she maintains herself. She hopped in her car and drove up to our house for my husband's birthday last week. It's a four hour drive. Personally I never think about dying.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

That all sounds wonderful!!!

[@carolyneasley8980]

I like you 😊

[@jackiehudgins1138]

Congratulations on quitting smoking!💕

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Thank you! Still going strong :)

[@elmobolan4274]

If your wealthy, aging "is a privilege" and not too bad, but if your poor, it's very hard and lonely.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

That's a sad truth, unfortunately. Thanx for sharing your thoughts and watching.

[@ddddddddfg]

Not true!❤ Peace is a spiritual gift afforded to the wise!❤ Wealth will never garner peace!❤

[@1timdog1066]

If you think poor and elderly is bad, don’t get ill. Was a firefighter for almost 30 years and my biggest concern has always been my health. Seen many wealthy people on their deathbed telling me, they will give anything not to be sick. Telling me personally “Take care your health young man.” Men and women.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

@1timdog1066 health is wealth!

[@1timdog1066]

@@WomenBlazingTrails very much so. 🏋🏾‍♀️

[@1lorijb]

I'm 68, worked hard paid off me home and I'm doing fantastic, never lonely and always having fun. Love being retired

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Fantastic!!

[@donnaeichenlaub8180]

I’m 64 and so happy it wakes me up at night. I paint, I bake, volunteer at a local orphanage. Have wonderful friends and neighbors if I die tomorrow, so be it it is just a rebirth. and two the next adventure.. We are walking miracles!

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Walking miracles...love it!!!!

[@barbarablount4272]

Im soon to be 66 years old. I've lived alone now for 10yrs. I filed for divorce after 35 yrs of marriage. I waited until my two sons were grown. When i walked into my first apartment alone, (ive always owned my home.) It was like, yes im free. Life can be good and peaceful. Im so content i visit my grandchildren in a nother state. I get them in the summer for a week. My sons check on me. They never ask for anything. Ive also started the to clear out things. So it would be easy for my sons. Im good, happy and alone. I do have friends but when i close my front door. Im in my beautiful world.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Sounds so wonderful and peaceful!! I'm happy for you :)

[@juliedepaolo9971]

Congratulations.

[@micktbaby]

Thank you for your take on over 60. I turned 70 in August. I am so fortunate in that I paid attention to my health for my entire life. It is not that I am without some physical challenges, I spent 42 years on my feet as a full time working RN. I would say for me the number one truth has been to find peace through a spiritual path whatever that means to you personally. This has helped me to move past regret and live in the present. Best wishes to all on your personal journey

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Thanx for watching and sharing your story! xo

[@lazapololapolo9824]

@micktbaby *You mentioned the most important aspect....the "spiritual path." When one takes the "spiritual path" and truly connect with their inner self they don't have the regrets, worry, anxiousness etc. Each moment is full of life, joy, happiness and peace. Even through difficult times. In fact, the "spiritual path" is the only way to make sense of life regardless of a person's age. In this sense "age truly is just a number." If a person is older and hasn't figured this out yet, then they will have regrets and sadness and not understand the purpose of their life at all. They will continue to look for "outside things" to fulfill those spiritual gaps. Take Care* 😇

[@mariekrekora9958]

I am a breast cancer survivor I was diagnosed last year with stage two breast cancer, I noticed the difference in my life and I’m over 60 years old.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

🫶💗 thanx for sharing your story. Hope you are well now!

[@bevanbuckwheatshea5520]

All the very best to you.

[@oldvinezen9857]

Working with cancer patients and having had cancer I understand your comment very well. Onward!!

[@minnesotagal507]

Me too and then my back has bad problems and most recently my heart is acting up. Almost 68 , cancer was stage 3

[@bitterbaubles7829]

You are 100% RIGHT in all your tips and views on life over 60. I am 63 and I agree with EVERYTHING you mentioned. It's not morbid to think of death. Considering the fact that I am nearing the end of my existence here on Earth prioritizes my ENTIRE LIFE and gives me CRYSTAL CLEAR vision at to what is now important to me. And the point about not putting up with BS and not caring about what others think is utterly FREEING. Thank you for making this video! 😘

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Thank you so much and for sharing your thoughts too!!

[@TheValwood]

I'm 64, and I've found that the BEST friends are my animal friends. My dogs! Also, just feeding the birds and enjoying the squirrels and raccons enjoying the bird seed as well. When I was young, I didn't pay any attention at all to wild animals in my environment. I appreciate animal friends the older I get. I find them superior to human friends.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Animals are the best! 🫶

[@blondilass]

New subscriber here from the UK. I'm 71, and you explain life as it is for us older folk. We really don't care what other's think of us as we get older because it's time to just stop worrying and be content with your life. Do what makes you happy as long as your nor hurting anyone.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Thank you so much and yes, do what makes you happy!!

[@JC-zp4si]

Im 62 ,have lived with my adult drug addicted son for the past 17 years desperately trying to help him. Truth is he wont change and Im aiming to leave him beginning of the new year and just trod off on my own in the great big scary beautiful world. I will live in each of the EU states until I find the country I love the most. But England first. I grew up in England and want to see it thoroughly and hope to make new friends.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

@@JC-zp4si I'm so sorry about your son, that must be so hard. It's def time for you to go off on your own....enjoy that travel time!!

[@gloriaincalifornia1911]

Someone commented that aging sucks. Yes, aging sucks. But at 82, I look back and think about a lot of things that also sucked when I was 10, 20, 30...etc. Every age has those! I hate being in my 80's, because I feel younger than that and I feel the time passing by quicker than I'd like, but other than that, the things that suck have actually reduced for me in the past couple of decades. Keep your health and your finances in decent shape, starting at the youngest age possible, and the "old person" years aren't too bad!

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts. So much truth there Gloria!! I'm doing my best to keep my health in check...still working on my finances though. I suck at that!

[@barbarablount4272]

Very well said.

[@VickiMarieLivingLife]

Loved this video! I'm 59, and so much of what you shared really hit home. Your honesty about regrets, health, and embracing each day is so inspiring. Thank you for the wisdom and reminders to focus on what truly matters!

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Thanx so much for watching and your kind words. 🫶💓

[@SandyHart-jt6sz]

ive just turned 61 and everything you have talked about i was doing in my fifties. its soooo nice to hear im not the only one cos i thought it was just me. Never a truer word spoken, thank you.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Thank you so much for watching 💓

[@AlaskanGeezer]

62. Lives alone. Takes care of other people for a living. Enjoys my days off. Lost my filter too. Got selfish after all 5 of my friends died between Covid and cancer. Have lots of hobbies, eat real clean, in good shape, got a hip replaced, lost 3 lobes of lung myself to cancer- as a non smoker. I know my time is short now. Both parents are long gone and had Alzheimer's. You put this subject all of us over 60 think about. Thank you Eva. And you know what, I forgive myself for a lot of things. I have cats too. They won't give you a job reference but they do give you a lot of love.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Thanx so much for sharing your story!

[@tinamckenna7514]

I really like your style 😎

[@LindaPickenpaugh]

Older adults can volunteer at all kinds of organizations, doing good and making new friends. Retirees are a significant work force and volunteering comes with flexible hours. Recognize your worth.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Yes, exactly!!

[@Rainbowtree3]

i'm 62 and still feel young. I think it is because of my outlook in life. I do yoga 6 days a week for an hr first thing in the morning. This really helps if you have any aches and pains. Bathing with himalayan bath salts helps with sleep. I have many hobbies, art, quilting, energy healer, cooking, gardening, walking etc etc. I will have to work until 67yrs. I agree, smoking, drinking, eating rubbish food is not good. I agree you dont care what people think of you as you get older. I do enjoy my own company but like to be social too. Look after yourself, most importantly dont take life too seriously have fun. We are only on this earth for a short time.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Thanx so much for sharing your story! Great tips too!!

[@Santana-i5u]

I'm 70 years old and so far, so good Health is your wealth. 100% making new friends is very hard. But, keep busy and regrets i handed to the Lord. Congratulations on stopping smoking. i did 3 years ago and it was not easy.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Health is wealth!!! Yes. And congrats on quitting smoking!! Thanx for watching 😊

[@jramlal58]

#8 is too true. 60 and Sassy, like it or leave it. No BS tolerance anymore.

[@jramlal58]

#10 supremely true!❤

[@joannewolfe5688]

Excellent truths. I would add: when one does have a major illness, it hits much harder and recovery takes longer than when we were young. Also, it's fine to be alone and not have many friends UNTIL one has a major illness, and then it can be very very difficult to be alone. I am experiencing that right now, and frankly it is changing my thinking about how I want to live going forward.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

You are so right about that! I don't have a major illness but have been quite sick the last two days and with no one around to help, it's frustrating, sad and lonely. I hope you're ok 💓

[@anoodono1841]

But just think if you had a partner that when you got sick he got frustrated with you! -t be able t nurse yourself (f possible) is wonderful too -nice and easy does it

[@DZ-rf9fh]

Also when I went through a major loss I learned about an old saying. "You find out who your friends are when you go through a crisis. Lost health, my job and had to sell 90% of what I owned. Outcome, Most people disappeared or stepped back. A few acquaintances were there and are now friends. But since I had to move I am starting over at 62, my health is slowly improving after 3 years of being ill. Life is unpredictable and carries unexpected surprises. Plan as you able and then know you can get through whatever comes.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

@DZ-rf9fh so much truth in what you said!!

[@CarolynEllisQtEllis]

Hi. I liked what you said. I just watched 62 yo Demi Moore receive a Golden Globe award. It’s her skin that astonishes me!

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Demi is gorgeous! Thanx for watching!

[@normapadro420]

I did a lot of traveling. I'm not interested in it anymore. Some things in life didn't make too much sense to me. I was born in Aguadilla, Puerto Rico. As soon as I was born people were very mean to me. I learned a lot about people in general. I was pushed away by others. They just did me a great favor. I turned to Education, Writing, Photography, Art, and Music Production. I never felt lonely, or neglected. I had all of this time to build myself up. I don't even think about my age anymore. I'm 58 in a few more months I will be 59. It's a part of life. You made me laugh when you spoke about the pain. I have pain that creeps up for no reason. So I have to be careful. I stopped drinking beer in 1996. The last time I bought a pack of cigarrettes was in 2003. I stopped. I stopped drinking, because I needed a reset. My mind went back to when I was a baby. So clear, and beautiful. I don't have too many things either. I threw a lot of things too. I just wash things, and use the same things over, and over again. I have 2 pairs of sneakers, and 2 pairs of boots. When those wear out I will purchase others. I don't worry anymore. I want to be comfortable.😊 Have a nice weekend.😊

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

I'm sorry people were mean to you. I know how that feels :(. Sounds like you are living a happy life now! Thanx for watching and sharing your story.

[@anoodono1841]

Luv your detailed story

[@magalydiaz9073]

Great story. You are a strong person.That is awesome.😊

[@magalydiaz9073]

Truth!

[@AmandaPerks-e9h]

Just read a couple of these posts and I have to agree , it’s about me now , I have the time and freedom to indulge in myself for the first time in my life , I’m on a health mission because that’s the most important thing I can do going forward in life , gave up alcohol sugar et not completely☺️but I feel more alive now than in my 40/50 ,I educate myself and listen to my body it’s y greatest teacher ,, I look older but I’m wiser and I now no what it’s all about took 62 years but I’m banking on going forward and enjoying it as best I can ,it’s just a different stage now to experience ☺️

[@Aangel452]

Im 63 and have my craftwork which I love, and I will get my eyes and hearing fixed so that my later years are more enjoyable doing those things I love!😀

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

How wonderful!!

[@jm7804]

I wouldn't get too carried away with the I'm gonna die soon way of thinking. At 60, you may have another 30-40 years ahead of you. That's more time than some people get in their entire run in this life. And certainly more time than some 20 year olds have left. We've all known guys who drop dead from a heart attack at 42. Living your best life and gratitude should be the focus as you age.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

I hope i have another 30 healthy years!! Thanx for sharing your thoughts. I enjoyed reading them!

[@Rainbowtree3]

I agree in my eyes 62 is still young.

[@maxi7823]

So true, I dont care what people think of how I dress, their problem not mine. Being comfortable in your own skin and liking your own company , feels awesome, never lonely ❤

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

I think it's so important to be comfortable in your skin! Thanx for watching and sharing your thoughts :)

[@trevorclarey3336]

I am nearly 67 & can honestly say I am the happiest I have ever been , I kind of really know myself better , also grandchildren are great . you don't do nothing co's you are getting old , you get old by doing nothing , & it has been nice to hear from people of similar age ,thank's .

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

I love to hear this!! Thanx for watching and sharing your thoughts :)

[@seaneendelong8065]

This! My mind and attitude are young, but leavened with life lessons and the gained knowledge of 64 years. I keep busy in ways that keep me out in the world. This has also kept me in decent shape and healthy. I need zero meds and have no issues at all. I schedule time to visit kids/grandkids, but struggle to find time for the few friends remaining lol. I never think about death, or illness unless the grandkids give me whatever plague is the current thing- but I used to work with littles so that is so normal. 😹 My home is my sanctuary, my security, and my independence. I love living alone now, I decide when to sleep or eat, what to buy or do, and please myself. I can still tuck away into a nestegg, will prepay a funeral etc plan at some point, have no debt and minimal expenses, and have only a bit of "things" for my kids to sort through after I am gone- probably not for another few decades based on my family history and personal health so I enjoy those things now and have no worries about future needs. Really, my only regret/loneliness factor is knowing I had to let go the love of my life a while back- I knew his future dreams were not something I could give him, and I would have never stopped seeing him if he had truly been looking for what I could give. But I let him go, and indeed those dreams were what he pursued successfully, so I was right to do so. And loving someone means doing what is best for them even when it hurts. 💁And that is it's own reward in a way.... But such is life. Good and bad, you accept and grow and keep going. I like me as me, the dgaf switch is real! And while I DO edit my casual comments to others to avoid drama or issues, I don't worry at all what others think or care about fitting in- and it has made a lot of younger peeps more interested in socializing with me! So you never know...

[@patsloyan9755]

Watching you , we are one. You said everything, everything the way I am. I’m 64. Thank you for these words. Much love ❤️

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Thank you so much for watching 💓 🫶

[@candlelighttimewithnatural9990]

I was just talking about this subject earlier today. I’m 63. This shift is real.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Sure is!!!

[@jessicayoung7132]

True.. being "alone" doesn't necessarily mean you're lonely.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Exactly!

[@wendyhunter1399]

I enjoyed listening to someone who felt like I do Eva. I’m 67 & starting to feel aches & pains not before experienced. Thank you for reaching out & giving validation to those over age x 60! I think you’d be a very good Friend! xx

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Thanx so much Wendy! I appreciate your kind words!

[@grettalemabouchou6779]

I'm almost 64. Last week I went out dancing and had a blast. It's attitude for me. I am happy with my kids and Grandkids. I plan on finding a church family to spend time with. Travel certainly! I was a hospice nurse and have seen much. It's not over until it's over dear. ATTITUDE.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Yes! Attitude! 😎

[@luisapacheco8348]

I’m 66, and developing minor medical issues. I am becoming a minimalist. I still have a lot of stuff. It’s a blessing that I’m able to take care of my grandkids, so I’m trying to keep healthy for them. With the Lord‘s help, I will. 🙏🏾❄️🙏🏾

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Thanx for watching and sharing your thoughts!

[@TeddeeCuomo]

Nail on the head!!! Good talk, I turned 60 this year. I gave my life to everyone around me. Now it's my turn. Thank you😊Eva

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Yes it's your turn!!!!

[@eleanorbutler4747]

Hey. I am 73 and totally agree with all that you've shared. Thanks.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Thanks for watching!

[@sallythibodeaux7992]

I’m 64 soon to be 65. My husband is 70 and we’re both retired. We both enjoy staying home after many years of travel for work. I keep in touch with friends online and have group chats. I have hobbies (knitting and crochet) that I enjoy very much and they keep me going. We also have a Miniature Dachsund that keeps us going. There’s a difference between being lonely and being alone. 😊

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Yes there is. Your life sounds wonderful!

[@donnawilliams8487]

Gotta love dachshunds, they are wonderful dogs😊

[@circusbarpanajachel7782]

great, thanks for talking about these aspects ! After 25 years of dreaming about travelling to Morocco i finally did it this year and it was mindblowing. I am 67 years old .

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Wow!!! That's amazing. I'd love to go to Morocco!! Thanx for watching :)

[@marjoriedugon9083]

Me too. I Havnt got there in my van yet. You’ve given me hope xx

[@frv6610]

I was in Tangier, you too?

[@anacuevas9273]

I’m 64 years old, 7:46 retired two and a half years ago. I have been doing some reading, watching movies that I wanted to watch for a long time. Helping my two daughters with their 2 girls each. I don’t have lots of money, but I’m frugal , planning a couple of trips, once a year maybe a different place that I want to visit. My husband of 40 plus years is not as adventurous as I am, but he might accompany me in some of the trips that I want to do. Two years ago I took a trip to Madrid, Lisbon and Morocco. What an incredible experience! Enjoying life and keeping me healthy is my goal.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

@anacuevas9273 wonderful!!!!

[@toniweston4330]

Almost 70 wish I could be ALONE!! My adult so has special needs! He will never live alone! Sooooooo stressful... Love him, I'm just SO damn tired!

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Awe I'm so sorry 😞

[@saddlelac]

I’m sorry for you but you are making the choice to look after him. There are services out there to do this for him.

[@elainecameron5545]

@toniweston4330 with you on that one. My adult son lives with me, has Autism and will never be able to cope on his own. I nearly died last year , but glad to be here still. Lucky he has siblings that also take care of him.

[@elainecameron5545]

@saddlelac maybe there is, but who do you trust? Look at the school in the news recently, where autistic children were abused.

[@toniweston4330]

@elainecameron5545 Thank you for the kind note! I was 40 when my son was born! No husband, sadly no siblings to take over for me so... I live frugally hoping he will be able to maintain what living arrangements I have made!

[@cindynok]

On the friends issue, yes they die. Also I had been married for 49 years when my husband died. We did everything together and were not social beings. He died 3 years ago and I had very limited friends, mostly neighbors (out in the country), so not close in proximity. I had forgotten and was afraid of being social, or doing things by myself. Sure I could go to the doctor or store by myself, but he was my partner. About a month after he died I started eating out occasionally by myself. I went to a grief share group, but it has taken me three plus years to learn to be around new people, to say “hi my name is Cindy”. And the filter thing, I try but I am not up for pretentious people or bull. I am enjoying your channel.❤

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Sorry for your loss Cindy. I can't imagine what that's like to be without your lifelong partner. Good on you for putting yourself out there and meeting new people. That takes a ton of courage!!! Thanx for sharing your story and for watching!

[@amanda-saxon]

Hi Cindy, my husband died last year in a motorcycle accident at 61. We were the same as you and your husband. We were just such good friends and always together, we just didn't need other people although friendly. God I miss him so much, it's been a really difficult learning curve to be without my best buddy. I know how you feel. Bless you 😊

[@UNbowed62]

I wish more people knew the difference between “lonely” & “alone”. A lonely person needs someone else or many others to enjoy themselves & their lives. A person who lives alone is not always lonely. They’ve learned that others do not validate their own happiness & self esteem. They stand proudly on•their•own. (Actually, when I was married~I was LONELY!)😮 I’m happily alone; SOLO & wouldn’t trade it for all Gold in Ft. Knox! 🌞 ☕️

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

You're right! I've been lonely in relationships too. Many times.

[@stevenirvine666]

@UNbowed62 well said,theres a huge difference between being alone and being lonely😊

[@cherylsturman7923]

I turned 60 this year. This is so spot on! Thank you for the validation. 🙏💕

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

You're welcome! Glad you found it relatable! 💖 thanx for watching 💓

[@sherrymurphy4658]

I will b 62 in January & i try to stay as active as i can..i still work & will work for as long as the good Lord allows me to.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Awesome!

[@rhondaengdahl9343]

I'll be 58 next month. I can already relate to most of this, and it's helpful to know that what I'm experiencing at this point in life is normal. Thanks for sharing your wisdom. Also, congratulations on quitting smoking! I'm 17 years smoke free.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Wow 17 years! That's great!

[@sarahjeannepeterson5536]

I am very glad that you popped up on my feed today! Thank you! 😊

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

@@sarahjeannepeterson5536 thank you!

[@aliceadendorff1129]

68. With My dogs in My home. So many blessings. Prefer my own life in my own home. Friends? No thanks. Takes time to know someone. Don't have the desire for that effort. Comfortable. Grateful for every blessing.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Sounds wonderful!

[@gillscott34]

thank you for being so real and truthful. Coming up to be 65 this year. Feel its a changer right now, For the better or for worse!

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Yes! For better or for worse! Thanx for watching ☺️

[@billibongojutsu]

First of all, Great Video!! I am a 61 year old man.. It is really shocking how life fly,s buy. All the things i wanted to do and achieve, i have done. British Army , Martial Arts black belt, one x wife and 2 Grown up kids ... With Wife no. 2 travel the world in our Camping Van and enjoy our pension ... Got my aches and pains, but as long as i i can move, i will keep going. Many greetings.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Thanx so much!! Your life sounds great!

[@danielahTZ]

Yes the decluttering!!! I live in a different country now and I have been warning my sister to declutter for years should she go before me, I don’t want to be stuck with that job since she and I are the closest. We went through this with our family home after my parents passed and we had to go through 46 years worth of furniture, pictures, memorabilia etc and it was EXHAUSTING!!

[@janesawyer3495]

Pull the personal stuff then have an estate sale. They will go through everything for you, price it, and sell it. Helps a lot.

[@wandah9468]

My dad left a God awful mess when he passed. Ive spent years getting rid of my stuff. Much more space, and next of kin wont curse me. You want to declutter if youre contemplating getting maid service, or youre disabled and need a caregiver. The less clutter, and essential care items organized and easy to access, will make it much more pleasant for the nurse to do her job. You think it wont happen to you? Thats a bad bet. So toss the meaningless crap, or let your kids have it. Keep what youre using or capable of doing. Also, if you have the facility, consider having house mates. A source of passive income, they can help out, but dont mistake your roomies for caregivers. Caregivers are NOT CHEAP, you will need $$$$$$, to stay out of assisted living. My take.

[@sandygrimes7196]

I’m 58 but I’m getting there, I’m also happy being alone, 33 years married and 4 years a widow..I only talk to my acquaintances at work, and come home to my cat 🐈

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Cats are life!

[@talulatree5297]

I'm sorry for your loss.😢it's my biggest fear. I'm 53, and my love of my life is 67.

[@delanabunch8990]

Lighting a candle takes away my blues… As does taking care of cats and dogs, and watching KZbin or reading a good book!

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Lovely!! ☺️💓

[@tallyooh1182]

I am closing in on 61 and all those things rang true! ❣️

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Thanx for watching!

[@yourhollywooddream]

I’m 59 and just lost an old friend to cancer. She was only 61. Definitely makes me think more about every day I might have

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

I'm sorry for your loss 😥

[@yourhollywooddream]

@ thank you and thank you for your video 🙂

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

@@yourhollywooddream 🫶💕

[@jenisays2]

I'm 53, and I might as well be 63 because everything you said resonates so much with me. Never been one to care what others think, nor have I had much of a filter over my mouth anyway, but now...yeah, absolutely no filter whatsoever! So yeah, you're very right on all accounts! Thanks for sharing. ✌️😁

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Thanx for watching and sharing your thoughts 😊 🫶

[@LucilleSorrellman]

I turned 60 in September of 2024. I just want to say thank you for this video!! I’m finding a lot of things you said in the video are true. I’ve been in survival mode for my whole life, it seems. I raised three children mostly single handedly. I struggled paying for the things they needed and wanted. I worked at jobs that I absolutely hated going to, but I did it and I did it well. I feel I can chill out now. My children are doing great and call me to check in on me. Truthfully they are the only ones I love to hear from. I had a-lot of so called friends when I was younger,but they come and go. I’m so grateful my children are happy and healthy, and still want to talk to me. My life is chill now. There are a lot of things from my past that I’m dealing with now that I didn’t have time to deal with before and it is making me a better person. Now to quit vaping, I think that’s going to be a little hard but I’ll get there. Again, thank you for the video.💕

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

I'm so happy you have a chill life now!! Good for you! 🙏❤️

[@jclutz6353]

Thanks. This was helpful. I retired two years ago and survived a widow maker 1 year ago. Its been a struggle wrapping my head around everything.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

I'm sorry for your loss 🫶😔 I'm glad this was helpful. Thanx for watching.

[@doylejodi7502]

I was thinking that if your pets die; and you get another one, realize that it’s a commitment prob until you pass away. That may make you reconsider getting a puppy or kitten as opposed to an older pet.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Good point!! Thanx for sharing that and watching!

[@lwinkfein]

We have always had a large dog but our last one passed away. I'm missing a dog but, yes, not sure we should get another in our 70's. Mulling it over. A dog does keep you active and add to your life.

[@lazapololapolo9824]

@@lwinkfein *Get closer to God (I mean in a spiritual sense not an emotional religious sense) God will keep you active, add immensely to your life, and you'll be that way until your last days on this earth. God will keep you happy even through difficulties. After a certain age people should stop looking for external comforts to fulfill inner emptiness only God can fulfill us.*

[@vreese3350]

Doylejodi7502 I agree with what you said about pets I have had cats for over 30 years as support companions before I knew it was a thing. I recently about a year ago had to put one of my cats down she was 16 1st she lost use of front paw cost a lot of money & couldn’t afford the X-ray was bout think 1200 just to get accurate diagnosis. The visit was 600$ came home she appeared to be improving the very next week she lost both back legs. My next cat he’s 9 health issues that requires medication. I am 58 & I don’t have friends. Having a pet for me is very necessary but I had to make the decision that he will be my last pet. I have poor health, I don’t want to outlive him & he has no one to care for him. I heard black cats don’t do so well as far as adoption. I am disabled so having a sick animal is getting unaffordable

[@courtneysands6646]

Yes, I lost my last kitty about two years ago and won't replace her. It's so much easier to just care for myself. It is a joy to have pets but it also limits your life. It is a time and $ commitment, to be sure.

[@julesbre1399]

Hi Iva, You are 💯 factual in everything you shared. I'm 65 and generally feel great. Health is our Wealth, so I do the necessary things to keep it. I also have a cat, who is my companion...im recently divorced. I enjoy life to the fullest! I will be traveling to Panama soon, my first trip traveling alone. Thank you for sharing.🙂

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Oooooh I'd love to go to Panama! It's been on my list for years. Thank you for sharing your story and have fun on your first solo adventure!!!! You're gonna love it!

[@joansutcliffe5651]

Thanks for sharing Joan from new Zealand keep doing what you're doing all the best

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Thanx Joan!!

[@MargaretGSmith-c1q]

I hear many women over 60 say they don’t care what people think. I still do. I don’t want to walk out the door dressed like a fool. My neighbor is my age ( mid 60’s ) dresses for attention, but not in a good way. I believe she’s trying for younger guy’s, but that ship sailed along time ago. I’m fairly healthy, eat right, exercise, maintain a clean home ( have allergies ), no medications, get eight hours sleep, travel some. Oh yeah, I do have cataracts. It’s common to lose one’s filter, but that’s me as a Sagittarius. I’ve lost good friends through death and don’t want to invest in new friendships. I live around some nasty Alpha females. It’s no wonder men keep to themselves. Anyway, I think your video resonates with most over 60 women.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Thanx so much for watching and sharing your thoughts 😊

[@kathyhansen2820]

Don't despair, cataract surgery's a cake walk.

[@Mayfitz]

Lol! Understand the alpha comment all too well! Pathetic isnt it? Old ladies playing King of the Hill ,lol! Especially my catholic childhood friends that say they miss me. Passive aggresive,covert digs. Embarrassing. Poor husbands have to listen to their 💩

[@juliedepaolo9971]

I enjoyed your funny comment.."I don't want to walk out looking like a fool." I am in the middle of cataract surgery. My left eye was done just over 2 weeks ago and my right will be done this coming Thursday. It will take another 3 weeks for it to heal up. Nice being able to see again. You will love it. Very easy. You will need someone to drive you but you will be fine by yourself once you get home. I'm 65 and very healthy. No medications, never smoked and will have an occasional small glass of wine. I'm enjoying my retirement and peace. I'm happily married and we are not that social.

[@marymchugh6050]

Mutton dressed as lamb, nothing worse😅

[@keepitforreally4501]

Sizing down and yes, what you said correct you don’t want your family to have to deal with all the stuff but it is fun for me because I don’t need things anymore and it’s fun to give it away.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Yes stuff is just stuff and can weigh you down too!

[@monareonjohns1679]

I'm 66 going on 67 real soon looking like I'm in my 30s take care of myself and enjoying life being single

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Great!!

[@waterlily8947]

Hi Eva, I'm 57 and going through many of these truths already. Thank you for posting this video, it has really helped me to understand the changes I'm experiencing as I age. I'm going to share this with my daughter who is in her late 30's and hopefully it helps her to live a more fulfilling life as she enters her 40's. Thank you again for sharing your thoughts and knowledge with us! Oh I have a beloved cat and I got a dog last year. I never thought having a dog would add so much to my life, but they are great companions. They love just hanging out with us, snuggling up and keeping us company. Having a dog to take on walks is also a great way to start walking everyday and meet new people.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Thanx for watching and sharing your thoughts....and dogs are life 🧡

[@codzy3532]

my dear old mum used to say......when u get old u become invisible amen to that feeling it now im 61

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

It's kinda true and sad!

[@tracywalker8373]

I'm 64 going on 65. You have nailed all my thoughts, all my beliefs. I'm not the only one. Thank you. My dog and cat keep me going. Give me purpose. Thanks, Eva.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Pets are life 😻💛💜

[@Curious859]

Hi. What a great video!! Thank you. I just wanted to correct the “Loneliness” part in your, I believe was number two point, to “Aloneness”. There is a HUGE difference between the two. I can be ‘Alone’ with no one around me, on top of a mountain, but never feel lonely. However, I can be in a room, with 100 people, even if all of them are family, friends, etc, and feel THE loneliest. The two are far apart. Loneliness stems from a feeling of not belonging, not connecting. You don’t feel a part of them, or they don’t see you as a part of them.

[@Rose-ht3xc]

I think that can be true of any age; but I've definitely NOTICED it more as I've gotten older.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Thank you for watching and for clarifying that. I love the way you describe it!!

[@graceamos6048]

I am 64 and you are so right about not caring, less stress , have a hot sandwich for dinner watch a soap on tv, always something to look forward to, make it exciting sometimes.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

@graceamos6048 always something to look forward to!!

[@Frenchie_007]

This video was very well done. Thank you so much for your raw honesty. We appreciate you! 🥰

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Thanx so much for that!! 🫶