Our priest gave us really good advice when we got married. He said that marriage isn't 50/50. Marriage is 100/100. We both need to always be putting in our all. My husband has completely embraced his role as a provider. I have completely embraced my role as a caretaker. We do our budget together, ask each other permission before spending money, and don't resent each other for our roles in life. He doesn't demand I get a job and I don't demand he clean the house.
@feleciagreen-x2j2 жыл бұрын
Hallelujah That’s True 100/100🙌🏾🙌🏾
@heavencasteel8277 Жыл бұрын
This is the truth! This is the way my husband and I run our household as well! It works!
@melonymanns9901 Жыл бұрын
Now that’s a match made in Heaven 🙏🏿
@Mindsetolympics Жыл бұрын
🤯
@sherylfaceyzx54467 ай бұрын
Plpppp
@alylandrian59082 жыл бұрын
For me, when I got divorced I got rid of the person that was putting us in debt and NEVER listening to reason. I'm now debt free and bought a home.
@trinaP232 жыл бұрын
I got divorced about a year and half after being marriage for a very long time. My EX was a retired military I was entitled to half of his retirement pay, I give up it all for peace. I have rebuilt my life. Brought a house, have a pay off luxury car and is building my retirement account to a 6 figure.
@acraft852 жыл бұрын
Keep up the good work
@nattyb29242 жыл бұрын
Peace is priceless!!! Power to you queen!
@crystalperry21632 жыл бұрын
Congratulations! 🙏❤️💯
@cphillps17492 жыл бұрын
Sure….. he made all the money , you spent all the money and now because of our sexist court system you’re entitled to 55% of his money you didn’t work for Send your crocodile to someone else and hopefully he moved on to a better woman and family.
@johnsonajayi78462 жыл бұрын
Wow, you are one in a million. Look at it the other way that he will never think about doing bad to you because of what you did. That is peace for life and it is priceless. We brought nothing into this world and we are not taking anything with us, most people don't think about this. May the Lord bless you and keep you, may He lift up His countenance upon you and grant you His peace.
@amyj44382 жыл бұрын
I'm a PK, but this is the 1st time I feel like I've heard a Christian couple speak and I feel they are truly balanced and complimentary. He truly LOVES her!!! She truly loves him. I can tell she laughs at all his jokes. She submits to him cuz she feels fully safe with him! He sees her value and let's her speak & loves talking to her. He respects her and I feel like I'm seeing them in a space of "We did the work & we've invested in ourselves & family". I can FEEL the Love!!! I've met a lot of pastors and I get alot of narcissist vibes. I actually don't get that from them. I feel like there's just a flow and ease that they've cultivated. 😍
@therealashleycrouch2 жыл бұрын
Mental stimulation is the KEY to longevity = this episode was extraordinary 🙌🏻🙌🏻
@SanctifiedLady2 жыл бұрын
Mental stimulation goes both ways for sure. Some men want mental stimulation but not knowing they don’t think for themselves watching red pill single broke men to follow.
@Nella7978 Жыл бұрын
Yes!
@amypetterson41812 жыл бұрын
After 26 years of marriage, I'm still learning! Great episode!
@preciousperry40332 жыл бұрын
"REST IN HIS STRENGTH" man that was so good!!!!!
@Anitad90522 жыл бұрын
A loving man will allow his women to rest in his strength because he knows it strengthens the household
@cdub10932 жыл бұрын
I want that Wife Coach teaching!!! 🙋🏽♀️🙋🏽♀️🙋🏽♀️ I love learning & growing in how to love & serve my husband & household! 💗
@farmermarshall2 жыл бұрын
Building together is the best way. Your interviews are so good because you bring in excellent people...and you let them talk. "Not experts but experienced at making mistakes." I love that you're stating your goal of getting to 500k subs. I keep forgetting to ask people to like & subscribe. I'm going to start stating my goals in my videos. 1000 subs in a year. Once I stated that I did everything that I could to get more subs. I got over 100 last week. You always get me motivated!
@annak64122 жыл бұрын
Anthony you been doing your thing. Mixing business, god, relationships, and working on yourself on one platform. Sheesh!
@jasondima14112 жыл бұрын
The best KZbin channel out right now! These are the type of conversations I enjoy listening to. Keep on prospering! Today show was another classic in the books
@anthonyoneal2 жыл бұрын
So glad you enjoyed them.
@feleciagreen-x2j2 жыл бұрын
Amen♥️♥️🙌🏾🙌🏾
@ashtonb1318 Жыл бұрын
Facts!!
@soniagonzalez14622 жыл бұрын
I was raised as that second caliber of women... keep your money, I don't need to take anything from you, I can do for myself. I will have my own. It is true that I never learned to lean on a man due to my experiences with my partners.. I'm also an alpha female but internally always wanted a man that I felt safe in lowering my guards in many ways... it hasn't happened yet. my choices in men is another podcast 🙂lol
@miky89132 жыл бұрын
Good morning hope your weekend is off to a great, how are you doing?
@reneemellott86122 жыл бұрын
I had to think about the "why" I married my spouse and I can truly say it was because I KNEW in my heart he would make me a better person and I didn't want to live without him .. I am so blessed and have fallen in love with him more and more with each year we have been together!! Loved your video!!
@luckylib2 жыл бұрын
I pray that Anthony Manifests his wife. Raise your vibrations so that she will come. Scammers will be blocked
@lovingsamantha94432 жыл бұрын
Lol scammers will be blocked 😂
@gomo85232 жыл бұрын
Ahahaha 😂😂🤣🤣🤣Ehehehe
@TheKrystolMethod2 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@expertjacksonwilliams73682 жыл бұрын
Modern man is not the man who goes off to discover himself , his secrets and his hidden truth . He is a man who tries to invest himself in something beneficial for future
@stevenjuan2592 жыл бұрын
I think I'm blessed because if not I wouldn't have met someone who is as spectacular as expert Jackson Williams.
@stevenjuan2592 жыл бұрын
He has been handling my account for years now.
@kennethdorothy54012 жыл бұрын
Wow I'm just shock someone mentioned and recommended Expert Jackson Williams I thought I'm the only one trading with him.
@Anna-lt9jn2 жыл бұрын
You don't need to be shock because I'm also a huge beneficiary of Mr Jackson Williams.
@Anna-lt9jn2 жыл бұрын
He helped me recover what I lost trying to trade for my self.
@tonyas.6148 Жыл бұрын
I love this platform! This man needs his OWN TELEVISION 📺 NETWORK SHOW!!! He should be on the Own Network..
@dikfeen01 Жыл бұрын
That when he comes along and shows her what she needs part! That manages triggers part! That resting in his strength part!!!!
@shrewdminion48932 жыл бұрын
I think women know why they're asking for the man to pay the bills. They've probably seen women who have taken care of men and then the men leave them when they succeed. That happened to me personally so I'm not trying to do 50/50 anymore. Plus in 50/50 financially, women still do most of the household work and taking care of kids.
@sarahrahming70522 жыл бұрын
deep talks, money, marriage, communication, understanding
@denapoleon60062 жыл бұрын
That's it - can't nobody do it like me, but how do I find someone who appreciates how I do it. I love this show! Thanks
@charlenereese12032 жыл бұрын
Team work in a marriage is the key you build together
@Sg-gs2 жыл бұрын
I have not watched the whole video yet but the first statement of this video made me feel like I have to say something. If you love our creator the most high, I’d suggest you find someone who knows and love him as well. I was not a believer to begin with and I can tell you my marriage suffered for a long time until I know who our father in heaven is. My sister in law married her atheist boyfriend thinking he will change and no, he never did. You will be tested and if your heart is not in the right place you will never want to see the truth. It’s not impossible because the father can make miracles but not everyone will change. So if you are looking, I do suggest looking for someone with at least a good heart and the love for the creator.
@novaricos Жыл бұрын
I heard one dad tell his daughter, " You are not doing ANY 'missionary dating'! Thinking that you will bring someone to Christ by your 'love'!" Foolishness and a waste of your life. This is NOT how Jesus told us that people will turn to God, when He sent out people to tell them! We are not folk's Saviour, they already HAVE one, (hint- it's Jesus), and our ego thinks WE should be it. NO, no no no no!! Not the Godly way, this is the Deceiver's way so that we waste our life and energy on foolishness, and can't be effective for God!
@Sg-gs Жыл бұрын
@@novaricos amen to that
@phyllishenderson27042 жыл бұрын
This couple is amazing! What does God and the Bible teach us should be done regarding marriage and relationships? We always do it "the world's way! These are jewels that they are dropping! Priceless! They are talking about the fundamentals of praying together!!! Amen!
@shrewdminion48932 жыл бұрын
I'm from Jacksonville. Idk why I haven't heard of him but I'm glad he and his wife did this interview
@beautynj Жыл бұрын
Such a wonderful conversation!! I am in my second marriage and for sure I have learned love is NOT enough! And a conversation on what we came with is essential, Transparency is needed😊
@judyb02162 жыл бұрын
Saving for a ring and the keys to a home. Nice. Men....take notes.
@8087582 жыл бұрын
Mental stimulation is huge and the realest thing.
@kadiefasan2 жыл бұрын
"Two failing people are failing each other" WHEW!
@NathalieLazo2 жыл бұрын
“It's never the circumstances that determine success in life but what you DO with the current bad circumstances that determines your success in life.” - Dani Johnson. Incredible person reading this, have an awesome day! I believe in you! Love ~ Nat ✨❤️
@mercy_522 жыл бұрын
let’s talk 📩:
@mogathers2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. I wish this for you?
@aarcher1997 Жыл бұрын
Anthony PLEASE bring them back again!! This was such an AMAZINGLY AWESOME interview🌟
@TruMe22 жыл бұрын
When I was dating. Mental Stimulation was goal 1st of what I was looking for & is KEY to a successful relationship in my opinion & for me.
@jenniferwilliams64942 жыл бұрын
18 minutes in... this is a good conversation. Yes pastor, realistic conversations. Good job Anthony!
@nicolewynn17142 жыл бұрын
That's my pastor, keeping it Real. ♥️♥️♥️ Lady, can't nobody for it like you. Yassssss
@brahimiwhitelion56362 жыл бұрын
My girlfriend lives in the states and she’s sent me your videos before now which I’ve enjoyed and watched . But for this one I stayed up . I’m hitting the subscribe button right now 💥
@Backyardfit2 жыл бұрын
This was super powerful for me as a husband and entrepreneur !
@nbgvfcmnbh6226 Жыл бұрын
I always thought starting a business meant getting MBA raising capital having a revolutionary product but this story made me realize we have all we need at our fingertips
@lateshiaelizabeth2 жыл бұрын
The fact that he said that’s my calling then his phone rang 😂. Talk about perfect timing!
@AyoAwotona2 жыл бұрын
Yesssss to the mental stimulation! I love that you've put vocabulary to this 🙌🏾🙌🏾. When I reflect on someone that I've previously been drawn to (not in a relationship with), it was hands down his IQ. I loved his visionary nature, drive and his softness. I was literally turned on by the fact that he mentioned he reads like 5-10 books monthly, his ventures and his business IQ! I was like 😍😍😍💥💥💥💥. I definitely felts some sparks in the air. I am that Alpha female, so it's always encouraging to know that we don't have to settle. It's important that we know how to be the Entrepreneurial, financially independent etc, whilst still being humble, gentle and kind. I've come to learn that this does not mean weakness. It's actually a strength. Being a Chayil woman is a real thing! 🔥
@mercy_522 жыл бұрын
let’s talk 📩:
@nadiasworld16132 жыл бұрын
OMG! I love conversations like these.. This Minister laid it down today!!
@felisha4072 жыл бұрын
This was so good, this pastor needs a podcast!!!
@dtintl3411 Жыл бұрын
Greetings Anthony O'Neil. This is the 2nd time watching your show. I am enjoying your quick wit, and your pragmatism. One of the main thing I want to see in you, is to watch you grow deeper with The LORD! A reporter chased me for years. It was, after discovering I was the 1st, Black diasporan (Chicago area), who started an International, Diversified business. Being a shy woman of The LORD, kept me humble, and never money-motivated. Money is just an exchange, to help you put your ideas to work. We all need to go deeper in The LORD, to allow Him to utilize us for His Ultimate Glory!
@paulettebarnett6716 Жыл бұрын
Yes this man know what he is talking about. Forty three years gained one hundred plus pounds and he is still stimulated mentally and otherwise. Yeeeeesss
@KayDurrant Жыл бұрын
I'm 58 and newly single wish I could've had this conversation with my younger self.
@adinamay94752 жыл бұрын
Great Table session ❤️👍🏾 More conversations like this need to be televised 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@adinamay94752 жыл бұрын
Oh I feel that, “I just can’t be or date anyone” Amen ❤️🙌🏾
@bessiewright22354 ай бұрын
It makes sense Anthony. A lawyer once told me to keep the courts out of family business. It’s better to communicate and write out how the split will take place and stick to it. Periodically you can review it and make changes as your wealth grows.
@IAMAQT7112 жыл бұрын
You're on to something with this interview. Let's take it all the way from the beginning. I want mental stimulation with my money.
@annapam1102 жыл бұрын
***Please special demand*** make a whole show on what was discussed in the 10-15 last minutes please 🙏🏽 please 🙏🏽please 🙏🏽
@mercy_522 жыл бұрын
Let’s talk 💌
@mylesmikieal2 жыл бұрын
Her answer was logically correct, marriage is a business at the end of the day, I keep what "i" came in with, but what we build "together" from here on out, I want %50
@JasmineDTresHer2 жыл бұрын
Maaaaaaannnn.... Everytime I watch this show, someone flips my life cycle upside down. My first love and I would speak on the phone for hours, but our beliefs and life choices conflicted. The older I get, I can reflect and remember how honesty made me mentally spasm. This episode was lit
@colettewallace61722 жыл бұрын
Tell it like it is now! This is how you keep it real!
@lisacombs75902 жыл бұрын
Such a cute couple. When my Pakistani friend got married, I asked him if his wife was educated. He didn't know her. It was an arranged marriage on the advice of his sister. She'd never been to the US. He said, so long as she has me, she doesn't have to worry about money or work. Because then what is he there for. From that time, he made first class and then chief in the military. They lived off of his reserve pay. He got his Master's, left NYC and bought a house in Texas. Came back and got a job with the City of NY. All the while, she stayed home and conceived 3 children. She's never worked as he said. He doesn't care about a prenuptial agreement. Oh an they bought a house in NYC for half a million.
@mercy_522 жыл бұрын
let’s talk 📩
@maureengolding29802 жыл бұрын
Different culture. They respect their men because their men do respectable things,
@dbosslady32742 жыл бұрын
Anthony said it people are settling .
@mercy_522 жыл бұрын
let’s talk 📩
@OutgoingIntrovert_ Жыл бұрын
In the middle of a divorce now and I'm excited for the financial freedom I'll be able to achieve for myself!
@susanakaan810 Жыл бұрын
Such a beautiful discussion, self awareness , get to know your self, love your self, know and love your God, the pastor is experienced
@lavieestbelle60682 жыл бұрын
Draw an outline before you get married. Do you want too much early in life? This is good. Thank you, AO and the guests. It was a such a blessing. I don't believe in 50-50 though.
@SanctifiedLady2 жыл бұрын
Balling on a budget is making use of your budget and not breaching that boundary
@budgetingdaddyuk67612 жыл бұрын
Marriage is a financial contract, but at the same time it is best to have your own individual investments along with joint ones.
@MsSugarDyme2 жыл бұрын
In my first divorce, I had to pay my husband child support and give him my house. Breadwinners get penalized in the divorce no matter what gender they are... It's time to evolve this conversation.
@dmariabeauty2 жыл бұрын
I am a new subbie, after YT showing me one of your vids (about Ellie). Prior to that, I had not heard of you, sir. I’m soooooo glad to have come across your channel and NOW being in THE KNOW‼️ It’s 5AM, and I am truly enjoying this convo with “the Johnsons”‼️ Thank u for sharing‼️👏🏾💥👏🏾💥👏🏾💥👏🏾💥👏🏾💥👏🏾💥👏🏾💥👏🏾💥
@ginagreeneofficial Жыл бұрын
Love this conversation with this beautifully saved couple. We need more of these conversations in the church that focus on us as people. Spiritual, physical, emotional, financial. When a man leads like this, a woman should have problem submitting. Be in there like Sara and Abraham, feeding him grapes and talking about, "Yes, my lord." 😂
@celestawilliams52342 жыл бұрын
When I say that this is so good please believe me! I saw this clip on TikTok and I hurried up and got on KZbin. I’m going to take this survey as well.
@mercy_522 жыл бұрын
let’s talk 📩:
@philw97872 жыл бұрын
So many nuggets, please bring them bk!! People rewatch again!!
@patriciahand22232 жыл бұрын
To soon to move on coming out of the passed relationship. Heal first. Take the test first before moving on.
@beaabsolutejoy24502 жыл бұрын
I appreciated this talk. There was so much wisdom from this couple ❤
@ashleym78392 жыл бұрын
Soooo good, we need a part 2! 🙌🏽
@mercy_522 жыл бұрын
Let’s talk 📩:
@LarryShipeWorld Жыл бұрын
This the one here brother 👊🏼
@BethanyNes772 жыл бұрын
Wowowowow! Powerful testimony and word on walking singleness and marriage. What a beautiful pastors brilliantly message. Bravo 👏 They need to write a book.
@mercy_522 жыл бұрын
let’s talk 📩;
@sharongarrett46302 жыл бұрын
Please stop some of the screaming and banging. Can't absorb this important information. Awesome segment. Thank you.
@evettyoung22152 жыл бұрын
‘Don’t Ball if you on a budget’
@TheAlkalineHealer2 жыл бұрын
The only way a house becomes an asset is if you collect rent from a tenant occupying the property. If the property is occupied by self and not generating residual income, it is a liability 100%. Choose what you spend your earnings on wisely
@nashelle83592 жыл бұрын
Wow! So timely I’ve been hyper focused on wealth etc.. great convo
@gr8fullynatural2 жыл бұрын
This is a beautiful conversation. This is an example of Amos 3:3. This couple agrees.
@mercy_522 жыл бұрын
Let’s talk 💌
@monicaturner2342 жыл бұрын
This is my favorite show by far!!! Wonder content AO!
@brittsjustwingingit2732 Жыл бұрын
Anthony's wife is my girl!! She us amazing and like-minded! She us here ins NC.
@listen2HIMSPEAK2 жыл бұрын
This....right...here! I loved every bit of this mind-blowing conversation. Thank you, Anthony for bringing the Johnsons to the table.
@BahRod00 Жыл бұрын
We bring our 💯... remember men!
@lcorellegreen8833 Жыл бұрын
Yes I have with someone who is so intriguing that I talked to him for over 7 hours out of this world the compatibility is off the charts
@KeithCindyPanama2 жыл бұрын
18:50. Non communication causes frustration- AMEN!!!! Deereeeep stuffff
@MP-ou2lu2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely wise counseling and thank you for allowing us to look deeper into our lives and selecting a partner.
@victoriaf.6078 Жыл бұрын
I love them... I so agree with them. As a widow things are so different... I'm under reconstruction and so should my future husband
@thesacredhealher2 жыл бұрын
This was a great episode!!! Sooo many gems dropped!!
@missmitchell12012 жыл бұрын
Hey the video was off towards the end ....the talking was not linking up with the video....other than that this was a powerful video that I will watch again ....thank you
@missmitchell12012 жыл бұрын
Hey Anthony....I watch you on KZbin....I am not a social media person...I don't have a Facebook...Instagram or Twitter account...you can reach me by gmail...again loved the content and great Man and Women of God on the program.... I am over 50 and finally out of debt .....will be married one day but want to get other streams of income in place so that WE can retire and travel anywhere WE want...Love you and keep doing what you do ... Be blessed and don't stress the small stuff and even smaller people.....🎈🎈🎈
@michellemichelle3545 Жыл бұрын
Just my thoughts at 51 I feel that men who believe that have a right to cheat should not get married. I am hard-pressed to believe all of these divorces are from women with non cheating husbands.
@candacejohnson59082 жыл бұрын
When he said "Experience at making mistakes" 😍
@YaedaDesha13102 жыл бұрын
Address your appetite...Yasss Lord! Thank you so much for the gems, you and your guest bring great purpose and hindsight.💚💚💚
@nicolewynn17142 жыл бұрын
I'm here, ready. Lady and Pastor Don Johnson. Let's get this knowledge. ♥️♥️
@tangieb50312 жыл бұрын
So many gems!!! Thank you for this episode!!
@mercy_522 жыл бұрын
let’s talk 📩
@halfdozenmommichelle41642 жыл бұрын
This was so good, AO you are so funny, I enjoyed this interview
@jeffu32482 жыл бұрын
This one was soooooo great AO, mannnnnn. I had to run it back to listen to these gems 💎💎💎
@llcinnamon2 жыл бұрын
Oooooweee!! This was soooo good! So many gems 💎 dropped. Definitely shared with some of my single friends.
@anthonyoneal2 жыл бұрын
I agree! One of the BEST shows we have done.
@mercy_522 жыл бұрын
let’s talk 📩:
@twiggiear75342 жыл бұрын
Thank you Anthony for this episode. I can’t wait to see more from them
@susanakaan810 Жыл бұрын
Yes every great person has someone to pour in to them
@LoveKJ222 Жыл бұрын
I loved this interview so much! Great people with amazing perspectives and experience. Please bring them both back on.
@digwealth740 Жыл бұрын
Great show. Needed about 3 hours for this guest! Thanks all!
@natashabrown69482 жыл бұрын
YES GOD! It's the mental match!!!! 💞
@alishadennis7769 Жыл бұрын
Really great show, that's truly needed & helpful to help people have much more wisdom about dating and selecting a partner for marriage & consider the finances & reason for choosing to marry a person first 🙏🌹💝😘🤑
@beanie7330 Жыл бұрын
So good. I am not even getting married and I want to take their course!
@jflorexilerk91252 жыл бұрын
This is one of my favorite for this year. Christian or not get a prenup.
@AyoAwotona2 жыл бұрын
This was so a great episode! Thank you all so much! I also paused to take the quiz Anthony... the results came in and its so accurate it's not even funny 🤣🤣🤣
@mercy_522 жыл бұрын
let’s talk 📩
@anthonyoneal2 жыл бұрын
LOL!!! I love it.
@tyneishashainegriel16412 жыл бұрын
When it comes to child support…. The wife’s income is listed on one side. The husbands listed on the other. And the children’s expenses go in the middle. Whomever makes more is the one who is responsible for paying for majority of those expenses. Which is done in the form of child support to the other parent. This is the case even if you have shared custody.