Help Is At Hand - Doing It Ourselves

[@debragonser745]

The main thing on the list is! Take care of Michael! What does Michael want to do! You are such a great person. You are putting to much on yourself. Take time to figure out what you want.

[@helenstella2666]

You know Michael.. you saying hello, welcome back & smiling is all we need. After all .. it was your line! It can be The Petherick welcome ☺️ Don’t stress over it, honestly. Making lists is good, writing things down helps to get it off your brain. Look after yourself & take your time .. you know we’re all here as & when you’re ready 😊 Love the phone .. reminds me of Det Petherick 🥰 Hugs ❤️

[@endeavouringit]

Yep absolutely, all the negative nancies about what he should be doing as in work and videos can go jump, and anyone worrying about what he does with any funding just need not support !!

[@firstlast5068]

We love you, Michael. Just pick up the camera, and say hello. Your smile and Florien's smile are addictive!!! Lists are great! Keep the videos coming.....

[@DavidAdam666]

Florian is fantastic. So nice and gentle. Can we have more of him.

[@MK-zo3zk]

I had raclette for the first time in Maryland at a wedding of a Swiss girl to an American man. They brought it with them from Switzerland. I usually don't consume dairy products but I made an exception this time because of the uniqueness of the meal. It was absolutely delicious. I see that it is considered as truly special.

[@user-vb6gl6nf7c]

Clever video. You two are a hoot! ❤

[@jeanettesantarelli1795]

We have raclette in Canada. It came from Switzerland. It is a wonderful way of eating that encourages a slow meal with conversation, wine and company. Wonderful.

[@crazydays7]

Agree with other viewers. “Hello. Welcome back,” with your charming smile is great. No worries if others say it. You are you and your warm personality makes it work for you.

[@heatherread6058]

It's a delight to have you back Michael. Just stay being your natural self, I think that is what we all love about your family and most importantly take care of yourself. From South Australia 🇦🇺 x

[@Alexhugues]

Florian seems so shy. He is such a cutie

[@kit2130]

Getting his masters wow!!!

[@teepeeX]

Gorgeous

[@divaden47]

Florian is such a distraction to this old lady, who should know better!! 🤩🤩🤩🤩

[@racheliselin750]

I have ADHD. I am 74. I have ever since i was in my teens made a list what needs to be done the night before i go to bed for the next day in order to be done.

[@daniellereid01]

It is wonderful to have your videos to look forward to, Michael. I have to say that Florian is the sweetest person imaginable: he's always so amenable to everything and just gentle and calm. I love watching the two of you working as I think you compliment each other well. Great work in your cottage, too. Take good care of yourself 💕

[@PeggyMcCabe]

I used to do raclette with my kids. It was so much fun and they loved it. We live in Massachusetts USA.

[@hilltop9098]

You know what they say “Rome wasn’t built in a day” just take your time Michael and everything will come together. ❤️🇬🇧

[@jessicacook8162]

OMG I love the throw back to Stephanie's and your phone conversations in the early days. Fun video. Looks like you are having fun and not nervous and uptight. Keep going Michael.

[@debshaw680]

That was adorable!

[@kit2130]

Yes that was so funny. And only 2 minutes away haha.

[@vickismallwood2082]

One day at a time Michael and you will have all together is what I tell myself and then enjoy what you are doing for you. We will be here. Love your channel.

[@ctchickenmom]

You're an ADHDer! I love it. I have enough of a hard time keeping house, nevermind trying to restore one.

[@frankgyori2740]

I am so happy that you are beginning to make more posts. I have missed you. One thing, do not let the unkind people get you down. Sometimes people can be so ugly...

[@judithburke1539]

They have forgotten about the principal of do to others what you want them to do to you. Take care

[@barbaraharshman9460]

Just recently subscribed to your channel the work is fantastic! Love that it runs in the family and your artwork is just beautiful!! Florian is a big help to you and you both are adorable!

[@lynembry1556]

Just a small suggestion that works wonders for my nephew and that is finish one task if possible before moving forward. Such as you stripped the bedding but failed to put the fresh linens but on. If may sound silly but staying focused even on mundane helps keep the chaos at bay. Jesse says having adhd is like having a constant party going on in his head. Good luck with your treatment. Wishing you good health

[@dees3179]

Brilliant description and brilliant advice. My head is so busy.

[@kevinhickey3515]

Well I wish Michael well but I would not change one thing about him. He is so likeable.......

[@elisabethhopson5639]

Dear Michael, lovely to see another video from you. It really doesn't matter how you start, it could be with a question for all of us, it could be just a big grin. We will all love it anyway. Loved the telephone humour, shows both your personalities. Chris seems to be a clever chap and really nice too. Using lists is a great way of organising your daily life, so long as you don't put pressure on yourself. They get done when they get done. It is the satisfaction of achievement and that important tick at the end. We all need lists. The cottage is looking lovely, hope you finish it soon so you can wake up to the sounds of the garden in spring.

[@tamaramccrossen2556]

Your viewers come because we like you! You are a breath of fresh air in a difficult world. Thanks for all your efforts.

[@nigelbullock9039]

What a combo you two are together in front of the camera. Your friendship is very endearing..

[@jerrielynnhartness929]

So pleased to have you back Michael. Really enjoy your video blogs . Happy Happy to see you today.

[@noranoranora789]

I miss your work in your kitchen and garden.. hop you get will everything 🙂thank you for everything you touch us 👍🏻

[@carriematthews7991]

I too am ADHD. I seem to going in three directions at the same time. I am at least double your age. It has really worked to my benefit. I can multitask and work circles around others half my age. BUT it took YEARS of learning to work with, understand my weaknesses and how to compensate for them. I am very creative, bright, and my husband says I am too busy all the time, but is just how I roll. Learn to use your special gift to your advantage and will be unstoppable! Blessings to you. PS, Florian seems to be such a sweet guy and a great friend.

[@chriscassner9550]

Holy Smokes. I bought one of these cooking grill things at a yard sale in the US years ago. I never knew what the heck it was until now. I bought it because it looked like fun. THANK YOU. I'll have to get it out and try it. 🤤

[@sandywallace218]

We are just so happy that you are enjoying filing again and look forward to whatever you decide to share with us.

[@wickhamgray9301]

The telephone scene was hilarious. Thanks for making me smile today. 👍🏻

[@h.b.4058]

Raclette! I had it as a kid in Germany on a trip and have missed it ever since. Just a suggestion, make the door to the bedroom a pocket door into the new wall. That way the door won't take up any space on the landing or in the room. Also, I still love the idea of the space between the two posts and the walls being open book/treasure shelves.

[@patriciacarlyle9456]

Glad Micheal took the time to enjoy this past Christmas. So sad to hear he pretty much missed last year’s Christmas. This year our family was too stressed about gifts and the food and we didn’t have as much time to enjoy the season. I told them that’s enough. No one really needs anything and we will also pare down the menu next year so we can relax more.

[@Toomanydogs7]

Michael, I am an adult with ADHD... I have studied and took courses in college to help with organizational skills and merting my degree. Making your list is 👍, Do The Task You Don't Want To Do First.😊 I have found the other items on my list go much smoother... The reasoning behind this is that we procrastinate, by getting it out of the way, makes doing the smaller tasks not as daunting. When making my list either on my phone or on a piece of paper I break it down to the smallest chore put the dishes away, cross off, take out the trash, put a new liner in the trash can... In the beginning this can help you focus breaking down the task and to cross it off the list is a feeling of accomplishment. My last piece of advice is to have God as your partner on this very bumpy and sometimes unorganized journey we call life. God Bless you. So glad to see your videos.😊

[@megkraft1108]

Great to see you Michael and glad we got to see Chris!

[@inthehouse1960]

Hey Michael, I diagnose ADHD in adults and they are often intellectually and creatively gifted people - which fits you for sure! They are also masterful at multi-tasking as long as they have help keeping things on track. I love the list idea, and it's possible the KZbin channel can also be a tool for keeping you on track with your goals. I hope Chris has copyrighted/patented his idea because he just spilled it to 9k people. Just wondering if you've considered using a Victorian spiral staircase in the cottage? Thanks for your content. I love it.

[@jillipepper5353]

Lists are quite useful but need to be attainable, otherwise they can become self defeating. I’ve worked with children ,teens and adults with ADHD besides having it myself. A problem I found with lists , while they are great for self organization, is we all think we can achieve more than we possibly can and if we can’t finish the lists we’re setting ourselves up for self loathing and negative internal dialogue. Words often told to me from childhood and young adult were worthless, stupid, lazy, never amount to anything, as an example, and these words can pop up whenever I didn’t achieve the expectations of the lists . So I was making self defeating lists and it was a vicious circle until I learned to make lists I could achieve and encouraged positive self dialogue. It took a long to identify and rectify the problem but so worth it .

[@tammiewilson5185]

@jillipepper, so true! I'd beat myself up when I couldn't finish my list. Once I learned to prioritize my daily, weekly, monthly, etc goals and to give myself room for flexibility, lists became the tool I need them to be.

[@basstrammel1322]

@@jillipepper5353 You have great points here, writing lists is a talent in itself. Having realistic timeframes for each tasks is difficult when so many factors can skew it, and things get out of hand fast. By my own experience I would say add 25% more time than what you wrote in the first draft, and move one task to another day or delegate it to someone.

[@judithburke1539]

I was wondering how he planned on getting a wardrobe up into the bedroom, especially if he puts in a wall next to where the stairs are going. We'll just have to wait and see.

[@dees3179]

I like lists but I have to do them as a mind map as a linear one doesn’t help. My main problem is remembering I wrote the list…..it’s also vital as others have said to understand what is reasonable to achieve and to then stop and not pile guilt on. Just because it is on a list doesn’t mean it is a today job. And self care things like cutting toenails need to be on the list too. Looking after yourself takes time and energy and needs to be budgeted for in any day not pushed aside because something else seems more important. I saw a doctor this week to ask for referral for adhd assessment. I’m worried enough that I might lose my job over this if I can’t get some help. He did refer me, with a warning the waiting list is years. And then helpfully told me he didn’t believe in adhd and wanted to write a paper about it being made up. Wish he could live my life for a day. And I hope he steps on Lego.

[@victoriasavu3943]

I have ADHD and I am 72 and went through heck when I was young before anyone had heard of it. My son has it also. Glad you have been diagnosed now so you know what help you can get and know what you can do for yourself. Which brings me to list making. I make a list most days. So times multiple ones. They keep me focused and I feel better at the end of day when I see I have not wasted my day going in circles. I always include a combination of short and long task so I can cross off a few short things in-between the long ones. You take care and remember there are many like us with the same struggles. ❤

[@lindahasten5525]

Hi Michael I’m so glad you are back to work again I really like watching the renovating start again.

[@ourfloridagarden4191]

One step at a time. One room at a time. One item at a time. One day at a time. Each accomplishment brings a good feeling. You do you Michael. Your the only one that can.

[@darlenedowney17]

Oh My friends and I love Raquelette!! It is a fun party food. We go to Quebec for the best ones but also at home. So happy to see you and Florian enjoying it!! 🇨🇦

[@janewolfe9137]

Glad for the update Michael, thank you. Wondering how you will get a large wardrobe up the stairs once a new wall in constructed by the stairs… unless the wardrobe is unassembled downstairs & re-assembled upstairs? The reason I ask, is because our first home was a house about 75 years old & had a gambrel roof. Getting dressers & mattresses up the stairs, & around the wall was such a struggle… Take care Michael and thank you for sharing your medical issues with us. 😘

[@CynthiaBerry713]

Michael. Billy and Sadie both say "Welcome back to another video" at the beginning of their vlogs, and I see nothing wrong with you saying the same thing, too! It feels right. They each say something different to end their videos, so you can find something different as well. I for one like to be welcomed back to all the Petherick vlogs, so that should be one less, really minor, thing for you to worry about! xoxo

[@mmeduplechin1577]

I agree with @CynthiaBerry.

[@dianahampton8768]

Exactly, just go ahead and use the line!

[@dianalyman5950]

Yes Michael, welcome folks back any way you want to. Hundreds of tubers say the same thing over and over again. It's not a competition!!! If you really want to be original... BE YOU! Know that I care. Just be interested in what you are doing and saying and that will shine in your eyes and we'll see you.🤗🤗🤗💗💗💗🌈💜💜💜 Courage to be. Love you 😘

[@Billkwando]

I say "Hello KZbin!" in mine, usually, but it's not very good. 🤣😂🤣😂

[@tschw]

You were already handsome and looked great on camera. But your skin and the brightness of your eyes is pretty remarkable. Super jealous, you need to bottle that recipe.😊

[@WendyVanamburgh]

I love racklett. Of all places, I was introduced to it in Saudi Arabia. Spotted in a supermarket and thereafter enjoyed many an expat gathering while cooking all sorts of treats on it. Good to see you back.

[@ruthiepooh86]

I’m not ADHD, but I’ve always worked better with a list. I call it my Seven Things. Sometimes they are big jobs; sometimes small. But once my 7 things are done, I feel so accomplished. And then I reward myself with something just for myself and fun.

[@ansonranson]

I can see the medication working for you. Last week you were starting to calm, this week you are calmer again. I hope that you are able to find you as you stabilise! Sending positive thoughts to you c

[@margielynch7196]

So happy to see you , you are looking great. I am excited for your secret project, I bet someone saw your abilities and couldn’t wait to work with you.Michael any way you want to present your videos is good with me, I have just missed you.

[@roseypeach8363]

"When you need me, I'm here". I love it when a handsome man says that to me. Doesn't happen often...

[@rupinderbajwa8368]

Chris seems like an intelligent dude and so chilled out

[@sharolfowler2859]

Yes a very likable young man

[@almawebber]

I just moved to Nevada 2 years ago from NC and found out I was pronouncing it wrong all my life - but you quickly learn once you live here!

[@leonorgrandle5960]

I am so happy to see you working back on your cottage. Just take things a bit at a time. Your health and wellness is more important than any video. Wishing you great success in finishing your cottage.

[@nadiastokes2521]

The old phone in Florian’s car! 😆😆😆 Classic You and Florian work well together… new comedy duo

[@meganhall1306]

Great to see you Michael, also Florian and Chris. You’re looking great Michael xxx💕

[@lindasesker3895]

I agree! Michael is very creative. Enjoy Florian. He came across very well this time & even added a possible solution to the yard damage. Good job by all of you💕

[@stellaevans752]

Lovely to see you Micheal as always, we are always here whenever you do a video, we who follow you love the Petherick clan and it’s always a pleasure to see you ,great idea to make lists to follow, keeps you organised, lovely to see Florian, he’s a good friend, don’t put too much pressure on yourself honey, take care of you, loads of love xxxxxxxxxxx😘❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@amz.garrison]

Michael, I have Severe ADHD it is manageable you will get there I was diagnosed as a child and have learned tricks my whole life. But, lists are my best friend. I make them on my phone that way I have them with me always. You can do this, I have faith in you. It will get easier. Glad to see you back at it. I have missed your video's.

[@MariaM-yn9tl]

🥰💕Great to see you back Michael. Great to see Florian & Chris join you. While I’m cooking & after dinner is over I run the hood fan over my stove to help get the food smell out. I always shut my bedroom door while cooking so my bedroom & my clothes don’t get filled with food smells. It’s a real pet peeve of mine. Can’t wait to see the upstairs all finished. 🥰💕

[@charlenelindsay2019]

Micheal, so happy to see and hear from you. You are a blessing to me. I always enjoy your vlogs. Be encouraged you are loved by so many of us. Hugs from Ohio USA💞

[@LaPrincessa1947]

Welcome back, Michael!!! Good to see you moving forward. Enjoyed seeing the work on the cottage's bedroom. The "humble" and delicious looking dinner with baked potatoes, melted cheese and meat made me hungry!!! See you in a bit, then.

[@rebekahlow8375]

Welcome Chris!!! Your idea for Michael's channel sounds really interesting!! Love from Vermont

[@kittykatty2898]

I'm with you on this Michael! I cannot stand cooking odours in the bedroom , couldn't sleep in it at all . Good luck with the renovations, the cottage is looking great 👍

[@stephjezo6470]

That phone really gets around! 🤣 So much fun. You will find an intro that fits you as you go, don't sweat it.

[@interiordesign.styling]

We had Raclette some 40 years back in Germany and we have it in Canada too. Love it ! Great video , I watch you ever since you started 😊😊 keep going

[@julieburton-johnson1557]

Micheal your doing really well it's all knew to you ... giving up smoking....,Well big hugs for that one 🤗 💙... were backing you all the way 😊xx

[@endeavouringit]

For me I don't mind what you do, I love seeing what you're up to whatever and whenever. 😘

[@behindthegateatnumber8926]

Michael .. ☝🏽make sure the antique wardrobe goes up there before the wall 🤪💙

[@ellenheffernan1267]

It’s so good to see you. You are looking rested and healthy. Keep doing whatever you’re doing. I’m so happy you’re getting the cottage together. Can’t wait to see it finished and what other projects you have planned. Take cate.

[@lasanimasaussies]

Good to see you. Florian is an absolute delight

[@JustSaralius]

As a fellow ADHD diagnosée, my tip to you when it comes to planning - always put lunch and dinner on your schedule! I always forget, when I have a bunch of stuff to do, that I also need to stop and eat and have a rest, so I don't crash. XD

[@billgoeckel6344]

Always such a delight to see you and Florian together . Cheers !

[@tropicalmom2468]

Your skin looks amazing! I am so appreciative that you are sharing your journey with us. Cheering you on! And I'll be happy to come live in the chateau, would hate for it to stay so empty.

[@normamurray4450]

Michael, there was absolutely nothing wrong with all your previous DIY videos....we loved them and we missed you so much! I'm going to put myself out on a limb now and suggest that you don't dwell on the ADHD cloud over you....you know I think we all have a form of it or something similar....just talk to us like our Michael did before and don't worry about getting everything perfect. Just following you around as you do your jobs with great music and a few words here and there is enough! I have to say I'm nervous watching you now, because I feel bad that you've been saddled with that label. There's too much talk about it and personally I think it can ruin a person. I do hope I'm not stepping out of line here, but I had to say something forthright....we love Michael, the artist, chef, musician and more....that's all we need! Stay strong and stay Michael. You are loved!

[@Hannah-wh3vo]

There's a big difference between being "saddled with a label" that's a "cloud over you" and "can ruin a person", and struggling without knowing why your whole life and finally getting a diagnosis, support, and treatment. I feel like you mean well but it's presumptuous to treat somebody else's diagnosis like a burden or a negative thing. It's Michael's journey, and how he feels about it is what matters.

[@Hannah-wh3vo]

@@laurel7570 And you'd know more than both Michael and the expert who diagnosed him

[@Hannah-wh3vo]

@@laurel7570 And I'm allowed to say what I think too. I wish you the best

[@timeformore]

I really like the sound of the program your volunteer wrote for you!

[@aprilzarychta1912]

Nice to see you, Michael. Lists are very helpful, and they make me feel like I'm accomplishing something, even if it's just a bit of laundry or making the bed in the morning. Please tell Florian congratulations on his massive paper/book project. That's quite an achievement. I do agree that it's odd to see the cottage empty, but it's great that you're getting on with the work upstairs. I look forward to seeing how everything comes together in the future, and your further adventures!

[@ThatGirlinLoveland]

List are great! I live off a daily list. Just remember, if your list isn't complete its not the end of the world! And if I complete something thats not on the list, I add it and mark it off. Its your list, you control it. Don't let it control you and make you feel defeated!

[@tammiewilson5185]

I do this too!

[@colleennobbs7218]

Taking control of how you live is a good thing. You are very clever …. Give yourself credit…… One day at a time. 🥰

[@crinkle2649]

Good luck to Chris with his project.

[@jacquesvantonder2158]

Michael you're going to be so much more productive on the meds! I was also diagnosed latw in life with ADHD. The meds help so much. In my case it also gives me so much energy. You're going to be even more brilliant now!

[@hopegrable]

So great to have you back, Michael! No need for fancy intros, just say hello and off you go. It's great to see Florian again as well. Such a sweetie pie, he is. I find making list very helpful, and I also have a vision board that sits in front of me when I'm working on my laptop. Very motivational. Dreams don't come true if you don't put time and energy into them. You just keep moving forward, Michael. We're cheering for you, buddy. ❤❤❤

[@whitneyfenton6762]

You are an amazing person! I love seeing this authenticity and growth. Keep it up!

[@bowiefb]

Michael, your videos are a welcome pleasure during a break from my work (+ work which I Love). Thank you!

[@myhillslife27]

HE IS SO SWEET

[@marlenesistrunk5300]

Ty Michael

[@kdean9537]

Hi Michael, great to see you! I'm with you on the smells of cooking, I close our bedroom doors as well! I love your original opening line in your videos, it's so familiar & genuine, but whatever works for you! Thank you for sharing, take really good care of yourself, stay well! Much love Kathy x 💖

[@lundworks9901]

Lists are great. I took Wellbrutin & it really helped get things done. I discovered that you can use dry erase or washable markers on a stainless steel refrigerator for my grocery list. Lol, then I photograph it.

[@carolmcreynolds7761]

Good to see you Michael. Enjoyed this video ❤️

[@sandrataylor7294]

I will adopt your idea of using lists Michael, Really enjoy this sort of content just what I needed a Michael vlog! Take care lovely to see you xx

[@CantinhodasInspirações]

Well done...I am glad you discovered the amazing world of lists...you got this!!

[@jeanieallison4899]

Hey Michael, we don’t mind hearing you say “ hello everyone”. You have your own unique style and I like how you say it! Just say whatever you want.👍🏻

[@jamesmcneill2202]

Wrap mushrooms with garlic and butter in foil and put them on top. Whilst cooking. Lovely ❤️

[@janelord6461]

I live by lists. I need them for my job, I'm a Pa at a university, but also at home to remind of what jobs I have to do. Also love a good list when going on holiday so I don't forget anything 😁

[@terrileyda5346]

You & Florien are too funny! Love watching! So glad you’re back!

[@desertdiva63]

Florian’s car phone cracked me up! It’s good seeing both of y’all! Thank you for the vlog Michael!

[@LA-jf1zn]

Would love to see you doing the rooms in the Chateau! Its to beautiful of a place to sit empty. 🤗

[@KL-tp3gq]

So weird how to melt the cheese! We don't have that type of thing in the US. Thank you and Florien for sharing such interesting things with us. Glad you're both back!

[@megank7235]

Chris' idea would be really helpful for all videos you are right ☺️.

[@earlaagaard8175]

I can't LIVE without lists.....appointments, chores, letters/cards to write, etc. Good on ya'!!

[@tiffany-sheriwageman.3702]

I like your two friends they are nice the guy from Nevada likes to hang out with you as well your French friend! I love openness concerning your issues. Do not let the label run your life you are a great guy!

[@MK-Farm-Michigan]

Michael Michelle here at our Farm in Michigan We use a Castor oil spray. You mix it in garden sprayer. My husband has one he carrys on his back with a hand held sprayer. Anyways you spray the Castor Oil around where they are digging and it will run them off. I don't know if it kills them or not but I know we get them out of our yard. You have to repeat each year in spring.

[@hildafrey2815]

So glad you are back. Keep up the good work. Don’t get discouraged and keep positive.

[@hildafrey2815]

Can’t wait to here about your new adventure. I really enjoy your videos. I apply to my life ideas you present.

[@brownetesa]

Omg, that raclette made me hungry. You have a good friend in Florian. His english gets better every time. Enjoyed the video Michael. Thank you