Don't Be WEIRD in the PHILIPPINES - 12 Things Foreigners Do That Are Cringe!

Guys, don't be WEIRD when you come to the Philippines! These 12 things you should avoid doing if you don't wanna be CRINGE.
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[@thebigmann81]

Weird people don't know they're weird so they can't prevent it. They think they're normal

[@ScottMurphy-x3t]

Halfway through the first word, I realized she didn't mean "$h!...t". The jokes thing I ran into with my Filipina ex. All my foreign friends appreciate the jokes. She'd always say, "You're not funny." They don't get our humor. 😂😅

[@RC-lc6ph]

Not necessarily a bad thing if she dont get the jokes and you remain you. Why? Girls often need some kind of resistance put up e.g. if your a yes man to everything, there is no mystery, no challenge, maybe less for her to fix and they seem to always want a guy they can fix. Im just saying...

[@StrifeDaWize]

idk, i mean, a corny joke is a corny joke, i think too many people go there not knowing where they are, like going to south chicago and telling a cheesy joke, ppl gonna think youre weird

[@jimbohi3648]

My fiance says I am funny and annoying I will take the first part

[@michaelfreemantle4295]

I thought she meant that too

[@johnnypastrana6727]

Filipinos diss the Philippines...they will joke and say that PAL (Philippines Airlines) stands for 'plane always late'.

[@oldfriend327]

The only type of man that meets the qualifications for what is being described in this video is a Superhero. No human man in ANY universe or dimension can satisfy these requirements.

[@reedjohnson6353]

I have 5 of the same shirts, and 3 of the same shorts easy dress code..

[@JamesHickman-g5c]

Same for tank shirts, got them at an outlet store in the states.

[@grandadan]

But it's not a good excuse when they smell.

[@sailingeos204]

Dont be weird guys..... Reine , you are right about the 'S' word. "SUBARU'. I had one once, was always breaking down... don''t like to mention it anymore. at least not too loud. Very cringy, right.?

[@canuk4u631]

Subaru is rock steady reliable...WTZf man ??

[@thebigmann81]

Lmao 😂😂

[@bobbybarnes4881]

Just for yourself and always be respectful! And if there’s a real connection between the both of you, then, both of you will know that! And be patient with each other! And build a real friendship. it could turn into a real love. And that’s what we want❤ our best friend that makes us happy❤

[@johnv5156]

Women can just 'be themselves'. If you're a man and a loser, don't be yourself, focus on leveling up.

[@thebigmann81]

What I'm hearing is foreigners need to respect Filipino cultures but Filipinos doesn't need to respect foreigners cultures. Shouldn't both cultures be respected if trying to have a relationship together? If not it won't last. Couples need to make the effort to learn each other's cultures it should not be one sided

[@theo-avl]

Everyone deserves respect. However, anyone outside of their home country should be making extra effort.

[@grandadan]

Filipinos don't.......

[@grandadan]

​@@theo-avlAnd if they don't like it, just stop complaining and piss off.

[@thebigmann81]

@theo-avl I would disagree. Both parties should give extra effort. Nobody is more important than the other. If they don't both give, there will be resentment down the road and relationship will fail.

[@theo-avl]

@@thebigmann81 Can't argue with that. I'm just saying that when you are in someone's home you go out of your way to fit in.

[@JeffHughes-o6y]

What's weird is they expect $200 a month just to date them lol are they living in a fantasy world there????

[@cesarcruz1461]

Correction: YOU are expected to pay $200 a month for dating them. Good looking young foreigners get the red carpet treatment.

[@theo-avl]

They very much do not live in a fantasy world, likely contributing to this issue.

[@JeffHughes-o6y]

@@cesarcruz1461 they want you to take care of the baby's from the men there who have fun with them then leave, then expect foreigners to pay for them ?????? You're as clueless as they are. pretty face doesn't make a pretty heart, cute girls are a dime a dozen, but these girls are dreaming lol,

[@Peter-vn5jq]

My brother in Christ, you're not dating them, you're renting them out.

[@KennethAstuto]

I agree with some of it but damn very judgmental.

[@Kennyalfonz1]

Bro a lot of this is common sense as far as being a gentleman but honestly it’s cap… 99.9% of the stuff on this list Filipino men do and there’s no shortage of babies being made. The Filipina Pea is the only KZbinr so far that I’ve seen that give pretty good advice… this is cap trust me… just a pretty girl in front of a camera talking and not making much sense

[@Kiss2000man]

​@@Kennyalfonz1The Filipina Pea is not the nice person you think she is.

[@thebigmann81]

@user-cb2kb8uc2q may I ask why you say that? Have you seen her say or do something that says otherwise?

[@dacritter8397]

Wow! There's an entire video dedicated to my favorite topic! WEIRD, and the Don't Being Thereof!! 🤣😇😇

[@jeffwalker9486]

Very open and direct with a twist of humor

[@scotthoward6070]

Most of those things are in bad taste here in the U.S. also.

[@FrickinCCDeVileV]

Common sense. Some guys are really clueless 🙄

[@kenhorton9599]

#10 So what would a Pinay do if they were charged 50 PHP more than the normal price? Of course I can afford it and will not have a meltdown over ($1). But are you recommending that we let drivers overcharge us? Should we let people take advantage of us? I just wanted clarification, there's a reason why I use Grab. IJS

[@kennydinthephilippines2655]

All of that is common sense. I’m sorry you met foreigners like that.

[@clrodrick]

I'm sorry but Philippines deserves plenty of criticism (point #2) as it is far far far from perfect country. Heck I have no issues criticizing USA or hearing others criticize because it too is far from perfect. To ignore reality is to have one's head stuck in one's a$$. Frankly no way in heck would I want to live in Philippines it is just *way* too third world and corrupt. Okay place to visit though. For me Thailand is the place to be, it owns Philippines in every single way except for English language knowledge. Regarding point #10, while I agree that arguing over $1 seems like a waste of time, some times one has to take a stand against the daily corruption and swindling going on. I won't yell or argue or anything like that, I will just no thanks and keep walking and asking different trike drivers until I find an honest one that isn't trying to rip me off for an extra 50 pesos. Or just use Grab which regulates prices (I know shocking right?). Philippines could do a lot better job regulating things if they wanted (oops I just violated Reine cringe rule #2 guess I will never get a date with her LOL)

[@petesrules1508]

The Philepenes used to be a developed country and very modern and organised. That's why it cops a lot if criticism. Sadly the country slipped into a native regression which they are slowly growing out of with the help of Chinese money. People don't choose to visit the Philepenes, they visit the filipina. The Philepnes is not a destination of choice as a few travel agents told me.

[@clrodrick]

@@petesrules1508 I appreciate the natural beauty outside of the main cities, but yeah I just could not imagine living there full time it would just wear me down quality of living wise.

[@thebigmann81]

@@petesrules1508 Philippines 🇵🇭

[@thebigmann81]

@clrodrick the hardest part for me would be lacking of quality of internet signal no unlimited premium high speed internet and the brownouts (blackouts).

[@clrodrick]

@@thebigmann81 Yep! That and a lot more haha.

[@GodzillasaurusJr]

I kind of did 6, but it wasn’t my idea - she was very affectionate in public. She was the one walking very close, hugging, holding hands. I was surprised to say the least. Even though I probably (definitely!) smelled, having just got off a long flight.

[@drewnc6196]

Totally understand the S word. The Philippines is a totally different culture, think back to the USA 1950's and if you really like a woman, take your time and get to know her and her family. Great video as usual.

[@el_lowell]

Nice to see you #enjoying your new outfits

[@goatman3828]

#10. Don't get mad about a dollar. So when the trike tries to screw you for an extra 50 pisos, instead pay him 50 less, right. If I'm supposed to not care about my money then why should he? See how easy it is. Just shut up and get screwed over constantly. Otherwise you are weird.

[@cpt.ahab_it7044]

Bro, never mess with a trike driver. Saw the results once.

[@factsmatter1262]

Why did Tigger have his head in the toilet? He was looking for Pooh.

[@Murph_.]

Hate to tell you this, Reine, but every Filipina I know likes corny jokes. And most of them weren't girls trying to date me and just laughing for the fun of it. My wife still laughs at my corny jokes, and we've been together almost 8 years now. I'm sure there are some Filipinas with no sense of humor, but most have a good sense of humor and like stupid jokes. The problem with a lot of corny jokes are not that Filipinas don't like them, it's that they don't understand them. As long as guys tell jokes that a Filipina will understand, it's a good thing.

[@thebigmann81]

I agree. Remember Reine is young so of course she would lack some experiences that we have had.

[@thebigmann81]

It really depends on how much English they know and if they understand the joke. My Filipina loves my jokes too as well as all my Filipino co-workers but I'm naturally funny.

[@themacker894]

Great advice for any dating situation. Nice video.

[@DrDlane]

Hi Reine. Body odor is caused by one of the two sweat glands that we have. humans have apocrine sweat glands, which are a primary source of body odor. However, a gene called ABCC11, which is expressed in apocrine glands, is non-functional in 80-95% of East Asians, including most Filipinos. This variant of the gene prevents bacteria from consuming a chemical in the armpits that they use to create body odor, resulting in a faint acidic odor instead of a strong axillary odor. So Filipinos are not likely to smell bad like the rest of the population. So it's quite possibly not an issue of hygiene as much as genetics. But if a person can smell their own body odor, rest assured others can. Take another shower. Some people will do as Albert Einstein did and buy many of the same shirt, shorts, or jeans. It may appear they are wearing the same clothes but they have changed their clothes. Don't make assumptions. I prefer not to talk about myself unless I'm answering a question. Even then I keep it brief. Filipinas can be clingy but guys aren't allowed to do that? I see clingy filipina all the time. Again, CORNY is a subjective word. That means corny means something different to each person. You need to define what it means as does every other filipina. She doesn't want you to help the beggars because she wants that money for herself. Getting drunk? That sounds like talking about the 'S' word, SOBRIETY! We aren't having a meltdown over a dollar. We are having a meltdown over being cheated, being taken advantage of. If your filipina cares, she should make sure you don't get cheated. Filipina make a big deal about cheating. Why doesn't that attitude apply to her man getting cheated? Cheating is cheating. I have no interest in going too fast. It's not good to get cheated and taken advantage of.

[@humungushumungus213]

Bro, you’ll be taken for a ride , just like everyone else , don’t worry, be 😊 happy

[@DrDlane]

@@humungushumungus213 never been taken for a ride and never will be. Semper Fi

[@shanehalfyard6924]

O k I have no idea what the S word is

[@CenrelianGuardsmen]

Boom boom, that word

[@shanehalfyard6924]

@@CenrelianGuardsmen omg I'm a dumb ass. 😆

[@dacritter8397]

@@shanehalfyard6924 hahahahahahah well played!

[@ExaltedDisciple]

Sloot

[@LS-pv4dh]

​@CenrelianGuardsmen the s word is sex???? No effing way😭😭😭😭

[@derekgould8498]

Who TF doesn't shower?

[@thebigmann81]

Exactly, unless they live in the mountains most the major cities is hot as hell sweating within minutes of bathing

[@thebigmann81]

Some people don't call it complaining some call it being honest even if it sounds negative. They will also talk about there home country good or bad if it's the truth. So it's not judging a certain culture they just very direct and honest

[@orcsareevil]

The Philippines must attract some real prizes. All these things are gross in the West. The "S Word" is Sassafras.

[@Galahad54]

Symbiosis? Satanism? Scatology? Spongebob Squarepants?

[@armtdawg99]

I am not sure what the "s" word is that I'm supposed to avoid.

[@wileyroberts5759]

It's where babies come from. And no, it ain't "stork".

[@skristianf]

​@@wileyroberts5759Santa Claus?

[@michaelfreemantle4295]

sex

[@michaelmerrill8467]

I agree with some of what you said. And yes, to answer your question, we forigners are super men, and we have saved the world many many times over with our money, our time, our ingenuity, our talent, our love, our sacrifice, and our blood. 🫡 🇺🇸 And that's minus all the stingy creeps and drunks.

[@kevinr8431]

A lot of expats are weirdos - this is a much needed video as long as expats listen and take to heart

[@gregorydavinci]

Every girl and boy should wear this dress 😊❤

[@davidmorrow6409]

I would never shout at a waitress here or there. They work hard!!!

[@masesharp6009]

That taboo "S" word... so funny. My ex partner used to refer to it as emphh... I kid you not.

[@petermorgan4720]

Three guidelines (from what she said): 1) Be polite and don't overreact to anything - keep things in perspective. Emotional behaviour doesn't go down well. 2) Be conservative - leave some of your western stuff 'at the door', including physical aspects of a relationship. Keep private things private 3) Take things slowly and carefully - no rush. Everything has its time. (Sorry - didn't know where to put the stuff about deodorant... haha). Did I miss anything here?

[@Matt_T__]

Don't complain? If people don't complain, what incentive is there for improvement? Maybe that's why the Philippines is still a 3rd world cesspool, because the citizens balk at complaints instead of changing things for the better.

[@LS-pv4dh]

Nah, I'm all for change for better....but harping is annoying.

[@NoSenatorson]

A weird dude is going to be a weird dude and might be able to avoid a few of these things, but let’s not get our hopes up.

[@Dragon_rls]

Sorry. My 3rd viewing, and I need to practice my guitar. Dreamy angel babe💖

[@FrickinCCDeVileV]

Slmp

[@MightyJonE]

Hey, I like weird - weird is what I do! Lol! Took me a good minute to figure out what the S-word probably was. I initially thought she meant don’t say the word “shit” on a date. But you know what? I’m STILL not sure! 🤣

[@senseofstile]

I agree. I don't think you have been to other countries. I was in Malaysia. I saw a Malaysian couple arguing in a restaurant there. I thought; this would never happen in the Philippines.

[@LarryJones-c4m]

That little pink dress with the bow in front is super cute!

[@flybywir1]

That's a weird thing to say.... 😅😂😂

[@marcbernardi4244]

I just can't understand It's all about respect My father came from Italy 🇮🇹 He made a home 🏡 in Australia 🇦🇺 You do Australian way People at times think money 💰 makes a person Sadly it dosnt But please don't brand us all like sheep 🙂❤️💖✨️✨️🦘🇦🇺👍

[@skristianf]

Just behave, be polite and don't be a thirsty mess - and shower.

[@COYO-T]

The only thing I have said that might be a complaint about the Philippines is the driving. I say if you can drive there you can drive anywhere. The way the traffic is and the bikes lane splitting is wild to see.

[@thebigmann81]

Or the U- turns in the middle of the road without even signaling is wild 😂😂. No one follows traffic laws 🤦

[@COYO-T]

@@thebigmann81 One think I did like is some traffic lights had a count down to when the light will turn green.

[@DeleteTheNWO]

She's far from professional content creator but I like her confidence and bluntness. She's very honest and entertaining. No bs detected. Liked and subscribed. Continue to doing what you're doing the way you're doing.

[@ruicorreia8234]

Is it ok to hug a girl you been chatting for a while on the first date?

[@allgold8003]

I think what Reine means about corny jokes are when jokes have a double meaning or sarcasm. Translating words literally when they mean something else just in the context of a joke would be confusing.

[@Girthman]

We have to understand that Filipinas only really get 60 to 70 % of what we say . Sarcasm is completely over their head too .

[@Despond]

Yeah, I can't be with too long anyone (many countries) who doesn't get sarcasm or subtle humor through expression/tone. Nothing against them it's just I don't want to have to explain everything.

[@brucecampbellrbc]

Be a gentleman. Don't be creepy. Stalking. Staring. Drooling. 😅

[@USA_to_Asia_in_2024]

You're absolutely right.

[@nereendonasco5320]

Nice job!!!

[@SHAUNALANIANBUHAGIAR.]

Thanks for sharing this information

[@stevemartinovich]

The thing that got me is no corny jokes. I know the humor is different but some corny jokes are funny. If she does not like corny jokes, I will find another

[@daleb5967]

My granpa does all that weird crap.......😊

[@vidong1704]

Don't complain about the whole country of the Philippines, cities or provinces. If you want to complain, complain about individual things for example, service by a hotel, food at a certain restaurant, service at a store, bad beach, bad resort, bad taxi company etc. This is OK. But not the entire country or city. Because people will be hurt. But nobody will get hurt if you say that the traffic is bad on EDSA or " I don't like Robinson, better go to SM". Or " I don't like that movie" Just avoid qualifying things with the name " Philippines". I was complaining about one resort not taking credit cards, but I was not saying Filipino resorts are bad. That is the difference! Next: shouting does not work, but whining does. Start " crying" that you are so pitiful that you did not get this or that and show yourself as you are suffering. This is better. Also, do you mean corny jokes or dirty jokes?

[@humungushumungus213]

Fidel Marcos was a great president, we had huge military base in Philippines 🇵🇭 respect to Filipino people

[@mynameisurl1073]

Sorry, but rule #7 is my one non-negotiable.

[@LarryJones-c4m]

Concerning #6, so ..I take it French kissing and doing the Stanky Leg on the dance floor is a no no, right? 😂

[@andrewwatts3417]

I'm still trying to understand #3. Why is personal hygiene an issue. I take 2 or 3 showers a day in the summer in Oklahoma. Once in the morning, when I get off work, and then when I go to bed. Not showering in a hot humid climate with sweat running from your head to your butt would make me gag.

[@SmartGirlPhilippines]

Foreigners don't take showers once they get here 🤣

[@dacritter8397]

I'd never put my gf on the "payroll" so to speak, at least not early on. ( Well, not unless it were Daisy, cooking that Chicken Adobo every day...😋😋) Married with her staying home taking care of the house is a different story or perhaps living together in a very serious, monogamous relationship. An allowance for her spending money then is fine. I can be generous and surprise her, and I can be thrifty and save. If I need to pay her a monthly stipend to be my girlfriend I may as well hire a very sexy housekeeper and avoid the tampo altogether!

[@michaellongfoot637]

Love this beautiful woman!

[@JeffHughes-o6y]

Yea it's funny coming from the woman here who can't keep a Filipino man, gets them pregnant then leaves, but then they give us rules when we visit 😂 omg now that's funny

[@DjNude2010]

Rain, I love your dress, you are so maganda.

[@paulmackie5622]

good video

[@CornellSandifer]

I try not to offend but I will not pretend, if it fits my needs then I will proceed, everyone has expectation yours are not my obligation, respect is always in my presentations but your naivety is a personal situation.

[@Dragon_rls]

Ok. Here goes... Don't be so yummy.! Is that too weird?

[@fenelkersaint3760]

Thanks for the advice

[@Dr4g0nZ4r0]

If you act like a decent human being it seems they will love you over there.

[@michaelorfanos7416]

Logical way for a gentleman. Good info and thanks.

[@Maester0]

Number 4 is a hell naw for sure 😂

[@fatzrabbits4081]

#6 made you wash four times, didn't it.

[@LS-pv4dh]

All jokes aside, please excuse my ignorance....but what is the s word?

[@johnnypastrana6727]

I was trying to figure out what the 'S' word was...don't swear and say the word '$hit'?

[@cpt.ahab_it7044]

Another great video. I think on a date you should be more interested in her, than telling her about yourself.

[@dragonrln]

Pink dress looks cute on you, Reine. Thanks for the advice.

[@kingfish99]

Mean spirited video.

[@JamesHickman-g5c]

Sounds like they lump foreigners together like they come from the bottom of the barrel. Most of whom they date aren't high level females either.

[@skristianf]

This comment is a mean-spirited video. 😶

[@BullFrogDog724]

I enjoy all of your videos and your advice. Keep up the good work. The pink dress is really cute too! ❤

[@daleb5967]

Old people complain and blurt out stupid stuff..........😊............ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh....lol

[@Gary-l9h]

Guys? where are you??August 2024

[@darrelstevens9707]

Good job ganda.

[@NotAZombie-r9z]

It's ironic how this video is one of the more cringe things I've seen.

[@JpPlemmons]

So beautiful ❤

[@simonkendall4824]

how many times have I been ignored when i speak calmly even when I say hey if you do this thing it will be very bad for me 3, 4, 5 or 10 times. How do you deal with that? I dealt with it buy slightly raising my voice and then walking off. But being a asshole to the waitress for an order that takes awhile is not cool either I have seen plenty of Filipinos shouting like crazy at each other in a very angry fashion????

[@andersonboy620]

My friend, who does this things would better dont go at all to the Philippines, do you agree?

[@michaelschaffer9165]

You misspelled Phillipines.

[@markmark8895]

She is super cute as usual, but her opinions about foreign men are pretty common, at least in places like Manila. We are looked down upon unless young, handsome and successful. If you are older and ordinary, forget Manila girls and Cebu and any big city girls. Find poor provincial girl preferably from bukid.

[@thebigmann81]

I disagree on this one. If she just met you and still go to your hotel room sex word not weird it's normal because it is expected for her to have sex otherwise she wouldn't go to someone's hotel room.

[@johnv5156]

My favorite introduction in Phillipines. Hi, I'm homeless, I am weird and do weird things. I'm (name). If you're not having fun here, what's the point? If you're under 80, dress well and not poor, attracting women isn't much of a challenge. Purposely being weird is pure entertainment.

[@Jaykp123aol]

Nice dress

[@davidmorrow6409]

Your advice is always great❤️

[@mixnmichael1]

Don't ask her to marry you the 1st week. Don't build her family a house. If I see Rae at the mall I'm gonna give her a big hug. I'm the family guy.

[@TheMasascha]

The most cringe in this video is the girl in a pink dress. Gives me Pocahontas vibes.

[@tilapiadave3234]

Nobody forcing you to watch

[@davidmorrow6409]

Always respect women !!!

[@pauliewallstreet6872]

Great advice! thank you

[@emanuelusa63]

i dont know what the "s" word is?? are you talking about s3x?

[@lindenh2014]

Took me a while to work that out also. Although it could be socks 🧦 If someone asked you what you had for your birthday, and you said that you had socks 🧦 it might sound a bit weird.

[@williamii3108]

Great video … of course

[@MarcRichard-b1u]

Good advice….

[@flybywir1]

Ermmm.....wtf is the S word?? Do u mean the BJ word....I have no idea......

[@michaelfreemantle4295]

sex

[@JamesMitchell-iq5vy]

You sound like what I usually would say. 😂

[@rodneysizemore7728]

You have too many rules.