Don't Come to America if | SHOCKING REALITY of Living in America for Indians

[@ouramericandream1183]

Here are the reasons why NRIs are still living in America and not going back to India kzbin.info/www/bejne/pGS9mWp4rcl6kJo

[@gs-e2d]

video game khelo time pass ho jaaeyag, playstation yahan VR headset lelo lonely nahi rahoge :>

[@omhardikbhatt]

Can I have your email ID please ? Thanks

[@TransgirlsEnjoyer]

uss video ka link daalon jisme tumne apni america ke gaadi dikhayi thii

[@everuttejon9886]

.........Western slavery( Ghulam) democracy destroyed India....India has 52% arable lands but China has only 19% arable lands.......India has two times more natural water resources than China has now....India is 150 years behind China and USA in infrastructure development now.....

[@RtRd-x3l]

Please reply me sir mai aapse baat kar na chahta hu

[@bjmistry2044]

I migrated to America in 1971. In beginning I had home sickness. As time go by I had more of our Indian friends. I did not have good job to begin with but later I had good job and I made nice living. I became citizen and sponsored my relatives and they did the same and grew up to 250+ They all happy and made good living. Some became millionaire. I think USA is the best country to live if you willing to work.

[@abhishekshrivastav7941]

These were old days. Not same now

[@sharmid9603]

@@abhishekshrivastav7941 -I agree with you. Also, not everyone has or can sponsor relatives. There are people like me who don't have any relatives here, also making friends is not easy. One has to make concious efforts and that too, the friendships may or may not be stable.

[@VikashSingh-vp6zl]

Wo zamana gya jab tum aaye they

[@prabhamsa]

Udar ka health insurance tho bekar ka hei yaar... To da bi jayada health ka dikkat hota to... Log India baag ke aake... Idar ke hospital pe dikhaate hei...

[@manishbendhi2131]

You dint have 110 years of gc backlog then 😢

[@pallavisreetambraparni6995]

Being an indian American and having grown up in the US, I can tell u this. It really depends on where you are living in America. In one of the US states called new jersey, at least 1/3 are indian population. In new york city, there are so many Indians living there. In Chicago, there are so many Indians. In these places you will find streets where they are filled with indian stores and Indian shops and you can get everything : sweets and other foods for every Hindu or Muslim festival, indian clothing boutiques, Pooja items, etc.. You name it you'll get it. You can even try to bargain with the shop owner if you think he/she is trying to charge you more for whatever products you want to buy. And in some communities like Gujarathi and Punjabi communities, they will actually buy their home in the same subdivision and they will be living 2 or 3 streets away from each other in walking distance. And people will invite each other for laxmi pooja, diwali pooja, and exchange sweets, navrathri pooja, etc... In the south indian community, telugu people are like this. They will buy houses in the same subdivision visit each for Ugadi which is telugu new year, deepavaLi and other Hindu festivals. And yes, you do need to do all your chores yourself here in US. You need to cook, clean your house, do laundry, buy groceries, ( you can do that online now through Amazon or instacart if you have enough money and get your groceries delivered to your home; but indian groceries, you still need to physically go and get them as indian grocery shops are not listed on instacart) You can get a cleaning lady to clean your house if you wish to but cleaning ladies will charge according to your house size, room size, and it will also depend on the services that are done such as separate charge for mopping and sweeping all floors in your house, separate charge for vacuuming, separate charge for waxing wood floors, separate charge for bathroom cleaning, separate charge for kitchen cleaning, etc... I hope this helps

[@SyedaKhudiajanoorunnisa-tk7xk]

Really good

[@Babudikabachpan]

It's true 😊

[@chetanseemar685]

America Jake Madrasi se kaun baat karega 😂😂

[@rahulnmarkam3036]

right that's good thanks for telling us briefly 👍

[@sdp44]

So there is no respite even in USA, still one needs to manage the caste, color, sweet lips, bitter hearts, cheat dna LOl

[@isshiomi6364]

I'm an Indian engineer returned to India after working 10 yrs abroad...Now working in India,also assist my wife in all domestic work.. Life is good ...My wife , son & daughter.and too many friends, relatives, travel..still life is cool, slow, no stress

[@S9.S4]

Bro, you came back with 10 yrs Foreign experience, hence the good life.

[@narenn3237]

but in India, you will start working at 7pm and god knows when will you log off, mostly the US Client that pays you IT guys

[@SIMARJEETMEHTA]

Just curious, not criticizing... but one good benefit from India is keep servants instead of doing domestic work? Even the video mentions this as their first point.

[@edwinamendonca7525]

11:01 no​@@narenn3237

[@muhammadmeharmangi4562]

❤

[@brainstormingsession9150]

I lived in Atlanta working with an IT company for 2 years, I don't know what hell i had gone through in these years. Returned to india, cracked MP civil service and working in administrative department,. Happily living in indore.Those two years were a nightmare for me still seldom haunts me.

[@shwetagandhi723]

Same with me

[@Rohan_pa6el]

Why bro... could u elaborate.. U went there on H1B visa ???

[@shashishekharsingh3528]

In India there is no match for class I job .Inspired by my own experience of serving in govt organisation ,I suggested my engineer daughter to appear for IES but she opted to work in INTEL,California USA ,Her husband is also there in CISCO .I don't know whether she did right or wrong .Please share your views .

[@Rohan_pa6el]

@@shashishekharsingh3528 u mean *IAS* ?

[@Rohan_pa6el]

@@shashishekharsingh3528 BTW how is your daughter- meaning is she now US citizen / green card Or his husband on H1b ??

[@vjain3971]

Main problem is medical insurance, dental cost, living cost, zero saving for old age. Add to that drugs problem, children growing up are not safe, loneliness and bullying in schools.

[@joyeetabhattacharya5902]

What's remaining then 😂 This is everything!

[@smitashelgikar8682]

License for guns 😮

[@satwindersetia4367]

+ guns ( out of control ) problem.

[@pallavisreetambraparni6995]

@@vjain3971 If you feel skeptical, one way to settle well in US ask anyone you know ( friend or relative) if they know of any reliable indian contact person in the city/town you are going to settle. Get the contact info. of an indian person like that. Then speak with this indian person who is settled in the town/city you are going to. Then that indian person can recommend any safe apartment complexes where lot of indian community are staying and which part of town the schools have a better rating, which subdivision has the most indian community etc.. A few of my friends have done this way, and they are quite happy.

[@jeepercats3197]

Bullying happens in India too.

[@getvimlesh]

My cook here in india cooks nice food, my maid takes care of all house chores, hospital is in neighbourhood and doctors are available 24*7, Rent is cheap, Savings are great, parents are close & happy. I am so glad my H1B lottery didn’t work out 🤘

[@seemva]

good. you should get a tourist visa some day and visit New york, washington dc some day. America is a great place for tourism. Seemi from Virginia.

[@pragawa]

True except rent is high.

[@rohanutep81]

What about studying loan how are you paying in InR?

[@pragawa]

@@getvimlesh - rent is cheap? What city do you live in?

[@pragawa]

@@seemva - true

[@madhavx5751]

I was in mary land, i literally frozen to death during winter,,felt lonely,,missed 10rs chai,,street foods,,😢 i fully agree with u ,, Mysore

[@ShuvraKumarDas-bu8ch]

What kind of job you do there?

[@sameerkadyan9191]

Aajo wapis aajo ..huma apna passport dedonhum rehkenga

[@Babudikabachpan]

So why are you stay there ..if america is not good

[@madhavx5751]

@@Babudikabachpan sorry it's my opinion,,,worked fr Pfizer,,,

[@fazalirani2326]

I have been to USA Canada England,, nearly all over in West,, but belive,,, India is best country in the world we have everything here...sahi mein MERA BHARAT MAHAAN HAI...

[@Khushi-6696]

atleast America is far better then India 😌as we all know indian men are born rapist as we can see bengal case wherein men raped a doctor atleast America is far better atleast people don't blame victims unlike India I India is third class cheap country 🤮🤮🤮 specially for women

[@shyamgupta5694]

आप बिल्कुल सही बोल रहे हैं, मैं भी एक पैरेंट हू मुझे बहुत अच्छा लगा आप ने एकदम सही बताया, वरना लोग बहुत बड़ा चढ़ा के बताते हैं,आप को बहुत बहुत आशीर्वाद

[@Swamy-tv5sx]

I earn more than 2 lakhs per month and live life King size in India..

[@two8915]

then just imagine how guys earning 5 lakhs a month lives 😂😂😂

[@Watchfunville]

And just imagine how guys earning more than 5 lakhs per week lives 😅

[@SayantanChakraborty-ub7ei]

​@@two8915 comparison is a thief of joy.

[@WORLDCITIZEN2004]

More than 30 % to 50% don't earn 2 lakhs a month in the USA..

[@yopropertyexplorer]

Good for you

[@safrazhusain9612]

If you want to upset your life move to America,it is not the same as when I moved to America in 1975,after living there for 40 years I finally packed my light baggage and moved back to my home country of Pakistan in 2015.I am retired and living well in Pakistan in spite of all the ills in Pakistan,I could write a book about my life in the United States,life in old age is a very lonely experience in America

[@seemva]

how is the crime situation in Pakistan ?

[@hello-wi4ek]

I am an African living in the U.S and I approve this message!

[@amyA5492]

How did you understand Hindi?

[@amitdev652]

​@@amyA5492 exactly

[@adityaahlawat5941]

आप दोनों ने सारे point सही लिए ये problems है 1. मिल जाती है live in वाली भी असल बात ये है की afford नहीं हो सकती बहुत expensive होगी 2. जैसी pay वैसा खर्चा earn in dollars spent in dollars 3. I heard some saying India की याद आ रही है अगर ये आप की शिकायत है तो ये universal है आप जहां अपनी family से दूर हुए आप को ये problem होगी Delhi के हो Banglore में job है आप को loneliness की शिकायत होगी ये normal है 4. Parents की problem है no doubt. I think main problem is not कोई दिखता नहीं Indian as such do not have concepts that there are places where parents can go and have fun. Even if they know where to go you will need a car to go there and English to communicate. In nutshell hard on parents. 5. Point of car is true, it is part of life in US, the phrase you need legs car is your medium to go around here. 6. Insurance is a concept you have to live with it. In nut shell जब अपना देश छोड़ कर कहीं और जाओ तो देश देश में छोड़ कर आओ ये समज आ गया तो life मस्त है वरना भाई रोने के बहाने कभी भी मिल जाते है I believe if you survive first 5 years in US it will be impossible to leave the country. The percentage of people going back to their native country reduces drastically after they have stayed more than 5 year in US. If you do not have visa issues, that I heard is also a very big issue in Indian community.

[@sandhyasheth3895]

Agree with all ur points

[@shashishekharsingh3528]

My daughter and her husband both engineers are there for around 10 years .They have a son aged about 3 years also .Can I hope ,they will return to India , what is your view .They are loitering me till now on one pretext or the other .Your experience please ?

[@goel4979]

I live in Texas, where there is a large Indian community, lots of Indian grocery stores, indian restaurants, temples, Indian jewelry stores, etc. and Indian people. America is very big so no one size fits all, it depends upon where you are in America.

[@taoqeeraltaf9163]

Dallas? Or any other city? I am in Houston.

[@maharudra0725]

Rajat Bhai to be honest with you mujhe US bilkul achha nahi laga main tourist visa par gaya tha but sirf 24 din me waha se wapis bhaag aaya mujhe waha sabne kuch din or waha rehne ke liye bohot kaha but Mera waha Dil hi nahi laga because waha ke culture or hamare culture me bohot jada fark hai. Jisme adjust karne me mujhe bohot jada problem ho Rahi thi. Waha har koi apne kaam me busy rehta hai waha life ko enjoy karne ka matlab sirf weekend hota hai. Work day's me waha kisi ke pass dhang se family me bethkar ek sath khane tak ka time nahi hai jo chij mujhe sabse bekar lagi. Mere dadu (grandfather) kehte the insaan chahe Sara din kuch bhi kare kahi bhi rahe lekin raat ka khana poori family ko hamesha ek sath bethkar khana chahiye isse family me ek dusre ke liye pyaar bana rehta hai. Jab main Chhota tha to mujhe bhi abroad Jane ka bohot keeda tha but trust me 17 desh ghumne ke baad main yeh baat bol Raha hoon. Mujhe mera India jada achha lagta hai. Yaha jaisi mauj duniya me kahi nahi hai. I think US ghumne firne ke liye or paisa kamane ke liye thik hai but waha rehna I don't think it's good idea baki sabki apni soch hai.

[@JM-ef7rh]

Same with me too.

[@monwarbarlaskar1793]

Bhai mai aapki sath sehmat hu,mai avi 3 bar US me ayee hu,1manth 20din.me Mera weight 2.5 kg Kom ho gya.mera ek ladki Sanfrancisco or 1 ladki Austin(Texas) me rehti he,or muje 4.2/1 manth mazburi se Mera wife ki sath.rehna podega.Avi or 3.manth mai kysi rahungi.Yaha ka Khan pan riti rewaz se Mai bilkul adjust kor nehi pa rehi hu.I think this is my last tour in US.

[@kishoresoneji5952]

You r right bro.I agree with you.Well said.👏👏👏

[@enakshisahu8985]

Absolutely true

[@amalangigkn]

Bilkul sahi baat kahi hai😊

[@SupremeSanatan11]

Bhai, In India we all live in metro cities. Culture is similar to USA. If you are staying away from home in India or USA. I do not feel much difference

[@NareshKumar-xu2ks]

बेटा, मैंने जो समझा है, उसमें मैंने जो देखा है। वहां बहुत भारतीय रहते हैं। अगर सभी भारतीय आपस में मिलकर रहें। तब जीवन अच्छा और आनन्दमय होगा। If you are living in Dallas, TX USA from India have a get together then life will be enjoyable in the USA. Try to coordinate with each other all Indians living in and around your locality as well as Dallas. At least have a getogether once in a month or try to meet with each other on Indian festivals. Then I think you all like minded Indians will not feel Home Sickness in foreign land. It is my suggestion to all NRIs living in the USA as well as any country of the world. My son has been living in Dallas Texas USA for the last nine years and is facing the same type of problem there as you narrated in this video. Both are working in Dallas Texas USA. Try to make a list of all Indians living there and getting to know each other.

[@jivandhuru1243]

Many people who have settled in USA are hiding the truth. Although they are unhappy and miserable in USA, they paint a rosy picture of USA and say that they are happy in USA.b

[@rajinderchauhan4776]

Please don't convert the dollars to INR. When you can pay 250$ then your salary is also accordingly. Problem with us Indians is that after seeing the price tag we convert it into INR. Come on guys stop this and one more thing when you move to another country try living accordingly.

[@dhruvdighe2459]

Irrespective of crowd, home sickness/oneliness,(in big cities/Metros)exists in 🇮🇳 too.

[@JaySR56789]

True. And when we live alone, whether in the US or India, don't we have to do all by ourselves anyways? Because the video uploader stressed so much on 'we have to do everything by ourselves' Lol Indian moms ne hame bigaad ke rakh diya hai haha

[@asyed3117]

i agree with you

[@RUBYMITRA-t2u]

Very true, people don’t understand from outside, also mention about the crime and safety issues, also majority people suffer anxiety and depression. Thank you

[@jyotishrivastava261]

Aapki sab baat mein mujhe sirf health ka point sahi laga ki india mein wait nhi karna padta baaki sab chije mujhe lagti hai adjust karne ki baat hoti hai jaise yahan k log itni shaant se india k shorgul mein jaaye to unhe bhi accha nhi lagta. Jo b jahan ki ho india k chote se village mein ya US mein person ko adjust karna sikhna chahiye . Cold country mein logon se expect karna ki wo walk par yuhi nikle galat hai or internet aane k baad to aajkal india mein bhi log apne mein hi rehte hai.

[@Universetransport]

I moved to USA in 2000.No issue.I joined USA army deployed to Iraq and Afghanistan no problem.I feel more comfortable in USA then anywhere else.

[@RadhikaUpadhyay-wn7sz]

R u Indian

[@RadhikaUpadhyay-wn7sz]

R u join usa army

[@narainsinha3627]

Problem is that even desi don’t socialize with other desi

[@rv8044]

That is one big concern.

[@krisi7562]

I disagree. I have lived in a few countries. I find Indians are easier to talk to, even strangers. Of course, one should not make silly, provocative statements or offer personal insults.

[@haunting33]

That's fucking true.....the crab mentality is very real 😅

[@Kate-fd5ni]

Valid point, desi might ask another desi for help in everything.

[@sirg3137]

that's because unka acceptance chiyea bhar k logo ka . Unka lagta hay bo apna culture and apna Indian jitna v identify jura huya hay unka chor kar bahar ka sob kuch copy keraga to unka acceptance milaga . but kuch nahi hota . To bo log khud k logo say v dur ho jata hay is karan say . jo ho tum unka accept kro tab e dusra log tumko accept keraga . a sob jo new generation American hay un mey bhoth hay . jo ho tum usko promote kro . Aj nahi to kal tumko acceptance milaga he . but copy kar ney jaoga to kavi nahi milaga .

[@dr.subratapal8496]

But we stayed for 4 months last year 2023 with our daughter. It was an amazing experience. I think if a person is a bit spiritual in nature it will not be a problem……….❤❤❤❤❤ This year again we are planning to visit our daughter who is working in USA . Now the globe has become a tiny part of this universe. 🙏

[@seemva]

which state did you visit. Virginia is pretty, green state.

[@manojkumartiwari3643]

आप लोग अमेरिका चले गए लेकिन प्यार भारत को ही कर रहे है बहुत अच्छा लगे आप दोनो, और कुछ दिन बीता कर वापिस आ जाओ भारत, कुछ ऐसा करो यहां पर ताकि दो चार को रोजगार दे सको,

[@vijayachari8314]

Same thing happened in every place..... I came from chhattisgarh to Kerala for work, at first I thought I cannot belong to this place where I stuck but after a while I ❤ Kerala so much.... Best place in the whole world.

[@abhiyou0tube]

within India it is OK to live anywhere, as the cost of living is almost the same, atleast the facilities you get like househelp, online food order, easy doctor's accessibility, etc are almost the same everywhere in India. But there is stark difference to live in some other part of India and abroad, especially in a Western country.

[@Vlogging_inUSA]

It's really important to show Indians the true picture. Great job😊

[@Khushi-6696]

atleast America is far better then India 😌as we all know indian men are born rapist as we can see bengal case wherein men raped a doctor atleast America is far better atleast people don't blame victims unlike India I India is third class cheap country 🤮🤮🤮 specially for women

[@PrashantSingh-mr5fn]

U have painted such a realistic picture of living in America...you both have been sooooo honest about everything...no qualms in admitting how challenging your own journey has been...

[@eaglehunt7176]

India is actually good place for everyone from begger to millenior no one dies due to starvation in India too many temples provides food to all people which is great part.

[@proudhuman5829]

Even Dargah and churches provide food

[@garysinghsahota2908]

Maybe not today but in years gone by in the year 1966 India didn’t get enough food

[@TheMahesh1234]

What you wants to suggest 😂😂

[@ibusinessoutlook]

This is not always true, in India so many people dies due to hunger and country stood 11th rank in Hunger just above Pakistan, so food is easily available in wrong idea

[@anupritapotnis7241]

In which world are you living.this modi has made many people beggers.only his gujarati are millions.

[@RKSPINTOO]

Ì have visited and lived in USA for quite long time from 2007 to 2020.And found the country fantastic and its people very humble. Met so many Indians who are having a contented life there.

[@Poojaguptayuu]

Isse accha toh Meenakshi Sethi hai jo aapne husband and bachcho ke saath mein chaar saal phele hi citizenship ke liye America Houston chali gayi hai humesha ke liye. America Houston mein jobs milna bhut zyada easy hai and bhut zyada safe place hai especially girls and ladies ke liye. America Houston mein bhut zyada money 🤑💰 paise milte hai in America Houston mein. Meenakshi Sethi aapne husband and bachcho ke saath mein happy happy hai in America Houston mein. Meenakshi Sethi aapne husband and bachcho ke saath mein aab nhi aayegi 💯💯💯💯 America Houston mein NO CRIME 💯💯💯💯 Meenakshi Sethi aapne husband and bachcho ke saath mein happy happy hai 💯💯💯💯 n bhut zyada safe place mein hai . America Houston mein bhut zyada Indians hai.

[@anillimbachiya8522]

After living in this country for about 30 years, I've come to realize that where you live matters most. Especially in places like NJ, specifically Edison, you have access to numerous resources that can enhance every aspect of your life, whether it's social connections, job networks, or religious beliefs. It's worth noting that NJ is the highest taxpayer state in the USA, which means you get what you pay for.

[@pallavisreetambraparni6995]

Yep

[@unusabraham4596]

That is an aspiration of every one to come to America. A person who works hard and takes risk can win his dream in America. Those who fail and wants easy life they are one who suffer most.

[@feelin9013]

Ese videos se log realistic expectations rakhenge...its really good ❤

[@alexfrancis796]

You are absolutely right my brother, my neighbor are living in pencilvenia, but they are struggling every day.

[@pragawa]

It is Pennsylvania

[@ritusharma2006in]

We have moved back to usa 2 years back. It was fine initially. But now when festivals come we miss the vibe and atmosphere of India. We have 9 yr old Son he too miss festivals and playing in ground with friends. Here in Minnesota it always snow .

[@jontyrhodes4155]

Jhooth jhooth jhooth mat bolo USA best hai

[@VenkubaiMagalam]

Aapko issue huva ki nahi kyonki aapki videos kaafi saal se dhekrahe hai

[@UnderstandingRealYou]

You are right, I was feeling home sick as well but once you have a job and family, you get busy, and once you have friends, that makes life better. But strength and weakness of both. 😊

[@sd8477]

Still America is far better than other countries. At least you are staying with your family and you have free time to shoot this video. I worked in Kuwait for 3 years. No salary on time, duty hours are from sunrise to sunset. One day off in a month and one month vacation for three years. Six persons forced to stay in a single room like chickens. Company sponsors hold your passport and sometimes they don't give even for renewals. If you complain about duty hours or accommodation or food, you would be put next available flight to India.

[@ramachandranar1082]

It depends on the job you have in kuwait. If one is well qualified and holds tech position life is good

[@jecinthadsouza5677]

​@@ramachandranar1082 No sir, Kuwait is good for only uneducated people. There is lot of discrimination to foreign workers. There's no labour law. If there's one, it favours to locals. Foreign workers are treated as second class humans. Even highly qualified Indians get one fourth salary, of what locals get for the same job. That's why most well educated / technicians (Indians) migrate to other countries.

[@0__-_-..._-.Matter._-_._-_-._]

But Every month so many indian students get killing in USA ,,,it's not safe for indians

[@AZ.1988]

You should move to Oman, KSA or UAE. These GCC countries are far better than America. If you are a highly qualified person like a Doctor, Scientist Charted Accountant or IT professional. Uneducated low skilled labor is facing the same fate everywhere

[@MrKakuaa]

Greed is Good ( lalach ). Fase raho aur India me jhoot bolte raho.

[@Universe2929]

खूप सुंदर सांगितले तुम्ही..!

[@nimeshshah7485]

Maito puri video me yahi sochta rahe gaya ki dono kitni patience ke sath milke video banate ho , good, i appreciate to both of you

[@MuhammadAziz-uq2hc]

You are 💯 percent right because we are facing same things. Khush raho Bhai

[@Vidya12344]

You are so right … 😢😢 even parents don’t want to visit America nowadays … they don’t get to live their lives as per their styles😢

[@ArchnaKapur]

They are used as baby sitters and cooks. They should not. No routine of their own…live life based on how others live around you.

[@medialords8647]

Jo log bhi bahar jate hain unko sabse jyada problem khud ka kaam karne ki hoti hai kyunki saste labour ki adat hoti hai,lekin jo log mehnati hain unke liye videsh sabse accha hai.

[@raghvendrasharma9521]

Both of🙏 you🌹🇮🇳 have tried your Best to explain the scenario.

[@arvindrajwade928]

सही परिस्थिति बयान करने के लिए बहुत बहुत धन्यवाद सच है मेरा भारत महान है❤❤❤❤❤

[@udaybatwal3719]

Good video . Both of you complementing each other hence it's synch .

[@anjalisaxena2461]

दूर से देखने से सब अच्छा लगता है। आपने जो भी शेयर किया है,वह सब सही है। सभी का काम करना जरूरी है एक के वेतन से घर चलाना बहुत कठिन है। हम तीन बार रह कर‌ आये‌ है।‌ बहुत ‌शान्ति है ‌वहां। पेरेंट्स के लिये ज्यादा टाइम रहना थोड़ा टफ है।

[@papprazziusa4817]

Depends on what area you live in. Sometimes us Americans are lonely and bored too.

[@parnamsaini4751]

Accha?

[@jaysphere7519]

Are you Caucasian?

[@gopabandhurath-q8d]

The notion that this part of earth better and that part is not better are based on the famous saying Fools rush in where angels fear to tread. Body always loves to like ease of living . So the search is for better place, more money,more knowledge, better living and an inflated Ego. This driving force is with our ancestors, now it is with us and will continue with our future generations too. Let the show run in this way. But be happy, and God bless you.

[@vatsayana2004]

Biggest problem in America is Medical services. One must have Health insurance to get treated even for common ailments. In India, Medical treatment is far cheaper than in America. One of my friend's new born baby was in Hospital for 15 days and his bill was $ 200000, so that was shocking for him and even health insurance couldn't coved that much he had to shell out $ 48000 from his pocket. After learning the reality of US life from my sister and other relatives and friends, I think if a person is rich here in India, there is no need to dream of going and settling in US just for showing Off and underestimating your relatives and friends.

[@shobhayra]

It’s different in San Diego and depends on which neighborhood you r living and you don’t have to connect agencies all the time you can talk to ur neighbors cleaning lady they charge very less . But yes agreed with the point if u don’t have friends here then Yoy felt very lonely

[@rockjhonson6486]

All points what you Said are true ✅ I agree with you , as we are living in the Caribean Island Curaçao ( Central America )but exactly the life is same over here : Cost of living , do all your things yourself etc ..

[@rajkahlon8254]

I'm well settled in USA. And living here good life.

[@NIRAJ_NEXUS]

What do you work there ??

[@sathyanarayana887]

Me too never go outside India...living in Bangalore, 3bhk flat, commercial properties plus farm house one jeep plus car ...good professional business...all friends, relatives everything is here...even my cousins in USA has zealous on me😂

[@Babudikabachpan]

Good 😊

[@ifhamali2318]

​@@sathyanarayana887wow your cousin's must zealous on your english 😂😂😂😂

[@MinalJoshi-p2b]

मी प्रथमच तुमचा व्हिडिओ बघत आहे . छान वाटलं ❤

[@ankitavashistha4813]

Very true …. It’s real picture of USA. I am here from last 15 years , still miss India . I would like to put the light on one more aspect , grown up kids eg.high schoolers there thought process is completely different from us . We have given them the our best but they are facing a society ( school friend ) whose lifestyle and culture is different.

[@tulsisinghbisht1]

अच्छा ज्ञान आप लोगों ने दिया। काफी लोग जो सपना देखते है उनका सपने की हकीकत भी आपने बता दिया है। साफ शब्दों में अपने बोल दिया यहां खर्चे भी वैसे ही है।

[@veerendrasingh5300]

Thanx Bhabhi ji poore video me apko hi dekhta rhe bahut khush ho aap log wha per i am so happy indian community doing good❤

[@jontyrhodes4155]

Abbhey bhabhi kaha se ho gayi woh teri Apni aukaat mai reh tuh

[@SagarKumar-gd8cz]

Introvert ke liye sahi hai 😊😊

[@Fortunately8]

I am living in Long Island New York since 10 years. No water problem, No power cut, No mosquitoes, No Traffic jams, V peaceful, High Quality food and Air.

[@fairnesspaul2594]

Air?

[@sirg3137]

Soon your children will be trans or your grand children 😂😂

[@maheshpatil2538]

Langoti freinds ,relatives,indian party?

[@tusharmore3967]

Do you have maid for utensils, cleaning, friends, home cost , do you have aawas yojna, plumber, electrician . Hamare paas ye sab hain

[@Fortunately8]

@@tusharmore3967 Do you have $$

[@Durgaesh]

Hi there. This video is really informative. I was in Florida for 10 months since i got my Green Card status based on my professional qualification. Social isolation and cultural integration were huge factors for me. I have lived in Singapore for 28 years. I decided to come back to Singapore again. Pasteur is always green on the other side.

[@shaileshnagda6400]

After having heard you both, I urge you to come back to India and serve the country.

[@sarojrani788]

no responsibility of country, parents , family , all greedy peoples are going and living in America , there they criticize india and indian peoples ,

[@vasudevan2168]

😂😂😂😂are thy in military to serve the country....software engineer do not serve the country..they earn good income and benefits the company they work

[@seemva]

kiya MODI JI khidmat nahi kar rahe ?

[@poonamprajapati2401]

In India also nobody knows whether the neighbour is at home,sick or anything about him or her.In India also joint family has finished so here also we are alone.Also here children are leaving India and going abroad for studies and settle there so here also PPL are remaining alone.Herr also big house but no one to stay Not much difference has remained.Maids have also become quite expensive so many people don't keep maids

[@meenu5304]

All you said is absolutely true Rajat and Shilpa Ji. one of my close friend who came to US after marriage felt so lonely that she got addicted to alcohol and sleeping pills and finally after rehab she became normal. Anyways there are always positive and negative sides. Thanks for the reality information Guys❤❤❤😊😊

[@ouramericandream1183]

Thank you for sharing and sad to hear that. Hope she is better now

[@meenu5304]

yes shez absolutely fine now. its been long time😊

[@manmauji5745]

Boring video . Repetition of the same point. V know the reality of all these countries

[@Scarydiaries6]

Same happened with my closed one

[@praveenkumar-yo1xg]

It's not loniless that's the truth about life.

[@pooj76]

Very true and realistic points shared! We had our struggles initially but things are better now and gotten used to it.

[@atishbose1570]

Rajat, good you survived so long. Working life but retired atmosphere there. Here if you travel by bus, rickshaw, auto shared taxi, local train, metro etc. on the way you start chatting with fellow travelers, and because of the population you are always at home.All the best to you both.

[@amitdev652]

i am an indian in early 30s dreaming of migrating to the US as a skilled worker, would never miss India if i am able to do so. I do not think there is anything to miss about India once you migrate to the US as a skilled worker.

[@cduran110]

I’m in Dallas and look forward to moving to Europe whenever I can

[@rohanutep81]

Give me a job before moving😂😂😂

[@mukunddeshpande3837]

अमेरिकन जीवनशैली बद्दल भारतीय लोकांच्या मनात खूप भ्रामक कल्पना आहेत. वास्तविक पाहता भारताइतका सुंदर देश जगात इतरत्र कोठेही नाही.

[@girijaprakash2418]

Very comprehensive information about the great America.

[@Selflove.Mastery]

Chalo one thing is good! People who run after money and compromise on relationships, get to see this reality too

[@sundareshans1474]

Very true and honest facts. Other part of river is always green.

[@qalandarkhan9176]

I am a Pakistani living in England for the last 20 years. We also face the same problems in England as you guys face in the USA.

[@vikaskumar4001]

भाई साहब अमेरिका आपके लिए होता होगा ऐसा हमारे लिए कुछ नहीं है। ना हमें अमेरिका जाना ना हमें अमेरिका पसंद ।हमें हमारा इंडिया ही मुबारक हो । 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Babudikabachpan]

Nice 😊🎉

[@asyed3117]

✅US jakey utna hardwork karte ,woi yahan karo ,bahut success full honge India me bhi🇮🇳

[@madhurishah3173]

सही कहा ।😅

[@MaheshPrasadSharma-wm3ib]

Good information. I liked it. Kindly give more such information in future. Thanks

[@ashaa.v5949]

Whatever you say, with all the problems you mentioned, not many are returning to their own country. So definitely life there must be worth it finally. Am I right?

[@ouramericandream1183]

Yes, see the reasons here kzbin.info/www/bejne/pGS9mWp4rcl6kJo

[@ashaa.v5949]

Yes thanks for your response. I have seen this link. I do finally believe that life there is worth it in the balance. Btw I really love your videos and especially Buddy and Teddy are so cute and interesting. Thanks again Rajat.

[@Warriorgirl2018]

Exactly my query too.. If itz such bad there , why are people so desperate to leave even if it means using illegal methods of migration!!!!

[@deekshantbelwal1269]

I returned in 2016 after 5 yrs. Lot of my friends are now returning. Top tier college guys now staying in India.

[@deekshantbelwal1269]

​@@Warriorgirl2018 actually illegals and low end job guys have it better. Upper income people keep competing with peers and end up buying costly homes and get into debt trap.

[@lizzylewis-tl5if]

Thats why India is the best,one thing is why you people want to go abroad,second thing jitna ho sekha house work(jadu,pocha,bartan dona,khud kiya kero)aur dosti baat if u are in india,if you want to keep maid,then give her her salary in time,and respect them,....

[@ashisharora6800]

Every country and place have cons and prons , it depends on individual what is best for you , example some people like crowd , but some people like loneliness. So make a quick analysis and choose the best points for you America is good country , but as I said every country have cons and prons , it depends upon what you like. For me cooking is a habit , living in non crowd areas give me relaxation so it is good but it may differ person to person.

[@a-sk007]

"prons"? 😂

[@madhurishah3173]

मुझे ये बात समझ नहीं आती कि फॉरेन में इतने सारे चेलेंजिस होते है फिर भी लोग क्यों वहां जाना चाहते है???🤔🤔और वहां रहना चाहते है। चाहे डॉलर में कमाई हो पर सुकून न मिले तो ऐसे पैसों का क्या करना!!🥺🤔 I 💕 My India ❤️ मैं लाख डॉलर मिलने पर भी कभी अपना देश छोड़ के ना जाऊं👎 😀😐 मेरे देश में जो शांति है वो दुनिया में कहीं नहीं ✌️✌️✌️

[@blackrose474]

Good family couple sharing their experiences 🌹🌹🌹

[@vilasdesai5845]

Dear Sir and Mam Iam living in the U.S. for last 25 years, When I migrated here from Mumbai (India) I was feeling lonely and depressed, but that was for little time, the city and the state I am living right now has no many Indians, but then I made good American friends who always helped and ran for me with out any expectation, I am single guy 58 years old now, I feel really happy here and not lonely, I came to know the meaning of life here in the U.S., the beauty of the U.S. is this is really the land of the opportunity, now most new generation as that guy said he was 10 years abroad, I don't know in which country he was , but most people that leaves after 10 to 15 years from the U.S. is that because they don't get green card, now in the field of IT green card proceeding rate is so low and became more due to pandemic, that people who filed for green card in 2012 out of 120000 applicant only 7200 people got green card that means only 6% people got greencard, so that is the ratio, that is why they curse the U.S.

[@dr.vinaykumarsingh8189]

Really sweet presentation 😊

[@muhammadtaha4725]

Sukun and noise free environment is a blessing, I think u people are lucky.

[@happyysoul286]

No not at all bro,,, loneliness and boredom kill ur mental peace ,,homesickness 😢😢

[@sanjayparekh71]

Greetings from Orlando! You are spot on with everything you both said. You guys make a lovely couple. God bless!!

[@parnamsaini4751]

Accha??

[@nirmalyasengupta9192]

Great analysis ! Rab ne banadi Jodi. God bless!

[@anu2089]

Actually we were. In US for ao many years, now in Banglore. I still misses America. It's really good place to live.

[@hirosenasena-t2m]

❤❤

[@umeshak9100]

Thank you both for your genuine video. You told the other side of living in abroad.

[@rollykumari8131]

The thing is people who have moved to Metros from other small cities go through the same situation.

[@Sgy556]

Enjoy one’s present moment whether you are in USA or India or in Sahara Desert! That’s the essence of life!!!

[@nupurbhardwaj24]

You have not mentioned school taxes even in your previous 6 month old video with the state tax and all... as the school directly doesn't take a fee, but being a homeowner, you need to pay school taxes here in Pennsylvania in addition to state and all.That's a huge extra... it's as good as an extremely high monthly school fee. Nothing is free. Schools need funds, and it comes from the residents. Plus, if you have a little one like us, Preschool has a very high fee, which is extra, which you did mention.

[@oldie-american]

You mean property tax! Indians also pay house tax, which they chet upon by specifying much lower cost of the house than the market value.

[@parasmalporwal6501]

Nice coordination by u both. Thanks for you explanation

[@abhisheksahoo628]

Sir .... Racism, hate crime towards Indian ...Gun culture etc etc

[@ouramericandream1183]

See this video kzbin.info/www/bejne/pIWpZ3eibL2gnLM

[@mesbahulhoda9539]

Ngl, there is more racism and safety issues in India than the US.

[@pramodchinchkar]

Good information, thanks!🌹

[@ravichoubey3727]

Very well explained My son in law and daughter are planning to move in US near future first time Pl continue to post similar informative clips Thanks

[@girlgirl538-q3d]

Listen to everyone, but karo apni mann ki...of course there r some pros n cons in every country n situation but if u mentally strong with good will power ...no matter where u go ...it's all well.

[@JaiSyndrome]

Why?

[@komalnegicuj2284]

​@@girlgirl538-q3d.... very well said...

[@souradeepdas8195]

People from our country often go to the US to work part-time, such as washing dishes in restaurants or cleaning toilets in affluent American households. If you consider that cool, think about this: if a laborer from West Bengal in another Indian state were to perform the same job, it would be deemed as bad. However, we should respect all types of work, no matter how small they may be. A person engaged in tasks like cleaning or working in mines holds social importance, just like someone working in a software company. We are all laborers. The most rich 22 persons of India have the same money as that of 70 cr people have!

[@anilsatone5334]

Thanks both of you for info..🎉

[@ajaynigam5097]

आप सही बोल रहे है, भारत में कम पैसे में भी आनन्द में रह सकते हैं, अकेला पन महसूस नहीं होता है, गपशप कर समय व्यतीत कर सकते हैं

[@YATI0233KITCHEN]

Nice vlog.aap konsi city se ho

[@rajanvagal1353]

Thanks to both of you for opening eyes of the rest indian. You have shown dareing to speak truth. God bless you.

[@tariqhassan3046]

Extremely true. Same in UK

[@sangitak68]

Thankyou for sharing ds....... informative insights....tc guys

[@himanshuchandrashekhar.4928]

धन्यवाद जी आप ने अमेरिका की रहन सहन की सच्चाई बताई जैसा कि लोग कहते चले आ रहे हैं कि अमेरिका की life बहुत अच्छी है । पर वहाँ पर भी लाईफ सभी भारतीयो की आसान नहीं है । मेरा दोस्त इंडिया से अमेरिका में रहता है। 8 साल बाद वहाँ का अमेरिका का वातावरण में ढल पाया है । मात पिता व उसकी wife भी वहाँ पर रहती है। आप ने सही बात कही अमेरिका की life styel के बारे में।