Red flag wala concept is the most important thing for innocent people coz they always forgive and forget also....and the chalak one take advantage of it always...i m suffering of this ....and i suffered alot...now i m aware of it and always put the logic of red flag in this type of situation and it works....Thank God i have you...👏
@niten_mukesh2 жыл бұрын
Exactly what I thought
@niteshsingh6598 Жыл бұрын
Agree.. they try to show you how innocent they are.. until we find truth, we get attached to that person..and the suffering begins..hope we find high valued persons like us with same mindset in our life..✨🥂🍷🙌🏻
@ineelamrathore10 ай бұрын
Agreed...... 💯
@rajatdubey69515 күн бұрын
Yaar mai bhi aisa hi hu aur mujhe bahut bewakoof bnaya meri gf ne ...I feel mai isme kyu paraa ...
@AyushGupta-hm9kl2 жыл бұрын
I have been in a relationship with a girl whom i met online in my college . As classes were online so we become friends and we use to chat a lot after 2 months she said she likes me and i accepted that and we met only once in real life in these 2 months , she knows me a lot in these 2 months as we use to do phone calls and zoom so i thought wow i think she is the one. But the thing is that his family background , her life style and everything is kind of different than mine but i ignored everything and thought i will handle everything. Her past is also affecting me but i still ignored that also. After that when classes become offline on first day itself she started acting so different she use to spend more time with her friends than me. And i got to know that she has a best friend but she said he is like his brother but their action doesnt resembles with their words. So after keep ignoring this i got frustrated after a week and i said i dont like him because as a boy i know his intention and it doest seems good and she was like no no he is not like that i will handle everything . After sometime we had a huge fight because of him and i know he brainwashed her. And after that we just stopped talking i was like you choose your best friend and i will choose my selfrespect. I am not here to be someone's second choice. And then i have started working on myself and i knw i deserve better. So i just wanted to say just dont go blind in love and acknowledge the redflag and consider it . Just don't ignore it.
@simpleisbeautiful28902 жыл бұрын
Good one bro👍
@pawanmaurya70262 жыл бұрын
Superb
@mrsarthak26362 жыл бұрын
same hamara sath esa hua yeh online mode mai logo ki reality pata nahi lagi
@yashsinha9242 жыл бұрын
Same thing happened to me brother
@shivamIITGN2 жыл бұрын
You made a great decision Ayush.
@kiranmuchandimath23672 жыл бұрын
Hello sir, I totally agree with you. I wish I had known this before. I was justifying my bf’s no meeting for 1.5years policy, indifference, insensitive, cold and rude actions, saying he has exams. This happened for 2 years straight and in the end he continued to be the same after exams. That’s when it hit me, this guy is never gonna be free to talk to me. It was a 4 year long relationship and I ended it finally. It took me months to overcome the trauma of being used and still haunts me. Thank you for sharing. Many will benefit from this.
@gotimlol53182 жыл бұрын
Focus on career. It's a trap. Useless
@kiranmuchandimath23672 жыл бұрын
@@gotimlol5318 , 100% true. That’s what I am doing now and have increased my spiritual quotient. Clearly I’m in a good headspace right now.
@AbhishekKumar-pi9wv2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your life experience..
@rupamtiwari80312 жыл бұрын
Didnot you try to know the reason of your bf behaviour even after exam ??
@kiranmuchandimath23672 жыл бұрын
@@rupamtiwari8031 , hello there, good question. I did, I tried to understand his side and asked him the reason 3-4 different calls in the following months, he kept saying different reasons which is sad when one person tries 100 ways to break off.
@thebreathing_pen18532 жыл бұрын
Very insightful and rational points. Ignored and compromised such red flags, then later paid the price for almost 3 years of my life. Wish to see a detailed video on such red flags from boys perspective.
@ashwinikamble87092 жыл бұрын
Very True Sir!!! We should not ignore our gut feelings and intuition..they come because there is something wrong somewhere...do not ignore them
@shivamdwivedi23842 жыл бұрын
Your partner's social media account is biggest red flag source in this generation.
@VikasKumar-zz4qr2 жыл бұрын
I am 20 years old...at the age of 16-17 I was feeling like I should get into relationships...but since 2-3 years of my mature thinking because of internet my thought about relationship has become zero....👌👌 Reason- As I have come to know about Jonny Depp vs Amber herd case...My thought about getting into relationship has gone to minus infinity...👍👍 Look how happily our Modi ji and Yogi ji living life ....👍👍👍true inspiration...
@VikasKumar-zz4qr2 жыл бұрын
@Shivangi Vashishth it's never too late...life gives you at least one chance to transform yourself...I watch Aacharya Prashant on KZbin...and then Chetan sir..I got matured early because of the 4g internet and smartphone era...And my introvert nature also helped me a lot to stay focused...👍👍 And my surroundings also because I know a lot of boys and girls are into toxic relationship just because of sexual earge, nothing else...
@prazum2 жыл бұрын
@@VikasKumar-zz4qr buddy i have watched an ad of acharya prashant about the menu card of delhi, bhopal restaurant like why it is written in english why not in hindi but he missed the fact that not only from northern people are living in northern area also from south india and foreigners do live their i don't think that acharya prashant is as mature as people think he is maturity is then when he would have realised that its a diverse country and its ok to menu of north to be in english as all Indians do not understand the language but what majority of indians do know atleast how to read and understand the language i wanna know you perspective about this
@VikasKumar-zz4qr2 жыл бұрын
@@prazum Bro I am talking about free videos that are available on KZbin helped me a lot to stay on the right path...But please don't bring language politics... please please...🙏🙏 I don't have any idea about menu card...🙏🙏
@prazum2 жыл бұрын
@@VikasKumar-zz4qr sorry bro but i myself am not good in speaking hindi i understand the language though it feel like i am being discriminated in internet for not knowing the language i hope that you will understand my feeling about this
@VikasKumar-zz4qr2 жыл бұрын
@@prazum I totally agree with you brother....But I think his videos are also in English... perhaps on his application I think...and there he has videos in English as well...
@positivevibes202 жыл бұрын
I was married last year ..my partner was very rude to me from start ...he was meeting a girl behind my back which he never told me about and saving her number in name of a guy ...I just dont have the courage to tell my middle class parents that their choice has made my life hell and I want separation .....
@braveimposter2 жыл бұрын
It's never too late girl. You deserve some happiness. You only live once and it's a quick trip. Don't let him ruin it for you.
@JERRRY12 жыл бұрын
Aj nahi to kal ye chiz bhr ayegi asap bat kijiye ap
@antrikshachatterjee3682 жыл бұрын
My own life was ruined by an alcoholic womaniser he totured me for 17 yrs died a dog's death Please 🙏🙏 leave this mam immediately don't ruin ur life mine was an arranged marriage my parents didn't verify Again pls divorce u can't live with a cheat
@braveimposter2 жыл бұрын
@@antrikshachatterjee368 yeah you're right. How you're doing now? Are you good?
@dysplasiaanaplasia41282 жыл бұрын
Are you crazy? Why do you think it’s your fault cz clearly you do that’s why tou not telling tour parents. Hatao aise partner ko jitni jaldi ho sake nd dnt even think abt having children with this guy if you love your future children dnt give them a cheating father. Have some self respect nd move on. Choose your own path
@nidhikanswal63152 жыл бұрын
Your Content is so relatable and helpful Sir. Wondering why only 20% female viewers 🤷
@yamini4362 жыл бұрын
Exactly. We need more female audience :)
@SRL1996 Жыл бұрын
Because they are busy with their best friends😂😂😂😂
@nidhikanswal6315 Жыл бұрын
😂bf= best friend
@AngshumanVI2 жыл бұрын
Sir, please make more videos about relationships. We need proper guidance on this subject. I myself was in my 2nd relationship when I realized that I was ignoring multiple red flags and later, things went south. I used to text/call the guys my ex-girlfriend would talk/chat with and then tell them to stay away, but later I realized that my ex-girlfriend was herself seeking validation from them due to which she would continually entertain them even after me wanting her to not do so. I recently broke up (it has not even been one week) and she already has someone else to give her company, so clearly there were things I did not know about before. Thank you for guiding us correctly.
@Deepanshu__19812 жыл бұрын
Same
@dramnaarshad2152 жыл бұрын
Chetan sir you have billion admirers worldwide, stay blessed
@amarshrivastava27532 жыл бұрын
Yes Sir, you are right... healthy boundaries should be drawn from both genders when they are in a relationship otherwise there will be no difference b/w his/her partner & other individuals..& if there is no boundary there is no respect
@Its_sonarora2 жыл бұрын
Do make more videos for girl audiences..they also need advice from your life experiences.😊
@akashguharoy3412 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@JERRRY12 жыл бұрын
Bilkul Sahi Sir , 20days broke up after 5.5 years of relationship always ignored her character and personality, even my friends about that girl and was almost going for engagement & even though i know back of the mind something is not good just justifying at last she cheated 😂 ✨Now i am very happy in my life ki bhai bach gya but red flags dekh leta to bahot acha hota✨ Best video
@debasishthakuria54342 жыл бұрын
Very relatable to my relationship sir. We were in a relationship for 1 year. Just broke up 1 month back. My ex girlfriend always used to hide her family members, her friends. I don't know why but she never showed them to me. I kept on ignoring the red flags and justifying everything. Once she went out with a guy and told me that she went out with a friend. But when I asked her who he was and how come they know each other, she just cut the conversation in some other direction.
@rupak474312 жыл бұрын
Self analysis is also important sir.. I mean the question to ur own self "Is there anything that I am doing wrong that makes him/her behave so?" And obviously next comes the discussion.
@trailblazervinay2 жыл бұрын
I strongly agree with all the points Chetan discussed, but what I see around me, people don't want to compromise and don't do the efforts to save the relationship between husband and wife, and misunderstanding is the root cause of red flags and Phone and social media is the biggest culprit of spoiled relationship.
@wanderingnomad12 жыл бұрын
Great reminder sir, thanks for another great video. Boundaries are needed in all relationships, whether friends or family, self respect is important to grow as a person. They may seem rude to the other person , but will help you in the long run. It’s as simple as saying No. Trust your gut, your emotions will tell you.
@payalsharma31876 ай бұрын
I also face those things but kbhi uske against step ni le paaye and that was my huge mistake it took me too long to accept that he is not fit for me but I realise those things very late I regret always when I remind those situation how poor I was or how dull I was thinking about myself bcoz khudko acha smjhti to bht pehle step le paati ye tb hi hota h jb aap kisi relation me aate ho or samne waale ko bht high level ka mante ho if aap khudko bhi equal smjhte to hm kaise apne brabari waalo ko muh pe turant bol dete but unhe ni bol paaye bht sir chadha kr kisi ko rkhoge to wo yhi krenge But thankfully I ended up all things nd happyily smiling with my sweet one 💖
@niten_mukesh2 жыл бұрын
With this video, You are going to bring an end to so many relationships Sir 🤣🤣
@AbhishekKumar-pi9wv2 жыл бұрын
hahaha 😁😂
@shubhamchaudhari1462 жыл бұрын
and grow many careers ❤️
@sdek162 жыл бұрын
But the problem is, after noticing the red flag and you want to discuss the same with her,she would definitely reply like..you started judging me,you are so insecure,you are so narrow minded...and than she will leave you telling that she don't want to stay with such a narrow minded and insecure guy and leave you with a question in your mind like ..am I really insecure or narrow minded 🤔🤔🤔
@harish.singh_4 ай бұрын
Absolutely true...
@UnboxVlogs2 жыл бұрын
Ekdin bolega ghapa ghap karte hain 😂😂😂🤣😂🤣🤣😂🤣😂
@SINGH897922 жыл бұрын
Ker lene de dost he uska use accha lagta he 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@sangramnanda012 жыл бұрын
Though its a serious discussion. But Sir, As you said" Shaam ko hawa khanne jaate hai" I literally smiled. Thank you sir for your valuable information.
@saurabhdsawant2 жыл бұрын
Perfect guidance with practical examples ! Thank you ...again like a big brother advice much needed ! Many times we give benefit of doubt for things which are logically clear. Best way is to talk it out and if some one can not go beyond their comfort for us to make it right, it is time to call it off than getting stuck and being frustrated.
@NitinSingh-wp5lj2 жыл бұрын
Once told by Same Red flag concept by Shwetabh G. 2 years back. 👍 I am following it till now. It's the best approach to maintain relationship.
@Dakshnpatel2 жыл бұрын
Chetan sir, please make video on concentration . Me bahut padhna chahta hu bahut try karta hu sare distraction ke sources bandh kar diye hai fir bhi padhai me man nahi lagta . Future k bare me insecure feel hota h
@niteshsingh65982 жыл бұрын
Chetan sir.. please make a video on girlfriend's male bff and how it become toxic.. saying i love you to each other.. posting couple goals photos etc. I mean what should be the boundaries of bff and boyfriend and it become toxic for relationship.. i'm no one to judge someone's friendship. I m also someone's bff and ex boyfriend. I cheated by her and her bff. They are in relationship suddenly then she breakuped with me saying "me uske liye sbko xod skti hu. Koi uske baare me kuch bhi bole, me sun nhi skti.." yrr mene to aisa kuch bola bhi nhi aram se doubt solve ya puchne ki koshish kro till the end of call. But she want breakup and said all our mutual frnds that i become possesive and toxic. May be she don't know her boundaries our she intentionally cheated on me. So kindly request sir please make a video on regarding this matter. I want your perspective upon this. You are my mentor ✨💕
@niteshsingh65982 жыл бұрын
And yeah she share her ig, google photos id password with him. But did not share with me. I mean he can see all her photos of her privacy photo of her(which she shares with only me), me, and also us..
@ank0it2 жыл бұрын
Karma will take care of her. Don't worry man 🍷🙌
@numerouno41822 жыл бұрын
She belongs to the streets bro
@thinkonceagain518011 ай бұрын
What about female bff , seriously I hate this kind of trend today like best friend. My bf was an extremely extrovert person and had a lot of female friends around him .he used to talk with them till late nyt and used to tell me that just friend bla bla........,being Too much physical, roaming at nights with them ,and saying just friends. As an introvert ,I felt alone sometimes and even I told him just to maintain little distance , friendship is ok but over caring , sharing .. ,I don't know I am right or wrong but I didn't liked it . And he always used to take his friends side. I was so much emotially drained that I was unable to left him and also was not happy with him. Finally I broke up somehow .it was diificult for me but I managed. Now I am happy and most important my mind is at peace.
@parulsrivastava82022 жыл бұрын
Well said! You pinpointed 📌 the exact things! We should keep all these things in mind...the red flags 🚩🚩 Thanks Sir 🤍
@urmilaranka33122 жыл бұрын
Nice topics wth excellent explanations...nowadays many want to be in the wonderland....not knowing the practical thing about behaviors and basics of being in relationships in any field. Thankyou so much ...
@dramnaarshad2152 жыл бұрын
The total subscribers only depicts number on KZbin but the respect and love people have for you is infinte ,so stay blessed
@garvitgulati8636 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Chetan sir. This video is gold and these are things which aren't exactly obvious but also no one teaches or tells. Even if you ask your parents or cousins or friends they think you are 'lola' or 'itna shareef ki bewakoof hai'. Then you start doubting yourself. When i was 16, i had this self doubting, low self esteem mentality and you start abusing yourself that how could you be manipulated by a girl. Then in some cases begin trust issues with girls. Now, I'm 18 and exploring your channel. Cleared IIT and most importantly for the first time in life have radiating and oozing self confidence, something which i couldn't have ever dreamt for. This channel currently helps a lot. Sometimes i remember that past and have a little doubt on what if i become that person again. What if i again start to have feelings for someone who is manipulative and uses you. This teaches you some things that others don't. Thank you so much sir. Love from Punjab ♥️♥️
@rahulkumarsahni87652 жыл бұрын
Sbse acha relationship main he mt aao.......ye red flag ka tension khatam.........😜
@hirenshukla16622 жыл бұрын
Golden Word for today's reality. Better to be single and have fun travel world. Love is an intangible blinding force that overrides ones logic and common sense. Humans need companionship in life but if you are not mentally ready. Do not get into relationship or even marriage.
@MD105593 ай бұрын
True... relationship sucks and I don't know whether I'll marry either
@manavk40882 ай бұрын
U r right🎉
@tanyasachan38722 жыл бұрын
you don't know.... everyday how many blessings you earned ♥️♥️
@Dr_2412 жыл бұрын
You just know the best way to keep it simple and ...ummm...i think 🤔 💭... soulful... Love love ❤ Hope u reply...
@ChetanBhagat12 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much 😀
@jiraiya52732 жыл бұрын
I am 24 and i never had any gf. I will keep these points in mind if i ever come in a relationship🙂 Good content sir 👌
@antrikshachatterjee3682 жыл бұрын
Good 👍
@nextchaptercivilengineerin90362 жыл бұрын
Ab milegi bhi nahi direct shadi hi hogi
@utkarshkerketta16882 жыл бұрын
@@nextchaptercivilengineerin9036 mil jati bhai ab chizen late hoti
@shrikantDhatrak Жыл бұрын
Superb video eye opener for many people keep it up the great things ahead
@ChetanBhagat1 Жыл бұрын
Thanks a ton!
@pritamkumarjadhav69622 жыл бұрын
Sir, every time you come on this platform, you explain the concepts very well. Kindly, discuss how to deal with emotional atyachar and outbursts of parents. .....Thanks........
@purnendushaw1822 ай бұрын
All are relatable with my presence situations.. thanks
@kavitathakkar3692 жыл бұрын
Well said ! Absolutely right 👍❤
@sanskritiverma80102 жыл бұрын
If you are finished watching this , please do not click any more relationship advice videos of other channels that appear on the right side. Ek video dekho , ek samjhdaar banday ka , usi ki baat suno.
@sizzlingschumi90052 жыл бұрын
Just remember an insecure person regardless of gender can never be happy under any circumstances.. They would be worried about something or anxious... They can smile laugh momentarily but after that.. Same old. story ..just stay away from them for your own mental well-being .. They make you doubt yourself n feel bad ...the whole relationship is based on your patience n tolerant levels... Trust me.. Harsh reality of some people
@arjitgupta28132 жыл бұрын
converse krna chahiye jb bhi esa doubt ho...the major part of any healthy relationship is conversation..so do it....confront your fear..at the end it will be better for you...
@seeratarora7022 жыл бұрын
I entirely agree with you sir Wonderful examples 👍🏻
@Its_sonarora2 жыл бұрын
Great insights ! Please make more content on relationships!!
@piyushgupta10x2 жыл бұрын
Very important points shared by Chetan.. yes we all want to be a part of a good relationship but that doesnt mean we allow our partner to keep crushing our feelings and as rightly said by Chetan, we need to draw a line what is acceptable and what is not. Secondly, we need to work on our self-image also consistently and in worst case a breakup happens, we should have the belief that I am a person of value and I deserve a worthy partner. ❤
@brijeshta28812 жыл бұрын
Very true sir. Thanks for enlightening us🙏
@111prab2 жыл бұрын
Hi. Great video 🙂 Wish to see more red flags scenarios from indian society context
@nextchaptercivilengineerin90362 жыл бұрын
Solution = become deserving (baap bano sabke) top pe jao fr sab niche honge. This is harsh reality
@hirenshukla16622 жыл бұрын
True, wise word . Be deserving . Do not run after people. they will come
@roshanisingh6731 Жыл бұрын
Are bhaiya kisi ko to Jana hii padega sab isi attitude me rahenge to pichhe kon jayega phir😂😂
@nextchaptercivilengineerin9036 Жыл бұрын
@@roshanisingh6731 hmm but u have to focus on your work only
@santajisurvase11898 ай бұрын
If she regularly plans dinners, coffees, or lunches with someone of the opposite gender, and you are unaware of that person, it's a big red flag. One-on-one meetings with individuals of the opposite gender are also concerning. Additionally, not showing respect towards her mother-in-law and father-in-law is another significant red flag.
@prashaantnagar332 жыл бұрын
It’s hard to avoid and move on from this type of relationship where are too many red flags but I think patient need this bitter medicine and it’s hard but it’s better to move on & things will be fine sooner or later 😊
@supriyabakshi87392 жыл бұрын
Yes! Vibes don't lie
@anuragchoudhary44142 жыл бұрын
U r right guruji
@arijitghosh95512 жыл бұрын
You r absolutely right sir, exactly this things happened with me
@DefJain-cf1myАй бұрын
I can see the pain in eyes of Chetan Bhagat 2:55
@varunbhalla78552 жыл бұрын
These are all true, i've experienced them as sir says "Be Strong or be ruled by the strong".
@Amit_Optm2 жыл бұрын
100% true sir, this is whole talk is very real and the same thing hepped with me one month ago but I am totally clear about it
@drdhr3 ай бұрын
Excellent sir.... Even I have experienced myself......
@suyogtambe37532 жыл бұрын
What is your view on false matrimonial cases on husband and his family?
@sach36562 жыл бұрын
I still remember when my gf was not receiving my calls and third day she picked up my call and said tu dubara call Kiya to apna number band kar dungi🤣 and 3 month later she called me and asked 5000₹ for paying her house rent and i said ok to aata hu tere ghar paisa dene then I paid her and left like ..... 😐 bandi ne khudka kachra Kara liya breakup karke kyu ke 5000₹ to free me milenge nahi breakup ke baad
@deepasinghal47292 жыл бұрын
1 min, you slept with her in exchange of paying money? Why not just say no to paying money? Itna kya weak character ki jaha mile waha pahoch gaye aur 5K keemat bhi dedi. Bhai, har insan life mein kabhi na kabhi cross-roads pe hota hai - either one can choose the right path or adopt the wrong path. You willingly chose the wrong path by succumbing to your lust craving, this will get repeated in future and you'll end up in a psychological mess. And, you pushed your ex to think its ok to sleep to get money, it maybe her BF or ex today but kal ko kahin se bhi la sakti hai money. Most of the girls slowly get pushed into this by BF like you who make her think its ok, BF se kara to kahi aur bhi karlo. Imagine, if you would had scolded her to not go down that path and encouraged her to upgrade her skills or ask her parents for money, ya stock mein invest karke get 5K, or as a loan, both yours and hers life would had taken a huge upside turn, and also a benefit for society. Bhot gand bhari hai duniya mein, aur to mat badhao. Sorry bhai, bura laga to, but this is so common. I only want, mere dost, ya GF/wife aisi na ho, paise dene ke liye ready kyuki itni samajh nahi kaha sona chiye kaha nahi. Tumhe aisi wife chalegi jo paiso ke liye sleep around kare? Don't make others what you dont want for yourself. Karma hits back. Reform yourself before getting married, it will devastate your wife and families.
@souhardya14872 жыл бұрын
Sir make a video on fear of being cheated, relationship-phobia, Not good enough feeling...its a request!
@entertainer77922 жыл бұрын
Sir , I heard many people saying that you're good in, as well as only for literature,but after watching some of your videos i felt that a person has no exact defining especially when he/she is a writer. Thank u sir for your videos 💖🙏.
@dramnaarshad2152 жыл бұрын
Hi chetan sir thankyou for your morning advice, looking forward for many many more
@aniketh72 жыл бұрын
Uber driver hai Pani puri 🙏🤣 Thank you sir💯
@sankalpkumar22262 жыл бұрын
thank you sir for this video. you are really like a big brother and guide for us. please try making more videos related to this topic. ❤❤❤❤❤
@chetansharma2941 Жыл бұрын
Thnk u sir jo apka treeka h smjhane shayad he koi smjhaye thnk u seriously sir
@shataksheethakur69562 жыл бұрын
Hasmukh hai mera larka🤣🤣
@prince.p912 жыл бұрын
😄😄
@ayushmanbhalla87372 жыл бұрын
uber driver hain vo haha 😂😂
@ashly43502 жыл бұрын
Yes ,sir u r absolutely right.
@priyasindhu57342 жыл бұрын
I ignored red flags like it was a carnival.😂😂😂😂
@ank0it2 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@nostalgia31plus2 жыл бұрын
Good see finally these topics getting some attention, basic psychology should be part of school curriculum ( no need to take tests on them ),identifying the narcissistic personalities in your life, at home friends and needless to office is a must have skill.Also assessing once own personality.
@ank0it2 жыл бұрын
I agree💯
@deekshakushwah34302 жыл бұрын
Perfectly genuine thoughts....sir Please made a video on how to overcome bad timming..
@vijayg91772 жыл бұрын
Please create videos on partner who had deep past
@turquoisepark12082 жыл бұрын
Hello Chetanji, I like your videos and based out of India. One thought came to my mind. Your videos are too good and filled with inspiration. But In my opinion if you add English subtitles to your videos, people who do not understand hindi, will also benefit from your videos. Thanks!
@lifeiseasy6282 жыл бұрын
last time she talked to me so rudely in phone calls and also blocked me in WhatsApp i too deserve respectful life so i decided not to talk to her again unless she apologizes
@nidhansing2 жыл бұрын
Many a times red flags are identified yet not much is done about it !
@bhartiraushan23822 жыл бұрын
Yehhhh!!!! Sir Red Flag ignorance 🚩can show the black day in future 🙃
@pushpalkumar90272 жыл бұрын
An eye opener video . Thanks a lot sir ❤️👍
@shobhathakur16672 жыл бұрын
True ...thank you dear...
@ishansingla75382 жыл бұрын
I agree with you sir 🙏
@gopalloharnew59482 жыл бұрын
The Truth ... !
@devanshiprajapati50422 жыл бұрын
I was female Chamanlal ,but not now I changed due to these vedios
@Daksh23212 жыл бұрын
@Santosh Parvatikar chamanlali*
@khoyahua1771 Жыл бұрын
Devanshu here
@imonmandal36632 жыл бұрын
Watching this video after watching Johnny Depp's verdict.
@sakshisharma-sy1hd2 жыл бұрын
So nice.. thank you Chetan sir 🦋
@maumitamajumdar68312 жыл бұрын
Really good topic touched..
@neodude25812 жыл бұрын
Chetan Sir, aapne duniya dekhi hai 👍
@profitshot58552 жыл бұрын
Thx fir the video, this was the most needed
@alfredbasicbegginerslibrar25402 ай бұрын
20 days back I was talking to my Feance with calls and video calls l. Suddenly after 1 week she was behaving very weird dont go out side with friends , dont go to the roof , When we talk she said dont sit with their parents go in other room , She was trying to control me and if i said that pls dont do that type of things i am not a robot for you . One day suddenly she said to me you want to marry me kr not or say to my parents i dont want to marry i was shocked to see her face how she was saying without any fear .
@handullradaai2 жыл бұрын
That gas cylinder analogy hit the nail so hard
@vinay_suthar012 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much sir for this video.
@upscwithsudhakar2 жыл бұрын
Thanks you so much sir 😊 🙏
@learn.with.me242 жыл бұрын
My gf do this same thing and when i know i just blocked her from everywhere. Bq i dont want any arguments and i know my self worth.
@dipeshchaudhari97502 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much sir..💐💐💐
@AS-pi3dw2 жыл бұрын
These red flags are also applicable to normal friends as well...
@rima29352 жыл бұрын
My boyfriend left me because of my insecurities and trust issues...he gave me time to change but I couldn't and now I am living in regrets.. I can't imagine my life without him... How will I come out of this phase??
@sachinprasad75912 жыл бұрын
you will never come out of this phase if you are living in regrets. Time will heal everything automatically and focus on your career . BF/GF is nothing but a time pass game.
@limibegam10512 жыл бұрын
Awesome Sir ❤👌..
@user-mq8el4mf3q2 жыл бұрын
But why do a have a marriage and relationship in the first place humans were free and happy. The relationship still work fine but achhe chase's relationship gets ruined after the marriage. But when you want kids then marriage make sense.
@Adityami123452 жыл бұрын
Very gud video
@ekassingh44012 жыл бұрын
Always right ▶️
@ayushchandrachaudhary52372 жыл бұрын
Bitter truth of today's society
@shivamdwivedi23842 жыл бұрын
Sir as you said in one of your previous video, Indian girls leave their bf bcz of controlling/insecure behavior Sir hume khud ko hi pata nahi h ki kab tak ok h, aur kab red flag h Controlling bhi na ho, red flag bhi notice karo dono kaise hoga Yr khud decide nahi ho pata
@Deepanshu__19812 жыл бұрын
Great question
@gautamichauhan422 жыл бұрын
If girl is being over friendly with any other guy for sooo many times and always talks about him even when you are enjoying your quality time together. Going alone with him for lunch or dinner or movie for more than once and not asking you first that would you join me? These are some red flags. When girl is talking with a guy and being friendly just like others, and she talks with him on social media or on a call for fuer time (not like she talks with her bf) and she ask you first before going out with a guy alone. And even if she goes out, she maintains boundary that she doesn't get too close with him. In the end she is not obsessed with him. So in this case bf should trust her and give her a space. Don't get insecure at this point. If you find its getting too much then you consider it as a red flag.