Don't let them bother you

[@merveceylan8636]

Watching your video was for me being in the right spot at the right moment (as always). I would like to comment if I may. Well, you create your own reality even before you incarnate to this world. To advance your spiritual development, you follow a path that is unique to you as billions of other life forms. This morning I read a quote from Lao Tzu that says something like this: "God gives you people you need, not the ones you want. These people are gonna help you, hurt you, harm you, leave you, love you... In this way, they will make you turn into who you should become to be. So, to sum up, how can you exclude or ignore the "bad" things that are happening outside? They're not for avoiding/ running away, they're there for our attention for us to "see" the real purpose of them. Of course, I'm not saying "let's enjoy suffering" but greeting them with an awareness and a conscious mindset, without labeling them as "good" or "bad", seeing them as just experiences, and allowing them to happen may open new perspectives. Then you can free yourself from yourself (you don't necessarily need an external source to criticize yourself). I know saying these things is easy but implementing is much more difficult. Good luck to all of you in your journeys!

[@turiiya1921]

you are very correct. In fact we are all moving around the nucleus, getting closer and closer to our Supreme desideratum. And obstacles, challenges are the forces that help us to become stronger and to move ahead on the path. Seen in the light of this perspective, you can say that struggle against these obstacles is the very essence of life without which we would move towards retardation, toward our animalistic tendencies. But we must move ahead, with heads held high, not only in the physical and psychic strata but also in the spiritual arena. We must subtilize and channelise our mind's restlessness into the grand ocean of inner peace and fulfilment. This is only done through spiritual practice.

[@dodopopo4656]

What is this guys name?

[@swasti6906]

Your videos come out just when im about to re enter my slump and pull me back standing strong on my own two feet

[@ablejose6171]

But, is this how it's supposed to be everytime, working for few days and fall back, iam in a similar phase btw what do you work on?

[@我爱埃伦]

Are you from uttrakhand?

[@ayuntey69]

​@@ablejose6171having phases is really normal. It's kinda like a cycle. Just don't let the lower phases define u. And u should always aim for the ones that brings u closer to ur goals. Keep it up random stranger online

[@angelagrosso2162]

Awesome video every time I listen to you speak I become closer to where I'd would like to be. Thanks so much.

[@A-jl1ql]

You are not alone, we all are fighting our own thoughts constantly. But if you have examples of putting restraint on yourself it maybe on food & sexual urges etc. Remember those successes and use them as fuel to prevent yourself from entring into a slump. Again and again. Just dont get distracted and soon you will be fine. This comment is for the viewer as well as for me as a reference point.

[@MiaMichelucci000]

"Start to be indifferent to indifferent things". Thank you

[@luminar2]

"The human soul degrades itself when it is overpowered by pleasure or pain."

[@lolabooms]

Where is this quote from?

[@luminar2]

@@lolabooms Marcus Aurelius (meditations)

[@juliehwang8482]

You should look into the importance and decreasing moments of intimacy in the modern world. The privacy law sector is only biegining to tackle this very important matter. Imagine a world, where simply just a having a minute to yourself, or with. a loved one, or someone you find - lovely Imagine a world, where such intimate moments are been invasived on. I dont explain t well but the panel of Uof V LAw has a youtbube channel and it's just -a wonderful way to access the Privacy Law video.. It doesnt seem so giant, but it's so so so intgregal. Out most beautiful and intiimate moments must be precedded witht he right to absolutel privacy, and well .. common deceny and resepct from it's viewers. This is a very intimate space this youtber has allowed you in. Becausreful of the mundanc ness of your quotes, you can hurt some feelings. like mine. :p jk (;

[@JoVeda_xo]

When you put quotes do you mean its somebody elses or self imposed?

[@bl1506]

You are that “friend” we call and you’ll stay on the phone for hours to help us to self aware, think, question and challenge ourselves

[@Notallthatwanderarelost]

Yes, if we all had a friend like him, maybe we wouldn't screw up so much. He makes you think.

[@adamw36]

"What is in the way, becomes the way." Damn, that's kinda hardcore. I love that.

[@MV_____Mary]

Amen. To everyone: Don’t be a slafe of your own storms. We can’t heal when we stay focused on the pain. And never let anger consume you. Don’t do this to yourself.

[@playfulsteps9249]

There is an incredible power in not forming a mental and verbal opinion. How often we give over our power to people and things that have no bearing on our lives.

[@cinneylun5353]

I wish I meet more people of depth in real life. Sometimes u feel like u are the only misfit but you’ve learned to pour all your energy into something that u gives you meaning, instead of wasting it on people who wouldn’t understand you just to keep them around. It would be draining.

[@EyNickSee]

I too wish I can meet more people of depth in real life, and also to become more in depth and in touch with myself (in progress). I'm at a stage in my life where I need to stop wasting my energy on people (loved ones) who don't understand me or don't want to elevate themselves as I do. It is definitely draining.

[@fawnmalone410]

The Serenity Prayer....a world of philosophy bound up in a prayer. 'Accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things i can...' i always need to self improve.

[@desiredecove5815]

Just thought the same

[@wiktoriagorka3980]

My favourite videos to watch before going to bed, such simple yet important message to reflect on before falling asleep

[@1TrueNature]

Don't let anyone take your peace. And never mind about other's energy, good or bad, pay attention to your own. Game changing.

[@macviviezca]

Thank you for helping me go through the toughest time in my life! I appreciate you.

[@soulsearchingwithstina]

"Learn to be indifferent to indifferent things" is a very specific & incredible point you made in this video. Sometimes, the people who cause the most chaos in our lives are actually indifferent about everything & they simply float around like that. It is our own reaction to them that causes a lack of peace within ourselves. Something which is telling. I've recently learned that many people tend to be indifferent towards me or they don't pay any attention to anything in general. Only mindless topics. This however dictates nothing when it comes to our own value & our potential. So yes, learning to be indifferent towards indifferent things truly is a conscious choice one must make again & again whilst reminding themselves as to what naturally aligns & sparks passion. Indifferent things being indifferent towards us do not dictate our value, unless we let it.

[@minimcune]

Im glad im alive at the same time that you are alive. Thank you for this wonderful video.

[@begimai_]

I'm so happy I found your channel now, while going through a crisis. I don't have the courage to put into words what I feel. But I do listen. Your videos help me understand many thought patterns I had. Thank you!

[@Hennessy2020]

You are a great teacher for a young person like me. Thank you

[@mothman943]

I experienced a flash flood. Water got in my basement. In the general scheme of things the outcome could have been worse. I ended up throwing away junk and decluttering my basement. Sometimes a positive outcome can bloom from something like a flood that I had no control over and had to watch. This was a good lesson thank you

[@MELLIKmusic]

This literally gave me a spiritual experience I’m not kidding

[@adnankamen6470]

I've had incessant negative thoughts for half my life, it really slowed down my life process and self belief. I have been trying to learn how NOT to think anymore and instead ACT on my life in the best way i know how.. if you act things feel better, that i am making some progress and as much as a negative thought pattern can paralyze you, a positive or even slightly positive thought pattern can produce its own positive mind cycles.. It will take months maybe years but at least i am taking life in my own hands now. Your calm demeanour puts me at ease when i start getting myself down and many of your messages have parallels with Eckhart Tolle and being present, which is something that really resonates with me.

[@wanderunner8971]

I love your calming voice, and that you are just simple. I always listen to your videos before sleeping. :D

[@oneyedeagle]

Your words are powerful. Thank you!

[@gursharankaur5796]

Here for my weekly dose of goodness. I swear I feel grounded and calmer everytime I watch one of these. Also the complex concepts, which he always succeeds at explaining them so elegantly, with a hint of simplicity, not the easiest, but simple enough to comprehend and bring change.

[@Englishroserebecca]

Thank you, helps to be reminded to be content. When I try and stay grateful for every little thing and not complain or be negative I always feel happier.

[@benjaminamundsen7812]

Yes! I completely agree with your take on frugality.

[@ExistentialSadness]

My biggest problem lately has been feeling like since I finished university, my social life and friends have drifted away from me. I'm getting older, approaching 30, I'll be 27 this year, and most of my friends have moved away, either far away or abroad. It was difficult for a while to come to terms with this, but now I've reached a point where I can be completely happy alone. Many people are not capable of being alone; I think this is something you have to learn. My best friend has become my girlfriend, although I still meet with 'buddies' a few times a month, my true, best friends are far away from me, and we mostly keep in touch online, but we talk about everything every day and sometimes meet. We might have to see the experience of friends drifting away as an opportunity for personal transformation and the cultivation of inner strength. So, the essence is: you have to learn to be alone and accept the changes in life. Edit: this guy's hair is insane as always! :D

[@TheXabl0]

“If you’re terrified of being alone, you are in bad company.” -Sarte

[@maraL_A]

It's consoling to hear that so many other people go through similar things. It makes it acceptable and easier, I apluad you for speaking up 🤍

[@ruthchukwu9083]

Yes,I am attracted to our dear Philosopher

[@RebuildRetreat]

A similar story here and now 30 I must accept this new phase of life and see it's a kind of normal situation for people to have drifted by now

[@Lady_Ima2]

Truly resonates with my personal experience: I had a job which paid very well until the day it stopped. I was overworked and enslaved until it came to an end. Some would say that was ‘bad’. However, I since started working less altogether. I cut expenses and live more frugally. I have more quality time to myself, time to exercise, read, reflect… Biggest take out from this experience; accept the universe! Thank you.

[@soufianeelalaoui]

External events are neutral. Our perspective is anxiety inducing. Conditions for your happiness are premeditated disappointments

[@shesometimeswrites]

Thank you so much for creating this reflective space for us. 🌱

[@Cat-and-Tilly]

…and he does it in one take. Amazing.

[@JuanGonzalez-lk6uu]

Thank you so much for your insights. I've been watching them for a while and they've rekindled a deep desire in me to continue challenging my beliefs and moving forward. Thank you

[@user-yn6zo4wp5b]

Each of your videos are resonating pearls of wisdom. Thank you for being here brother.

[@andreajoy224]

I can't thank you enough for your content and always look forward to your videos. The one you did last week was life changing for me and I keep going back to it. I hope you keep these up because it is helping so many others as well. 😊

[@Seagram_Hstiung]

Your video came up just when I was looking to be comforted. Went through so much at work. Just when I thought the storm blew over, there’s more stuff resurfacing. Thank you for your video, truly appreciate it

[@samada5656]

I enjoy the deep talk in this channel. Good job!

[@سكينه-ح7ح]

احببت كلامك كثيراً خاصتاّ عندما تكلمت عن السعادة وهي تنبع من الداخل ويمكننا ان نصنع ساعدتنا بانفسنا بدلاً من انتظارها من شخص آخر

[@EcomCarl]

Absolutely! 🙌 Finding happiness is often simpler than we think-it's about taking control of our mindset and focusing on what truly matters. Remember, true freedom comes from mastering our reactions to external events and embracing the power we have over our own happiness.

[@margaretmcgregor5686]

Another rewatch 😊 thank you so much - "being indifferent to indifferent things" - a perfect aide memoire to this lesson 😊 from Scotland.

[@draganapasti_]

"What stands in the way becomes the way" seems to be the essential perception of truth. Truth has always been the deepest source of happiness to me. Truly, no matter how things go my way, I'm eager to accept them with indifference, as it's not up to me to "fix" the world, but myself. Very interesting point of view that just "proves" the phenomenology of life. Philosophy teaches us how to be happy. That's why I've been in it since my childhood. Always creates some sort of "peace of mind". Thank you so much for your prudent speech that keeps on clarifying essential things.

[@sunnyheaven369]

That was spoken right out of my heart! 😊

[@tomjiracek9049]

My intuition says that this truth (being responsible only for what you can change) could cure my anxiety

[@ohharshuparshu]

Thank you for creating a hub where I not only get to enjoy watching these thought provoking videos but also enjoy reading some of the insightful comments on this channel 💙

[@woodandvanilla]

thankyou, you taught me alot today

[@tonidoingstuff]

Hello from New Zealand :) Here are three haikus inspired by three statements in this video "Thinking makes it so" Free yourself today From self-imposed slavery The whip in your mind "What stands in the way becomes the way" Whether poor or rich Frugality will remain Your most faithful guide "Learn to be indifferent to indifferent things" To accept what is Take responsibility Only in your stride Another great video, kind sir - thank you, very much

[@someonesjournal1]

How can I be indifferent towards the injustice taking place in the world? how can this injustice be changed if everyone was indifferent?? Even if it's out of our control, we can at least draw attention to it so the ones in control can change it 🙁

[@davesharma8946]

Marcus aurelius says,"You can also commit injustice by doing nothing." Remember, the stoics were all about virtues, and when they talk about indifference, it is different from the conventional meaning(to show no emotions). Indifference, at least in marcus aurelius terms means to not get overwhelmed by emotions, whether something good happens to you or something bad, and to see the thing for what it is and then commit virtuous act. Standing up against injustice is something that aligns with stoic principles, and a great example of it is marcus cato, who stood up against the tyranny of Julius Ceasar. Apologies for my bad grammar 😅

[@daviddaley8581]

This guy is amazing ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🇨🇦

[@-lee7867]

u are very well spoken .. needed to hear this.

[@silverapples4197]

i'm so glad to find your channel. this is the second video of you that i watched. you are very helpful.

[@Notallthatwanderarelost]

Such wise words !! So glad i found your channel. Shall binge watch tomorrow 🙂

[@katatarot597]

This is certainly helpful, especially when things in life go really bad, which they did for me recently. It almost looks like we are being tested to become better versions of ourselves. Maybe also being this resilient is one of the ways of becoming wiser. Thank you.

[@mindyobusiness60]

You just gained a new subscriber because your demeanor is very warm and welcoming, also your words are simple but powerful. developing the ability to listen with pure or the right intent

[@margerdei]

Once again, another thoughtful and insightful video - thank you.

[@Unknown-q2j6r]

awesome video, watching this at 1am and gave me a good deal of perspective you rock man!

[@konnorjames5615]

For the past little while I’ve felt like I’ve falling of the path of a good life, Watching your videos help me feel like I’m finding my way back

[@kewlrob2]

Thanks!

[@acceptingtheuniverse]

Thank you!

[@margueritecurtis2168]

Just discovered your videos, love them. Have shared them with friends. Thanks 😘

[@weierhai4112]

Some of your videos, I watch them more than once.

[@OlliesLoveHealing]

The worst thing that ever happened to me was the greatest thing that ever happened to me. I went from 40 years of narcissistic abuse to working towards total liberation and individuation. Ill more than likely be capable of helping others heal themselves, which is an eternal gift and worth every moment of abuse i experienced. I sacrificed a Dysfunctional family for the Real 🌍❤🎉😊

[@Lameeslily]

What a wise intelligent knowledgeable handsome man! I’m sending you lots of love💕 God bless you

[@Judge_RR]

You are clearly a scholar, Mr., but you also double as a psychologist. And you read, and share this wisdom here with us. Thank you.

[@soloreading]

Thank you for this. Only recently discovered your channel this week and just got fired from my job yesterday. I’ve been exploring a lot of new passions and have been really trying to better myself and grow as a person this year. I was so focused on my personal stuff my performance started dropping at work a lot. This led to me ultimately being let go. I had the hardest time going to sleep. Regretting and questioning everything I had done that led to that point. It’s now the 2nd night and I’m in bed again with the same problem. This is where your video has reached me. As sad as I am to have this black mark on my record, this is also a chance to learn and grow from my mistakes. I will turn my failure into an opportunity.

[@pesoperro111]

indifferent to indifferent things, finally 🔥

[@caty9995]

Thank you. I needed to hear this today. ❤

[@DS40764]

You are absolutely correct. Thanks for your contributions here. A lot to ponder.

[@shelbourne2875]

He gotta make a video on how to be a good speaker in a way that people would want to sit and listen to your words. How to keep the flow, use the right words, and be relatable to other people's experiences. Just like the way he is!

[@user-kj2gf1cn1p]

I am beyond words of gratitude for your channel and you taking the time to share the wisdom youve come to learn through life so openly and loving. I've been wanting to start my own channel of the same sort.... Just talk. Find like minded people and maybe even leave an impact along the way.

[@Bursleygirl]

We do colour our thoughts and it is self imposed.I’m learning to let go,practice mindfulness and appreciate everything that blesses my day,not give energy to things outside of my control and not to put obstacles in the way of things that are.It’s a process and happiness for me is in nature and seeing the beauty,the rest then becomes less significant.

[@leonardgeorgiev2394]

Neo is sharing his wisdom. KZbin is a treasure.

[@Kerrviii]

This helped me gain logic when I really needed it. Thank you

[@none377]

I needed this video. Thank you, and I'm glad I discovered your channel.

[@WildAntics13]

I tried so hard to keep ignoring the facts that my marriage is over long time ago. But because i am brains-washed to believe that i need to keep it because of beliefs of religion. I call it quits no matter what people think. My health suffers after long time keeping it together, lost my job , my daughter is taken away and find my self in a dark room crying isolated for the last 3 months without seeing the outside the world i feel like a failed as a mother. Then it hits me no matter what i will be grateful even to simple things even to the breath of life! I choose to grateful every morning, I learned to sell things, and become minimalist and find ways I discovered meditation breath works and realize if those things didn’t happened to me i will never be able to be grateful, I always pride myself achieving everything I want I control everything until it happens! I was able to look and smell the flowers and realize my life is not bad after all. 😊❤

[@ameeraalgahmdi1111]

For me now I want to sit a lot with nature and a very, very little with humans

[@sherrybuckner377]

Me too, and I do.

[@durdanakarim4345]

My dad passed away a bit over a year ago and I lost my happiness for living for such a long time since then. This video popped up in my live after asking the universe so much to find meaning again! ❤❤❤

[@manzar42]

what a pleasure to start the day in your company, good words, a cool new hair style!

[@Amarmi579]

I just found your channel this week, and I love your content and the way you communicate it 👍

[@True-kq6ic]

Yes! Mr. Miyagi way of thinking!! 'Wax on, wax off " Sand the floor" "Paint the fence" Exercise the mind( training) til you're in control and you dont put energy into things that you shouldn't 13:12 . I will have to start training lol You are very wise 🦉 thank you😊

[@sydrii]

It is worth mentioning that while you should be indifferent to indifferent things, this does not mean you should act indifferently to these things. Indifference to our happiness, not indifference to our actions. Say you are walking to the bus stop and it unexpectedly starts raining. You shouldn’t be upset at the rain or the fact you are now wet, but you should still act rationally and seek shelter from the rain. Someone steals one of your possessions - your happiness should be unaffected but you should still rationally pursue the steps to try get the possession back if it would be worthwhile to do so. Indifference to our happiness, not indifference to our actions.

[@marianneginalski7564]

Very good point indeed. We must not forget that we live in a relative world and that certain things must get done to be able to go on/function as human beings with needs.

[@sissalovesbeingalive]

Excellent video!!!!!!!!!!👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 I hope you keep reaching more and more people!🤗🤗

[@323martyrstreet8]

I like that you talk about lying.. really like had to lie to survive and now i want to come back on the way of truth. If it's possible. I'm not perfect..

[@lefl_1]

It’s true, sometimes people are in situations where they need to lie to survive, or even not to be killed.

[@max_s557]

Watching your videos are like having a private conversation with a close friend....thank you.

[@elenabrnvo]

Wow, perfect timing in my life for this, it feels magical. Thanks for sharing and inspiring 🤍

[@AdrianThonyNava]

Brother, your content is great. And that’s in your control. I truly hope you are going great

[@alfredoistic]

Hey man, just wanted to say, I'm a huge fan of your videos, dude. Thanks a ton for always sharing your thoughts and knowledge about this stuff, It's a constant challenge, it's like trying to navigate through a maze of opinions without getting lost in the urge to slap a "good" or "bad" sticker on everything, very interesting video thanks a lot !

[@MaddalenaPB]

Hello! Just discovered your channel (lol was going to write challenge! ) and wanted to say Hi! I perceive Aquarius/Gemini energy here :D Thank you for being (you!). Bye!

[@metallicmuse]

Two things: Firstly, I've really been struggling with this lately so thank you! Much appreciated. Really and truly. Secondly, I've listened to every one of your lectures (a lot of them more than once) and I'd like to know: Do you find that there is a point where or when Philosophy and Metaphysics (my specialty) intersect? The reason I ask is because you often mention a lot of the same points that ring true in the realm of Metaphysics. The only thing I've not heard you mention directly is the concept of energetic frequency and how it applies to essentially everything we know and experience in our lives. Beyond that, I would go so far as to say they're "companion concepts" in a way. I'd love to hear your thoughts on this if you're willing to discuss the two concepts a bit further.

[@yasesaka]

As a person who find her life during the 4 years in a good way, I'd like to say that the definition of happiness has various types of ways to elaborate. What we can imply in our lives about the happiness from all of these stochastic philosophers or other thinkers like Marcus Aurelius told us 2000 years ago Life may not give you what you want, but it will give you what you need. Life is yours, not anyone else. What I infer during these years myself is utterly giving the ultimate importance to myself by my hands rather than waiting for external factors. Greetings.

[@JimmyJ1983]

Another helpful and meaningful video ❤❤❤

[@amnakhuu]

Thank you so much! I needed this 🫂

[@sandradavis6760]

Yes, I am learning not to define people when we disagree because by doing so causes a separation which equals negativity and superiority. I choose not to participate easier said than done I must admit. I am a constant work of art, though it may be bright or dark I will continue to strive for for the brightest path.

[@para.podcast]

Wise words, well said.

[@pinkpalace6117]

Your voice is so calming ❤

[@Yvefutura]

Your videos are very soothing haha

[@syj2612]

Is the pursuit of happiness truly attainable? This is the question I have asked myself frequently this week. I’ve come to the conclusion to just “Be”. Such a simple concept appears to be the most profound one. Thank you as always, your weekly topics seem to consistently fall in alignment or challenge me to think from a different perspective.

[@1989kd]

Everything in moderation is my go-to.

[@syj2612]

@@1989kd thank you for sharing what works for you. Would you mind elaborating more?

[@aa-ml6ud]

Your voice is so soothing I want to fall asleep

[@alanfleming196]

This video helped me a lot today. God bless you.

[@A.s.s.777]

I do love your videos just for the content and the message you are spreading. But I must say that your pace, speaking slowly and taking your time, is very dearing to me. I am a slow speaker, I like to think carefully about words and what I really want to say, but somehow is disconnected with my enviroment at present. So I thank you for that.

[@marissaclaridge7627]

Such a lovely videoxxxthank you❤

[@frostytipsasmr]

wow this was perfect timing, came at the right time in my life.

[@outofsomewhereoutofnowhere3751]

Love your videos and the wisdom

[@miley22945]

DON'T LET THEM BOTHER YOU ,JUST KNOW YOUR VALUE ❤