Don't Make THIS Mistake with Him if You Want HIM to Want More!

[@fareenashofficial]

How to Stop Sabotaging Relationships with Men: Link: fareenash.myflodesk.com/stopsabotage

[@asha4189]

Biggest takeaway: Don’t help a man pursue you. Men know how to get what they want, don’t help them ✨

[@fareenashofficial]

Bingo

[@KevonnieElaine]

“Why would you help a man pursue you?” Whew! Stepping on my toes😭!

[@fareenashofficial]

You’d be surprised!

[@MarinaAmerica]

My mom doing everything for my dad and dad doing everything for her! 😊

[@fareenashofficial]

Yup! They’re married 🤍 That’s beautiful

[@nicolabuck3380]

We were taught as girls to serve and give for someone else's happiness

[@fareenashofficial]

Bingo!

[@Neoteny374]

As a man, we love that about women, but remember your man (the one you're going to want) has a desire to provide for you. One of the wonderful things about a feminin woman is her ability to recieve graciously. It activates our hero instinct. Find a kind, generous man and recieve graciously.

[@khadijaaithmid5536]

​@@Neoteny374 Well said ❤ thank u

[@Mdtoger23]

The problem too…with men in this time is that they want to be catered too…where are the men that actually want to play their part well!!?

[@fareenashofficial]

They are there!

[@Supsup7777]

If it’s too much work on the woman’s end walk away… he isn’t interested.

[@vidhiharia9546]

A part of us always craves the men's attention.

[@gabrielamartiniuc6322]

Why even bother with a man that is not interested in you? 😬 A man recently approached me at the gym . We have been talking for a few weeks and he’s definitely pursuing and doing things for me. I’m definitely not available for anything physical until we get to know each other more.

[@fareenashofficial]

That’s perfect!

[@justsomeideas9594]

I learned this lesson the hard way. But nonetheless learned it. Thanks for always confirming what I already knew what to do. I always look forward to your videos and posts😊

[@fareenashofficial]

I always look forward to your comments!

[@effortlesssuccess2585]

It’s not to do less, I think you mean to reciprocate. The masculine energy is to initiate and lead. The feminine energy is to receive and reciprocate.

[@fareenashofficial]

Nope, I mean to do less 🤍

[@effortlesssuccess2585]

@@fareenashofficial Using the word “less” is not precise or accurate because it implies being lazy. What you’re meaning to say is allow the man to lead and initiate. The women are suppose to reciprocate and match his energy.

[@sonja2944]

I think she said what she meant. Do less. She didn’t say be lazy. She didn’t say don’t reciprocate. She didn’t say do nothing. She said “Do less.” Be okay in the space where you just receive from your man. Be grateful for his generosity and thoughtfulness but you don’t have to match it (not in the same way).

[@effortlesssuccess2585]

@@sonja2944 Like I said, the word “less” can be misinterpreted by many women. She never said be lazy, I said the word implies “being lazy.” It has a subtle connotation of not putting in effort. And if you do not think you need to match his energy in the dating game, honey, you might as well not play the game at all. This is all about energy. Giving and receiving. Women who think like this, that you do not need to match a man’s energy will be the ones wondering why he is not texting me??

[@user_abcxyzz]

​@sonja2944 there needs to be reciprocity. Nobody is superior over the other. That would be putting them on a pedestal.

[@DM-up9ih]

This is so true! Take notes 📝

[@fareenashofficial]

🤍🤍🤍

[@syedanargis616]

Hey Fareen, You are a blessing in my life Thanks for sharing your wisdom 💖

[@fareenashofficial]

Hi!! Awww thank you for sharing your love with me! I’m happy you’re here 🤍

[@zsszikszai5180]

Your videos are guiding light!

[@fareenashofficial]

Awwww thank you!

[@zsszikszai5180]

❤❤

[@stephanievarela2809]

Glad I saw this today Fareen! I needed this reminder. I matched my gym crush on Bumble, & of course I made the 1st move bc Bumble. But he had no follow-through online or in person. He's not the one! 😅💁🏻‍♀️

[@RidaBade1]

Just got into the video - loving the new set up! 😍😍

[@fareenashofficial]

Yay!!! It’s more comfortable for me too!

[@Didi-fr5ic]

Yeah I want a leader like my daddy, I always feel safe with him :) This is why I don't persue men but I will show interest but that is as far as I'll go..women want leaders. Kinda went of track with that I was thinking tonight should I aproach him and my answer will be no because fareen just reminded me ❤❤❤❤

[@fareenashofficial]

No!!!!!!

[@tikax2085]

This is so helpful and informative, I always say I enjoy your videos but I have started applying your knowledge so I’m thriving. Thank you so much 💖

[@fareenashofficial]

Yes!!! You’re integrating! 🤍🤍

[@tikax2085]

@@fareenashofficial I am and so grateful for you. You are God sent 💖

[@Lindz7650]

This video is so good!! The example of the man in Instagram was super helpful since I’m experiencing something similar. You’re the best Fareen, thank you!!!🥰🥰🥰

[@fareenashofficial]

Oh I’m so glad this was helpful!

[@vikkipink8]

Marriage is amazing!!

[@fareenashofficial]

:)

[@MrsAnaelimont]

Men are shy. I know many men who feel very insecure when the woman is beautiful and has a lot of going on for her... they actually think... na she wont like me....HOWEVER I do agree it doesn't matter if they are shy or not...feminine woman want masculine men who are willing to take risks and be more outgoing than you. Especially online...I find if a man is "shy online" it's because he has deep insecurity issues or not interested. It's usually the guys who ate slightly shy I'm person...who are more outgoing online. I actually think everyone is more balsy online so if he acting shy online when it's so easy not to....run

[@jessicahitchens6926]

Don't deal with them. She is on about real men... I don't consider those men as men 🤣

[@fareenashofficial]

Men are not shy.

[@evolutionbe7150]

perfect timing again lol i've really been struggling with being strong within myself and sometimes I wonder if I am being too revealing, idk. I keep forgetting to "do less" I don't want to take his role, Thanks Fareen 😇

[@fareenashofficial]

As long as he’s coming toward you, that’s what matters! That’s how you’ll know. Don’t overthink! 🤍

[@evolutionbe7150]

@@fareenashofficial omg overthinking again hahaha you're right! 💜

[@fareenashofficial]

@evolutionbe7150 yup!!! It’s ok :)

[@nicolabuck3380]

You're brilliant

[@fareenashofficial]

Thank you 😊 😊

[@fareenashofficial]

Thank you 😊

[@narinehovhannisyan2368]

Bad boys are the most wounded.

[@fareenashofficial]

I think you’re misunderstanding my definition of bad boy :) lol

[@Braveh3artGirl]

Fareen this was such a great video thanks 😊 always look forward to your videos. They teach so much ❤

[@fareenashofficial]

Awww I love this! Thank you for telling me :)

[@KendraHernandez-j5u]

This is great, thank you!

[@fareenashofficial]

You’re welcome! I’m happy it resonated 🤍

[@o.benaicha5272]

Great video, as always, spot on.

[@fareenashofficial]

Thank you! ❤

[@MarinaAmerica]

Man are need to grow up if he don’t know what he wants in his life! Period

[@fareenashofficial]

😆

[@m21285]

Is it possible to come back from a feminine masculine imbalance?

[@sonja2944]

Yes. Just take a step back. Sometimes I’m a blabber mouth and sometimes I’m a vault. It has nothing to do with him, it’s just where I am at the moment.

[@fareenashofficial]

Yes it definitely is possible! Book a call or email session and I can advise you on next steps ❤

[@sabrelou1988]

There's this guy at the gym that keeps staring at me, but never approaches me. I have stared back, and smile at him a few times to basically let him know that I'm interested ... yet nothing. I'm not sure, but I think that he wants me to approach him first, but I absolutely will not! This has been going on for a few months ... I know ... ridiculous. I pretty much have given up on him at this point. I am assuming that he is attracted to me, but that's it ... he was never planning on approaching me. 😕

[@sonja2944]

He may be attracted to you, but not available. Don’t try to catch the bullets. Let it be confirmation of you being attractive and nothing more. “Thank you, sir, I am fire! Recognize! Tell your single and ready friends!”

[@fareenashofficial]

Yuck! His loss ❤

[@XYZ-qu4yq]

It’s okay for a feminine woman to signal to a man you are open to get to know him (strong and one-off signal, not multiple signals as that would be ‘chasing’), but then it’s up to the guy. Let him pursue you after that. If he does purse you - great. If not, just stay happy and open without chasing. It is often the case that it takes months for a man to summon up the courage and step up. But it must come from him to pursue you - it’s a man’s job to pursue a woman and they know what to do.

[@jessicahitchens6926]

Who cares?? Your obviously quite young. The more you mature you won't see this as a big deal. You should know you are attractive. Men stare at beautiful, sexy women everyday.

[@britt_moses]

When do we give them certainty? Ever? As a woman, I like to feel safe, but I’m understanding men don’t want to feel secure in a relationship? And I’ve given certainty already but if I pull back now, would he be thrown by that ? We are almost 3 months in.

[@fionajensen2952]

Can you make a video about this Fareen? Thank you!

[@fareenashofficial]

Great question!

[@fareenashofficial]

If things are working well and you’re happy don’t change anything!

[@reneejohnson7711]

Thank you

[@fareenashofficial]

You're welcome

[@alchemicalsoul]

Humanity is lame. Soul path. Level up from ego.

[@ygtbr]

I’m no guru but I think it depends on the men. I’ve seen women hanging on to them talking really feminine and they like that.cause it makes them feel manly.

[@fareenashofficial]

Always depends on the man, yes

[@Katie_Jo_21]

I have attempted to set up my current life to not have to “have a man”. That said, I deeply desire to just have a family of my own and a man that I can count on. Thanks to you, I have sat back, if a man that I am sure of, has one foot in and out of the door. I always worried, in the past, that the man would find someone else. Or I would worry that he would never return. This year I set a boundary and told a man “I am not looking to torture you, I will meet you half way, later”. (He was not offering courtship, but promising stuff) And I walked away and meant it. He has quietly been working on himself. Which naturally has made me do the same. The path forward is actually 💯 brighter.

[@fareenashofficial]

Yessssssss!!!!!! 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍

[@Katie_Jo_21]

@@fareenashofficial ❤️ 💕 The cool thing that I did not expect is that I would do solo work too. I thought in the early days of your videos that you were “extra conservative” but truly you are NOT at all. You are trying to teach women how to have an equal push and pull in relationships. Which can create more freedom for both people. ❤️ Thank you Fareen

[@fareenashofficial]

@jaccrazy21 bingo! I am conservative. Although from a place of power and knowing a woman’s worth 🤍

[@Katie_Jo_21]

@@fareenashofficial Exactly! I hope others stick it out to see that as well. Best of luck in the future. Will update you how it goes 👍🏻

[@fareenashofficial]

@jaccrazy21 please do!!!!!!

[@Teyxo07]

Can you give some advice regarding someone that I'm talkin with? He seems safe and secure but seems careful at the same time. We're always in contact but hasn't talked the serious talk but his actions seems affirming like he makes time to see me..i really like him but don't wanna rush as well.., does this video apply even to my condition as well

[@fareenashofficial]

Hello! Every situation is different! I’d need to know more to provide proper insight. Feel free to take what resonates from the video and definitely send me an email question or book a call for input on your situation. You can find all the links above!

[@coletteharubella2434]

Do you think a ‘Bad boy’ can be a high value man? 🤔 (genuinely asking)

[@fareenashofficial]

Most bad boys are… they don’t appear to be a bad boy or try to be a bad boy..

[@petter9078]

There are given tips here does not apply to me. A lot of men are shy and even insecure, but put on the mask. Those are the ones you want to filter out by taking a step back. Because they will reveal themselves and show their authentic selves. If they stay the same, confident, supportive, knows what they want, they are not afraid to call you out, etc, and you like them. I highly suggest you start opening up a bit more and showing a deeper interest in them. SoMe men bond emotionally!! Good luck ladies.

[@fareenashofficial]

Don’t buy into that.

[@petter9078]

@@fareenashofficial Hey. I am not english native, what do you mean by dont buy into that?

[@fareenashofficial]

@petter9078 always trust that men are not shy and insecure! The right one will always do what he has to do to win you over :)

[@alexandriat5950]

🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@fareenashofficial]

🤍🤍

[@sahi122]

You look beautiful .... brown or black hair will suit you more perfectly if you dont mind you can try that look❤

[@fareenashofficial]

Thanks!

[@user_abcxyzz]

Are you her husband? 😂 why would you think it's appropriate to ask that. She doesn't even know you. Weird.

[@sahi122]

@@user_abcxyzz first of all am a girl . Second I'm her follower and I adore her I ask her like I would ask to my older sister to do ....don't try to look super cool infront of her nothing will come into your hands ok bye werdo

[@user_abcxyzz]

​@@sahi122 it's INAPROPRIATE. Similar to asking a woman her age or her weight...you just don't do it! At least where im from 😂

[@zsszikszai5180]

❤❤❤

[@fareenashofficial]

❤❤

[@jflsdknf]

I don't believe all women desire or have to have men or commitment, no idea why you'd lump all women into that category.

[@sarahsawrie]

I love everything you teach 🥰 It’s everything I’ve never learned and everything I need. Just the best. Thank you!!! 🩶🩶🩶

[@fareenashofficial]

You are so welcome!

[@kalli971]

Soooo much informative! Thank you 🙏🏽

[@fareenashofficial]

You’re very welcome!

[@MargaretBuj_InterviewCoach]

Such a great video!

[@fareenashofficial]

Thank you!!