Don't Tell Me How to Dress 😡 - Mufti Menk

People say "DON'T TELL ME HOW TO DRESS! DON'T TELL ME WHAT TO WEAR. WHO ON EARTH ARE YOU?"
We say...
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[@maryamjaffer9707]

some cultures tend to think that this concept applies only to women and it really infuriates me. it applies to both men and women

[@fatimahaiderr]

Facts

[@omarkanaanalmelhem7022]

And say to the believing women that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty; that they should not display their beauty and ornaments except what (must ordinarily) appear thereof; that they should draw their veils over their bosoms and not display their beauty except to their husbands, dont spread shit from ur head😊 (Surah al nur 24:31)

[@ahershey8523]

@@omarkanaanalmelhem7022 and men are told to lower their gaze- never quote Quran and use such disgusting words - shame on you-

[@rosetheblackrose5340]

@@omarkanaanalmelhem7022 lol it applies to both men and women, why do you men think Allah excluded you you nothing but beings just like us and he watches you if you abuse your power. Men also have awrah which should not be exposed and should be covered properly

[@shahla2906]

@@rosetheblackrose5340 EXACTLY Especially attractive men should be modest and cover their bodies. Modest would save them from lust and evil eyes

[@amirahx3606]

100% true, the society we live in make it the norm to remove your clothes. To cover up is oppressed in their eyes, but it is not their eyes we should be concerned about. We should be concerned about our value in the eyes of Allāh swt.

[@muaazayaz5001]

Yes. Nowadays, the so called "open minded" Muslims, especially celebrities think that no one should criticize them of their clothing. Muslim girl celebrities just keep on posting their vulgar pics on Instagram and if anyone criticizes them, they just ask the individual to unfollow. I mean what the hell man, don't you want to go to heaven? Instead you should be thankful that someone is guiding you on the right path, many people are not even able to access these guidance.

[@yourfriendlyneighborhoodte2380]

@@muaazayaz5001 True, but we should always be respectful and kind when explaining. I’ve seen people do this rudely and do they think that Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) ever did that to people? No, he was always very kind and gentle with his words, because he understood that being rude or mean with your words would get you nowhere and could in fact cause people to move away from Islam. Kindness is always the way to guide people. And instead of calling people out in public, I think it’s better to inform them privately as it’s more respectful.

[@sadmansakib6043]

@@muaazayaz5001 lol, they don’t want to. And why should they be thankful for strangers annoying them and bothering them? That’s just plain rude and disgusting behaviour. If they post vulgar pics and you are following them and you do not like them, then just unfollow them!!! And if you are following Islam why are you seeing those pictures in the first place? And why are you following them when you should stay away from this type of sins according to our religion?🤔. First start to be kind and respectful. Go and talk with them privately and just talk with them once rather than forcing your opinion! And How would you like if someone breaks into your house and takes away your telivision and phone and says that you should be grateful as he took away the things which took away most of your time? And you should be grateful now because you can read the Quran now instead of watching TV or doing things on your phone?

[@slaveofallah8355]

@Anshul Gupta Men need to cover too brother. Their chests knees and they can't wear tight clothing. Both men and women.

[@slaveofallah8355]

@Anshul Gupta Face mask? You mean Niqab. That's really not necessary. You just need to wear Hijab. But you should also know we humans have a choice. If you don't want to wear the hijab there's consequences for it in the after life same with men. If a men or women commits lets say murder there's also consequences for that. Everything we do good or bad we will see it in the afterlife. You can follow islam by your choice if you want no ones forcing you. There's no compulsion in religion. You are asking why hijab is the hijab only for women? You must understand the hijab is a connection with our Lord ITS way we fully show our submission to only one God. Men can also dress in a way to show their submission to the absolute one. With a beard or a qamis. Men and women are equal in different ways. There things allowed for men and things allowed for women and theres also things forbidden for both genders.

[@alimaxion2005]

The problems of mankind begun when he thought he knew better than the Creator

[@PeaceOffmate]

Very Well said.

[@excursion8046]

true

[@iamnobs1462]

You thought like creator

[@CoronIslandFreediver]

Lol like ther prophet who dont know how to have not a slave

[@muskansiddikee2171]

Wisdom ❤️❤️❤️

[@desertrat2320]

I am not a Muslim. I am wanting to learn about Islam. I really respect what you have said here about how this applies to both men and women. Thank you for your video. May Allah bless you.

[@jazeelathayyil8131]

Iam preparing for a competitive examination.I had dropped 2 years for that.Guys pls pray for me to get a reputed govt medical college in India..Plsss

[@naheedsultana568]

Inshallah Ameen. I'll

[@raabia936]

Inshallah

[@abduladil7332]

In sha Allah may you get high rank in your neet exam work hard and then trust in Allah, try your best and leave everything up-to May Allah fulfil your dreams ameen

[@queenal7710]

Please keep us updated

[@aliya7073]

I am also Neet aspirant 2022. Inshallah u will get the selection.

[@euphoniousmelodies3588]

Thumbnails of Mufti Menk's video never failed to get attention ~

[@rfchaudry]

Yeaaah, so dramatic lol 🤣

[@keypop3832]

I’m a girl totally covered but I still find problems everywhere! The problem I think is not in what we are wearing is in others brain that see us only as a body !

[@HaseebSyed234]

Yes modesty is not just for women but also for men. Almighty says if you see a women to lower your gaze .

[@NN-dx1lp]

You are absolutely right sister, some of them have problems. But the point to note is, we women must take the precaution to safeguard ourselves. You don’t walk Infront of hyena, and complain if they bite. And they are answerable to Allah SWT for their actions as well. Also, I’m pretty confident, whatever problems you have faced being covered, you would have faced 10-fold if you weren’t covered. (Telling this from experience).

[@madiha6232]

@Abdullah Abtahee I realize that your purpose was to encourage her to cover herself, but it feels like your way of doing it was very wrong. Please do not refer to women as just a body (which to me seemed akin to flesh) and understand that we are both equal in the eyes of Allah, and that women and men cover for the sake of Allah, and both genders also lower their gaze for the sake of Allah. Sorry if that was not your intention, but your words could be very badly misunderstood.

[@madiha6232]

​@Abdullah Abtahee I literally cannot understand what you're trying to say, because you are contradicting yourself. Are you saying that women are just a body? Or that they are not just a body? What is it that I need to accept?

[@madiha6232]

@Abdullah Abtahee Ahhhh I see what you're trying to say. You're saying that men are animals and only see women as flesh, and thats why women's bodies are used as commercial advertisement. If you're that type of man, never speak to me again, lmaoooo

[@puggy4891]

He needs a podcast. His voice is just nice to hear after a long day.

[@archivedbymai]

He has one!! Look on muslim central

[@puggy4891]

@@archivedbymai thank you so much! Alhamdulillah

[@حمار_وحشي]

@@puggy4891 هلا ميمونه

[@naromarova9934]

Respecting others and treating them well should be unconditional, not based on how they dress.

[@coffeyplaysgames]

Nice excuse but you know this is the truth you're more likely to get harassed sexually when you're not dressed well this is the nature of some men

[@thedarklord5129]

So true. Prophet Muhammad married minor Aisha because it was legal during medieval times. He married her because of her wits. Feels so horrible how people these days are having rigid morality. If it's okay for a woman to wear man's clothes, why are men shamed for wearing woman's clothes? All because of the rigid gender roles and morality. I like to cross dress sometimes. I love the experience of feeling like a woman. I wish humans can be more mature and understand that having new experiences and also having personal values that are not common are okay and perfectly normal. Since our life is already such a limited thing. Though we are timeless beings of the universe. I wish people are more accepting and understanding. I love Allah, even though I'm not a muslim. I'm a Hindu by birth. I've attained enlightenment after so much depression and suffering. I will live to my best for the rest of my life. Being altruistic.

[@MessiAddiction]

@@thedarklord5129 Sister you have misunderstood....our prophet doesn't marry Hazrat aisha only for wits or because its his best friend's daughter....it's an order of allah..as she will play a great impact on islam later on... and now about wearing.. woman are prohibited to dress like a man..same goes for man... and if you say you love allah..then also you know if you are feeling like wearing like woman...that's saitan winning over you... Lastly it's completely upto you....

[@prinsessaization]

My thought exactly! Every person should respect eachother differences. We cannot control how individual chooses to wear but we can control what we think about it. If you train your mind to respect people how ever to dress then that will be your thoughtform and hopefully continue to expand your thinking from there on.

[@mohammedazwil7407]

Mufti menk's way of explaining is just masterpiece

[@ZeenathFaritha]

MaaShaa Allah! Very well said in a very soft tone 👌 Also, remember not to judge the book by the cover! May Allah guide us and protect us! Aameen 🤲

[@ZeenathFaritha]

@@JahannamHellfire MaaShaa Allah! Very good job of going in depth to make your point. I agree with you 100% on where today’s world is going. Among all the distractions, if someone is trying so hard to stick with Deen, that’s the true Jihad. Allah knows the inner struggles what each soul goes through. May Allah The Merciful forgive us, guide us and protect us ! Allahumma Aameen Ya Rabbul Aalameen!🤲🙏

[@Essexgirl87]

Ameen 🤲🏼

[@ThePathOfDeen]

Islam is the true religion. I invite you to learn more about your faith :)

[@ceesaykunda3533]

Masha Allah love you brother

[@ceesaykunda3533]

@@tafsirislamicreminders6298 I love imam mufti my brother in Islam who love Islam like me

[@ceesaykunda3533]

Yes we have to be one love one family's like al Muslim akhul Muslim for me I love all muslims but for him he have a especial love

[@seeker5313]

- اللّهم صلّ على سيدّنا مُحمد. 💛Quran recitations if you’re interested. 🕊 💛☁️🌿 🤲🏻🤲🏻💙💙 💖💝💓😊😅💜💙

[@seeker5313]

@Salma Gulzar - اللّهم صلّ على سيدّنا مُحمد. 💛Quran recitations if you’re interested. 🕊 💛☁️🌿 🤲🏻🤲🏻💙💙 💖 💟😔

[@mohammad4388]

His voice is so calm and it is really a good way of explaining others when you are not in the mood! Mashallah

[@maryamegal2016]

The Way mufti Menk is explaining , is the right way! I love listen to his words!

[@sarahb6758]

Wow I needed this right now. I started wearing niaqab today . JazakAllah kheirn Mufti Menk. I love u for the sake of Allah from London.

[@linabouamri4375]

Mashallah May allah make it easy to you my beautiful sister🤍 i’m still struggling with wearing abaya and a small khimar.

[@SuperServentofAllah]

May Allah swt make our beloved sisters stronger in this religion. Every time u are keeping yourself away from fitna for the men and helping a brother keep chaste and away from fornication. You will get the reward of their steadfastness. (their praying, dua to Allah swt, their loyalty to their wives etc). Same with the brothers when u stay away from the evil desires and choose to not approaching and staring at the opposite gender. Every time she is a more loyal to her parents, husband. Her children, her family and her relegious commitment to Allah swt. For sure u will get reward if u choose to oppose your evil intentions to make it easy for one another to attain the mercy of Allah swt.

[@rahatuljannat604]

Omg alhamdulillah mabrook!! U've taken one of the best decisions in ur life and may Allah make it easy for u and help u remain steadfast! Never look back! EVER! HOLD ONTO IT!

[@nightj9396]

😍😍😍😍😍 🤩✨💎💎💎💎

[@idkwhybut...]

Congrats, sister!

[@DeadliciousCookingStudio]

Whoever is reading this, May Allah bless you all with success, health, happiness, patience and strength. May all your dreams come true and may you live the life that you have always dreamed of. May Allah bless you with victory in this life and eternal life too. Ameen!

[@FK-cg8el]

Amen

[@Everything__halal]

Ameen Ya Allah

[@tayelawan6302]

I m so glad that the world still has people like you Guiding us and reminding about everything May ALLAH bless you in both worlds

[@semirah1371]

Masha Allah, this explanation has opened my heart to dress more modestly nowwww INSHAALLAH

[@carlasylla2262]

I like how you said to tell the person without judgement. This is very important!

[@sarahb6758]

May Allah reward you for this! Ameen. This is soooo encouraging. It means so much to me. Please don't stop trying to help us for HIS sake.

[@Hoopfinesse]

Subhanallah I love this shaykh

[@zainaaa7454]

Alhumduliah this video helped me gain more confidence in wearing hijab .Thank you Mufti Menk !!😃

[@Repentancejourney]

This is bigger topic in the islamic communities however many parents fail this responsibility.therefore thank you for doing this video!may allah reward you well inshallah

[@samsardar]

Is True. .good comment May Allah blessing you so much Allahumlilalh 🌹

[@ea5307]

We should not say inshallah after making Dua . Don't be confused . , Mufti Menk have a vedio about it

[@cognoscenti3503]

Kind sir your words made me so happy. Although I live in an Islamic country but listening to "don't tell me how to dress or don't tell me Islam" it makes me so sad to hear these things coming from a Muslim brother or sister. Even people thinks the one who's in appealing clothes is modern.. if exposing my body for people makes me modern or appealing for people around me.... i don't want to be modern. I feel so confident in my niqab and hijab i feel like i can conquer anything and everything. I feel protected. Thank you sir for raising your voice on the topic.

[@zahraahmed7999]

❤❤❤ The best clothes are the clothing of taqwa mashaAllah

[@aayeshaabbasi8483]

❤

[@ItsssElsa]

WEAR STYLISH CLOTHES BUT FULLY COVERED☺❤❤

[@K.Bye.0_0]

And loose fitting.

[@momina2424]

@@K.Bye.0_0 ✔

[@shahla2906]

Wear whatever you wanna wear - feminists

[@bangtanxseventendarknight4032]

@@shahla2906 what????

[@coffeyplaysgames]

@@shahla2906 feminism is fitnah worst thing ever feminism were created for women who no one wants to marry such hateful women should have no place in this planet hating men but still using their services

[@sayeeda_Q]

MashaAllah! This is such a relevant topic. Thankyou Mufti Menk. May Allah Bless you!

[@theecologist10]

Mufti Menk is the only person I can listen to about sensitive topics such as this, mashAllah he has a beautiful way of explaining things and dresses brilliantly himself

[@losasakarosa9050]

I suffered with body dysmorphia becuase I felt my body looked ugly in certain tight/ revealing clothing. I felt that I needed to lose weight to look more desirable in those clothes, watching this video really put things into perspective because it made me realize that its not necessarily how your body looks in the clothing, its how you choose to cover it/ what you choose to show. It's no body's bussiness to judge what every curve of your body looks like. Once you cover up you gain a sense of power and privacy that your body is yours and nobody else's. You are less likely to be objectified and judged for how you look. You are no longer enslaved to standards and false beleifs of what is 'beautiful'.

[@shahla2906]

Uhm Biology defines what is beautiful for men and women . And biology is right. The ideal male and female body is above average and something hard to achieve.but its not impossible. . Many men and women feel insecure about their body. Modesty might help them. Hijab too

[@shahla2906]

Well lots of men and women use their bodies to gain attention and attraction. . Its normal biology for humans to do this. But doesn't mean its right. We should be controlling ourselves and lowering our gaze and Also observing out Hijab/modesty

[@mohamedabdelazim5788]

Why not just respect people in general there are many women that are selfish and evil that cover up as well, also you have to have a life and ignore people that judge you. You cannot test a person by coving up, think of it this way If I have a exam paper can I just cover up the paper and say I have passed the test no that’s not how it works.

[@nightj9396]

‼️‼️‼️‼️ Right !!!!! So disgusting how when I used to wear tight and short clothes I’d get praises to the point it was overwhelming and I starved myself and did rlly unhealthy things to lose weight, but when I wore looser clothes I felt 1000x better without a bunch of VULTURES gawking at me. It’s always I’m too fat and disgusting the second I gain 5 pounds but when I lose it wowwwww so beautiful. 😑😑😑😑😑 This is why modest clothes are way prettier and for our protection🥰😍😍✨✨✨ I dress w nice sparkling clothes and jewelry & feel way better. No one has the right to be staring at every curve in my body anyways. Astaghfirullah

[@nightj9396]

@@mohamedabdelazim5788 🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲💜💜

[@MohamedAhmed-wc3pw]

Whenever I see a women that's dressed modestly, in my head, I see her as much more beautiful.

[@irfanamdislamic6799]

Plz Brother 🔴🔔☝🏼 do ,brother it will be very useful to me 🥺

[@marcinrogalski5847]

Women don't wear clothes for men.

[@attacktitan703]

Bro that's not the point, we're not dressing up modestly to gain appreciative nods from men, please don't make someone's faith your fetish, it's very disrespectful to us.

[@attacktitan703]

@@JahannamHellfire This is so sad 😔

[@theecologist10]

@@JahannamHellfire huh, but wouldn't the first one be wondering where he is half the time?

[@nadjiao1832]

I need mufti menk to do an asmr video. His voice is so comforting.

[@Is_kitchen]

Wallah you are wisdom, words of light! may Allah rewart it to you❤️ i wish everyone knew how to speak to others like you do 😭❤️

[@bettinabottrell9865]

May Allah bless and keep you Mufti Menk. Your gentleness but firmness in teaching us is wonderful. Alhumdulillah.

[@LLLadySSS]

You'd be surprised... I once went out and was wearing long clothes and hijab but I still got sexually harassed. That is horrible and may Allah punish them.

[@themercifulguard3971]

Yes. It shows how some cowards are still willing to harass you despite you dressing modestly. That’s the reality of harassers and rapists. Clothing doesn’t stop them from doing what they want but may punishments befall upon them and that we wear the hijab not to only protect our modesty but mainly for Allah.

[@islamicgirl101]

This reminds of verses 59-60 in surah ahzab “O, Prophet (pbuh)tell your wives and daughters, and the women of the faithful to draw their wraps a little over them. They will thus be recognized and no harm will come to them. God is forgiving and kind” “If the hypocrites and perverts of Madinah do not desist even now, We shall rouse you against them, so they would not be able to live but a short time in the city with you”

[@Ahsan_Rehan]

By wearing less clothes you can only get attraction not Respect

[@MyKathylee]

That's the problem like there...telling pple they dnt get respect if dressed less. All humans and living beings deserve respect regardless. Each have a choice to lower gaze and conduct ourselves accordingly. Dressing provocatively dosent warrant sexual abuse - pathetic reasoning. Allah has given self controll, commonsense n much more. Has he not? That's the problem with muslims these days hypocrites being haram police. What are doing kn tiktok too..its just filth...

[@Ahsan_Rehan]

@@MyKathylee don't argue with me argue with Allah if you want to he said women to dress properly not me i think you haven't readed SURAH AHZAB yet. And yes mans and women's both should lower there gaze.

[@MyKathylee]

@@Ahsan_Rehan First of all it wasent an argument. I was advocating for ALL humans to get respect n dignity regardless. Pple want to judge whether a person deserves respect. do u read & understand or just respond. I was also referring to muslims n non muslims .

[@MyKathylee]

My response was to ur comment which implies pple with less clothes dnt get respect. Did the prophet say dnt respect such pple or is that what men have decided to do cos of their own judgement.

[@MyKathylee]

@Samsam Abdillahi depends whose point ur referring to. Cos it wasn't menk's.

[@NOORCHANNEL0123]

Alhamdulillah... So thankful to see this video... ❤️

[@hamidabithi7535]

JazakAllahu khair for the reminder

[@smittywerbenjaggermanjensen69]

,,Its my life, my body and therefore my choice" Its NOT our lives, NOT our bodies and NOT our choices. We need to get over our arrogance as humans

[@ahmedalbdry3212]

@@SS-mu3tj he is right. We have free choice that’s true, but it’s not our body, we don’t get tattoos because it’s not our body. We will return to Allah and we cannot ruin this beautiful body created by Allah.

[@mohdafnan8278]

@@SS-mu3tj so what if a person choice is to rape a girl???

[@maida4608]

Exactly!

[@jesan733]

@@SS-mu3tj you're right. And I choose to disobey and to disbelieve. There is no god and there is no afterlife.

[@jesan733]

@@SS-mu3tj I won't be questioned, and neither will you. We will be equal in death, in nothingness, in the complete lack of consciousness. But I will live this life to its fullest, and you'll live this life for the false promise of a reward in the afterlife.

[@winkfish]

Once we dress modestly not only do we have more pride as a muslim but our modesty will also save us from so many other scenarios

[@everythingandmore5537]

In iran if a woman does not cover her hair she can be sentenced to jail and / or pay a fine.

[@ourtimousaaw1278]

@@everythingandmore5537 that's not Islamic related, more towards a radical government with minimal understanding

[@ThemDessertz]

From my point of view a revert to Islam a lot of people tried to teach me when they did not understand themselves a lot of times people talked from a cultural point of view rather than an Islamic point. And they talked harshly rather than trying to say in an understanding way, or to even point me where in the Quran to look to find the answers, I struggled especially with dressing modestly being new to Islam sometimes I wore what others may not consider as modest. I needed help/guidance not criticism. Allah swt brought me to Islam we as fellow Muslims should try and assist that journey not hinder it. Remember we will be asked. Also I’m talking from my experience but I also appreciate that just because some one may have been born into a Muslim family does not mean they have been taught the right things if anything at all, they may be struggling also. Be kind to one an other, guide them in a positive way. May Allah swt bless all who read this. Ameen 🙏

[@AmeerulIslam]

maa sha Allah. this is what I call eloquent speech!

[@haiamosman922]

Thanks mufti menk ❤️ I taught me a lot of lessons , I wish u have a great life

[@dianamusic8635]

Imagine having Sheikh Mufti as dad or amu 🥺 So much respect for you! Sending love your way, from a Shia Kurd fan of yours ❤️

[@falsehoodbasher7240]

Um he’s a *public figure* Probably arrogant to his family, complete stranger. Not this “lovable” character that is his public persona, but A REST from this public persona, and only his wife & children know what he’s like behind closed doors, nieces know of his non protective, non providing, misogynistic nature. So please. stfu fool

[@aishaarowolo]

@@falsehoodbasher7240 please take it easy bro. She's just being nice, and Mufti is a cheerful and cool person. He's so chill for a shaykh, more reason why people love him.

[@falsehoodbasher7240]

@@aishaarowolo right his *PUBLIC* persona 🙄 sucker

[@falsehoodbasher7240]

@Halimo Sheikh no *I know* you don’t. Unless you are his wife or children or Th God Him Self or The devils or The angels there as witnesses u don’t know

[@doodachproizshenenais2742]

@@falsehoodbasher7240It's true that only Allah knows whether in reality that he's a good man, but that doesn't mean you have to assume that he's not.

[@tialampuasa6065]

Thank you my brother. Much love from Malaysia.

[@Donlyexception]

Ma Shaa Allah, Mufti. Alhamdulillah. Beautifully explained.

[@mozinshah4492]

Your thumbnails are awesome as always 😂😍❤️❤️❤️

[@shunab2553]

Thank you Mufti Menk for the enlightenment. I have been wearing Niqab for 3 weeks now and I am so happy for god gave me this rare opportunity to understand and embrace what is in the Quran. Alhamdulillah! May Allah guide and protect us all from evil. Everything here in this Dunya is temporary so make the most out of it by worshiping Allah to open his Jannah to us. Subhanallah! Let’s read the quran and understand for Allah is the most gracious and the most merciful. It’s not yet too late my brothers and sisters in Islam. Assalamualaikum.

[@iman7251]

Masha Allah

[@IbrahymMalsoonMuhammadh]

MashaAllah.. ThankYou Brother.. May Allah Bless You, and May Allah grant a Palace in Jannah..

[@salmamohammed3267]

Nice sermon and beautiful reminder. Mashaa Allah

[@malaikarani7943]

Well I,m from Pakistan and I,m 16, and I want to tell you something I want my parents, friends,relatives and everyone to tell me to how to wear according to Islam but the fact is that the way people tell me breaks my heart they should tell atleast with some kindness,and respectfully But they say it in a rude tune and make us feel like we have done a crime,I know it is a sin but kindness is the key right??? Well I have so many questions to ask to my parents but they never explain why we have to do and if we ask for farther they say "you,re disrespecting us, you are not listening us and you will make us go to hell" These words are so painful for me to hear from my parents At last I want to say I,m ready to do everything but what I need is reason,respect for me and in better way rather than by saying it in a way of "screaming and rudeness" Plz give answer too, because I have no one I can ask!!!! One more thing "is it considered disobedience? If we share with our parents that what we like and what we don't like?" Because whenever I share with them they say I,m not obeying them or listening to them😞

[@simivinoj7694]

Hello malaika, i just wanted to answer your question, if you're trying then you don't have to worry about it being a sin, there are people who cover up yet yell at people right? People may judge you kindly or unkindly but they don't understand everything about you and that situation do they? You're not being rude and they may act like that because they feel like you're little and you know in the environment they grew up in, they think it's okay to talk to their children like that and there's many reasons why they act like that It is good that you're asking questions because you are understanding reasons instead of blindly following something. It doesn't mean you're undeserving of respect, you are I know you want to seek their approval but first you have to work with yourself and have confidence and keep asking questions Its not disobedience to speak what you want to maybe try to Console them and say that you just wanted to speak and want to know what they think about it and want to know the history behind it I know I'm late but your comment reminded me of myself and i hope you're happy

[@abelievereverrising283]

To be honest with you, if you want a reason and gentle reminders you'll probably have to search online or through someone who's knowledge you trust because it doesn't seem that you will get that from your parents. This isn't ideal, but ask Allah to guide you. Allah knows best. They are not the ones to decide who goes to Hell. And telling your parents about your likes and dislikes is not disobedience. As long as you are always being polite. You are not the same person as your parents. May Allah guide us all. Just remember not to harsh and unreasonable for your kids when you grow up. InshaAllah

[@riosaint_]

My advice is your 16 worry more on your education than your clothes and pleasing family with what you wear is not easy trust me. Lol I always think I dress well but people say they just don't like it, but don't say what's wrong with it? (you have a lot of light with in you) the outer layer with you looking good adds more light you then become too bright for people to see you so try dress a little more humble, also do you want people to look at you in love or lust? I hope this helps, still confusing I know lol bless you and your family 👪 😊 lol

[@ea5307]

Don't be upset . Pray for yourself and for others . This things will not bother you inshallah

[@itemreviewer2964]

Omg dealing with EXACT SAME situation

[@achammajacob9951]

Women's have the right to do anything in this world, men and women are same, there is no difference in any stupid dress code and old cultures

[@elih9799]

Jazak Allah khaira for ur beautiful videos Mufti🌸

[@ElifNurMuhammad]

MashaAllah tabarakAllah. Great upload ☺

[@user-xy1gi9qb2s]

Qur’an is the only book without any mistake.♥️💚

[@minelah4788]

My last thread. Ive never asked for anyone (deeply) to pray for me. I always believed my duua if from heart Allah will accept. But this time.. I ask anyone reading this to make duua for me and my family

[@obasogieokundia2815]

May Almighty Allah protect you and Favour u Ameen ya rabbi

[@aimeenunez2904]

Inshallah whatever is going on takes a turn for the best 🤲🏽❤️

[@cc-xz9rp]

Best dua is from your own heart.

[@sureyaawale542]

May Allah send you to Jannah

[@nisaspica5931]

May Allah makes it easy for you and for all muslims around the world. Be patient, this life is just temporary, the afterlife is certain and permanent

[@izzattahir66]

Explained every point. thank you mufti menk🥰

[@pulatovamarguba7990]

Mufti menk is explaining things people dont like then just explains it in a beautyful way he is so peaceful mufti menk people like you are so encouarging even if someone hurts you will still be kind to them

[@MohsinRaza-ii6fm]

Please make option for subtitles. Even auto subtitles will work. جزاک اللہ خیرا.

[@fathimahadhiya7457]

If I don’t wear hijab when going out I’ll be called names, takes away my phone, show passive aggression by my parents or close relatives. I really felt bad , I has been being harassed by my family. This made me hate hijab and Islam. Before I used to wear sometimes .. now I hate to. Even if Im wearing very loose clothes they still always have to say something. Im 22 years old and them still trying take control of my life feels like extreme patriarchial sexism. If Im going out they give me very negative vibes If my brother is going he dont need to ask anybody s permission. If I’m not doing any chores at home I’ll be called to do them. My brother will be laying on bed all day nobody cares. If I’m working they want to take control of my money . They never want me to make my own bank account instead hand over my money to my father saying men are supposed to take care of me. They are using religion to oppress me and many women . All my lady muslim friends are facing the same situation. I’ll officially leave Islam religion soon and nobody can oppress me anymore saying muslim women should not do this do that

[@Halal_Dan]

You've fallen victim to feminism, those kafir women live filthy lives and get used and abused by men their whole lives, and end up depressed and alone and wanted or loved by no one. Do not follow in their footsteps.

[@miimcollection]

May Allah bless Mufti Menk and those who listen to his reminders. Ameen ⭐ Such a beautiful way of speaking. Ma shaa Allah ⭐

[@thunderturbine8860]

Jolly good reminder Mufti :) keep up the good work :)

[@zainabmohamed930]

During the last 3 years of high school I use to wear a long tight skirt and I also didn’t really like wearing the abaya out, but I was forced then during quarantine I started to realise many things I have 2 frudnds tha are also interested in religion I appreciated them a lot because my faith grew I also loveeee wearing modest clothing . I also started wearing an abaya to skl along side my skl uniform alhumdiallah!

[@lailahaillallahmuhammadurr7705]

MashAllah,sister,May Allah make you good Muslimah👍👍

[@zainabmohamed930]

Sajid Khan tyyyyy 🙏🏽

[@zainabmohamed930]

Dont be a secret wife!!! So wha are you trying to say ?

[@ElifNurMuhammad]

MashaAllah tabarakAllah sis

[@zainabmohamed930]

Hawraa Beyza Muhammad 🙏🏽🥺I appreciate it sis

[@nirmalwajid4012]

Mufti , here a girl completely covered in her abaya was harassed by a man. Please teach us how to react to it and what are the punishments regarding harassing or abusing women? JazakAllah

[@sumbulalam5060]

@Muhammad Muhammadzai Allah didn't ask women to live i. Box or cover face. Maybe it's time men observe modesty too. Maybe u should ask the men to follow pardah of eyes and not to push women in corner

[@ashifaasharaf1094]

@Muhammad Muhammadzai what if she is alone.... independent... doesn't depend on anyone.... including parents?

[@Shades707]

JazakAllahu Khairan🙏🏾 May Allah grant you (us) Jannah

[@muslim9223]

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[@lilnasser3058]

Baraka Allahu fikum sheikh

[@ikrammohamed4618]

Mufti menk removed his braces!, who recognize that?

[@arishakhan9569]

Yess Mufti menk I saw many people on comments talking about your dresses..... And on the other hand where dr. Zakir Naik wears that dress for that people says oh god what an English dress.....!!🤦🏻‍♀️..... But sir don't worry about them.... From everywhere they're going to complain don't know what they actually wanted us to wear

[@swabiram5624]

Ya akhi . Everyone has their own choice of wearing. Untill they go above the boundry of sunnah. Whether it be english dress or not.

[@swabiram5624]

We cant say that the way mufti menk or zakir naik wears is same as prophet. But since mufti wears white, we can say his wearing is good becoz prophet love white dress.

[@Is_kitchen]

And some men, will use such things only to justify their sexism. Just some! But al hamdulillah Allah has given us a brain to separate sexism of islam😍❤️

[@douche6969]

Yes Dr Zakir Naik is bad

[@Is_kitchen]

@@JahannamHellfire I think you're wrong, because muslim ladies know really well what poligamy is, the rights that they must have, like house , and things for equal, the same time the husband must be equitative and fair with all of them, poligamy is used with a justify like divorce, old and single women etc, not just because to satisfy his sexual desires. .And they're free to deny anyone who wants poligamy if they're not agree, because in islam marriage is not forced at all. And of course. Allah knows better!

[@Veiledqalbi]

Assalamualaikum my respected brother. You have such a gentle demeanor and you're filled with Noor may Allah Azzawajal bless you Fi Dunya Wal Akhirah Ameen

[@enjh3573]

A very helpful reminder. Jazakallahu kheiran

[@Yashveee]

I love winter because it keep me cover more than other seasons 💜

[@candykingdom2258]

Yeah bitch dont tell me how I dress !! I Can Wear What I want it's not your business 🤭 I love tomboy style and extra outfits

[@jannatfirdous7458]

He has a beautiful way of explanation Masha Allah sir May Allah protect you Ameen

[@afshansharif894]

Masterpiece I think this video should be shared a million times among the Muslims of today

[@carlene1710]

Why do you only focus on women and forget that God mentioned men as well?!

[@classicaldisc1170]

Woman’s don’t need to cover themselves to be “safe” they must be freedom and make everyone respect them. Going to “safe” place leave them in a lower self esteem, because they run away rather than fight back.

[@rahmathmirz129]

Mufti menk your voice is so much polite

[@sampharma5506]

You are amazing human being, may Allah bless you

[@shahabunabnas1640]

Assalamu alaikum brothers and sisters..please pray for my sister's 1 and 1/2 year old baby,he is admitted in hospital due to blood cancer,please pray for her baby.. Brother ,please pin this post,so that everybody can see and pray ..Only Allah can make majic in her baby

[@fatum7554]

growing up I didn't have a lot of possibilities to express myself the way I wanted to. It may sound cliché, but the way I wear my clothes is so important to me and I'll never let it go. Some "muslim" will say that the way that I dress is haram, or inappropriate but sincerely idgaf. Honestly, my body is mine, and the choices that I make are there to please myself and myself only. It's literally not against no one in particular, but I hate it when someone tells me how and what to wear. At the end of the day I am the one living in this body, not you. Only I am allowed to tell and to a have a word about how I decide how to live MY life. And sometimes I feel like people tend to forget this. I feel confident, I feel powerful, and I simply feel just like myself wearing the clothes that I choose to wear. I also feel like people tend to focus on stuff like this too much, when it's literally none of their business. There are so much other topic to talk about, so many other problems that muslim people face EVERYDAY, that I think this one specifically is quite irrelevant. Just my opinion tho.

[@waqqas6799]

Rewatch the video you missed the whole point

[@ridwanosman5644]

00:10 I think Mufti is talking to the believers. Some don't worry 😉. 3:39

[@fatum7554]

@Dren Zen yes, I am muslim

[@m.younis9849]

Great approach... Jazak Allah Khair 👍

[@maradeenislam2390]

May Allah bless you 💖💖 Thank you very much

[@starseductivehenna6709]

I just wanna say that....don't follow trends....follow sunnah....u will be beneficial....now and the hereafter....Jazakallahu khairan :)

[@chuladimelo]

Hi there! I’ve been following you and listening to you and your delivery is excellent. It’s so warming. I’m actually Jewish and I’m on my journey back to being more righteous and modest and you’re talks are so encouraging. Thank you so much 💕💕

[@nightj9396]

They really are I love Mufti Menk !!!! 😁😁😁😁💜💜💜 Peace be upon you ☮️☮️☮️✡️☪️☪️☪️☪️☪️✨

[@dammifalestina9097]

You're welcome sister 😊

[@iman7251]

There is a channel....**EF DAWAH** for better.. philosophical understanding of islam. They do live streams there and non muslims are welcomed to ask the DOUBTS 😊❤️ thanks sister

[@trippysdraws2116]

@Nomad of יהוה Islam does NOT take Jews down!

[@asiyoartan9003]

@Nomad of אל שדי calm down

[@adelineedgecombe8586]

Beautifully explained hope this Can help all the confused and mey Allah remove the confusion ahd give them the courage to fight back crticisim. 🤲🙏❤️

[@kedirahmed719]

Thank you my dear Mufti for your sweat words

[@Freedom_for_Palestina]

All perfect praises belong to Allah ,The Lord of all worlds!

[@christinachioma443]

Am a Christian but listening to you make me to be ashamed of myself and my christian sisters about the way we dress, thank you very much

[@Halal_Dan]

Mother Mary dressed in hijab

[@Aesthetic43575]

The way you explain is awesome Allah bless you

[@emirjusufbegovic4474]

We love you, Mufti Menk!

[@AfaqueAhmed_]

Seeing the thumbnail I first thought Mufti Menk was with those people .... 😂😂😂😂😂

[@nazi7605]

السَّلاَمُ عَلَيْكُمْ وَرَحْمَةُ اللهِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ Literally best thumbnails award goes to, respected Mufti menk 💝💕 Lot's of love from india 💝💕❤️❣️💗💞💓💖

[@saad9413]

وعلیکم السلام warahmatullahi Wabarakatuhuu

[@ayasabr3005]

You advice us in a good and kind way,you help us,God reward you ferdaws aela.we are proud of you .

[@PastleLif3]

I’ve noticed the videos quality is getting better and better subhanallah!

[@MyFather7865]

That's Give Our Sir 2M subs come on guys. I am seeing 1.something M subs for so long. Let's make it 2M 😉

[@albertintestine8640]

May Allah grant us Jannah, Ameen

[@f.a1894]

Ameen 🤲❤️👆 insha'Allah

[@nazi7605]

امین

[@sriyanisriyani2327]

Mashallah sheikh see you after long time really very happy to again may Allah protect & bless you Ameen..

[@07alima]

SubhanAllah, you amazing the away you explain things with out hurting anyone. Allhumduillah Allah SWT has guided me since my mother passed away and I have changed my away of thinking about the clothes I wear.

[@ahmedsettegn9367]

AWW Sheikh I am going to ask you to make a dua for the land of Habesha , Ethiopia that had done so much for dinel Islam. It is becoming impossible for some to make a living with racial violence. The situation is worsening day by day. People falling in a trap of very ill thinking opposition politicians. JZK.

[@noonoofulable]

Are there many different races in Ethiopia? May Allah make it easy for the Ummah and other innocents in Ethiopia.

[@mohamedshibli7329]

It's not a proud moment but just some spark of smile that I made the 999th like to this beautiful man's video Masha Allah ❤️❤️

[@irfanamdislamic6799]

Plz Brother 🔴🔔☝🏼 do, brother it will be very useful to me 🥺

[@Ai-nz4bd]

Love Mufti Menks way of explaining

[@dilnazchan4311]

Thank you Mufti 😊😊😊 May Allah bless you