Don’t Touch My Hair!

There’s one big no-no when it comes to a woman’s personal space… never touch her hair! Watch “The Real” ladies break down this golden rule, plus Tamera shares her big chop story, in this clip.
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[@jamiaellis3941]

Going natural has boosted my self confidence.

[@TallieTimee]

+Jamia Ellis same!! :)

[@xxjoy2urworldxx880]

Right there with you ladies!

[@dimaysonewanteu8055]

+Jamia Ellis That's true. I fell more comfortable now wearing my own hair.

[@kaylaut2022]

I'm transitioning

[@raet5773]

Me too!!!!!!!!!!

[@lovewins3956]

i never knew black hair was an issue until i came to this country,

[@KoramNRdz]

I have been here since age 5 and I didn't know it was a problem

[@julianamcfarlane488]

+Koram you aren't black though...

[@KoramNRdz]

baddietude Ya I know I meant I didnt realize other people saw it as a problem.

[@maminatakeita5947]

+Thess Nana Deblois Where are you from? not to be invasive or anything

[@lovewins3956]

***** ghana

[@sailorscout16]

"I wanna feel the boing too" lol, Adrienne sounded cute saying that

[@michellelawrence4187]

She looked cute to tho

[@klassicalmuzik]

Tamera looks beautiful with her natural hair. She looks very fresh, mod, and retro

[@makiyaperez4530]

She is in bbc2

[@alexahenderson1044]

klassicalmuzik I totally agree ! She looks amazing

[@saltycat662]

She could be bald and still look beautiful. She's so pretty with a lovely soul.

[@classycassie1118]

Tamera is so cute. I love her so much. Her voice, personality, family. She is just adorable.

[@christyknighten7626]

Cassie Best Ever! she is tho 😎😎 she is soooo..nice,freindly

[@RTA6226]

Yes, you guys are right. I LOVE 💘 her and her sister Tia. They are so wholesome, refined and wise.

[@redrd7]

I swear people have a problem with a black woman's hair no matter what we do with it. Whether it is relaxed, natural or weaved up, it's always an issue. Worry about your own hair and focus on growing them edges back. 😘

[@tiffanynjumbe9831]

You are speaking the truth girl!!

[@funtoayenakin5753]

Truth,always telling us how it should be.I'm like its hair pleaaaaaaase,next.LOL

[@redrd7]

And not only is it just hair, but it is Your hair. Who is anybody else to tell you how to manage it .

[@MixedWavyBaby]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 the end omg

[@Oxymoric]

Regine Hughes Speak that truth boo

[@busimatyalana8844]

"I want to feel the boing too"😂😂😂

[@Empressive]

This is a fun discussion. Tamera's hair is so beautiful, I feel like touching it too lol

[@MysweetIchigo69]

Luv your channel

[@r0bz1985]

Shut up sweetie

[@Karma_return777]

r0bz1985 Lmao whaatttt 💀

[@r0bz1985]

Normonkey is trash

[@IamChinaRenee]

Tamera's curls are so beautiful!! I did a video about people touching and asking someone about their hair it's a touchy subject but it happens!

[@MsCarter8719]

Hey China girl. You right, I saw it a few weeks ago. It was DEAD ON...LOL!

[@ScorpioSunScorpioMoon]

I dont care. I have natural hair and i think people of other races arent educated in it so when they ask questions i use that op to educate them. I was asked about hair growth and then some girl touched my hair. I have no problem.with it but i can see Tamar's issue because its not hers.

[@frenchvanilla7109]

blakebymharris​​​​ Wow! Whether it's hers or not that is an invasion of privacy. A lot of White women don't like having their hair touched because they said it makes them feel like a dog. There is no way you just come up to people you don't know and touch them - their hair included!!!! To me that's my personal space weave or weaveless!

[@GangstaClassy]

Heyyyy Boo!!! IMA Subbie

[@IronAngel505]

French Vanilla I agree. A stranger can not just walk up and touch my hair, natural or not. People I'm close to, I don't trip. Then again, people I'm close to have the decency to ask first. Strangers, never, I don't know where your hands have been. Everybody don't know about that soap and water and/or sanitizer. LOL. Just keepin it Real.

[@JoshLamarEdwards]

"I wanna feel the boing too" Adrienne had me dying. 😂😂😂

[@theblackexcellencepodcast1775]

It is very rude to touch someone's hair without asking. Especially if you don't know them. I go through this all the time.

[@katelinmcmillan8998]

Same here

[@Darianaplayroblox]

In USA everything is rude; everything is taken personal and everything is offensive... people here should relax and remember that in other countries the culture is different too and people don’t do it out of respect sometimes is just of admiration

[@DeadDollInWonderland]

The world of Daniela and Dariana There’s a little concept called personal boundaries, which you clearly do not understand. Regardless of intent or culture, you are not entitled to anyone else’s body. So they absolutely have a right to be rude if it comes down to it. Don’t touch people without permission.

[@Darianaplayroblox]

Courtney Taylor thats what Am talking about people take everything personal and so are si dramatic, if you would visit a third world country you will see what real problems are.

[@DeadDollInWonderland]

The world of Daniela and Dariana What does third world countries and their issues (while no doubt serious and deserve to have awareness spread) have to do with basic manners and respecting personal boundaries? The main point is don’t touch strangers without permission.

[@ceejayy3092]

Being a black girl with real almost waist length hair when I blow it out, I relate to this video I hate when people touch my hair and ask if it's real like black girls can have long hair too it just takes time & care,

[@B.Latriece]

Exactly if most took the time on our hair because we have good, fragile hair, then our hair would be just as long. Black women has really good hair it takes more time to keep it healthy so that it can grow. its how society has conditioned us to how we are "suppose" to treat our hair and its very different and special than most. I LOVE OUR HAIR lol

[@jasminevaliente96]

17iamhere and I almost want to say it really doesn't take a whole lot to make it grow our hair grows just as fast as anybody else like you said it is fragile so it does break off if you don't pay careful attention to our ends but even still I neglect my hair at times and it still grows it was only when I had a relaxer trying so hard to be somebody I wasn't that my hair would not grow and now that I think about it under those conditions nobody's here would grow a little white woman put a relaxer on her hair every 8 weeks and then try to flat iron it every week on top of it and then bleach it cuz she wants a new color she be more bald than I ever was

[@llauoyetahi1]

exactly

[@katelinmcmillan8998]

Exactly, its so annoying! 😒🤦🏿‍♀️

[@plubin123]

It's so annoying, but I do understand that they never see our real before even our own black people, thinking that it wasn't possible. But when you think about it, the whole time our hair was growing, but we just perm it and then say it never grow, but we basically kill whenever it does. When you're girl women and go natural there's a certain confidence and freedom that comes with it, specially when you wear it out a lot. Sometimes I miss my hair after putting it in braids a week later. It's sad that as black people, we cannot be ourselves and people will not understand the big deal, but it is a big deal.

[@ashleycassion8702]

This girl touched my hair when it was really greasy then continued to say, "omg its so greasy". Then I said, " well I never told you to touch my hair". She was shookth

[@deshaabernathy482]

Lol

[@mykoniichistorychannel]

She should have been having her dome rocketh.

[@LivMYlif3]

People always talk about tamar wearing blonde weave instead of her natural color but Beyonce been wearing blonde since 1997

[@rubyjackson128]

💣 BOOM!

[@flowerpower628]

But it's also her natural hair colour so yeah

[@ellapark1299]

Flower Power no it aint

[@flowerpower628]

@@ellapark1299 what colour is her natural hair?

[@user-iu4yn4tr1r]

Why comparing one woman with another? What has Beyoncé to do with that?😂

[@chantonkong]

I think it's great that Tamara is confident enough with herself to wear her natural hair on national tv. It speaks volumes about her! I am a huge fan of hers!

[@tanesharichardson8437]

As a DARK skinned girl with curly wavy long hair you would be amazed at the crazy things people say and do to me... I have been told that I must have a perm, relaxer, texturizer or some chemical service. Or I can't be ALL black? Or I must be ALL BLACK cuz I'm too DARK to be mixed. All these things are usually said while the unknown assailant is elbow deep in my hair....Simultaneously having a hairgasm and checking for tracks.....Had a manager once (white with locks) who patted me like a damn dog every time she saw me. So one day I bit her....She was like WTF? I said Hey sometimes u pet something without the owners permission u get bit. She got it......lol....Reach One Teach One!!!

[@tiffanynjumbe9831]

Lol at you biting her but that's what she gets

[@tanesharichardson8437]

^^^^Reach one. Teach One!...By any means necessary.... Lol

[@santriciajones2579]

+Tanesha Richardson That's ignorance. I have a dark skinned lil cousin who has wavy curly hair.

[@dcarmeto]

+Tanesha Richardson I go through same thing. Always thinking my hair is weave, and because some can't find the balls to ask, they decide to pull it instead. I couldn't stress it enough how irritating it is.

[@MelissaReynoldsLawrence]

This comment is amazing 😂

[@strawberriesncandii]

Tamera's hair looks fabulous! She should wear her hair like this more often.

[@kmeeks92987]

i hate when people touch my hair!!! especially when they dont ask, have dirty fingernails, or the next thing they say is "are you mixed"? YES! imma mix these lefts and rights if you don't back up. All black women dont have short, unmanageable hair

[@tamaras2997]

No one's hair is "unmanageable" it is simply a matter of learning how to manage your hair and not care for your hair based off of European beauty standards. Don't reinforce stereotypes.

[@kmeeks92987]

Tamara S you say tamato, i say tomato.... im not reinforcing any stereotypes. What may be manageable for you may not be manageable for me and vice versa.

[@tamaras2997]

No sweetie. You said tomato, I said oranges. Two different things. Don't be defensive, i'm just trying to spread correct messages, not ignorance. Yes management is "subjective" but you saying that something can be manageable for me and not for you is the same thing as saying, "i'm too lazy to take the time to find a way to manage my hair." With time and patience, anything is manageable as long as someone with the same hair texture can manage it too.

[@kmeeks92987]

Tamara S im not defensive. And I'm in no way, shape, or form ignorant. You're knowledge of hair is clearly not needed here because my hair is very manageable. So take your "i can do it" mother of the earth ass some where else. The only hair I'm concerned about is my own. I don't let people touch my hair and i dont put my hands in others' hair, PERIOD! So go teach a hair class to people who want to hear what you have to say. Be blessed!

[@tamaras2997]

Oh hush, everyone is ignorant to a certain extent. Look ignorance up in the dictionary and maybe you won't be "so" ignorant. Mother of the earth? Lol girl please. I'm in no way, shape or form a natural hair enthusiast, but i've done the education on our hair and you should too. Enjoy your day.

[@ItsKalyn]

Tamar had me crying she said "Don't tweet or @ or instagram yall wanna see my natural hair WIGS ON FLEEK" I HOLLERD!!!!

[@witchf4ce310]

I think so many black girls/mixed girls look AMAZING in their natural hair. Especially when it's big or/and curly. I know many black girls that don't wear weave or wigs but relax their hair. I personally think it looks best natural!!!!

[@ZosiaSamosiaOo]

+Jviie57 Doesn't your natural hair gets pulled and actually damaged by weaves rather than protected by them? When I see girls with short little curls get a super long weave I feel like it's all going to fall out along with their real hair that won't hold the excess weight.

[@Mcfan1989]

Tamera looks amazing like that.

[@Shawnmyrelle]

Im thinking they about to talk about Solange...

[@bee3467]

bruh same

[@heyyyyy1111]

Lmao! check the date son!

[@clawdearossi6306]

bruh

[@Lawgiver777]

I have lived in South Korea for almost 4 years and I have natural hair. People always want to touch my hair and not ask. When I first got here I didn't mind, but then I start to feel like a "pet at the zoo". So now, when they go to touch my hair without asking, I pull away so quick. And another thing that kills me is when Koreans try to tell ME what I should do with MY hair. I say to myself, they have lost their mind.

[@ZosiaSamosiaOo]

That's what Africans do to white people visiting their countries... You gotta be a little more understanding when you're in a place that has a different culture and attitude towards what is considered appropriate and what not.

[@Lawgiver777]

+ZosiaSamosiaOo I understand what you're saying, I do. But, I have a question, have you ever experienced something like this?

[@chomychi]

+ZosiaSamosiaOo Africans don't tell white people what to do with their hair.

[@ZosiaSamosiaOo]

Lawgiver777 No, I've never travelled to Africa. MaryplusFrances98 If you're that sensitive you might as well never leave your house.

[@chomychi]

ZosiaSamosiaOo I'm sensitive because I said that Africans do not tell white people what to do with their hair? Is that a false statement? She said the South Koreans told her what she should do to her hair and since you decided to compare her staying in South Korea to White people coming to Africa, I decided to make that known to you. As she stated in her comment, the thing that aggravates her the most is when the south Koreans try to tell her what to do with her hair. Oh, and I love how you generalize Africa like it's a country. And I do leave my house Thank you. As a matter of fact, I left my country.

[@Shyloh8]

"I wanna feel the boing, too." LOL!

[@glorywilliams7155]

my afro defys gravity, and the people in school I love your hair lemme touch it... bitch no

[@Shemashay]

The reason why so any other cultures ask black women to touch their hair is because they so use to women like tamar they that be astonished by our real natural hair! Not soo much anymore since a lot of women are natural again

[@2012loveyourself]

you are a smart girl. that is what I have been saying all along.it is only recently that a lot us are proudly wearing our hair natural so other races are just now discovering our hair. we have been hiding our hair under straight wigs and wavy wigs for so long.IF white woman wore Afro wigs all the time us too wouldn't be familiar with white peopl hair but they mostly wear their own hair and when they use extensions they wear something that looks like their own hair.

[@Shemashay]

Right as a people we need to embrace ourselves my motto is "not against them(whoever them may be in the scenario) but with us! It starts at home with your little daughter of sister or cousin or mentee or niece. It takes a village to raise a child out community has forgotten that

[@HeartsForArtCo]

bitch you have straightened hair though

[@Shemashay]

Um ifembot have you heard of a flat iron or perhaps the hot comb invented by Madame CJ walker

[@slimsxyblkwoman]

Shemashay I had just posted the same comment above. Black women shouldn't take it personal because like you said, most of society don't see black woman rocking their natural hair on the regular anywhere on mainstream TV.

[@dcj5885]

I think its bullshit that black women say my hair is too course, hard or difficult to deal with and manage. News flash ladies, you need to put water in your hair for moisture everyday. Water and oils are afros best friend. And yes your afro hair will have shrinkage it's a good thing! Also deep condition your hair as needed and seal ends with oils. Also rinse conditioner with cold water to closed ends of hair. These tips help my hair grow longer, thicker, stronger, and shinier. Now I understand and know how to take care of my natural hair and I feel if more black women know how to take care of the hair, then it would not be so many black women wearing weaves. Because we are the only race with this type of coils hair texture and its beautiful.

[@iamkelsyk9455]

Water will make it look nappy, trust me I know from experience.

[@iamkelsyk9455]

And weaves, wigs, ect. Are protective hair styles.

[@dcj5885]

Allthingsmindless143 You have to love your coils. There's nothing wrong with your tight coiled or kinky hair or naps for you. This is the problem with black women. They always want straight hair, like straight hair is better than what you have. I think weaves as a protective hair styles is bullshit too, because if that was true then people with weaves all will have healthy hair. And what you protecting if your hair is cover with someother hair and you never wear you own?

[@iamkelsyk9455]

dcj5885 I'm talking about nappy to the point where you cant even get the comb through it. And since you want to start, White people have naturally thinner hair so they get weaves and clip ins too. They and the ones getting lip injections and changing the size of thing on their bodies so its them too.

[@tiffanynjumbe9831]

Black women should also try to invest in dreads or sisterlocks as well when going the natural hair route

[@rainnantoine263]

The definition of tamera’s hair is beautiful.

[@r0bz1985]

It's not

[@whatsfunny9571]

Jeannie's Face at 3:03 says it all tho😂😂😂

[@taureanwilliams1337]

i hate when they try to touch your hair when you first get it done and its sore

[@BabyC51085]

Tamera looks BEAUTIFUL. She should definitely rock her natural hair a lot more!

[@dazzleglam95]

I'm half black, but I was adopted and raised by my white grandparents. I love my mother to pieces but she had no clue how to manage my curls. My hair was straightened and relaxed to the point where I had to do "the big chop" in high school. My family always singled me out and teased because I never wanted to get my hair wet in the pool, or if I'd just decide to wear it curly one day I'd be so embarrassed from all the name calling, I'd straighten it immediately. Now Im twenty two and I love my curls. They're soft and loose and now that I'm an adult, I know there are fun ways to style my natural hair and I know which products to use. I see these little girls, (I'm talking as young as four and five years old) either with a white mother who isn't educated on how to manage their hair, or a black mother who hates her own hair so she fries her child's head as well. I want to shake them and tell them to leave it the hell alone. It's beautiful.

[@howiekempervideo5869]

I love Tamera's hair, and how the curls really show the true compassion of it. I hope her hair stays like that for a while because it's my most popular hairstyle by Tamera. Love you, Tamera, and keep them curls like that, girl!

[@DelicateJewel]

I love tamera's hair. She looks very beautiful.

[@micheleconward-wiggins5083]

YAAAASSSS, TAMERA!!!! I'm a big fan of yours and a fellow naturalist. I follow you on social media and knew you had big chopped. I love that our hair is versital (i.e. curly, straight, wig or weave). I'm so excited that you felt comfortable to wear your beautiful natural look on the show. Don't get me wrong your styles are always on point, but rocking your curly fro on The Real is so refreshing. Stay encouraged in all that you do. Peace and love.

[@whita.9860]

Soo im revisiitng these old episodes and I immediately started singing Solange's " Dont Touch My Hair" when i saw this clip title lol

[@tammiemichelle6880]

Me too! I immediately had to play it after the clip was over lol xD

[@cynthiaandrews9156]

I love this look on her!!! 😍

[@jjlomax]

Love Tamera's curls! She should def where it like that all the time. Her curls and so perfect and so moisturized.

[@nellywellyful]

Her curls are amazing!!! I love it

[@AdaezeCUche]

I can see why Adam prefers it! Wow, Tamera always looks beautiful. But I LOVE her naturally curly hair on her!!!

[@xmiunax4385]

I miss Tamar she was so fun 😂😂

[@forevershonshon]

Tamera looks so beautiful with her natural hair!! And Tamar LOL, you just have to love her... love the black hair on her!

[@RoseKimberly]

Tamera looks gorgeous;)) making me want to go back to curly hair! I may have to make a video on it on my channel:)

[@Itsgabybaby]

Rose Kimberly yes you should beauty

[@marce999love]

Tamera looks so beautiful with her natural hair. 😍😍😍 jeez

[@cheralewhite8253]

I loved Tamera's hair like that. Totally reminded me of Foxy Brown.

[@ijadafields95]

I like Lonnie but why does she relate everything back to sex??? Like damn you must not get none!

[@LondonsPointOfView1]

We know that she ain't getting none LOL!

[@shinyjewelsz]

LMAO. Thought I was the only one that thought this.

[@ijadafields95]

***** damn lmao

[@lucifersfatpussy]

Because she aint EVER GET NONE clear signs lol #DEPRIVED LOL

[@RheRheSmily]

I think she plays up that role

[@NakiaAlexis]

Tamera looks so cute with her natural hair! I love my weaves but lately I've been embracing my natural hair as well! Also doesn't matter if its mine or not I hateeee when someone puts their hands in my hair, at least ask! come on now!

[@RealityChick77]

I LOVE the curls, but like it longer. When she has it down to her shoulders and all full and curly, it’s gorgeous!

[@mariamatthews2352]

I absolutely loved this look on Tam 😍

[@HollowCouplet]

Tamera's curls are everything my curls have ever tried to be!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@ginaE6240]

I love the real, all of the ladies are adorable. They all balance the show and make it what it is. I enjoy watching it when i can.

[@deeeeeeezzzzaaaa]

Jeannie looks so pretty like that.

[@ellainlove26]

I'm latina. As a person with naturally thick straight hair, I have longed for curls like Tamara's. I think her hair looks amazing. In fact, I loved other people's hair more than mine because it is different. I'm not saying I hate mine at all, I just find it boring. lol

[@PatriceElam]

Tamera looks adorable with her natural hair. I always thought her and her sisters hair was beautiful! It has such great definition.

[@UkemaMoore]

I LOVE LOVE LOVE when both Tamera and Tia wear their curls!!!! Beautiful in their curls!!!!

[@charleswalker8090]

The way Jeannie is looking concerned and intrigued at the same time is sending meeeeeeee!!!!! Lol

[@janiecekeys4765]

natrual hair makes u look hella young big chop 2013

[@CinquantaCoxSmith]

I always ask! Because I don't like when people just start touching my hair. Especially my daughters natural hair at school..

[@SannysWorld]

Omg!!! Thank you for this click. Im black and use to work as a cashier in a predominantly white neighborhood and the customers were fascinated by my hair. They gave compliments, they wanted to touch, it. I remember I read an article about black women hair during segregation. Men of all races were so fascinated with admiration with the styles we wore during that time that authorities were legally trying legally band us from doing our hair certain ways

[@denisheabates2755]

Tamera makes me fall in love with my natural hair so thank you Tamera 😊 I appreciate it ❤💙

[@xray9158]

Solange where you at girl ?

[@TonyTurner]

Tamera looks gorgeous as always but with a nice twist.

[@LaShawnLatera]

SO BEAUTIFUL!!! :) Thank you for representing the curly girlsssssssss

[@tiffanyjanel_]

Tamera is so gorgeous! I love her hair like this! Flawless.

[@FlairelleNet]

I hate when people put their hands in my hair especially the ones that dont ask permission. I sat down detangling my hair for hours after people kept putting their hands in my hair, pulling it, doing the little shaggy thing you know playing with it. I started to cry because I had to cut a chunk out that had a ball. They were like "no way thats your real hair". Now when people criticise the wigs and the weave and say they prefer my real hair i just laugh. They dont know the struggle

[@xmenVicente]

I hate when strangers are all up in my personal space trying to touch my curls..... n then they have audacity to ask if my hair has been always curly like that.. I guess it’s rare for men to have long curly hair...

[@daveycortez2944]

Her hair is very beautiful.

[@yabadabadue7889]

Lani looks cute too! I love that green color on her and that hair with the color in it looks beautiful.

[@Signedthesavvyexpat]

YAAASSS!!! Tamera rock your natural hair! Love. :-)

[@rpbl7869]

Omg I love your hair Tamera!

[@barbie7034]

She is such a beautiful person inside and out. No matter the hair she chooses to wear - she radiates and glows.

[@Nothingsmatter90]

Her hair is beautiful!!! Love it!

[@miznikki2u]

beautiful curls Tamera!!

[@missezmorena6539]

I LOVE LOVE LOVE TAMERA'S HAIR!!! She is so CUTE!!!!! And Tamar looks real real good with black hair. I love it. Jeanie too...Her hair looks really good. And yea...I'm cool with some people touching my hair but some people are over the top and are Team Too Much...so I'm not cool with EVERYBODY touching my hair.

[@moniquedamodel3337]

@ missezmorena i want to see tamar real hair

[@missezmorena6539]

I know right. I don't see why she made a point to people not to ask for her to wear her natural. I'd like to see her hair to. I bet she looks good with her real hair.

[@prosperity12able]

I really like Tamara look. She shld go with it. Tameras a natural, pls continue to embrace it God given image.

[@Shashayaway]

Lonnie love brings it all together! I know that's right PULL MY HAIR 😂😂 i wore weave a few times but I prefer my natural hair anyday

[@adoringgalore5636]

Wow...girl your hair is on fleek....but seriously I love its truly you..Such an inspiration for me ..

[@leles5084]

Tamera looks amazing. She needs to wear her natural hair more.

[@emilybrown1014]

I feel bad because I kinda cringe when people touch my hair. I do so much to make sure it's not frizzy and then they run their hands through it like please stop lol

[@saeidkh1227]

I LOVE your hair... the MOST GORGEOUS hair I have EVER seen in my life!!

[@HappyKeepinItNappy]

'Bout time!!! (BIG SMILE) You're naturally beautifully! I hope you wear your natural hair more often on the show.

[@onikas_bkackbarbieminaj7373]

Tamera Looks Beautiful with her Curly hair!!😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍❤❤❤❤❤ ..... Reminds me of when Her and Tia had curly hair on Sister Sister

[@beantianja]

Tamara you look gorgeous long short curly or straight. Tamar dark and a bang looks great on you try it more often

[@sandraarita217]

TAM you giving me 70s vibes here !

[@Stephaniealicianaturalhair]

I love this discussion. I went natural in 2008. I have not had a relaxer since the summer of 2007. That is almost 10 years. I love my natural hair. Tamera's hair is very cute. If you want to go natural, what is stopping you? I say just embrace your natural hair and you can love it as well. It is a little on the high maintenance side, but it is so worth it!

[@gottalovemystyle]

blew dried it Tamera?

[@deezy2886]

😂

[@cassandra6315]

+gottalovemystyle LOL

[@CrescentNicMoon]

+gottalovemystyle Aww I always make that mistake too tho lol

[@butyoucancallmesam]

lolololol. I was just thinking that!

[@kryssiewoo51]

😂😂😂I said the same thing!

[@FlyRoni]

🎼🎶🎵Don't touch my hair...🎶🎵🎼

[@SalmaV1]

I'm obsessed with Tamera's hair. Absolutely gorgeous!

[@CreativeLivesEnter]

Tamara please wear your hair like this again on the show i love it and it makes me feel good about my owj curly hair

[@adversetoconverse]

Tamar needs to stop letting Terrell cut her bangs. Ooop.

[@mayaalexandra8224]

Lmfaoo

[@TheAkidah]

Why do u always go in on Tamar tho ? I see u everywhere shading her u can cut her some slack

[@ibrandon]

They're starting to get annoying.

[@adversetoconverse]

ßrandon And how many fucks do you think I give? I'll stop when I want to.

[@ibrandon]

adversetoconverse I assume 0? Nice attitude.

[@Zhane-ce7nj]

Loni, honey, I love you, but you need to stop generalizing black women's hair experience. I wear my NATURAL hair proudly, and have never touched a weave or a wig. Though if others choose that path that's fine too.

[@shaniarodjanaewinchester6110]

I agree because I wear my natural hair, I have ever since I was a youngin'. I've never wore a wig, weave, or even got a perm. So I absolutely agree.

[@nar6ika]

thank you!

[@dawnasharelle]

Wtf she didnt generalise anything.

[@mahershalalbaz]

Zhane Doethere is more problem in the world than hair..i dont understand it when people sit down to have a conversation about hair, put a weave whatever and wear it natural which i do and get on with it. please!

[@nevaehheavenly6233]

aintnobodygottimefadat yes she did. people touching a black person's hair and somebody getting their hair touched by someone who is not black are not the same thing. It happens way too much. Loni hair is straight so it is different she can not relate.😒

[@22Unlucky]

Tamera talks with her hands and her eyes. That's so me! I love her enthusiasm.

[@melanyathomas5033]

Hey Tamera, im 16 and i did the same thing when i was younger straighting, hot combing, and blow drying etc. i got a big chop my 15th birthdday and started over. perosnally i thought my hair was better straight and i've started to realize my curls are awsome and your really great person and mom.

[@Trixiesongzxoxo]

Oh my god Tameras curls is so beautiful 😍

[@mariamk1231]

Tamera looks soo much younger where her hair is natural and when she is not wearing a weave!!!

[@brandonlee2604]

Love her hair and makeup

[@flickanrimsky]

I'm not black but I've had people touching my curly hair without asking since i was a kid, it really is the most annoying feeling in the world. when I was 7 I was at church and I felt someone stroking my hair, i turned around and saw a woman telling another woman "she has such a great hair" like, hello? lady? I'm a human being, u can't just touch me and discuss it with your friend like I'm not there.

[@r.copeland487]

GENERAL NOTE: Just don't touch a black girls hair.

[@giannamccord]

Or anyone’s hair

[@shawntayedavis822]

I love Tamera's real hair her curls are gorgeous!...Tamar is crazy wigs on flick lol

[@alexjimenez6525]

Tamera looks STUNNING in her natural hair and that shirt I love it

[@yasminseid3642]

HER HAIR IS BEAUTIFUL IM SOOOOO JELOUS!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️