Dr. Francis Stages an Intervention With the Fletcher Family | Love & Marriage Huntsville | OWN

[@kiddnaja]

So the other daughter wasn’t the problem… since she’s not around and the family still having issues… Chris too laid back and not assertive enough as the Patriarchy if you ask me.

[@joyhairston-white737]

Yes Chris being the man of the house needs to lead the house and the grown kids when they ask for money.

[@madmann1000]

Uh no, the issue is she thinks she’s the only one with problems.

[@e.l.c.4298]

I agree with you and I honestly think Chris is tired..but needs to be more assertive when dealing with his children especially when it comes to finances

[@truelife974]

If that's not his personality that's not who he is. Let's just thank the lord he's present and available without being drunk all of the time cursing and punching everyone out. Besides, Nell wouldn't want him if he were any other way.

[@diamond4270]

Y'all still going with this old outdated mindset😂

[@lb8853]

Nell is a hot head, but those kids are gaslighting in her... I having a feeling the kids don't even try to solve their own problems..

[@hennisisyimon]

They are gaslighting her because her husband doesn't support her tue way he should. His silence is a problem especially in times like this

[@metamorphosis2278]

Gaslighting is an EVENT where a person consistently with time convinces someone that their reality isn't true, not a moment. So please may you help me understand what you mean that the children are gaslighting her.

[@neal4444]

I completely forgot about Dr. Francis😂😂😂...He said it's been too long,I need to remind them that I need to Collect My Check!!!!😂😂😂

[@hennisisyimon]

I don't feel like Chris Fletcher emotionally and verbally support his wife enough. He leaves her to do all the work, then criticizes her for it. His silence is a problem, especially in times like this. Chris needs to emotionally show up more for his wife.

[@antoniqueanderson8836]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@melindausher8671]

I agree. From listening to them they are spoiled adults that look to their parents for financial help all the time.

[@truelife974]

Chīle, he got to sleep in the same bed with that woman. Best believe he walks a very fine line with her and after 32 years he's learned a lesson or two about when and when not.

[@rayecaters2u]

He cheated on her. It's idiotic to expect him to emotionally support the very same person he's caused to be this broken and aggressive.

[@hennisisyimon]

@@rayecaters2u He cheated on her, wow.....when? WOW. And that's the thing about marriages that last so long, you always have to ask the woman, how many times did he cheat? Because folks tend to package long term marriages so well, to almost make it look like he never cheated, all for the sake of legacy. And it's just sooo sad. While legacy is great, cheating should never be tolerated.

[@belindagore8125]

Nell has made a valid point which is be responsible and take care of your own bills. Apparently Nell is like many parents I will help you but don’t expect me to always take on your responsibilities..grow up

[@playboi2002]

They are definitely gaslighting her and Chris just listening vs having her back . Regardless of how she acts sometimes ; everyone has a breaking point and she’s at hers .

[@alexisrobinson2388]

CUT THE THE MONEY NEVER LET KIDS KNOW WHAT YOU HAVE AND HOW MUCH NEVER

[@bresymone8761]

Nell has such a worrisome look when she’s around the kids. They gaslight her so badly. Chris (I love him) but he isn’t assertive because he wants to honor everyone’s wants and needs but this is why they’re in this situation.

[@melindausher8671]

Exactly 💯

[@truelife974]

If issuing out money is the only problem, all they need to say is "the bank of mom and dad is closed".

[@sunflowerglow5050]

The Fletchers should have there own show. They have a lot to say for the viewers. So many families is experience the same issues. I was real emotional for the hold family. The doctor shoould continue in the show on the regular.

[@filmadcamp1512]

This edit didn't make sense. Dr. Francis seemed confused as to how to resolve this and was all over the place.

[@melindausher8671]

Yes . I was like he doesn't know what he's doing

[@llw53one]

Dr. Francis is always on point ❤

[@melindausher8671]

He has no idea of what needs to be done.🤦

[@Mo-uj6zx]

Respectfully where's ms.ilyana

[@pgdarling301]

Iyanla somewhere protecting her peace 😂

[@celestephillips4832]

She’s in the bushes weeping 🤭

[@ob2be1]

@@celestephillips4832this comment tickled me chile, Lawd forgive me 😂😂😂😂

[@melindausher8671]

She's no better than Dr.Fletcher she doesn't solve any relationship.

[@SunshineKK99]

Need her!!

[@vfeast654]

These kids are grown. Its ok to ask your parents for help at least try to pay them back. Dam.

[@user-tc3my5ic2o]

No matter what . They both love their kids. And both of them are good parents.

[@jeanp1323]

Was Dr Francis dizzy ? What was that about ? The session seems to be all over the place

[@sstraight86]

I think he is trying to make them verbalize to each other their feelings. Something I do with my patient..... I make them repeat to me what they said so they can actually HEAR what they said and realize that sometimes they don't make any since with their words.

[@CharShuKirk]

Nell looks like an older version of Ashanti!!😝

[@Stephanie-et4qm]

It was a lot of skirting to a point were they didn't want to really air it out...she was saying I'm tired of paying grown children's bills.🤷🏽‍♀️ they want to ask for help when she knows they're not equipped to handle certain responsibilities. The Dr. was ok but, they need Iyanya.

[@adriennenicoles598]

There's obviously a deeper issue here he's trying to help them reach a resolution, but that doesn't happen in one session

[@Stephanie-et4qm]

@@adriennenicoles598 agreed and it's no quick fix...clearly theirs layers and it seems like they all have them. Follow up sessions is key.

[@melindausher8671]

The problem is the parents spoiled the kids and wish they hadn't. What the mom said was crazy. The mom says he's her ride or die cause it was only them two for 2 years. 😂😂 That's crazy he doesn't remember that 🤬 you spoiled him and he knows nothing about hard work. You didn't install a work ethic. Responsibility and Work Ethic no you just gave all of them money as if money grows in trees.

[@Stephanie-et4qm]

@@melindausher8671 agreed...the parent(s)started it and now want to stop it but, it's going to be hard to undo years of helping them. They deflect and turned it on Nell's attitude..they're grown enough to know what she said.

[@user-js3xi8hj1e]

She already did that with them, it's weird because she wants them to budget their money and allow her grace. She can't help every time. Sometimes they need to help themselves. She just saying she running out of money, she tired of giving they money out

[@johngutierrez6454]

Is Dr. Francis another cast member, Iyanla should've been there. That's all I am going say

[@melindausher8671]

😂😂😂

[@PapayaPepper202]

Too much heavy weight on the shoulders to carry around

[@Michelle-fz1gr]

No they don't need Dr Francis they need iyangla from fix my life she get to the root and dig up everyone dirt and problem then holds them accountable. They not going to put all this on Nell they need to fix themselves too.

[@deliciaperry4684]

Facts. He ain’t hard enough. Nell needs Iyanla to make her stop talking.

[@vfeast654]

I love Dr. Francis ❤❤❤ he is very intelligent.

[@marydews8777]

Like Nell said she been helping all the long now she's just plain tired of giving . It time they stand up . Her husband didn't have much to say. They are in this together. He act like a sack of potatoes waiting to be peel.

[@user-oh4in2xg7c]

Mel is letting it be known that she is the bread winner so no matter if they go to him or not it always leads back to her and she always saving them. She felt left out, hurt and used

[@brielax4441]

*Nell not Mel

[@MyOpinionNow2024]

I have to see the whole episode, I am not sure why a 32 year has to ask her questions, if they live on their own?

[@B_ready4671]

There's NO WAY she shldv told them THEY need therapy👀..I knew she was alot when she was arguing with Martel outside their house! Seems like the parents may have missed on some life lessons! Hope they benefit from this therapy!

[@ronaldmcallister3355]

The Fletchers got issues that needs to be addressed.

[@vfeast654]

He told the other couple the truth and they Left the show. just because what was said was the truth.

[@missbdainty1]

They nosy. Dang. Smdh

[@YouBettaGetYouAhhJeniffer]

Where Lexi? Ummm

[@Grace4thislife]

I’m confused someone enlighten me because how did I go from the son speaking about his relationship issues to attachment styles 🫤