Things Get TENSE When LaTricia and Marques Meet | Love & Marriage: Huntsville | OWN

LaTricia and Marques sit down to hash out what went wrong after 18 years together. Marques says he doesn’t want LaTricia’s new man, Ken, to raise his kids, and blames Ken for his daughter not speaking to him for the past two years.
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[@Cjax504]

He abandoned his family and is upset someone made his trash a prize. No accountability

[@JeannieSmith-ik8cb]

@@Cjax504 exactly

[@acenewb1e]

EXACTLY

[@Coloradohunni9589]

Big Facto

[@traciescott1871]

He's not mature at all. Why is he concerned about the physique of the next man. So he's insecure?! Man, move on. Then, you won't pay for the filing fee after abandonment? Chile please! ✋✌

[@RobertNance-cr9fz]

Exactly, trash !!! Only a man with little to no options or extremely low self esteem would consider another man's kid's a prize. Let Pookie and Ray Ray take care their own responsibilities.

[@patriciacairo4002]

His worst fear is another man in his home around his children. Maybe he should've stayed home🤔

[@horton12wright]

How is everything you ever feared came true as if you couldn't stop it

[@ResultsByRenee]

@@patriciacairo4002 wow. To the point. Ouch.

[@user-gt3gx2fn9w]

That part ❤

[@TayTatum]

Right stop dipping

[@BellesView]

Now I get why Trish isn’t divorced. Her ex is a deadbeat and used the divorce papers to try to control her.

[@maybellllllll]

Well she could of paid too if she wanted it that bad lol

[@efeosemeha]

Facts

[@giarichardson1895]

You'd be surprised how often this happens smh

[@catrinacharles7212]

Did she say Ken will. pay for her Divorce??

[@charlisena]

​@briannjames1 the issue is him not signing the papers. You'll find out soon.

[@luvsgod2]

Let's all send Trish a virtual hug!!! She was totally abandoned by a complete deadbeat!! He wanted her and the children to suffer, but God said differently!!

[@rongelaredmond4273]

❤hugs to Trish

[@relletransparent8160]

hugs mama i know that was terrible to navigate ALONE

[@user-gt3gx2fn9w]

AMEN 🙌🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿 God watch over Trish and her beautiful kids 🙏🏿

[@ebonygood2725]

This man is upset because he can't run in and out of her house like he want too because Ken is there

[@bluewhales6877]

Yup!!!!! And left her at her worst.

[@maggiebrooks2550]

@@ebonygood2725 You're right

[@katcraig7525]

Yep. That's exactly it. He's been replaced & his ego can't take it.

[@KnowWhat]

He does NOT love his kids! He would rather no one be there to support his kids than have a MAN step in and do what he wasn’t?! This is what a lot of men who leave their family sound like! Then wonder why their children want nothing to do with them later in life!

[@Ennui83]

Oop! This. He is upset that they can live well without him. It is not clear that he wants to be a father at all. Why did he say but "we're still married" to justify why his daughter should think of only him as her father. When the marriage didn't mean he was obligated to stay, be supportive, and provide resources to his wife and children, why should it mean anything to his daughter? The lack of logic is astounding.

[@ItsAllLove4Real]

@@KnowWhat on EVERYTHING🎯🎯🎯

[@kevinharris3993]

I believe he does love his children. I just believe he is not man enough to take accountability for his choices and consequences. He seems to emotionally detach himself from the problems. It could be a coping mechanism stemming from traumatic experiences in his childhood. I don't know what it is but if he wants to reconcile with his children, he better resolve it quickly.

[@kevinharris3993]

​@@Ennui83he loves his children. However he doesn't want to take accountability for the choices he made and the consequences. The kids don't want excuses. The kids want the truth. The truth is you abandoned your children and marriage. The marriage is irretrievably broken, but you don't want the same for your children. Ask the children for forgiveness and do the work to rebuild trust in the children's life. If you are not willing to do that, then stay the hell out of the children's life. They are better off without you.

[@paulastafford1642]

💯

[@happigolucky2076]

Si basically he's mad shes happy and not struggling.

[@mrs.pettway7506]

So he would rather have her struggling by herself

[@coraboswell3652]

That was the plan 😮

[@luluallure]

Well he is a black men

[@arlenecampbell2196]

That’s what he sounds like. He sounds so STUPID..He wanted her to be by herself.

[@daisyrose5302]

Yes. Typical don’t want you but don’t want anyone else to have you either

[@JaNaeSmith-vk7uk]

Yep

[@renayduncan]

How are you gonna sit out five years and expect your kids to still be in your life?

[@JaNaeSmith-vk7uk]

He should have done right by his wife. It is called PREVENTION!!

[@atny8379]

Exactly he made it too easy and lost his wife period

[@ResultsByRenee]

No. It is standing by your wife for better or worse. It is in the marriage vows. He should have been there. Don't blame her.

[@tempestglover5945]

I Will Never Respect A Man Who Leaves His Family AIN'T NO EXCUSE💯

[@madchen521]

Period!

[@liberiarose6565]

He vibrates at a very low frequency

[@BrenPeters]

He's childish. It's what boys do. Remember "Baby Boy?" A whole chump our here.

[@LornaOchieng]

Very low. He needs to sign the damn divorce papers. Can't trust anybody with a durag or cap facing backwards. Bro you ain't LLCOOLJ And it ain't 1990 geez 🤦🏾‍♀️ I love how calm she was because I couldn't 😡

[@LadyMona85]

I swear. The whole time i watched this episode. Which was several. I peeped it. I can see why Trish just avoided dealing with him.

[@k0k01]

He bought slow

[@sharonfavor8624]

Marsau set him straight tho

[@missannsitting2246]

Ken was a blessing and he needs to be ashamed of himself.

[@TheRealCueenFoodie]

Him and Marsau meeting was GOLDEN!!! Most SERIOUS yet FUNNIEST moment of the show THUS FAR! ❤❤❤😂😂😂

[@dawnbrown3176]

I agree, Marsau told him the absolute truth and gave him good advice on how to move forward. Thumbs up for Marsau 👍

[@AnEmptyNest]

My favorite Marsau moment!

[@TheRealCueenFoodie]

@@dawnbrown3176 yaaass!!!

[@TheRealCueenFoodie]

@@AnEmptyNest by far!!! ❤️

[@praise874]

Trish handled that conversation with such grace and patience. ❤

[@user-kv4ns7gw6k]

He scared of Ken 😂😂😂😂

[@latoyajohnson8695]

He should be!!!

[@katcraig7525]

That's exactly what I was thinking. He's scared for real.

[@user-kv4ns7gw6k]

@@latoyajohnson8695 right

[@gracemolefi1372]

"I was like it's fine...Ken'll pay for it" lmaoo

[@Gigi0408]

I swear these dusty ninjas got high levels of audacity.

[@kaylevy5694]

He is shameless!

[@bellad1672]

I loved this line 😂😂

[@michelleland1753]

I loved that I was like I know that's right 😂

[@katcraig7525]

I was reading this just as she was saying it. That was savage. Ken cleaning up Marques's mess.

[@crystalrubbie9383]

i mean a man came and stepped up ..trish is a luckywomen she found a good man that accepts her and her kids .

[@abcmyninja]

I'm glad Marsau told Marques the truth too because he said that his biggest fear of another man came to be right? HE MANIFESTED THAT! Please people educate your children before this ridiculous cycle keeps happening. Before the entire world is procreated from broken home syndrome

[@Lodeenie]

That was, by far, my favorite Marsau moment!!! He leveled this man-boy

[@MeneshaBowden]

This guy is so immature, he talks about Ken being his house rather than talking about his kids

[@sapphireel7556]

He sounds so insecure. He needs to mature.

[@wrestling1973]

Marsau did a phenomenal job counseling this guy. He's obviously immature & trying to justify his actions. He's either clueless or deflecting. Ken seems to be a great guy!

[@dawnbrown3176]

Yes, he sure did. Marsau did an amazing job in telling him the absolute truth. He gave him good advice and how he should move forward.

[@latoyajohnson8695]

He’s both clueless and deflecting and let me add STUPID to the mix as well

[@dollhousexoxo6904]

He seems intellectually immature. Child like mind , and needs to realize the consequences to your actions. 🙄Saying things like “Mr Muscle’s” makes him look jealous and bitter that she’s moved on.🤷🏾‍♀️ just my opinion

[@Nita1993]

“So why she over here calling Ken her daddy then” SIR TALK TO YOUR CHILD AND ASK HER THAT. Kids have feelings! Be a parent and step up to do not only do your duties physically but EMOTIONALLY as well! And get some counseling you sound like a bitter brian

[@ItsAllLove4Real]

He wanna be on television.

[@maggiebrooks2550]

Yes!😀 i think he been been sitting at home in atlanta watching LAMH this season featuring Trisha & Ken like a fan 😄😄😄 Got him feeling all types of ways. I bet he tells anybody who will listen about how he knows Trish for real 😄😄😄

[@ItsAllLove4Real]

@@maggiebrooks2550 And you KNOW this, lil weasel looking self🤣😂🤣

[@B_Millie]

This done turned into Black Ink Crew+LAHH and Hollywood Divas cause what these mens do for work since no projects getting complete ?🤔🕵🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️🎭

[@truelife974]

Why not, we needed clarity on the situation.

[@JeannieSmith-ik8cb]

Trisha just needs to pay half for the divorce and send him on his way because it wasn't mentioned that he has a baby with another woman he just wants to control what she does, sounds like Martell jr jr to me

[@Solid79SF]

You can’t just send the father of your children on his way. There are kids involved. I think they can amicably work on co-parenting for the best interest of the kids.

[@JeannieSmith-ik8cb]

@Solid79SF I get your point, but he abandoned his children when he left his wife at a low in her life when she needed him the most and went to Atlanta and started a whole new family since they split

[@BellesView]

@@JeannieSmith-ik8cb He’s such a loser.

[@Solid79SF]

@@JeannieSmith-ik8cb I’m sure there is more to the story and more to Trisha’s past that will be revealed.

[@RescueAlwaysOfficial]

​@@Solid79SF hogwash. Stop making excuses for this DUSTY!

[@Hennylo]

Send me a Ken aka Mr Muscles lawd😂

[@rongelaredmond4273]

I want one too.

[@colbybarney6870]

Yes! In Jesus’ name!

[@maggiebrooks2550]

@@Hennylo me too! Immediately if not sooner 😃

[@katcraig7525]

I'll take one please & thank you. 😂

[@ellimac2tru]

Where y’all find this Martell Jr. at?

[@lindsaym6607]

Haha!🤣

[@ButterFlii_ORG1]

​@@lindsaym6607Nah Martell love his children and Never stopped being there for his children 💯

[@ericdwhitmorec]

​@@ButterFlii_ORG1well, during those times he was with the mistress, he wasn't there.

[@user-rj5mc2sz2p]

Nah, Martel love and care for his children….fact

[@ButterFlii_ORG1]

@@ericdwhitmorec Nah He was Still there for his children 💯 He would leave her and go right to his children Stop The Tired Old BS💯

[@GardenistaOG]

He takes no accountability whatsoever. He’s so worried about the man and not his kids

[@serritawatkins8113]

Another Martell 😂😂

[@RescueAlwaysOfficial]

@@serritawatkins8113 worse! At least Martell know where his children at.

[@lsmith1233]

If he really wanted to maintain a relationship with his children he would have set up a visitation schedule and made the effort to show up.

[@dianewhite6913]

Soooooo you're worried that he was waiting in the winds instead of you stepping up as a man

[@offendedcitizen4075]

Waiting in the Wing not Winds

[@robinnewbolt7038]

I'm not getting him at all❓❓❓❓ what ❓❓🤷🏿 sounds like you ran the streets and now you regret it but you still left, I don't get it something is missing.

[@faithandfavor7418]

Man you left!

[@RescueAlwaysOfficial]

A real Dusty. This is hard to watch. Glad she left this nightmare.

[@sammiedopee]

He came on tv just to look wild crazy lol

[@MissRhane]

YAWN!!!!!!!! giving a DB BD a platform is CRAZY.

[@lovelight342]

He dont want to rake care of his kids but is mad that another man stepped up to do his job. He mad at Ken but refusing to take responsibility smfh. He needs to grow up. Now I see why she hasn't divorced him.

[@que1018]

He is a narcissist smh

[@RescueAlwaysOfficial]

🎯

[@dayum_mi]

Buddy must be single. Thought she wasn’t going to get another man who is actively involved with her and his children. That’s uno reverse ain’t no joke.

[@nicoleh.6352]

So what was he doing the entire time he was gone🤨.. she should have been moved on

[@1934falls]

Dating someone else and moving to Atlanta with that individual

[@pamperedgurl]

technically she did move on. LOL

[@cevanbrown2314]

Dont date or flirt with me until your divorce. No messy inbetween.

[@michelledouglas-thierry3143]

He ain't got no money 😂😂😂😂😂

[@larhondasawyer5979]

He’s the worst 🤦🏽‍♀️ and gives me the creepy vibes 💯💯🙄🙄

[@BARBIETheeDoll]

Marquise needs to strp up for his kidsssssssss

[@Lovely_Soul_Of_2]

What he is really asking for is to be able to say what ever he wants to say to Ken and for Ken to just take it to make him feel better…..Basically he wants to be disrespectful and not get is butt kicked by Ken 😅

[@1934falls]

PERIOD!!!

[@ericdwhitmorec]

He keeps mentioning how Ken has a lot of muscle, and stepped in and picked up the pieces, Oh...I get it...by every metric, materialistic or otherwise, he feels inferior... that's why...makes sense now

[@canb.3991]

So you worried bout knowing a man, but you wasn't worried about your kids growing apart from you!! Smh

[@kimbrown9628]

Girllllllll Divorce him ASAP!! He left you!!

[@arielwattsaw]

She’s too weak everything is very passive and not direct !!!! In Florida If any spouse does this and abandons one another without communication it would be grounds for an immediate divorce !

[@michele462]

I don't understand why she is still married to him. Once he left I would have file for divorce.

[@naturalbeauty7081]

Once a woman moves on, the narcissistic tries to come back. You left your family grow the f*** up. Don't ever go back to someone you had to heal from.

[@Stephanie-et4qm]

Dude acts like he was away at boot camp...he was hours away and more importantly he could've stayed home! Sounds like Ken was poaching at first but, she didn't stop it. I think they all need individual counseling especially before they're get married.

[@sdjames2580]

He is Acting for the camera cause ain’t NO WAY. 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@troyboy1974]

This guy is extremely immature. He was never ready to be a husband or a father.

[@offendedcitizen4075]

Who at 19yrs is What woman is ready to be a mother at 14yr 16yrs 17yrs 19yrs hell or be married either? My mother father married 18yrs 5 children before 30yrs, domestic assault, alcoholism, divorce same scenario for couples 2024 except its more domestic assault then murder suicide

[@RescueAlwaysOfficial]

I wouldn't be surprised if he is on a different team.

[@michele462]

Yes. I thought that too.

[@truelife974]

Well all he should be worried about is his children then. Not rehashing the failed marriage.

[@d.nicolesmith7130]

😂😂😂😂 idk why that's so funny to me

[@BARBIETheeDoll]

Well Marques step up and be a father to your kids and I never had a father in my life sooooooooooo when I have kids I'm gonna step up for my kidsssssssss when I choose to have kids

[@maggiebrooks2550]

Absolutely ❤❤❤

[@jazzy5975]

Everything marsau said went one ear 1 in out the other. Marsau is too blunt for some people. You can tell when a woman is over the hurt he caused nothing he said bothered her 😂😂😂 Dont let that boy plant seeds of doubt

[@warmspicytea4285]

Ladies...this is how you handle narcissistic men, just let them talk and feel sorry for themselves. Never argue. He cares nothing about her or those kids. Trish has amazing patience. I can only imagine the arguments before she got healed from dealing with this flake.

[@jewelleve2192]

He wanted to leave her and watch her struggle without him.

[@itsquitab]

Full of excuses

[@missy8595]

He’s immature and she’s outgrown him

[@soleil3759]

When reality sets in should be the title to this one.

[@aliciathomas5499]

Dude is worried about the wrong thing. The child is upset that their dad is unavailable in every sense of the word. Children are NOT stupid. They see and hear everything, and can put things together.

[@latonyajackson867]

GET A DIVORCE AND LET HIM AND HIS EMOTIONS BE

[@ResultsByRenee]

Trish need to get a lawyer. In some states he who starts the divorce pays everything or by the one who makes more money or the the one who has the better education. Get a lawyer and document everything

[@patriciataylor2661]

I just don’t understand this 7 years and no divorce. I think if Tricia was truly done with the husband, she should’ve initiated the divorce, took her life off hold, and moved on. At this point, if she has to spend money to get rid of this dude, do it for your own mental health and happiness so she and Ken can really begin to enjoy the life that they both want. I’m just saying!! 😊

[@ResultsByRenee]

@@patriciataylor2661 so true

[@relletransparent8160]

THERES A SAYING THAT SAYS: "IF YOU WANT TO KNOW THE TRUTH, ASK THE CHILDREN". knock it off with the mom said this and that, smh, kids are the most resilient and honest creatures of the world they're very intelligent.

[@sharon-be3dn]

I think this guy is childish and selfish, he has the audacity to ask her to pay half for the divorce. I would be happy to pay half just to get rid of the man child. Now she has a real man, and suddenly after two years he's worried about another man around his kids? This man child is just looking for camera time 🤨

[@catricealphonso5672]

Don’t let your past destroy your future. What you don’t do another person will..

[@doriannorman]

DUDE!! WOULD YOU AND STORMI BOTH STOP LOOKING AT THE CAMERA 🎥

[@raisedbyhousewives]

Seriously

[@lamduannasingkharn7887]

Right! I was thinking the same thing

[@peggyamuker1582]

Girl you better off. You can do bad bad all by yourself.

[@pamelawhitten9385]

Stay away from Him !!!!!!

[@nobullzone8394]

These people continuously play in our face as if they don't know what a uncontested divorce is 🙄 all to have a storyline for a show and then call it reality TV

[@denisemoody3268]

Martell's Twin!

[@donkrider72caprice]

Bro these comments 😂😂😂that man was talking to that man wife way before they had issues if y’all don’t realize that y’all fooled

[@mocamocam2258]

Welp he should've been a better husband and man🤷🏾‍♀️

[@dnigmahowarf2616]

@@mocamocam2258lol but when men do it yall cry hard. 😂😂

[@jamsginger9059]

No he wasn’t. Don’t lie on that woman

[@pamperedgurl]

so he left to give Ken full access? That sounds smart. 😂😂😂

[@donkrider72caprice]

@@pamperedgurl I’m not saying that what I’m saying is attraction and feelings were happening during the marriage 🤷🏾

[@user-gg4vh9jx8j]

I thought she said previously that her husband is much older than her.

[@PamelaBates-op2qr]

When you leave you open that spot, you think your job won't replace you once you leave

[@beth1321]

This man is immature. She is way ahead of him in consciousness and all around growth. I see why they are no longer together. Then he turns around and asks for $200. SMH! Women need to pay attention. Some men are not worth it. Instead they’ll keep you down. It goes both ways.

[@breewin503]

I’m not interested in this story line. Please make it go away.

[@happiness5665]

Omgsh both parents so close?! Heartbreaking

[@TheDenise5497]

So...in all the years that he left, he was fine until Ken moved in and started assuming responsibility of the house

[@johngutierrez6454]

Looking at this timeline of events with a side eye

[@brandywiggins9152]

He is immature

[@TTT88961]

This season is boring!

[@truelife974]

And this was the best episode so far. 😂😂😂

[@TTT88961]

@@truelife974 Exactly! 😂

[@detroitsmoneymakingdiva4398]

He lacks maturity

[@sugarbear1493]

This dude is so immature. What world is he living in.

[@mochabrown4447]

😂😂😂

[@danijones819]

CK loves a recycled storyline...

[@ericdwhitmorec]

Ain't nothing new, till it happens to you

[@MichelleSmith-cz8ch]

They're still boring. So now they're trying to give her husband tv time?

[@emack3561]

Well her family doesn't need to push her to stay because he clearly said he's not in love with her. He simply can't stand that she will move on with someone that actually loves her.....selfish. Smdh!

[@truelife974]

That's why she's in that situation in the first place. Family should never force or influence marriage because it turns out like this. The two involved have to equally be ready.

[@215welivee]

When a better man shows up and proves who the real man is 😂

[@angelabrookes6326]

She need to tell him. Hey a day late and a 💵 dollar short .bye bye

[@ColorAffectbyBre]

You can tell he emotionally is still not in a OK place. I can also see that he wants to do better but he might be struggling on how to, he definitely needs counseling and he needs to let the image of not having his family that he left go

[@feliciamonae101]

They’re talking at each other. They need Dr. Francis.

[@franchiseplaya75]

My question is do SHE really wanna divorce this man? Cause he wouldn’t have to ask me. I would’ve gladly filed & gladly paid. I’m interested of where the divorce process will be when the reunion comes.

[@michele462]

Yes. Something is she is hiding.

[@ShawnteAmoure]

I do not know where she found the patience to have that conversation with him because I couldn't stomach it. The audacity is outrageous to me.

[@nmaope]

Brotha wanted to be chased. 😂

[@lawandacleveland7025]

She looks like Jamie Foxx when he played "Wanda"😂

[@michele462]

LOL

[@KayMcGraw-fu8mc]

Why does he need to talk with Ken?

[@bluetextbooks]

This dead beat dad has some nerve 😅

[@hotgege823]

He so worried about her current man instead of regaining his relationship with his kids

[@michele462]

Exactly 💯

[@missk8185]

5 years was long enough to get a divorce finalized.

[@valenciawilliams9215]

Dude super lame

[@MsEast8]

Why he's on the show?

[@indiaharden1086]

Yes he don’t need to be on the show