DR. GARY CHAPMAN | Do You Have A Problem Apologizing? What's Your Apology Language? EP. 902

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Dear Future Wifey

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@CarmenDrake-tz5pq
@CarmenDrake-tz5pq 21 күн бұрын
“Forgiveness doesn’t rebuild trust” - Dr. Chapman.
@beefaye6861
@beefaye6861 21 күн бұрын
This !!!! Why don’t Exes understand this 😂
@CarmenDrake-tz5pq
@CarmenDrake-tz5pq 21 күн бұрын
@@beefaye6861 I have no idea! I recently had to had a conversation with my ex-husband letting him know that ‘we are not friends’. I can’t be his friend because I do not trust him. I can however communicate with him effectively concerning our young adult sons and that’s it It is extremely difficult to set non-negotiable boundaries with someone you spent most of your life with - we were married 25 years and dated for 7 prior to marriage I swallowed my pride and initiated the conversation with him because it my spirit was vexed and my boys were suffering as a result of our ongoing discord post divorce. Nobody but Jesus!
@margotaylor6157
@margotaylor6157 19 күн бұрын
Oh that’s good
@Lapreghiera
@Lapreghiera 13 күн бұрын
​@@beefaye6861or family. Sorry, you're not getting my personal matters, can't drop your kids off to play, I'm probably not coming to the next holiday event.
@mrstanjuerhart
@mrstanjuerhart 22 күн бұрын
Can I just say, your guests are really cool but this one?! Wow! You’ve made it big time with Gary Chapman! That’s amazing!!!
@rosilandmalone5421
@rosilandmalone5421 22 күн бұрын
God will give the increase...keep walking 🚶🏾‍♀️
@agray7474
@agray7474 21 күн бұрын
TWICE!! 👏🏽🙌🏽
@Missbusybee2010
@Missbusybee2010 20 күн бұрын
He has to pay this guest..champman is not there for free…🙄
@alicetheegreet
@alicetheegreet 20 күн бұрын
Really???!!!!¡????? How do you know? I know he will often pay the guests' flights, hotel and other accommodations. I didn't know he had to pay then more as well. But that makes sense, especially since he got so much out of Chapman, from two 1 hour+ long interviews, a car interview, etc. @Missbusybee2010
@jareya
@jareya 20 күн бұрын
@@Missbusybee2010 It's a big achievement to have him on Dear Future Wifey, regardless of whether he was paid or not. Gary Chapman does not go on just any podcast, especially given his age and profile. His team will not sign him up for just any opportunity, even if the producers are willing to pay top dollar. The fact that his team chose this show is a testament to the great and reputable work that Laterras has been doing so consistently for years now. Let's learn to commend and congratulate people when they do well.
@Passion84GodAlways
@Passion84GodAlways 21 күн бұрын
BACK-TO-BACK-TO-BACK GARY CHAPMAN!!! 💎🙌🏾🙏🏾
@beefaye6861
@beefaye6861 21 күн бұрын
😂😂😂” The holy spirit put him on the floor” 😂😂😂😂
@kwamedonkor6815
@kwamedonkor6815 18 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@thinkitnotstrange
@thinkitnotstrange 14 күн бұрын
😂😂😅😂
@tamarajify
@tamarajify 12 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@keishag2087
@keishag2087 9 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂 right….
@gaylesmiley0529
@gaylesmiley0529 21 күн бұрын
Dear Future Wifey. I am a long time listener but this is my first response. ALL of your shows have been a BLESSING to my Life ❤ Dr. Chapman is a God sent to help us to acknowledge our significant other 😊 THANK YOU 🙏🏾
@DearFutureWifey
@DearFutureWifey 21 күн бұрын
Thanks for listening
@brendarodrigues3046
@brendarodrigues3046 21 күн бұрын
That Part!!!!🥰
@alicetheegreet
@alicetheegreet 21 күн бұрын
1.Expressing regret. Expressing regret by simply saying "I'm sorry." Follow that by acknowledging what you did wrong/why you're sorry. 2. Accepting responsibility. While it is easier to say 'You are right' than 'I am wrong,' the latter carries more weight and is best. Put your ego aside, take responsibly for your actions and admit that not only you were wrong, why you were wrong. 3. Make restitution. Ask the person how you can make it right. This is especially so when the infraction involves the lost of something- whether it be time or something else of monetary value. 4. Genuinely repenting. Make specific plans to change and make things better. 5. Requesting forgiveness. Just saying you're sorry and going through the above process doesn't mean that you're forgiven. You have to ask for it. Some people are better than others at just forgiving you without you having to ask for it. But some are not. Others still need you to ask for it in order for them to forgive. So, ask. Things to note here are that, both your timing and delivery needs to be on point. Avoid the word BUT in your entire apology. In fact, I'd go even further and say AVOID the word BUT in ALL manners of speech, except for when you're intentionally using it. Saying but after you've said something, negates your previous statement. These don't need to go in any kind of order. Unlike the 5 love languages, I personally believe you should do all 5 to make the person you're apologizing to, whole. For example: I'm sorry I forgot to pack the kids' lunch this morning. How about I order their lunch and have it delivered to their school today. From now on, I pack the lunches the night before so that I don't have to scramble in the mornings. Would that be OK or do you have a better suggestion for how I should proceed? Please forgive me. Follow through with making the lunches.
@sharmainegriffith9054
@sharmainegriffith9054 21 күн бұрын
Thank you!
@CHOSENWOMAN777
@CHOSENWOMAN777 21 күн бұрын
LOVE THIS❤❤❤
@beverlystokes7135
@beverlystokes7135 21 күн бұрын
So needed!!❤
@almmason7
@almmason7 21 күн бұрын
Yes, love this! Thank you ❤
@casualinthekitchen
@casualinthekitchen 20 күн бұрын
LOVE THIS!!! ❤
@shawna7227
@shawna7227 21 күн бұрын
I will take this kind of Bible teaching all day over all these “prophetess and prophets with a word.” This is how you learn to really live as a Christian in your daily life. Beautiful and needed interview. ❤
@alicetheegreet
@alicetheegreet 21 күн бұрын
Forgiveness doesn't equate trust. You can forgive someone and still not trust them. Trust needs to be earned again.
@beefaye6861
@beefaye6861 21 күн бұрын
🔥 That !!!!
@brendarodrigues3046
@brendarodrigues3046 21 күн бұрын
Real Talk
@alicetheegreet
@alicetheegreet 21 күн бұрын
​Dr Chapman is correct there. @brendarodrigues3046 and @@beefaye6861
@deshawn0228
@deshawn0228 19 күн бұрын
Forgiveness doesn’t mean I have to trust you at that moment, trust will have to be restored through reassurance
@moniquem2871
@moniquem2871 21 күн бұрын
Dr. Chapman definitely dropped some gems here. I’ll have to rewatch this with my notebook and pen at hand.
@brendarodrigues3046
@brendarodrigues3046 21 күн бұрын
FACTS!!! Your life won’t be the same. 💎😊🥰
@angelabannister455
@angelabannister455 20 күн бұрын
I already miss the old intro! I loved singing the song and reciting everything everyone said…”When I made my vows, I told God…” Oh, that was just me?? Carry on….😂😂😂
@alicetheegreet
@alicetheegreet 20 күн бұрын
That was not just you! I did the same thing too! LOL 😂 Some of us had mentioned that last week; and Laterras said that KZbin kept giving him issues over the song being copyrighted even though he's the one who both wrote it and owns it. Hopefully that'll clear up soon and he can put it as the background to these new clips.
@annesw5471
@annesw5471 21 күн бұрын
Wow! "Forgiveness is a choice not a feeling" forgiving ourselves is HARD!... but indeed we do need to FORGIVE OURSELVES 🎉🙏🏽 LORD help us.
@alicetheegreet
@alicetheegreet 21 күн бұрын
Love stimulates love. If you want your partner, friend, etc to love you better, first start by loving them and expressing love to them, in their love primary language(s).
@shannonwhite6591
@shannonwhite6591 21 күн бұрын
I done all the things he was talking about. However, relationship don't work when someone tells you they don't love you and continues to step outside of marriage then refuses counseling. No abuse is acceptable. I learned through Jesus to forgive and move on. Years later I stand single, healed and whole.
@alicetheegreet
@alicetheegreet 21 күн бұрын
You can't beat a dead horse. Sometimes the best thing you can do for both your mental health and for that relationship, is to let them go. I think Dr. Chapman touched on this in this episode. You shouldn't tolerate abuse, and if the person isn't where they need to be, sometimes you just have to release them to your higher power and let that be the resolution for you and your situation. @shannonwhite6591
@brendarodrigues3046
@brendarodrigues3046 21 күн бұрын
@@shannonwhite6591real talk
@brendarodrigues3046
@brendarodrigues3046 21 күн бұрын
@@alicetheegreetfacts
@alicetheegreet
@alicetheegreet 21 күн бұрын
🤗@@brendarodrigues3046
@Rissaj07
@Rissaj07 21 күн бұрын
Only 18 minutes in and I think I might need to watch this 3 times a week for the next week and take notes. Very valuable info!
@Chelle1Love_
@Chelle1Love_ 21 күн бұрын
After I finish reading the Bible in its entirety in December. I will read the Chapman series. I knew nothing about the 5 apology languages. This is awesome.
@downwiththeclique7239
@downwiththeclique7239 21 күн бұрын
His book on Anger has helped me tremendously, and the five love languages was a great read as well. I love Gary Chapman
@jonesrashandia3535
@jonesrashandia3535 21 күн бұрын
I knew about the 5 love language but I didn’t know that there were 5 apology languages.
@blackqueen67
@blackqueen67 21 күн бұрын
I found out about the Apology language when I went to Dr. Chapman's website last week to retake the Love language test. This is very interesting, I don't think I have ever said at the end of an apology will you forgive me!!
@mstonda3
@mstonda3 21 күн бұрын
We’ve been blessed with back to back episodes with this incredible man!?! Whew! 🤯 He’s truly a gem. Thank you for these AWESOME episodes. These were everything! 🔥
@brendarodrigues3046
@brendarodrigues3046 21 күн бұрын
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥EVERYTHING!!
@wmenofdestiny
@wmenofdestiny 20 күн бұрын
Fifteen minutes in and I realize this is one of the most powerful conversations that need to be heard by all. I can’t even express how powerful this really is. More powerful, in MY opinion, than the love languages. People will love and learn to love with more acceptance than apologizing and saying I’m sorry. There’s that block and even the best kindest people can find speaking the words so difficult. MAN THIS IS GOOD AND IM SHARING IT WITH EVERYONE!!!!!!!!!! 33:18
@j.o.y_aliba
@j.o.y_aliba 21 күн бұрын
Laterras you and Uncle Garry again!! Lord I love this!
@ina0603
@ina0603 21 күн бұрын
Your podcast is not for the shallow! I love it here.
@brendarodrigues3046
@brendarodrigues3046 21 күн бұрын
👏🏾ME, too!!!!!
@t7cooley420
@t7cooley420 22 күн бұрын
Laterras with the help of the Lord you just keep showing up. I have to be honest it was a pleasant surprise to see him back on again. Looking forward to this timely discussion. Maybe soon I can become a member of Patreon, so I can be a fly on the wall and hear y’all’s car conversation. It’s all good. 😂 Amen & Amen 🙏🏽
@3peasinapodity
@3peasinapodity 21 күн бұрын
I think this episode has definitely changed the narrative of the relationship between my daughters and me. Blessings Dr. Gary Chapman🙏🏽
@talawoods25
@talawoods25 19 күн бұрын
I have Dr. Chapman's book, but to HEAR him on this podcast, really blessed me.
@nikiariley7761
@nikiariley7761 21 күн бұрын
Dr.Gary Chapman Library on your website !! Each one teach one! Bravo gentlemen!!
@seld6019
@seld6019 21 күн бұрын
These interviews are bringing VALUE into our life!!! KEEP UPPING THE ANTY 🔥🔥
@alicetheegreet
@alicetheegreet 21 күн бұрын
The 5 steps in the process of an apology, which is what I'd call how one apologizes instead of apology languages, is something we learn at a very young age as children in my family/culture; and in just about every class I've taken on leadership. One thing we were taught at a very young age, is to carry on in a way so that you don't ever have to apologize. Meaning, be mindful of how you're carrying on so that you don't have to do anything to people that would warrant you apologizing. That being said though, some of us have interpreted that saying as we shouldn't apologize even when we're not right and we know we're not right. These types of conversations will really help a lot of people.
@brendarodrigues3046
@brendarodrigues3046 21 күн бұрын
Yes, They Truly Do.
@alicetheegreet
@alicetheegreet 21 күн бұрын
Sure helped me. @@brendarodrigues3046
@Happey67
@Happey67 21 күн бұрын
Dr. Chapman, thank you for your time. Too many people in the churches, in the western world are getting divorce after 40 years. etc.
@blueeyes3079
@blueeyes3079 21 күн бұрын
Love these topics! Apology and Love Languages are HUGE
@juke4yagirl
@juke4yagirl 21 күн бұрын
Having listened to Mr. Chapman has helped to soften my heart and mind. I am moved to love differently and apologize with more intent. God is so wonderful for His everlasting love for us and we can only try to be as pure as the image He created us in. In all things, we must seek Him and the pieces will come together. Faith without works is dead, so we must remain vigilant and be faithful warriors for God. 💙😇
@Minister-Misty
@Minister-Misty 21 күн бұрын
Coming back to this later! Last week's episode was excellent! Respect for him & this podcast.
@pksensation
@pksensation 20 күн бұрын
I heard about the apology languages years ago while I was going through a heartbreak season but forgot about it. In 2022, I enrolled in LIT 101 masterclass that Laterras created. I did the assessment and identiFound my apology language. The assessment taught me there were multiple ways to apologize which means each apology style is legitimate. Not knowing that six months afterward, God would divinely orchestrate a meeting with the man who was the subject of my heartbreak. He apologized and although he did not apologize the way i wanted him to it was a legitimate apology. A heavy load was lifted. It took ten years for this to happen because I was ready! Thanks LT and Dr. Chapman.
@DearFutureWifey
@DearFutureWifey 20 күн бұрын
I remember you sharing this. Such a powerful testimony.
@margotaylor6157
@margotaylor6157 19 күн бұрын
Forgiveness is a Choice. Not a Feeling
@inspiration8658
@inspiration8658 21 күн бұрын
Thank you for such masterful sharing and teaching. Dr. Gary Chapman is in a league by himself.
@rosilandmalone5421
@rosilandmalone5421 22 күн бұрын
Blessed me, indeed. Thank you both. 🌬🙏🏽
@ChristineIdokogi
@ChristineIdokogi 21 күн бұрын
The master class you gave us on both of these! God bless you sir!!
@roka2031
@roka2031 21 күн бұрын
I think if someone really forgives, it's not that they won't remember, but it's how the person remembers, are you remembering with bitterness/anger....or is it a memory you can talk about neutrally, without becoming upset....
@GODSGIFTS76
@GODSGIFTS76 21 күн бұрын
I really enjoyed this episode...so many things I did NOT KNOW about men being told real men don't apologize 😮. To know thar GOD has been in the midst of how I raised my children, mainly my son about apologizing. I would never tell my children to apologize and would tell the other party why I didn't tell them to apologize. They could ONLY APOLOGIZE if they were sincere. I chose to raise my Sunshinesdifferentlyt from what I saw. So this episode showed that,YUP GOD WAS RAISING THEM while I still was in my trauma. But thank God for this episode. I wish more men could hear this.❤
@alicetheegreet
@alicetheegreet 20 күн бұрын
I hope you'll heal from your trauma soon.
@kwamedonkor6815
@kwamedonkor6815 18 күн бұрын
Ma homie, "Dr Gary Chapman!" 😂😂 Love it Laterras!
@belindakaswarra4391
@belindakaswarra4391 21 күн бұрын
Thank you Laterras for bringing back Dr. Gary Chapman 😊
@bthechurch7877
@bthechurch7877 21 күн бұрын
PHEW !!!This was EXCELLENT. So much I didn't know.
@CarmenDrake-tz5pq
@CarmenDrake-tz5pq 21 күн бұрын
“There has to be a response to an apology. As Christians we have the response to forgive. Give them credit now that we know the 5 apology languages” - Dr. Chapman I choose to have healthy relationships. I choose to be whole and complete. I choose to forgive and extend the same grace to others that I need extended to me. With God ALL things are possible 🙌🏾
@brendarodrigues3046
@brendarodrigues3046 21 күн бұрын
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 You truly understood the assignment. ✅That they are!!!!!👏🏾
@peytonwright5346
@peytonwright5346 21 күн бұрын
I must say that not only have the 2 visits with Dr. Chapman been very enlightening, but I love his laugh. ❤❤
@reva4540
@reva4540 21 күн бұрын
This was such a good interview. I learned a lot and will definitely be sharing this with family and friends. Thank you for having Dr. Chapman on Laterras. This is why I love your podcast. You are constantly helping us to evolve while stretching us in areas that we don’t realize that we need to be stretched in. What a blessing!
@WellnessForMoms
@WellnessForMoms 20 күн бұрын
💯
@t.r.2927
@t.r.2927 20 күн бұрын
Releasing those that sinned against you to God so you can be free! What a Word! Wow! Thanks
@hs-qk9qf
@hs-qk9qf 21 күн бұрын
Ok, I'm digging the Dr. Chapman yellow love seat sessions!
@sandrawillis-curry6701
@sandrawillis-curry6701 21 күн бұрын
Amazing. I have followed Dr. Chapman for years. He taught me how to raise children and a husband. Keep up the great work L.
@brendarodrigues3046
@brendarodrigues3046 21 күн бұрын
+A Husband 😂🤣😂
@imacayebazibwe6412
@imacayebazibwe6412 21 күн бұрын
After watching 5 love languages, this is very awesome. I've never heard of them.
@josannebritto6898
@josannebritto6898 20 күн бұрын
I love you Pastor Chapman, I love the five love language and apology is bigggg. I'm going to work on practicing them and teach my kids how to apologize the correct way. I need to invest in your books❤. Thanks so much for all the wisdoms u shared wit us. May God continue to bless you,your family and ministry 👏💯❤️🔥🙌👏
@marquiesbyrd7783
@marquiesbyrd7783 20 күн бұрын
This was a much needed interview. 😊
@stephaniemorriar7578
@stephaniemorriar7578 21 күн бұрын
I am anticipating an enlightening discussion. So glad Dr. Chapman is back.
@nataseloo1862
@nataseloo1862 21 күн бұрын
Thank you . This is just what I needed today after not acting the best to my husband.
@gracenewhart
@gracenewhart 21 күн бұрын
Wow!! What an amazing episode. Literally the reason I broke up with the love of my life because he refused to apologize after really hurting me. He was so shocked when I broke up with him. It was the hardest thing to do but I never took him back because for me that was a dealbreaker .
@yvettejones6196
@yvettejones6196 21 күн бұрын
Dear Laterras! Shout out to you and your family from New Orleans, Louisiana!! Each time I listen to your podcast I always say that this is the best podcast ever! I’m so proud of your work and success. You and Dr. Chapman seemed like old friends sharing healing nuggets to us. Thanks again ❤🙏🏾
@nialewis2017
@nialewis2017 21 күн бұрын
26:50 Amen !! ❤️💯
@nissanracer2242
@nissanracer2242 17 күн бұрын
What a blessing these episodes were.Thank God for your gift & the fact that you share it with us all.❤
@eunicenwanehiudo3866
@eunicenwanehiudo3866 22 күн бұрын
I'm currently on this book💃💃💃❤. Last episode was 🔥🔥I look forward to this💃
@Chinamay812
@Chinamay812 20 күн бұрын
So if person that has offended me has already died, they will never confess their sin. What Gary said regarding releasing angry (negative feelings toward person) to God is STILL the definition of FORGIVENESS.
@jareya
@jareya 21 күн бұрын
The episodes are treasures for us, filled with practical wisdom. God bless you both.
@brendarodrigues3046
@brendarodrigues3046 21 күн бұрын
Let me just start off by saying CONGRATULATIONS! Your interviews and interviewees are on another level, from an entirely different dimension. 👏🏾Exceptional! Do you hear me? Dr. Gary Chapman, man of God, every word that proceeds from your mouth is golden. Valuable. Like our Heavenly Father’s, it will not return void. I pray many are blessed by your teachings. You exude confidence, strength, and the very knowledge you requested in prayer. No lack, no shortage, no shortcomings, and certainly nothing wasted. May you see the manifestation of all your prayers. Thank you for introducing the website and encouraging viewers to take the quiz. I’m excited for my first attempt. I might need more. (lol) The biblical analogy of the parable in Luke 15, specifically verses 11-32 about the Prodigal Son, illustrates the nature of God's forgiveness and the joy found in repentance and reconciliation. Genius! I love when information, data, or facts are backed with biblical teachings and not necessarily used outside its original context. #scripture I was going to write out all five as I certainly took notes, but it just so happens @alicethegreet beat me to the punch, and what an EXCELLENT job she did. If you're seeking, the website is fivelovelanguages.com. Now, some of my favorite, possibly paraphrased phrases: forgiveness does not remove the consequence(s), we are NEVER better for doing wrong, forgiveness does not restore trust, and don’t make that decision by yourself. I can’t wait to get my hands on the book, "Things I Wish I Knew Before I Got Married." Hmmm..🤔 Laterras, if I’m being completely honest, I’m not simply fan-crushing, although, I know, I lay the compliments on thick, but, in short, your life’s mission blows my mind. I can’t wait to see the full evolution of Kingdom Royale. Definitely going to the website to check out the continual development of that. May God bless your hands so that everything you find yourself to do, you do it well. To your future wife, I hope she is as prepared as you are. Yolanda Adams' "I'm Gonna Be Ready," since you have visibly done the groundwork, laid the foundation, and the framework for the house is going up. #integralstructure May she get in, where she fits in, and make it HOME. What table? God has given you a buffet, smorgasbord, and so much more. #feast 🙏🏾Blessings BIG BIG L💞VE - 🌺InspirationByB, a branch and affiliate of ⚜️HairByB (Facebook Profiles: Brenda Brown-Rodrigues and Hair By B)
@alicetheegreet
@alicetheegreet 20 күн бұрын
Aren't you sweet! I'd copied and pasted it from last week's comments section. Someone had mentioned it and then I went and did some research; and I really feel like it brought some much needed closure to my life. I'd shared that experience then and so won't share it here again. For a very long time before last week, memories of that situation would pop up and I've always wondered what happened and now I know. I thought I'd help the next person who read that comment and put them out so that the next person can just see it and not have to search for it, and can spend that time on something else instead. Next time I'm in IG, I'll be sure to check out your pageand support you as much as I can. I'm looking forward to an update on Kingdom Royale too! 🙂
@elishacreekmur5747
@elishacreekmur5747 21 күн бұрын
Outstanding interview!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@janiebroxson2837
@janiebroxson2837 19 күн бұрын
So much wisdom! God bless this message and those who gave it 🙏
@roka2031
@roka2031 21 күн бұрын
Must say........ Gary Chapman has been your best guest/interview so far.
@shantakoa8596
@shantakoa8596 19 күн бұрын
❤❤❤Dr. Chapman. I thought I watched this but Nope it is about apologizing.
@michelematthews1934
@michelematthews1934 21 күн бұрын
This is gonna be GOOD!!!! So happy that Dr Chapman is back!!
@godsprincess9499
@godsprincess9499 20 күн бұрын
Thank God for using you both! 🙏🏾 ❤
@karellkelly2058
@karellkelly2058 21 күн бұрын
Great lessons ❤
@MsChapman
@MsChapman 21 күн бұрын
This is the best lesson and couple wanting a serious relationship needs to learn! This is life changing!
@earline8547
@earline8547 21 күн бұрын
Excellent Message! Thank you.
@ItsBonnieAdams
@ItsBonnieAdams 19 күн бұрын
Absolutely loved the love languages episode. To find this one now just makes my heart full and love this channel even more ❤
@fyndlove
@fyndlove 21 күн бұрын
This is amazing! I never knew there were apology languages. Learning these absolutely improved my relationships
@DSH-h5n
@DSH-h5n 21 күн бұрын
This guest has truly shared exceptional & beneficial information. A lot of gems given... "food for thought". Thanks for having them on.
@schenikasmith7430
@schenikasmith7430 21 күн бұрын
WOW! God forgives those that repent of their sins.
@justlillian__
@justlillian__ 22 күн бұрын
Yayyyy!! He's back! Let me get my notebook and pen. ❤
@ykeemo2819
@ykeemo2819 20 күн бұрын
This was another inspiring episode with Dr. Chapman. I didn't know about his book on the Apology Language & I will be incorporating this in my life. I too had to learn to ask God to release the person who has cause me so much pain without an apology for their actions towards me. Forgiveness doesn't mean you forget and that's OK. Forgive and release the pain and release that person to GOD. As a mom to our son I teach him the importance of apologizing. I say son it's not about being right or wrong, it's about being accountable for your actions and recognizing how your actions have impacted someone else. Thank you Laterras. I love this episode and this season is going to be AMAZING! God bless you!
@DivineDivaLiya
@DivineDivaLiya 21 күн бұрын
I need part 1! I’m coming back to rewatch when I can focus and take notes 📝
@Mary-pj9ed
@Mary-pj9ed 21 күн бұрын
Great interview! Dr. Chapman gave a lot of insight on forgiveness
@brendarodrigues3046
@brendarodrigues3046 21 күн бұрын
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 A Lot! And it did not fall on deaf ears.🥰
@essenceoftrina
@essenceoftrina 21 күн бұрын
I always enjoy Dr. Chapman when I hear him speak and his books, just ordered more for my reading collection. I grew up hearing him on Focus on the Family as a guest. Another great similar Christian Psychologist is Dr. Gary Smalley. They are very similar and he too would appear on Focus on the Family.
@maryphillips3686
@maryphillips3686 21 күн бұрын
I didn’t want it to end. Awesome ❤❤
@tashajoyner4371
@tashajoyner4371 21 күн бұрын
Loved the 5 love languages episode. Purchased the book and have learned so much. Using it to understand how to love people better and one day my husband 💜
@astovall4678
@astovall4678 21 күн бұрын
Amazing!! ❤❤❤Thank you for this interview.
@venetiaP
@venetiaP 21 күн бұрын
Oh Mr. Gary back?! 🤗
@ChefG55
@ChefG55 16 күн бұрын
Dr Gary Chapman such a general in the Kingdom.. Laterras you are so intentional with every season.. Another amazing episode.. We must truly repent to receive God’s forgiveness.. Trust is rebuilt overtime with changed behavior..Learning I will take the apology language quiz.. 🙏🏾👏🏾💚
@chanyg1013
@chanyg1013 21 күн бұрын
Amazing interview that ministered to me in so many ways. ❤
@user-hr1in6jj4c
@user-hr1in6jj4c 21 күн бұрын
We definitely need lots of counseling in our community!
@rosiresilient
@rosiresilient 21 күн бұрын
Love this book. Just told friend yesterday. Look at God. All ears. Ready for note taking
@Birthat40
@Birthat40 22 күн бұрын
🤩Cant wait 🙌🏾
@larecashon6759
@larecashon6759 19 күн бұрын
Thank God for Gary Chapman!! This is a game changer! I’ve already shared this with several married couples I know who is needed exactly this in their marriage. Thank you Laterras for having him!! 💃🏽💃🏽🔥🔥
@wmenofdestiny
@wmenofdestiny 20 күн бұрын
LRW,I was set free from others opinions, with this. Forgiveness does not rebuild trust. I’ve had to explain this to numerous people when they have said “ you said you forgive him” Yes, yes I did but that does NOT MEAN I trust him. Being trustworthy rebuilds trust!! Oh my gosh!!! Praise God. Thank you Jesus. I’m crying. 40:21
@moniquelockhart6942
@moniquelockhart6942 20 күн бұрын
After listen to this message I order my book. Thank you for back to back Gray Chapman. Can't wait to read and share with family and friends. Getting it today
@ladiesofiron
@ladiesofiron 21 күн бұрын
This is RIGHT ON TIME.❤❤❤
@lorettacox7990
@lorettacox7990 21 күн бұрын
Absolutely Awesome 👏🏾
@brendarodrigues3046
@brendarodrigues3046 21 күн бұрын
AWESOME!!!!!
@thequeenofresources
@thequeenofresources 18 күн бұрын
This interview was 🔥 and it is good to know that I am in good standing with apologizing to others that I wrong. I always try to make it right before I leave the person just in case I never get a second chance to do so again!!!!! ❤
@elainejohnson8392
@elainejohnson8392 20 күн бұрын
Great Topic. Thank you for Touching on everything where Christian Men/WOMEN are hurting and stuck in PAIN. I ENJOYED IT. KEEP LEADING BROKEN PEOPLE TO HEAL.
@sheilaholman4712
@sheilaholman4712 14 күн бұрын
You’ve hit the top tier in the relationship arena, Laterras!! Congrats on getting this guest. And thank you for taking the time to explore both love languages and apologies. So many gems!!
@marynsasa1789
@marynsasa1789 21 күн бұрын
Forgiveness is such a hurdle 🙌🙌I haven't forgiven this other neighbor of mine and till now am the one who suffocates whenever am moving past through them.
@tonnica364
@tonnica364 21 күн бұрын
Another amazing episode! Thank you for bringing on Dr. Chapman… very much needed!
@DRLFHTV
@DRLFHTV 18 күн бұрын
A wealth of information to help us to be better not just for ourselves but also for others. I enjoyed this interview. ❤
@mxsade88
@mxsade88 20 күн бұрын
Yes, I’m releasing to the Lord!
@carlamosby8337
@carlamosby8337 21 күн бұрын
Can you imagine showing up to premarital counseling and THE Dr. Chapman is your counselor?! What?! Dr Chapman doing jail marital counseling & what he advised the man on how to forgive himself was powerful! 🔥for real for real, if the fav pie, 2 yr reconciliation couple are still alive, please bring them in! I would love to hear their testimony! I’m still shook…
@Birthat40
@Birthat40 19 күн бұрын
Omg! I was thinking the samething.. I want to know so bad did he eat that pie. 😳😂🥰
@carlamosby8337
@carlamosby8337 19 күн бұрын
@@Birthat40 me too!! What did the gf say?! What else did God tell the wife to do?! 😳🤔 what a testimony of redemption, restoration & reconciliation..sounds like a Hallmark/Lifetime/Fireproof movie to me & I would watch!
@Birthat40
@Birthat40 19 күн бұрын
@@carlamosby8337 yes🥰
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