I have shared this video with hundreds of people on different social media platforms. After having panic attacks every single day for 4 months straight, tried multiple therapists, doctors, medications, etc. This video was my saving grace. Nothing else worked for me.
@rickjamez49877 жыл бұрын
This guy understands panic disorder like no one I've ever heard
@vay7656 жыл бұрын
Exactly bro
@lawrencegregory46056 жыл бұрын
@@rtbt12 Listen, it really doesn't matter who was the first person to discover this truth. All that matters is that it has a transformative effect. Let's not worry about ideas not being original or "copying" from someone else. Of course we get ideas from other people, it's how we learn. Let's just appreciate people passing on the helpful information :)
@kevinc7215 жыл бұрын
John Barnes dude exactly, Claire Weekes revolutionized the methods for panic disorder treatment
@alexanderaultman5 жыл бұрын
@@lawrencegregory4605 Claire Weekes is one of the most important voices in regards to anxiety recovery, and unfortunately not everyone is aware of her work. Dr. Harry Barry's similarities to Claire Weekes are not coincidental. His approach is very similar, except it's modernized through the lens of neurology. Claire Weekes' approach on the other hand has a more sentimental tone to it, which I personally believe is invaluable. To speak to your overall point, it's not a competition. Every anxiety sufferer should be aware of her work, not because her work is original, but because there is a reason why so many people have felt a newfound hope in reading her books.
@lawrencegregory46055 жыл бұрын
@@alexanderaultman Well said, it's not a competition 🙂👍
@casesully504 жыл бұрын
I went into this video scared for my job and livelihood but now I feel like I can get through this and get on with my life. Edit: I've been shot at in Afghanistan, almost blown up, but these panic attacks are the scariest things I've ever faced in my life. So if you're reading this you're not alone. We'll get through this.
@truthexposer24803 жыл бұрын
I hope you’re doing well. Everything does pass.
@Dame7043 жыл бұрын
❤❤❤
@melmel60093 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your msg. Hope it will go away for forever... I want myself back!
@Lifeisbeautiful-d9l3 жыл бұрын
💜💜💜
@michaelmullins88663 жыл бұрын
I hear you buddy I’ve faced Tiger Sharks and nothing has scared me more than these evil MFs
@denicetapper6 жыл бұрын
I watched this video a few dAys ago right in the middle of a terrible panic attack...tried his technique of accepting the panic attack now I'm free of panic..thanks very much for this video it literally saved my life
@lawrence53765 жыл бұрын
denice tapper 🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿
@crissygomez54844 жыл бұрын
So you don’t get anymore panic attacks? I need hope.
@crissygomez54844 жыл бұрын
Geeky Alex thank you
@jmt.23284 жыл бұрын
Crissy Gomez They can be managed to the point it won’t affect your life anymore but you need to work on it. Learn patience.
@margaretgill28474 жыл бұрын
Denice Tapper. Can you explain a bit more. I accept, it will not harm me. But please - what did you do, and just once. Thank you.
@andreadeans25203 жыл бұрын
Accepting the feelings as they come and embracing the panic is the best way to overcome panic attacks, you're not alone, you're not in danger
@catarinobecerra2266 Жыл бұрын
I’m having a panic attack right now 😢
@DJhutcherson Жыл бұрын
@@catarinobecerra2266me too my friend...I hope you're ok now
@Sky108117 ай бұрын
i started doing almost daily sport where there is a lot of focus on breating: yoga, stretching, pilates. it does help a bit
@WilliamMcinnes-sj4pf3 ай бұрын
❤
@maww38077 жыл бұрын
I'm 23 years old now and since the summer of 2015 my life has changed due to my first panic attack when i ended up in hospitals doing all kind of checks of course I am in perfect health but still struggle to overcome this sensations, when it starts I usually feel like I am about to die because my heart is racing and I feel like I can t breathe and that my heart will stop,also my hands get numb and I have a forhead pressure like like my head is going to explode, however I am trying to embrace the situation like nothing will happen and seems to be better for a while now, I hope all of us here which fight with anxiety and depression will look at this video as a memory of our brave journey couse one day this is all that is gonna be, a memory. Have faith y'all, we can do it !!
@nahuel927 жыл бұрын
MA Ww that's so inspiring and encouraging, thank you so much. You described the same symptoms that I have. I'll try this therapy, it must work!
@maryannejohn16336 жыл бұрын
MA Ww..tks for sharing n giving me more hope.😃
@Farhmand6 жыл бұрын
Yes we can do it!
@michaelrieken31276 жыл бұрын
do any of you guys go into like almost convulsions at times from the almost like you're on meth? i have horrible panic disorder and a bad back so when mine come on everything tightens up and its almost like i twitch and convulse
@davidm47286 жыл бұрын
thank you MA Ww. i just want it to go away already
@Castro3868 Жыл бұрын
I wish I could take away everyone’s anxiety and panic. This really is one of, if not the scariest things I have ever gone through and I know I’m not alone. Dr Barry is such a blessing. I remember when I was younger I would hear people talk about anxiety and I would always say, “get out of your head”, “move on with your thoughts”…. Little did I know. I wish I could tell all of those people how sorry I am for saying that 😢
@Waves353Ай бұрын
I used to think the same
@shahid8545 Жыл бұрын
This happened to be one night at 43yrs old. I'm a male who never had any problem with panic or anxiety. One night after I took 4 to 5 pulls off a joint.. 20min later I'm thrashing myself up against the hallways in my house trying to keep myself from "dying" or blacking out. To the sink to splash water on my face, my peripheral was darkening, heart pounding, dread and doom overcame me, I was no longer in control, my breath was short and I felt like I was about to die. 911 was called, went outside and told 911 operator that I'm about to collapse. EMT guys were ignorant goofs and treated me like a drug addict. I barely smoke weed, I had a few puffs.. something happened that day that sent me over the hill and it wasnt just the weed. I took me an hour to calm down, I felt alone because the EMT people treated me like I was a junkie, They left me in a hallway in the hospital, no one was trying to help me, I felt like I was going to die there. Finally a nurse came, she helped me, she wheeled me into a room, talked to me, gave me some warm blankets and water, explained to me that everything looked fine, vitals were OK (besides the heart rate) which came down. They left me there for 4hrs.. another nurse came in about 1 and half later. Gave me a small white pill to put under my tongue, within 25min I was totally calm. I made it through this. Since then I have had 1 more nasty one and a few what I call "nearlies" and a bunch of weird subtle random disorientation type moments that happen fairly frequent. This entire thing changed my life because although they are pretty harmless, the 1st one really changed the way I view my life, that your end can come whenever and suddenly, I would imagine that people before they die often feel those exact feelings and It gave me a very real and intimate new found relationship with dying, my reality in this life and just how fickle and uncertain things really are. Ok maybe this sounds morbid but this experience has taught me things I never knew about myself and it made me more courageous in a sense about things, it altered my view on my existence and after I have grappled with these feelings of impending doom a bunch of times... I don't fear it anymore and has given me a confidence I never had before, I'm much more in control of situations that could have started my anxiety to flare because I have gotten a handle on this thing and in a weird way, I don't fear dying anymore.. I mean let's face it, the only reason why panic attacks suck and are scary is because it mimmicks death and we don't want to die.. but since I have accepted my mortality and accepted that we all just live on a tightrope of death every single moment of our lives, this understanding has kind of freed me in a weird sense and I'm much more bold because of this situation, I fear less now about it which makes me fear less about other things because what's scarier than feeling like you are going to die? Nothing! So once that is conquered everything else seems like nothing. Turn this thing into a positive and do not let it control your life.. if it comes it comes, let it come, invite it.. I don't care anymore, since I have developed this mindset things have really gotten better for me. Peace and love.
@NKCS7 Жыл бұрын
Beautiful message, hope you’re doing good still.
@shahid8545 Жыл бұрын
@@hfndhhsh Your welcome and don't think it's permanent because it isn't. It may take a year or more but as time goes it will fade away. The worst thing you can do is feed it fear and be anxious. Magnesium supplement helped me also and cold showers when you feel one coming on.
@heatherinCT6 ай бұрын
Well written. I have a question: are you able to work?
@shahid85456 ай бұрын
@heatherinCT yes I have always worked. Even when I had my first episode I was at work the following day after.
@heatherinCT6 ай бұрын
@@shahid8545 thank you for responding. That gives me hope. I've never smoked weed, however your description of your attack mirrors how mine go and the thing w me is it has affected my life where I'm currently not working. Until this began happening to me I always worked. Since it first happened i have had jobs but this has been an ongoing issue. I recently left my job thus currently jobless. The ultimate test for me will be allowing an attack like this to come while I'm at my job. In the past I would usually pace and "try to stop it" before I read and learned how you're supposed to allow it. It always comes down to the "sense of losing consciousness " where I decide to leave at a certain point.
@mrharibro Жыл бұрын
I remember, I was five days in to my first panic attack. Nothing helped, nothing made it seem less like the world was ending. After five days, I was finally able to shuffle my way upstairs to my office and turn on my computer. I KZbin how to stop panic attacks what it was and everything about it, and then, right when I was about to shut it off, I found this video and a third of the way into this video I started bawling. The supreme accuracy and detail of my symptoms being explained in a thoughtful way, reminding me that I’m not going crazy that it’s not gonna last forever that it is the most common thing in the world, saved me. it was only after finally watching this video that after five days my panic attacks went away. It’s been three years and I am just coming down off of a panic attack. This is the first video I go to when it’s happening and it helps me every single time. we are not crazy, and this isn’t going to last. I trigger the attack because I’m afraid of triggering the attack. Thank you for this video and all you’ve done for me in my life.
@92kemkem8 жыл бұрын
Every time I feel anxious and panic attacks. I watch his video. And just listen to him will calm me down.
@mohafad38686 жыл бұрын
ken loh that’s what I’m doing
@MILITANT16 жыл бұрын
Me too man
@royalstoner826 жыл бұрын
Me to😊
@Farhmand6 жыл бұрын
Same but we need to learn how to control panic attacks by ourselves
@mountiescorner5 жыл бұрын
ken loh the combo between his voice and the soothing music is amazing. I’m having a bad one today and this is helping big time
@jpage999995 жыл бұрын
His strategy: During huge anxiety attack, or fear imagine yourself glued to the ground in one spot. You feel incredibly stuck and you want to scream you feel like you're going mad, and fight and run away but he says you just sit there and float with the anxiety, let it wash over you as in a big wave. It's nothing more than adrenalin and when you stay put the amygdala eventually turns off.
@levikainalu58254 жыл бұрын
i had a panic attack before my flight yesterday and I couldn't even go onto it. I wish I read this before because when I left the airport my conscious mind caught up to me when I was in the car and I realized what I just did.
@Jwingmann3 жыл бұрын
@@levikainalu5825 that’s why I have a prescription to Xanax. Sometimes life has to go on and I can’t let my anxiety or irrational thoughts get in the way of my ultimate goal. I rarely take the medication. Only when flying or long road trips
@shawntill3 жыл бұрын
Essentially!
@k.baller51403 жыл бұрын
@@Jwingmann the ER prescribed me xanax too but I don't want to rely on that. I'm going to fight it on my own
@naourgamer73393 жыл бұрын
@@k.baller5140 how is it going?
@JonnyQ4088 жыл бұрын
We need more doctors like you.
@PrakashSoni-cd7rj8 жыл бұрын
dude i see you on every video I'm watching please tell me any tips you have my life is ruined by these attacks
@JonnyQ4088 жыл бұрын
+Prakash Soni When I get these attacks now, which isn't as much as I get them in the past, I don't try to stop them because when I do, it makes them worse, I write down how I'm feeling, what symptoms, what I'm thinking in the moment. Once you get these thoughts off the back of you're mind they will slowly leave, think about anxiety as a bully, bullies will push you around till you face them head on without fearing it, once you face a bully, and show them you are don't scared anymore, you slowly push them back, and they will start to back off slowly. If you have a lot of negative thoughts like most of us with anxiety does go for a quick walk, during sunrise or sunset, and enjoy the view and live in the moment.
@PrakashSoni-cd7rj8 жыл бұрын
yeah man what basically triggers me is my heart i panic because my heart rate goes up and my heart rate goes up because i panic it feels like an endless cycle anything related to heart makes me panic like skipping a beat pounding heart etc and because i am a stay at home kid it happens very often talking to someone i dont know makes my heart beat faster coz i dont do that often and then i go into panic mode right away you know feeling dizzy blurry vision etc i am 6 feet 6 inches tall so where ever i go every body stares me because its rare here in india and that makes me nervous and i panic its pretty bad now that i dont even wanna leave my home and i dont wanna take medicine either
@JonnyQ4088 жыл бұрын
+Prakash Soni My heart rate also goes up, especially every time I wake up in the middle of the night for example if I wake up 4-5 times a night each time my heart rate would go up, and at random times during the day/night when I'm not sleeping, I had anxiety for 3 months now after having my 2nd and 3rd panic attack at work, I became homebound I was scared to leave the house, I left the house maybe 2-3 times, till recently for the past week, I been going out more often sure I'm going to far, maybe 2 blocks around but that's two more blocks than a I had for over a month, for a while I didn't even want to leave my own bedroom, only to use the bathroom, I would avoid going to the kitchen, living room, backyard. I also get really dizzy, but I don't get the room spinning, I feel like I'm titling over like everything's titling over.
@JonnyQ4088 жыл бұрын
+Prakash Soni You can try leaving your house, here's what I been doing and it works, open the door even if you don't want to take a step outside, grab a chair and sit down with the front door open, once you feel anxious allow just sit there, and once you calm down than close the door, by doing so you'll your brain won't think that your in danger, once you feel more comfortable take a few steps out the front door, again allowing yourself to feel anxious if you don't feel anxious take few steps till you do, once you feel anxious allow yourself to feel it, without trying to run or quickly walk back inside the house, the faster you run or walk, the faster the heart goes up. So each time you go further away from home, and allowing yourself to feel anxious without running back home, the brain will slowly adjust the way it thinks what it's really "danger" if you think people are looking at you, just look back at them, I bet they will just smile or look away.
@Liam-eb8sl4 жыл бұрын
I’ve got a tear in my eye these panic attacks have been hell anybody else out there going through this I wish you luck getting over it! for me listening to this really helped me understand what was happening to me what a good man thank you 🙏
@chamiracampos34273 жыл бұрын
uve been experiencing anxieties, same here n GOd'sgrace....GOD bless😇😇😇😇🙏
@junegoodings39733 жыл бұрын
God bless you I know how you feel I gave been to hell with panic attacks thus video is so needed 👌
@carlossoto78472 жыл бұрын
Please give meditation a chance. Observe and let nature do its work. I have been there for many years and I think I have found the antidote. Blessings!
@LR-yu3mx2 жыл бұрын
Good advice "leave the area". I get them so bad that my hands feel dead. Like a glove. Then I panic even more, thinking that I 'll not be able to care for my babies. Nowadays, When it comes on, I get up and go to make a coffee.
@mandypickrell5363 Жыл бұрын
He really is the best I am going through really bad anxiety had it all my life his helping me 🙏💙
@bellajay84666 жыл бұрын
I am crying, I am so so happy, because just hearing this is helping me so so much!
@Eagle-zl4gz5 жыл бұрын
Bella Jay , did you realize your normal? I sure did. Isn’t it amazing, once we normalize it and accept what is happening it stops!
@DeadPixel11054 жыл бұрын
Yes! I'm not crying - but I feel a tremendous sense of relief. If our struggle with panic attacks was an actual war, I feel like this video equipped me with an extremely powerful super-weapon to use and some extremely thick armor. I'm not afraid of the enemy anymore and I'm ready to fight. And I will win.
@ahmedwali68024 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️ hehehe nothings gonna happen. Last night I was crying but when these panic attack motherfucker where gone for sometime. I've noticed this motherfucker is tricking my mind. I've to fight with it. And I'm doing. Iknow I'll be fine. And iknow you'll be fine aswell ❤️
@GiovanniSacino4 жыл бұрын
@@ahmedwali6802 fighting is not the right approach... It's just let it go through and avoid to be an obstacle to sensations so they can flow freely and pass
@BADDESTONTHEPLANET4 жыл бұрын
Bachelard Bachelard Feeling doomed and being doomed are 2 completely separate things. Be aware of the distinction. That’s half the battle. You’re going to be fine. This shall pass and you’re going to get better. It’s an uncomfortable doomed feeling but you are NOT doomed.
@jamo60803 ай бұрын
It's unfortunate that a lot of people fall into addiction over this issue, and what this Dr. explains is totally logical, and when practiced, it is effective.
@Gizmonips Жыл бұрын
For the people who are here because you're currently dealing with severe anxiety, I just want to let you know that the feeling of dread and being terrified that you're going to have another one can go away. It won't last forever. I'm just here after being panic attack free for a few years now kind of reminding myself that it is ok if I ever do have another one and that this is kind of a way to maintain my work on staying panic free. One thing that very quickly pulled me out of my last one was writing every word that pops into your head onto paper and keep doing it until you don't feel like you need to anymore. If it starts again, write again. The BEST cure for anxiety is distraction. During my panic attacks I can't focus on anything, so using my hand's muscle memory to write the words that are popping into my head makes me focus on writing them down and less on my panic. I wrote 10 pages before it stopped. Some of it makes no sense which I fully expected because I was panicking. Some of it was kind of heart breaking. I remember rereading it after it was over and seeing "Please help me." and I felt compassion for myself which was not something I ever really did before. Above all else, just remember that it does not and can not last forever.
@949surferdude Жыл бұрын
Thx for sharing. I'll try that.
@parcelmove3680 Жыл бұрын
Have you take any medicine for this?? Actually I’m also struggling from this phase from last one month didn’t take any medicine because when ever I sit in car my Bp goes down or up I don’t know but I feel nausea as well vertigo type with no confidence Even I’m. It ready to hear anything wrong anything like that I feel more negative I have been fallen down once and now my neck is stuff felt unbalanced fear of many things
@VELVETBUNNi Жыл бұрын
thank you, I needed this.
@Chevrotainify3 ай бұрын
I'm 33 and have had undiagnosed panic disorder since I was 6. The amount of adults, teachers, counselors, therapists and doctors that don't recognize this has me absolutely bewildered. Do doctors just skip over that chapter in class? I'm ernestly confused. Why? Why did it take my whole life up until this moment to be told my amygdala is setting off adrenaline that will subside in ten minutes. I told a therapist before my symptons, throat closing up and dread etc., he told me that wasn't anxiet and it sounded like a thyroid issue. A whole ass doctor told me that. I just got a new therapist and he didn't give me an understanding of my disorder or tips. How the fuck are we being pushed under the rug like this.
@amberosburn29416 жыл бұрын
I'm still fighting these. I was having 5 or 6 a day. Now I go a day or two with none. Stay stong 💪
@saifu0085 жыл бұрын
Amber Osburn if you keep fighting you’ll have it forever!
@AngelicaRae135 жыл бұрын
I just started getting symptoms 😢. I get panic attacks for up to 4-5 days & it's horrible.
@jABSOCFuNk4 жыл бұрын
Angelica Rae how you been did they go away??
@michaelangelolopez962 жыл бұрын
dont fight it get used to it
@cp6uh882 жыл бұрын
You are amazingly s t r o n g !!
@aidabelhaj66998 жыл бұрын
I love him so much and I never write reviews. He is so soothing and calming, it s incredible.
@biggestfanofvarun44437 жыл бұрын
hi
@lillianvonderosten65157 жыл бұрын
Aida Lillian. Trying to learn how to cope .do you have your own practice?
@brandonwimberly20315 жыл бұрын
@8:25 “UNCOMFORTABLE BUT NOT DANGEROUS” Those words SAVED MY LIFE from anxiety & panic attacks. Saying those words “uncomfortable but not dangerous” calms me down & I become happy 😃 This Dr is a god! God bless him 🙏🏾 Dr Harry Barry!!! 💙
@AtTheCornerCafe4 жыл бұрын
Exactly! That was so great to hear!! He has a super calming voice too. Ahh... that helps.
@JoejoeEng2 жыл бұрын
The trouble is, we all know this but we also know panic attacks aren't logical. So in the moment we forget that and it's as if we don't have any knowledge on it at all :(. Regardless wish everyone the best hope you're doing well still 2 years on
@surgin-nk3rw2 жыл бұрын
There's only 1 god. This man is just a vessle.
@bbtrixie26532 жыл бұрын
And the way that he makes it sound so absolute! When he says in other videos.... "Please!, Go out now and find anywhere to put this into practice so you can FEEL it, accept it, and be DONE with it". That's what did it for me. Just his absolute non chalant absolute statement. Had NO idea something THIS simple could be so affective.
@bbtrixie26532 жыл бұрын
IN the moment you're right! It's an absolute trainwreck! 🤣 But just to hold on and face it has been so powerful for me.
@zoececilia77784 жыл бұрын
This guy has just relieved me from my worst panick attack yet! Its 2:30am now and its finally stopped after 2 hours. Thank god we have men like this in this world. I'm gonna finally get some sleep!
@jfgghjdf10 ай бұрын
how are you
@alucardking20587 жыл бұрын
This man saved my life , bless you doctor💪
@asiguere4 жыл бұрын
“I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain.” -From the teachings of Muad'dib
@meganwoodville18662 жыл бұрын
I’m bawling right now. I fight my own mind every single day at work. As soon as someone comes up to me, my legs tense up, I start to overheat, I can’t breathe, and I become terrified that I’m going to panic in front of them, or panic so badly I need to walk away (I work in customer service). Listening to this helped me so much. “Uncomfortable but not dangerous” ❤️
@nahthataintit64462 жыл бұрын
I feel you girl it’s most days literally minutes by minutes struggle for me and some days I think I be getting to my breaking point of jumping off a bridge cuz I don’t want to be medicated and tired all the damn suffering but all these docs want to do is shove pills at you😐I been out and back with work for a while bc of what you going through and I eventually was asked (they was trying to be nicer bout it rather than firing me) if I want to quit. I was messing up so much at work but always was trying to stay after to showing them I care and not just fking up bc I don’t care. Hope you can get through you Job better then I was doing tho👏👍🏾
@DavidMaxwell_2 жыл бұрын
It's so annoying 😂 like cmon brain
@DavidMaxwell_2 жыл бұрын
The flooding seems scary but I guess we'll try it.
@damianobrien20582 жыл бұрын
Just after watching this after a bad one getting coffee at work. The one where it rushes and i feel like im about to pass out (never do though). I should be grateful for it though because id never have found this😂 hope you get through it and come out on the other side ❤️
@Tvtelly107 жыл бұрын
today is Tuesday morning. this Dr. is a god send. I was panic attacks daily and bc of him I haven't had an episode since friday. my quality of life has improved ten fold in only four days. Panic attacks are uncomfortable not dangerous. Best sentence I've ever heard. Thank you Dr. For helping me get my life back. I feel so good I cry tears of joy now not of fear.
@solideroftheapocalypse49557 жыл бұрын
Tessa Victoria that's amazing I can't wait till be less anxious been 3 yrs of panic attacks everyday when this goes away I know I'll cry in joy
@allenlandscapingct7 жыл бұрын
That is for sure the best sentence,i feel like theres finally hope,This Dr is a God send,its time to start living
@thedodo40796 жыл бұрын
Tessa Victoria from that day till today, is everything ok with you?
@kristal1246 жыл бұрын
Im so happy for u. Im also living with anxiety my whole life. Thank for this dr, im living my life back!
@hotdogflavoredwater6 жыл бұрын
I also would like to know if you’re still able to have control with this doctors help?
@crow03142 жыл бұрын
Watching these videos of him saved my life 4 years ago
@garynewsom51446 жыл бұрын
It’s amazing how some many people say oh you’re just having a panic attack or you think too much. Those people don’t understand that this a disorder and from the time a person with anxiety/depression disorders wakes up to the time they finally fall asleep their minds are racing thinking the worst of every situation. If you’ve had a panic attack and have talked yourself down congrats to every single one of you because as I do everyday knows it’s one of the hardest things to do. Hope everyone has a terrific year. Thank you Dr. Harry Barry
@ThePltsweet3 жыл бұрын
I have suffered from anxiety for 20 years since I was fifteen. Life has literally been hell on earth and I can’t describe without crying what anxiety has done to me. Listening to you helps calm me down.
@aldoro65983 жыл бұрын
I can’t even imagine the pain that you’ve gone through… it will be ok brother
@ThePltsweet3 жыл бұрын
@@aldoro6598 It is sister, but thank you for your kind words.
@troybrown99717 жыл бұрын
I've had generalized anxiety disorder and panic attacks for 20 years this year. I am 41 years old and for whatever reason I am just now fed up with it enough that I'm going to fight it and stop just living with it. I rarely have an actual panic attack out of the blue actually they have been narrowed down to only when driving on the freeway alone and anything that deals with heights. My issue is I spend the entire day anticipating the next attack and constantly looking for ways to avoid them. This avoidance thinking is what brings on my panic attacks. I have decided to face my fears but without help from people like Dr. Barry and the support of other's living with anxiety and panic disorders it won't be possible. Thank you all for sharing and lets support each other.
@pamelacarr14196 жыл бұрын
Troy Brown I'm just like you except my panic attacks come on from fear of fear. I'll have days where I'm anticipating a panic attack so I'm scared and on edge worrying about having one. Worrying about having one is always what sends me finally into an attack. I've been implementing the dare technique ( same method as this) and been doing great for 4 months. But I also have really bad depression and was just put on prozac for it. Well, I read online people saying that the first couple of weeks they had panic attacks as side effects. Needless to say I've got that anticipation going on since I took my first pill yesterday. I knew I shouldn't have read about the prozac online but I did it anyway. 😑 I'm going to reread the dare book and also watching this doctor's videos. I'm watching this video cause I was going into a panic attack and it has calmed me down BUT I am still having the anticipation anxiety. I also have to go back to work tonight after calling in last night cause I took my first pill yesterday. Was scared I'd have a panic attack at work. Gonna stay positive though. I know I'll be ok.
@Aconitum145 жыл бұрын
Thats what happens to me, you arent alone in this battle
@airradon28064 жыл бұрын
Hi I came across your comment and I am going through exact same thing. How are you now? Are you able to drive to freeways without panicking? Please share how you overcome it. I wanna feel normal again while driving.
@hairbyshaundatv3 жыл бұрын
Wow!!! Me too!!! On the freeway and heights! I noticed that I can’t drink coffee or Mountain Dew...
@djahoufe94113 жыл бұрын
@@airradon2806 me too can’t drive on motorways now because of this panic attack
@DavidAlfredoGuisado2 жыл бұрын
I watched this in the middle of a really scary (even if harmless) anxiety attack with seemingly uncontrollable tremors/ muscle spasms. However, the very moment I heard "this is all designed to protect you, not to kill you" it completely shut down and after a quick shower I was outside with my friends having the best of times. Never happened again. I just taught myself to differentiate actual danger from "paper tiger".
@avarose70772 жыл бұрын
This man knows what he's talking about. The ONLY way i'm able to get past panic attacks is by just accepting the symptoms and letting them come and go. I personally shake uncontrollably and would at first try to stop the shaking but when i learned to just let it happen, it would be over way sooner than when i tried to stop it.
@Jacob96wv Жыл бұрын
True
@Jacob96wv Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing
@jonspreadthedread6 жыл бұрын
I've never heard a doctor explain my symptoms as well as Dr. Barry. I'm almost in tears of joy after watching this.
@psfca2 жыл бұрын
I effing hate my panic attacks...so debilitating. I will do as he recommends and just accept it when they happen and hoping and praying to God I can overcome this
@Nihhuz4 ай бұрын
After eight years. I still come here for comfort
@happyman38024 жыл бұрын
I watch this video every time I start feeling like I'm having a panic attack and it works to calm me down every time. So thankful he uploaded this video.
@jimtazer75574 жыл бұрын
Same much love brother
@b1523494 жыл бұрын
This helped me quit benzos cold turkey when no psychiatrist would take me for a month. Hardest experience and month I've ever been through. Palpitations, vibrations, muscle twitches. Eating was an anxiety trigger so I lost twenty pounds. Laying down triggered my palpitations and chest vibrations so I had to gradually recline my body over four hours to sleep. Couldn't do anything other than lay in bed and sit on the edge of bed for the first few weeks. Using my phone for more than a few minutes even caused panic. Constantly arguing with myself over whether I was having a heart attack and going to pass out. So fucking horrible I can't explain it. I haven't had a panic attack in 10 months. Thank you so much.
@daniellescott52052 жыл бұрын
This is me 😮 but I’m still in the cycle
@dehydrogenated2 жыл бұрын
Benzo withdrawal can cause fatal seizures (same as alcohol withdrawal causing "the DT's"). If you have been on a substantial daily dose, don't stop suddenly. If you can't get medical supervision, then cut down very gradually. Palpitations, sweating and agitation are also symptoms of withdrawal.
@psfca2 жыл бұрын
@@daniellescott5205 me too.. pray we both overcome this
@aneurysm3416 жыл бұрын
This video has brought me down from about a 9/10 to a 4/10. God bless this person
@nawtmyrealnamelol11 ай бұрын
Sometimes the hardest part is to first accept that what’s happening is actually just a panic attack. Then at that point you have to face the fear head on for what it is. Distracting yourself or running from the fear won’t work, but being strong and feeling the discomfort is shockingly effective
@alijaved39646 жыл бұрын
A great human being
@davidlinch21306 жыл бұрын
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@alex-ip1er6 жыл бұрын
I have spent months investigating treating social anxiety naturally and discovered a fantastic website at Kevs Control Plan (google it if you're interested)
@adampiedad97356 жыл бұрын
God bless you sir
@liampf6 жыл бұрын
and a better name!
@blueburd32628 жыл бұрын
had an episode this morning in my own home. I calmed down in an hour or so, and I started to feel better by the hour. I lie down to go to bed and start to feel the attack creep up on me again and I kept saying to myself No, this isn't going to happen again. I didn't feel as bad as I did earlier, but I searched for videos to maybe help me. This one really did help-- my heartbeat is slowed, my hands and feet aren't cold, my stomach doesn't hurt, and my breathing is normal again. Thank you for all your advice 😊
@Mustafa-jc8ud3 жыл бұрын
So did u manage to get rid of panic attack or was this helped you to feel better ?
@Sky108117 ай бұрын
if you have panic attacks/anxiety: 1. physical check of items who have the same simptoms: 1. blood test for vit D, thyroid, iron, magnesium, cortisol, sex hormones (for women should be taken on 3-5th day of a cycle and interpreted by a gynecologist), if clean: cardiologist 2. psychologist trained in EMDR 3. Audiobook "Complex PTSD from surviving to thriving " 4. group therapy to address the root cause (childhood traumas and learned beliefs) called "Hoffman process" (if one can afford, i wish i did it earlier) lifestyle: 1. sport 2. healthy eating (exclude sugar, stop coffee completely) 3. sleep hygiene 4. strengthen social connections 5. monitor financial health and do budgeting or whatever you can influence 6. take ownership for your life
@dennispena54964 жыл бұрын
Wow... 10min of trying this technique out and it worked. I cant believe even the little things that seems harmless we use to 'distract' ourselves from the panic, like turning on music, calling friends, running outside for air, actually perpetuates the symptoms more. I just stood still there looking out the window, feet glued to the ground, not letting the butterflies in my stomach/groin area force me to move. And the symptoms started dissipating. Very freeing. Thank you. This is truly priceless....
@siren888 Жыл бұрын
This was solid advice and the first time I was able to ride out a panic attack without spiraling out. It’s been a week of sheer hell but I’m beginning to see some light at the end of the tunnel. I can’t keep living like this.
@fergaoneill5323 Жыл бұрын
One of the best doctors in Ireland his books are brilliant for helping mental illness
@damondsb4 жыл бұрын
I had panic attacks 4times in a row 4days after each other and this helped me a lot i am now almost 6 months panic attack free and stronger than ever , everything will be fine if You belive and be positive nothing will happen to you belive me what i say if u have a panic attack nothing will happen its only mental
@nursepaolo24203 жыл бұрын
I recently had panic attacks due to workplace bullying and it's the worst feeling ever. Hyperventilating, palpitations, heightened sense of fear. Crazy. I am not doing well, unfortunately. But I will be seeking help professionally. Let's all fight our monsters. Let's do it together.
@aldoro65983 жыл бұрын
I hope you’re doing well and ur healthy brother and maybe you found a new also a better workplace. Good for you seeking hel.
@aryaman40682 жыл бұрын
I faced my fear and today I am completely free from panic attacks.....it's been 5 years since I watched your videos Thank you doctor, you are God for me...you gave me a new life 🙏🏻
@peadavis628711 ай бұрын
I found this video 6 years ago and it literally saved my life. I was having panic attacks almost every other day in and out of hospital and EMT always at my house. Everytime I feel panicked I remember these words and apply them in the moment.
@adampiedad97356 жыл бұрын
Every time I had my panic attacks I watch this video clip , my fear will go away . Awesome guy doctor . heaven sent . Thank you very much
@mariconsoledad83656 жыл бұрын
Hi Dr. Harry! I honestly can’t thank you enough. You have helped me so much with my anxiety. I was always carrying the “uncomfortable but not dangerous” line with me when I was going through panic attacks. I’m all better now, all thanks to you. Sincerely appreciate everything that you do to help us. Kind regards, Connie
@almere103 жыл бұрын
Can u please share your recovery story
@patriciastupak3264 Жыл бұрын
Thank you thank you! I found you in the middle of a bad panic attack...tried fighting it and it was worse. Your advice is very helpful. I'm not dying or losing my mind.
@geminigirl78576 жыл бұрын
Remembered to play this in the middle of a bad one, instantly felt better. Thank you
@crazykat1231235 жыл бұрын
I love this video so much that I want to cry. I’ve suddenly been dealing with panic attacks more frequently the past year due to a lot of different stress factors and now it happens when nothing is wrong, I’m laying alone in bed, nothing wrong around me and my heart rate keeps jumping and my feet and hands are going in and out of being sweaty and hot and I’m not having a full blown panic attack but I can tell my body just WANTS to have one. It’s crippling and happens especially when I’m driving and when I am entertaining friends for too long or when I’m too tired ! Right around 12 hours of being awake everyday, I get panic attacks! It’s exhausting.
@tombyrne108 Жыл бұрын
Dr Barry I have been struggling with panic disorder for 20 years I'm 40 and my gp in blackrock Dublin suggested reading ur books it been a total game changer thank you so much
@TheAnxietyGuy18 жыл бұрын
Dr Harry great explanation and hope to one day have you on the anxiety guy podcast.
@mistersheen93653 жыл бұрын
Did you ever get him on there?
@ethannickerson190110 ай бұрын
What a beautiful man, thank you. And it's a small thing, but having soothing music while talking (being Irish doesn't hurt either) brings feelings of peace with the words. Really helpful.
@Savedbygracethroughfaith_73 жыл бұрын
I can't even explain how much this Doctor's videos have helped me with my panic attacks. Every time I'd feel one coming, I'd play his vids. Can't thank him enough.
@languystephane7 жыл бұрын
Where is the love button?
@michaelbattin21024 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@brandhark79357 ай бұрын
In your pants.
@David-106446 жыл бұрын
Wow his voice alone calms me down
@thesleepycat5437 Жыл бұрын
im here again , after like 6 months of panic free "i do running and now training for a half marathon". it hits me again but im facing it like a man . Reading all the comments here feel me at ease
@aj_wuwei5 жыл бұрын
this understanding can actually save a lot of lives and stop suicides...
@dubbShow52 жыл бұрын
This was so good I had to comment. The music and the way you explain brings a sense of calmness. One thing I took from this is “It’s uncomfortable but not dangerous. I pray every souls that’s dealing with panic/anxiety that this to shall pass you will deal this for the rest of your life. Go by faith & not by sight. Pray & Speak over yourself every day until this temporary issue is a thing of the pass. Amen
@bratwurstkinsman67404 жыл бұрын
I've been having crippling panic attacks for over a week now...your advice has helped tremendously!
@Mornecas16 жыл бұрын
He is so calming. Every time I have a panic attack, I just listen to him speak, and it calms me down. Thank you so much Dr Barry.
@karinapalasi54262 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much doctor! I am 24 and suffering from panic disorder since my first panic attack episode back on May last year. I have never seen someone explain this topic so accurately. I was feeling like I wasn’t going to overcome this because when I am having an episode I do everything I can to stop it immediately. From walking outside at any time of the day or night to breathing exercises and nothing seems to work, it actually made it all worse because I was constantly thinking if these were working and touching my chest to check if they had. The episodes would easily last about an hour, which was extremely exhausting. Now with your method it all makes so much sense and I just let the symptoms float over me. Always keeping in mind that they are uncomfortable but not dangerous. To everyone out there struggling with panic disorder. Please note that you are not alone and it is very possible to overcome it.
@davidharrow90252 жыл бұрын
Do you stand or sit when it starts? I usually sit down and do some breathing exercises. Then once I calm down a bit I go to the treadmill for some light walking. Im going to try to do nothing next time although it sounds quite difficult.
@karinapalasi54262 жыл бұрын
@@davidharrow9025 Before i used to stand up from wherever I was and walk around my house trying for the symptoms to go away. This only made it worse and increased my heart rhythm. Same with breathing exercises they don’t seem to work for me. Now, I just lay down on my bed and literally do nothing. I let the symptoms manifest, not trying for them to go away. The episode lasts less than 10 mins this way. Then after, i have some water and continue with my day or my night. I work from home though so every time it happens I am literally home and i have the benefit of laying down.
@aliens-ih2yy2 жыл бұрын
it makes me feel like im weak, and that im a child, or that im not as strong or as tough i think i am, it attacks my ego, but i am slowly learning that its ok, its not my fault, im not weak, im not soft, im not a child, im ok, and im not in danger.
@VortexOfficial4 жыл бұрын
I fuckin' love this man. He truly understands anxiety and panic attacks. By only listening to him explaining, my anxiety and panic attack slowly fade away. What an amazing person.
@suddhabirbose40947 жыл бұрын
You are an angel.... May god keep showering blessings on you....
@Jeffy452 жыл бұрын
Acceptance is key, ran away from panic attack for so long. Now I just ride the waves! My anxiety is so much better these days. Don't let setbacks knock you back! It's all part of the process! The more you accept the stronger you become 💪
@Altukfashionfinds Жыл бұрын
Anxiety has been ruining my life recently, this has helped me so much. I can’t thank you enough kind sir
@camillebucci29047 жыл бұрын
Watching this video helped me to flip a switch in my brain which instantly calmed my overwhelming feelings. You sir, are a godsend to so many of us who suffer!
@tomsenick2033p9 ай бұрын
This guy is the best, just listening to him calms me down
@wessel_g453 жыл бұрын
100% true. After 1 year I am finally at the point where I just let it happen. The thing I find most rough now is the recovery the days after. I usually feel worn-out and like absolute horse sh*t. One thing I'd like to add: Don't ever pity yourself, that will bring your mood down and keep you brooding all day. If you catch yourself thinking or saying 'this is so hard, I don't want it...etc' . Stop it and find something to do. Just keep moving and keep living the life you want. Even if it's going to be scary and uncomfortable.
@banjo71272 жыл бұрын
This advice was absolutely monumental for me. I’ve had anxiety/panic attacks for about 6 weeks, I believe it was a combination of constant nightshift and my daughter undergoing a quite serious operation, plus a few other small issues. It was hell. I had adrenaline palpitations, tight chest and a feeling of shortness of breath. Blood test, blood pressure and ECG all came back good but I was convinced I had an elusive heart issue. Once I watched this and performed the “glued to the spot” attitude and allowed “flooding”, my adrenaline gland absolutely inundated me. This was about 3 days ago. After that I still had a few rushes but every time I’ve thought “do your worst”, or “give me that adrenaline rush I like it” and they have not returned for around 24 hours. I may not be totally unstressed or out of the woods yet, but this advice from Dr Barry was an absolute God send. Thank you so much.
@LunaDelTuna3 жыл бұрын
I watched this video for the first time maybe a year ago, and with following this man's advice I haven't had a panic attack in probably 8 or 9 months. You would never think in a million years while having an attack to say to yourself "bring it on, do your worst," and it actually working in less time than the length of this video. I truly feel like my 4 year cycle of regular panic attacks is finally broken, and I genuinely can't thank Dr. Barry enough for taking the time to share this information with people who suffer so badly from this. Thank you, Thank you, Thank you.
@blumachine10 ай бұрын
Watching this made me emotional. I want to be able to go on walks in busy places and visit my local library without the fear of having panic attacks and this gave me hope. Thank you edit: 10 month update, I achieved all my goals after reading your books and following your exposure therapy technique. I even went to a concert which seemed impossible 10 months ago. Thank you Dr Harry Barry!
@sheilathomas37633 жыл бұрын
He is extremely smart.... After explaining exactly what the attack is and what it does to the body makes things seem so simple and he speaks so calm that makes me understand and relate better thank you so much ... Dr Harry
@stevielavietv89574 ай бұрын
God bless this man and god bless anyone suffering with this
@bluntlyhonest3157 Жыл бұрын
I’ve been going about it all wrong. Trying to prevent or distract before a panic attack. From now on I’ll let it wash over me ❤
@lauraschmuck5565 Жыл бұрын
I have had a phobia of vomiting since I was a child and I also experience bouts of vertigo caused by crystals in my ears to get out of whack, My panic disorder started last year as I was driving and I could not see and felt extremely dizzy and feeling like I was going to throw up. This was the start of a whole year of panic attacks that last for hours. I had bouts of dizziness at least 3 times last year that makes me so nauseated and I think that just primed me more panic attacks. I now cannot leave my home. I have tried many ways to help calm myself down and I understand panic attacks are not dangerous but I fear how long it will last and if I will throw up. I now have panic attacks at home almost every day and can no longer drive.
@albertomontano12252 жыл бұрын
I have been experiencing these for 8 months straight. I used to get them once in a long while, but now it's every single day. Panic attacks, full blown panic attacks, don't last at their peak for too long, true. But, the feeling of anxiety is with me 24/7
@Lenny986 Жыл бұрын
do u still have it ?
@jfgghjdf10 ай бұрын
how arw you
@kayleighhines22792 жыл бұрын
Dr. Harry Barry completely changed my life. I rarely get panic attacks now and when I do I know how to handle them and they only last a few seconds.
@edmondb28992 жыл бұрын
As a fellow Irish man, I'm proud of Dr. Barry's sound advice that seems to be helpful to so many. I can't recall ever having a full-blown panic attack, but there has been many occasions when I've experienced strong anxiety. What has really helped me are many of the ideas that Dr. Barry is talking about. Learning to recognise that it's ok to feel anxious, anxiety doesn't have to be a bad thing, that it is actually "designed" to protect us, and if we allow it to come and go, ironically, we come to feel we can handle it much better and the time spent feeling anxious shortens...For me, you could argue that it seems to boil down to what we believe about the harmfulness of anxiety.
@k.baller51403 жыл бұрын
Just listening to him speak calms me down... I just recently developed severe panic attack last week, called ambulance, did all the things he mentioned in this video... I had it still come on days after that and I was breaking down hopeless wanting my life back because I can't live like this... I noticed having the "bring it on" mentality will work and that I won't die from it and accepting that it's a panic attack is making trigger less... This guy definitely knows what he's talking about... I feel hopeful of getting rid of this anxiety forever. I'm glad this video was recommended to me and that I watched it!
@Emanaugusts8 жыл бұрын
I really need a doctor like u 💔
@junaidiqbaldawar64185 жыл бұрын
Do have Panics now ?
@ReaderOfThreads2 жыл бұрын
I had my first panic attack last night. I arrived at the ER around 4am, and was sent home 18.30 today. It was a horrible experience, but this gentleman’s video calms me down.
@tattooguy944 жыл бұрын
Been stuck in bed for 5 days with non stop anxiety, this video really helped me feel better thank you
@hppatronusfan36954 жыл бұрын
Hey I hope you’re doing better :)
@ptomczak183 жыл бұрын
Yeah I been in my bed since december 4th....... that was over 4 months ago.... I feel your pain bro. God bless us both through this terrible time
@michellemazzyy Жыл бұрын
i could cry from seeing this. it’s like a huge relief hearing this and also thank you for the soothing background music
@mobrien1453 жыл бұрын
I had 2 days of panic attacks continually I thought my life was over. Next time I will take his advice
@aldoro65983 жыл бұрын
I can’t even imagine how difficult that would be for you but also no ur life is not over bro hang on there.
@rachhunt38073 жыл бұрын
Only just found this and cried my heart out. Finally a dr that understands how I feel. Such a relief knowing I’m not alone and a lot of my questions answered. Such a lovely man!
@jayrajjindal7594 жыл бұрын
I am suffering since years and everybody laugh on me and said that I am lazy but nobody understand how I am feeling ! I can’t breath and cried non stop and don’t like to go out ! I can’t concentrate on work , I lost job , totally tired of this feeling
@jasonsoriano49303 жыл бұрын
Your my hero I literally thought this was going to be something I had to deal with for the rest of my life but after listening to what you said I’ve felt like I’ve finally have hope towards a stress free life .god bless you .Ps I’m gonna try to go to church again and see if I can be a better person also
@fas96674 жыл бұрын
thank you ,i had my first one the other day .it was terrifying im 56. i was rushed to hospital . they did all sorts of test .guess what im in perfect health. they said i had a panic attack. i have watched a few of these videos on the subject but yours is the best . the reason your calm no nonsense approach and an almost smirking expression while explaining it .was most reassuring .almost like trying to tell a child not to fear an ice-cream cone or a new toy and your smirk weather natural or not was the most effective way that gave me the reassurance i needed . thank you dr. Harry !
@mstrawder664 жыл бұрын
I can't stop crying,,,, I have EXTREME panic attacks it feels like I will die i've ended up in ER so many times thank you so much
@tattooguy944 жыл бұрын
Me too this video helped me alot I hope it can help you too
@mstrawder664 жыл бұрын
@@tattooguy94 i'm so happy to know i'm not alone, thank you SO much
@laisa.4 жыл бұрын
@@mstrawder66 Please look up "pass through panic" here on youtube. It is dr Claire Weekes reading from her books on how to cure yourself from panic. She had it herself and knew what she was talking about ⚘
@nadineefleckАй бұрын
His voice and way of talking alone helped me through a panic attack....I wish he would do audio books or podcasts. Doctors like him are almost impossible to find.
@ivan1095ivanАй бұрын
He has audiobooks on these topics, you can find them on audible :)
@nadineefleckАй бұрын
@ivan1095ivan thank you !
@marciebryant15598 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this information in a public format. I have been searching for help for my teenage daughter for panic attacks and depression. She has turned to self harm to cope. She doesn't comprehend the logical steps to overcome panic attacks. Her emotional brain rules at age 16. I believe that she will listen to this with me and take away something helpful. *Uncomfortable but not dangerous* Would be great. Thank you again.
@faz90642 ай бұрын
I can’t tell you how much this helps. Thank you doctor 🥺
@CristinaMoya-yt4tb2 ай бұрын
Yes I listen to this whole video when I need it
@phil48183 жыл бұрын
My last panic attack was so bad I had temporary memory loss... that was even scarier then the panic attack. I will try this method the next time it happens.
@jelziedelacruz37536 жыл бұрын
I should've watched this before my anxiety became worse. I am one of the people who cannot afford a psychiatrist. I often pity myself if what if I loose control of everything and this man relieves my symptoms. Thank you so much Dr. Barry
@mustangshelbygt50042 жыл бұрын
Dr. Harry Barry has helped me so much over the years in helping me to cope with anxiety and panic attacks a simple thank you isn't enough you are a Saint whose expertise truly understands what anxiety and panic disorders symptoms are really about... Thank you so much 🙏