Dr. Phil To Guest: ‘You’re Falling Victim To Outrageous Overshadow’

[@justjaein]

“sometimes I just need my mom” absolutely breaks my heart she deserves a better support system and a better mom

[@katelaloba8243]

As a mom, I would do nothing to hurt my son. Children are a precious gift. Love them. Unconditionally

[@StrawberryNinjaNibbles]

Wish all moms thought like you :(

[@mysteryfan15]

I feel so sorry for the daughter, especially since she once had a good relationship with her mother. I can't imagine not being able confide in my mom.

[@radardagoat_6527]

The mother is crazy I agree with you

[@nobloodforfoil]

@@radardagoat_6527 ..shes a narcissist, & sadly narcissists very rarely ever change.. :(

[@deebenson135]

I'm 58 and have never had a good relationship with my mother. She always treated me like a sometime friend. Thank God for my grandma. She was my rock. I miss her so much.

[@Suchwerewolf]

See I don’t think she DID have a good childhood relationship because healthy family dynamics don’t become THIS TOXIC out of nowhere. I think she’s blocking out bad memories and focusing on the good ones because I believe her mother would have always insisted “I’m a good mother you’re lucky to have me” - and children believe their parents unconditionally it’s a survival thing. And also our brains do this thing where we block out data that challenges our core beliefs, to prevent the discomfort of cognitive dissonance. So, I think she’s remembering her childhood as better than it was so as not to subconsciously challenge an INCORRECT core belief her mother programmed her with.

[@eustab.anas-mann9510]

Welcome to my life.

[@theadventuresofrachelandav6540]

That daughter is very sweet . Especially coming from the woman that raised her

[@justRuwanthi]

"You make me do" Gosh you hear this, you run!

[@shamaliwije4872]

That sounds like every domestic abuser ever,

[@alliesinger297]

Anyone who blames everyone else for being the way they are don’t deserve to have others around

[@yarnpower]

That mother does not deserve such a lovely daughter.

[@miltoncat]

“How did I attack her?”. Omg just go away!

[@railwaychristina3192]

This is the pain of having a parent with a personality disorder. You hang on to the relationship because you still believe in the fantasy of how you want them to be, how you long them to be. They'll never change, particularly with the paranoid type. I hope this lovely girl went no contact, for her own sanity.

[@marieknight9385]

Oh poor baby, thought you were going to bring them on to force your daughter to choose you over everyone else and you get reality instead

[@Tubifia]

She's wiping away dry tears.

[@johnfairweather9188]

As soon as someone says that everyone else is lying, you know thats not true. Over the 20 years with my ex-wife, she always had someone else to blame for her drinking and abusive behaviour. She blamed her parents, her siblings, her friends, her managers, her coworkers, me, and our sons. Never once did she accept any blame for her actions.

[@rebeccalee1970]

So sad when the child is more mature and loving than the their mother.

[@gena4638]

This mother is so unbelievably toxic. I'm amazed that the daughter has grown up to be so kind hearted, level headed and loving despite all of this. I think she should run in the other direction. That doesn't mean she doesn't love her mom...sometimes you have to love people from a distance because when you try to love them up close, you get hurt.

[@ScarySnippet]

Dr. Phil is so smart. I learn so much from him just by watching his shows. He’s literally listening to people and finding out what’s truly wrong. Then he describes it all out to where people understand it better. I just respect this man.

[@myfriendisaac]

Same! Been a huge fan for years and I love his simple way of putting things 💯

[@lalamakeuprehab]

This poor girl. Heartbreaking. Mom is a narcissistic delusional drama dragon!!!!

[@jeacaklotom]

Cut ties with the mother. She is horribly abusive

[@williamhufnagel8790]

The mother will continue to push her daughter away... I worked with a teacher line this for a couple of years and it was so difficult I almost quit...

[@sheg1969]

She lashes out at her ex as well...I am surprised he didn't appear on the show.

[@spikesgirl9371]

He's probably in hiding .

[@tracyd693]

Daughter needs to walk away. It's sad but mom is not stable.

[@samw8452]

Mom's picture should be in the dictionary as the illustration of the word toxic. She's disgusting. Take her out of your lives. You will all have a much better life.

[@dianemorris5816]

I agree as this mother is too abusive.

[@xosilverwingxo]

Nobody: No one: The Mom: LIES LIES LIES LIES LIES LIES

[@matildauebel7599]

The mother Me me me me ME me me MEEEEEEE meme me me!

[@lvanasse2]

That mother reacts on her own guilt, she sees her daughter for everything that she herself never accomplished and she knows her daughter is a way better person than she is.

[@jallbrig585]

So sad, my mom is an a$$ hole to

[@lilicafaray8423]

i'm so sorry :c

[@deebenson135]

Mine is as well. I know how you feel.

[@PollyGammy]

What an insane woman. Poor girl.

[@clovelly1946]

Nothing could keep me away from my children,and iv made lots of compremise,so they would never have to chose because I dont want them hurt.

[@hcklberypinkbrownies5170]

That 'mother' is awful. 💚 O+

[@HeyhoBrando]

I have a rule and I follow it to this day. If you make me choose something over another thing or person, because you are jealous, or act like that women, I will always pick the others over them.

[@msmichelle746]

I really need the background on the family history and the situation with the dead brother. Why wasn't that included and covered??

[@happysheepies7321]

This lady, ugh

[@miltoncat]

Everything is a laaaah! Crocodile tears

[@annakuusela520]

How her family took het daughter from her. They Dont Stealing. Se is cround woman not little Girl.

[@ArcFallOrder1919]

The poor sweet girl, that woman is just awful and so petty, I would so be fortunate to have a daughter like that I will love her unconditionally, I would never do something like that like to her and blame her for anything come on lady grow up

[@7spider391]

That mom is pure evil like she just thinks the world revolves around her

[@hannah.lindseyy]

They're both to blame but the mum is so dramatic it discredits her.

[@jcwayservices6862]

Drama drama and as far as this story is concerned I can relate but I was over 2000 miles away and a far as my daughter's father my daughter knows why I could not be around him at the time and I can't control what he all did but the situation was not good with her father at all.

[@dexieboui4956]

What it says there is only 2 comments right now! Doctor Phil must of have removed the comment restrictions!

[@marikiemarie7622]

"I loved her"

[@MsThe90]

tbh her sister does look like she is extremely envious of her

[@domjones_who3849]

MAN...THAT AIN'T EVEN CLOSE TO A DR.PHIL NEEDED MOMENT...DON'T BE A BABY...MOVE ON OR FORGIVE...BUT SHE'S BEING WAYYYYY TO DRAMATIC!!! SMH

[@amy.dawns1]

She a bad mom

[@cindysammy2513]

Move on honey

[@britney901]

Number 6!