Dr. Visit/Platelet Count/How to Support a Family Member Fighting Cancer

[@lorey_faith4today622]

what can i say but....thank you God for the little things...your video journal speaks even when you dont say anything...i've said it before ..your strength and honesty, integrity & transparency have touched so many, those who are battling cancer and for those families that are beside them....thank you Sarge for encouraging and supporting them and thank you Mrs, Sarge for being such a sweet and constant support for Sarge and your family...you are an incredible woman.

[@24pawscoffeecreamer68]

Thank you so much for the kind comment Lorey :) If my videos touched or helped even one person, then it was all worth it. It has really helped me as well. There is just something different about speaking about it for a video, than just talking about it in conversation. I feel like it allows me to explore my journey, thoughts and feelings, on a deeper level. Love and Hugs my friend.

[@gmamacy5047]

What amazing news!!!!!!! I love that you have such a supportive wife. Mrs. Sarge is wonderful. Still praying ....cancer took my entire family many years ago, they were misdiagnosed, and told it was nothing. I'm glad your oncologist is honest!

[@24pawscoffeecreamer68]

Hi Gma :) Thank you - I couldn't have asked for a more supportive wife. She is the best. I would be lost without her. I am very sorry to hear about your family. Cancer is a horrible disease, and I pray that one day it becomes extinct!! Love and Hugs to you my friend :)

[@LosingDrea]

So very happy the platelet count went back up and that you have been hearing such positives from your current Oncologist as well that your satisfied with him and his team and they are all on your side. Wife is an angel and she is doing what a good partner would do...support you no matter what. Your shirt says it all. WHATEVER. I do beleive in mind over matter, what you don't mind dont matter and you are sure proof of that. Dr. B sounds amazing! I am thinking those OTC Cadbury Eggs might have some magic something or other in them LOL I will never forget this pep talk from you should I ever come to a point in my life where I may need it for any important decision I may have to make in my life, because your right, its my life no one else's and no one lives my life but me. I seriously Love you and love your 💜 Your strength and bravery shines through in all you do here on your videos anyway. Other than for the port removal...I know your scared of that. 💋

[@24pawscoffeecreamer68]

Hi Drea!! :) Thank you for your kind words my friend! Yes, everyone in my life is such a blessing for sure!! My wife, Doctors, nurses, YOU ALL!!! Don't know what I would do or where I would be without the incredible support system that I have! As for the Cadbury Eggs....I am pretty sure you are right and they have something that is stopping cancer from growing so fast.....soooooo I GUESS I will have to eat some more!!! LMAO. Love you!!!!

[@LosingDrea]

Yay the miracle cure! ❤️😁💋

[@glimmerofhope436]

I am so happy for you that your numbers have climbed back up...keeping you both along with your entire family in my thoughts and prayers ..I hope you continue to amaze these Doctors and Nurses that that are part of your medical team along with all of us..We are all rooting for you Sarge!!!

[@24pawscoffeecreamer68]

Thank you so much Mama De De. I continue to pray for you and Sara Jane and your entire family as well :) The news he gave me today made me feel as though to a certain degree, I have already "beat the odds", and that just makes me want to push on harder and stronger than ever before. Love and Hugs to you!!

[@glammntlady795]

Love you Both!!! Kitty licked her lips over the ice cream. Really Beautiful Cat!!! xoxxo

[@24pawscoffeecreamer68]

Hi Krystal. We both love you too....and yes, Harley is the princess and supreme leader of the house!! LOL Love and Hugs.

[@SHANNONCHARRIS]

I wish everyone struggling with cancer and their family would watch this video. You gave the best advice a family member of a person with cancer could ever get. My 80 yr old grandpa died a couple of years ago from leukemia and he continued treatment just long enough to say his goodbyes to all of us. It was really hard when he said he was done but I know now that it was the best decision he could have made. He was done suffering. I was so greatful that I was able to say goodbye and tell him how much I love him. Also, I'm so glad you got good news today.

[@24pawscoffeecreamer68]

Hello Shannon. It truly is such a hard and painful road for the family members. I wish that I had advice to make it easier on the loved ones, but God knows it was rough on me watching my Mom go through it. I am glad that you, like myself, was able to say goodbye to our loved one and let them know how much they are loved. Love and Hugs.

[@lauraodle5816]

Hi Sarge and Mrs.Sarge So glad that that you have a great doctor. For 20 years that I have been care taking for loved ones and friends with terminal illnesses I realised quickly how doctors sugar coat the situations. I had to be the ears and voice for them. I finally blew a gasket, and demanded the truth because I needed to know what to expect because I was taking care of those I loved who would be leaving us soon. I wish more doctors were like your Dr.B. Thank you for your input on this. By the way, I have the same shirt 😉 Take care of you. 👍💕

[@24pawscoffeecreamer68]

Hi Laura. I'm sorry you had to experience how much some of these doctors try to sugar coat things. It truly is frustrating and maddening! I am so thankful for Dr. B and his honesty with me in my situation. I couldn't have asked for a better Oncologist. Love and Hugs.

[@stephaniejohns5435]

Awesome advice for family members of cancer patients. To not add anymore pressure, worries or stress.

[@24pawscoffeecreamer68]

Thank you Stephanie. It is a hard road for the family I know.

[@kristimartinez7528]

This is such an important message! You have to find a doctor that you can trust. Also, a doctor that will be honest and straightforward with you. On a side note... I love your hat. I visited Bath about 10 years ago. Lovely place!

[@24pawscoffeecreamer68]

Hello Kristi :) Yes, the right Dr. is important for sure :) As far as Bath...it is beautiful. I love how rich in history that area is. My Mum was born there! Love to you my friend!

[@nanarambles1369]

Happy to hear this good news. Will continue to send prayers your way & look forward to continuing to hear Good news (I'm speaking this out into existence). Love you Mrs & Mrs Sarge lol 💕 have a great day xoxo God bless

[@24pawscoffeecreamer68]

we love you too Nana :) Thank you so much for the kind words. Sending love and hugs to you :)

[@TheRVlifeFamilyVlogs]

So glad to hear the great news Sarge! Glad you have wonderful Mrs Sarge by your side too! You are always in our thoughts, and i hope things continue to go well for you! xx

[@24pawscoffeecreamer68]

Thank you so much :) I am so grateful to have her by my side. I don't know how I would fight this fight without her. Sending love and hugs.

[@missdaisy5736]

Hey Sarge, I’m so glad to hear your blood count doubled!! I’m happy Linda is your friend and helps you so very much❣️ hahaha, so your oncologist is head over heels? Good taste Doc👍🏻 It sounds like your doctor is really on top of it and rethinking chemo treatment. I’m happy the doctor is looking into steroids effect on you too. Different cancers have been in my family lives quite a bit throughout life. And, I sincerely am very grateful for Linda and your Oncologist, Dr. B. It is wonderful he is forthright and honest and kind and you have such a good team. Your wife and family are the bedt❣️

[@24pawscoffeecreamer68]

Thank you Sheila! I am hoping to see the number increase again when I get back from my vacation :) Yes, Linda is wonderful. So is Dr. B. I love them both so much. My wife and family really are a blessing. So thankful to have them in my life. Hugs to you!

[@conchitabonfire3994]

Yay Sarge that's fantastic news God bless!!! I will keep you in my prayers always!

[@24pawscoffeecreamer68]

Thank you my friend!! You are in my prayers always as well. Love and Hugs.

[@foodiethebeauty]

Hi there, I found you through Sara Jane and I just want to tell you how amazing of a person you are (watched your videos) and you are in my thoughts and prayers XOXO.

[@24pawscoffeecreamer68]

Hello, and thank you so much for the kind words. Love and Hugs :)

[@vickyrogers3690]

I love y'all soooo much and thank you for the words of wisdom....by the way, you are 'glowing' in this video. You look so happy and gave me a new outlook on my family members decision to quit chemo/radiation. I, too, love honesty from doctors and have experienced that same problem with sugar coating a diagnosis. I needed to hear this and am so happy your platelets are coming up. Lots of love and prayers Sarge and Mrs. Sarge ❤️❤️❤️

[@24pawscoffeecreamer68]

Hello Vicky :) I really was feeling a lot of relief after my visit with Doctor B. The words he spoke today made me feel like I DID make the best decision for myself when I stopped the chemo....and although I already knew it was the decision I wanted to make, this visit honestly served as a type of validation to me. Love and Hugs.

[@marieince3239]

Awe that's great news so happy for you all the prayers and good vibes are helping and will continue to do so much love to you your wife and family ❤❤❤❤❤.

[@24pawscoffeecreamer68]

Thank you Marie :) I am so thankful for all of the love and support. Love and Hugs my friend :)

[@gapmichael]

You're an inspiration and I just love listening to what you have to say. ((BIG HUGS)) x

[@24pawscoffeecreamer68]

Thank you so much for the kind words. I appreciate all of the love and support more than anyone knows ❤ Big hugs right back to you my friend!! 😊😊

[@Bravo_Alpha]

I believe things happen for a reason. I find you inspirational. I love your bravery, strength, and drive to follow your decisions. I love that you have your soul-mate to walk with you. You are the voice of insight to millions who are trying to find light in the darkness. Thanks for vlogging even when u are not feeling well. #whatever

[@24pawscoffeecreamer68]

Hello Brian!! I believe things happen for a reason too!! Without a doubt I believe that!! Thank you for your very kind words my friend. If my vlogging can help just 1 person, it was all worth it. Sending you love and Hugs.

[@virginialynn7882]

I am forever grateful for these videos about yalls journey! Thank you thank you thank you Sarge and Mrs. Sarge! I hope I can be this strong! 💪

[@victoriahanke1990]

Incredible news my friend. Bless you. ♥️☺️🕊🙏

[@24pawscoffeecreamer68]

Love you Vikki!!

[@iprefersteve]

Amen, babe :) So happy that you got good news. You show ‘em who’s boss! Still praying constantly for you.. Much love ❤️

[@24pawscoffeecreamer68]

It was such a relief to get the good news!! Thank you for your comment and I'm sending love and hugs your way!! :)

[@pjjones6969]

I'm so happy you saw Dr. B.... and that he made you feel so good. We are always here for you....always...

[@24pawscoffeecreamer68]

I'm happy I saw him too. He made me feel that I have already "beat the odds" so to speak, and it just renews the fight in me even more!! Love you so much.

[@aliciamendoza5833]

So glad to hear ! With God all things are possible I truly believe this.More now after hearing the news. Praise God ! Thank you Father, for you say even if you have faith as small AS a mustard seed, nothing is too impossible for you.

[@24pawscoffeecreamer68]

Thank you so much Alicia!! The news came as a huge relief and made for a wonderful day!!

[@aliciamendoza5833]

24 Paws & Coffee Creamer May you & your Family have a beautiful day🌞✌🌹

[@Alison-lovesanimals]

That's such good news. I am so happy things going your way for a change . X

[@24pawscoffeecreamer68]

Thank you Alison :) Hoping to continue the good news into the coming weeks!! :) Hugs to you!

[@Sarajanesjourney]

Always sending prayers and positivity your way, to Mrs Sarge, family and friends. Mama DeDe and I send our love. God doesn't make mistakes and miracles do happen 💜😉🤗

[@Sarajanesjourney]

It's a blessing to have a good health care team, being your own advocate is so important, and if someone cannot speak for themselves then they need a family or close friend to avocate for them and what they want. xoxo tfs hugs and blessings

[@24pawscoffeecreamer68]

Thank you for the prayers and positivity :) I hope that you and Mama De De are doing well, and I continue to send love and prayers your way.

[@terisumpton4199]

Hey Sarge n Mrs Sarge. Another inspiring video. I totally agree with your decision to stop chemo. Why inject your body with poison and feel ill when you can flood it with nutrition, positivity, love and support and give your body a chance to recover naturally. You're living proof hunnie! You radiate positivity by the way, you have a beautiful aura Sarge. Keep doing what your doing. I'll keep watching and championing your journey. Sending hugs from The UK ❤ ❤ ❤

[@24pawscoffeecreamer68]

Hello Teri, and thank you for the kind words :) Thank you for joining me on this journey, the love and support is absolutely amazing and leaves me speechless and humbled. Love and Hugs.

[@moonshine9104]

HEY now that is how it is suppose to be!!! Love, love your great news, I am so happy and thankful for our Dear Father!! Your oncologist sounds like a great person and Dr. You are fortunate in that respect. Good Dr's are very hard to come by. Unfortunately I have had my mom and dad that passed from this rotten disease.My mom from colon cancer. That was great news from your Dr. I think he was very surprised as well as happy with your progress and how good you look!!! I think the "C" said hey I picked the wrong body to go after, I better get out of this body!!!!! God is a great God, Sarge, never forget that!! Dr B is a good man, has a wonderful sense of the human being!! I love you Sarge and I am so happy for you.I mean that from my very being, Happy to make a nice and good friend!! So I have to change the subject just for a second. Tomorrow Wednesday Feb.28th...... Harley I love you!! Harley my cute baby come over and visit me!!! Oh back to the oral surgery tomorrow, I will be out of commission for a couple of day, but I will be back ASAP, as soon as I can see clearly, think clearly, and type clearly, lmao. Just need to do this no big deal, just some crap you have to do in life. Your shirt that is totally a trip, I am known by my friends as oh here she comes, "whatever".......whatever this, whatever that, thats her lol. I have that shirt in black!! Gives you an idea of me......lol So sorry I have written a book, but I wanted to tell you everything lmao!!! See you in a couple, love you Sarge, God bless your children, your fur babies and your wife.. Hugs and good thought everyday!!! Joannie 🤹‍♀️🤹‍♀️🤹‍♀️🤹‍♀️♥️♥️♥️♥️🦋🦋🦋🦋🐾🐾🐾🐾🦊🦊🦊🐺🐺🐺🐕🐕🐕🐶🐶🐶🐈🐈🐈🐶🐶🐶🐶💙💜💛💚

[@24pawscoffeecreamer68]

Hi Moon Shine!! Yes, my Oncologist and his nurse are so wonderful and I love them both. Sorry to hear that you have to have the surgery my friend, I know those aren't fun. I have had many myself....i had to have my top jaw broken as it was too narrow, had to have my gums cut back, had extra teeth under the gum line that had to be cut out before they grew. I wish you a speedy recovery and pray that all goes well. Love and Hugs.

[@melslate4210]

Such an AWESOME video!!! I'm so glad you received such positive news! You are just so real and inspiring! Thank you for sharing your journey! I feel you are truly changing a lot of people's lives who have cancer and who are loved ones of someone with cancer. I'm a firm believer that prayer changes things and you are a great example of that! Continued prayers, love support always for you and Mrs Sarge!

[@24pawscoffeecreamer68]

Thank you Mel :) It really turned out to be a great appointment and a great day!! Dr. B's words really made me feel like I have beaten the odds so to speak already, and I will continue to push forward and fight even harder :) Love and Hugs my friend.

[@winderpainatyoutube]

Hi Sarge. You are looking great today!!! I am soooo glad to hear the good news, It has been a joy meeting you and getting to know you better, thanks to my bestie Linda. You have a wonderful day today and I will talk to you soon. Hugzz

[@24pawscoffeecreamer68]

Thank you so much my friend! It really was nice to have some good news :) I too am very glad that we were introduced through Linda. You are an amazing person and I am blessed to have met you. Love and Hugs.

[@1WickedAngel1]

Awe, Sarge I'm so happy for you that you got good news!! This means that all the prayers are being heard & that our Father God is a Just, loving God!! Say Amen!! Awesome video Darlin'!! I love you & Mrs's Sarge!! God bless. Hugs & Kisses!!💛💛💛

[@24pawscoffeecreamer68]

Thank you WickedAngel :) Mrs. Sarge and I love you too and are sending our love and loads of hugs :)

[@chrissys8474]

Happy news!!! hugss and love

[@24pawscoffeecreamer68]

It sure is Chrissy!! Thank you so much my friend, Love and Hugs.

[@chrissys8474]

my friend my friend my friend ....yesss!

[@erinpacheco7458]

YAY! oh Sarge I am so happy for the good news ---- that is great ....AMEN xoxox AMEN xoxo always in my prayers you & your family

[@24pawscoffeecreamer68]

Thank you Erin :) Love and Hugs!!

[@SmashMama]

That's right!!!! PUSH PRAY UNTIL SOMETHING HAPPENS! Still watching and I had to rejoice...also....first..Take that flufffffffy 😉😘😘😘

[@SmashMama]

Ok second Mona beat me but I'm still before fluff 😂. Great video ,you are so sincere and opening people's eyes to a subject so many shy away from.

[@fluffyhatesfibro8407]

whatever smash.. lmao.. i was third.. hugs for real though

[@24pawscoffeecreamer68]

Thanks Smash!! Hoping for continued good news each week!! Dr. B. really renewed my strength and fight!! Love and Hugs.

[@catm.5516]

so happy to hear your good news!:)

[@24pawscoffeecreamer68]

Thank you Cat!! :)

[@Carol-ws3sv]

Hi there Sarge & Mrs.Sarge. I am so happy for you about your platelets!! Still though if there is anything I can do please let me know. Caner is an ugly beast & it most definiitely needs to be eradicated & my hope is that they find a cure in time for you and everyone battling this beast! Many prayers hugs and love heading your way!!

[@24pawscoffeecreamer68]

Hello Carol, and thank you! Love and Hugs to you my friend :)

[@staceylevine5643]

Sarge, that's great news. I told you, we have to keep fighting and moving forward. You can do this.

[@24pawscoffeecreamer68]

Thank you Stacey :) The news he gave me just makes me want to fight that much harder!! :)

[@bonniethompson417]

What wonderful news.You have a great team working with you.Stay strong 💪.Hugs

[@24pawscoffeecreamer68]

Thank you Bonnie :) I truly am blessed!! Love and Hugs.

[@fluffyhatesfibro8407]

So happy it was good news all around. I agree that although it would be hard to hear a family member say they wanted to stop treatment, I would support their decision. And the port thing is small potatoes considering what you have been through. I can help the doc knock you out for removal.. oh wait never mind, he wants the conscious knockout hahaha.. seriously LOVE YOU my friend.. hugs

[@24pawscoffeecreamer68]

Yes Fluffy, concious sedation...you are not allowed to whack me around the head with a 2x4!! LOL Love and Hugs!!!

[@kats5031]

That is AWESOME news!!!

[@24pawscoffeecreamer68]

Thank you so much Kat :)

[@rainorchids]

So good to hear such positive news!

[@24pawscoffeecreamer68]

Thank you so much Christy :)

[@berniem9500]

Brilliant News Sarge☺💚xx

[@24pawscoffeecreamer68]

Thank you Bernie!!

[@sherylw4910]

Such great news! You are your own best advocate sweetie and that along with your support system will carry you through. I'd like to know about your mom. How old was she when she died? What type of cancer did she have? What led her to make the choice she did?

[@24pawscoffeecreamer68]

Hi Sheryl. My Mom was 59 years old when she passed. She was diagnosed with Multiple Myeloma. It was torture to see her go through it. She fought for about 7 years, going through all the appointments, needles, scans, treatments, etc. It finally got to the point where she was having to have transfusions more and more often because the cancer was attacking her blood and it would leave her with a fever and confusion. She made the decision herself after we had rushed her to the ER one day, that she did not want anymore transfusions. She said that she just needed to know that me and my brother were okay and she felt that we now were, and that she could go and be in peace. The comfort to me when we were with her as she passed, was how much she said she was ready and wanted to see her Mom.

[@sherylw4910]

24 Paws & Coffee Creamer Oh my she was so young. I will be 59 next month. What I get is that she was a very strong woman who knew her priorities and planned accordingly. And that she loved you and your brother very much. Hugs to you and much ❤️

[@jeanniealonzo6640]

You Rock Love Your ( Videos )I’ve Been catching up Just Started Watching This For 2 Days 😒Sorry To Hear The Passing 🙏🏼Mrs. Sarge 🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@TheVildee]

I just watched your full story video, and I want to thank you for giving your perspective. I'm studying to become a physician, and hearing about doctors not being completely honest (in reality protecting themselves) really hit me. I'm only in my second year, so I hope I will learn much more about conveying bad news, but I know I would really struggle with telling a patient if I had to at this point. Hopefully I would be able to be completely honest, but I guess I can't know until I'm in that situation. Can I just ask if the doctor was young? Sorry for any mistakes, English is not my first language.

[@24pawscoffeecreamer68]

Hello there :) That is awesome that you are studying to become a physician, and I wish you the best with your studies and in your career! 😁 it was a colorectal surgeon, probably in her 40's, that told me not to worry about the new spot that developed on my lung, and it was a cardiothorasic surgeon, I would guess in his 40's as well, that couldn't tell me I was no longer a candidate for lung resection surgery.

[@TheVildee]

Wow okay, thank you for your answer! :)

[@JennRivera822]

That's great news Sarge ☺💖

[@24pawscoffeecreamer68]

It sure is Jennifer :) Thank you!!

[@ellyellepellies7730]

now I love you even more!😘😘

[@24pawscoffeecreamer68]

Aww, thank you so much Elly :) Love and Hugs!!

[@karenslone7624]

Sarge,go to cancer centers of America, in Atlanta Georgia,they are great they know so much more....love you so much....

[@ksr622002]

I'm very fearful that I also have colon cancer. Going in for a colonoscopy on the 23rd of March. I've been watching your videos and preparing myself for the worst. I'm undecided if I will do chemo if it turns out I have late stage cancer. I'm thinking I might go a natural medicine path. Not really sure what I will do. One day at a time.

[@24pawscoffeecreamer68]

ksr, I wish you the best for your colonoscopy, and that the results are negative for the colon cancer. As far as what you will do as treatment, just do what is right for YOU, but we can discuss that once you know more. Praying for good results!!! Sending you loads of hugs!!

[@serinat2181]

Love from England x

[@24pawscoffeecreamer68]

Thank you so much Serina 😊 I appreciate it very much. Sending love back to you as well!

[@loribravo1682]

You are amazing 😉

[@naomijones8446]

I do not blame you for not wanting to take any more chemo. I had never understood putting one through that kind of torture when it is not going to do any good and leaves the individual weak and down unrecognizable at the end. I personally think that one needs to have wherever time left which "only God knows when that time is and not any doctor" to be days where quality of life is to where can be enjoyed and not of suffering. He thinking of you tomorrow when you get your port out.

[@24pawscoffeecreamer68]

Hello Naomi :) I think that chemo is the right option for some people....but that wasn't the case for me. I wanted the quality, and having had some chemo and knowing that it wasn't stopping the cancer from growing, I made the decision to stop. As it turns out, it was the absolute RIGHT decision for me. The growth has SLOWED since stopping the chemo. Love and Hugs my friend :)

[@donnarega1249]

Miss you.

[@whatthehewell2992]

💜🙏❤️🙏💙

[@claireshore1]

Hi Sarge and Mrs Sarge , if you let me know an address I can send some Cadburys Eggs to I would be more than happy to send you some over along with a selection of Cadburys :) best wishes x

[@24pawscoffeecreamer68]

Oh my goodness!! You are after my heart!! Lol. Please know that you don't have to send us anything, but thank you so very much. Love and Hugs!! Here is our address: Sarge P.O. Box 851 Copperas Cove, TX 76522

[@susanrobson8797]

Sarge may I ask what size t shirt you are and mrs sarge size too if possible.x

[@victoriahanke1990]

Get that port fixed!!!

[@24pawscoffeecreamer68]

Oh I will. It is coming out on March 7th. Dreading the procedure. So good to see you back on here my friend. Much love!!

[@fluffyhatesfibro8407]

THIRD!!!! LOL

[@24pawscoffeecreamer68]

You are slipping my friend!! Lol. Hugs.

[@aarongeraghty1205]

Just maybe the cancer might slowly decrease in size!

[@24pawscoffeecreamer68]

It just might Aaron! I am certainly hoping that it does....miracles have happened!! :)

[@pjjones6969]

LOL... Port - O - Potty.....

[@24pawscoffeecreamer68]

Wait...I'm confused??