Build a First Class Self-Concept and Get What You Want

[@JenMarco]

Many of us weren’t raised by parents who told us we are enough and didn’t praise us and now as adults we struggle to find our worth and can’t see it. So sad. I raised my son the opposite of what my parents did. I praised him, complimented him, never squashed his dreams and he’s 31 and very successful, happy and well adjusted. We can still overcome if we accept that our parents messed up and had no knowledge to pass on and projected their own insecurities and inefficiency on us and it wasn’t their fault.

[@VontriceIyonn]

And know that your creator has unconditional, incomprehensible love for us all.

[@PlaywithDaisy]

@@user-dg1te1ju7h same😞

[@adorevevomusic]

who's fault is it than , somehow we know better if they tried they would too don't you think ? I am not making any more excuses for my parent anymore he was what he was and if he wanted he would be better because I can use that excuse as well and be the same but I am not

[@rahinsabah7365]

At first I felt so sad reading your story but when started saying how you raised your son, it suddenly bought a smile on my face.

[@tarabendre1825]

Actually, it’s not a good thing to praise kids. Only if they ask for it. Praising kids teaches them to be people pleasers. There’s also a difference between pro aiding kids based on performance vs effort. I read about this the other day, so thought I would share.

[@charisma1349]

It’s becoming super clear to me now that I’ve been doing this all wrong. My self concept is all over the place I know my worth but I let limiting thoughts dominate too often which is reflected in my 3d.

[@KennethLane90]

🙏🏾

[@sarahoop5859]

Me too it’s like I know I deserve better but I don’t see myself that way

[@dafnemiranda872]

Thank you !!! The majority of people think of arrogance as having high self concept or confidence and it's quite off putting.

[@Dreamwithjoy]

I agree 😂, that's why nuance is important!

[@shortbreadcookie]

Ikr! And people who are quiet gentle or kind tend to be seen as soft and weak, which sucks

[@mikelucas5845]

Ceases to suck when you develop a loving self concept. ❤️

[@charlesschenk6290]

Joy, your message is spot-on about how to have a good life. We become what we think and believe about ourselves. I'm an old-timer, age 75, and I didn't discover the truth in your message until around age 40, which is when my life became wonderful. The "tool" I used to change how I see myself has been a gratitude list. I started writing it back in 1989, putting in every little, and larger gratitude, starting by thinking trough my childhood up until the present day. Today that list is over 54,000 words - 134 pages single-space typed into a Word document. Doing this exercise, and keeping it going over the years, caused a total shift in how I saw myself. Everything changed for the better. My life changed, my marriage changed, my business changed - all for the better. It's a wonderful message. What we think about expands, and by keeping grateful, I keep getting more things about which to be grateful. Try this. Keep it going, it works.

[@JB-os3yp]

love this!

[@mikelucas5845]

Yes that is awesome! ❤️❤️❤️

[@Awaregirl]

❤

[@WildSheWolf_]

that is so valuable to hear! i love to read the results of others, they inspire me to keep going!

[@cateyoo]

This is so beautiful ❤

[@javierxrtd]

I hope you read this message, You have a great future ahead of you I can easily see it.

[@Wony.subliminals]

My family raised me in a way of that every single thing i do , and everything i am is never enough . Which caused me to have a low self concept and a lack mentality . It took me so long and so much work to have a good self concept.

[@mikelucas5845]

Keep going, bc you are so lovable and awesome and amazing and valuable and worthy. Please try to always remember this. Your worth depends on NOTHING ❤️❤️❤️

[@Manifest_success_with_me]

​@@mikelucas5845r🎉🎉 right

[@tileshp3762]

How did you exactly do this work - through journalling and meditation? I have had exactly the same from my parents it really sucks and Ive got to age 44 struggle badly day to day

[@Manifest_success_with_me]

@@tileshp3762 yes you can overcome anything in life, journaling+ visualization+ subliminal with affirmations through out the day

[@MariaPedersen-mq5hk]

I loved your point about not relying on external factors to determine your worth in a relationship. I'm so tired of hearing about "low-value man this" or "high-value woman that." It's such a cruel and reductive way to speak about people, and it makes romantic partnerships seem like a transaction.

[@BlueYellowGreenVc]

Those people using those terms do indeed view relationships as transactional. So, it fits.

[@Bigsteppervinny]

A true king knows how to recognise a true queen and I recognise you. What an beautiful voice Stay bless thank you.

[@FollowerofDuck]

subscribed! ive been telling myself that ill focus on self concept but then i end up focusing way too much on sp or literally anything else. now ill actually be placing the focus on me 💅

[@winnielim80]

Thanks Joy. Today, after doing a self-concept sleep meditation where I affirmed that I am royalty, a queen, and a gift to others, I experienced special and honorable treatment. At the chemist, an elderly lady kindly helped me by taking a shopping basket for me. Then, at Woolies, a worker assisted me with the trolley. I met an Uber driver from Newcastle, and she helped me load my stuff into the car. Older ladies have shown me such kindness and compassion. Just last week, I was on a bus, and an elderly lady tried to talk to me.

[@xono9848]

* I get what I want as long as it doesn’t hurt myself or others, and benefits the collective as a whole. ❤

[@yaarahaim6143]

❤

[@graceclover8697]

“i always get what i want in healthy ways” “i get everything i want with no harm caused” my favs

[@leithmark959]

Biologically and esoterically, we are an electromagnetic system. I am so magnetic that anything I want just gets drawn to me. All of my needs get met as a result. Isn’t it wonderful? Thank you.

[@HumaneExistence]

Environment triggers feelings which trigger mood which trigger thoughts and actions. You have the power to become less volatile to your environment you have all the control you are your god. Trust me when I say from experience staying in that higher frequency does attract positive experiences. Thats not to say you wont be tested but its a blip in time dont let that bs affect you queen. Stay unbothered.

[@barcelona12ist]

how did you get to that state of mind? most beliefs are subconscious, you even don't know that they exist...

[@Myworld-ff2xq]

*You don't need to get plastic surgery* hits hard 🥺 coz as a young child i never felt pretty and thought only beautiful people can have good friends. But as i matured i realised its all about self concept 💗. Thank you for your lovely video.

[@yourmorningbird]

I love how you outline the difference between arrogance and confidence. So true. Thanks for the explanation!

[@suguruvxfpG-u1y]

My mom raised me to have low self esteem, she would praise me while also bringing me down. She’d call me beautiful then when she was mad she’d call me a bad name. It’s harder to identify that kinda stuff and realize my worth. I always let people walk over me because I think i deserve them not they deserve me.

[@elenamendoza1733]

❤ sending love, lets change that

[@univercent]

You should know how uplifting your words are! I woke up feeling like I wasn't able to manifest, and now I know I can do anything.

[@evanlaurence2862]

Something about this just HITS the right spot. There is a whole lot of other material on the topic but that stuff feels forced and this stuff feels natural!!

[@jilliannlove5871]

I love everything you said.❤ Have built my self concept up the past few months and just know everything I’ve ever wanted is mine. Definitely important to focus on self concept at the same time as your desires.

[@Dreamwithjoy]

Yess it is! Everything can be tied back to self-concept in some way 🥰

[@jilliannlove5871]

@@Dreamwithjoy Very true.

[@Ms.cosmiquesun]

Abundance is an energy, feel your way into abundance. Who are your role models, what inspires you about them, whats their self concept. Learn from them, what are they doing right. How we do the small things is how we do the big things. Do small things like a big person. Embody the energy of that future you that you hold in your mindspace. Wishing us all the best. With love Sun.

[@TheAGODAMI]

@@Ms.cosmiquesun 💡 *To "FeeL" is to KNoW.!!!* 🔑

[@namiii-55]

Can you guide me, how did you master your self concept. I'm also trying, but it's bit difficult for me🥲 so can you help me plz!

[@KarolineTheEmpath]

I am in awe of the hours and work you put into this. While watching this for the purpose that I want to apply changing my self concept into my life, it kinda feels like meditation except it’s the loving kindness meditation. I’ve tried this type of meditation before and the point of the meditation is to be kind, gentle and compassionate towards yourself. I feel this connects to the idea of changing your self concept, as you mention if you don’t enlarge your value of yourself your value won’t value you. Material possessions have value except your own values are more valuable than material things. I like how you can apply self concept in any areas of life such as manifesting an SP, soulmate or your dream life. I think this is what I like about manifestation is that it focuses on your inner self than focusing on what you want. Because I think gratitude is important to have and it changed my life, and I now do it daily to start my day.

[@madhusweetprof]

Parents were v strict and so was my dance teacher. Yes I learned a great Class8dance form under her for 12 years but those 12 years of my childhood I was under pressure , stress n lot of unrequited discipline which often use to turn into distress. I m a first class first university topper gold medalist girl..fair n beautiful and a dancer and singer..however I never knew I need to value myself as a result my husband too thought of me as very gullible n took me for a ride for several years wth tremendous mental abuse n disrespect...but no more. Enough is enough. I stand up again n first v thing I want to love myself ..right from a small child uptill now..I😊 I select people v carefully now ..I need best wishes from you all..

[@betteryou6098]

I always felt that I needed to lower myself, don’t have worth and thinking that I didn’t deserve anything good because of my trauma. Now that I recovered and my way to healing I still feel the same and people please a lot. Changing how I think of myself is the answer Thank you so much ❤

[@ec888_]

It finally clicked like foreal foreal, i have watched alot of self concept videos but this one right here i had an aha moment, now i know why money hasnt been in my life like how i wanted it to be going around in circles affirming for money but truth is it finally hit me, i only wanted money to live comfortable or to prove a point that once i have all the money i want i finally become someone 🥺 now i know why i tried no matter how much i was affirming

[@Ms.cosmiquesun]

Abundance is an energy, feel your way into abundance. Who are your role models, what inspires you about them, whats their self concept. Learn from them, what are they doing right. How we do the small things is how we do the big things. Do small things like a big person. Embody the energy of that future you that you hold in your mindspace. Wishing us all the best. With love Sun.

[@khusshburaajput7107]

im saving it so i can hear it every week for the rest of my life

[@njmoby]

This is part of Hermeticism and I agree completely. Also it is important to love and accept everything and everyone as it is, as well as yourself. In doing so will kill negativity and lack and you become someone who attracts what your new worth is. It will also take any SP off the pedestal. I love you Joy. I have subscribed because we can never have enough of words and ideas such as these.

[@jayjaytr1849]

Well here’s the thing When I was in high school my perception of myself was very high but as I grow older I realized I’m very ordinary if anything I’m less… I’m not particularly smart, or beautiful or talented and I compare myself to other a toxic amount to the point where I don’t get close to anyone because they leave me questioning myself. The truth is the reality of my situation eventually beat my perception and reality caught up with me like a tsunami crushing me down more then ever! My self confidence is none existent and it’s only getting worse but what I am doing about this issue with myself is just working with myself everyday.. the first step is that I’m aware of the issue so that’s great. Life is what you make it SOMETIMES for SOME people. Perception is not reality, sometimes is it but only to you.

[@mikelucas5845]

Many of us have been down the road you are describing but we are coming out the other side loving ourselves unconditionally. Keep going because you are 100 percent lovable ❤️

[@anushkafernando7046]

So Calming and Authentic and no faking or extra anything.. to the point video.... love it

[@mamabear71234]

Keep toxic people out of your life. You must know what narcissism is to keep out these predatory and abusive people out of your life. Toxic people will destroy your life.

[@GeschichtsProfi]

Yes this is so true people underestimate the power of toxic people narcissistic /psychopaths,.. are like an evil force . Cutting the cords from these people is mandatory for a good life

[@cody_code]

Got so many self-limiting beliefs up in here it feels like I'm gonna pass out when I focus on maintaining this mindset 😂 Been practicing for a while, but this was a great listen! Subbed

[@swatitomar7113]

That is some rare and realistic take on self- concept. Appreciate it❤️

[@elishachrystel]

I am so happy I came across your page today this was so helpful thank you 🙏🏾

[@louieknight8786]

Unbelievably executed, thank you for the reminder that the power is within me.

[@FolakemiIdowu-jj9mc]

Thank you joy you speak with so much poise and so much wisdom you just gained a subscriber🥰

[@sairamdonthula]

Thank you so much 🙏

[@adithyaa21]

When i watch this video in the morning i see that you have 459 subscribers now you have 744 your amazing ❤ i'm soo greatful for that i found this video and your channel. Keep going girl looking for more amazing content ✨️

[@secondand7th]

The most lit part of this video was when you made a goof talking and you just kept talking passionately without editing it out. You a real one, and we love you too.

[@spacecouture-n3l]

This is the best self concept video i have watched u speak so calmly that it feels like a therapy listening 💕

[@kleom]

first of all you’re gorgeous you’re so well spoken and i love your voice and btw this is a really detail video and your tips are very unique so thank u🤍

[@sjefkev]

When you talked about the way you perceive yourself in terms of money, to see yourself as more important than money. Thankyou for a new perspective!:)

[@ahmedzain8807]

Wow!! It's my first time to see a girl that is wise, deep, and pretty at the same time.. Hope you all the best I've learnt a lot from you. Thank you ❤️

[@shortbreadcookie]

When you talked about how kings and queens get what they want and how they are so relaxed, it reminded me of Ava Max’s Kings&Queens 👑✨️ And you rock! Keep doing what you’re doing :))

[@mocerlaalacbaino]

I realized something as well, its about pride/confidence. When you do things in certain order, you just have more pride because of that behavior. Like rather than eating directly from cooker, if you take it out on a plate, then eat it. It makes you feel right. When we do stuff wrongly, we just hide it from others. Like, we don't want to show others that we sometimes don't wash hands after tying our shoelaces. But when you do. It just keeps up. And you feel better internally.

[@JammyLatte]

JOY I LOVE YOU SO MUCH!! You honestly touched my heart with this beautiful sweetmessage and making me realise how important it is i view myself first before even thinking about others.😘❤💞

[@jess444you]

3 mins in & i had to stop to comment to say you are sooo beautiful im in awe

[@Michevell]

I’m so happy more and more people are talking about this. Wish I knew this way earlier in life. Self-concept is key 🔑 Thanks 💖

[@starrstuff9862]

Same! I remember trying to have conversations on topics like this 10 years ago. And it was BRUTAL 😂😅😢. And it wasn't even that they didn't want to have the conversation.....they just didn't know what to say really. They had never thought about ANYTHING like this. And people would either get freaked or weirded out and ask why tf I was thinking about and talking about stuff like this. Or they'd just have a glazed over look in their eyes and say yeah I don't know 😂 Some people you could tell it opened a door in their mind.....they would get quiet and not really say anything. But you could see it did something to them.

[@starrstuff9862]

I distinctly remember being a senior in high school, and having a discussion about the book The Alchemist that we were reading. And I used the term " the universe" in replacement to god. And the teacher laughed and told me he didn't want to hesd my hippy dippy ideas. You hear it very regularly now.

[@chris72972]

You are a beautiful soul. I was seeking Joy, and I found you. Thank you for reminding me of my worth. I wish I could surround myself with friends like you. By the way, I stayed to the end without skipping, because you are worth listening to!

[@SL3DApps]

The concept of infinite self value is great but I wouldn’t go as far as saying someone is enough. You shouldn’t feel stressed or fake yourself in any way but you should focus and dedicate serious time to everyday self improvement.

[@Twozerofived]

thank you for this video. I need a reminder of this message regularly cos it's so easy to forget 😭

[@R-hp4mj]

Thank you for making this video. Everything you said was what I needed to hear in my life right now. I was so anxious today feeling like I wasn’t enough and that I didn’t deserve what I desired even though I know I shouldn’t be thinking this way. I feel so uplifted and encouraged. Thank you so much. Well done! I wish you and everyone the watching your content an amazing fulfilled life!

[@bbcapital7953]

Really needed to hear this and slow down and trust my self and my power in my reality in life.

[@mananchheda97]

Joy you have an extremely serene voice which resonates deep within even for us. This is really helpful and elevating. We all are rewards like yourself Joy.

[@innervision97]

Downloaded this video to keep it on a demand for whenevere i need it. I geew up just generally hating myself and not seeing my worth and unconsciously carried that program around with me. I basically ruined my life before it even began. Thank you for always motivating me. I really want to book you for coaching one day.

[@Angell_Lee]

You are such a Gem, what a beautiful human being you are. Thank you so much Joy xo

[@brushstroke3733]

I admire your ability to see yourself as special and unique. I have difficulty seeing myself as special and unique as no one else seems to see it and I see billions of other people on the planet with similar desires (at the core - the desire to feel worthy and to create things that interest us.) I see us all as replaceable ants and that life will easily go on without us. When I put my finger in a glass of water, stir, and withdraw my finger, there is not a hole remaining in the water where my finger was. To me that proves I am not indispensable. Hats off to everyone who can and does see themselves as having value. I just see specks of dust on a tiny speck of dust in an infinite universe. In other words, none of us matter.

[@literarywitch]

this is so good! learned a lot

[@HaischkaEST]

How did you learn to speak so flawlessly? You are a beautiful, well-spoken, and smart person. Thank you for this. My girlfriend needs to know this since she doesn't realize how smart and beautiful she is herself.

[@frankieslight]

you are a gift to humanity

[@ManifestWithMe1111]

I’m so happy your channel found me today. I’m grateful for this content. Much needed. Thank You🎉

[@AlytheAbundant]

I love you too! You are an amazing speaker and wonderful thinker. Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom with us!

[@yosoyhela]

Thanks for this video, the king Queen mentality help see the things in other ways, like yeah... the queen can't be stressed or anxious for everything, she need to believe that everything is going to be ok❤

[@wellthisisinteresting4912]

love this! perfect timing. your personality creates your personal reality so get to working on self concept and how you view yourself, you guys lets gooooo

[@wiana22]

This is perhaps the best video I've seen in my life about manifesting and similar topics. I subscribed. Beautiful energy. Thank you.

[@JB-os3yp]

Thank u for this powerful message, wish I heard it 40 yrs ago:-) But I hear it now!

[@vanessabrinks]

This was so relaxing to watch, I’ve needed to make affirmations a routine because I’d fall back into lack mindset so many times, this was amazing thank you ❤

[@justiceearth9702]

I love the concept of personifying money

[@crishappyhealthylifestyle]

Love your message and the way you deliver it and your soothing voice ❤ thank you for a great video 🙏

[@gingeoram]

Thank you. You are a relatable and effective communicator - and I needed to see this video tonight.

[@s.0007]

I'm so grateful I found your channel, I love this video I promise to achieve a high self concept because I know what I desire is just around the corner. ✨

[@kaylee.gagliardi]

your voice is so calming great vid 🫶🫶

[@Dylanareads]

I LOVE this. WHat need needs me to be manifested in this world

[@Rainjojo]

Listening to this for my morning affirmations made me feel so powerful

[@marketingboostsolutions]

Profound wisdom that spoke straight to my God self, so brilliantly explained.. Thankyou keep sharing as we love your videos

[@vanessaprincesssa]

This is one of the best videos, because you say it in a way that others have not done or said it before! Love it. Wish you all the best ❤❤

[@kiki9802]

Thanks

[@EmpressChanelle]

I want to see myself in positive light ❤

[@mikelucas5845]

You are worthy and awesome! ❤️

[@EmpressChanelle]

Thank you, I appreciate it ❤️

[@n.1.o.8]

You are really amazing. What you say makes sense. And you are pretty. I love the calmness in your voice💕

[@rntko7316]

Thank you, watching this video and another one of yours, has reminded me of my power and i really needed to be reminded of that.

[@solace-bambi]

You will be big, I can feel it

[@sephfcuoctasphere333]

Hello, this video popped up in front of me today. This is my introduction to you and your channel. Thank you for this video. I value and appreciate what you are sharing here, and your voice feels good.

[@maria22662]

thank you so much for such an informative video! and your examples of how to practice self concept were truly great, subscribed! ❤

[@BratzGyall]

Thankyou Joy! You are a real one ❤️ selfconcept IS NR 1

[@innervision97]

I really appreciate the way you broke this down and explained it, I listen to alot ot manifesting and metaphysical content, you explanation is really clear. Just subscribed, looking forward to hearing more from you.

[@pir006]

Best self concept video I’ve seen on KZbin

[@tharukree7848]

Thank you ❤ I needed to be reminded of who I am 😊

[@kikimbenzi]

KZbin recommended this to me twice ❤❤❤

[@hemiltonxo]

All I need to hear for now and forever. Thank You!!!

[@dangtuongvypham]

I feel so lucky I found this channel and this video

[@IAM6figureearner]

Thank you! I needed to hear this message all my life, but in this moment. I love you, you are one of a kind, different, stand out from every of manifesting teacher. Thank you again for this video!❤

[@Ambrosia_144]

I just discovered your channel, it was in my recommended list. I feel so blessed after listening to your videos. I already started binge watching them. Your messages are mind blowing mega good and your voice is soo soothing!! I don’t know you but somehow I love you 😅. I Immediately subscribed. I can’t wait to listen to your next videos. Sending you lots of love & light. ✨

[@UsurpersAndAssassins]

You're views are very different to how I view life, so it was interesting to watch. Thank you for making the video.

[@sabrinanyakecho273]

Joy thanks for the content u give , before I got to know about self concept from u I kept on working in various things but wondered why I always felt like I had never started, its when KZbin recommended ur video that I got to know what to actually start with and that is self concept, I request u make a video on tips on how to enlarge one's self concept plus a video of affirmations to enlarge one's self concept positively

[@nimasoraya1193]

What a beautiful soul you are. Inside and out. Thank you for your precious video 👸🏻💖🙏

[@Jenna-vj2ju]

You just earned a new subscriber! Beautiful and a much needed video! Keep it up💗

[@mydanny6523]

I like how you talk and explain about self-concept very well. 👏🏼✨

[@ThriveWithLouise]

I think thinking you’re better than anyone else is very different than changing your state of being, one is superficial the other is genuine, when you’re changes your state you’re becoming that not trying to be better or forcing

[@joeytheapricot]

This is turning lights on for me, thanks!!! 💡 🎉

[@arthurwanderstheworld]

Thank you for these wise words. I know I'm so worthy I'm so unique I have a lot of skills but I tend to downsize them so much and feel like crap.

[@Hautenani]

Subscribed!!!!! Amazing way you out things. I feel so powerful and so much of what I’ve been trying to learn has finally clicked. Thank you love ❤❤❤❤

[@Kooljupiter]

Thank you Needed the reminder I fully resonate with this but sometimes get sidetracked or miss the details