Dress for Your Man or the type of Man you Want

[@Mrs.704]

My grandmother used to tell me that you have to leave the house everyday like you’re about to meet your husband. A lot of women get too comfortable and let themselves go throughout the relationship and wonder why their men’s interest is elsewhere. Men with means love a woman he can show off in exchange for providing and protection.

[@ladyesha]

I have been doing this for a while now. I love it. Yet to meet him tho

[@melodiethompson5588]

My best friends husband has never seen her without make up. She gets up before him and gets ready. They have been married 25 years and he adores her, sends her flowers every week.

[@melodiethompson5588]

If I don’t know what to wear, I wear a dress black pencil dress, white button down blouse, Pearl necklace and earrings, with dress heels. Stay classic when in doubt

[@PSmith-te1nb]

After watching so many of your videos and listening to some of the questions that are asked, it is obvious that many mothers and grandmother's have failed the next generation of women. It is sad to hear so many women haven't been taught theses basics lessons already.

[@lenatutowa5181]

LMAOOOOO "When they say "dress to impress it doesn't mean to impress yourself, it means dress to impress others".."!! GOLD! Hahaha spot on :)

[@uanip1341]

Word of advice: I used to have acne. I tried everything including proactive but nothing worked. The only thing that worked was eliminating gluten and dairy from my diet. My skin is smooth as a baby’s butt and I don’t use any chemicals to clean my face.

[@imperialnubian896]

Uani Palacio what do you use for your face if you don’t mind me asking

[@Trailblazers323]

Chlorophyll is good too

[@Mrs.704]

I had this same issue. I think it helps also if you drink water with lemon more than sugary and artificial flavored drinks.

[@uanip1341]

Manifestation Queen I use Burt’s bees natural cleanser or a natural soap to wash off makeup and baking soda as a scrub 2-3x per week. It’s also natural 😊😊

[@uanip1341]

Oya's Daughter lol get you clairaonic, girl! Exfoliation is crucial

[@TeaWitcher]

I love collagen!! 😀 I'm glad that you appreciate these things as well. I always notice, asian/chinese women take SUCH good care of themselves they care so much they dont eat too much sweets, have great beauty routines and diets i wish more American women cared like that!! It would make us all look better.

[@Mrs.704]

chelle benjamin but these women are typically very petite. Black women think being ‘thick/fat’ is what black men like when it’s really the dusties and broke dudes who go after any ol out of shape woman who doesn’t keep her health in check.

[@TeaWitcher]

Ms Jackson very true i am petite so i get it, but its the women's fault for not paying attention to what they really like and following a stupid status quo! If they thought for themselves they would keep their appearance in top shape instead of stuffing their face tryna get a 'fat or nice ass' By Simply doing cardio everyday and some sort of strength training, keeping out processed fake foods they'll be looking great and whatver their shape is will naturally just be what it is

[@Mrs.704]

chelle benjamin I most definitely agree.

[@TinystarTime]

SO true, I go to the gym everyday & the ladies who I see the most are OLDER Asian women. They get in the sauna, massage their face, do their hair, etc.

[@msrailroadtracks2920]

I leveled up just by taking collagen! Still working to further level up but my hair nails and skin got folk turning heads!

[@melindaroop1346]

These people asking if you go to church obviously haven't seen your other channel lol.

[@continuousself-improvement1879]

LOL. The trolls don't want to have anything to do with Laqwanda Builder. But Lawd, they show up in droves when Shera looks good.

[@DeenScene]

Continuous Self-Improvement yup yup

[@vanaphill2454]

That is because the broke dusties get to see a beautiful woman they can't have for free.

[@MsEliteForever]

I'm one hour into this....red flag if a guy has a preference a strong preference where he feels his race is inferior type of preference. Do not entertain these guys. Your only a place holder until he brings his wealth up Reason why a lot of rap stars exs are dark skin and had dark skin kids....drop them all for non black women. Only entertain him if it's going to benefit you in some way for the future come up ;)

[@CinemaDoll137]

Saving/ me This is exactly what i mentioned about the woman from the Steve Harvey video. Her man liked blond and fair women but the girl was black and wears blonde wigs to make him happy when she is just a placeholder

[@MsEliteForever]

Hillary Dunkley Exactly. When Muhammad Ali passed away. His dark skin son was living in the hood with his dark skin wife and their dark skin children. Soon as daddy died and he got his inheritance and bounced! And never came back. More black women need to stop with the struggle love. Make a new rep for ourselves that were not your place holders until you get what you really want. Straight up tell these dudes no and again NO. He's only given a chance if he has his life already together. This works better if many black women either stay alone ...don't be a bob the builder or date out. Black men will improve themselves maybe if less pick mes and struggle love chicks were available. I had homeless black men preach to me too about black love. My biracial coworker who identified as black got mad at me because I didn't give the homeless dude a chance like her and her sister did. Where the kim kardash chicks at for these men??😂 Kardash chicks are smart. I saw the Steve Harvey episode. I was like home girl better run! I met a mixed guy like that. Said he prefers white girls,but if I wore blonde daily this could work out....I like black hair over blonde and wouldn't mind blonde sometimes....but not into it everyday and if he ever got successful he'll leave me for a fake dye job blonde in 3...2....1....no thanks.

[@MsEliteForever]

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[@royalone8628]

Never ever entertain men who have a preference that's not you

[@MsEliteForever]

Music4TheSoul Exactly.

[@bellagrace3109]

Jeans can look hot if you have good legs and booty. I have had more compliments wearing jeans than if wearing dresses. Dress for your body type

[@tiffanyobinyan7339]

Love this look Bob blunt cut is my signature look ! I prefer my long extensions but notice the high class men prefer this look because it looks more natural

[@user-nq8nl4wh9w]

What's sad is I was at the nail shop and there was a lady in there with a leopard print bonnet on...I was so mad lol you can't bun it up, put your hair in a loose Indian braid something? Damn we have to stop doing this it looks terrible.

[@PSmith-te1nb]

S. C. I always thought bonnets make women look like slaves or maids and don't understand the insistence of making them acceptable outside of the home.

[@user-nq8nl4wh9w]

P. Smith girl she look like that Mammy in gone with the wind. Google it..and I absolutely wanted to slap that stupid crap off her damn head. I hate when bw go out looking crazy because it just feeds the stereotype.

[@user-nq8nl4wh9w]

Ms Jackson I'd rather no attention at all vs. attention from dusty quantavious...

[@PSmith-te1nb]

S. C. It absolutely feeds the stereotype. The stereotypes of Black women being "less than" women of other races is exactly why I won't be caught outside looking less than my best. No Bonnetta PickMeisha over here 😂

[@user-nq8nl4wh9w]

P. Smith I agree

[@denisedelarosa7182]

Perfect timing....I'm about to buy clothes this thursday

[@TellyTingz2000]

denise delarosaa exactly

[@Frauhammie75]

Sasha looks exactly like you❤️

[@4crazy1chick2]

Yes she does....just beautiful 😍

[@MzStephyb100]

I love your videos... but I have to disagree with straight hair. I think it depends on the woman. I get more compliments from men when my hair is curly. They also often tell me they prefer it on me... but maybe that's just me though

[@CrockyDile15]

I'm late, but it's the same with me. I do NOT look good with straight hair nor do I feel confident in it. I look more beautiful when I'm confident. I think it really just depends on your facial features and vibe.

[@aminasow185]

Me too i Get more compliments with curly

[@natnel617]

Me too. Its softens my face more.

[@Mia-sp8jc]

So true black men LOVE straight hair - so I go with that. I feel women, myself, a handful of women on the job and of course you Shera look crazy good with your curly hair as did Kerry Washington today! Oh well -If we are determined to have a certain type of man we need to give him what he wants.

[@similiazavala2073]

I LOVE how you’re mentioning the same things I do to care for myself.💯👑

[@4crazy1chick2]

I agree with you shera....when I wear straight hair, I get ALOT more hits from men. They LOVE it.

[@havegrace9111]

You look gorgeous !!! Love the sleek hair and lipstick 👄

[@vanaphill2454]

Have your man or SD buy clothes for you. Then you will know what he likes you to wear.

[@dumitruedelean59]

True that!

[@bassiekhunou-carter7062]

Loved this!

[@elizabethamah9817]

You look phenomenal👌🏾

[@bikerchick1871]

I love your videos!! You speak the absolute truth!!

[@neeyhime2637]

Are you ever going to finish/add-on more to your Women self-esteem series? xoxo

[@masonofficesupply]

SheraSeven1, I can only wear pumps because my foot problems. I do wear nice 2 1/2 pump heals with sandals and business career pump heels. Try to keep the pump heels with shiny rinestones or shimmery style types.

[@time2travel0]

I seriously want a side hustle and to start a business. When will your Business Group start and what is the cost? Thanks

[@triplemoongoddesschannel]

Brownsugar babe PLEASE!!! I will sign up for Facebook just to be in this group

[@rachelorwaabayo1822]

This is what I wanted,,,, love Your videos,,, keep on teaching us How to be a superwoman, I love u sisy

[@stargazerlily8451]

Gel nails are the best invention ever.

[@HampityHamp]

This is no JOKE. I REPEAT, THIS IS NO JOKE!! I took my son to this little carnival yesterday & there was a woman wearing an olive green body shaper with gold Sparta type sandals. Long weave of course with a baby in the stroller, two running around & I guess a new boyfriend w/ an infant in his arms. Disgusting

[@esmeraldaclaudette2933]

Who heard of dress to express

[@khwezay]

😂

[@profgeorgeouslady5387]

Happy Easter Holidays SheRaSevn to you and your families. Have a blessed day. Thankyou for sharing. Well said. Please do a part 2 of this video. BLESSINGS.

[@shyrinTM]

I missed it goin live. Did you get supachat goin

[@JohannaBuccola]

I want to join that business group :)

[@Glam187]

Shera, I am allergic to acrylic nails as well. What is the name of the nail powder you mentioned in the video? I wanna try it. Hopefully it will work for me because I really miss having beautiful long nails!

[@leeslyrose]

Glam187 I haven’t finished watching it but I’m assuming you’re asking about the dipped powder. I just got my nails done last week and for the first time ever, I got dipped nails. My nail lady told me they look just like acrylic but last as long as gel nails. I love them

[@DanielleStarr]

Sasha look just like James

[@arivera268]

yo :u look amazing! you should make a video of what to do if you are surrounded by pick me friends! Thanks :D

[@foyerfelin]

I'd love to have a link to one of your first videos where you rock the cat-lady look !

[@CinemaDoll137]

​shera, so should feminine aries women aim for men that are earth signs? if not, what do you suggest?

[@giggles1219]

Hillary Dunkley I'm a Fire sign also. I'm a Sag. Aries are compatible with other Aries, Sags, Libras, & Leos usually.

[@khwezay]

Shera preaches going for fire and air sign men.

[@stefmonroy7509]

@@khwezay why fire and air? I tend to like water but I'm fire

[@khwezay]

@@stefmonroy7509 fire and air are more masculine and providers

[@stefmonroy7509]

@@khwezay oh interesting. Okaay

[@mw4410]

Ashera what do you think of men wanting live in girl friends and okay with them not working? How can i screen these men to make sure ill be okay? Lol

[@Poetstree]

m w I know in one of her vids, Ashera expressed that she lived with James for 5 years. She was very young at the time though. I know women who married and gave up working, but 25 or so years later, relationship is rotting...and the woman has no retirement/savings, no updated skills and worried. They married “Dusties” though or a man who makes a decent wage, but not rich or even upper middle class. I’m guessing when a man “retires you”, you yourself have time to get rich by investing in your passions. Time is all we have. A man who gives that gift of time...oh the places we will go as women. Wise men know this, but others will let you slave at menial jobs till you’re too exhausted! Good question. I enjoyed sharing my 2 cents!

[@lalili1358]

Can you do a video about what shoes to wear in the winter, to replace ugg boots?

[@anglewilliams685]

Shera you are so gorgeous.

[@saun86]

Do men like dread locs on women?

[@aminaht5694]

Sauny Claus no.

[@giggles1219]

Aminah MT NOT TRUE. I have waist length Locs. I make sure I keep them very neat. I just started online dating. Countless men message me "I love your Locs". I went on a date with a couple guys who could not stop touching my hair. Having a pretty face to go with your Locs doesn't hurt either lol

[@saun86]

Giggles sweet!

[@jessicahitchens6926]

They are not the targets... cheap men online 🤣

[@KBeautyNyc]

Do you have a group on Facebook ? If so I’d like to join?

[@4crazy1chick2]

She has a LEVEL UP group

[@maverick1991able]

Are sisterlocks ok for the level up?

[@AntigonesWay]

Awwww man, I keep missing youuuu 😩

[@simplici-tstemple4567]

can you give some ideas on how to dress classy and sexy...can you give specific examples and ideas. What is in now?

[@time2travel0]

When will the business group start?

[@amazingyummy2]

haha I wish there was melanin vitamins!!

[@scorpionpam]

Hmm... This is tricky. What if we don't like how our men dress and how they wear their hair? Is it OK if we just step out?

[@msJessica0916]

Lol

[@DeenScene]

Can I ask you a personal question? How did your husband ex wife look/act?

[@SheRaSeven1]

Light skin but an independent woman mindset

[@missball404]

Love your hair, you're gorgeous with the cutest little cheeks😊😚 your daughter is adorable as well, i definitely agree with you on this topic👍💗 Enjoy your evening!!!

[@Henbuch97]

Our goddess

[@sofibed]

💎💎💎💎💎💎Gems 💎💎💎💎💎💎

[@lc-il6wr]

Why doesn't she comb her lil girls hair? Ugh..

[@jewelb9433]

You look fantastic :)

[@masonofficesupply]

Hi SheRaSeven1, can you give me an email that I can send you a picture of my level up look. Just would like your input.

[@KellyKimLAc]

Bonetta Pickmesha lMAO

[@gypsymoon9553]

Heyyyyy godesss❤️❤️

[@lc-il6wr]

This session is boring..bye

[@amazingyummy2]

Sasha would look good in a romper or jumper not necessarily women

[@ritaaleksandrovna4518]

So sad that bw have to deal with wigs and stuff ;((( I would be so annoyed if I had to.

[@wendywilliams1540]

Stop stressing your words, it sounds bad.

[@poopies6248]

Wendy Williams yasssss thank u

[@risingaquarius7460]

Wendy Williams don’t watch

[@asheragoddess8894]

how much will you pay me to stop? lol

[@wendywilliams1540]

Oya Wright , I am an English Language and Literature teacher. Also, I am aware that everyone has various pronunciations and intonations. I just think that she stresses her words too much, even when they should not be stressed. Anyway, I love Shera, she gives sound advice to young women. Regardless of how she speaks, she gives me valuable information. P.S Only good vibes No hate. #Just facts

[@wendywilliams1540]

sunrising aqua I do as I please. If I should not watch then you should not reply. Mind your business. People are upset at my comment. I am entitled to my own opinion.

[@goddesswildredspeaksTruth]