How to Heal & Detach from Someone you Loved | Drishti Sharma

Going through a breakup is one of the hardest emotions to deal with. We don't know how to handle such pain all alone.
In this video, I have shared some of the ways to heal from a breakup and learning how to detach from your past relationship or let go of your ex in order to move on.
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Timestamps -
00:00 - Intro
00:43 - Part 1/Healing
00:50 - Acceptance the reality
02:43 - Think in abundance about love
04:51 - Whatever happens, happens for a reason
06:08 - Know what were we impressed by in our partner
07:40 - Part2/Detachment and letting go
07:49 - Go into no contact mode
09:06 - Visit the places that made you cry
09:47 - Ask for help
10:31 - Get a life!
12:13 - Questions to ask yourself
12:18 - My theory on breakups and moving on
13:50 - Share and Subscribe :)
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[@captainriju]

You will never know how strong you are until you forgive someone who does not apologize, and accept an apology that you will never receive... Healing does not mean that the pain no longer exists, but rather it means that the hurt no longer controls your life... We forgive others not because they deserve forgiveness: Because we deserve peace."

[@drishtiispeaks]

Words🙌🏻

[@NishuKumari-yj5yr]

You are absolutely right this is compulsory for our self peace

[@Neelu_Beck]

10000% agree with these words... 😊❤

[@Dusky_Shine_Vlogs]

Hello drishti I thank you for this video I watch your always and feel very connected to it . I am confused about my relationship because my patner doesn't support me whenever I try to do something new but I love him so I stop myself from doing that or I have to hide from it . What should I do 😅

[@NishuKumari-yj5yr]

@@Glamgirl_7 This is very tough situation because 6 years ka relationship mtlb kafi long time h but agar aapka partner aapko support nhi kr rha to phir aapko choose krna pdega kisi ek ko

[@ankurghosh3607]

Truth being spoken! Being a guy the only thing I can ask all the male viewers to please don’t create any disrespect or hatred for the person who left you. Heal yourself and make a better life for yourself. May God bless you’ll ❤️

[@Rainycreates27]

Feels like a older sister is there Infront of us and giving us lessons ❤. Thank you di 😊.

[@abhishekthube8915]

Kash bade didi aur bhai really main itte close hote age gap ke wajase open nai ho patey

[@itsfariyabanu]

I loved the point about being an introvert and getting attracted to someone who is an extrovert and that's a gap or void inside us that has to be filled by working on ourselves and not looking for that elsewhere.

[@aradhya2109]

Exactly same happened with me. I was talking to this guy I met online. He was just so fun to talk to, as he knew all the topics and just so friendly and extroverted and being so happy and loud and cheerful. That's where I started liking him. Now I know it was my gap, of being a kind of silent boring nerd, wo always wanted that same energy that guy had.

[@vaibhavkumararya9952]

Yeh breakup wala topic toh bilkul hi unexpected tha😅😅❤❤

[@harshitajain6467]

💯

[@theMohitWrites2014]

❤❤

[@Nim7760]

Aaj kal youtube par sab therapist bane baithe hai !!!

[@Nim7760]

But drishti you had said you were never in a relationship ! So how u saying just for sake of the video that u have gone through breakup!???

[@meghataksal7692]

😂😂

[@Rashiiii1111]

He chased me from youtube ..we were really shared understanding, motivating each other bond ..but suddenly he blocked me because his family want him to focus on his studies ..and i didn't stopped him ..may he fulfill his parent wish ...if its meant to be together it will 😊

[@suMaN_kr.Baishya]

I think, Time never heals us, time just teaches us to live with the Pain we got.❤️‍🩹

[@Iamdinesh64]

- Itachi ucchia -

[@Iamdinesh64]

~~~ Itachi ucchia ~~

[@barshaxoxo]

Mera breakup toh nahi but rejection hai. And it really hurt me a lot. We were friends but after that he don't talk. I wanted to talk badly sometimes i used to text him but aise reply deta tha ki woh care hi nahi karta. It's been years now we don't meet, we don't talk. Now itna pain nahi hota jitna beginning phase mein hota tha. Abhi itna importance nahi hai uska mere dil mein which i had before. Life is going good. Working on myself. My career. Happy!! But searching for new.

[@rahulmehra7836]

Same here with me 😢 When I realise I got late...,

[@ramagrawal4064]

Mila ky? Nhi toh m bhi single hu 🥺

[@shoeb24in]

@@barshaxoxo oh same happened with me n I really wondered what was wrong. But still i moved on and successful in my career n all. Can we be frnds? 😊

[@CAaspirant786]

@@ramagrawal4064 😂

[@shravana4651]

The same happened to me. I feel very worthless as if i have no quality for someone to love me

[@shop_with_Rush]

This is the same which i feel in my life, Everything is relatable, Good Job dear, Your every video is so meaningful, recently I have started following you , You are so pretty and videos are genuine ❤

[@aishwaryahundekar7462]

'Only the scars remains' this is so real 😊

[@QuickieTrendz]

Hey drishti! There are a lot of aspirants nowadays going through their examinations , can you please make video on how to deal anxiety and pressure and focus without getting tired?

[@KhadijaChauhan]

So truee. Whn you work hard and still don't get positive result it is really hard to accept.

[@QuickieTrendz]

Dar itna lg raha hai ki uske chakkar me padhai hi nhi kr paa rahi😭

[@sonaliraj9267]

Yeah bro

[@Nim7760]

Dnt look at others , instead just focus on your work! That will reduce half anxiety , because social media causes this comparison game which causes more anxiety!

[@itsfariyabanu]

See jo hona hai wo toh hona hi hai.. tum padogi tab bhi tumko is bat ka stress rahega ki pata nahi result kya hoga and nahi padogay tab bhi yeah stress rahega ki result kya hoga lekin agar tum apni puri preparation karogi and apia best dogi toh ek toh is baat ka confidence rahega ki tumne apni koshish puri ki thi and dusra tumko guilty feel nahi hoga ki kash thodi aur tayyari karleti.. stress kisi bhi situation mein natural hai lekin hum stress ko kasse handle karte hai wo important hai.. is waqt tumare hath mein jo hai wo tum karo bakhi jo acha Hoga wo hojaega... All the best!!

[@anubhavverma8679]

The most crucial factor in healing is establishing no contact. It's akin to letting a burned hand recover - would it heal faster by repeatedly touching a hot stove or by giving it the time and space to heal without further injury? The analogy is clear, yet in relationships, we often find ourselves impulsively touching the "stove." No contact is designed to facilitate your healing process. It may be painful initially, but it's the key to your recovery. Remember, healing takes time, and the process might involve intermittent pain. However, with each passing day, you'll gradually feel better. Trust the process, and soon you'll find yourself completely healed.

[@sre7180]

@@anubhavverma8679 I really love the analogy that you created here😭 can you please elaborate a bit more on "no contact"? I can go months without talking to that person..but I am somewhat not able to stop looking over his social media accounts...everytime I stalk him over sm..I tend to feel more hurt but I am just not able to stop myself from stalking his profiles despite knowing the fact that stalking is gonna hurt me more🥲 at max I go 2-3 days without getting this urge to check his profiles. Then I down spiral and I go back to seeing his profiles.. it's so difficult to let go... i feel like i can't breathe .if you know what i mean😭😭 what is this no contact rule..

[@Nits298]

Dear Drishti, i am currently going through this phase I literally needed this one. Thank you very much

[@mamtasaluja2229]

Best most complete video on dealing with breakups. Thank you 🙏😊❤

[@dipusdreamland8214]

I am suffering through this last 6/7 months and through this I try to give up my life for him but some reason god save my life and your video help me to move on from this situation thank you drishti di❤❤😊

[@Msharma30]

Same story bro just work on yourself on your career.. Trust me u are amazing just spend time with urself your family and god

[@flywithritz18]

I was crying while watching the whole video!!!😭😭 Thankyou so much😭😭❤️❤️

[@srushtikhatua3198]

@@flywithritz18 same bro 🥲🙌🏻

[@anchal________2944]

He just randomly blocked me without saying anything it's 2.5 yrs relationship n he don't care at all how can someone do this he is sleeping peacefully n am I here 4 am crying for him badly

[@AmitPramanik-sx9tz]

@@anchal________2944 are you alright anchal.... I have been also going through same thing... How could someone even sleep peacefully by ditching feelings of others

[@aanchalsoni1925]

Itna achhe se toh mera bada bhai meko nhi bolta ... Aap meri badi bhn jaise meko help krte ho thank you so much ❤ hamesa kuch rahiye aap di ❤️

[@amar_aryan3]

I've done such things that you've told in this video, I'm working on myself, but also there are such things to do. I feel that I'm on track. Thanks, Drishti Dii and also I'm thankful to the universe for being with me and guiding me every time.

[@starsinmyuniverse]

I was never in a relationship but I'm still watching this 😭🗿

[@bhumi.810]

😅Yah same

[@buzzingbee2222]

Don't get into one until they want you for lifetime

[@anam_mirza7]

Us🗿🥺

[@aradhya2109]

Also never try to be in a relationship, until both of you are so damn sure.

[@rockygaming5914]

@@bhumi.810 so u wanna be 🙌 ha

[@Universemyview]

Drishti decided to wake up and speak the truth 😅😭. Its always sooo peaceful to watch your videos, I really enjoy listening you.

[@ScholarDeepika]

Recently had a breakup, and you uploaded this video. Im on my healing journey also☀️

[@PujaSarkar160]

Well said main vi yehi manti hoo everything happens for a reason and also if something or someone hurt you breaks you for no reason just let them go with all your love to them and just be patienced ❤😌 universe sab kuch wapas deta hain ,,,,sabko😌

[@sanjidasultana4073]

After 10 years of attachment, relationship with someone. Now he is getting married to someone. I'm totally devastated right now.

[@jk.snY229]

@@sanjidasultana4073 same here...he promised me that he will only love me....but he got engaged recently .it seems like my whole world is shattered and I just don't want to live anymore

[@anushriroy3893]

@@sanjidasultana4073 what are you doing now

[@ambervyas589]

@@sanjidasultana4073 me to abhi 1 hafte phele hua breakup

[@who.s_afraid_of_little_old_me]

hey im not a professional at all and im going thru some stuff too so i understand.. maybe not as much as u do but im in pain too and i just want to tell u i love you and i am sending u virtual hugs

[@studywiselywithg.r.karthic6586]

See, if they are able to marry someone why can't you?

[@khushalisavla]

Thank you for giving these lessons all are soo relatable 💯

[@HAMMY_18]

No words…YOU ARE HEELING🫂💗your way of giving lessons and advice is just a fantastic❤️‍🔥

[@QuickieTrendz]

Back on time this sunday. Good job❤ Last time i reminded you to be consistent and you did it.

[@officialaroba]

Thank you so much for sharing I really need this Plz make a complete playlist on this topic

[@suchetamitra9453]

You have explained everything in realistic way

[@jainasindha4830]

Isbar to drishti ka alag hi roop dekhne ko mila...par it's really helpful so thank you drishti didi ❤

[@RahulKumar-rf7yc]

Thanks for such practical advices.

[@hinazaffar1807]

You are right dear. We should not give importance more than our own self. If one person brutally broke the trust will never be sincere again.

[@simranshrivastavlife]

Finally apki video aagyi apki video ka intezaar tha because buht demotivate hori thi ap always motivate krdete ho you are adorable diidiii🌸💗💐💐💐

[@pinkalmodi09]

Thank you for making this. I love you 🎉❤

[@aasthashivhare609]

Much needed, thank you so much❣️

[@kritimandal-di2bz]

Much needed motivation!! Thankyou❤

[@Garima_Rohilaa_]

THANKU DIRSHTI❤❤❤ much love and hugs to you too🙌💓

[@prernasarnot9980]

Very well said ..thank you for the video n giving the reality about breakup n thank you for motivating to move on 😊

[@nehankumar7203]

Sidhi bath no bakwas thanks drishti every line u have said has a lot of value in it i just felt u are talking directly to me 😂 much needed video at this point of time

[@AnamikaTiwari-mp4qt]

I don't have any breakup story and also I was never in relationship but still I love watching your videos. love you di.

[@pratibhalifeo]

Thnk you for this viedo . You uploaded it at the very right time 💌

[@shrutisinghcharan9777]

The best video, baaki bhi best hai, but this is one of my favorites. Such a realistic advice you have given. Thankyou Drishti!🌻❤️

[@AF-Tab_Alam]

Great timing of this video.

[@sirajkhan3136]

makes tooo much sense , thanks a lot , it was much needed

[@dishapiplad7546]

Thanks dear drishti for this video..I am going through this phase of healing and your tips are really practical and realistic..will help me alot..✨

[@harshitagohil0802]

Needed this ! Thank you ❤

[@arpitamishra4800]

This girl has all my heart ❤️ .Thank you so much for spreading positivity among people ❤

[@akshitadhyani6498]

Thank you drishti di for this video..❤️✨ Much needed...✨❤️

[@yogeshbisht8682]

This is the video I needed. She exactly break down whatever I was feeling. I felt so much relief after doing what she mentioned in the video. Keep up the great work 🎉

[@ShwetaSingh-qi6zg]

Hey drishti you are providing such an amazing content thanks dear❤❤

[@falgunidhruwe7376]

I love the way you explain things .

[@heyyaishwarya]

Drishti di! I just love your channel. Trust me your storytelling skills is soo impressive. You are creator who constantly evolve/trying to be better in every video. You are supper amazing. The community you have built is really sooo precious :) your topic selection & all is just amazing. And one more thing...! Your video editor is great aswell :) his editing skills makes your video engaging and i see your recent themes of video are top notch as well (pink). Keep up the good work :) ♡♡♡

[@sailpotdar9444]

Drishti making such kind of unexpected video on breakup feel like resently she has gone through it

[@Missriyaaa]

I needed this video right now, just came at the right time 👍

[@rohitsancheti96]

Thankyou so much for making this! ❤

[@alishakhan484]

thank you so much for your advice All your points helped me a lot in moving forward.

[@NishuKumari-yj5yr]

Drishti Di this video is awesome ♥️ Thank you so much for this video because this video tell us how to see your life after breakup in a different way..♥️♥️♥️ I really need this.. Love you Di ..😌

[@crazysansuu]

Thank you so much for this video much needed 🥲🫂

[@inshakhan8815]

Such a relatable video 👍🏻 great job😊

[@manshisubba6252]

This is the best video i have ever watched....thank you didi for giving such an amazing video

[@mamtasingh-6040]

amazing video .....tbh i needed such content in my life!!

[@akritigupta3879]

Got to learn so much ,also I get so much positivity in ur all videos. Thankyou !❤🙌

[@reshmiparvin8054]

Very helpful... Jo toxic relationship mai hai unke liye v....ak himmat aa jata hai chhorne ka

[@rushitadivecha]

Literally I'm so happy when i read the title because rn I'm also in that phase and sometimes it's difficult to tell someone else your video is so helpful to me ❤️

[@simranmandhan5299]

Loved it! And just what i neeeded to listen 💫

[@Megha.17191]

I was in healthy relationship from last two years fir bhi me ye video dekh rhi hu age kam aayegi krke 😂😂

[@krishn_conscious]

Mee too 😂

[@kashvi69]

Mee also 🕶️😙

[@kashvi69]

Mee too ✌️🕶️🌝

[@jasonmchardy9609]

Just be aware of the third person and everything will be fine

[@user-jw3gb8tb8m]

I am watching this, even though I am not in any relationship nor even I had a break up 😅😅

[@pranaywaghmare4365]

The vedio is not just about breakup but also for the people who is healing in there life after separation or dettachment 💫✌️

[@Prasansarai19]

Thank you so much for this video 😊

[@user-ne6pn7xn5c]

One of the best video. Thank you drishti di for guiding.

[@aasthakhatri_37]

Thank you for this video 😊..This is very helpful

[@aryankumar-ct3vm]

In this 14 min video ,you have settled all my emotions from which I was struggling from last month .Genuinely thank you for it 🥹🙌🏼!!

[@indranibathala5206]

Great video yaar, helps lot of people who are in need❤

[@krishangiborah28]

This is the only video related to heartbreak or breakup that I can relate a lot and I really feel that connection...she explained it so simply that its easy for me to connect nd relate. Thank you for this video I needed the most now

[@vineetneeraj]

It felt like you were talking to me directly. Thanks a lot! ❤

[@kaushikbarsila2876]

Thankyou, I really needed to hear this

[@nanireela9883]

Really helpful.Thank you ❤

[@pragyavyas3993]

This vedio is really too practical to adhere... Amazing efforts👏👏

[@purvamprajapati6780]

Best piece of advice I've Heard ! Helped a lot !

[@user-ko6gz4sm1d]

Drishti legit the best video , hands down the best video. right away sharing with all the friends who are going through this phase. this will definitely help them a lot, keep makin such beautiful helpful content.

[@drishtiispeaks]

Glad you could connect with it❤️

[@Neetugkehonewale]

Thank you ❤for making and sharing such helpful content .I didn't missed any second of your video because you conveyed it very nicely, Appreciable 👏👏 Yes, its the best suggestion i have ever got .....🌟

[@roshniahuja8317]

Awesome Drishti❤ loved ur content❤

[@kuhelideb3699]

Best video much more needed 🙂

[@parnashreedas8001]

Thank you so much for this video ❤

[@nainsithakur5303]

It was soo realllll... Without any filter

[@aansa44]

You are becoming unstoppable day by day!, keep going Drishti 🤍.

[@bioworld896]

You told us the main reason of why we fall in love with another person.. This route cause will definitely need to know us to heal ourselves..thanks for sharing such core things ❤ YOU are gods angel which helping people to make emotionally strong..Thank you God 💕and thank youhh for making such videos ❤

[@Dohadaily-talks]

I always like the way you talk the way you explain, in each and every point of your content is simple which help audience to understand... Keep making such videos especially self developing and motivating.

[@sonirajkunsoth4981]

Thank you for being a emotional supporter❤❤ Found this video on right time ❤❤

[@Ikrimran]

Thanks for this video.

[@rupeshwarraika]

My fav creators advice is a worlds best words to listen for myself ❤ keep glowing growing preetyyyy

[@user-hf1wv7rz7b]

Most helpful video about Break up.

[@priyankakaregaonkar8331]

Thanks dear ❤ i really need this

[@pranalipevekar2889]

Thanks.. Really.. You explained it so well.. Whenever I feel low I watch it..

[@TheKoyelMallick]

thanks drishti for your advice.

[@user-kx1we5ks2o]

Thank you so much for this Drish! Didn't know I needed this so badly.

[@shortsenjoy3986]

Di ! I just love your content. You’re super amazing you totally motivated me after watching your videos I just feel good thanks to my Friend to share you’re channel

[@fgsujit]

I think I am the biggest fan of you. I improved myself by watching and implementing your videos either it’s about phone addiction, breakup, self love and career. I am grateful for you came in my life as a teacher or may be a Digital Friend. I wish one day I can meet you face to face. Thank you Drishti❤

[@lookitloveit]

Must needed video for me. Your every words is resonate with me. I am struggling in detaching. Trying to practice self love and shifting my focus to work. Let see what will happen. For your video 👌👍 and thank you.

[@abialex8305]

I want this words now ,& u said it. Thanks for the words , keep going. Loveu

[@vaishnavisindhu922]

Thank you so much this helped a lot...❤ I was so stuck but u really gave me a way..