I Dated for 10 Years: Here's What I Learned

[@thehellyblog]

If my mom is watching these- mom I'm kidding I have never dated anyone

[@jessicakaurbygodsgrace]

😂

[@tatandutta8019]

Your mom will feel proud of you.....😂😂

[@es_Jot]

😂

[@OSbytegaming]

Lie

[@AniketRoy-r2p]

😂

[@RaviShankar-gi1zl]

I am a guy from this generation. But now I feel I am from 2-3 generations back. Have we entered into different civilization ?

[@na2939]

I agree ..I don't understand my own generation..I guess my parents generation was better..in terms of relationship, finances, self control, everything..yha pe sab apna dil todke ki experience lenge .aurje to lgta h me paida hi experience k sath huj thi ki bhai nhi pdna inn sab me

[@RaviShankar-gi1zl]

@@na2939 right

[@user-eo1vk]

Very complicated generation

[@shruti1339]

Even I think so we are in wrong generation

[@nivedithar7459]

I'm also a gen z and I'm also feeling very wierd..

[@Manish----]

Don't understand why people "date" at such young age of 13-14-15. & People like you are asking to date more n more, even after facing toxic relationships. If people start dating after 23 or so, there would have been better sense prevailing & less toxicity to be faced.

[@nikhiladwani4412]

You are absolutely right.

[@rudrasah23]

+1

[@mansipandey611]

It's not like if you start dating at 23 .Lets say you want to get married at age 30 you can still face 4-5 failed relationship people come use you and leave . Dating is a western concept we enter with our Indian believes this is first and last .So ,from this belief misery starts.

[@swapnilbose8465]

​@@mansipandey611 In our Indian culture we had Gandharva marriage. Search about it

[@vijayalakshmiiyer5820]

its just to understand how relationships work and it doesn't always have to mean romantic relationship. We are all human with feelings emotions having them at a younger age and wanting to pursue those feelings isn't wrong but what makes us human. Sometimes what we have might be just physical attraction and maybe not what the person is on the inside by dating you understand the other person. Meeting a lot of people understanding people and learning from them is what takes us ahead in life my friend and besides its a personal choice to whether act on these feelings or no. One shouldn't shame anyone for showing positive emotions especailly those of love and admiration

[@SumonAdakpbx]

Even if you get someone, which you will eventually, if your list of non-negotiables grows, you will still see something that you will have to compromise with. My advice for you will be: learn who you are (physically, emotionally and spiritually) to seek what you want, don't learn other people primarily to know what you don't want. Appreciate your work and your beauty. Take care.

[@Skyyy1436]

This is very well put ✨

[@Skyyy1436]

People tend to seek negative attributes instead of seeking the traits u like or have

[@SumonAdakpbx]

​@@Skyyy1436thank you

[@SumonAdakpbx]

​​​​@@Skyyy1436Critical mindset is good till it's deconstructive. Recognition of bad traits is good but if there are many great traits, the person will be happy to work on the weakness/bad traits they have. Instead of attacking, one has to help to gradually remove the weakness since the other person needs that help. But if after a while even, the non-negotiable weakness does not go away then only someone should leave working on the relationship, if they are really serious. In this easy to get era, people aren't left as persistent enough as we once used to be. We either focus on work too much or we focus more on relationships. This imbalance takes away the essence of life.

[@SumonAdakpbx]

@@Skyyy1436 thank you

[@ShiromaniKant]

Money can solve only MONEY PROBLEMS. Nothing much, nothing less. (referring to lesson 1)

[@subhojitguha5047]

Very well said

[@Dwipwak]

Just be self-sufficient. Everyone or everything else is just bonus.

[@Bhoothnath-1]

I have never dated anyone in my 25 years but now going to Marry with someone whom I never met till now Never talked her 😊😊 Lots of love from Rajasthan

[@raajkumar3466]

😂kyu mana kiya tha koi tumne date nhi kiya vo to date ki hogi or tumse zyada experienced bhi hogi 😂bed par

[@Bhoothnath-1]

@@raajkumar3466 yes darling she is your sister 😁😁😁😁

[@zzyuk814]

All the best Bhai Rajasthani hoke itni late shadi?

[@sidy6526]

Good luck bro . U will have more chances that your marriage will work as compared to those who are giving lectures on how to date 😂

[@Bhoothnath-1]

@@zzyuk814 😀😀😀 धन्यवाद

[@grimreaper12791]

We only get what we give. Today most people are just looking for love from different sources--from relationships or whatnot but they don't really love anything or pretty much anyone. They are continuously expecting and imagining love and that's pretty much all they do. If Love arises out of you spontaneously towards any person or even objects, Life will give it back to you in many ways, and that's how it works. You can only get what you give. But Love is also self fulfilling and has nothing to do with what you get in return--like if Love comes out of you for someone, the feeling it'll create in you is far more than anything you can get in any relationship or anything else.

[@varsha9094]

Life is not fair ... If you don't understand this you will suffer

[@TathagataMitraTom]

The age gap guy sounds like a real piece of work. You know why you were looking for an older guy. Ever wondered what the older guy was looking for in you?

[@PariKadyan-u1b]

+1

[@Ayanshjaiswal-wi9ur]

Watermelon.😋😋

[@Mahi-te7hh]

I have been watching your videos for 4-5 years. Even we are of the safe age and honestly, I think I have never related to any video of yours more than this. Lots of love.

[@thehellyblog]

Wow, thank you❤️

[@avinash21899]

Even though we are of the same age, I never got into a relationship. So this video can't be relatable for me. Yeah! 🙂

[@Mahi-te7hh]

@@avinash21899 Individual experiences differ.

[@basumpa]

@@avinash21899 😂😂 koi ni bhai us men experience it quite late but yeah start approaching random girls you find cute in the streets might be your THE ONE lol

[@avinash21899]

@@basumpa As the time is passing we are getting older suddenly I realised that I cannot find a perfect girl for me I have to keep approaching girls. One should date girls, this can't help you with what type of girls you want but definitely help u with what you don't want in your girl. 🤗

[@WrikSen]

This isnt talked about as often, but relationships really need accountability to be a part of it.. Instead of making excuses and giving labels to them, it takes a hole lot of heart mind, and perhaps sweat and tears to make things work.. In other words, if one wants to make things, it will work.. if not, there is as many a list of reasons to end things and make it seem ok

[@saunakroychowdhury5990]

Very true, Sir

[@sdpta2004]

Last year , in December i met with a guy in helly's book club... We made a strong bonding between us.. and everything was going well.. after 2 months we came into relationship.. and i spent one of the best moments with him more than 8 months.. i felt it gonna be forever.. but i was wrong.. it was a long distance relationship.. in August 25th, he confessed that he wasn't ready for this relationship.. now he wanna explore more.. he was to end that rltnsp.. idk how to react ! He was my best friend.. i really trusted him a lot.. i dont even regret about our breakup.. but i lost a good friend that's it.. it's too hard to accept.. but i have to move on.. i really miss those days.. helly group had given me that friend but we fail to keep our friendship or relationship whatever! 🍀🦋 The End.. it was a good chapter.. thanks helly too ❤

[@anirudh_bhat]

The reason why so many relationships are turning toxic these days is because people don't understand that being in a relationship is like building a world of your own. Without understanding how the outside world works how can you navigate the nuances of this little world inside your home? Unless you know how to navigate human relationships outside a relationship in an objective way, how can you navigate them WITHIN the relationship? It's a common misconception that you need to have dating experience before you find the right partner. Learning about yourself through dating experience inflicts higher levels of trauma that carries over to the next relationship. What you need instead is worldly experience that'll teach you what kind of partner you should look for without having to live with them and inviting trauma into your life.

[@sarangnaini2774]

Very wise advice, I must say! Understanding human relationships in general is so important.

[@thalai143]

All are excuses to make sure you never get bored and get to have all the fun of Marriage without committing and then biggest cope of all time “ What if I end up Marrying the wrong person “.. Bruh you switch people as soon as you even face mild discomfort .. Resilience is Zero, Maturity is negative , Understanding is zilch.. YOU ARE THE WRONG PERSON. And please don’t marry anyone and ruin their life , coz now you would n’t be able to handle any issue, coz you ll leave at the sight of discomfort. Pair Bonding ki toh L lag gayi

[@tiashadatta7924]

Agree with you completely.

[@tranquiloofficial24]

I also agree with you

[@Arpit_Sharma_-.-]

" coz you'll leave at the sight of discomfort." Spot on !! I agree with yoy.

[@saunakroychowdhury5990]

sight of discomfort OR slight of discomfort, both are equally apt. I knew on the very first video that I saw of her that a sensible person would rather not want her as a partner and that was 4 years back perhaps

[@jessyk2579]

I'm 33M. Never dated. Probably never will. Will stay single. I think it is better.

[@arrow2380]

I hate myself because of it

[@jessyk2579]

@@arrow2380 Few things are not easy for some people.

[@competitive_study365days]

Vai ladki main ego problem Hain. 3 relationship at the age of 25.

[@nodeofranvier222]

@@competitive_study365days its literally okay amount wtf is wrong with you

[@sidy6526]

​​@@nodeofranvier222 How is that ok ? 3 relationship and 10 years and still like this ....wtf 😂😂😂

[@hemanttomar673]

Youre quote "date more to understand who you want", is a big a red flag for real man and youre chances of getting married will decrease with the increase in frequency of your dating numbers

[@kamranwasifify]

Very true!

[@rudy5807]

it's dating, not sleeping with them. going on dates isn't even the same as having a relationship.

[@hemanttomar673]

@@rudy5807 and how can you confirm she wasn't sleeping

[@trisha1310]

Correct ​@@rudy5807

[@saunakroychowdhury5990]

Very true, my ex wanted to fly like a bird. She was highly ambitious, she wanted to explore and stuff, she has had 3-4 failed relationships after me, she was even dating a guy while being in a relationship with Mr.X etc. I knew she ain't ever gonna get married

[@saumyac]

Helly just one advice..never jump from one relationship to another..one needs to heal first before exploring a new relationship..take your time..spend time with yourself get to know yourself better..take your time..

[@sayanghosh8479]

You didn't talk about any negative side of yours which you've changed. Is there nothing like that?

[@sidy6526]

Girls are always right 😂

[@khushidubey3618]

I would say..to every man and woman here that first understand yourself. Its important to know what you want from the relationship and from the other person and same goes for the other person. Then get into relationship. Dating a lot is not the right advice.

[@TathagataMitraTom]

No one in the comments is curious how a 20 year old makes 20 LPA? Just me? Ok.

[@sup3204]

Fr she so casually said it as if thats bad 😭

[@adnanmalik6697]

She makes 2 crores/year now 😅

[@Antagonist97]

200 LPA 😂😂😂​@@adnanmalik6697

[@nishusingh1523]

I think she is lying about this or we are fool ones

[@Antagonist97]

@@nishusingh1523 public or rather the consumers are always the one playing the fool. Sadly .

[@ArpitaKanungo]

I don't know why but this video felt like a much needed therapy session. Thank you so much Helly!❤ May God bless you.✨️🦋

[@TheSoundofTanay]

It's okay Helly, when we're in love pata nahi chalta how things go and whoops, you end up in a toxic situation. I'm happy you got out, and I have no doubts that you'll find a lot of joy in romance going forward. Like you, I was pretty much out of relationships and just 6 months ago, I met the love of my life. She's not even from India! Both of us are writers, and she's 5 years older than I am. Yet, we never feel that age gap, ever. She reaches me about life, and I teach her new things too. I guess healthy relationships and love truly aren't things that are in our control. It happens when it happens!

[@ayn7487]

Extremely relatable people should share their thoughts and experiences which are extremely valuable in the long run

[@Swapna_Jeevithamastu]

"Love is not enough" ... ❤

[@H-E-AD-HU-NTER13]

Then what ???

[@saunakroychowdhury5990]

Nothing is enough apparently

[@Ritu26789]

When I was dealing with my personal issues your past video on your relationship helped me a lot after it gives me immense strength to move out of negative people and after years happy to see myself healed (not completely but majorly) just here to thank you in my tough time you helped me ❤️ may be not physically but at that time your words are like therapy for me ❣️

[@anishmondal8958]

I still remember the time when I discovered your channel years back. I loved your content and following you since then. It's great to see how much you have grown in life and continue to do so. ❤❤

[@helooo-h2y]

_I’m glad that I am able to feel a lot of emotions in much more depth than I would have if I was very shallow with them_ this is one the best things I heard today

[@shaggy66682]

Throughout the whole video i was just looking into your eyes and can feel the pain which you have gone through but this is what life is we need to learn things 🤗

[@Affarsiyab]

Your video just reminded me of my ex-girlfriend who cheated on me with her "just male friend" 💔 Aik larka or larki kabhi bhi dost nhi ban sakte. Period... Take your own example, how you ended up dating your own best friend

[@vidyavasavan4661]

Was lovely hearing your story @saheli, well i dated a guy for 8 years, it had been toxic! and guess what i married him. After 3 years of marriage i got the courage of Divorcing him! and i was reborn, all the years that i lost with him i managed to relive it. I wore what i want, i ate what i want, i partied late night....but i learnt a lot of lessons! the only imp advice i wanna give you guys are "Date, but the moment you realize you don't belong just quit!" - Society ki - Maa ki aankh! Now im in a relationship with someone who is so much peaceful, caring, who keeps me like queen! Respects my decision! Im grateful to the UNIVERSE! 🙂

[@MrBlue0007]

Have you taken Alimony?

[@SomyaSinghal]

You are brave to be this open! More power to you 🌸

[@kamranwasifify]

I'm 26. Male, Haven't dated anyone till date. Problem with me is I get friendzoned by girls I like. Somebody help me with this.

[@TECHMAFIASSS]

iron man lifestyle dekh ek baar, hoe math(its a yt channel in english that will help u knowing the ground reality),just be confident and be bold with your intentions,lets hope u will get some help brother

[@saunakroychowdhury5990]

Don't be disheartened bro. good for you that you get friend-zoned by girls, those girls don't deserve you anyway. I'm a student pf psychology and have two failed relationships, one was 4 years back and the other was 8 years back. I know the typical psychology of most girls. There are exceptions of course but you don't find them everyday

[@Kayra856]

Thanks helly I have never dated someone yet but the advices you have given will surely help me in my life to find a better partner and not adjust with bare minimum. Usually no one around me even talk about relationship and when they do it's like a quick fling. So I started taking that relationship is just a time pass and whenever we get bored from our studies or job we just make a call to lighten up our mood but after listening you talk about it has changed my opinion. Whenever I will ever date in my life I will keep your advices in my mind. Love you for making me fell in love with books and also giving us advices for life❣️❤

[@JatinBaranwal]

lol... u dont need to Date alot, u just need to be committed to the one you're with and Just Give time to everything... Commitment solves everything, and Just Introspect before blaming your Ex... Were You GOOD in the first Place? Take Responsbility

[@sohamdasgupta1566]

You are amazing communicator. I absolutely loved this video

[@raghavbansal3871]

You look a lot like Saheli Chaterjee............ I was confused since last 4 years. Today i came to know you 2 are different maam.

[@Pheonixia]

Same hi hai

[@letsfindabetteryou5971]

It's the same person

[@DeepMahivlogs447]

They are same person dude

[@raghavbansal3871]

@@DeepMahivlogs447 I’m sorry 🤪

[@raghavbansal3871]

@@Pheonixia 👻😂

[@sidy6526]

Wf yaar , who date for 10 years and still not able to find his/her partner. And u started dating at 14? 😂

[@adityasatyam6300]

Great lessons Helly . Your content is always so relatable . Kudos keep growing and helping others grow too .

[@Sundridevi-f6k]

At the end we should prefer the kindness about the person and doesn't mean that your partner shout on you doesn't love you no because nobody is perfect in entire world

[@devanshudodiya]

Its like a Relationship maturity Speedrun.

[@sreejaalaha4034]

The last advice is also about relationships with family friends and it is 🔥

[@letsfindabetteryou5971]

I'm so glad to see you grow from a little girl to a strong woman. Although I found you advice and experiences helpful I fill like we both belong to two different worlds.😅

[@priyanshumishra2408]

i left the video when she said i was barely making 20lpa , so yeah i dont even deserve a heart break , that hell of a useless person i am

[@yourchoice7115]

These 20s boys / girls think they have seen everything 😂

[@abhisheklalvarma8597]

Couldn't have agreed morel Evolving is the way of life

[@jessicakaurbygodsgrace]

This is really something great .. thanks Helly.. you're an inspiration 😊 All your decisions were the best... Keep it up.. ❤

[@thehellyblog]

Thank you so much!!

[@Abhinav-h9o]

Gives a space to explore and also has your back so that your are secure and he is on the edge of insecurity biting his nails wow

[@PRAKxFIT]

I SEEN YOUR VIDEO OF YOURS FIRST TIME AND I SUBSCRIBED IMMEDIATELY . I HOPE I WOULD NOT REGRET

[@sinjini004]

Spotted The Lonely City on the side table💞

[@thehellyblog]

Yes you did love ittttt

[@sinjini004]

@@thehellyblog yess

[@dishamohan294]

my relationship was going good, of religion differences his parents did not agree....he left me broken....sometimes it's really hard to heal but your video helped me a little...just here to thank u

[@vikaskollu]

Thank you for the Video. Thanks for all book recommendations and discussions about what you have learned. Have a great life.

[@thehellyblog]

You are so welcome!

[@abhijeetghosh27]

Absolutely true.. In feelings there is no correct or incorrect. It's the feeling that you express of the situation you are in at that point. Thanks for sharing your story. 👍😊

[@saurabhs3221]

But how do you find dates continuously? This is a genuine question, pls reply..I mean what's the procedure

[@taniyaroy6145]

"date people to know better" people used to say date more to know better but Areh yar what about emotions!!! I think i should not belong to this generation 🙂

[@saniyakhatri460]

Followed your journey since the beginning.. seeing you talk like this I feel proud ❤

[@Pratikshya_Das]

Helly, I just love you not because of your beauty because of your personality ❤❤

[@godsbruh]

victim mentality, no accountability, one sided story

[@chirantanbanik5237]

Spot on

[@9folds]

you really give that Diane Nguyen vibe and I really appreciate that

[@avijitmazumder1762]

When I see your videos occasionally, it made me feel that people like our understanding still lives in city of joy. Hope to see you one day & have a cup of coffee ☕ Thanks.

[@akashbiswas2040]

At first i dont know you are a bengali as well thats very proud to have and I have been your fan for for then 4-5 year now and seen the changes in you though out the journey. its really something.

[@namanbhushanchauhan2754]

Money doesn't solves any fundamental problem in you , SELF LOVE , coz you gotta care for yourself. Professional achievements won't fill that void Love yourself for who you're apart from your achievements , loving me as a person.

[@gautamisawant3322]

Nobody can fill anykind of void in your life You have to take care of yourself

[@thekabiryadav]

To all your Ex-Boyfriend -- " Gentlemen you are very lucky because HELLY wants an employee not a partner - too much if else "😎

[@नवनीता-ट5त]

Best best best reply

[@Devie1234y]

😂😂😂

[@shubhanjanasil]

You inspire us a lot❤

[@chetnasingh7832]

Im watching you since so many years now literally saw you grow up you are amazing and i love you so much

[@lw-gc3kd]

Very wise and precious advice❤ thx for sharing

[@trulysatyam8231]

I thought at the last she would say .. "Everything is n illusion,never go for that"..

[@aud2ice]

Thanks for sharing. Love it, so clean explanation.

[@wasimshayna]

Glad you are uploading more and more videosss❤❤:')

[@SR_Sachin_Rajput]

The Best point for me Never loss your Best frineds for Relationship...Thank You for Share Your Expereinces ..😊

[@Devyani191]

Amazing video helly thanks for this🙌

[@plantnation2033]

We shouldn't date until a guy is loud about you

[@g33k240]

Goes bothways

[@rupachemudupathi9569]

Even I dated a guy who is 12 years older than ,me ! They are like that they make us feel small And ya proud too no casual dating

[@abhishekdutta8968]

I'm not a regular viewer, but are you related to Saheli Chatterjee? You guys look so similar.

[@iampallabghosh]

All the best Saheli ❤

[@Bluesammy420]

tooo much complications ........ after marriage I am happy ... growth is upwards ....there tooo many things that are not common in us but we know ''we have to adjust'' and that is life you have to adjust that applicable on anything in order to succeed on anything; right we dont know each other that well before marriage ..........our relationship is successful because I think that we did not fry our brain washing by western theories and culture

[@thehellyblog]

ok ill get married

[@powershri5142]

yarr harr bat pe west ko kyu gali dete ? tere east bahut doodh ka dhula hua hai ? aaj tere east v west ke raste pe chalta 😂 thora arrogance kam karo

[@swapnilbose8465]

Do you know anything about Gandharva marriage?? Go and search about it

[@sidy6526]

True

[@serenity8145]

The problem with “relationships” in India is that it has to be done without the parents or family’s knowledge. This is the reason that parks are full of ‘couples’, under trees and park benches….. Parents need to come on board. Better to know who your child is hanging out with than not.

[@joshuadanielnaya9136]

It doest matter Its not her break up video. That guy is with because you earn

[@sdeepdutta2001]

Koi baat nahi hota hai..... life hai ye... Sob bhaloi Hobe..... infact sob bhalo ei cholche.... feel blessed fee happy.

[@Siddharth-Aerospace]

Atleast you dated someone but i am still single 😂😂😂😂😂😂. Sometimes i feel being single in peaceful. But when i see my crush my mind changes 😂😂😂😂.

[@ankitkapur1936]

like wise 😅😅

[@sidy6526]

True . I see friends in relationships and I feel that I am good that I am not dating anyone when I see my frustrated friends 😂 but sometimes I feel that I also need someone. It's an on and off feeling

[@Siddharth-Aerospace]

​@@sidy6526true😂

[@sakshirs402]

Why didn't you share about your recent relationship?

[@ananyamohanty2398]

I was in a relationship he left me in between I can't stop writing this

[@Kitsune-phile]

Evening di, 1.Are there any books which could give you some basic idea about the relationship thing? (to be read before entering one) 2.Is it helpful to know the other person well beforehand or one is likely to discover a new side of the person (which he/she didn't know during the friendship period)? Thank you for sharing your experiences di

[@deepanshuparwani8169]

I think you do not want to adjust a little because you are a independent women but if relationships breaks for these types of reason then for sure half of india will break their relations you are influencing the wrong way you have not even seen those people who still stay with their men after so much bad happenings

[@rkd9325]

If u know about urself then u don't need datings to know which partner will be compatible for me as u told u didn't know urself very well other than ur career that's why u had to date alot.

[@apurvamankar4277]

Thanks for sharing your story :)

[@sibot6482]

Watching you from 5yrs now wow

[@reviewit8129]

Hailey one thing I want tell you that you will get the person from where you've never expected someone will come maybe he's been always around in life but it will just happen saying from my experience ....... lots of love from bhopal❤❤🎉

[@ssrkchaitanya]

think positive you will get positive things

[@trickstarrx]

I'd love to date you lol. Thanks for sharing your journey. Really admire your achievement.

[@TiktikBoom-b2u]

very nice video have also been in 2 relationships one lasted for over 10 months and other was on and off

[@zsara.h_]

you should do a celebrity book club like jack edwards but on indian celebss i think that'd be so fun to watch🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@mansipandey611]

It's not like if you start dating at 23 .Lets say you want to get married at age 30 you can still face 4-5 failed relationship people come use you and leave . Dating is a western concept we enter with our Indian believes this is first and last .So ,from this belief misery starts.

[@thalai143]

Yes exactly right. EXACTLY and with every failed relationship, their ability to love wholeheartedly with that innocence diminishes

[@sidy6526]

And let me tell u people hardly forget about their past love life . This can create lots of issues... Only A Playboy can handle another Playgirl. And i think before marriage it's better that u start by revealing your past life and if your partner is ok with it then u should move on in relationships. In Today's time most people try to hide their past life as if they know they have done some mistake. And in doing so they destroy the life of their future partners Past matters always

[@alonenycgupta5924]

Regret But Grateful 💫

[@Moonjuicein]

Your voice 🙌🏻 ❤

[@awesomeanime3644]

She is just 24 chill guys she is way far to reality 😂😂😂😂🎉😅

[@_KumarDev]

Sorry ma'am we believe only one relationship with your life partner is best relationship for life long. I think this is not good to relationship with many peoples. If we continue only one relation till life death then which is greatest relationship. Life is not a business. And only loving your partner is not complete if we along with his all conditions of life. i.e means of relationship. Small fights are necessary bcz we fight but we love each other so much. Sometimes some misunderstanding is happens but after a day we realised our mistakes

[@utsavpanchal9299]

Dont take any advice about relationship her.

[@harshitkumar1729]

if you had 3 relationships then you have never been in a real realtionships you where doing timepass for sure cause if it was real you would have never choosen somebody else after that its a legit thing .

[@Whatsyourtake-br9iy]

Get a life dude , if a relationship ends often doesnt necessarily means none was serious , one person cant make a relation work out , but can ruin it surely …. And if its bout not dating someone else afterwards, what else are we meant to do then? You only live once my brdr , if you have loved someone by heart and he/she cheats , i agree u wont be able to love with same intensity, but surely u arent supposed to live in that fkin past fantasy world and moments …. We are meant to enjoy every moment of this life , no fkin scumbag should be the able to stop anyone from dating after a bad relationship.. thanks

[@harshitkumar1729]

@@Whatsyourtake-br9iy hehe lol aaj kal ke genz bamce

[@plantnation2033]

I completely agree with you !! Dating is not even worth it we should work on building ourselves up rather than looking out for someone to pour love onto us, it's basically hormones things for genz

[@RandomKun]

​​@@harshitkumar1729She was in 3 dating relationships not in 3 marriages. Also, there is nothing wrong in dating more than 1 human being in your life. If you are lucky enough you can find your soulmate in the first go, but most of us are not. Life is big, and we need to put in efforts if we want to live happy and not suffocating with a wrong people.

[@RandomKun]

​@@plantnation2033You definitely have some hormonal imbalance if you think just working upon yourself will bring you all joy. Maybe you got evolved differently.

[@anushkakanojia4256]

You are an amazing person, i just love your recommendations and the way you express your thoughts on different aspects of life is just awesome. Much love to you❤❤❤

[@Murphy_70]

Hats off to your COURAGE DIDI❤ strongly agree 🙌💜Stay Gold ... I stopped dating people long ago since i started watching C/K dramas!!😪 Keep going my girl ❤ Keep posting like earlier please 🥺💜

[@thehellyblog]

Hahah they're raising our standards, no?🤞

[@Murphy_70]

​@@thehellyblogyeah Right!!😅

[@MonikaD________l]

​@@Murphy_70😂 really!? My sister watches a lot of them. BTW, on another note, I watched pride and prejudice yesterday. What a movie. I'm spoilt for life, bruh. Ahhh! Mr Darcy!!! ❤