Help! I'm Losing Control Of My Kid!

Every parent wants to control and fix their kids but this approach typically backfires. When parents don’t get their way they feel frustrated and upset. Dr. Shefali coaches two parents through their control issues and helps them return to a place of inner empowerment and peace.
Dr. Shefali is a NYT bestselling author of The Conscious Parent, and The Awakened Family. She is also a clinical psychologist, an international speaker and a wisdom teacher, integrating Eastern philosophy with Western psychology.
Learn more about her at: www.drshefali.com
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[@goldieshawel8683]

Even though I am a parent of grown married children, I still can see issues that I am putting on my children. Also I can lose it and realize I am still bringing up unhealed wounds of not being seen or heard. So all of Dr. Shefalis work can be helpful at all ages of parents and children. Lots of food for thought as always. Ty Dr. Shefali. ❤

[@doctorshefali]

Thank you for sharing! It's great to hear that the podcast resonates with you at all stages of parenting. Please follow and share the podcast! ❤🌟

[@anetagola5985]

How about teens struggle with addictions problems? It would be great if you could discuss this problem and how parents can help those teens in recovery ❤

[@doctorshefali]

Thank you for your suggestion! That's an important topic, and we'll definitely consider it for future episodes. Please follow and share the podcast! ❤🌟

[@nadiaquintero2421]

Dr you don’t have idea how helpful you are for all us parents.

[@doctorshefali]

Thank you! I'm glad to hear that. Please follow and share the podcast! 🌟

[@bakshi-littleoneslife]

Thank you Dr Shefali for the great insight and strategies! Try not to be a super mum, just a present mum! Love it!

[@doctorshefali]

Absolutely!

[@chandrimasamanta3358]

Truly jwells of wisdom.....thank you Dr Shefali.....

[@doctorshefali]

Thank you! Please follow and share the podcast! 🌟

[@janetphilbin-showingup7602]

what a great episode to help us, as parents, understand that in order to be present with and for our children we must pay attention to what is happening with in us during our interactions with our children weather our children are little and are struggling with bedtime or are pre-teens and are beginning to be separate from us parents.

[@doctorshefali]

Thank you! It's so important to be mindful of our own feelings. Please follow and share the podcast! 🌟

[@goldaamahajan7460]

Absolutely amazing

[@shilpikaraheja5860]

It’s so much of Aha moments I had during this episode. Dr Shefali love every word you share❤

[@doctorshefali]

Thank you! I'm glad you had those Aha moments. Please follow and share the podcast! ❤🌟

[@vanuza222]

Thank you so much Dr Shefali, I loved this particular podcast because I have a teenage son and it has enlightened me a lot 🙏🩷

[@doctorshefali]

Thank you! I'm glad it was helpful for you. Please follow and share the podcast! 🙏🩷

[@Mytown2024]

Thank you very much for this episode Dr Shefali, I love it! Specially the last case, I feel that most parents don't realise that they need to give their children space to grown up and be themselves.

[@doctorshefali]

Thank you! I'm glad you enjoyed it. Please follow and share the podcast! 🌟

[@Mytown2024]

@@doctorshefali Done ❤️

[@sabui7824]

Thank you!!! It’s amazing how deep you can go in 15 minutes.

[@doctorshefali]

It really is!

[@kiyagillette7995]

Thank you so much for all of this content! Your work is helping me to grow into the best mother I can be, and a more conscious maternal energy I can be for other littles I meet with in my daily life. I appreciate everyone’s vulnerability and the rawness of these episodes, it is truly so illuminating! Right now I am struggling with a lot of fear and guilt about my divorce and my (5year old) child splitting time in such different environments. The videos released on this new podcast have already given me so may aha moments. I have been on a healing journey, and discovered you around the time I was taking some of Eckharts courses. I am so grateful for your content and your help, working to be a conscious parent amidst this pressure to conform with the old ways can be confusing to my sense of intuition….you often voice things I felt intuitively about my child from a young age and I felt totally crazy because I was stepping so outside of what was expected. And then, you also call me out on my own unconsciousness and to be frank, harm done so that I can see and operate better and with compassion in the present. THANK YOU

[@doctorshefali]

Thank you so much for your heartfelt message! I'm glad the podcast is helping you on your journey. Please follow and share the podcast! 🌟❤

[@nadiaquintero2421]

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